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P A R T N E R S
I N C H R I S T
A Conservative
Case for
Egalitarianism
JOHN G STACKHOUSE JR
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P A R T N E R S
I N C H R I S T A Conservative Case for Egalitarianism
JOHN G STACKHOUSE JR
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Contents
983089 Whose Side Are You On 983097
983090 How Not to Decide About Gender 983089983095
983091 How I Changed My Mind 983090983095
983092 wo More heological Clues 983091983095
983093 he Model 983092983091
983094 Equality 983092983095
983095 Gospel Priorities and Holy Pragmatism 983093983089
983096 Eschatology 983093983093
983097 Liberty 983094983089
983089983088 Git Calling Order and Ediication 983094983093
983089983089 he Pattern o Doubleness 983095983097983089983090 What hen 983096983097
983089983091 Counterarguments rom heology 983097983091
983089983092 Counterarguments rom Church History 983089983088983093
983089983093 Counterarguments rom Contemporary
Experience and Practice 983089983089983089
983089983094 What hen 983089983090983095
983089983095 Inclusive Language 983089983091983093
983089983096 Women and heology 983089983092983091
983089983097 Discarding the ldquoNew Machismordquo 983089983093983089
983090983088 Why hen Do Women Not Lead 983089983093983097
983090983089 How to Change a Mind 983089983095983091
Acknowledgments 983089983095983097
Notes 983089983096983089
Scripture Index 983090983089983091
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1
Whose Side Are You On
L983141983156rsquo983155 983138983141983143983145983150 983151983157983154 983140983145983155983139983157983155983155983145983151983150 983151983142 983143983141983150983140983141983154 the way any
Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
L983137983138983141983148983155 W983144983151rsquo983155 W983144983151
Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
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Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
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Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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P A R T N E R S
I N C H R I S T A Conservative Case for Egalitarianism
JOHN G STACKHOUSE JR
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Contents
983089 Whose Side Are You On 983097
983090 How Not to Decide About Gender 983089983095
983091 How I Changed My Mind 983090983095
983092 wo More heological Clues 983091983095
983093 he Model 983092983091
983094 Equality 983092983095
983095 Gospel Priorities and Holy Pragmatism 983093983089
983096 Eschatology 983093983093
983097 Liberty 983094983089
983089983088 Git Calling Order and Ediication 983094983093
983089983089 he Pattern o Doubleness 983095983097983089983090 What hen 983096983097
983089983091 Counterarguments rom heology 983097983091
983089983092 Counterarguments rom Church History 983089983088983093
983089983093 Counterarguments rom Contemporary
Experience and Practice 983089983089983089
983089983094 What hen 983089983090983095
983089983095 Inclusive Language 983089983091983093
983089983096 Women and heology 983089983092983091
983089983097 Discarding the ldquoNew Machismordquo 983089983093983089
983090983088 Why hen Do Women Not Lead 983089983093983097
983090983089 How to Change a Mind 983089983095983091
Acknowledgments 983089983095983097
Notes 983089983096983089
Scripture Index 983090983089983091
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1
Whose Side Are You On
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Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
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Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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Whose Side Are You On 10486251048629
and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
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Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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P A R T N E R S
I N C H R I S T A Conservative Case for Egalitarianism
JOHN G STACKHOUSE JR
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Contents
983089 Whose Side Are You On 983097
983090 How Not to Decide About Gender 983089983095
983091 How I Changed My Mind 983090983095
983092 wo More heological Clues 983091983095
983093 he Model 983092983091
983094 Equality 983092983095
983095 Gospel Priorities and Holy Pragmatism 983093983089
983096 Eschatology 983093983093
983097 Liberty 983094983089
983089983088 Git Calling Order and Ediication 983094983093
983089983089 he Pattern o Doubleness 983095983097983089983090 What hen 983096983097
983089983091 Counterarguments rom heology 983097983091
983089983092 Counterarguments rom Church History 983089983088983093
983089983093 Counterarguments rom Contemporary
Experience and Practice 983089983089983089
983089983094 What hen 983089983090983095
983089983095 Inclusive Language 983089983091983093
983089983096 Women and heology 983089983092983091
983089983097 Discarding the ldquoNew Machismordquo 983089983093983089
983090983088 Why hen Do Women Not Lead 983089983093983097
983090983089 How to Change a Mind 983089983095983091
Acknowledgments 983089983095983097
Notes 983089983096983089
Scripture Index 983090983089983091
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1
Whose Side Are You On
L983141983156rsquo983155 983138983141983143983145983150 983151983157983154 983140983145983155983139983157983155983155983145983151983150 983151983142 983143983141983150983140983141983154 the way any
Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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Whose Side Are You On 10486251048625
how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
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Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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Partners in Christ a conservative case for egalitarianism John G Stackhouse Jr
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Contents
983089 Whose Side Are You On 983097
983090 How Not to Decide About Gender 983089983095
983091 How I Changed My Mind 983090983095
983092 wo More heological Clues 983091983095
983093 he Model 983092983091
983094 Equality 983092983095
983095 Gospel Priorities and Holy Pragmatism 983093983089
983096 Eschatology 983093983093
983097 Liberty 983094983089
983089983088 Git Calling Order and Ediication 983094983093
983089983089 he Pattern o Doubleness 983095983097983089983090 What hen 983096983097
983089983091 Counterarguments rom heology 983097983091
983089983092 Counterarguments rom Church History 983089983088983093
983089983093 Counterarguments rom Contemporary
Experience and Practice 983089983089983089
983089983094 What hen 983089983090983095
983089983095 Inclusive Language 983089983091983093
983089983096 Women and heology 983089983092983091
983089983097 Discarding the ldquoNew Machismordquo 983089983093983089
983090983088 Why hen Do Women Not Lead 983089983093983097
983090983089 How to Change a Mind 983089983095983091
Acknowledgments 983089983095983097
Notes 983089983096983089
Scripture Index 983090983089983091
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1
Whose Side Are You On
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Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
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Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
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begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
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Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
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Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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Contents
983089 Whose Side Are You On 983097
983090 How Not to Decide About Gender 983089983095
983091 How I Changed My Mind 983090983095
983092 wo More heological Clues 983091983095
983093 he Model 983092983091
983094 Equality 983092983095
983095 Gospel Priorities and Holy Pragmatism 983093983089
983096 Eschatology 983093983093
983097 Liberty 983094983089
983089983088 Git Calling Order and Ediication 983094983093
983089983089 he Pattern o Doubleness 983095983097983089983090 What hen 983096983097
983089983091 Counterarguments rom heology 983097983091
983089983092 Counterarguments rom Church History 983089983088983093
983089983093 Counterarguments rom Contemporary
Experience and Practice 983089983089983089
983089983094 What hen 983089983090983095
983089983095 Inclusive Language 983089983091983093
983089983096 Women and heology 983089983092983091
983089983097 Discarding the ldquoNew Machismordquo 983089983093983089
983090983088 Why hen Do Women Not Lead 983089983093983097
983090983089 How to Change a Mind 983089983095983091
Acknowledgments 983089983095983097
Notes 983089983096983089
Scripture Index 983090983089983091
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1
Whose Side Are You On
L983141983156rsquo983155 983138983141983143983145983150 983151983157983154 983140983145983155983139983157983155983155983145983151983150 983151983142 983143983141983150983140983141983154 the way any
Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
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Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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How Not to Decide About Gender
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begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
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Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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1
Whose Side Are You On
L983141983156rsquo983155 983138983141983143983145983150 983151983157983154 983140983145983155983139983157983155983155983145983151983150 983151983142 983143983141983150983140983141983154 the way any
Christian discussion ought to begin with Jesus I love Jesus and I
expect you do too I you donrsquot (yet) yoursquore certainly welcome to keep
reading But in this book I am primarily addressing a reader who
already is committed to the Christian aith and thus is personally
committed to Jesuso begin this way is neither truistic nor trivial Far too many dis-
cussions o gender have disappeared almost instantly down one or
both o the ollowing slippery slopes into hellish excommunication
Herersquos the first one
ldquoYou say you believe that women should preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquo
ldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they shouldnrsquot You thereore donrsquotbelieve the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Whew
Herersquos the second slippery slope
ldquoYou say you believe that women should not preachrdquo
ldquoYes I dordquoldquoWell the Bible clearly says that they should You thereore donrsquot
believe the Bible which is the Word o God and thereore you
