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PHFS Celebrates Donor Support Extraordinary Counselors 55+ Years of Growth In This Issue: THE MAGAZINE OF PATRICK HENRY FAMILY SERVICES SPRING 2016

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The Orator magazine is a quarterly publication of Patrick Henry Family Services. The magazine focuses on the ministries of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes, Hope For Tomorrow Counseling, Safe Families for Children, Hat Creek Camp, The Hammersley Center, Straight Talk Radio, Unbridled Grace and more.

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PHFS CelebratesDonor Support

Extraordinary Counselors

55+ Yearsof Growth

In This Issue:

THE MAGAZINE OF PATRICK HENRY FAMILY SERVICES

SPRING 2016

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Editor’s Note: A Young Compassionate Heart During the recent snow storm I decided that since traveling the back roads to Brookneal to get snow images of our Patrick Henry youth was a bit too dangerous, I would get the children to do the job. I issued a snow writing and photo contest for use in this Orator publication. The images and writings were fantastic! The following is Alaina’s short story.

Snow. Everything about it is just pleasant. I love to see bright, white, and cold flakes of happiness. All of these happy and heartwarming feelings are interrupted by a phone call. A quite devastating call. Now I can feel all of my bright and wonderful thoughts sinking to the ground. Why does this happen to me? Maybe because I overlooked the thought that life is not a fairytale? Heartbreak. The snow starts to melt and make my whole body feel numb and cold. When I start to feel a single tear trickle down my disappointed face, I hear a hint of laughter from the neighbor’s yard. And suddenly, I feel hope and courage filling up my dark and discouraged

thoughts of resentment towards the drunk driver who took my mother’s innocent life. I have determination. I have determination for tomorrow. Now snow has filled my mind with little thoughts of reason for life. It reminds me that life is precious and valuable. And suddenly I have courage to keep me going one step at a time in the beautiful, cold snow.

When I asked why she wrote this particular story, since her Mother was very much alive, she said it was written so others could understand the depth of pain a child has when they have lost a loved one. Living at Patrick Henry reminded her how fortunate she is to have both her parents while there are those around her who do not. Wow, I so appreciate young compassionate hearts!

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In This Issue

Contributions: Donate online at www.patrickhenry.org, or mail to:Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes 264 Red Hill RoadP.O. Box 1398Brookneal, VA 24528-1398

Our Mission........................................................3Rachel’s Story ..............................................4–5A Message from our CEO .................................5Safe Families for Children Update ..................6Foster Hope Foundation ..................................7Claudia Fletcher Joins PHFS .........................8–9Extraordinary Counselors ......................10–11Mikey Says Thank You ................................... 12The HOG Toy Run or Ride.............................. 13Josh ...........................................................14–15Hat Creek Camps .................................... 16–17

PH Celebrates 55 Successful Years .....18–1955+ Years of Growth ..............................20–21Snow Days ...................................................... 22Youth Leadership Summit ............................ 23Straight Talk .....................................................24Christmas Tradition Continues ..................... 25PHFS Celebrates Donor Support ..........26–27Honor and Memorial Register ...............28–37Greatest Show Around .................................. 38PHFS Speakers Bureau ................................ 39

Photo CreditsNick and Bambi DurhamKathy GuthrieMelanie SwitzerJorge and Gloria CruzAndrew Eunpa

The Orator is written by the staff and children at Patrick Henry and original artwork by the children is featured from time to time. The Orator is edited and proofed entirely in-house by Patrick Henry staff. The only aspects of production done outside of Patrick Henry are the design, printing and mailing.

The generous support of donors allows Patrick Henry to mail The Orator to supporters as well as to others who may be unaware of Patrick Henry Family Services.

Chief Executive OfficerRobert J. Day

Board of Trustees, Executive CommitteeMr. Steve Bowery, SalemMs. Bonnie B. Crews, RustburgMrs. Beverley E. Dalton, AltavistaMr. Michael F. Daly, LynchburgMr. J. Michael Davidson, Brookneal Mr. David J. Marshall, ForestMr. Aubrey L. Mason, LynchburgMrs. Teresa L. Sanderson, LynchburgMr. J. Blair Smith, AppomattoxMr. Hunter R. Watson, Farmville

A financial statement is available with the State Division of Consumer Affairs.Contributions to Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes are tax deductible as allowed by law. Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes is a tax-exempt corporation under Internal Revenue Code 501(c)(3).

Administration - 434-376-2006Admissions - 434-376-6917Fax - 434-376-3003Web - www.patrickhenry.org

Questions or comments about The Orator?

Contact Jennifer Wall at 434-376-2006, ext. 213 or at [email protected]

About the Cover:Read the encouraging story of a young man who is now stepping confidently into adulthood—after spending all his formative years as a Patrick Henry resident. (Page 14)

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OUR MISSION:To meet the needs of every child before us,

resulting in the maximum impact for that Child, in the shortest time possible,

in the most efficient way possible, always in a loving and professional manner.

860 Red Hill Road | Brookneal, VA 24528 | 434.376.2006 | www.patrickhenry.org

The vision of Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) is the backbone of our organization. In order to fulfill that vision and to help children

and families contend with the overwhelming challenges posed by today’s turbulent cultural trends, we have built upon the original 1961 residential care concept with a series of interconnecting ministries. Each ministry complements the other and together they work to make a difference in the lives of hurting children.

Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes (PHBGH) was founded as a living memorial to one of America’s most passionate patriots and orator. PHBGH is our cornerstone site operation, which has served vulnerable youth for 55 years. Our five homes minister to children ages six through eighteen and are able to handle up to 40 youths at a time. Each home is under the care of Christian houseparents, who model a loving family environment and encourage youth through all challenges.

Hope for Tomorrow Counseling (HFT) one of PHFS ever-expanding ministries, currently operates Christian counseling centers in Lynchburg, South Boston, Farmville and Bedford. Founded to serve the counseling needs of our own youth, due to its success HFT has grown to serve the needs of over 900 hurting children and adults across Virginia. Over the years, we realized that many of the situations that led children to our care might have been avoided through counseling.

Hat Creek Camps invites children of all ages to explore and enjoy 345 acres of picturesque rolling hills and adventure-packed challenges during summer camp, no matter their economic circumstances. At camp children experience the excitement and achievement associated with outdoor activities, while benefitting from the example of Christian mentors. The Retreat Center at Hat Creek offers year-round serene conference services to churches, businesses, clubs, and civic groups.

Safe Familes for Children is a national effort with which we have partnered. This ministry works through local churches to provide temporary homes to children in distress. Doing so allows time for parents to work through issues of concern through HFT.

Straight Talk Radio is a conservative radio program offering daily insight on issues that challenge the way we think and live. The program can be heard daily on Spirit FM at 7:20 am and 4:20 pm and each Sunday at 8:30 am on WLNI.

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Dear Orator Reader,

Not only am I a 33-year-old single mother of two children under three, I also am a suicide survivor,

former foster child, rape victim, molestation victim, and domestic violence victim. I left a seven-year-relationship with my children’s father last year, because he was very abusive in every way possible. At the time my son was a newborn and my daughter was barely two, we lost everything.

My children and I stayed at an emergency shelter that requires everyone to be out by 7:45am - no if, and, or but. If needed, they would turn on the fire alarm to get you out. We walked the streets of Lynchburg from September 11 to October 11, 2014, until we got into a local homeless women’s program. We were there until December, when we thankfully moved into a beautiful three-bedroom apartment.

Though our situation was more stable, my personal emotions and mind were not. I have a history of clinical depression and anxiety attacks, partially due to heredity, but also because of the things I have been through. Those who experience depression tend to try to handle issues such as:

Rachel’s Story Constantly being tired • Eating disorders • Overwhelmed easily • Anxiety attacks where your heart is pounding out of your chest and you feel like you are dying • Socially disturbed • Feeling of isolation or worthlessness • And worst of all, suicidal thoughts and tendencies.

I have come to believe that one of the worst things in the world is feeling like a worthless nobody with no hope and no future. It is an overwhelming feeling that takes your mind and body to a whole other level of thinking. People who have not only thought about suicide but have survived the attempts - such as myself - do not expect anyone to understand our deep dark secret pain. To us nobody understands. To us it will be better on the other side. We don’t have to deal with life or the lack thereof. Even just the thought of suicide eats at your soul.

In early August of this year, I had a depression “spell.” I became extremely overwhelmed, as that hopeless feeling crept back into my life. I have friends but they have their own lives. Half my family is dead and the other half I have never met. The only family I have is my mother, and she is disabled.

As I became more and more flooded with my responsibilities as the only parent with limited income, the depression worsened. I had not attempted suicide in

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F aith, hope, love, these three, the Bible says, remain. Of the three, hope is often referred

to as the intangible virtue. We can do works of faith and perform acts of love, but how does one hope? We can speak words of faith and speak words of love but not so easily do the words of hope come.

G. K. Chesterton explained this elusive virtue better than anyone when he said, “As long as matters are really hopeful, hope is a mere flattery or platitude; it is only when everything is hopeless that hope begins to be a strength at all. Like all the Christian virtues, it is as unreasonable as it is indispensable.”

I like that. Where would we be without hope? What would the world look like without hope? Indeed, hope springs eternal. That’s only true because hopelessness always abounds. Despair is only a moment, an instant away, lurking just around the next corner, ready to take everything from us. Yet, thank God, hope remains.

