October 2016 Valley Voice rev - Valley Presbyterian Church · The Journey: Walking the Road to Bethlehem Coming in Advent We know it is a bit early to think about Advent, but we are

October 2016

Valley Voice

Traditional Service of Worship - 9:30 a.m. October 2 Rev. Paul Phillips October 9 Rev. Diane Christopher October 16 Guest Rev. George Pike October 23 Rev. Paul Phillips October 30 Rev. Diane Christopher

I shared this message at The Source a couple of days before Larry died. I feel it is appropriate to share it again at this me with all of you. During my sabba cal, I read a book about various birds in the Bible. One of the birds is the vulture. Do you know where the vulture shows up in the Bible?

Here in Arizona we have the turkey vulture. If you look up in the sky and see a large bird cruising the airwaves, how can you tell if it is a hawk/eagle or a vulture? There are two ways to tell. A hawk or eagle’s wings are straight out. A vulture’s wings go up into a slight V. Another way to tell the difference is that vultures wobble when they fly. A hawk or eagle flies straight.

Now, where do you find vultures in the Bible? The Hebrew word nesher is o en translated as “eagle,” but most scholars agree that “vulture” is perhaps a more fi ng transla on. So think about your favorite eagle verse: “They who wait for the Lord shall renew their strength, they shall mount up with wings like eagles…” (Isaiah 40:31) Now, read this verse again and replace “eagles” with “vultures.”

Doesn’t have quite the same ring to it, does it? But think about this: There are mes in our lives when we don’t feel like we are moun ng up with wings

like eagles. Doesn’t faith at mes feel more like to ering or wobbling? “Faith for me is not like the strong, smooth, sure-of-itself eagle soaring; but rather the wai ng, wobbling, awkward circling of those blown-by-the-merest-whiffs-of-wind turkey vulture” (From Consider the Birds by Debbie Blue)

Our church is wobbling. Your faith may feel that way, too. But next me you see a turkey vulture cruising the airwaves remember it teaches us when our faith is wobbly, we can s ll soar.

Peace,

Rev. Diane Christopher, Pastor of Discipleship

A Turkey Vulture Devotion

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In this Issue

Ac vi es: Page Casa Community Services 5 Counseling Services 18 Holiday Pa o Sale 16 & 20 Mission Quilts 6 Movie Ministry 7 Opera on Christmas Child 16 Pa o Sale Help Needed 7 Stephen Ministers Training 15 Stephen Ministers Anniversary 20 The Source 20 Valley Readers 6 Women’s Ministries 8 Classes: Adult Orff Class 13 Adult Sunday Bible Study 4 Exploring Membership Class 9 Grief Discussion Groups 13 Grief Recovery Workshop 13 History of Chris an Theology 12 Learning to Use Facebook 6 Men's Weekday Bible Studies 4 The Journey 4 Health: Grief 18 Faith & Health/Parish Nurse 19 Medical Minute 19 Pastor Messages: Diane Christopher 1 Paul Phillips 2 Other Ar cles and Info: Calendar and Birthdays 10 Campus Ministry 5 Church Informa on 20 Crossroads Nogales 5 Grapevine Forum Notes 14 In Our Library 9 Milestones 8 News of Note (Music) 12 Noisy Offering 5 Peace and Jus ce Commi ee 6 Promoted to Glory 19 Remembering Pastor Larry 2 Seeking Ar sts 7 Seeking Reporters 7 Sermons for October 1 Session Notes 14 Thank You 2 Wendy’s Web 17

“Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.”

Ma hew 11:28 Presbyterian Disaster Assistance grief counselors came to us

immediately a er Pastor Larry’s death. They were suppor ve and helpful. They listened to our ini al shock, pain and suffering. We needed them and I, for one, am glad they were here.

One of the grief counselors explained to me that a er a natural disaster, usually 6, 7, or 8 weeks into the recovery, PDA goes in and offers a retreat on spirituality of life. The retreat is designed to help the caregivers, who by now are ge ng really red and burned out, pay a en on to their personal needs. It is a reminder of the need to replenish and renew their strength and purpose.

PDA teaches three cri cal areas of spirituality in life: Sense of Purpose Sense of Connectedness Sense of Awe

There are three ques ons I have been asked repeatedly by PDA as we move forward at VPC. I share them with you as a way to check in with yourself, process the grief, and begin to look at the spiritual prac ces you may be doing at this me.

Sense of Purpose – We all want this in our life. God created us unique and having different gi s. God calls us to be something special within his kingdom. Do you have a sense of purpose in your life?

Sense of Connectedness – A spiritual life is a life in rela onship; with God and with others. Rela onships are vital and important ways we stay connected to one another. Do you feel a sense of connectedness in your life?

Sense of Awe – This is the one area we usually forget. PDA recommends walking; taking a “Walk of Gra tude” and making mental notes of all the things around you that you are grateful for. It is a way to look at the world and know that God, in his infinite wisdom, is here to support those of us who are weary and carrying heavy burdens. Do you have a sense of awe about God’s presence in the world? God has not abandoned us. We are not alone. Praise God!

The peace of Christ be with you,

Rev. Paul Phillips, Pastor of Care

Spiritual Replenishment

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Remembering Pastor Larry What do you say about a pastor who was known for his colorful socks and es? How about his loud, enthusias c singing voice? Or, his love for his family? For his country? The Church? The Bible? For God? Larry DeLong was passionate, scholarly, faithful, responsible, gi ed, selfless and kind, crea ve and whimsical. He was full of evoca ve ideas and had a mind that was always thinking wonderful and deep theological thoughts.

