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Perinatal mental health Supporting women with postnatal depression How to protect the couple relationship Eating disorders explored Research overview: becoming a mother Perspective NCT’s journal on preparing parents for birth and early parenthood Issue 26 | March 2015

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Perinatal mental healthSupporting women with postnatal depressionHow to protect the couple relationshipEating disorders exploredResearch overview: becoming a mother

PerspectiveNCT’s journal on preparing parents for birth and early parenthood

Issue 26 | March 2015

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Editor’s letter

Contents

Working with parentsPerinatal mental health: preparing and supporting parents .......................................................................................3

Postnatal depression: glimpsing the shadow side ... 5

Books about becoming a mother ................................... 6

Service development and policyPerinatal mental health: the picture today .................8

New rights for working parents ........................................9

ResearchSpotlight on Research: Improved perinatal mental health provision is crucial ................................................10

Evidence Made Easy: Protecting the couple relationship after birth .......................................................11

Breastfeeding and depression: the research behind the headlines ........................................................................ 13

Understanding eating disorders ................................... 14

Research overview: transition to motherhood ....... 16

We have marked core information for NCT practitioners with a symbol to help you prioritise your reading and decide what might be useful for your training/CPD portfolio.

Perspective

Perspective is published quarterly by NCT and is available through subscription. For details see page 20.

Editorial team

Editor-in-chief Mary Newburn NCT strategic ambassador; honorary professor, University of West London

Acting editor Susannah Hickling

Graphic design NCT Design Team

We welcome contributions to Perspective, so please send us your ideas. Contact the editor-in-chief, Mary Newburn, by email at [email protected]

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Our theme for March is perinatal mental health.Around one in six women suffer from mental health problems before or after the birth of a baby, and those with previous mental health issues are particularly at risk. Partners can also be affected, either independently or in terms of living with and supporting the mother. As well as the isolation, stress and emotional pain that individuals and couples may experience, babies can be affected. NCT is calling for good provision of specialist mental health services, enabling early identification of perinatal mental illness and prompt treatment.

Freedom of Information requests by NCT have revealed that more than half of NHS trusts in England offer no perinatal mental health service. Meanwhile, research by NCT and Netmums found that 45% of women questioned felt their six-week postnatal check was not thorough enough; 29% said they weren’t asked about emotional or mental health issues.

Our research overview by Alex Bollen, postnatal leader and research networker, presents key themes from the social science literature on the transition to motherhood, which provides a useful context from which to consider mental health difficulties (p16). She also reviews four books to share with parents (p6).

Breastfeeding counsellor and tutor Heather Neil discusses the importance of raising awareness of mental health issues in the antenatal and postnatal periods (p3). More specifically, Cynthia Masters-Waage draws on her experience as a psychotherapist, antenatal teacher and doula to offer some insights into postnatal depression (p5). We also highlight research into eating disorders during pregnancy and postnatally in an article by NCT senior research and evaluation officer Dr Abigail Easter, with the aim of increasing our understanding of the impact of these illnesses (p14). All three articles prompt practitioners to reflect on sensitive ways to raise these issues with parents.

Dr Judy Shakespeare, the Royal College of General Practitioners’ perinatal mental health champion, provides a clear overview relevant for all NCT practitioners and volunteers (p8). Both she and NCT’s Abigail Easter, in her Spotlight on Research on p10, call for proper implementation of the revised NICE guideline on antenatal and postnatal mental health.

Mary Newburn

NCT strategic ambassador

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Perinatal mental health: ways to prepare and support parentsBreastfeeding counsellor and tutor Heather Neil outlines the role NCT practitioners can play in raising awareness of mental health problems that can affect parents both before and after the birth.

Working with parents

How NCT can helpWhether suffering mild distress or recovering after a more severe period of illness, some mothers might welcome the chance to call NCT’s Shared Experiences Helpline on 0300 330 0700 and talk to someone who has come through something similar.

The NCT website has further information on perinatal mental illness, including links to self-help and support groups:

www.nct.org.uk/pregnancy/antenatal-depressionwww.nct.org.uk/parenting/postnatal-depressionwww.nct.org.uk/parenting/postnatal-depression-dadswww.nct.org.uk/parenting/what-postpartum-psychosis

All of us – whether we are aware of it or not at the time – work with parents experiencing some form of antenatal or postnatal mental illness, or who may go on to do so. Illnesses include depression, anxiety disorders, eating disorders, drug and alcohol-use disorders, and severe mental illness such as psychosis, bipolar disorder, schizophrenia and severe depression.1 Early recognition can reduce the damaging effects on the mother, her baby and her relationship, and help ensure effective support and treatment. It is therefore part of our work in preparing and supporting mothers and fathers through their transition to parenthood to let them know that any of them could be affected and that services exist to diagnose, treat and support them when appropriate.

Incidence of perinatal mental illnessIt is widely accepted that more than 10% of mothers have postnatal depression (PND),2 and at least 15% of women experience some form of mental illness during pregnancy or after the birth.3 (See ‘Perinatal mental health: the picture today’ by the Royal College of General Practitioners’ perinatal mental health champion Dr Judy Shakespeare on p8.)

Recurrences of pre-existing conditions, ranging from depression to rarer illnesses such as bipolar, can arise in pregnancy and afterwards. But there is also a substantial increase in new-onset mental illness in

the weeks following childbirth, except for mild-to-moderate depression and anxiety, which occur at about the same rate during and after pregnancy.3 Depression, anxiety and serious mental illness affect women of all classes and ages, though there is a significantly greater incidence for women who experience social deprivation.4

‘Raising mental health issues sensitively in an antenatal session enables parents to recognise when they might need further help.’

Data on fathers’ mental health is less comprehensive, but one meta-analysis points to an incidence of over 10% of ante- and postnatal depression.5

How to raise awareness NCT practitioners can raise these issues sensitively in an antenatal session without scaremongering, enabling mothers and fathers to recognise when they might need further help, where to get it and that it is important to be persistent in pressing for professional support if it is hard to access.

You may like to think about how you can:

• Extend knowledge. Most parents will have some understanding of postnatal depression. They may be less aware of other conditions like anxiety, PTSD, postpartum psychosis, bipolar and the fact that men can become affected perinatally.

• Become aware of the warning signs of severe mental illnesses like puerperal psychosis and share these with parents. Symptoms such as suicidal or confused thoughts, delusions, hallucinations and a lack of self-awareness mean that urgent medical help should be sought. Although these illnesses are mercifully rare, the consequences can be tragic for mother and/or baby.6

• Introduce the concept of risk factors for perinatal mental illness. It’s worth explaining that having one or more risk factors (see box on risk factors overleaf) does not mean a person will go on to experience problems; at the same time, the absence of risk factors does not mean an individual will not be affected.

• Talk openly about depression and anxiety. They are common experiences; it is positive role modelling to be open and helps to break down stigma. New mothers (and fathers) are frequently sleep deprived and may be isolated. Lots of support, getting out of the house every day and talking to others is protective against low mood. Bear in mind that early intervention can be key to successful treatment when problems are more serious.

• Encourage parents with a history of mental illness to share this with their healthcare providers. Midwives and health visitors are well placed to refer to specialist support services where available and to assess new parents

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Risk factors for perinatal mental illness• History of mental illness

• Anxiety, depression or low mood antenatally

• Poor relationship with the baby’s father

• Low levels of social support

• Stressful life events

• Being a lone parent

• Low social status and deprivation8

and parents-to-be for further care or ‘watchful waiting’ in the postnatal period.

• Explain how mental health might be assessed. NICE guidance on antenatal and postnatal mental health recommends that healthcare professionals ask women specific questions to gauge their mental health. Where relevant, professionals should ask women if they want help.1 (See Spotlight on Research on p10 for more discussion of the updated NICE guideline.) Parents need to know that a real lack of lighter moments is a sign things are worth exploring more.

How to respondWhen dealing with individuals who are showing signs of distress, we simply need to be open and warm. However, it is important not to become the principal source of support when parents may be in need of care. Instead we need to know what next steps to suggest:

• We should signpost parents in the first instance to their current midwifery service, health visitor or GP. Just recently, a mother asked me after the end of a breastfeeding session if stress can

affect breastmilk production. After gentle prompting, she said her mother was nearing the end of her life and might not survive to see her grandchild born. I was aware that bereavement is a specific risk for a mother’s mental health, and that being without a mother in the early weeks of one’s own parenting can have a profound impact on one’s emotions.7 So, as well as answering her question, I explored with the mother how comfortable she would be sharing the situation with her midwives, and she agreed that she would do so.

• Good knowledge of local branch support networks might mean you can offer to put individual women in touch with a drop-in or a coffee group. Depressed or anxious people may find it hard to pick up the phone, or turn up somewhere alone. I sometimes offer to call first on their behalf or see if someone can accompany the new mother to the group.

• Local Facebook groups can also be a first step to real-life social contact.

References 1. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence.

Antenatal and postnatal mental health: clinical management and service guidance. Clinical guideline 192. London: NICE; 2014. Available from: www.nice.org.uk/Guidance/CG192

2. NCT. New FOI data finds huge gaps in provision of care for perinatal mental health. NCT press release 4 July 2014. Available from: www.nct.org.uk/press-release/new-foi-data-finds-huge-gaps-provision-care-perinatal-mental-health

3. Joint Commissioning Panel for Mental Health. Guidance for commissioners of perinatal mental health services. Volume two: practical mental health commissioning. Available from: www.jcpmh.info/resource/guidance-perinatal-mental-health-services/

4. Ban L, Gibson JE, West J, et al. Impact of socioeconomic deprivation on maternal perinatal mental illnesses presenting to UK general practice. Br J Gen.Pract 2012;62(603):e671-e678.

5. Paulson JF, Bazemore SD. Prenatal and postpartum depression in fathers and its association with maternal depression: a meta-analysis. JAMA 2010;303(19):1961-9.