We talk a lot about hope at Patrick Henry Family Services. It’s been a major theme for 55 years. Nonetheless, hope has little meaning until one is hopeless. Rachel’s letter reminds us of that truth. It also serves to illustrate the urgency of our work and the motivation behind the expansion of services.

Rachel’s Story years; however, the thought slid right back into my mind. Because of past experience, I knew to call out for help. I needed a serious life break. I needed to go to a hospital, but as I had no one to temporarily take my children and with the threat of Social Services showing up to take them, I could not get the help I needed. Luckily, I found another route in which to go.

Through Facebook someone suggested that I contact Safe Families of Virginia in hopes that they could help me place my children in a safe environment while I sought help. Unfortunately, due to a Virginia state law that would not allow children under the age of 18 to be temporarily placed with a family they had not previously known, it appeared that I would not get the help I so desperately needed. I then learned that Patrick Henry Family Services was the sponsor of the Safe Families for Children bill which was before the Virginia legislature. In the interim they offered a program entitled Homes of Hope, a program for unwed mothers in need. I telephoned, and my world changed for the better. In walked an amazing mother-figure and helper, Ruby Caskey!

I truly am grateful to PHFS for realizing that I am not the only parent or mother trying to make it through hopelessness. There are hundreds of women with children needing serious help. They have nobody. They isolate themselves because they become overwhelmed with depression. While most of the readers of my letter will never understand the deep well of hopelessness, I write to ask for your compassion and support of the Safe Families for Children bill, a program that could change the lives of countless vulnerable children throughout Virginia.

Gratefully,

Rachel

A Message From Our CEO Robert Day

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Over 400,000 children languish in foster care across the country. Seventy percent of them are there not

because of sexual or physical abuse, but because of neglect. When crisis strikes at home, many of us turn to our family or church for support. But for too many parents, that safety net is not there – and life can spiral out of control. Addiction, domestic abuse, incarceration, illness, unemployment, homelessness—children are especially at risk as their parents struggle to cope during these crises.

Government bureaucracies are not helping. They cannot accomplish what is right for children and families, but Safe Families for Children (SFFC) and its thousands of volunteer families can. Since 2002 SFFC has offered support and hope for families in crisis. SFFC does not separate children from parents, but it does give parents peace of mind, knowing that their children are protected and nurtured while they get clean, sober, working, and

back on their feet. The goal is to strengthen and preserve biological families without all the bureaucratic bullying, taxpayer spending, or government dependence.

It has been an incredible year of seeing God’s favor. He has opened door after door with wonderful people who care deeply about SFFC. We want to say a special thanks to three of those people who have made a significance difference to help get the Safe Family Pilot Program approved. Delegate Kathy Byron, Delegate Chris Peace and Senator Steve Newman. They along with many others have worked hard to pass this pilot program as part of the 2016 budget amendment in both the House and the Senate. We are now currently waiting on the Governor to sign the budget. It is exciting to know in just a few short weeks we will be helping families in need. Thanks for all your support and prayers!

Safe Families for Children UpdateAccording to the Foundation for Government Accountability

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Patrick Henry Family Services (PHFS) and the Foster Hope Foundation, Inc., partnered to host the 2015

Foster Hope Conference on November 14, 2015, at Blue Ridge Community Church in Lynchburg. The event sought to supply information and inspiration to families who may be interested in fostering or adopting local children in need of homes.

Robert Day, CEO of PHFS, served as keynote speaker. Not only did he share the moving story of his childhood experience of neglect, abuse, and abandonment, but he encouraged those in attendance to be the family that a vulnerable child needs. “We simply cannot continue to remain quiet, thinking

about helping and wanting to help,” said Robert Day. “We are surrounded by vulnerable children and distressed families in need of support. It is not the government’s job to take care of this need; they cannot take care of themselves. It is the job of the church and each of us to make the difference.”

“There are 5,140 children currently in foster care in the state of Virginia alone,” said Patrick Neff, Director of PHFS Safe Families for Children program. “This conference is an opportunity to empower parents and families to take that critical first step of opening their hearts to a child in need of a loving, safe home and then to provide resources supporting that life-changing decision.”

There are many ways that you can still help our organization’s work and benefit yourself through a planned gift.

The resources on our website can help you save on taxes today and increase your income through a variety of lifetime plans.

To learn more about the benefits of making a planned gift, please call or visit our website.

We can help….

Are you worried about the economy and feel like you don’t have as much to give this year?

For more information or to discuss giving opportunities to Patrick Henry Family Services, please contact:

Jeffrey R. Fulgham, CFREChief Advancement Officer

(434) 239-6891

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Claudia Fletcher“I f Christians are going to picket for pro-birth, then we

must be willing to support pro-life, which I see as

caring for the quality of life of the born child throughout its

life,” said Claudia Fletcher, Patrick Henry Family Services’

new Chief Program Officer. Claudia’s own personal life

bears witness to her commitment to children; not only

has she worked passionately to ensure better outcomes

for vulnerable youth for over 20 years, but she and her

husband, Bart, adopted twelve children between 1996

and 2008.

“It is my passion in life to help children achieve permanent

connections with a parent or positive mentor before they

become adults,” said Claudia. “I also am convinced that it

is the job of the church and of God’s people to take care of children – not the government’s job.”

After graduating from Bartlesville Wesleyan College in 1985, Claudia received her Master’s degree in Guidance Counseling and Personnel Services from South Dakota State University in 1987. In addition, she has completed a number of hours towards her Doctor’s degree in higher education services from Oklahoma State University.

In late December Claudia traveled across the country from Minnesota to join the PHFS staff in rural Brookneal, Virginia. She came to PHFS from Bethany Christian Services, where she served as the Executive Director of the Minnesota Branch and later as Regional Director

Joins the Patrick Henry Family Services Team

Claudia Fletcher with Chief Operations Officer Stephen Edwards. At her first PHFS staff presentation, Claudia Fletcher emphasized her commitment to helping as many

vulnerable children and families as possible.

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for the upper Midwest. Before joining Bethany Christian Services, she worked for Downey Side Families for Youth and with the Adopt America Network, matching children and training families in foster care adoptions. Her husband Bart, a United Methodist minister, has been appointed the interim pastor of Mount Vernon United Methodist Church in Danville, Virginia.

Claudia tells everyone that she was born into a pastor’s home and grew up in the church. She learned hymns and Christian songs and scripture as a small child and made a simple decision to let “Jesus into her heart” when she was a preschooler. That commitment was solidified as a 13-year-old at a youth retreat, and she proudly says, “Since then I have never stopped moving forward in my Christian life.”

She also does not mind telling you that she is motivated by challenge and loves to envision what future God has

for an organization and for moving it forward. “For over 50 years good things have been happening for kids at Patrick Henry Family Services, but I see how much additional potential it has to serve more youth and to support vulnerable families, as we utilize the strength of our staff, our years of experience, and our unwavering commitment to God’s grace.”

No one is more grateful for her timely arrival than PHFS CEO Robert Day. “Claudia Fletcher is the right person, at the right time, for this ministry,” said Robert Day. “We’ve been working diligently the last few years to strengthen the foundation of our organization, so that we can do more for children and families in need. With her help and leadership, we are going to build on that foundation. She is going to raise the bar here at Patrick Henry Family Services. I have no doubt about that, but I also believe she’s going to set a new standard for other organizations to meet as well.”

Patrick Henry Community Outreach

Mikey and Malcolm welcome visitors to learn more about Patrick Henry Family Services.

Do you, your church, a civic organization, a school event, etc., have a spot for our Patrick Henry

Family Services display? If so, please telephone Mercy Clements at (434) 239-6891, extension 206.

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Extraordinary Counselors—

HOPE FOR TOMORROW Counseling’s Strength

Hope for Tomorrow Counseling (HFT) recognizes that life’s problems often make daily lives very difficult.

The keys to living a healthy happy life are learning how to process stressful experiences and finding ways to cope with life’s problems.

“We are committed to our mission of providing hope for tomorrow that is brighter than the reality of the past,” said Claudia Fletcher, Patrick Henry Family Services’ Chief Program Officer. “Key to accomplishing this mission are our Christian-based counselors. We have extraordinary counselors, and through their services we have grown to serve over 900 counseling sessions monthly.”

“I am pleased to highlight two of our clinicians in this Spring Orator. Each of their stories is a testament to their abilities and commitment to serving others.”

Jonci Berneche – Turned a Near-Death Accident into an Opportunity to Counsel Others through Traumatic Events

When Hope for Tomorrow Counseling opened its doors on Main Street in South Boston in August 2011, Jonci Berneche was its first full-time counselor. Nearly five years later she continues to provide individual counseling to children, adolescents, and adults. Jonci’s areas of particular interest include anger management, grief and loss issues, self-esteem, depression, anxiety, and recovery from traumatic events.

“I feel counseling chose me,” said Jonci, who is a walking example of the power of prayer and determination. “In 1999 I experienced a near-fatal car accident, where death prowled around me. On the way to Duke University Medical Center, I received 30 pints of blood as paramedics fought to keep me alive while my family and friends passionately prayed for my life.”

“I spent three months in Duke University Medical Center. I was told by a physician’s assistant that I would have to change my definition of normal because I would never be able to lead a normal life again. I was informed that I would have brain damage that would prevent me from working, walking, and having a family. At the moment I heard those words, I made the decision to rely on God and my strong determination to prove this individual wrong. She later apologized when she realized that none of her predictions came true. Through this experience,

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“My passion is to help individuals and families find freedom from the chains of sin and addiction.”