He loved this church and its people. He li ed up his associates and called them friends. He did not call himself “senior pastor,” but simply “pastor.” He did not call his colleagues “associate pastors,” but simply “pastor.” He made sure they were honored and valued in this church.

Larry walked alongside people of this church. He visited the sick, sat by the bedside of the dying, made many phone calls, and visited people in their homes.

Larry’s love for God and his great desire to serve God to the fullest was evident in all that he did. His faith was strong and sure, and made sure ours was, too. He was devoted to the Bible, o en stopping one of us to share a special gem from scripture that touched his heart. His scholarly mind went in so many direc ons that at mes, we must admit, we couldn’t follow. But it didn’t ma er, he was happy in that new thought about God.

A er Larry died, one of our members had a dream about him. Some people were in one of our classrooms discussing how to hang a poster about a Bible Study on a wall. Tape could ruin the paint job; tacks would put

holes in the wall. As they debated the issue, they heard Larry coming down the hall, whistling. He stopped in the classroom, noted what they were doing and said, “It’s not about the wall; it’s about the message on the poster.” This is what Larry taught us. It’s all about God!

We will miss you, Pastor Larry.

All our love,

The Congrega on of Valley Presbyterian Church

Valerie, Sadie, and Seth want to personally thank everyone for flowers, cards, food, and gi s. The feeling of remembrance of Larry is heartwarming to us all. Thank you for being so suppor ve of us at such a horrible

me. Also, we want the congrega on to know that the help that we received from our personal friends, most

of whom are members of the congrega on, was immediate and constant. Valley Presbyterian Church has certainly brought valuable people into our lives.

The local Presbytery Execu ve and pastors of the Presbytery, as well as the na onal Presbyterian Church have been showing, and con nue to show, support to us as well (as they have our congrega on). More than ever, we appreciate the connec on we have to the greater church.


Sunday Morning Adult Bible Study

Sundays at 8:45 a.m. in Classroom 5

The Sovereignty Nature of Jesus

As Americans we pride ourselves on being independent. As self-made men and women, we strive to achieve greatness based on our own hard work and talents. We reject the idea that we “have to” follow the dictates of any king or emperor. Yet, as Chris ans, we willingly and joyfully choose to follow the dictates of God through the teachings of Scriptures and the life of Jesus.

This month the Adult Sunday Bible Class will focus on the book of Hebrews and how it’s author upholds Jesus as both the great High Priest and the perfect person of faith. The class meets every Sunday morning at 8:45 and is done in me to join worship. All are welcome! Come, enjoy, learn, and grow in your Bible knowledge and faith with a caring group of people who travel with you.

Men’s Weekday Bible Studies Tuesdays at 8:00 a.m.

Wednesdays at 9:00 a.m.

Two church-sponsored men’s groups mee ng during the week would be glad

to have you join them! The first one meets on Tuesday mornings at 8 a.m. They are currently discussing the Warren Wiersbe series of books on Colossians. A group of six to twelve men meet at the Old Chicago Deli in the Green Valley Mall for one hour. The group meets for fellowship, food, study and an all-around lively discussion. Dave Tompkins is the leader (399-3500).

The second group, with about seven to thirteen men a ending each week, meets Wednesday mornings at 9 a.m. This group meets at the church for one hour in classroom 1. The group is facilitated by Larry Phillips (777-8027), but focuses on group discussion. They are studying Proverbs using the NavPress Life Change Series study guide. Join the group any me to par cipate in the discussion or just to listen. In either case, your presence will be welcomed. Lessons are self-contained so feel free to join the group when able.

The Journey: Walking the Road to Bethlehem Coming in Advent

We know it is a bit early to think about Advent, but we are looking forward to this All-Church Event that begins the end of November. For five weeks in Advent, as a whole congrega on we will follow the footsteps of Mary and Joseph as they travel from Nazareth to Bethlehem, thereby gaining insight into our own journeys with Christ.

You will have an opportunity to study with others in small groups or in a class, read a devo onal, and then hear a sermon on what you have studied. We believe this opportunity to come together as a whole Body of Christ will be healing for our hearts, souls and mind. Sign-ups begin Sunday, October 23. Check the November Valley Voice for more details.


Noisy Offering Sunday, October 30th is a Noisy Offering Sunday. The Mission Commi ee has designated Presbyterian Campus Ministry to receive this offering. Save your loose coins, but remember that bills make a larger noise.

A Place to Play and Learn Doris Steffy, Casa Sponsor

Breakfast on November 12, 8:30 a.m. in Fellowship Hall

Remember your elementary playground with teeter-to ers, a merry-go-round and an un-scary slide? The whole concept of playgrounds has changed as much as from typewriter to computer.

Casa Community Services is building an outdoor classroom for Los Niños del Valle Preschool. Children ages 2 - 5 will learn and experience nature through climbing, digging, pain ng, gardening, swinging and exploring.

To contribute to the success of this dream, the Mission Commi ee will sponsor a breakfast at 8:30 a.m. on November 12 at VPC with Bill McCreery, Director of Casa as our enthusias c speaker. Please join us for a terrific breakfast and a good me.

Our Ministry with Crossroads Nogales Mission

The July 31 Noisy Offering totaled $589.04. Thank you all for your summer support of Crossroads Nogales Mission.

Ben and Bert Wenke, directors of Crossroads, always men on what a blessing VPC is to their ministry. They ask that we pray for the staff and the Mission because of a large decline in summer dona ons.

Food dona ons are accepted the second and third week of each month and can be placed in the Crossroads Container near the Food Bank collec on cart.

PANTRY NEEDS:

Canned Fruit and Vegetables Pasta Powdered Milk Sugar Rice Canned Beans Jelly Peanut Bu er Tomato Sauce

Thank you!