6. Royal College of Psychiatrists. Postpartum psychosis: severe mental illness after childbirth. London: Royal College of Psychiatrists; 2011. Available from: www.rcpsych.ac.uk/expertadvice/problemsdisorders/postpartumpsychosis.aspx

7. Edelman H. Motherless mothers: how losing a mother shapes the parent you become. New York: Harper; 2007.

8. National Mental Health Development Unit. National Perinatal Mental Health Project report – Perinatal mental health of black and minority ethnic women: a review of current provision in England, Scotland and Wales. London: National Mental Health Equalities Programme; 2011. Available from: www.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/215718/dh_124880.pdf

Bipolar with a new baby: a mother’s storyMental illness may recur, intensify or develop after birth. How can you best prepare your clients for this possibility and help them understand the symptoms, the impact mental illness may have on their life as a new parent and where they can go for help?

I got married soon after recovering from a serious episode of depression during which I took a drugs overdose. I got pregnant on my honeymoon and had my son Alfie* nine months to the day after our wedding. Everything was looking good.

I stayed on a small dose of antidepressants but started to go “high” about three months after the birth. I was surviving on little sleep, not eating much and supplementing the family income by taking a market stall to sell jam that I would make in the middle of the night.

Everyone thought I was coping incredibly

well. Then, when Alfie was about six months old, I went right down. Very quickly I had severe depression again. It was hard to concentrate, to wash, to eat, to get dressed – let alone do all that for a baby. I didn’t feel safe with him; I was frightened that I’d harm him through omission.

I ended up on a massive cocktail of drugs but nothing worked, and I was referred to the mother and baby unit at the Bethlem Royal Hospital in South London. I didn’t want to go but I just wanted to get better.

There were psychiatric nurses and nursery nurses. I was encouraged and supported to look after my baby myself. In spite of being put on some new drugs, I still had extreme anxiety, but I would pretend to be all right so I could go home at weekends. One weekend I told my husband I felt fine and urged him to take Alfie out to the market. In reality I was deeply suicidal. I

was a dead person with a heartbeat.

I drove to a favourite spot in the countryside, rigged up a hosepipe to the exhaust and took some tablets. Then my phone rang. It was my dad and I answered it. Within ten minutes police were surrounding my car.

I went back to the mother and baby unit, where finally I was diagnosed with bipolar II disorder and given the right medication. Within six weeks I was out. A big regret was having to give up breastfeeding because of the drugs I was on. I remember weeping as I gave Alfie his last feed.

Today my bipolar is well controlled, I run a successful business and Alfie, now 11, is happy and healthy. My illness hasn’t had an effect on him and I am so grateful to the mother and baby unit for that.*The subject of this interview wishes to remain anonymous. Her son’s name has been changed.

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Postnatal depression: a glimpse of the shadow sideCynthia Masters-Waage draws on her experience as an antenatal teacher, doula and psychotherapist to consider how best to support mothers suffering distress after the birth.The transition to life as a mother is profound and may bring a woman face to face with difficult feelings she normally hides from herself. She glimpses what Jung called the shadow side.1 This sometimes manifests itself as postnatal depression (PND).

A mother with PND may not seek support, because she fears it is a sign of weakness or failure. She may be overwhelmed with shame and the fear of disconnection,2 and be worried about her ability to be a good mother when she feels so awful. PND may affect the whole family, leading to family tension, depression in partners or poor cognitive development in children.3

What does PND look like?I often hear women say, ‘I didn’t know it felt like this!’ From my experience, PND emotions are varied. They may be expressed in different behaviours, including: crying, obsessive activity, cleaning, worrying, shouting, lying about feelings to ‘fool the health professionals’, avoiding sex, doing nothing, disliking physical contact, phoning her mother, avoiding her mother, drinking, going out a lot, staying in, acting unwell, eating disorders, panic attacks, suicidal thoughts.

The psychotherapist’s approachAs a psychotherapist I hold a simple belief: it is society’s job to make it clear that feeling ok should be accessible to all! When a client has PND I focus on:

• Holding and containment – offering a safe space for as long as it takes the client to feel well (this could range from a few sessions to many years). We don’t initially focus on the enormity of the mother’s bad feelings. First, we build our relationship.

• Bearing witness to the shadow side as she explores difficult feelings and aspects of herself.

• Growing her self-compassion, by helping her learn to empathise with her own situation.

How practitioners can helpNCT practitioners work with many subjects others find uncomfortable. You are well placed to help a mother seek support and information if something is not right, as with any health issue.

It can help to:• Familiarise yourself with postnatal

mental health. You can then use your facilitation skills to explore the topic and

give people information so that they can find the support they think they will feel comfortable with.4 Consider using videos (see video resources box below).

• Remember, each case is unique to that mother. I try to remember she is worried about exposing her shadow side. She is trying to avoid feeling embarrassed, overwhelmed and scared. One woman may want to delve into her feelings. Another will want to close the window into the shadow side quickly. Ideally she gets to choose. While making that decision, it helps if she feels supported.5

• Signpost to local services and know what other options exist. These may include: self-help books and websites; complementary therapies such as yoga; counselling, including cognitive behavioural therapy, mindfulness and group or family work. A local therapist would probably be happy to come and talk to a practitioners’ group.

• Think about language. Saying, ‘Feeling a bit weepy is normal,’ may be less helpful than asking, ‘What do you know about the range of feelings after birth and how will you find out how to cope with them?’ This enables clients to explore

good mental health rather than isolating bad mental health, which can add to stigmatisation.

• Encourage physical activity, for example walking or swimming. Exercising with someone with whom you feel safe can help avoid feelings of isolation.

• Reflect on your own experiences. Be honest with yourself about your feelings around shame and seeking support. This will help you act more authentically and combat shame in others.2,6

References:1. Johnson RA. Owning your own shadow:

understanding the dark side of the psyche. San Francisco: Harper; 1994.

2. Brown B. Brené Brown: The power of vulnerability. TEDx Houston 20:19 Filmed June 2010. Available from: www.ted.com/talks/brene_brown_on_vulnerability?language=en

3. Ayers S, Ford E. Birth trauma: widening our knowledge of postnatal mental health. European Health Psychologist 2009;11(2):16-9.

4. Slade P, Cree M. A psychological plan for perinatal care. The Psychologist 2010;23(3):194-7.

5. Stern DN. The motherhood constellation: a unified view of parent-infant psychotherapy. London: Karnac books; 1995.

6. Winnicott DW. Transitional objects and transitional phenomena – a study of the first not-me possession. Int J Psychoanal 1953;34(2):89-97.

Working with parents

Understanding PND: video resources• How do I know if I have postnatal depression? (NHS Choices): www.bit.ly/

PNDmotherstalk

• I had a Black Dog, his name was depression (WHO): www.bit.ly/Depressionblackdog

• Living with a Black Dog (WHO): www.bit.ly/WHOblackdog

• NCT video on PND: www.bit.ly/NCTvideo

‘One woman may want to delve into her feelings; another will not. Ideally she gets to choose.’

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The journey to parenthood

Although The journey to parenthood is an American book, its focus on the psychological transition to motherhood (and fatherhood) means it is suitable for UK readers.4

Succinct and clearly written, the book covers pregnancy, birth and the postnatal period, as well as the psychological experience of motherhood and fatherhood, changing relationships and emotional well-being.

The tone is gentle and reassuring. For instance, authors Diana Lynn Barnes and Leigh G Balber remind new parents that it can take time to get to know a baby, and that their bond with them is not necessarily instantaneous or automatic.

There is a strong emphasis on the importance of new mothers and fathers looking after themselves (Barnes is a psychotherapist with particular expertise in women’s mental health).

The book would be particularly suitable to read in the antenatal period. Barnes and Balber argue that pregnancy is an opportunity ’to run through a psychological dress rehearsal of what life may be like after the baby is born’.

The book ends with a list of exploration questions for expectant mothers and fathers to consider.

A life’s work

This is a beautifully written and brutally honest account of early motherhood by the novelist Rachel Cusk.3 A life’s work is intended, as Cusk puts it, to be a letter ‘addressed to those women who care to read it, in the hope that they find some companionship in my experiences’.

Cusk brings her considerable skills as a writer to describing these experiences. She articulates her deep sense of loss at the passing of her old life. In one particularly vivid metaphor, she compares her non-mothering self to an abandoned building.

There are moments of humour. For instance, Cusk writes of an unnamed childcare manual’s frequent exclamation marks: ‘They swim before me, mad as eyebrows, embarrassing as politicians’ jokes’.

But the tone is mostly serious, and often bleak. It may perhaps be too gloomy for some tastes. Naomi Stadlen, for instance, criticises Cusk (and other writers on motherhood) for portraying their babies’ needs as insatiable rather than understandable. Cusk’s rich prose, illuminating for some, may irritate others.

Nevertheless, I believe that Cusk’s letter to new mothers should be shared to help women appreciate that they are not alone if they are experiencing the challenging emotions new motherhood often involves.

Available at NCT shop at £8.99. Order online at www.nctshop.co.uk/A-Lifes-Work-On-Becoming-a-Mother-Rachel-Cusk/productinfo/1833/, email [email protected] or call 0845 8100 100.

What mothers do

What mothers do draws upon Naomi Stadlen’s many years of work with new mothers, including running weekly ’Mothers Talking’ discussion groups.1 It covers a range of issues such as adjusting to life with a new baby, difficulties in getting anything done with a newborn and changes to relationships.

This book is a personal favourite as it helped me when I was struggling with new motherhood. Reading about the experiences of other mothers – Stadlen makes liberal use of quotes from women she has worked with – helped me realise that my feelings and experiences were normal.

Stadlen is wonderfully supportive of new mothers. However the flipside is that her positive (idealistic, even) views of motherhood could make the book difficult reading for women who are struggling with negative emotions. Her implicit support of attachment-style parenting (which she made explicit in a subsequent book)2 may also prove a challenge for women who prefer a more parent-led approach, although Stadlen takes great pains to avoid passing judgement.