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God led me to discover that part of my life’s purpose is to motivate, inspire, and assist others as they overcome challenges in their own lives.”

A native of Halifax County, Jonci received her Bachelor’s in Arts and K-6 certification from Meredith College in Raleigh, North Carolina. She later attended Longwood University, where she received a Master’s degree in guidance and counseling. After completing additional course work and 4,400 counseling hours, she was licensed in the state of Virginia as a Licensed Professional Counselor in 2010. In addition, Jonci is an active board member of Mental Health America in Halifax County.

She and her husband Ben have been married for 19 years. They have a 14-year-old daughter and 10-year-old son. Jonci especially enjoys spending time with family, traveling, canoeing, and hiking. She loves watching her daughter participate in theatre and dance and her son playing football, basketball, and baseball.

If you would like to schedule an appointment with Jonci, please contact us at (434) 575-0145 or by e-mail at [email protected].

Jim Urban – Counseling those Dealing with both Substance-related and Behavioral Addictions

Jim Urban joined HFT in 2014 as a part-time clinician, but serves today as a full-time Licensed Professional Counselor. He earned his Master’s degree in professional counseling from Liberty University and his Bachelor’s degree in Theology from Trinity Baptist College in Jacksonville, Florida. Jim and his wife Becky have 2 sons.

Jim has advanced training in working with addictions, both substance-related and behavioral (shopping, sexual, gambling, etc.), through his seven years of experience. He sees them as one of the most relevant issues people face today, both within and outside the church. The availability, anonymity, and accessibility of explicit content on the Internet affect an estimated 75%-85% of males in the Church, and 25%-40% of females. Jim counsels that these issues need to be dealt with openly and courageously in the church with grace, effective accountability, and healthy sex education from parents to their children.

“In our culture, abuse of alcohol and drugs are encouraged, celebrated, and even legalized, in the case of marijuana,” said Jim. “Many unsuspecting people can also become addicted to prescription pills, and may find themselves caught in a vicious cycle from which escape seems impossible. My passion is to help individuals and families find freedom from the chains of sin and addiction.”

“Growing up in a pastor’s home afforded me the lifelong experience of working with people, like myself, who have experienced hurts, habits, and hang-ups,” continued Jim. “These issues are the result of living in a broken world where ‘hurt people hurt people.’ When I was studying for the ministry, I experienced two of the most trying and painful years of my life. Through the empathy, grace, and encouragement of a Christian counselor, I began to find freedom and healing in my life. Almost immediately I sensed a calling to work with people who, like me, find it difficult to navigate the complexities of living in a fallen world. When my Heavenly Father sent Jesus to reconcile me to God, he gave me a gift, the ministry of reconciliation. My passion is to facilitate reconciliation of humans to each other, as well as to God.”

If you would like to schedule an appointment with Jim, please telephone (434) 239-4955 or by e-mail at [email protected]

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Good things happen when people care! Patrick Henry Family Services cared enough to give Mikey a home

at Stephen’s Cottage. Andy and Linda Thompson, Patrick Henry supporters, cared enough to bless Mikey with his very own suit for Christmas. Caring teachers helped Mikey make straight A’s on his report card.

The hardworking boy made it to the principal’s list and was honored with a special pin to wear. Mikey wore it every single day, carefully moving the pin from shirt to shirt, taking pride in his achievements. Yup, he put it on his PJ’s at night too! His principal cared enough to invite Mikey to a special lunch. You’ll never guess what he wore? The suit from his friends the Thompsons, and his principal’s list pin.

The Patrick Henry team says, “We are so thankful for the many people that come alongside our kids to love, support, and encourage them to be the best that they can be.”

Mikey says

Thank Youand so do We!

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“The HOG club is made up of a really great group of people who truly enjoy the opportunity to give

back to the community,” said Holly Keesee, Coordinator of the Blue Ridge Harley Owners Group PHBGH Christmas Toy Run. “The toy run is my absolute favorite event of the year, but especially of the Christmas season. I went on my first toy run five years ago with my dad and have looked forward to it every year since. This was my second year coordinating the event and it is amazing for me to see the generosity of the club show through, whether by sponsoring a child, in donations, or even by showing up the day of the ride to support the event.”

When asked how the sponsors are chosen for each child, Holly continued, “I go through the sponsor list from the previous year and compare it to this year’s children. When possible I offer the child to the same sponsor from the previous year, because I know how special the relationships can be and how those relationships build and grow over the years. Otherwise, I put the lists in a notebook at the dealership so that anyone wanting to participate can sign up.”

“I think it is the pure joy and deep appreciation that the youth from PH have that makes this event so special. I cannot speak for everyone, but I know for me there are no better moments than seeing a child open one of the items from their Christmas wish list and getting so excited. Of course we do not know each child’s personal situation and circumstances, but to be able to give him or her something they wanted, something they may not otherwise been able to have, and then to see their look of pure joy, makes it all worth it. The gratitude and appreciation the youth show in return is awe-inspiring to me and one of the reasons that I love collaborating with PHBGH!”

When asked if there was something she would change, Holly concluded by saying, “The only thing we have discussed for the past two years is somehow trying to be involved more than once a year!”

Brings Christmas Joy to PHBGH

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In August 2005 a precious, little, red-headed boy came to live at Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes at age

eight. That little boy would grow up at PHBGH and in doing so would grace all those around him with optimism and kindness.

“It brings tears to my eyes, gratitude to my heart, and a smile to my face when I think of Joshua,” said Sandra Lewandowski, who served as Josh’s housemother for six years at the Cluster Springs Cottage. “Josh has a great sense of humor, as well as a warm and caring spirit. He is one of the kindest people I have ever known. In fact, I have never heard him say an unkind thing about anyone or anything. The Lord did not bless my husband and me with children of our own, but He blessed us greatly by allowing us to be a part of Josh’s life.”

When asked about his years at PHBGH Josh’s eyes light up. “PHBGH is a blessing from the Lord,” said Josh. “Whether it is a temporary stepping stone for a child or a landing pad until adulthood, PH is there to help kids become who they were meant to be in God’s eyes. No matter how senseless a child may act at times, the staff

of PHBGH simply does not give up. Honestly, I believe that PHBGH embodies the phrase ‘it takes a village to raise a child.’ The PH village commitment to positive outcomes is supported by their ability to listen, while not judging based on a report or stigma. They listen and they listen and as they do, they hear out the pain and frustration that is crippling the child.”

“Time and time again I have seen residents of PHBGH loved, encouraged, and transformed into healthier-minded young people. In their commitment to a child’s best outcome, the pain eases, that child learns to trust again, and, most importantly, they learn to respect themselves and those around them.”

Almost 11 years later, Josh is now employed by PHFS. Through his carpentry studies at Virginia Technical Institution, Josh contributes daily to the Buildings and Grounds crew.

“When Hat Creek Retreat Center needed a new screen door, we instantly knew who was the man for the job, Josh,” said Craft Shop and Events Coordinator Drew

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Preston. “The Retreat Center wanted something unique and that is Josh’s forte.” (See the artistic result in the photo above.)

“I always knew that Josh would work with his hands, because he loved to build things,” continued Sandra, “and he loved to take things apart, like my vacuum cleaner, when he was supposed to be vacuuming his chore area!”

When asked about his favorite PHBGH memory, Josh said, “There are many, but if I had to list one it would be the annual beach trip. It is a time of laughter, adventure, and fun not just for the kids, but for us all, including the houseparents and staff. Something happens when we are all at the beach, it’s as if we are all connected like a real family.”

“Josh has grown into a fine young man and I could not be prouder of him,” concluded Sandra.

Editorial Note: “As editor of the Orator, I can unconditionally say that Sandra’s thoughts are supported by our entire PHFS staff,” commented Jennifer Wall.

Josh continues to live at PHFS through their Step Forward program which provides transitional services to young adults. The main priority of Step Forward is not only to provide housing and to assist with educational needs of youth raised in group homes and foster care, but also to provide guidance with such issues as automobile purchases, insurance needs, job training, etc.

1 Elementary school picture.

2 Participation in robotic Legos class was a favorite for Josh.

3 Fun birthday party at Halifax Cottage.

4-5 For seven years Steve and Danielle Williams have been Josh’s HOG sponsors.

6 Josh opens the porch door he made for Hat Creek Conference Center.

7 Josh with former houseparent George Nail.

8 Josh catches a big fish thanks to the Halifax Sportsman Fishing Event.

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“Our family has been blessed sending

our twelve-year-old daughter for the past

three years to Hat Creek Camp. Knowing

she’s safe and in a Christian environment

while having a summertime blast-fest

is comforting. She comes home happy

– tired, but happy – with stories of new

friends, thrills, and new experiences, and

solid Biblical principles she’s added to her

faith base. She loves it, and we love her so

we send her every year!”

Mother of 2013 – 2015 camper.

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Did you know that it is possible to send your children on a Tribal Island Adventure? An adventure where

they can have incredible fun, make lasting friendships, appreciate the reward of responsibility, experience safe adventure, and come home believing that they can make a positive Christ-driven difference in the world. Well, it is possible and that adventure can be found at Hat Creek Camps.

Hat Creek Camps (HCC) is gearing up for the summer and has created an exciting camp experience “Tribal Island Adventure”. Campers will participate in activities that will inspire and enrich, they will also experience a character-based program designed to encourage the camper’s growth into the unique creation God has made them to be.