Mission Commi ee Contact: Janice Po er (520) 505-9944.

Campus Ministry The Presbyterian Campus Ministry at the U of A is in need of a Board member. Mee ngs are monthly and the term is for three years. Someone with a financial background would be par cularly beneficial to the Board’s needs. If you would be interested in this opportunity, contact George Cur s at 520 625-2394 or leave a message at the church office.


Mission Quilts First, Third and Fifth Mondays through the third Monday in May, 9:00 a.m.-2:00 p.m.

Mission Quilters need hands of all sizes and shapes:

God has richly blessed the mission quil ng ministry with dona ons of fabric, dona ons of warm thick ba ng for bunk bed quilts, and a dona on and budget to buy so , lightweight ba ng for infants. God is coun ng on you to be the hands to put it all together to bless another human being. No ma er how down in life people may get, Jesus’ love can shine through a s tched gi from a stranger.

What we are short on are “hands, hands, and hands.”

Please come help us.

Any ques ons, call Pa Bright 305-3275

Valley Readers Monday, October 24

1:30 p.m. in Classroom 5

Our discussion leader for our October mee ng will be our own Pastor Paul! He will lead us in a discussion of the mystery WICKED AUTUMN: A MAX TUDOR NOVEL by Agatha Award-winning author, G.M. Malliet.

What could be more dangerous than cozy village life in the English countryside?

Mr. Tudor has adapted well to his post as vicar of St. Edwold’s in the idyllic village of Nether Monkslip.

The quiet village seems the perfect home for Max, who has fled a harrowing past as an MI5 agent. Now he has found a measure of peace among urban escapees, yoga prac oners, ar sts, cra ers and New Agers. But this new-found serenity is quickly sha ered when the highly vocal and unpopular president of the Women’s Ins tute turns up dead at the Harvest Fayre. The death looks like an accident, but Max’s training as a former agent kicks in, and before long he suspects foul play.

Join us for a lively discussion. If you have ques ons, please call Anne Morrison at 399-0762.

Learning to Use Facebook October 13 at Noon in Classroom 5

You may have been avoiding it, but it’s me! Join us for a 1-2 hour class exclusively to help you get started with Facebook. You’ll learn how to create an account, add friends, like pages, send messages, and post comments, pictures and even videos. We’ll also talk about privacy se ngs so you only share what you want with who you want.

The Peace and Justice Resource Committee of

Valley Presbyterian: Would like to remind everyone of their civic duty to VOTE in November. These are troubled mes and it is impera ve we prayerfully consider who will best serve our country in the coming years.


Movie Ministry Tuesday, October 25 1:30 p.m. in the SLC

SHOWING: Selma

The fourth Tuesday 1:30 movies at VPC con nues on Tuesday, October 25th, in the Spiritual Life Center showing the film: Selma. From the Oscar winning producers of 12 Years a Slave and acclaimed director Ava DuVernay comes the true story of courage and hope that changed the world forever. Golden Globe nominee David Oyelowe shines as Dr. Mar n Luther King, Jr., who rallied his followers on the historic march from Selma in Montgomery in the face of violent opposi on, an event that became a milestone victory for the civil rights movement. Also starring Oscar Nominees Oprah Winfrey and Tom Wilkinson, this movie is the landmark achievement that cri cs call “one of the most powerful films of the [decade].”

Bring a friend and enjoy popcorn and drinks as you watch this powerful film .

Patio Sale Help Wanted Pa o Sale Sorts: 2016 - October 13, November 10, and December 8. 2017 - January 12, February 16 and April 13.

Christmas Sale: Setup Nov 2 & 3, and Sale on Nov 4 & 5.

The mes are the same as last year for sor ng as well as for the Christmas Sale.

Seeking Budding Reporters Have you ever had a conversa on with a fellow VPC Presbyterian and been shocked to learn something really interes ng about them? We think VPC is full of people with interes ng pasts, and interes ng

stories to tell. If you are the kind of person who likes to talk to people, and one who might enjoy wri ng brief ar cles for the Valley Voice, please contact Wendy at the church office, or email her at [email protected].

If we can find someone to write these brief ar cles we’ll also be looking for ps from our congrega on. Who do you know that we should be talking to? Do you have an interes ng story to share? Keep your ears open, talk to people you don’t know well, and let’s all get to know each other a li le bit be er, and appreciate the fascina ng histories that exist in our sanctuary walls each Sunday.

Are You an Artist? If you would be interested in showing your art in the VPC Gallery during the next winter season, please contact Carla in the church office to discuss details.


Women’s Ministries Submitted by Gee-Gee Smith, WM Moderator

And we are off and running. October is a very busy month for Women’s Ministries. On October 1, we will be hos ng a Prebytery Cluster Gathering with Southside, Papago United of Sells, and the Holy Way Presbyterian Churches. We will meet from 11 a.m. - 1 p.m., including lunch. Come and meet women from neighboring churches and find out who, from our sister churches, will receive the scholarship to the Triennial Synod Retreat.

The October Women’s Gathering luncheon will be on Tuesday, October 18 at 11:30 a.m. Reserva on can be made at the Women’s Ministries Table on October 9 and 16, a er the Sunday morning service. Ruth and La Posada Circles will do set-up, pla ng and clean-up. We con nue to follow the Yada Yada Prayer Group as they Get Down. The major theme of this book is racial healing, and our guest speaker is Martha Wills. Her son, The Rev William O. Wills, Jr., began an annual conference in 1987 to bring racial and cultural unity to Tucson area churches. A er his un mely death, his parents, now in their 80’s, have con nued his works through the Racial Reconcilia on Community Outreach Network. Mary will be sharing their work with us. The Yada Yada Discussion group will con nue with Book Two a er the luncheon, at 1 p.m.