donrsquot believe God and so you arenrsquot a Christian but instead are a
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
L983137983138983141983148983155 W983144983151rsquo983155 W983144983151
Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
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begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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wol in sheeprsquos clothing that must be unmasked and denounced as suchrdquo
Instead then o immediately consigning our opponents to the
lake o fire letrsquos remember Jesus Letrsquos remember that we love JesusLetrsquos remember that wersquore trying to understand Jesus and worship
Jesus and obey Jesus and become like Jesus and share Jesus the
very best that we can I wersquore in a debate over a Christian view o
gender with someone who is not serious about Jesus o course then
we have to have a different kind o debate And we are all sinners so
we have to allow or the act that each o us Christians will inevitably
bring to this discussion our various memories and worries andagendasmdashnot all o which to put it extremely kindly conorm pre-
cisely to the will o God We can and we must however presume
goodwill and goodwill o the most basic Christian sort wersquore trying
to ollow Jesus You are I am
So letrsquos grant each other that identity and proceed as i we really
meant itmdashas brothers and sisters ellow disciples and coworkers in
the global enterprise o Godrsquos redemption o the world I hope I willsound throughout this book like Irsquom a Christian and like I believe
you are too And I hope you will respond to what I say in like spirit
Wersquore agreed on the Main Tings the undamental doctrines o the
aith (as particularly listed in the great creeds) the supreme authority
o the Bible as Godrsquos Word written the necessity o conversion the
teaching and sanctiying ministry o the Holy Spirit and the other
basics o orthodox traditional mainstream Christianity I happen to
identiy myselmdashalbeit gingerly depending on my audiencemdashwith
evangelical Protestantism But there is nothing in what ollows that
depends on any evangelical peculiarities (o which alas there are ar
too many) So i yoursquore a aithul Christian o whatever stripe you
ought to eel at home in this conversation1
I presume also that you are an intelligent person just as I assume
that my theological counterparts generally are intelligent people An-
other one o the chie ways in which Christian discussion o gender
goes sideways is or one side or the other (and ofen both) to start
condescending to the other as stupid children who do not understand
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
L983137983138983141983148983155 W983144983151rsquo983155 W983144983151
Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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how to do theology properly they lack the requisite scholarly
knowledge to interpret the Bible aright or they ail to appreciate the
theological implications o their exegesis or they do not see the socialimplications o their views or they simply cannot reason validly
I have not ound it useul to presume that my counterparts in any
conversation were either wicked or witless Alas o course some have
proved to be one or the other or both But in this particular dis-
cussion I have ound things to be quite the other way vast amounts
o time have been spent in careul analysis o a wide range o texts
impressive arguments have been mounted that range across the wholeBible two thousand years o church history and theological tradition
have been surveyed and social political psychological and sexual
implications have been consideredmdashand on both sides o the issue It
seems evident to me that the way to best find our way through the
gender debate is not to presume that we will eventually discover that
one set o discussants or the other are immoral morons Instead I
much preer to think that we can find a way to do honor to bothgroups o our ellow Christians Shall we try
L983137983138983141983148983155 W983144983151rsquo983155 W983144983151
Letrsquos start with some basic identifications Usually this discussion is
conducted in terms o two polar opposites patriarchy (ldquorule by the
atherrdquo) on one side and eminism (ldquoadvocacy or womenrdquo) on the
other Letrsquos pause or just a moment to acknowledge that there have
been in act a number o intermediate positions in Christian history
emale missionaries church planters campus staff workers and the
like who were not allowed to exercise pastoral unctions at home but
were welcome to engage in them on this or that ldquomission fieldrdquo emale
preachers during boundary-blurring revivals who once the ex-
citement had cooled down were then shepherded out o the pulpit
and back into the pew and emale Bible teachers preachers and au-
thors who conducted extensive ministry officially ldquounderrdquo the au-
thority o a husband or pastor or church2
Coherent theologies have not generally been elaborated to deend
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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such practices however Instead the main attention has been given
to the two typical alternatives patriarchalism which has been re-
named in America and elsewhere ldquocomplementarianismrdquo and em-inism which has been similarly renamed ldquoegalitarianismrdquo Letrsquos take
a ew moments to be clear about what we mean by these terms as we
shall use them in the rest o this discussion