The staff of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes which, like HCC, is a ministry of Patrick Henry Family Services has witnessed the tremendous personal growth of the children living with us since the adoption of the character-based program. The success of this program was the catalyst for the HCC staff to incorporate elements of the character-based program into this summer’s Tribal Island Adventure.

Campers will focus on five character traits during their summer stay. One trait will be highlighted each day:

Forgiveness – Appreciation – Integrity Tolerance – Honesty

“We hope that through the focus on these traits this summer, campers will better understand who they are, who God is, and what God has for their lives,” said Jon Isaman, Program Manager for HCC. “…we are thankful for the opportunity to impact the hearts and lives of the children who choose HCC as their summer camp destination.”

Ok, how do I sign up your kids for this Tribal Island Adventure? HatCreekCamps.org

“We hope that through the focus on these traits this summer campers will better understand who they are, who God is, and what God has for their lives,” said Jon Isaman, Program Director for HCC. “Camp is a ton of fun, but we are thankful for the opportunity to impact the hearts and lives of the children who choose HCC as their summer camp destination.”

“Camps give kids a chance to practice being the best they can be. They experience a place designed to create happy memories and encourage self-expression. They have the opportunity to climb towers, ride horses, shoot an arrow, and even experience the success of winning the big game! It stays with them forever. Kids will learn from a full range of emotions and human experiences, including homesickness, friendship, disagreements, team-work, frustrations, jubilant success, and more,” said Jeff Merhige, Executive Director of YMCA Camp Kern, quoted in the 2011 November/December Camping Magazine.

A Tropical Island Paradise Blast-Fest!

Hat Creek Camps–

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“When you have been successfully impacting the lives of children and families for 55 years,

you know you must be doing something right!” said CEO Robert Day. “Whether rescuing a child from an abusive situation, or caring for a child as he or she is counseled through negative behavior, we are grateful for the thousands of opportunities given to us over the years to positively change and minister to the lives of the children and families we serve.”

In 1950 land was given to Patrick Henry Boy’s Plantation to be a living memorial to the great American patriot and orator Patrick Henry by Patrick Henry Memorial Foundation, who had in 1944 purchased Henry’s eighteenth-century Red Hill estate and burial site. Patrick Henry Boy’s Plantation was founded in accordance with the Memorial Foundation’s directive to further “the development of worthy boys who could be thus given an opportunity to develop sound Christian character and

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share in the opportunities of life in this nation, and such a development to be dedicated to the character and ideals as expressed in the life of Patrick Henry,” as written by Dr. Robert W. McCullough, Executive Director 1964-1996, in his book A History of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Plantation, Inc.: The First Fifty Years.

In February 1961 the first two boys were admitted into the Patrick Henry program, following much planning, fund raising, and construction. Today, we serve not only boys, but also girls as well as families. In 2012 our name changed to Patrick Henry Family Services in order to better reflect our ministries, Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes, Hope for Tomorrow Counseling, Hat Creek Camps, and Safe Families for Children. However the intentions of our founders are forever forged into our commitment and vision to meet the needs of every child before us, resulting in the maximum impact for that child, in the shortest time possible, in the most efficient way possible, always in a loving and professional manner.

In a state where there were forty-two group home organizations serving children in 1961, Patrick Henry Family Services is one of just eight that remain. Why?

“I am confident that it is our commitment to be a truly charitable organization, and our dedication to always stand on Christian principles,” said Robert Day. “Because

we receive no governmental funding, our Christian values remain at our core.”

In honor of our 55th anniversary, we hope that our donors will consider giving a “special gift.” In order to secure the next half century, Patrick Henry Family Services has created a new monthly giving club, Heroes of Hope. This ministry stands on the shoulders of heroes who came before us, and it will take heroes like you to continue this important work.

“Whatever you decide, please know that we are thankful for all you have done for our children and families,” said Jeffrey Fulgham, Chief Advancement Officer. “Together we can do more than any of us can do alone.”

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This postcard announced the 50th Anniversary initiative encouraging potential supporters to be Heroes of Hope.

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55+ Years55+ Years1960 House completed for director and six boys.

1961 First boy arrived on February 1.

1963 English Cottage for 15 boys and houseparents completed and put into operation.

1965 Began reforestation program for planting loblolly pines.

1966 Shop building for repairing and maintenance of equipment and training of boys completed.

1968 “Liberty Farm” received from estate of Mr. Charlie Stephens. “Claymont Farm” donated to Home by Mrs. Bruce Jones. Stephens Cottage for 12 boys and houseparents completed.

1969 Built cattle barn to assist in the development of the farm program. Built an indoor play court for basketball and tennis. Established a Scholarship Committee and a Scholarship Fund for high school graduates of the Plantation.

1970 Built an equipment storage shed for farm equipment. Purchased a pickup truck for use on farm.

1971 Installed a 35,000 gallon storage tank and distribution lines including fire plugs. System designed to meet all future water needs.

1972 Built staff house with office in basement. This served as residence for Executive Director and main office and mailing room. Paved driveways.

1974 Completed Plymale Cottage with capacity for 12 boys and houseparents.

1975 Built machine and equipment shed for farm use. Received deed “Tenn Echo”, 400 acre farm in Rustburg, VA (subject to life estate of Mrs. C.I. Anderson).

1976 Built Legion Craft Shop provided by American Legion and Auxiliary Department of Virginia. Completed work on $40,000 waste disposal lagoon project.

1978 Built Dr. O. E. Howe Cottage and dedicated Patrick Henry Girls Home for 12 girls in Rustburg.

1979 Began operation of Patrick Henry Girls Home as a satellite group home, January 22.

1981 Completed Pratt- Administration Jamerson- Dining Building. Installed new driveways and parking lots, swimming pool at Boys Plantation; completed garage, storage, repaired building at Girls Home and paved driveways.

1983 Renovated “Sunny View Home” for Cluster Springs Boys Home. Dedicated April 28, 1985.

1984 Built Patrick Henry Boys Plantation Family Counseling Center. Dedicated April 28, 1985.

1986 Tuck-Gray Multipurpose Center dedicated April 19, 1986.

1987 Renovated building at Cluster Springs Home to provide guest bedroom and recreation facilities.

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55+ Years55+ Years of Growthof Growth1988 Built the Robert James Obed Seward staff apartments, Brookneal Campus. Dedicated May 7, 1988.

1989 Built Jennings Horse Barn at Girls Home, Rustburg.

1991 Built Patrick Henry Girls Home of Bedford County.

1992 Built Watts/Williams Annex to the administration building.

1994 Built the Mildred Anderson Staff House.

1996 Repaved and installed fence around the tennis/ basketball court.

1997 Renovated cottages and installed sports complex on Brookneal Campus.

1998 Bedford Girls Home swimming pool completed, March 1998. Rebuilt Jennings Horse Barn, Rustburg Girls Home. Water Treatment Facility dedicated November 1998.

1999 American Legion Craft Shop Addition completed. Dedicated April 28, 1999.

2000 Established and implemented Independent Living Program for Plantation residents.

2001 Received Deed of Gift of “Pineland” farm from Mr. C. B. Robertson III and Mrs. Mary Robertson Morgan.

2002 Began construction of new girls home at “Pineland” near Wylliesburg.

2004 Began operation of the Annie C. Robertson Cottage- Wylliesburg Girls Home. Dedicated May 16.

2005 Completed major renovations to Brookneal and Halifax boys’ homes.

2007 Completed construction of the Hock Pool on Brookneal Campus. Hope for Tomorrow Counseling and Transitional Living apartments opened in Lynchburg.

2010 Robert Day became Executive Director, June 1.

2011 50th Anniversary Celebration.

2011 Hope for Tomorrow opens counseling center in South Boston.

2012 Hope for Tomorrow opens counseling center in Farmville.

2012 Hat Creek Camp purchased.

2013 Hat Creek Camp operated its first summer program.

2013 Character Based System implemented in PHBGH Residential Care.

2014 Educational services offered on Brookneal campus.

2014 Homes of Hope ministry begins.

2015 Hope for Tomorrow opens counseling center in Bedford.

2016 Safe Families for Children passes in the Virginia Legislature and becomes a ministry of PHFS.

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W inter storm “Jonas” inspired lots of creative fun—both indoors and out—for Patrick Henry residents!

Inside, kids worked on art projects, wrote poems (including those shown below), and even created an intricate hallway obstacle course using nothing more than a big roll of painter’s tape. Outside, activities included tubing, sledding, snowmen…and, of course, a lot of shoveling!

SNOWDAYS

I like clean, white snow

Beautiful with hot cocoa

I enjoy God’s snow.

By Kisean

Winter brings lots of thingsIt brings snow, snowflakes and lots of icy things.You can make snowmen and snow horsesand skate across the lake.When it is over you won’t like itbut then you can do things you cannot do in winter.And one thing I love to do is play in the snow with you.I LOVE WINTER!

By Shiloh

Snow is very bright

and it is all in clear sight

but cold in the night.

By Matthew

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Do you know that every aspect and function of our lives is in some way influenced by leadership, whether to us or from us? John Maxwell, noted Christian author, makes the statement, “that everything rises and falls on leadership.”

Have you ever wondered why some people achieve success and some do not? It is not a chance, it is not luck, it is a choice. It is a choice to

build into our lives every day proven principles that bring growth, change and character. At PHFS we have learned that leadership is never born it is always built, and one can never start too soon to lay the foundation of leadership development.