The last weekend in October, Friday, October 28 at 4 p.m. – Sunday, October 30 at 1 p.m., many of us will be traveling to Sco sdale, AZ for the Triennial Presbyterian Women’s Synod Gathering at the Franciscan Retreat Center. Brochures and registra on forms are on the Women’s Ministries table and will be at the Luncheon. We would love to have you join us.

Just a reminder: We are s ll collec ng Box Tops for Educa on. The box tops will be given to Casa Community Services’ Los Niños del Valle Preschool/Child Care and Con nental Schools. Box tops can be dropped off at the Women’s Ministries table any Sunday a er church.

And, we are s ll collec ng dona ons of aluminum flip-tops from cans for the Ronald McDonald House. The li le wooden house will s ll be out to collect the flip tops and any dona ons of money.

Our Circles will be star ng this month. If you have not yet joined a Circle for monthly Bible study and fellowship, check the days and groups available at the Women’s Ministry table in Fellowship Hall a er service, and sign up now!

Blessings as we enjoy the cooler temps and beau ful sunshine of October.

SPECIAL OCTOBER MILESTONES! Special birthday gree ngs to Mack Chesnover

as he celebrates his 90th birthday this month!


Exploring Membership Class - Two Classes Available! Evening Class

Tuesdays: November 1 and 8, 6 - 8 p.m. Wednesday: November 16, 6 - 7:30 p.m.

Day Class (mostly) Thursdays: November 3 and 10, 1 - 4 p.m.

Wednesday Evening: November 16, 6 - 7:30 p.m.

Do you want to learn more about Valley Presbyterian? Are you wondering how you can be more involved? Perhaps, you are thinking about becoming a member. The Exploring Membership Class is designed to answer your ques ons and take you through the steps toward membership.

In this 3-day class, you will explore the wonderful reasons to join a church, and what it means to be Presbyterian. You will discover all the different service opportuni es this church has to offer. You will meet the pastors and leaders, and many others who give their me and talents to serve Christ through Valley Presbyterian.

To register or ask ques ons, contact Diane Christopher at the church (625-5023).

In Our Library At the June Stephen Ministry mee ng, Helen Phillips gave reviews of the books she purchased with the gi card from the Stephen Leaders on her “re rement” from Coordinator. Following in the tradi on that was started of giving a book to the library when a leader re res, Helen will be dona ng the following books to our library:

Love, Laughter and Mayhem by Cindy Keith, RN, BS - an excellent guide for caregivers of Alzheimer’s pa ents with prac cal ps in many situa ons, wri en with humor. (616.83 KEI)

Complica ons by Atul Gawande, author of Being Mortal - a look at the uncertain es in medical decisions, the mysteries we don’t understand, mistakes doctors make, and ethical decision making.(617 G24)

Inside the O’Briens by Lisa Genova, author of S ll Alice - a novel about a family reac ng to the diagnosis of Hun ngton’s Disease in the father and the children’s’ ethical decisions about being tested themselves. (FIC G28)

The Pursuit of Holiness (248.4 BRI) and Respectable Sins (242 BRI) by Jerry Bridges - two books that look at how we fulfill the command to “Be ye holy for I am Holy” and the respectable small sins that are hard to iden fy and overcome in our lives like selfishness, pride, anger, envy, etc.

Precious Lord, Take my Hand by Shelly Beach - a devo onal wri en for caregivers of any kind from her own experiences dealing with personal health issues, children problems, caring for spouses and aging parents—full of humor and poignancy. Highly recommended. (242 BEA)


Sun Mon Tue Wed

2 Communion Food Bank Collection WORLD COMMUNION SUNDAY 8:15 Choir Rehearsal 8:45 Adult Bible Study 9:00 Worship at LaJoya 9:15 Childcare 9:30 Service of Worship 10:30 Mitzvah Pre-Registration Barbara Bentley, Charlene Brandt-Nielsen

3 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 9:00 Mission Quilting 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 10:00 AAUW Board Meeting 2:30 Tai Chi Barbara Eidson, Muriel Wagner

4 8:00 Men's Bible Study Group 8:30 WM Coordinating Team 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 9:30 Prayer Ministry 10:00 WM Bible Study Leaders 11:00 NOC Leadership Team 1:00 Grief Discussion 2:00 Orff Angels 4:00 Kettle Dinner Committee Vera Anderson, Esther Grimsley, Carol Rude

5 9:00 Men's Bible 9:00 Parkinson's 10:00 Chair Exercise 1:00 Grief Recovery 5:00 The Source Georgie Eberhardt, Marti Long,

9 Just Coffee 8:15 Choir Rehearsal 8:45 Adult Bible Study 9:15 Childcare 9:30 Service of Worship 10:30 Mitzvah Pre-Registration Florence Johnson, Dee Mechem

10 COLUMBUS DAY 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 2:30 Tai Chi MaryAnn Campbell, Jim Eckels

11 8:00 Men's Bible Study Group 8:45 Mission Committee 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 9:30 Prayer Ministry 1:00 Grief discussion 2:00 Orff Angels 5:00 Harvest Festival Potluck &

Fellowship Judd Briggs, Meghan Erickson, Sandra Glazener, Lyle Hutchison

12 8:15 Crossroads 9:00 Men's Bible 9:00 Parkinson's 9:00 Faith Formation 9:30 Lois Circle 10:00 Chair Exercise 1:00 Grief Recovery 5:00 The Source - 6:00 Deacons Jeanne Carroll-Hoffman