The book is full of pearls of wisdom and shrewd insights on the challenges of new motherhood. For instance, Stadlen makes the point that mothers can feel like they have done nothing all day because we do not have the language to describe what is involved in looking after a baby. In this, as in many other ways, the book can reassure and support new mothers.

Working with parents

Books about becoming a motherMost books targeted at new mothers focus on babies. However, postnatal leader Alex Bollen has carefully selected four that are explicitly about motherhood, including one that is aimed at fathers too. Practitioners may wish to share them with parents.

Book ClubBook Club aims to provide NCT practitioners and branch volunteers with an opportunity to read and discuss key texts relating to pregnancy, birth and parenting. For a chapter from Naomi Stadlen’s What mothers do, to discuss in your next Book Club session, go to: www.babble.nct. org.uk/info-resources/ library-services/research-resources/book-club

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Baby’s first year

This book employs the familiar format of covering the baby’s first year on a month-by-month basis.5 However, Baby’s first year from Netmums is much more mother-focused than most books of this genre. For instance, it covers physical recovery after childbirth, sex and returning to work. It stresses the importance of social support and seeking out other new mothers. The book also encourages new mothers to think about their needs, using the analogy of a car service to make the point that a little care and attention over time should help prevent major breakdowns.

It provides a balanced account of the options open to parents, putting forward the pros and cons of each, while supporting

Working with parents

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A book in a quoteWhat mothers do‘Would it not be much more realistic to expect new mothers to be unprepared, anxious, confused and very emotional for at least the first six months? If we could accept that this beginning is the norm for most new mothers, we would be in a better position to be supportive and respectful.’ (p39)

A life’s work‘To be a mother I must leave the telephone unanswered, work undone, arrangements unmet. To be myself I must let the baby cry, must forestall her hunger or leave her for evenings out, must forget her in order to think about other things. To succeed in being one means to fail at being the other.’ (p57)

The journey to parenthood‘Things do eventually fall into place, whether it takes six weeks or six months. There is no hard and fast deadline. The only thing that is predictable about parenthood is that it is unpredictable.’ (p69)

Baby’s first year‘Congratulations – you’re a mum! The long, difficult haul of pregnancy and birth is over and your reward for sticking it out is a wonderful new baby, and the precious gift of motherhood. To say it takes time adapting to such a challenging new role is an understatement. For many new parents, this early period can be as bewildering, scary and exhausting as it is joyous.’ (p9)

current NHS guidelines. There is a broad overview of current evidence, while quotes from mothers give more personal insights into the various approaches available. These help bring the book to life. They highlight that different styles work for different families, as well as conveying the challenges that can be involved in early mothering.

References1. Stadlen N. What mothers do, especially when it looks

like nothing. London: Piatkus; 2004.

2. Stadlen N. How mothers love and how relationships are born. London: Piatkus; 2011.

3. Cusk R. A life’s work: on becoming a mother. London: Fourth Estate; 2002.

4. Barnes DL, Balber LG. The journey to parenthood: myths, reality and what really matters. Oxford: Radcliffe Publishing; 2007.

5. Netmums, Smith H. Baby’s first year: the Netmums guide to being a new mum. London: Headline; 2009.

Turn to p16 to read Alex Bollen’s research overview on supporting women in the transition to motherhood.

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Service development and policy

Perinatal mental health: the picture todayDr Judy Shakespeare, the Royal College of General Practitioners’ clinical champion for perinatal mental health, outlines what services are available, and what still needs to be done.

Perinatal mental health (PMH) is defined as mental health during pregnancy and the first postnatal year. PMH disorders are some of the commonest complications of pregnancy, affecting around 15-20%. Sometimes they can lead to suicide. Depression and anxiety disorders affect about 15% and post-traumatic stress about 3%. Severe puerperal (or postpartum) psychosis is rare, affecting about 2/1,000 women. Not all PMH illness is postnatal depression (PND).1

If PMH illness is not identified early and treated adequately, it can have lasting effects on maternal self-esteem, and partner and family relationships. In recent years evidence has emerged about the detrimental long-term impact on infants, especially if illness is during pregnancy.2

Treatment optionsThe assessment, treatment and systems of care for PMH disorders are well understood and covered by NICE guidelines (issued in 2007 and updated in December 2014),3 and the Scottish Intercollegiate Guidelines Network (SIGN).4 There is also clear guidance for commissioners.1 Treatments are very effective. For most women, increased support and guided cognitive behavioural therapy (CBT) will form the basis of treatment, but some will require antidepressants or other drugs. The most severe conditions need managing by specialist PMH services but 90% of less severe illness should be managed within universal community health services (midwifery, health visiting, general practice and Improving Access to Psychological Therapies services), supported by children’s services and the third sector.

However, in England and Wales, the 2007 NICE guidelines have not been widely implemented. At the severe end, this means 60 more mother and baby beds are needed in the UK and Northern Ireland to supplement the existing 120.5 Specialist community mental health services for women with severe illness should be commissioned by Clinical Commissioning Groups (CCGs), but NCT Freedom of Information data showed that 54% do not provide any PMH service.6 This is confirmed in maps produced for the Maternal Mental Health Alliance’s (MMHA) ‘Everyone’s Business’ campaign.7 The MMHA is a coalition of over 60 organisations, including NCT, which lobbies for improved mental health services.

At the less severe end of the spectrum, only about 50% of women with PMH illnesses are diagnosed and less than half of them receive treatment (Professor Vivette Glover personal communication). The reasons are complex. In a recent survey of around 1,500 women with PMH illness, 30% had never told a health professional how they were feeling.8 Even if they did, only 18% were completely honest. GPs described a reluctance to make a diagnosis of PND, as they had few resources and no specialist perinatal services to refer to.9 In a recent NCT/Netmums survey of over 4,000 women, 29% of women said their GP did not ask them about emotional or mental health issues at the postnatal examination, usually carried out 6-8 weeks after birth.10

Improvements requiredThis all needs to be addressed, but GPs are under enormous pressure. A recent Royal College of General Practitioners (RCGP) poll revealed that 56% are now seeing 40-60 patients a day. The RCGP is campaigning for an increase in the share of funding that goes into general practice and wants longer consultations than the standard 10 minutes – clearly inadequate for PMH.11

There is broad political agreement about the importance of PMH.12 The Department of Health has pledged that by 2017 there will be a specialist midwife in every birthing unit and has commissioned the Institute of Health Visiting to create over 400 PMH health-visitor champions. Health Education England has undertaken to ensure that PMH is included in the core curriculum for GP training.13

A recent MMHA report showed that perinatal depression, anxiety and psychosis carry a long-term cost to society of about £8.1 billion for each one-year cohort of UK births.14 This shows there is scope for significant savings if there is investment in the services NICE recommended in 2007.

References1. Joint Commissioning Panel for Mental Health.

Guidance for commissioners of perinatal mental health services. Volume two: practical mental health commissioning. Available from: www.jcpmh.info/resource/guidance-perinatal-mental-health-services/

2. Howard LM, Piot P, Stein A. No health without perinatal mental health. Lancet 2014;384(9956):1723-4.

3. National Institute for Health and Care Excellence. Antenatal and postnatal mental health: clinical management and service guidance. Clinical guideline 192. London: NICE; 2014. Available from: www.nice.org.uk/Guidance/CG192

4. Scottish Intercollegiate Guidelines Network. SIGN 127: Management of perinatal mood disorders. A national clinical guideline. Edinburgh: Healthcare Improvement Scotland; 2012. Available from: www.sign.ac.uk/pdf/sign127.pdf

5. Hogg S. All babies count: spotlight on perinatal mental health – prevention in mind. London: NSPCC; 2013. Available from: www.bit.ly/1DQoxxZ

6. NCT. New FOI data finds huge gaps in provision of care for perinatal mental health. NCT press release 4 July 2014. Available from: www.nct.org.uk/press-release/new-foi-data-finds-huge-gaps-provision-care-perinatal-mental-health

7. Everyone’s Business. UK specialist community perinatal mental health teams (current provision). Available from: www.everyonesbusiness.org.uk/?page_id=349

8. Chew-Graham CA, Sharp D, Chamberlain E, et al. Disclosure of symptoms of postnatal depression, the perspectives of health professionals and women: a qualitative study. BMC Fam Pract 2009;10:doi: 10.1186/1471-2296-10-7.

9. Russell S, Lang B. Perinatal mental health experiences of women and health professionals. Boots Family Trust; 2013. Available from: www.tommys.org/page.aspx?pid=1223

10. NCT. NCT & Netmums research finds the six week postnatal check-up unsatisfactory. NCT press release 6 October 2014. Available from: www.nct.org.uk/press-release/nct-netmums-research-finds-six-week-postnatal-check-unsatisfactory

11. Royal College of General Practitioners. Put patients first: back general practice. Available from: www.rcgp.org.uk/policy/put-patients-first.aspx

12. Leadsom A, Field F, Burstow P et al. The 1,001 critical days: the importance of the conception to age two period: a cross party manifesto. 2013. Available from: www.andrealeadsom.com/downloads/1001cdmanifesto.pdf

13. Department of Health. Delivering high-quality, effective, compassionate care: developing the right people with the right skills and the right values. A mandate from the Government to Health Education England: April 2014 to March 2015. Available from: www.gov.uk/government/publications/health-education-england-mandate-april-2014-to-march-2015

14. Bauer A, Parsonage M, Knapp M et al. The costs of perinatal mental health problems. London: Centre for Mental Health and London School of Economics; 2014. Available from: www.centreformentalhealth.org.uk/news/2014_costs_of_perinatal_mh.aspx?

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Service development and policy

Shared Parental Leave: new rights for working parentsElizabeth Duff, NCT senior policy adviser, explains new government rules which aim to offer parents more flexibility in their baby’s first year.