On April 22–23 teens from all over Virginia will converge for an event that will build and inspire real leadership. Our Youth Leadership Summit

is designed to give these future leaders the tools they need to make a difference in their world. We have put together an amazing package of inspiring speakers and great food for all at our Hat Creek Conference Center.

This is your chance to take your leadership to the next level. For more information, please telephone:

(434) 376-1250 or visit hatcreekcamps.org.

Calling All Teens to Our 2016 Youth Leadership Summit

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“The Journey”Every journey has a destination. We’ve all heard this and we try to live accordingly. Our satisfaction is fixated on “arriving,” completing the task at hand, achieving that new promotion, earning that degree, converting potential into promise.

However, listen to an elderly person and you’ll leave understanding and appreciating just the opposite. Instead of every journey having a destination, we must embrace the truth that every destination has a journey.

As these senior saints look in the rearview mirror of what was, it’s a good reminder to all of us to savor the moment, to be fully present in the now, to understand what’s more important than what we achieve, is how we achieve it. What’s more important than where we arrive, is how we get there…the real joy is found in the journey, not the destination.

Robert Day, CEO of Patrick Henry Family Services, has built a strong following as the host of the popular, conservative radio program Straight Talk. (straighttalkwithrobertday.org)

Robert’s inspiring personal story, together with his unique and timely perspective, has made him a sought after speaker for churches, civic audiences, and beyond.

You can hear Straight Talk daily at 7:20 am and 4:20 pm on Spirit FM.

To learn more, schedule a speaker, or discover how you can support this vital ministry,

contact us at 434.376.2006 or www.patrickhenry.org.

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Church Christmas programs used to be at the heart of most Christmas traditions, but such programs

are now often replaced with last-minute shopping in an overly stressed society filled with almost impossible time and task demands. Not only are most children sponges of adult holiday stress, but they themselves have grades to make, books to read, projects to be done, sports to play, club and extracurricular activities to fulfill, chores to be done, and somewhere in it all, finding time to be a kid.

In the midst of the busyness, God seems forced to the back seat. After all, many believe there are no immediate consequences to having Him front and center. We feel a certain assurance however, that as the youth of PHBGH go out into the world each day they go knowing that God is their front-seat partner. Each day our houseparents ensure that grace is given, devotions are read, the Bible is studied, and prayers are said. Though the circumstances of their lives require that our PHBGH youth live with us, we work to develop their confidence, as they come to know that their lives are not defined by past circumstances but by their own abilities through God’s grace.

Participation in Christmas programs continues to be a tradition for the youth of PHBGH. This past Christmas they either led or took part in several meaningful programs. We hope that you will be able to attend one of their programs next year. In doing so I believe that your life will be enricheded by the pure love of a child’s trust in Christ‘s birth and God’s grace.

“It was a joy to have the PHBGH choir sing at Childrey for our Christmas program,” said Pastor Jerry Stanfield, Childrey Baptist Church. “They did a great job of singing both traditional Christmas hymns and Christmas carols. Some of the youth read Scripture. It was a wonderful program that blessed our church family and helped to start off our Christmas season focusing on Christ’s birth. Childrey would like to thank all the youth who participated in the service. We would recommend that other churches use this choir, as it would be a real blessing for your church to see such well-behaved youth serving the Lord.”

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“F riends of PHFS are so much more than ‘donors’ to us, they are genuine friends,” said Adam Spencer,

Director of Philanthropy. “Their compassion, giving, and dedication allow us to give children with painful pasts a future bursting with hope. Any time we can celebrate this special partnership, we are blessed.”

This Fall PHFS enjoyed the opportunity to recognize many of their donors. First, on October 15 the Institutional Advancement (IA) department of PHFS hosted the Legacy Society luncheon on the main Brookneal campus. Guests traveled as long as four hours to be honored. The day was made extra special with the dedication of fifteen honorary and memorial bricks and trees. These tributes celebrated the legacy of special lives that forever will be remembered on our Brookneal campus.

“The Tuck-Gray Gymnasium has never looked better,” said Chief Advancement Officer, Jeffrey Fulgham. “Under the direction of our Marketing Director Beckie Nix, the gymnasium was transformed into an elegant venue, perfect for honoring those who have impacted the lives of countless children served by PHFS through their charitable gifts.”

Next, on November 18 the PHFS Institutional Advancement office hosted a luncheon at the Kirkley Hotel honoring donors throughout the Lynchburg area. “We are thrilled when friends can visit our campus and see our children and programs first-hand,” continued Adam Spencer. “However we realize that, for many friends, traveling isn’t convenient, so we are delighted to

host appreciation luncheons off-site, such as the 2015 Appreciation Luncheon in Lynchburg.”

Additionally, PHFS is introducing “Parties with a Purpose” in neighborhoods throughout the central Virginia region. Donna & Daniel Fisher recently hosted the first “Party with a Purpose” at their Roanoke home.

“Donna and Daniel Fisher have been wonderful ambassadors for the ministry of PHFS,” said Adam Spencer. “Their love for the Lord is mirrored in their genuine compassion for the children in our care and the families we serve. Donna and Daniel’s willingness to open their home and introduce us to members of their church, their neighbors, and friends, was truly a blessing.”

Last, but far from least, PHFS Executive Board member Hunter Watson and his wife Llewellyn hosted an evening of celebration for Farmville area supporters at their home on February 2. “We were honored to be able to host a recognition event for those who have supported this amazing organization,” said Hunter Watson. “Not only was it a well-attended fun evening, but it was especially rewarding to see that those attending were so engaged in the mission of PHFS.”

Giving is enhanced when our donors invite others to get to know our mission and dedication to serving children and families. For more information on how you can host a party in your home, or for questions about upcoming appreciation luncheons near you, contact our Director of Philanthropy, Adam Spencer, at 434-239-1139 or [email protected]

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IN HONOR OF:

ACharles McDonald and Anne Abernathy

Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr.

Charles W. “Sonny” Armistead

John Childers

BFrank, Dana, and Camille Bacon

Cookie and Earl

Kemper and Bev Baker

Mr. and Mrs. Clarke C. Jones

Dr. and Mrs. L. B. Barnes

Susan Nash

Mrs. Sitty Baskervill

Cookie

Virginia Beebe

Mr. and Mrs. Tom J. Veillette

Nancy W. Bennett

Mr. and Mrs. Marshall K. Osborne

Paul, Tracy, Scott, and Sarah Bennett

Cookie, Maurene, and Earl

Mr. and Mrs. David Blackburn

Dr. James E. Blackburn II

Winfrey Blackburn

Dr. James E. Blackburn II

Lynne Boggs

Jennifer Irving Wall

Mr. and Mrs. Irvin Bomba

Ruby Mew

Jack, Lynne, and John Boswell

Cookie and Earl

Dr. and Mrs. Lewis Bridgforth

Mr. and Mrs. John B. Walker

Mr. and Mrs. Nick Brunelli

Ruby Mew

Mr. C. Russell Burnette, Jr

Dr. and Mrs. Richard P. DuFour

CBob and June Carpenter

Myrtle B. Fore

Mr. and Mrs. Fred R. Cawthorne

Nancy B. Hunter

Mr. and Mrs. Garland O. Clark

Mr. and Mrs. Dale Clark

Mr. and Mrs. Thompson Greenwood

Clients

William R. Barksdale IV

Mr. and Mrs. Joe Collins and Mr. Bryan Lewis

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred E. White

Mary Lee Conner

From Your Sunday School Class

John M. Crews, Happy Birthday

Laurie Ann Mergler

DJean Davis

Nancy Davis

Louise P. Deacon

Mr. and Mrs. Malcolm G. Deacon, Jr.

Winnie Diser

June B. Chenault

Charlie and Peggy Doss

Gerilyn D. Doss

Mr. and Mrs. Dorsey L. Drawhorn

Cookie and Earl Currin

Amy Duffer, with thanks for all you have done at PHFS

Jeffrey R. Fulgham

Lillian Duffie

Mr. and Mrs. Garland O. Clark

Larry and Sharon Dunn

Mr. and Mrs. Garland O. Clark

EMr. and Mrs. Jeff Edwards, Kyle and Ryan

Cookie and Earl

Oscarlyn Elder

Mr. and Mrs. Carl D. Bradley

FMr. and Mrs. Robert Farmer

Walker G. Weigel

Thanks to the Woman’s Missionary Union of Liberty Baptist Church in Appomattox, our youth have an extraordinary Valentine’s Day. For over 37 years this dedicated group of Christian women has hosted a very special Valentine’s party for the PHBGH youth.

The Honor and Memorial Register

T he following donors made honor or memorial gif ts to Patrick Henry Family Services in

recognition of those who have made a difference in their lives. These gifts not only help our ministry, but they also live on as a lasting legacy to those who are honored. In fact, many people have been introduced to Patrick Henry Family Services through honor and memorial gifts.

When honor and memorial gifts are received, our office promptly notifies the honoree or the family of the deceased and provides the name and address of the donor of each gift.

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There is something very powerful about kids helping kids. At PHBGH we believe that as kids help other kids the threatening divides of misunderstanding for future generations become softened. By investing in items for Operation Christmas Child boxes personally with their money received from doing chores and then taking time to assemble the gift boxes our youth feel a global connection to kids around the world and that wonderful feeling of having made a positive difference. As one of our youth said, “I have blessed a lot of kids lately!”