16 8:15 Choir Rehearsal 8:45 Adult Bible Study 9:00 Worship at La Joya 9:15 Childcare 9:30 Service of Worship 10:30 Mitzvah Pre-Registration Roger Ermili, Kathy Gullen, Ray Esparza

17 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 9:00 Mission Quilting 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 5:00 Ruth Circle Jim Egly

18 8:00 Men's Bible Study Group 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 9:30 Prayer Ministry 11:30 WM Gathering Luncheon 1:00 Grief Diccusion 1:00 Yada Yada Group Book Discussion 2:00 Orff Angels Ed Duthaler, Diane Hartley, Ruth Hofferth, Judy Pember, Ron Vacek

19 8:15 Crossroads 9:00 Men's Bible 9:00 Parkinson's 10:00 Chair Exercise 1:00 Grief Recovery 5:00 The Source - 6:00 Session Pat Bruner

23 Just Coffee 8:15 Choir Rehearsal 8:45 Adult Bible Study 9:00 SM Continuing Education 9:15 Childcare 9:30 Service of Worship 10:30 Stephen Ministry Recruitment Gord Klouw, Pam Peake

24 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 10:00 Chair Exercise Class Ray Sayre, Jan Woerner

25 8:00 Men's Bible Study Group 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 9:00 Creative Hands Sewing & Knitting 9:30 Prayer Ministry 1:00 Grief discussion 1:30 Movie Ministry Del Harsh, Jeannie Longnecker

26 9:00 Men's Bible 9:00 Parkinson's 10:00 Chair Exercise 11:00 Peace & Justice 1:00 Grief Recovery 5:00 The Source - Mack Chesnover, Nancy Lammers

30 Operation Christmas Child REFORMATION SUNDAY 8:15 Choir Rehearsal 8:45 Adult Bible Study 9:00 Worship at La Joya 9:15 Childcare 9:30 Service of Worship Herb Andrews, Gail Barker, Herman Klap, Gail Seibert, Nancy Tompkins, Kathy Woodard, Karen Williams-Jordan

31 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 2:30 Tai Chi Phyllis Camp, Dick Chvala, Doug Clark

October 2016


Thu Fri Sat

1 10:00 Presbytery Cluster Meeting

6 8:30 Pastoral Care 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 1:00 Grief discussion 1:00 Alzheimer's Caregivers 2:30 Bells Practice 3:00 Communion for Silver Springs 3:45 Choir Rehearsal Jean Hein

7 CHURCH OFFICE CLOSES AT NOON 8:00 Grief Ministry 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 1:30 Inquisitors Class

8 Carmen Nylund, Tommy Thompson

13 8:00 Patio Sale Sorting & Marking 9:00 Faith & Health Committee Mtg 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 10:00 Unstress The Stress 12:00 Facebook Class 1:00 Grief Diccusion 2:30 Bells Practice 3:45 Choir Rehearsal Don Bont, Jim Callahan

14 CHURCH OFFICE CLOSES AT NOON 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 9:00 SM Continuing Education 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 10:00 Stephen Ministry Peer Group 11:00 Leaders Meeting 1:30 Inquisitors Class

15 Ruth Dunham, LaRue Haff Betty Weide, Van Williams

20 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 1:00 Grief discussion 1:00 Alzheimer's Caregivers 1:00 GV Genealogical Society 2:30 Bells Practice 3:45 Choir Rehearsal Char Anzalone, Barbara McDaniel

21 CHURCH OFFICE CLOSES AT NOON 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 10:00 Parkinson's Support Board 1:30 Inquisitors Class Kay Albrecht

22 Janice Potter

27 9:00 Parish Nurse In Office 10:00 Faith Formation Planning Team 1:00 Grief discussion 2:30 Bells Practice 3:45 Choir Rehearsal Dave Appleton

28 CHURCH OFFICE CLOSES AT NOON 9:00 Parkinson's Exercise 9:00 SM Continuing Education 10:00 Chair Exercise Class 10:00 Stephen Ministry Peer Group 11:00 Leaders Meeting 1:30 Inquisitors Class Tom Allen, Donna Denton, Sherry Harsh

29 Bill Coe, Virginia Crook, Russ Hartley, Jennet Parker

Study Group Exercise Class Workshop Taize Darwin Guinn, Mike Peake

Mission Lunch Prep Study Group Exercise Committee Class Workshop AWAKEN! Meeting

Mission Lunch Prep Study Group Exercise Class Workshop Hope & Healing Meeting

Study Group Exercise Class committee Workshop Old Time Hymn Sing Kitty Gnau,


The History of Christian Theology Continuing in October on Fridays at 1:30 p.m. in the Spiritual Life Center

The Inquisitors will con nue studying The History of Chris an Theology. All of us have been exposed to various por ons of Chris an theology, but our knowledge bases have gaping holes. Most of us come from varied Chris an tradi ons and now we worship together in our current se ng. We communicate regularly with other Chris ans of other denomina ons and yet we do not understand where each other are coming from. Join us as, with Professor Phillip Cary, we examine intriguing insights from a wide range of intellectual disciplines, including religion, history, and philosophy. Through this course, we will gain these benefits:

An understanding of the meaning of faith for today's Chris ans. The best way to understand one's own faith is to understand the faith of others. In this course, you explore how the differences among today's Chris ans first arose and why these differences ma ered so much to previous genera ons of believers that they have le their mark on Chris an life to this day.

A fascina ng overview of the history of the Chris an church. From the Nicene Council to the Reforma on to Va can II, this course highlights the major events of church history and provides a valuable and enlightening complement to other courses on Western history.

An apprecia on of the philosophical depth of Chris an thought. Professor Cary examines the intellectual rigor that underlies Chris an theology and explores the some mes frui ul, some mes conten ous rela onship between religion and philosophy. Through this course, you gain a deeper grasp of the role of Chris an theology within the larger intellectual history of the West.