Who is eligible for SPL?To qualify for SPL, a woman must share care of the child with either:

• her husband, wife, civil partner or joint adopter

• the child’s other parent

• her partner (if they live with the mother and child)

She must also:

• have been employed continuously for at least 26 weeks by the end of the 15th week before her due date

• work for the same employer while she takes SPL

During the 66 weeks before the baby is due the mother’s partner must:

• have been working for at least 26 weeks

• have earned at least £30 a week on average in 13 of the 66 weeks

Further informationThe details of the new law are complex: it’s not possible to cover everything here. Additional regulations include provision for adopting parents, parents whose babies are born prematurely and other less usual circumstances. Readers can obtain in-depth information for England, Scotland and Wales from:

• gov.uk www.gov.uk/shared-parental-leave-and-pay/overview

• ACAS, Shared parental leave and pay www.acas.org.uk/index.aspx?articleid=4911

• NCT www.nct.org.uk/parenting/shared-parental-leave

• For Northern Ireland see www.delni.gov.uk/eqia-shared-parental-leave-and-pay-flexible-working

In the first year of their new baby’s life, every mother and nearly every partner takes some time off. The government wishes ‘to encourage a more fair and flexible approach to work’ and in particular to expand women’s engagement with the labour market, while encouraging fathers ‘to play a greater role in the early stages of their child’s life’. The result is Shared Parental Leave (SPL), available to working parents whose baby is due on or after 5 April 2015.

The Department for Business, Innovation and Skills (BIS) has spent four years, via a major initiative called Modern Workplaces, redesigning the legislation underpinning provision of maternity, paternity and shared parental leave. NCT took part in the consultation and consequent discussions, achieving some influence on the final decisions. However the need for changes to be ‘cost-neutral’ meant NCT’s calls for longer paternity leave and improved rates of maternity and paternity pay were unsuccessful in the current climate.

NCT’s publication Working it out looked at parents’ experiences of returning to work after the birth of their baby.1 A third of mothers (35%) and half of fathers (47%) reported that their employer did not offer flexible working hours. One father said, ‘I miss spending time at home with my son and wish I could be a part of my son’s growing up’. Such comments powered NCT’s contribution to the new arrangements. We continue to lobby for improvement.

What’s new?The offer of Statutory Maternity Leave (SML) of 52 weeks remains as before. The mother must take the first two weeks (four for factory workers) after the birth as maternity leave and it is then her decision when or if she wishes to start SPL. SPL then replaces the remaining SML. She can share the leave with her partner, and choose how much of the leave each will take. Her partner may start SPL from the date of the baby’s birth, but will forfeit the right to Ordinary Paternity Leave as a result.

Unlike Additional Paternity Leave, available since 2011, SPL enables a flexible pattern of leave to be taken, with a right to book up to three separate blocks (of whole weeks), returning to work and then going back on leave each time. Couples can take leave at different times – or both at the same time.

All eligible parents have the legal right to

take SPL. Employers have a responsibility to ensure that their employees do not come under pressure to cancel or change requests, or suffer negative consequences for asking for and taking leave.

How does it work?The following is an example of how SPL might work in practice:

A mother finishes maternity leave at the end of October and starts SPL. She shares it with her partner. They each take all of November as their first blocks of SPL. The partner then returns to work. The mother returns to work in December to cover the busy Christmas period. She gives her

employer notice that she’ll take leave again in February – the second block of SPL. Her employer agrees to a work pattern of two weeks on, two weeks off during the block.

The mother must give at least eight weeks’ ‘binding’ notice to her employer to end maternity or adoption pay. There are detailed requirements for what information is needed in the notice, including the partner’s name and their signed declaration confirming eligibility. The employer has the right to ask for a copy of the child’s birth certificate and/or the name and address of the partner’s employer.

What are ‘SPLIT’ days?Women on maternity leave retain the right to 10 ‘keeping in touch’ (or KIT) days. In addition, there are now up to 20 ‘shared parental leave in touch’ (SPLIT) days. ‘In touch’ days are optional but useful for effecting a phased return from SPL.

Making best use of SPL, SPLIT days and accumulated annual leave can enable parents to gain considerably more flexibility than before.

References1. Easter A, Newburn M. Working it out: new parents’

experiences of returning to work . London: NCT; 2014.

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Research

Guest editor: Abigail Easter

Improved perinatal mental health provision is crucial for implementation of NICE guidelinesI’m recommending the latest guidance from NICE on mental health. NCT is a member of the Maternal Mental Health Alliance. Its campaign, Everyone’s Business, calls for ‘all women throughout the UK who experience perinatal mental health problems to receive the care they need, wherever and whenever they need it’.

At present they don’t. A recent NCT survey found that 97% of Care Commissioning Groups in England do not have a perinatal mental health strategy. One of the main issues is poorly funded and patchy service provision across the UK.

Earlier this year NICE released a draft of the Antenatal and postnatal mental health clinical management and service guidance for consultation. This is an update of their 2007 guidance. NCT is a registered stakeholder and gave detailed feedback as part of the consultation process. The final version was published in December 2014.

The guideline is available at www.nice.org.uk/Guidance/CG192

It provides guidance for the clinical management of a wide range of mental

illnesses, including depression and anxiety disorders, bipolar and schizophrenia. There are much-needed recommendations for the recognition, care and treatment of women who develop a mental illness during pregnancy, as well as women who already have a mental illness before becoming pregnant. It also contains current evidence-based guidance on what medication can safely be taken during pregnancy and when breastfeeding.

A key priority for implementation is aimed at improving identification of women with depression and anxiety to ensure that they receive appropriate support and treatment during the perinatal period. NICE recommends that, as part of a general discussion about a woman’s mental health, all women should be asked two specific questions at their first contact with primary care or booking visit, as well as during the early postnatal period: ‘During the past month, have you often been bothered by feeling down, depressed or hopeless?’ and ‘During the past month, have you often been bothered by having little interest or pleasure in doing things?’

Similar screening questions are

proposed to help identify women who have an anxiety disorder. Maternity staff who identify women as having a risk of depression or anxiety are advised to ask more detailed questions and discuss options for further care and treatment, ideally from specialist perinatal mental health services. We were pleased to see a focus on women-centred care within the guidance. It now emphasises the importance of discussing the risks and benefits of any treatment with women, as well as taking into account their personal values and their preferences, so that they are able to make a fully informed decision about their care.

NCT and other organisations have highlighted concern over the lack of implementation of the previous NICE recommendations. NCT is lobbying for government action to improve perinatal mental health services and increase resources to ensure that the updated NICE guidelines can be delivered. We urge you to use any opportunity you have to support this drive.

Does maternal mental illness affect child development?There has been increasing media attention on the potential effects of mental illness on pregnancy and child development. I have chosen to highlight a recent systematic review of the research into the association between mental illness during pregnancy or the postpartum period and child development between four and eight years.

Kingston D, Tough S. Prenatal and postnatal maternal mental health and school-age child development: a systematic review. Maternal and Child Health Journal 2014;18(7):1728-41. (http://bit.ly/MCHJ_18_2014)

After a detailed review of the 21 studies identified, the authors concluded that ‘maternal mental health problems increased the likelihood that school-age children experienced sub-optimal global, behavioural and cognitive development’.

However, the main drawback of the

research is that it was not possible to determine the extent of the effect on child development. Although the review found stronger evidence for an association between prenatal maternal mental illness and child development than for postnatal distress, it is extremely difficult to disentangle the two and no firm conclusions could be made. Developing a better understanding of whether the differences are due to a biological influence of mental illness during pregnancy or arise from differences in the social environment or parenting during the postnatal period is crucial for developing appropriate interventions.

It is important to emphasise that women with mental illness can recover if they receive the appropriate support and treatment. These findings highlight further the need for greater recognition of perinatal mental illness and better service provision for women during this important life stage.

This paper is going to be discussed in one of our teleconference Journal Clubs in March. For more details about Journal Club, contact [email protected].

A weekly Current Awareness Bulletin and a monthly Key Research Summary are available to all NCT workers. To subscribe, email CAB or KRS to [email protected].

Abigail Easter

Abigail is a senior research and evaluation officer within NCT’s research and quality department and manages the First 1,000 Days study. She completed her PhD at King’s College London’s Institute of Psychiatry, where her research focused on the effects of mental illness on pregnancy and child development.

Before joining NCT in 2012, Abigail worked as a research associate at the Institute of Child Health at University College London, with the Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children (ALSPAC).

Spotlight on research

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Evidence made easy

Protecting the couple relationship after birthBecoming parents can put a strain on a couple’s relationship, risking a negative impact on both the adults and their baby. Here, we aim to increase understanding of the issues so that NCT practitioners can think about the preparation and support they can provide.

Q How does having a baby affect couples?

A Although a minority of couples report an improvement in their relationship on becoming a parent, 1,2 the transition to parenthood is widely recognised as a time of relationship stress.3 A baby puts new demands on parents’ time, so nurturing a relationship can seem less important. Couples, however solid their relationship, may find they argue more and that being warm and affectionate is more difficult. They may be dealing with overwhelming tiredness which impacts on their mood.3

Women may have physical changes and/or pain to cope with, poor body image and low interest in sex.4 Almost half the first-time fathers in an NCT study describe feeling closer to their partner but nearly a quarter described increased conflict.3 Who does what in the home has been identified as a major stressor for new parents.5 A lack of time both for oneself and each other has been identified as a cause for relationship unhappiness, with half of new fathers citing this as having a negative impact on their relationship.3

Any existing problems are likely to be exacerbated. There is evidence that poor communication or conflict during pregnancy predicts a greater decline in the quality of the couple relationship after the birth.6 Mental health problems are both a cause and consequence of relationship distress. However, Relate says that the top four strains for couples arise from money worries, work-life balance, infidelity and poor communication.7

Q Why is the quality of the couple relationship so important?