First consider the ldquo-wordrdquo that has become odious not only
among many Christians but also among many people in society at
largemdasheven and sometimes especially among young women who
might be presumed to be eminists Indeed substantively most othem are in act eminists as we shall see But the word evokes now
an ugly stereotype o lesbian misanthropes or perhaps wickedly al-
luring sexual predators who threaten the integrity o the amily sexual
purity masculinity and yes civilization itsel in the eyes o the most
rightened Many o my own university students could easily agree
with almost any standard set o eminist tenets but would horrifiedly
eschew the label ldquoI donrsquot hate menrdquo a ew have confided in me ldquoIrsquomno eministrdquo3
How can one possibly thereore be a Christian eminist For many
people obviously ldquoChristian eministrdquo is a contradiction in terms
And it isnrsquot just the exaggerated specter o eminism that Christians
ear For many Christians today it is just axiomatic that true believers
believe in patriarchymdashin ldquomale leadershiprdquo in church and home i
not also in society at large And most Christians have in act so be-
lievedmdashregardless o age race class or gender across hundreds o
cultures and two thousand years It is a matter o simple act that most
Christians still do believe in patriarchy as one recalls that the ma-
jority o Christians live outside the so-called developed countries in
which eminism has made its inroads And it is obvious urthermore
that within those developed countriesmdashand perhaps conspicuously
in the largest and most influential o these the United States o
Americamdashmany Christians o almost every denominational stripe
continue to believe that the Bible and Christian tradition just obvi-
ously command the submission o women to the authority o men in
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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marriage and in the church i not again also in society
Feminism is thus a plague on the land related as it has been to a
wide range o social pathologies Feminism obviously has been impli-cated in the so-called sexual liberation o womenmdashboth in terms o
liberal mores (women are ree to be as promiscuous as men have
been) and o controversial reproductive technologies (the Pill and the
ready and legal availability o abortion) Feminism has been coupled
with radical changes in the public workplace that have brought many
women into jobs outside the home including jobs previously domi-
nated by men Tis availability o emale labor has been blamed orthe depression o wages and loss o benefits in many occupations that
previously paid a ldquoliving wagerdquo or a man and his amily Feminism
has been held responsible or children having to go to daycare or let
themselves in to their homes in the afernoon with their ldquolatchkeysrdquo
because both parents are working outside the homemdashor worse be-
cause the parents are divorced and the single parent is still at work
Feminism has been linked with lesbianism and the rise o homo-sexual activismmdashand the very arguments used to support emale
clergy are now used to support homosexuals in the pulpit as well
Finally eminism has given voice to hatred or the Christian church
and its Scriptures as eminists have traced the oppression o women
in our culture particularly to the patriarchy endorsed by Christian
teaching through the ages
So to suggest combining ldquoChristianrdquo with ldquoeministrdquo strikes many
o our contemporaries as both intellectually preposterous and morally
outrageousmdashrom both the traditional Christian and ironically
enough the radical eminist points o view
I have responded to this situation rom two apparently opposed
directions On the one hand I am a white middle-class heterosexual
evangelical Christian manmdashand thus departing rather markedly
rom the eminist stereotype Indeed one might think that I would
have a lot to lose in supporting the equal treatment o women in every
sphere o liemdashwhether one sees that loss as my ldquolegitimate authorityrdquo
or my ldquoscandalous privilegerdquo On the other hand I am also a career
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Whose Side Are You On 10486251048629
and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
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S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
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Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048629
minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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and reflect the image o God but are sometimes called by God to
different and ldquocomplementaryrdquo roles on the basis o their sex Fur-
thermore when social power is in view (as opposed to say the powerto bear children) then men and women complement each other in
that men normally are to wield powermdashbeneficently to be suremdashand
women normally are to subordinate themselves to it as indeed an
ordinance o God
Many have observed that the terms complementarian and egali-
tarian in act can be applied to aspects o each sidersquos viewpoint Egal-
itarians do not deny gender differences that complement each othercomplementarians affirm the essential equality o women and men
and so on Acknowledging that ambiguity we nonetheless still need
labels and none better have yet emerged So we will use them in what
is still the common sense o each8