Dr. Phillip Cary is a Professor of Philosophy at Eastern University in St. Davids, Pennsylvania, where he is also Scholar-in-Residence at the Templeton Honors College. He has also taught at Yale University, the University of Connec cut, and the University of Har ord. As a scholar, Professor Cary's specialty is the thought of Augus ne, but he has also published scholarly ar cles on Luther, the doctrine of the Trinity, and personal knowledge. This is just one of the Great Courses that Professor Cary has taught.

News of Note By Joel Pierce

Membership in the choir is always open! If you are interested in singing with the choir, I invite you to talk with me. I am available a er any Sunday service to go over the several opportuni es open to you in our music ministry here at Valley Presbyterian. Some of these opportuni es include musical offertories (audi oned), handbells, the Taize Singers, and the Old-Time Hymn Singers. So, if you feel called to offer your voice in the choir, or in another area of musical stewardship, please do not hesitate to contact me. You can also reach me via email: [email protected]. Hope to hear from you soon!


Grief Recovery Workshop Wednesdays: October 5, 12, 19, 26 and

November 2 from 1:00-3:00 p.m.

Some mes we are overwhelmed by feelings of grief – to the point where we just can’t get ourselves going again. The loss of a loved one can stop our forward momentum. Don’t be confused by your strong emo ons; you will survive, build a new life and find happiness!

When we lose a loved one, we grieve. The grieving process is normal and restora ve, yet we o en struggle in our grief. To help facilitate the grief process VPC offers the Grief Recovery Workshop.

Come, learn to heal and find hope in the Grief Recovery Workshop here at Valley Presbyterian Church in Classroom 5. Our next class will run five Wednesdays, October 5 through November 2, 1:00 p.m. - 3:00 p.m. Workshop facilitators will be Pastor Paul Phillips and Jeannie North, BSN, MC Bereavement counselor for 20 years.

The purpose of this workshop is to help par cipants:

· Understand the grief process involved a er a significant loss. · Recognize the unique pain and feelings triggered by their loss. · Reintegrate their lives as they heal and learn to cope.

If you or a friend have recently lost a loved one, are struggling with lingering grief issues, or have found difficulty in moving forward, come and join us. There is no charge, but par cipants need to pre-register with the church office (625-5023).

The Orff Angels Will Continue! The Orff Angels, founded and inspired by Kay Albrecht, will con nue on Tuesday a ernoons at 3:30 p.m. in the Sweet Family Room, beginning October 11. Joan Bell Dakin will lead and teach.

Who are the Orff Angels and what do we do? We are a group of musicians and non-musicians singing, drumming, and playing pitched and non-pitched instruments. We explore rhythms, melodies, and harmonies through ac ve par cipa on. The main body of instruments is made up of xylophones and metallophones, which are barred melodic instruments similar to marimbas. They are easy and fun to play! No experience is necessary – nor do you need to read music. You just need a desire to learn, to play, and to be open to a non-tradi onal way of making music. Go to Valley Presbyterian’s website to hear our music and to see pictures of the instruments.

You can contact Joan at [email protected], or call 520-625-9374.

Grief Discussion Groups Tuesdays and Thursdays from 1:00-2:00 p.m. in Classroom 3

VPC is offering a place to share your grief surrounding Pastor Larry’s death. Facilitators will include your Pastors, the Parish Nurse, and trained Grief Facilitators. Come to one or more sessions.


We Heard it at the Grapevine About 100 persons gathered in the sanctuary to ask ques ons on Wednesday morning, September 21, to make comments and learn more about what’s going on at VPC. The two major areas of discussion were 1) addressing rumors and 2) our next steps.

Almost all rumors presented were false, and we discussed ways to respond to them and stop them.

The Presbytery will pay for a professional counselor to be at the church – one with a stronger skillset in counseling than our pastors (who are also grieving). This person will be available to meet with members at no charge.

At the Pastors’ request we will hire a temporary, part- me Execu ve Pastor to help in the coming few months. Diane and Paul will share the preaching.

No permanent changes to our pastoral staff will be considered un l we are much further along – definitely not before the new year. The Administra ve Commission from Presbytery will con nue to walk by our side, possibly for up to a year, providing advice, encouragement and support.

The termina on of Kay Albrecht as our Director of Music was a Session decision upon the recommenda on of our Personnel Commi ee.

A member from the congrega onal financial review team affirmed that the church’s financial posi on is strong. We have solid accoun ng procedures in place.

We are a grieving community. Pa ence is needed as we accept each other’s anger, fear, disbelief or hopelessness. Together, let us be the body of Christ, doing the best we can with the help of God.

Session Notes The leadership retreat for elders and deacons will be Thursday, October 13, beginning with dinner at 5:00 p.m. Rev. Rachel Srubas will lead a workshop on Building Rela onships: Self-Care and Healthy Rela onships.

A temporary, part- me Execu ve Pastor posi on was approved by Session. This posi on has been created to assist the two Associate Pastors in mee ng the Administra ve ministry needs in the near-term (4-5 months). The descrip on of this posi on follows:

Serve as pastoral support in the areas of personnel, budget and finance, stewardship, building and grounds.

Resource the commi ees involved in those areas. Provide pastoral care for staff, lay and clergy. Coordinate internal office tasks with the Associate Pastors. Serve as a relief and a resource for the Associate Pastors, administra vely Coordinate session reports, documents, and agendas for the co-moderators, in consulta on with the

Clerk of Session. Oversee the training of recently installed elders and deacons. Other du es as assigned by the Associate Pastors in consulta on with the Administra ve Commission

and the Personnel Commi ee. This posi on will have no involvement in worship leadership.