A Happy, fulfilling relationships are important for emotional well-being, resilience and positive sense of self, and they protect against depression.7 During the first 1,000 days, couples who have a good-quality relationship are better placed to deal with the challenges of new parenthood and interact with their child with sensitivity and warmth.2 According to the Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships (TCCR), positive relationships have measurable emotional, cognitive and physical

benefits for children. Poor parental relationship quality and conflict lead to increased stress within the family, and parents are less able to be sensitive to the needs of their baby. The TCCR suggests that supporting couple relationships during the transition to parenthood will provide far-reaching benefits.8

Q How is the transition to parenthood different for women and their partners?

A There is an extensive literature on this subject, which merits further reading (see ‘Supporting women in the transition to motherhood: a research overview’ on p16). For example, Stern argued that the birth of a baby alters a woman’s mind-set. She may become overwhelmed by a sense of responsibility for her baby but feel her partner’s life is unchanged, and may turn towards other women, particularly her mother, which can cause her partner to feel rejected.9 Gaunt carried out a detailed study in Israel to explore whether and how women ‘manage’ their partner’s involvement with their young child and argued that the mother’s beliefs and behaviours can be significant in determining the couple’s arrangements for work and child care.10

A review of men’s psychological transition to fatherhood, drawing on 32 research articles, has shown that men have to do a lot of psychological work during their partner’s pregnancy to adjust to changes, and this can be stressful. The postnatal period is highly challenging, involving juggling new relationship and emotional demands with persisting societal and economic pressures.11 If fathers of young children become depressed they tend to manifest different symptoms and behaviour from women, such as increasing alcohol intake, showing aggression and taking risks (for example, having an affair).12

Points for reflection• Consider how well you prepare

and support women and men for the impact of a baby on their relationship. Actively consider men’s needs, as they consistently report feeling excluded from maternity services and postnatal care.11 Examine your own practice and language.

• Consider the needs and sensitivities of lone parents. Emotional well-being is influenced by good-quality relationships all round. How can you encourage lone parents to build and maintain strong, supportive relationships, or separated parents to work together to build a nurturing relationship with their child?

• Be mindful that intimate partner violence (physical, sexual, emotional, economic) is common, but often not disclosed. Avoid making assumptions about relationships.

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Evidence made easy

References1. Kluwer ES. From partnership to parenthood: a

review of marital change across the transition to parenthood. J Fam Theory Rev. 2010;2(2):105-25.

2. The Relationships Alliance. Key evidence messages on relationship quality. 2013. Available from: www.oneplusone.org.uk/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Key-Evidence-Relationship-Quality-October-2013.pdf.

3. Easter A. Fathers find more ‘family time’ means less ‘couple time’: how relationships change for new parents. Perspective 2014;(24):15-6.

4. MacArthur C, Winter HR, Bick DE, et al. Effects of redesigned community postnatal care on women’s health four months after birth: a cluster randomised controlled trial. Lancet 2002;359(9304):378-85.

5. Brotherson SE. From partners to parents: couples and the transition to parenthood. Int J Childbirth Educ 2007;22(2):7-12.

6. Doss BD, Rhoades GK, Stanley SM, et al. The effect of the transition to parenthood on relationship quality: an eight-year prospective study. J Pers Soc Psychol 2009;96(3):601-19.

7. Sherwood C, Kneale D, and Bloomfield B. The way we are now: the state of the UK’s relationships. Doncaster: Relate; Relationships Scotland; 2014. Available from: www.relate.org.uk/policy-campaigns/publications/way-we-are-now-state-uks-relationships-2014

8. Tavistock Centre for Couple Relationships. What do couple relationships have to do with infant mental

health and secure attachment? A policy briefing paper [2012]. Available from: www.bit.ly/1wpw0uZ

9. Stern DN, Bruschweiler-Stern N. The birth of a mother: how motherhood changes you forever. London: Bloomsbury; 1998.

10. Gaunt R. Maternal gatekeeping: antecedents and consequences. J Fam Issues 2008;29(3):373-95.

11. Genesoni L, Tallandini MA. Men’s psychological transition to fatherhood: an analysis of the literature, 1989-2008. Birth 2009;36(4):305-18.

12. Condon JT, Boyce P, Corkindale CJ. The first-time fathers study: a prospective study of the mental health and well-being of men during the transition to parenthood. Aust NZ J Psychiatry. 2004;38(1-2):56-64.

Tips for good practice • Exploring relationships within a group

setting may be difficult for some couples who may believe that their own relationship will be unchanged after the birth and are unwilling to engage with potential difficulties ahead. Using expressions such as ‘from partners to parents’ may open minds to there being a fundamental shift in their relationship.

• Postnatal leaders often work with mothers only, so it is also useful for

the group to consider issues from the partner’s point of view. This means practitioners need to be well informed about the transition to both motherhood and fatherhood and be constantly mindful of challenges to the couple relationship.

• You could ask parents to look at clips on the Couple Connection website (www.thecoupleconnection.net) and discuss them the following week. Have information about sources of further

support at your fingertips. Relate offers counselling services for every type of relationship, including LGBT couples (www.relate.org.uk), while Gingerbread offers support to lone parents (www.gingerbread.org.uk).

• It may be helpful to remind parents that wider NCT services, including the branch, the website and the helpline can support the couple relationship, and that couples can enjoy NCT social events together.

Exploring relationship changes with parents• Exploring how couples can show

each other affection will help protect their relationship, even when there is conflict. One Plus One describes the model of the Vicious/Virtuous circle, which can be very powerful; small changes in behaviour can make a big difference to the couple experience.

• Parents can be prepared for difficulties regarding ‘who does what’ by identifying and discussing their expectations before the birth and being prepared to revisit roles and responsibilities when the reality of parenthood hits.

• Brotherson suggests practical approaches to help make a healthy transition from partners to parents, including sharing personal experiences, having regular couple ‘check-ups’, negotiating topics, lining up support early in pregnancy, talking with trusted friends, family or professionals, and expressing appreciation for each other and the child.5

In depth For more information, look at:

• Relate and Relationships Scotland

(2014) The way we are now (www.bit.

ly/RelateWayweare);

• Brotherson S (2007) From partners

to parents IJCE 22 (2) 7-12 (NCT

tutors can access a copy on request

from information@ nct.org.uk);

• The Relationship Alliance – online

evidence-based briefings covering

all aspects of relationships (www.

bit.ly/RelationshipsAlliance)

and Key evidence messages on relationship quality (www.bit.ly/

UnderstandingRelationshipQual);

• The Fatherhood Institute (www.

fatherhoodinstitute.org).

It is also useful to consult relevant

research overviews in previous

issues of Perspective (www.bit.ly/

NCTresearchoverviews) and resources

on the Pregnancy and Maternity

Information Directory (www.bit.ly/

NCTInfoDirectory).

Q How can new parents nurture their relationship effectively?

A Honesty, commitment and communication are the key ingredients for a good relationship, enabling new roles and responsibilities to be negotiated, and new ways found to meet each other’s needs and adjust to changes in sexual intimacy.7

The Relationships Alliance uses the ‘VSA model’ (Vulnerability-Stress-Adaptation) to raise awareness about relationship quality.2 Relationship quality depends on three inter-related factors:

• Vulnerabilities, such as partners’ individual traits and experiences

• Stressful events, including becoming parents for the first time

• Adaptive processes, such as the ability to communicate effectively by listening and resolving difficulties constructively

Individuals at risk in one area are very often at risk in another. For instance, parents who do not communicate effectively are more at risk of stress. This model can provide a useful framework for working with new parents, to help them gain insights and improve their adaptive processes such as more effective communication and conflict resolution skills.

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Breastfeeding and depression: the research behind the headlinesMidwife and editor of Essentially MIDIRS Michelle Anderson examines a recent study on how breastfeeding may impact on a mother’s mental health.

Key findings from the Borra et al studyAmong women who planned to breastfeed but did not have symptoms of depression during pregnancy:• Those who were breastfeeding had the lowest rate of depressive symptoms eight

weeks after the birth.• Those who appeared to be most at risk of depression at eight weeks were those who

had planned to breastfeed, but did not.• Those who initiated but stopped by one, two or four weeks were significantly more

llikely to be depressed than those who continued to breastfeed in the early weeks.

Implications for practiceIt is important for practitioners to make women and their partners aware of the likelihood of depression (See ‘Perinatal mental health: the picture today’ on p8). You may also find it useful to reflect on the following:• Are there beneficial and/or harmful

ways to discuss links between breastfeeding and depression?

• Healthcare services’ breastfeeding targets are irrelevant for women, but perhaps women set their own targets? For example, a mother might aim to breastfeed for six weeks, and if achieved, this might reduce negative emotion that could lead to PND. It

could be argued that putting too much pressure on women to breastfeed exclusively for as long as possible may contribute to PND.