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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2
How Not to Decide About Gender
M983137983150983161 983137983157983156983144983151983154983155 983151983150 983156983144983141 983153983157983141983155983156983145983151983150 o Christianity and gender
begin with the broader context o hermeneuticsmdashthe discipline o
interpreting the Bible and applying it to contemporary issues1 Itrsquos
actually quite remarkable however that many do not but instead
immediately plunge into exegetical and historical issues as i we all
engage in theological reasoning the same way and there are no im-portant methodological questions to sort out first But as Pamela
Dickey Young reminds us ldquoOnersquos theological method in large part
determines onersquos theological outcomerdquo2 I one generally assumes or
example that Old estament law is to apply to Christians today di-
rectly and without adaptation then one will be led to certain conclu-
sions about gender I one assumes that the portraits o Jesus in the
Gospels are the final interpretative norm in Scripture then one willnecessarily entertain only a certain range o interpretative options
And i one assumes that contemporary natural and social science do
or do not shed important light on the matters they discuss then one
will see questions o gender differently
Beore I offer what hermeneutical wisdom I possess pertinent to
our subject let me begin by discussing common ways people deal
badly with the question o gender3
Many people it seems are impatient with discussion o method-
ology when the issue o gender arises Maybe yoursquore eeling that way
now Indeed lots o sensible Christians donrsquot understand why it has
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10486251048632 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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10486261048624 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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to arise at all Tey believe that the question o whether Christianity
is compatible with gender egalitarianism has already been resolvedmdash
and resolved easily Some o course believe it has been resolved inavor o compatibility as in ldquoO course Christians can be eministsrdquo
Others believe it has been resolved in avor o mutual exclusivity
ldquoYoursquore either a genuine Christian or a eministmdashyou canrsquot be bothrdquo
Te controversy however continues And my point here is that it
cannot be settled as some content themselves that it can merely by
recourse to one o three avorite interpretative shortcuts Biblicism
reerence to the common wisdom o contemporary society and per-sonal intuition
B983145983138983148983145983139983145983155983149 ldquoT983144983141 B983145983138983148983141 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Tere is a longstanding orm o Christian piety commonly ound
especially among Protestants that congratulates itsel or its fidelity
to the Bible against all other voices ldquoNo creed but the Biblerdquo they will
proclaim or perhaps ldquoSola Scripturardquo i they like to add the gloss otradition and the aura o Latin Other plainspoken people merely de-
clare ldquoTe Bible says it I believe it that settles itrdquo Yet such Bible-
believing Christians are ooling themselves when they claim to
interpret and practice simply ldquowhat the Bible saysrdquo
For one thing they are ailing to realize that it is their own inter-
pretations that they are deending not the Bible itsel Indeed so
great is their confidence that they can simply read the Biblemdasha com-
pilation o dozens o ancient books composed originally in now-
dead languages that no one can even confidently pronounce rom
a variety o countries authors and contextsmdashthat such people are
surprised and even offended when one indicates that they merely
possess their own interpretation o this complicated literature not
its ull and final meaning
Folk piety among such Christians ofen affirms that the Bible is so
clear that a little child can read it (Occasionally one finds this idea
dressed up as affirmation o ldquothe perspicuity o Scripturerdquo) Like much
o olklore generally this assertion is partly true and also importantly
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048629
minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486251048633
alse Yes someone o very limited intellectual ability can hear or read
the Bible and be blessed by its proound simplicities ldquoGod is loverdquo
ldquoYou shall have no other gods beore merdquo ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo and so onBut God gave his people teachers as the Bible itsel affirms precisely
because much o the Bible is not easily understood How is it that God
is love and yet my lie is plagued by suffering Tere arenrsquot any
other gods so why is this commandment still relevant i it is And
what does it meanmdashin politics yes but also in economics business
amily lie and so onmdashthat ldquoJesus is Lordrdquo Ah now we need some-
thing more than childlike aith we need adult reflectionSome people o this outlook occasionally claim sophisticated
company with champions such as ertullian (ldquoI believe because it is
absurdrdquo) and Soslashren ldquoLeap o Faithrdquo Kierkegaard But these notables are
among the ew eminent Christians who can be invoked in such a cause
And even then they are misunderstood For these were Christian
thinkers who valued reason so much that they employed quite a lot o