A mo on was approved from the Mission Commi ee to raise funds for an outdoor classroom (Art and Paint Sta on) for Los Niños del Valle Preschool, part of Casa Community Services. (con nued on next page)


Stephen Ministers Training

Begins January 6, 2017

Stephen Ministers are caring, loving, and healing. We care about each other; we share the love of Jesus Christ with our care receivers; and we are instruments for God to heal our souls and spirits.

When was the last me someone really listened to you? We’re talking about the undistracted, full-a en on kind of listening. That’s one of the ways Stephen Ministers care for others. Stephen Ministers care for those who are making that long journey through the valley of a life crisis.

If God is calling you to this kind of caring ministry, please contact Pa Bright, Recrui ng Chairman (520-305-3275), or any of our Stephen Leaders.

Session Notes - continued A mo on was approved to establish the Larry DeLong Memorial Scholarship Fund under the administra on of the scholarship commi ee.

Annie S reviewed the budget process with Session, which, will be ongoing over the next few months.

Presbyterian Disaster Assistance Resilience Program for staff, elders, and deacons will be the week a er Thanksgiving. No further details are available at this me.

Deacon representa ve, Lee Ann Calhoun, a ended the mee ng and handed out a sign-up for communion servers.

Mike Yoder has resigned as an Elder.


MAKE DISCIPLES AROUND THE WORLD

Yes, it’s that me of year again – the me when we begin to think about Christmas. Many of you are already thinking about the Opera on Christmas Child shoebox to fill with li le presents for a needy child in some part of the world. The Tucson collec on center for Opera on Christmas Child collected 14,784 shoeboxes last November. WOW!!

For the past thirteen years, VPC has generously par cipated in Opera on Christmas Child. The shoeboxes contain not only gi s for children throughout the world, but they also contain a booklet en tled The Greatest Journey. That booklet introduces children to Jesus Christ and invites them to return for a 12-week Bible Study. Samaritan’s Purse has already trained over 144,000 teachers around the world to lead these classes. These lessons are provided in over 70 languages. You can par cipate in this wonderful project by remembering the following dates.

THREE IMPORTANT DATES COMING SOON!

Sunday, October 30: pick up your shoebox

Sunday, November 6: pick up your shoebox or return the one you picked up on October 30

Sunday, November 13: return shoeboxes

ALL SHOEBOXES MUST BE RETURNED BY SUNDAY, NOVEMBER 13. For further informa on, contact Janice Po er at 505-9944.

THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING –

AND THAT MEANS THE HOLIDAY PATIO SALE! Friday, November 4, from 8:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

Saturday, November 5, from 8:00 a.m. to 1:00 p.m.

Soon the holidays will be here, so now is the me to go through those items you store for Thanksgiving and Christmas to see if you have anything that is s ll in good shape, but is something you don’t use anymore. Bring it to the church to donate to our Holiday Pa o Sale that will be held on November 4 & 5 in Fellowship Hall. We accept holiday-decorated dishes and glassware, holiday linens, wreathes, trees, tree decora ons and lights, outdoor decora ons, wrapping papers and ribbons – most anything associated with the holidays.

Volunteer Bakers Needed! We will also be selling holiday cookies, bars, candy and breads at the sale, so please consider suppor ng the sale by making something delicious that we can sell. Next month’s Valley Voice will contain more informa on about when goodies should be delivered to the church. Anne Morrison and Lois Macfarlane will be overseeing this part of the sale.

Holiday Sale Volunteers Needed! Of course, the sale cannot succeed without volunteers to help set up, staff the tables, and cashier during the sale. Put the dates on your calendar right now, and then either leave your name at the office or contact Sam Eidson (393-7694, Eloise Fredrickson (648-7317), or Chris Schorr (591-6088).


In the wake of our recent tragedy there was a sudden burst of people subscribing to

our E-blast and newsle er, which only makes sense. Communica on, in whatever form, is a way for us to be together in a difficult me. Remember, though, that the E-Blast only comes out once a week, and of course this newsle er only comes out once a month. For up-to-the-minute informa on from our church, you might want to “like” the VPC Facebook page. Not only does Facebook allow you get the latest news from the church, but this past month it has been a place for people to come together and share memories and send each other messages of love and hope. Beau ful stories about Pastor Larry can be found under the original post about his passing on our Facebook page, and the photo to the right, taken this monsoon season by our own Bob Campbell, and including the comments received on Facebook, shows how people can find comfort and hope there as well. You can get to our Facebook page by going to our website, www.valleypresbyterian.net, and clicking on the “f” in the very upper right corner of the page, next to our mailing address.

Many members of our church are already on Facebook, but I know there are a lot of you who are holding out, maybe because you don’t want to take the me to learn how. If you are the least bit tempted to try it, please come to the church at noon on Thursday, October 13, In classroom 5, where I will be teaching a class called “Learning to use Facebook”. I’ll help you set up a Facebook account, and teach you how to add friends, like pages, send messages, and post comments, pictures and even videos. By the end of class you will know all the basics, and you’ll all be able to see the latest news from the church!


Grief By Parish Nurse, Chris Erickson

Grief, where are we? When someone throws a whole bucket of balls into the air, they come down to the ground bouncing all at different levels. That’s the picture I can see when I think of grief, people at all different levels of grief, different levels of emo ons, and it’s not all the same for everyone. It can come in waves, as the picture resembles.