• How can you offer support to mothers who are not breastfeeding? The reasons can be complex;4 anecdotal observation suggests that some women feel guilty and distressed when they have planned to breastfeed but do not do so, and the findings from Borra et al suggest they are at increased risk of PND.1

• Promoting the value of skin to skin and responsive feeding could offer an important support mechanism when breastfeeding cannot be achieved or sustained.5

Perinatal mental health and breastfeeding are prominent topics within maternal and newborn health. Therefore the recent study by Borra et al, which aims to investigate the effects of breastfeeding on mental health, specifically postnatal depression (PND), is worthy of note.1

Understanding PND and what factors might contribute to it is crucial if we are to support women well during pregnancy and the postnatal period. This study is important because the effects of breastfeeding on this illness are not well understood. Although previous studies have attempted to identify causal links, the findings have been inconclusive. This is mainly due to small sample sizes and a lack of control for extraneous variables, especially pre-existing mental health conditions.1

How the research was conductedBorra et al used data from the Avon Longitudinal Survey of Parents and Children (ALSPAC).2 The ALSPAC is a large birth cohort study of 14,000 women in the Bristol area which started in the early 1990s when they were first pregnant and followed up their children over two decades. Borra et al analysed responses on how the women intended to feed their baby in the first four weeks and how they actually fed their baby.1

The researchers also looked at maternal mental health, measured using the Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale (EPDS), during pregnancy and postnatally. The EPDS is the most commonly used screening tool for PND and is sensitive to changes in depression over time.3

What the study foundThe lowest risk of PND at eight weeks was among mothers who were not depressed in pregnancy, had planned to breastfeed and had done so. Women who appeared to be at most risk were those who had planned to breastfeed but didn’t initiate breastfeeding or stopped early. Their reasons are not reported but would have been useful to know, especially to develop effective breastfeeding support. The researchers propose that a further reason to encourage policymakers to provide specialist support for breastfeeding is the impact it may have on mental health outcomes, and the indirect impact for the baby. Interestingly, for women who had depressive symptoms antenatally and who had not planned to breastfeed but later did so, exclusively breastfeeding for up to four weeks appeared to offer some protection against PND.1

Although this study is a significant step towards understanding the association between women’s infant feeding journeys and mental health, certain limitations should be addressed in any further

research. In particular, participants were mainly white (95%) and middle class (13% had a degree and 74% owned their home), participation was voluntary and women self-reported.

However, the message emerging from this pioneering study is that providing person-centred support to women who intend to breastfeed, to enable them to breastfeed for as long as they wish to, may help reduce the incidence of PND.

References1. Borra C, Iacovou M, Sevilla A. New evidence on

breastfeeding and postpartum depression: the importance of understanding women’s intentions. Matern Child Health J 2014;10.1007/s10995-014-1591-z.

2. University of Bristol. Avon Longitudinal Study of Parents and Children (ALSPAC). 2014. Available from: www.bristol.ac.uk/alspac/

3. Matthey S, Barnett B, White T. The Edinburgh Postnatal Depression Scale. Br J Psychiatry 2003;182(4):368.

4. Odom EC, Li R, Scanlon KS, et al. Reasons for earlier than desired cessation of breastfeeding. Pediatrics 2013;131(3):e726-e732.

5. Morrison B. Breastfeeding: 10% nourishing, 90% nurturing. Essentially MIDIRS 2014;5(7):7-14.

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Understanding eating disorders in the antenatal and postnatal periodsDr Abigail Easter, NCT senior research and evaluation officer, explores the evidence on unhealthy attitudes to food during pregnancy and after birth, and how women can best be supported.

What are the characteristics of eating disorders and how common are they?Eating disorders include a range of conditions which can have profound physical, psychological and social effects.1 At a general level they can be understood as a combination of an unhealthy attitude towards foods and a distorted body image (e.g. seeing yourself as overweight while being underweight), resulting in drastic changes in eating habits and behaviours. There are three main specific eating disorders: anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa and binge eating disorder (i.e. eating a large amount of food in a short period of time).2

Although there is great variation in the reported prevalence of eating disorders, it is estimated that approximately 8-10% of females are affected during their lifetime.3,4 Approximately 4.6% of women are currently diagnosed with a non-specific form of eating disorder – eating disorder not otherwise specified (EDNOS).3 Anorexia nervosa (0.6-2.2%) and bulimia nervosa (0.9-1.7%) are less common.4 Due to recent changes in how eating disorders are diagnosed, up-to-date figures on how many women have binge eating disorder are not available, but earlier data suggest that around 1.6% of the population may be affected.3

How many women have eating disorders during pregnancy?It is sometimes thought that the number of women with an eating disorder who become pregnant is likely to be low due to reduced body weight and menstrual abnormalities often associated with the illness. However, recent research suggests they are more common during pregnancy than previously thought.

In a study undertaken at King’s College Hospital, London, 739 women completed an anonymous screening measure for eating disorder at routine antenatal appointments. The study found that eating disorders affected up to 7.5% of the women screened during the first trimester. The majority of women who met criteria for an eating disorder were diagnosed with EDNOS (5%), with a much smaller number being identified as having anorexia nervosa (0.5%) or bulimia nervosa (0.1%). Binge eating disorder was also common (1.8%),

yet little is known about pregnancy in this group and more research is needed.5

How do eating disorders affect pregnancy and motherhood?For women with eating disorders, weight and shape are often the key characteristic by which they evaluate their self-worth and identity. The transition to motherhood is unique in terms of the multitude of changes to a woman’s body and self-identity, which can be particularly difficult for someone experiencing an eating disorder. Although the majority of women affected during the antenatal period are likely to have had an eating disorder previously, pregnancy may trigger the illness for some.6 However, research is currently lacking to determine how frequently this occurs.

During pregnancy women have described feelings of social and emotional isolation, and a lack of psychological support.7 The early stages of pregnancy may be the most challenging, as women struggle to accept changes to their body.8 During the later stages, eating disorder symptoms have been shown to decrease,9 though high levels of depression and anxiety remain more common.5

‘NICE guidelines suggest that pregnant women with an eating disorder may need more intensive antenatal care.’

Current research evidence suggests that eating disorders may also affect birth outcomes, including increasing the risk of miscarriage, gestational diabetes and premature birth.10,11,12 Although few studies have been large enough to explore whether the different types of eating disorders affect birth outcomes differently, there is some evidence this may be the case. For example, anorexia nervosa has been associated with intrauterine growth restriction and babies that are small for gestational age.10,13 A recent meta-analysis found that the birth weight of babies born to women with anorexia nervosa was 0.19kg (6.7oz) lower compared to women without an eating disorder.13

In contrast, findings from a Finnish hospital found that women with binge eating disorder were three times as likely to have

a baby that was large for gestational age compared to women without an eating disorder (9.6% vs 2.5%).14

The postnatal period is a time of increased risk for recurrence of eating disorder symptoms that have reduced during pregnancy, and around one third of women with bulimia nervosa may experience depression after birth.9,15 Women may also have difficulties with breastfeeding and family mealtimes during childhood.16,17

How can women with eating disorders be supported and treated?Pregnancy can pose challenges to the accurate identification of eating disorders. Features of pregnancy such as weight gain, changes in appetite, nausea and vomiting can mask an eating disorder.5 Given the typical, but often temporary, reduction in symptoms during pregnancy, they can remain hidden. This makes it difficult for healthcare providers in antenatal settings to identify eating disorders, and offer support or treatment.

A crucial element to providing appropriate support and treatment is improving awareness of the characteristics and prevalence of eating disorders during pregnancy. It is important to recognise that women with eating disorders may find it difficult to discuss their illness in antenatal settings due to fear of stigma or that services might respond in a negative way. 5,7 However, many women are highly motivated during pregnancy to change their behaviours, and active and supportive listening may help women to begin to discuss their illness in a safe environment. Encouraging women to speak to their midwife or GP about their mental health can enable them to gain appropriate support from perinatal mental health services, where available.

NICE guidelines suggest that pregnant women with an eating disorder may need more intensive antenatal care.18 They should also be followed up closely after birth due to the potential for relapse, increased risk of postnatal depression and potential problems with breastfeeding. Women with eating disorders are often very unsure about appropriate dietary intake and nutritional requirements, so providing women with this information can be a useful addition to mental health care.19

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Eating disorders – recognising the signsAnorexia nervosa • Severely reduced food intake and significantly low body

weight• An intense fear of gaining weight or becoming fat• A distorted body image• Body weight or shape has a strong influence over feelings of

self-worthBulimia nervosa • Regular episodes of binge eating combined with recurrent

‘compensatory behaviours’ (e.g. self-induced vomiting or misuse of laxatives)

• Body weight or shape has a strong influence over feelings of self-worth

Binge eating disorder • Regular episodes of binge eating, which are not associated with the use of ‘compensatory behaviours’ described above

• Physical or psychological distress such as disgust, depression or guilt following binge eating

For common warning signs and symptoms which you or other parents might notice, go to: www.nedc.com.au/recognise-the-warning-signs.

References1. Agras WS. The consequences and costs of

the eating disorders. Psychiatr Clin North Am 2001;24(2):371-9.

2. American Psychiatric Association. DSM-5. 5th edition. Washington: American Psychiatric Publishing, 2013.

3. Swanson SA, Crow SJ, Le Grange D, et al. Prevalence and correlates of eating disorders in adolescents. Results from the national comorbidity survey replication adolescent supplement. Arch Gen Psychiatry 2011;68(7):714-23.

4. Smink FR, van Hoeken D, Hoek HW. Epidemiology of eating disorders: incidence, prevalence and mortality rates. Curr Psychiatry Rep 2012;14(4):406-14.

5. Easter A, Bye A, Taborelli E, et al. Recognising the symptoms: how common are eating disorders in pregnancy? Eur Eat Disord Rev 2013;21(4):340-4.

6. Tiller J, Treasure J. Eating disorders precipitated by pregnancy. Eur Eat Disord Rev 1998;6(3):178-87.

7. Mason Z, Cooper M, Turner H. The experience of pregnancy in women with a history of anorexia nervosa: an interpretive phenomenological analysis. J Behav Addict 2012;1(2):59-67.

8. Taborelli E, Easter A, Keefe R, et al. Transition to

motherhood in women with eating disorder: a qualitative study. Psychology and Psychotherapy: Theory, Research and Practice 2014;In press.

9. Micali N, Treasure J, Simonoff E. Eating disorders symptoms in pregnancy: a longitudinal study of women with recent and past eating disorders and obesity. J Psychosom Res 2007;63(3):297-303.

10. Micali N, Simonoff E, Treasure J. Risk of major adverse perinatal outcomes in women with eating disorders. Br J Psychiatry 2007;190:255-9.

11. Bulik CM, Sullivan PF, Fear JL, et al. Fertility and reproduction in women with anorexia nervosa: a controlled study. J Clin Psychiatry 1999;60(2):130-5.

12. Bulik CM, Von HA, Siega-Riz AM, et al. Birth outcomes in women with eating disorders in the Norwegian Mother and Child cohort study (MoBa). Int J Eat Disord 2009;42(1):9-18.