Sarah N. Faulconer

Phyllis Shrader

Edie Faylor

Dr. and Mrs. George Blume

Connie Forcum

Ruby Mew

Mark Foster

Mr. and Mrs. Harry L. Mapp, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Charles J. Friedl

Cookie and Earl

Friends and Loved Ones from Virginia

Ms. Grace G. Smith

GMr. and Mrs. Tom Garner, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Clarke C. Jones

Dana B. Goetz

Dr. and Mrs. Richard P. DuFour

My Grandchildren

Nancy W. Bennett

Gravel Hill Baptist Church

J. Grey Walker Contractor, Inc.

HMr. and Mrs. Ronnie Hahn

Ruby Mew

Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Harvey

Judith C. Rudacille

Mrs. Lillian H. Hicks

Cookie and Earl

Mr. and Mrs. Paul O. Hines

Mr. and Mrs. Ernest H. Bowling, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Hinton

Ruby Mew

Doris Hissem

Mr. and Mrs. Harvey W. Stephenson

Tara Hofmann and Family

Mr. and Mrs. Byron Ricketts

JMr. and Mrs. William E. Jamerson

Mr. and Mrs. Phillip C. Jamerson

Mr. and Mrs. Jim Jennings

Dr. and Mrs. Richard P. DuFour

Dorothy Johns, Happy Birthday

Adam Spencer

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Jones

David Jones

KFlorence Kalbacker

Mr. and Mrs. James M. Henry III

Katherine A. Keel

Mr. and Mrs. L. J. Hite

LJohn Wayne Lacks

From Your Sunday School Class

Mike Lindsey

From Your Sunday School Class

Skeeter Lloyd

From Your Sunday School Class

Mike and Christine Lobue

Cookie and Earl

MMr. and Mrs. J. W. Markham

Mr. and Mrs. William C. Mosebrook

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Sherri Meeks, For 14-plus Years of Serving Children

Jeffrey R. Fulgham

Mr. and Mrs. Robert L. Metzger

Mr. and Mrs. Lenwood A. Johnson, Sr.

Robert Metzger, Happy Birthday

Mr. and Mrs. Wayne F. Beddow

Century 21 Sunset Realty-Ruby Mew

Jane M. Robison

Margaret Moon

Roy A. Moon

Roy A. Moon

Margaret A. Moon

Eva C. Moore, Happy Birthday

Mr. and Mrs. Louis W. Moore

NMr. and Mrs. William L. Nash

Ms. Susan Nash

Elsie J. Nichols

Mr. and Mrs. Robert H. Fitz, Jr.

PJane Paris

Mr. and Mrs. James E. Majors

John and Chris Pegula

Ruby Mew

W. Adam and Ellen Pettyjohn

Diana Pettyjohn

Peggy Pilout

Mr. and Mrs. Paul J. Kristiansen

Mr. and Mrs. Edward Pokropski

Mr. and Mrs. G. B. Dawson, Jr.

QMrs. Robert A. Quicke (Anne)

Cookie, Maurene, and Lucy Sterling

RLisa Reaves

Mitchell W. Reaves

Mr. and Mrs. Don Reel

Ruby Mew

Jane M. Robison

Ruby Mew

Mr. and Mrs. Dan Roop

Hubert, Judy, and Jason Roop, and Warren, Elizabeth, Aubrey, and Jonathan Tuck

Jeff Roop, Kristy Salce, and Sophia Roop

Hubert, Judy, and Jason Roop, and Warren, Elizabeth, Aubrey, and Jonathan Tuck

STeresa L. Sanderson

Mr. and Mrs. Kenneth Layne

Grace G. Smith

Anne Smith

Mark Southall

Creative Electrical Contractors, Inc.

TTim, Allen, Teresa, and Children

Mr. and Mrs. Edward A. Austin

In 2009 Tory came to live at PHBGH following the death of her Mother. Tory’s smile and winsome ways have graced all around her ever since her arrival. She will graduate from Rustburg High School late this spring with plans to enter Patrick Henry Family Services’ Step Forward program, where she will complete her general education requirements through Central Virginia Community College. Tory’s ultimate goal is to become a physician’s assistant. When asked about her PHBGH life, she said, “PH has taught me how to respect differences of others. Over the years I have been curious about the minds of others and how they work to accept others like me. Most importantly, I have learned to be self-confident… most of the time! Thank you PHBGH!” Photograph taken by former relief houseparent Melanie Switzer.

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WWill, Susan, Conner, Colin, and Cameron Walker

Mr. and Mrs. Zac T. Walker III

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Wallace

Cookie and Earl Currin

Mrs. Louise Walton

Cookie and Earl

Hunter R. Watson

Mr. John H. Varner, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. David M. White

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred E. White

Jennifer White

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred E. White

Michael, Jeans, and Mathew White

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred E. White

Steven White

Mr. and Mrs. Alfred E. White

Mr. and Mrs. William T. White

Cookie and Earl Currin

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert E. Winn

Cookie and Earl

Helen and Phin Wood

Carolyn S. Lucy

ZDr. and Mrs. Richard Zechini

Mr. and Mrs. Terry D. Martin

Mr. and Mrs. Robert Zider

Mrs. Phyllis Shrader

IN MEMORY OF:

AWilliam C. Abbitt

Nancy C. Abbitt

Patricia O. Abbitt

C. W. Abbitt, Jr. Sons, Inc.

Eugene and Junita Abernathy

Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Sr.

Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Abernathy, Jr.

All Deceased Veterans of Volens American Legion Post 342

American Legion Post 342, Volens

Dorothy Allen

Mr. and Mrs. Sonny Suddith

Mr. and Mrs. J. Hudson Anderson

Mr. and Mrs. John H. Anderson, Jr.

Jane P. Andrews

Mr. and Mrs. Preston H. Andrews

Newman Lynn Apperson

Ann P. Apperson

Coleman G. Arendall

Mr. and Mrs. George H. Gale

James M. Arrington

Charlotte M. Arrington

Mr. and Mrs. L. Ray Arrington

Mrs. Roberta H. Helms

Landon and Adeline Atkins

Furman Layman

Pamela A. Layman

BMartha T. Babcock

Mr. and Mrs. Wilton J. Klement

Linda Barber

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Reynolds

Christopher Scott Barlow

Mr. and Mrs. John W. Hill, Jr.

Mary Blackwell Barnes

Betty Sue Barnes

Jean F. Bass

Stephanie Hamlett

Susan Nash

Denise Parsons

Martha B. Reed

William Thomas Barnes

Betty Sue Barnes

Rebecca S. Bass

Barbara B. Collie

Floyd R. Bennett

Mr. and Mrs. Marshall K. Osborne

Bill and Janye Powell

Mr. and Mrs. Scott D. Powell

Valerie Blanks

Mr. and Mrs. C. B. Blanks

John Bohannan

Geraldine E. Ludwig

Deke Bolte

Martha B. Estes Brame

Albert Bolton

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Ed and Frances Bosiger

Mr. and Mrs. Barry Bosiger

Anne T. Bost

James T. Bost

Pat Brandon

Doris C. Brandon

Mrs. Bonnie Brown

Mr. and Mrs. Robert L. Covington

William Bradley Brown

American Legion Post 342, Volens

Lloyd B. Bryant and Louise S. Bryant

Mr. and Mrs. Larry P. Bryant

William George Buchanan

Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Cookie, Earl and all of the White Oaks Farm Family

Kathy Guthrie’s support of Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes youth is known throughout the organization. Whenever possible not only does she attend their events, but she loves to give out hugs of confidence. Kathy is photographed above with Chase after the boys and girls program at Childrey Baptist Church.

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Mr. and Mrs. V. W. Buchanan

Mr. and Mrs. James B. Buchanan

Edward D. Bugg

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Ruby Bullock

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

William Bullock

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Reynolds

Paul L. Burgess

Mr. and Mrs. Preston H. Andrews

Russell and Pearl Burnette

Dr. and Mrs. Richard P. DuFour

Miriam White Burton

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton

Mr. and Mrs. Randy P. Cage

Vickie P. Hite

Hattie B. Puckett

P. Norman Burton

Anonymous

CDavid Caldwell

Virginia T. Caldwell

Robert Allen Caldwell

Barbara H. Caldwell

Robert Bruce Caldwell

Mr. and Mrs. Clarence N. Irby

W. B. “Bill” Caldwell

Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr.

Mary and Leonard Callaham

Mr. and Mrs. Edward D. Feagans

Earl Campbell

Ann E. Campbell

Margaret “Peggy” Cardwell

Mr. and Mrs. A. D. Hawkins

Robert Carey

Fannie Mae Tuck

Arline D. Carr

Jean Carr Farmer

C. W. Carter

Mr. and Mrs. Barry G. Hughes

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

H. Wayne Carter, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Alvin J. Whitten

Robert S. Carter

Mr. and Mrs. Ronald W. Dillon

Bob Caster

Julie J. Seven

Glenn Franklin Chappell

Cookie and Earl Currin

Jane Clary

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mrs. Richard W. (Boosie) Cobbs, Jr.

Cookie, Maurene, and Lucy Sterling

Louise B. Cochrane

Dr. and Mrs. L. A. Frederick

Edna and Tom Cocke

Doris C. Brandon

Jean and Eugene Coleman

Mr. and Mrs. R. D. Jones

William F. Conde

Martha D. Conde

Rev. and Mrs. H. V. Conner

Mr. and Mrs. Charles Conner

Mr. and Mrs. John Augustus Cordle

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Reid Crawley

Marie Wade

Raymond Crump

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

DMary W. Dallas

Hunting Creek Baptist Church

Julia Dark

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

James and Helen Davis

Mr. and Mrs. Robert D. Davis

M. G. Deacon

Mr. and Mrs. Malcolm G. Deacon, Jr.