it in their several theological writings Like the apostle Paul himselwho is occasionally invoked in this regard (so 1048625 Cor 104862510486251048632-10486271048625) these great
Christian thinkers opposed intellectual vanity and dependence on
wisdom other than Godrsquos Tey had no quarrel with reason philosophy
and other intellectual disciplines when rightly deployed in Godrsquos service
Instead we should value all o Godrsquos intellectual gifs to us God
has given us experiencemdashspiritual experience yes but also all o the
wide experiences o the wide world God has given us traditionmdash
Christian tradition yes but also all o the traditions o the various
groups and communities and institutions that have shaped us God
has given us scholarshipmdashChristian scholarship yes but also the
ldquowealth o the Egyptiansrdquo (Augustine) and ldquothe best that has been
thought and saidrdquo (Matthew Arnold) God has given us artmdash
Christian art yes but also the insight and imagination o artists great
and small None o these resources o course are inalliblemdashas
Scripture is But all o them help us understand our world and
perorm our God-given tasks in it so we rightly consult them as we
decide about any matter o importance
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o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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10486261048628 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048629
minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 1622
10486261048624 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
o be sure Scripture is the privileged member o this set No
Christian can saely decide against what he or she understands Scripture
to say since God has specially blessed Scripture as his written reve-lation Still because we are human beings with limited intellectual ca-
pacities and worse we are still subject to the influence o sin we must
beware o our interpretations o anything including Scripture as at
least possibly mistaken and maybe even sel-serving God thus gives us
a variety o ldquochecks and balancesrdquo in these various resources It is not
then especially pious to reuse to use what God has given us in expe-
rience tradition scholarship and art in avor o an exclusive use oScripture o do so is instead both oolish and ungrateul
Tere are sophisticated orms o this ungrateul oolishness apparent
in the Christian gender debate ime and again deenders o patriarchy
will campaign on the grounds that ldquothe Bible says sordquo as i that should
suffice But i what we think the Bible says (that is our interpretation)
seems contrary to one or more o the other intellectual resources God
has given us should we not pause to consider whether we have made amistake somewheremdashperhaps in our interpretation o secular reason or
spiritual experience yes but also perhaps in our interpretation o the
Bible Te Bible might well contradict secular reason or onersquos spiritual
experience Indeed it ofen has done so But it ofen also has not and
the God o all truth expects us to weigh interpretation against interpre-
tation in the light o all we think we know as adults domdashwith humble
recognition especially o the human penchant or gloriying a preerred
way o seeing things by dressing it up in religious legitimations
Particularly as we are deciding about the emotionally and politi-
cally charged issue o gender distinctions we should pause to con-
sider a general characteristic o Godrsquos Word God speaks not only
what is ldquorightrdquo but also what is ldquogoodrdquo Letrsquos hear again the amiliar
words o Psalm 104862510486331048631-1048633
Te law o the L983151983154983140 is perect
reviving the soul
the decrees o the L983151983154983140 are sure
making wise the simple
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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8202019 Partners in Christ By John G Stackhouse Jr - EXCERPT
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 1822
10486261048626 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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8202019 Partners in Christ By John G Stackhouse Jr - EXCERPT
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 2022
10486261048628 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048625
the precepts o the L983151983154983140 are right
rejoicing the heart
the commandment o the L983151983154983140 is clearenlightening the eyes
the ear o the L983151983154983140 is pure
enduring orever
the ordinances o the L983151983154983140 are true
and righteous altogether
Te Psalmist commends Godrsquos Word not as merely ldquodivine
commandrdquomdashto be obeyed whether or not it appears to be goodmdashbutas transparently commendable wisdom on grounds appreciable by all
Godrsquos law appeals to us as healthy strong inormative joyul cor-
rective holy and so on Normally then when God commands some-
thing we can see why it makes sense or him to do so His written
Word normally does not contradict but rather illuminates and harmo-
nizes with his sel-expression in other media whether our experience
our tradition and so on o be sure sometimes Godrsquos Word comes tous as a rebuke to sinul errors or as a corrective to our hapless mis-
takes But even then we are equipped by the Spirit to recognize it as
Godrsquos Word and as true and good
So when it comes to the question o gender we can properly ask
ourselves Why is this commandment o the Lord good as well as
right For i our interpretation o Godrsquos Word seems to result in some-