13. Solmi F, Sallis H, Stahl D, et al. Low birth weight in the offspring of women with anorexia nervosa. Epidemiol Rev 2013;36(1):49-56.

14. Linna MS, Raevuori A, Haukka J, et al. Pregnancy, obstetric, and perinatal health outcomes in eating disorders. Am J Obstet Gynecol 2014;211(4):392-8.

15. Morgan JF, Lacey JH, Chung E. Risk of postnatal depression, miscarriage, and preterm birth in

bulimia nervosa: retrospective controlled study. Psychosom Med 2006;68(3):487-92.

16. Torgersen L, Ystrom E, Haugen M, et al. Breastfeeding practice in mothers with eating disorders. Matern Child Nutr 2010;6(3):243-52.

17. Micali N, Simonoff E, Treasure J. Infant feeding and weight in the first year of life in babies of women with eating disorders. J Pediatr 2009;154(1):55-60.e1.

18. National Institute for Health and Clinical Excellence. Eating disorders: core interventions in the treatment and management of anorexia nervosa, bulimia nervosa and related eating disorders. NICE clinical guideline 9. Manchester: NICE; 2004. Available from: www.nice.org.uk/guidance/cg9

19. Micali N. Management of eating disorders in pregnancy. Progress in Neurology and Psychiatry 2010;14(2):24-6.

20. Sandall J, Soltani H, Gates S et al. Midwife-led continuity models versus other models of care for childbearing women. Cochrane Database of Systematic Reviews 2013, Issue 8. Art. No.: CD004667. DOI: 10.1002/14651858.CD004667.pub3. Available from: www.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/14651858.CD004667.pub3/abstract

Practitioners – remember the three Ls!• Language – Watch and reflect

on language you and others use that might be distressing or feel judgemental for people with an eating disorder, e.g. ‘Don’t worry about feeling a bit unattractive.’ Reflect on the information in this article and talk it through with colleagues.

• Listening – If a woman or her partner wants to talk about fears around food, it is useful to know that talking to practitioners and health professionals in a safe and uninterrupted setting can be beneficial. A continuing relationship with a kind and compassionate person really can make a positive difference.20 However, it is important to signpost a parent to her midwife or GP if you are concerned.

• Lunch – If NCT support activities involve food, this could be overwhelming or feel like an obstacle to participation. It might help if branches consider offering some activities that are not centred around food, such as going for a walk, meeting up to do baby massage or play.

Further supportBeat (Beating Eating Disorders) is a UK-based charity which provides helplines, online support and a network of UK-wide self-help groups for individuals with eating disorders (www.b-eat.co.uk).

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Supporting women in the transition to motherhood: a research overviewNCT postnatal leader and research networker Alex Bollen considers the evidence.This research overview looks at the literature on the transition to motherhood, with particular emphasis on the psychological and social processes involved in becoming a mother. It starts with a background section explaining the history of the concept and areas of difference between researchers. It goes on to examine the common experiences and challenges involved in becoming a mother, exploring the factors which may lessen or intensify them. In particular, the protective effect of social support is examined. Implications for practitioners supporting women in the transition to motherhood are then considered.

The review has its roots in research undertaken for the NCT Diploma in Postnatal Group Facilitation and subsequent reading to support my role as an NCT Postnatal Group Leader. In addition, the following databases were searched using the terms ‘transition + motherhood’: Google Scholar, JSTOR, PubMed, and ScienceDirect. Relevant literature cited by other authors was also reviewed. Studies that focus primarily on pregnancy, birth and/or breastfeeding, rather than on changes in role, status and experiences of becoming a mother, were excluded, as was the extensive literature on the impact of the transition to parenthood on couple relationships. This narrative review is not exhaustive, but aims to include the main themes in the social science literature.

BackgroundTransition to motherhood theory derives from the work of Rubin, who introduced the concept of ‘maternal role attainment’ (MRA) in the 1960s.1 Mercer has built on Rubin’s research, suggesting that MRA be replaced with the concept of

‘becoming a mother’ to connote the initial transformation and continuing growth of the mother identity.2 Rubin and Mercer’s work has strongly influenced nursing research and practice.3

Mercer identified four stages, involving preparation during pregnancy, a time of acquaintance, learning and physical restoration in the first two to six weeks postpartum, followed by a period of moving towards a sense of a new normal as the mother learns about the baby, adjusts to her new role and achieves maternal identity, usually at around four months (although Mercer stresses that the timings are variable).2

Rubin and Mercer’s work has been criticised for assuming that adaptation is universal and context-free,4 and for focusing too narrowly on mothering the baby rather than changes for the woman.5 Its implication is that a failure to adjust to motherhood is an individual pathology.6

Sociological and feminist research on becoming a mother explores the experience from the woman’s perspective and locates this in a wider social context.6

Oakley contends that a woman only becomes a mother in the social sense when she is seen as one both by herself and others.7 In her longitudinal research among 17 new mothers, Miller found that feeling like a mother was a gradual process which even at nine months may not be perceived as having been achieved.8

‘Normalising feelings and experiences is a valuable means of support.’

What can be agreed is that the transition to motherhood is often challenging.9 Some authors go so far as to suggest that an

‘easy’ transition is unusual.6,10 It is therefore important to understand what factors can heighten or reduce the challenges, as well as what impact these factors may have on the risk of developing postnatal depression (PND), a major public health issue.11

Key themesKey themes from the sociological and social psychology literature are set out below. While early experiences of

becoming a mother are diverse,8,9 there are many commonalities reported in research.

‘Not what I expected’A key theme is that women often feel unprepared for the reality of motherhood. In her seminal 1970s study, Oakley found that almost all (91%) of her sample of 66 mothers found that motherhood was not as they expected.7 Feeling unprepared and having unrealistic expectations of motherhood continues to be a common theme.9,12,13,14,15,16 For example a study among 79 Australian first-time mothers found most of them did not expect the unrelenting demands of infant care, how tired they would feel, and the loss of personal time and space.17 A ‘conspiracy of silence’ about the challenges was the major category identified. This can have a negative impact on well-being. Eight out of 18 qualitative studies on PND in Beck’s meta-synthesis focused on the theme of conflicting expectations and reality.18

Cultural ideals of motherhoodThe literature suggests that common cultural representations of motherhood as natural, instinctive and enjoyable contribute to the gap between expectations and reality.8,13 Women can believe they should immediately know how to care for their babies, despite a lack of practical experience.16,19

Not living up to cultural ideals of motherhood can have a damaging impact. In Mollard’s meta-synthesis of 12 qualitative studies on PND, ‘crushed maternal role expectations’ was identified

Key points• The process of becoming a mother is often challenging. Women can feel unprepared

for the reality of motherhood and experience a range of emotions such as feeling overwhelmed and drained. A loss of a sense of self can occur.

• Factors which can increase the difficulties include an unsettled baby, unrealistic expectations due to a lack of experience in babycare, and negative birth and feeding experiences.

• There is a lack of research among women of different social classes, but the evidence suggests that difficult social circumstances such as poverty bring additional challenges.

• Women can expect motherhood to come naturally and equate negative feelings with being an inadequate mother. This can lead women to conceal difficult experiences.

• Social support, which includes practical help, information and emotional support (including emotional support provided by other mothers), is a key factor in the transition to motherhood. However, some women can be reluctant to access it.

• Confidence usually increases as women develop skills and the baby becomes more settled and responsive.

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as a key category. A ‘good mother’ was seen to be happy, selfless, and patient; women felt like a ‘bad mother’ if they were not meeting these expectations.20 Other research shows that women can feel like bad, abnormal or inadequate mothers if they experience negative feelings about motherhood and/or find it difficult to cope.10,16,18,21

There is evidence that rigid and idealised views of motherhood can contribute to depression.22 A recent study of 113 American women found that women who scored higher on the Rigidity of Maternal Beliefs Scale had a higher risk of developing postnatal depression.23

Miller’s research found that cultural expectations led women to conceal experiences and reactions which are difficult but normal. It was only in the final interview conducted nine months postnatally that they felt comfortable disclosing these.8 In longitudinal qualitative research among first-time mothers conducted when their babies were around 18 months old, it was easier for them to reflect on negative or mixed feelings about becoming a mother one year later.24 This has methodological implications for research conducted in the early postnatal period, and may help explain studies showing lower feelings of maternal competence at eight months postpartum compared to four months.2

Riding the rollercoaster: challenging

emotionsNelson’s meta-synthesis of nine qualitative studies found that the transition is

‘fraught with conflict, uncertainty, fear and emotional lability’.9 In Darvill et al’s subsequent qualitative research among 13 first-time mothers, many of the women used the analogy of a rollercoaster.13

Common emotions are:• Feeling overwhelmed. In their review

of the literature on the first year of parenthood, Nyström and Öhrling summarise the experience as ‘living in a new and overwhelming world’.25 This is linked to an overwhelming sense of responsibility for the baby and the demands of infant care.9,16,22,26

• A sense of shock.7,22 Indeed, Coates et al avoided using the term ‘transition’ in their research (among 17 women who had experienced emotional difficulties in the first year after birth) because women spoke of a sudden and challenging change.26

• Exhaustion. Extreme tiredness from the physical and emotional experiences of birth and early motherhood is another common theme.12,13, 21,25 Barclay et al characterise this as feeling ‘drained’.15

Some researchers argue that PND pathologises normal emotions arising from the challenges involved in becoming a mother.7,10,27 Homewood et al suggest that it may be that depressed mothers undergo similar cognitive and emotional processes to ‘well’ mothers but have more difficulty accepting ambivalent feelings.22

Reconstructing identityBecoming a mother involves a major transformation of self-identity7,28,29 – a

‘profound reconstruction of self’.15 The change in identity can involve major losses, including a loss of autonomy,14 which can be a key factor in the development of PND. Beck’s meta-synthesis identified loss as a pervasive component of PND,18 while loss of a sense of self was a key theme in Mollard’s meta-synthesis.20 Homewood et al’s qualitative research among nine women with PND identified a core category of ‘becoming occluded’, where the baby’s needs eclipsed the mother’s sense of identity and self-confidence.22

Nicolson concluded from her qualitative research among 24 new mothers that women need time and support to adapt to loss and change, arguing that this process

is complicated by motherhood being seen as natural and desirable.10 A focus on the woman’s own feelings and needs can feel incompatible with her role as a mother.14 This can be reinforced by the shift of focus from the woman to the baby which can be experienced following birth.7,8,16,29

Birth and feeding experiencesThere is not space to examine birth or feeding, but it is important to note that difficult experiences of birth2,26,30 and breastfeeding20,31,32,33 can impact negatively on women during the transition.