Pastor Paul talks about three cri cal areas of spirituality: Values and plans, rela onships, and taking in what is around us. These are also very important in grief. Be present as a friend to listen and to talk about grief in a support group at VPC or at the group discussions on Tuesday or Thursdays, walk outside and just enjoy what you see, or exercise. Find a sense of purpose. These are some of the things we can do right here at VPC to enhance our spirituality.

Here are some resources to be aware of in our community:

Survivors of Suicide Tucson 520-323-8660

Na onal Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI of S.AZ) 520-622-5582

(educa on, advocacy and support to those affected by mental illness)

Renewal Centers counseling 520-791-9974

Casa Community Services (Behavioral Health/counseling) 520-393-6839

I always remember the words Jerry Lewis said and sang on his Labor Day telethon, “Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart and you’ll never walk alone.” This is so true. God is always with us and even in the difficult mes his feet are seen not beside ours but the only ones in the sand as He is always carrying us through.

Free Counseling Services Available In the past weeks since Larry’s death, your pastors have discovered that we are not trained to handle some of the issues that have come up in our church members’ lives. As a result, our Presbytery has extended to us a grant that allows us to hire professional counselors to come and be with us for a limited me period. Brad Munroe, the Presbytery’s pastor to the pastors, has suggested Jewish Family and Children Services (JFCS) from Tucson. Their therapists are licensed, expert and compassionate, and the counseling sessions are free to you (up to two sessions).

Here are the schedules of the two counselors who will be with us:

Sept 28 10 a.m. – 12 p.m. Oct 5 10 a.m. – 12 p.m. Sept 30 9 a.m. – 11 a.m. Oct 7 9 a.m. – 11 a.m.

Please make an appointment. You can make an appointment in one of two ways: By emailing [email protected], or by calling 520-795-0300 (the office of JFCS).

When you contact JFCS, iden fy yourself with this church. This is open to church members, regular a endees, and staff.

We pray this will be of help to you as we con nue to grieve and heal.


Promoted to Glory

August 26 Rev. Larry DeLong September 10 Carol Grimes September 13 Clifford Sco September 16 Pearl L. Clarke September 21 Gloria Coppock

Faith & Health Health Related Ac vi es Unstress The Stress will meet next in October. Each mee ng will be new informa on on stress and an ac vity. Instructors are Pastor Paul and Chris Erickson, Parish Nurse.

Blood Pressure Screenings You may have your blood pressure taken during the week on Tuesdays and Thursdays, from 9 to 11 a.m., with the Parish Nurse.

Alzheimer’s Support & Educa on at VPC The Alzheimer’s support group con nues to meet on the first and third Thursdays of each month, from 1:00 - 2:30 p.m., in the Sweet Family Room. The early stage Alzheimer’s support group resumes mee ng at the same me in classroom 1. These support groups help us to share our feelings and concerns, and receive informa on. For more informa on, or to register, contact the Alzheimer’s Associa on at (520) 322-6601.

Movement & Exercise

Chair Exercise classes are on Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays 10 - 11 a.m. There is a fee. For more informa on, contact instructor Mia Cooper at 204-5264.

Tai Chi – Yang 24 for Arthri s and Fall Preven on classes are on Mondays at 2:30 p.m. There is a fee. For more informa on, contact instructor Roger Ederle at 399-0166. This is the Tai Chi program developed by Dr. Paul Lam to help those with arthri s, poor balance and other medical issues that might lead to unsteadiness in stance or posture.

Parkinson’s Support/Exercise meets Mondays, Wednesdays, and Fridays, 9 - 10 a.m.

Healing Soup Meal Please contact the church office or Chris Erickson, Parish Nurse, if you know of someone who may be in need of this meal.

Coming Soon with a demonstra on in October and star ng in November: A fun Exercise class once a week: A class that works on stress, cardio, and just may improve your balance. Look for further informa on in the bulle n and on the website. It will get your toes tapping.

October Medical Minute In the US, there are 2.8 million women with a history of breast cancer. Women born today have a one in eight chance of being diagnosed with breast cancer in their life me. (Na onal Cancer Ins tute, and American Cancer Society)


The Source Wednesdays, 5:00 p.m.

Spiritual Life Center Oct 5 Taizé Oct 12 AWAKEN! Oct 19 Healing & Hope Oct 26 Old- me Hymn Sing

Valley Presbyterian Church 2800 S Camino Del Sol Green Valley, AZ 85622

(520) 625-5023 www.valleypresbyterian.net

is a member of Presbytery de Cristo in The Synod of the Southwest, Presbyterian Church (U.S.A.)

Pastoral Staff Rev. Diane Christopher, Pastor

of Discipleship Rev. Paul Phillips, Pastor of Care

Rev. Joe Hawkins, Pastor Emeritus

Mission Statement To know Christ and make Him known

through word and deed.

Join Us In Worship! Sunday Worship Services

Traditional 9:30 a.m. (Childcare provided at 9:15 a.m.)

Holy Communion Celebrated 1st Sunday each month

The Source Wednesday Worship Service

5:00 p.m.

La Joya - La Posada First, third & fi h Sundays at 9:00 a.m.

Calling all Stephen Ministers! On Stephen Ministry Sunday, October 23, we will be celebra ng the 20th anniversary of Stephen Ministry at Valley Presbyterian Church. We would like to honor all Stephen Ministers - past and present - during the service. Come and be sure to wear your Stephen

Ministry badge, even if you are not currently ac ve. Once a Stephen Minister, always a Stephen Minister.

Friday, Nov. 4 8 a.m .to 1 p.m.

Saturday, Nov. 5 8 a.m. to 1 p.m.

All net proceeds support missions

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October 2016 Valley Voice rev - Valley Presbyterian Church · The Journey: Walking the Road to Bethlehem Coming in Advent We know it is a bit early to think about Advent, but we are