thing bad it may be that it is our own badness that is being con-ronted and needs reorientation but it may also be that we have in-
terpreted Godrsquos good Word literally badly
As a sort o ldquodiagnostic testrdquo then perhaps we can consider these
ldquosentence stemsrdquo to see whether they illuminate one or another inter-
pretation o gender as good or bad
ldquoIt is better or church government to have only men and no
women because rdquo
ldquoIt is better to listen only to male preachers and never to emale
preachers because rdquo
ldquoIt is better or all church meetings or men always to lead in prayer
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the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048629
minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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10486261048626 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
the liturgy music and so on and no women ever to lead in any o
those zones because rdquo
ldquoIt is important always to make sure a woman who does partici- pate in public worship to have a man lsquoover herrsquo in some authoritative
role because rdquo
Can these stems be completed patriarchally in any way that makes
sense besides ldquobecause the Bible [as we interpret it] says sordquo
Again I want to affirm that in any given case Godrsquos Word may be
calling us to change our minds to revise our expectations to rerame
issues that we have sinully or at least conusedly misunderstood Butit also may be that as we use our God-given reason drawing on the
experiences God has given us we will not dey Godrsquos Word but in-
stead come to understand it better and thus purge ourselves o erro-
neous interpretations
In this regard then it seems to me that the burden o proo alls
on the complementarians Tey are obliged to show how it is really
better or subordination to continue to characterize the relationshipo Christian men and women rather than just banging on about ldquothe
Bible says rdquomdashagain not to subordinate the Bible to human reason
(let alone human preerence) but as a check on their interpretation
o Godrsquos authoritative Word
C983157983148983156983157983154983137983148 C983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161mdash983151983154 N983151983150983139983151983150983142983151983154983149983145983156983161 ldquoS983151983139983145983141983156983161
S983137983161983155 S983151 983137983150983140 T983144983141983154983141983142983151983154983141 W983141 S983144983151983157983148983140mdashrdquo
Our societyrsquos values cannot be assumed to be ully right Does anyone
doubt that Our society has previously taught us lots o things that
we now think are wrong that women are not entitled to legal or po-
litical recognition that people o other ethnic groups are eligible or
exploitation that the poor are not entitled to assistance and so on
Our society has said that governmental sponsorship o religion is
good then sometimes good then bad And so on
Nor however can our societyrsquos values be assumed to be wrong as
many alienated conservative Christians seem to eel since many o
our societyrsquos values have in act emerged rom a Christian cultural
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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10486261048628 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048629
minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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8202019 Partners in Christ By John G Stackhouse Jr - EXCERPT
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 2222
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httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 1922
How Not to Decide About Gender 10486261048627
matrix Furthermore many other religions and philosophies share at
least some values with the Bible so there is ofen common ground
upon which to make common causeWe thereore cannot simply use ethical reasoning in the orm o
ldquoSociety currently says x and thereore x is rightrdquo Nor can we say the
opposite ldquo and thereore x is wrongrdquo Te world is a place o ideo-
logical contest in which orces o good and evil contend and in which
as Aleksandr Solzhenitsyn said the dividing line o good and evil is
drawn right through our own heartsmdashboth individually and corpo-
rately Tere is no entirely bad society on record and there is no en-tirely good one either We must exercise discernment ad hoc taking
each case on its own terms and seeking Godrsquos enlightenment as to
what is his will in this instance4
Tus when it comes to the matter o gender we must not unreflec-
tively assume that what society says about women and men is right
Society might be wrong And or another thing letrsquos recognize that
ldquosocietyrdquo is not speaking with a single voice about gender nowadaysWomen are executives yes but also regularly portrayed as bimbos
(and worse) in popular culture Women are leaders yes but when
they want to be mothers also North American society has yet to ac-
commodate them well Women and men are ldquojust the samerdquo and also
prooundly and universally different Itrsquos not actually clear just what
contemporary society is in act saying about gender
Furthermore society says a number o other things in this sphere
and related ones that most Christians believe are highly questionable
i not downright alse that homosexuality is natural and normal that
sexual intercourse can be merely recreational that cohabiting is a