The “selfie” bug has hit PHBGH youth from the Rustburg and Plymale cottages.

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Mr. Tom Desmett

Ben R. Freeman

Park Price Dickerson and Raymond Carl Dickerson

Barbara G. Dickerson

Polly Neal Dickerson

Barbara G. Dickerson

Harry and Nolie Dodson

Florris Reid

Hazel Mills Doss

Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Meadows

EGillette Elder

Mr. and Mrs. Aulden Roach

Rachel B. Elder

Nancy R. Elder

Douglas and Gladys English

Mr. and Mrs. Barry Bosiger

Monroe Evans

Mr. and Mrs. Cary B. Stokes

FWelford S. Farmer

Linda L. Cheseldine

Rebecca and Robert Feagans

Mr. and Mrs. Edward D. Feagans

Bobby Ferguson

Gail C. Ferguson

Judy Fisher

Edward L. Bates

Charlotte H. Fleshman

Roberta H. Helms

James and Mable Fowlkes

Jean Gates Fowlkes

Robert E. “Bobby” Fowlkes

Jean Gates Fowlkes

Friends and Loved Ones from Virgilina

Ms. Grace G. Smith

Martha Barksdale Carter Franklin

Rev. and Mrs. A. H. Franklin

GGeorgie Lee Gallion

Franklin R. Gallion

James and Mary Gates

Jean Gates Fowlkes

Julian W. “Jukey” Gates

Jean Gates Fowlkes

SamiDail Brown Gilley

Blue Rock Resources

Mr. and Mrs. Carl D. Bradley

Briery Creek Machine

George Brooke

Sharon B. Clements

Irene Devine

Fuqua School

Mr. and Mrs. Dennis R. Howard

Mr. and Mrs. Raymond C. Johnson

Joyce Martin

Meriwether‑Godsey, Inc.

Morgan Lumber Company, Inc.

Connie Mason

Ruth W. Parsons

Seventh Heaven Landscaping Inc.

Felicia Speetjens

Trent Land Surveying

Mr. and Mrs. Marvin Q. Tinsley

Turman Tye River, LLC

WestRock Forest Resources

Lois Glasscock

Gravel Hill Baptist Church

Ms. Betty Leap

J. Grey Walker Contractor, Inc.

Robert Percy Glidewell, Sr.

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Robert Percy Glidewell, Jr.

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Grover Goolsby, Jr.

Louise E. Goolsby

Mr. and Mrs. John W. Graham

Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger

Lewis N. Gregory

Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III

Mrs. Grace Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Mr. and Mrs. Charles N. Thompson, Jr.

Lilburn Greir

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Betty Jane Wyatt Gryder

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

HClyde and Iris Hall

Dr. Cynthia K. Hall

James Ryland Hamlett

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Nancye F. Hamner

H. Douglas Hamner, Jr.

Girls from the Rustburg cottage enjoy a brisk, snowy horseback ride. Even in the winter, Unbridled Grace goes on...

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Edward and Virginia Hardie

Jean Hardie Rickman

Ruth Hargrave

Margaret A. Hargrave

Vance and Gladys Harvey

Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd E. Richardson

Harold Hayes

Mr. and Mrs. Bucky James

Nathan L. Helms

Roberta H. Helms

Walter C. Henderson, Jr.

Mary Sue Henderson

Arlette S. Hiler

Mr. and Mrs. Jack Hiler

J. W. Hill

American Legion Unit 03/1975

Rev. Dr. John Hill

Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett

Elson and Lula Hodnett

Mr. and Mrs. Richard B. Jackson

Henry O. Holland, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr.

Mr. Earnest Huband

Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett

Wayne B. May and Gaynelle K. Hudnall

Mr. and Mrs. Wayne B. May, Jr.

Thomas Butt Hunter

Mr. and Mrs. Brian E. Thomas

IPolly and Sam Inge

Dr. and Mrs. Gene Wolanski

Patricia Morgan Ingham

Mr. and Mrs. John L. Morgan III

JRichard Jackson

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Addie L. Jennings

American Legion Post 342, Volens

Betty R. Jennings

Mr. and Mrs. Charles R. Clift

Mr. and Mrs. R. N. Jennings

Kathryn “Granny Kitty” Jones

Mr. and Mrs. Jimmy Cliborne

Nancy Carol Shook Jones

Hilda W. Ferguson

Marion Jordan

Mr. and Mrs. Harvey W. Stephenson

KJoseph P. Kilgore, Sr.

Adam Spencer

Melvin Bob Kinton

Mr. and Mrs. Raymond A. Wells

Bernadette K. Kyle

Barbara Buit

LT. Currie and Gladys Lacks

Sandra K. Lacks

Lisa Ladd

Mr. and Mrs. Jimmy Cliborne

Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Royster

Darry B. Lee, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Jack Reed

Christopher Lentile

Elizabeth G. Glenn

Theo Boswell Lewis

Mr. and Mrs. Richard L. Guill

Pamela G. Robinson

Carolyn Edwards Linnabarry

Bonita H. Ferguson

Henry Loftis

American Legion Unit 03/1975

Annie and Bob Long

Mr. and Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

Virginia Lucado

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Walter Lysaght

Mr. and Mrs. T. C. Leggett

MMr. and Mrs. Basil Maddox

Mr. and Mrs. Steven W. Smith

“When Rustburg High School inducted another youth from Patrick Henry Boys and Girls Homes into their National Honor Society (NHS) this past fall we were truly joyous,” said CEO Robert Day. “Lynn works hard both academically and in her after school jobs, therefore it was especially rewarding to see her receive such recognition.” Congratulations Lynn!!!

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Earl Marstin

Dianne T. Marstin

Cheyenne Martin

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Edna Hatcher Martin

James M. Martin

Emma Jean Reynolds Martin

William N. Martin, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. John D. Martin

Mr. and Mrs. Albert F. Taylor

Reuben and Virginia Mayhew

Lathan M. Ewers, Jr.

Elliott B. McCormick

Barbara J. McCormick

Mr. and Mrs. Ted McDaniel

Garner D. Willey, Jr.

Wanda Powell McEntire

Mr. and Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

Margaret McKenna

Mr. and Mr. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

William E. McRorie

Mr. and Mrs. Roger Cox

Theresa C. Hart

Nancy B. Hunter

Alice M. Karras

Bruce Light

Lynchburg Parkinson Support Group

Mrs. William E. McRorie

Mr. and Mrs. Mark McRorie

Mr. and Mrs. Lewis Moorman

Mr. and Mrs. Preston Osborne

Mr. and Mrs. David Scott

Shirley B. Smith

Mr. and Mrs. Charles W. Tally

Dorothy M. Meadows

Hunt A. Meadows III

Carolyn Meisenger

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Reynolds

Mr. and Mrs. Wendel Miles

Mr. and Mrs. Arnold C. Ripley

Mark Mills

Catawba Baptist Church

Rev. Robert Mills and Wyatt Mills

Nancy R. Jennings

C. Raeford Minix

Mr. and Mrs. Dave Russ

Henry and Edith Minix

Mr. and Mrs. Dave Russ

Frances Barnes Mitchell

Mr. and Mrs. W. J. Nichols, Jr.

Hugh and Doris Mitchell

Mr. and Mrs. Aulden Roach

Maxie F. Moore

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Ren Morris

Mr. and Mrs. Ernest M. Nichols

Wade D. Murray

Patricia G. Satterfield

Raymond H. Murphy

Doris R. Murphy

NCharles B. “Chuck” Newton, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Charles B. Newton

Charles R. Nichols

Cookie and Earl

Leland R. Nicholson

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Marshall Norwood

American Legion Unit 03/1975

Margaret Nuttle

Anonymous

PMerle Carpenter Pairet

Mr. Joseph F. Morrissette

Bob and Louise Paris

Marie W. Turner

William M. “Billy” Park

Mr. and Mrs. Barry G. Hughes

Mrs. Lucille B. Purcell

Walter H. Parker

Mrs. and Mr. Margaret P. Pilout

Thomas R. Parrish

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

James Lewis Peak

Mr. and Mrs. John B. Tonkins

Carey Perry

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Henry S. Pittard

Mr. and Mrs. James R. Pittard

Gerald Powell

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Mrs. L. K. Price

Margaret A. Hargrave

Lillian C. Pryor

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton

John Will Puckett

Vickie P. Hite

Mr. and Mrs. Sambo Puckett

Vickie P. Hite

William V. Purcell, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Barry G. Hughes

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert C. Milton

Mr. and Mrs. Homer G. Smith

Joshua Lee Puryear

Mr. and Mrs. John B. Puryear, Jr.

“Brownies anyone?” The kitchen is not a stranger to Kisean as he enjoys helping out in his cottage by baking.