The characteristics of the babyThe baby’s characteristics and responsiveness can shape women’s evaluation of themselves as mothers.15,22

In their research synthesis, Brunton et al found that women blamed themselves for being unable to interpret their baby’s needs and stop their crying, becoming disappointed that their early mothering was not instinctive.

As the baby becomes more responsive, settled and predictable, confidence can increase and motherhood becomes more enjoyable.7,15,34

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Perceptions of prolonged or frequent crying and poor sleep in babies are associated with higher levels of maternal fatigue and depressive symptoms.35,36 The causative relationship between depression and unsettled behaviour is unclear. Some researchers suggest that depressed mothers are unresponsive or intrusive, while others argue that it is the unsettled behaviour which reduces confidence and increases fatigue.37

‘Working it out’ – developing confidenceBarclay et al’s research among 55 Australian first-time mothers found ‘working it out’ to be a key category in the transition.15 This involves women developing skills and gaining confidence over time, a theme found in other research.2,34 A literature review covering the period 1985-1999 found that positive self-esteem is the most important variable accounting for successful maternal role attainment.3

‘As the baby becomes more responsive, settled and predictable, confidence can increase and motherhood becomes more enjoyable.’

‘Working it out’ is influenced by factors such as the baby’s characteristics, the woman’s confidence and prior experience.15 Darvill et al’s research found that confidence was restored through regaining some sense of control.13 Other research identifies losing and regaining control as a key theme.10,15,34,38

Social circumstancesMuch of the research has been conducted among educated, white, middle-class women in stable heterosexual relationships.29,39 However, many other factors can influence women’s experiences of becoming a mother, such as ethnicity, socioeconomic status, immigration, age and employment.39

In their systematic review, Brunton et al concluded that there are gaps in the evidence on how women of different social classes and ethnicities experience the transition to motherhood.29 Difficult circumstances such as poverty are likely to increase the stresses. One American study of 19 low-income mothers with PND found that the women were overwhelmed from the emotional and material demands arising from poverty, and associated factors such as living in dangerous inner-city environments.40

Mothering orientationsAnother important discipline contributing

to our understanding of the transition to motherhood is psychoanalysis. I have found Raphael-Leff’s work particularly useful, including her observation that ‘we are each the sum total of our life’s stories’.41 She has identified different mothering orientations which involve distinct beliefs about pregnancy, birth, caregiving and motherhood.27,41 Brief descriptions of the main three orientations are as follows:

• The Facilitator feels at one with the baby and strongly believes that only she has the intuitive capacity to interpret the baby’s needs. Her assumption is that the baby knows best and she herself to fully meeting her newborn’s needs

• The Regulator believes the caregiver’s basic task is to socialise the pre-social baby and she expects the baby to adapt to the household routine. Following a routine enables the Regulator and other carers to be consistent in determining the baby’s needs. She wants to return to her ‘real’ life as soon as possible after the birth.

• The Reciprocator sees the newborn as a separate, sociable person capable of forming relationships and making demands. She believes both the baby’s and the rest of the family’s needs should be taken into consideration. There is a constant process of negotiation as approaches are reassessed according to the changing needs of the baby and the rest of the household.

Quantitative research in the UK,42 Australia,43 Belgium,44 and Israel45 has

validated the theory (although some of the studies focus on Facilitators and Regulators only). The different orientations can give rise to different stresses, for example a Facilitator being apart from her baby, a Regulator being unable to get her baby into a routine or a Reciprocator struggling to meet everyone’s needs.

These orientations relate to different philosophies of baby care, which have been classified as follows:

• Infant-demand’46/‘intuitive parenting’37

which holds that parents should respond intuitively to crying, feeding and sleeping, and encourages active comforting (e.g. rocking and baby wearing) and co-sleeping.

• ‘Limit-setting’46/‘infant behaviour management’37 parenting which holds that unsettled infant behaviour can cause significant problems for some families and that infant behaviour can be shaped or modified by caregiving (for instance, putting the baby to bed while drowsy rather than asleep).

The infant-demand philosophy broadly corresponds to the Facilitator orientation, while the Regulator orientation to a limit-setting approach. Given the variation in orientations, some researchers argue that prescribing one ‘right way’ of mothering should be avoided.43 Raphael-Leff argues that variation in orientation is part of life and only becomes harmful at the extremes.41 As discussed above, rigid and idealised views of motherhood can contribute to depression.22,23 Two qualitative studies found that accepting

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diversity in mothering helped women find a way out of depression.22,47

The protective effect of social supportSocial support is of crucial importance in the transition to motherhood.13,15,16,25,29,40,48,49 A meta-synthesis found that supportive relationships can help adolescent mothers reshape their lives positively.50 A qualitative study among women with intellectual disabilities found that social networks are integral to developing a mother identity.51

There are three separate elements of social support to consider: types of support, sources of support and accessing support.

Types of supportThe literature suggests that women can benefit from three types of support:52

• Practical support, e.g. shopping, housework or cooking.

• Information/guidance on caring for their baby. However receiving conflicting advice can be problematic.15

• Emotional support, both receiving encouragement49 and being able to talk about what they are going through.13 The risk of PND increases in women without someone to talk to openly.53

Sources of supportPartners can be a key source of support; a partner who is unsupportive can be a factor in depression.10,16 Women’s parents, particularly their mothers, can be a significant source of support,54 as can friends.16 Mauthner’s study of 18 depressed mothers concluded that relationships with other mothers were at least as important as the quality of relationship with partners.47

The most valuable form of support from other mothers seems to be emotional, through ‘normalising’ feelings and experiences.13,34,47 Urwin’s research among 40 women found that discovering that other new mothers had similar problems enabled them to re-evaluate their own competence.21

Accessing supportThe availability of social networks does not necessarily mean a woman feels well supported.47 Several factors can prevent women accessing available support. A qualitative study with an ethnically diverse sample of American women explored the barriers. Some women feared that asking for help would reflect negatively on their parenting skills. Others worried about being a burden or hurting their family’s feelings by voicing their frustration about the lack of support.49

Other studies have identified a reluctance to ask for help from family and friends because of fears of how this would be perceived.8,16,34 In Mauthner’s study, women’s perceptions of ‘difference’ and

‘abnormality’ in comparison to other mothers led them to withdraw from these relationships, thereby limiting the opportunities for their negative thoughts to be contradicted by other mothers.47

Technology provides new opportunities for women to access support but research on this area is currently limited. An ethnographic study of 42 mothers in Scotland found that social media enabled asynchronous communication with friends and family. Mobile phones, which could be used while caring for their baby, allowed women to access online both information and the reassurance that other mothers were experiencing similar emotions.55 One US study of 157 new mothers found a link between frequency of social media use and perceptions of social support.56 However, another found that more frequent visits to Facebook were associated with higher levels of parenting stress.57

ConclusionsThe sociological and social psychological literature shows that the transition to motherhood is often challenging and that incorporating maternal identify into a woman’s sense of self can be fraught with difficulty.

Rigid views of motherhood can contribute to depression, and trying to live up to perceived cultural ideals of being a ‘good mother’ can add to the pressures.

Other factors which can shape a woman’s transition to motherhood include the extent to which social support is available and accessed, difficult social circumstances such as poverty, expectations and previous experience of babycare, and characteristics of the baby.

In addition, the psychoanalytical literature suggests that different mothering orientations can give rise to different stresses in the transition to motherhood.

Checklist of practical strategiesThese have been partly developed from Fahey’s Perinatal Maternal Health Promotion model: 52

• Mobilise social support. For instance, stating explicitly what support is needed and using tactics such as making lists of things to do for family members.49

• Build self-efficacy by developing a sense of capability in meeting the demands of parenting. The perceived expertise of professionals in babycare can hinder the development of confidence.9,15

• Use positive coping strategies. These include taking direct action, changing the way someone thinks about a situation (for instance accepting that early motherhood is usually challenging) or changing the way someone reacts to a situation (for instance, through meditation or relaxation).

• Set realistic expectations and goals. For example, appreciating that childcare skills are learnt rather than instinctive16 and that unsettled behaviour in a baby is normal.46

Practice pointsSupport should be woman-centred, listening to what a woman says about her individual experience. Avoid making generalisations or assumptions, as circumstances and values vary widely.

Cultural ideals about motherhood need to be taken into account.6 For instance, if a woman feels guilty about meeting her own needs, comments which seem perplexing (such as claiming her newborn likes having his own space) become more explicable. Women should be supported to:

• Understand that conflicting and overwhelming emotions are normal.8

• Openly express negative feelings and fears.22

• Appreciate the legitimacy and importance of their needs.

• Access support networks, particularly those which provide opportunities to voice their experiences to other mothers.15,29,47

As a practitioner, I have found Raphael-Leff’s mothering orientations particularly useful in explore different approaches to babycare, although I have renamed them ‘Connector’ (instead of Facilitator), ‘Balancer’ (Reciprocator) and ‘Organiser’ (Regulator) as these labels feel more accessible.

Finally, the enormous personal achievement involved for each woman on her journey to motherhood should be recognised and celebrated. Alex Bollen

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