good preparation or marriage that amicable divorces are better or
children than unhappy marriages and so on
Yet it is good or us to recognize also that modern society has in
many respects come to speak more ldquoChristianlyrdquomdashor more accu-
rately more in line with the Bible as a wholemdashthan it did in ostensibly
more Christian days Compare today with a hundred years ago and
ask yoursel whether we have improved how we treat handicapped
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8202019 Partners in Christ By John G Stackhouse Jr - EXCERPT
httpslidepdfcomreaderfullpartners-in-christ-by-john-g-stackhouse-jr-excerpt 2022
10486261048628 P983137983154983156983150983141983154983155 983145983150 C983144983154983145983155983156
people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
I983150983156983157983145983156983145983151983150 ldquoT983144983141 S983152983145983154983145983156 S983137983161983155 S983151rdquo
Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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people people o other ethnicities and religions and the unemployed
Godly values are indeed still evident and even growing in some
sectors o contemporary liemdashthe worldwide spread o the languageo ldquouniversal human rightsrdquo is a great trend orwardmdashat the same
time as other biblical values seem to be eroding
When it comes then to reflecting on any issue we cannot take our
cues automaticallymdashwhether positively or negativelymdashrom what our
society happens to be doing or saying today We have to do our own
homework and see what Christ is saying to the church in our place
and time
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Because church tradition societal practice and the heritage o bib-
lical interpretation all seemed against them many women seeking
greater reedom in Christian service have relied on their inner sense
o Godrsquos leading Tese women were not always radicals in the heat
o evangelical revivals or in the institutions o medieval monasticismor in the netherworld o the cults (what we more politely reer to
nowadays as ldquonew religious movementsrdquo) Tese women show up as
respectable nuns missionaries Bible teachers evangelists and au-
thors throughout church history And when they have been called on
to account or their ministry as they rarely have been many o them
have responded ldquoTe Lord led me to itrdquo5
Tis reliance on spiritual discernment whatever its good ruit is
dangerous as many o these women recognized Onersquos personal intu-
itionsmdasheven or perhaps especially those that we think are rom Godmdash
must be tested against the alternative possibilities o sel-deception
demonic deception and just plain misunderstanding (eg excessive
or misguided application o a genuinely true Word o God) Te
history o mysticism is replete with cautions and saeguards offered by
spiritual masters who are well aware o the perils o misinterpreted
experience And mainstream Christian teaching affirms that onersquos in-
tuitive sense o Godrsquos voice should be matched up with Scripture tra-
dition and reasonmdashand in the company o other Christiansmdashso as to
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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minimize the danger o misunderstanding or misdirection and to
maximize the blessing o a genuine divine communication
In an extreme situation to be sure the Christian can be grateul ora compelling intuition there is no Scripture or church tradition that
immediately pertains to the question at hand the believer has no
access to scholarship or to other Christians with relevant competence
to share and so on But in the current debate there is little excuse or
relying on sheer intuition when the theological resources are so ex-
tensive and the company o likeminded Christiansmdashwhatever view
you havemdashis available especially in the age o the Internet relativelycheap telephone services and so on I do not mean o course that it
is always and everywhere easy or people to think these things through
Tere are amilies churches and communities in which the consensus
is so strong that anyone holding a deviant viewmdashor even just consid-
ering an alternativemdashis under strong pressure whether theyrsquore in a
liberal situation in one place or a conservative situation in another
Still however most people can access resources to help them sortthings through beyond merely what happens to ldquoeel rightrdquo to them
And again because we finite and allen human beings are so easily
misled we must not settle or easily gained answers to important and
vexed questions when God puts other resources within our reach
I want to make clear however that I am sympathetic to those
women who through the ages have ollowed an inner voice into au-
thentic Christian service For again what else could Godrsquos Spirit in
such extreme situations do to lead them to that service i not give
them a direct intuition Realistically there wasnrsquot much to work with
given the overwhelming and reinorcing consensus in Scriptural in-
terpretation church teaching and practice and societal patterns re-
garding patriarchy So we do not have to condemn our sisters in the
past or substandard theological methods We can instead commend
good theological method to our sisters (and brothers) today who
want to make the best use o all o Godrsquos gifs in order to come to the
best conclusions possible
Letrsquos move on then to discuss how we ought to make up our minds
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