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RJack M. Rainey

The American Legion Post 79

Edwin H. Rinker, Jr. and Edwin H. Rinker III

Betty Jane Rinker

Garland Ranson

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Harry E. and Joan M. Ranson

Mr. and Mrs. Aulden Roach

Harry W. and Rachel Ranson

Mr. and Mrs. Aulden Roach

Joan and Harry Ranson

Mr. and Mrs. Willie M. Caldwell

Earnest and Jean Reaves

Marie W. Turner

Robbie Reed

Dr. Cynthia K. Hall

Estelle T. Reese

Ruby Mew

James E. Reid

Florris Reid

Mildred and Norvel Reynolds

J. Thomas Reynolds

Steven Reynolds

Sallie P. Eades

Clarence and Carrie Richardson

Mr. and Mrs. Lloyd E. Richardson

Mr. and Mrs. Werner Rieger

Mr. and Mrs. Werner F. Rieger

Mr. and Mrs. Carroll Ripley

Mr. and Mrs. Arnold C. Ripley

Oder and Erna Roach

Mr. and Mrs. Aulden Roach

Carol Adams Roark

Mr. and Mrs. Edward Gregory

Mr. and Mrs. Barry G. Hughes

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Stella Jackson Roark

Joan R. Peak

Thelbert Roby

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Emily K. Rudder

Vickie P. Hite

Elna C. Rudder

James Robert Salley

Cookie, Earl, and all of the White Oaks Farm Family

SSammie

Adam Cain

Christopher Sanders

Roberta H. Helms

Jane Quinn Saunders

Edmund A. Saunders

Barbara Scott

Mr. and Mrs. Charles Conner

Michael Seamans

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

David Seamster

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Rosa Shores

Mr. and Mrs. Samuel Wilmoth

Doris Taylor Slaughter

Mr. and Mrs. Merle T. Adkins III

Mrs. Grace Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Mr. and Mrs. B. P. Smith

Mr. and Mrs. James B. Buchanan

Bernard Smith

Deborah Blue Winn

George Smith

Anne Smith

Mackenzie and Jacob Smith

Mr. and Mrs. Maurice Smith

George M. Spaulding

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Doris Anne Minix Speierman

Mr. and Mrs. Dave Russ

Andrea Spencer

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

James and Dot Spencer

Mr. and Mrs. C. S. Spencer

Robert “Bobby” Spurlock

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Andrew Edward “Eddy” Stevens

Mr. and Mrs. Billy Reynolds

Bill Stone

Patricia Stone

Everett Thomas “Tommy” Strickland

Mr. E. Fred Blankenship

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton

Vickie P. Hite

John Wayne and Becky Irby

Sandra K. Lacks

Hattie B. Puckett

Patricia L. Rhodes

From Your Sunday School Class

Stephen Scott Stupsaky

Cookie, Earl and all of the White Oaks Farm Family

Gary Sumner

Bernard S. Gowen, Jr.

The Dr. Seuss theme of our Christmas Parade float sparked some very imaginative “Who-Ville” hairstyles!

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Jimmy Swanson

Mr. and Mrs. William N. McCachren

Lois and Marshall Swanson

Mr. and Mrs. William N. McCachren

TJones and Helen Tanner

Dianne T. Marstin

Robert E. Taylor

Lynda F. Taylor

Thomas Neavil Teass

Judith C. Early

Marian S. Kessler

Mr. and Mrs. Horace A. Teass

Marie Tese

Cookie, Earl, Lyle, Trisha, Sterling, Kristin, Dikie, Samuel, Esther, Audrey, William, Lucy Sterling, Bruce, Henry, Wilson, Maurene, Jeff, Jillian, and Lucy

Helen Light Wall Thiele

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert C. Milton

John David Throckmorton

Mr. and Mrs. Alvin Throckmorton

Betty Jean Burton Tuck

Hattie B. Puckett

Mr. and Mrs. Thomas Burton

Jackie B. Conner

Vickie P. Hite

Mr. and Mrs. John Tuck

Fannie Mae Tuck

Kenneth Tuck

Mrs. Fannie Mae Tuck

Lucille and Keith Tucker

Mr. and Mrs. William J. Long, Jr.

Charles William Turner

Grace Marshall and Leroy E. Marshall III

Mr. and Mrs. Robert M. Northington

Cookie, Earl and all of the White Oaks Farm Family

Travis (Jack) Turner

Marie W. Turner

William Layne Tysinger

Mr. and Mrs. Nelson Warren Pulliam

UMrs. Willie Bruce Underwood

Cookie and Earl Currin

Frances B. Updike

American Legion Auxiliary Unit 74

VMichael Joseph Vanney

Mr. and Mrs. Randy P. Cage

Dr. and Mrs. Harold Crowder, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Gene A. Murray

Mr. Eddie M. Powell

Mr. and Mrs. Michael M. Rand

Dr. and Mrs. Lucien W. Roberts

Mr. and Mrs. C. W. Shortt

Edwin H. and Susie B. Vassar

Mr. and Mrs. Juhani Karhatsu

Mr. and Mrs. George Vassar

Mr. and Mrs. Newton C. Crump, Jr.

Nathaniel “Nathan” Hunter Vaughan

Cookie and Earl Currin

WNorman D. Wagstaff, Sr.

Mr. and Mrs. Norman D. Wagstaff, Jr.

Mr. and Mrs. Ernest Walters

Mr. and Mrs. Reginal M. Reid

Robert Stanley Ward

Mr. and Mrs. Bill Watts

Jonathan Kent Watson

Betty Atkins Watson

Mr. and Mrs. William W. Watson

Linda Weatherford

Mr. and Mrs. Wayne Weatherford

Sidney Wade West

Cecil L. Hendren

Becky A. West

Mary Richardson Wheeler

Dr. Clara Belle Wheeler

Catherine C. Whitlow

Bobby Whitlow

Charles and Bertha Whitlow

Marie W. Turner

Anna M. Wilborne

Mr. and Mrs. Charles Conner

Christine E. Willey

Garner D. Willey, Jr.

Garner D. Willey, Sr.

Garner D. Willey, Jr.

Ellis F. Williams

Adam Spencer

Mr. and Mrs. Herbert Wilson

Fannie Mae Tuck

James Wilson

Fannie Mae Tuck

Carlton Wingfield

Mr. and Mrs. James M. Brown

Mamie Davis Womack

Gravel Hill Baptist Church

John J. Wright

Louise G. Wright

YJack Yates

Juanita A. Yates

Cleo Younger

Brett Younger

Mary Sue Younger

Catawba Baptist Church

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F or 60 boys, girls, houseparents and guests

attending this year’s 58th annual Kazim

Shriner’s circus was an event that will be long

remembered. “It was magical,” said seven year

old Mickey. “I had never been to the circus and

I loved it, especially the crazy clowns and blue

cotton candy!”

“While the circus is our fraternal fundraiser for the

temple which includes 16 clubs and 19 units, it

is also an opportunity for us to enrich the lives of

as many children as possible in our region,” said

Richard Bowyer, Potentate 2016. “Our primary

goal is to support the 22 Shriner’s hospitals across

America that serve children without charge, but

we also enjoy those smiles received from our

parade participation and circus sponsorship. Both

events help raise funds to support the clubs and

units that then support the Shriner’s Children’s

Hospitals.”

“Each year we give away a number of tickets to

worthy organizations such as Patrick Henry Boys

and Girls Homes. Doing so not only brings them

joy, but it is amazingly rewarding for us,” concluded

Richard Bowyer.

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Speakers BUREAUI f your church or civic group needs a keynote speaker for an upcoming event, contact Patrick Henry Family Services. We

can provide a dynamic speaker at no cost to your organization. Each of our speakers is uniquely equipped to address such timely issues such as marriage, family, and culture—all from the positive, inspiring vantage point of Patrick Henry Family Services ministries.

Robert Day - CEORobert’s childhood of poverty and abuse included more than 30 temporary homes before his unlikely graduation from high school. Today, through God’s grace, and with two Master’s degrees in hand, Robert’s life work is dedicated to keeping children safe and families strong. He has also built a following as the host of Straight Talk, a popular conservative radio program. Robert’s moving, inspiring testimony, together with his unique and timely perspective, makes him a sought after speaker for churches, civic audiences and beyond.

Claudia FletcherClaudia serves as Director of Programming at PHFS, oversees the ministries of residential care, counseling and placement. Claudia’s husband Bart is a minister, and they are the parents of 12 adopted children. A former college administrator and missionary, Claudia has spent over 15 years living her passion of finding forever homes for waiting children.

Patrick NeffAs Director of Family Placement at Patrick Henry Family Services, Patrick works to protect children and strengthen families. His great love for children brings strength to both his professional and personal life. He and his wife Debra have been married for 27 years and have 7 children…two biological and 5 adopted.

Michael BriggsMichael is the Director of Auxiliary Services at PHFS, and is passionate about a communities’ role as agents of healing and hope. His work in small business, corporate, state government and non-profit sectors brings a unique perspective on life, mission and responsibility. Traveling the eastern United States, Michael has addressed events, churches, civic groups and conference crowds in excess of 3,000.

Jon IsamanProgram Director for Hat Creek Camps at PHFS, Jon enjoys the outdoors with his wife and 2 children. Degreed in Youth and Sports Ministries, Jon is devoted to young people. His experience as teacher, athletic director and houseparent bring compassion and fun to his work, and to his presentations on team building and leadership.

For more information, please visitpatrickhenry.org or

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Patrick HenryFamily Services

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Patrick HenryFamily Services

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Patrick HenryFamily Services

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Patrick HenryFamily Services

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OUR MISSION:To meet the needs of every child before us,

resulting in the maximum impact for that Child,

in the shortest time possible,

in the most efficient way possible,

always in a loving and professional manner.

IN THIS ISSUE:Marking the 55th Anniversary of our Ministry (see page 18)