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Contents INTRODUCTION ..................................................................................................................................5
Section I: The Overview ...................................................................................................................5
Section II: The Formula....................................................................................................................5
Section III: The Solution ...................................................................................................................6
SECTION 1 NUMEROLOGY : THE OVERVIEW ...............................................................................................7
Modern Numerology..................................................................................................................... 11
How does it work? ........................................................................................................................ 12
How is this done?.......................................................................................................................... 12
SECTION 2 The Formula .................................................................................................................... 14
Developing the Brain..................................................................................................................... 28
Through Auto Suggestion! ............................................................................................................. 35
First .......................................................................................................................................... 38
Second ..................................................................................................................................... 38
Third ........................................................................................................................................ 38
Fourth ...................................................................................................................................... 38
Fifth ......................................................................................................................................... 38
Auto Suggestion............................................................................................................................ 39
Figuring out your own life number: The numerology in your birth date. ........................................... 45
Number One ............................................................................................................................. 46
Two .......................................................................................................................................... 47
Three........................................................................................................................................ 49
Number Four ............................................................................................................................ 49
Five .......................................................................................................................................... 50
Six ............................................................................................................................................ 51
Sevens ...................................................................................................................................... 53
Eights ....................................................................................................................................... 54
Nine ......................................................................................................................................... 55
Eleven ...................................................................................................................................... 56
Number 22 ............................................................................................................................... 57
33............................................................................................................................................. 58
Life Challenge Number .................................................................................................................. 59
The 0 Challenge Number ............................................................................................................... 61
Personal Year................................................................................................................................ 61
Year 1 ....................................................................................................................................... 65
Year 2 ....................................................................................................................................... 66
Year 3 ....................................................................................................................................... 66
Year 4 ....................................................................................................................................... 67
Year 5 ....................................................................................................................................... 67
Year 6 ....................................................................................................................................... 68
Year 7 ....................................................................................................................................... 68
Year 8 ....................................................................................................................................... 68
Year 9 ....................................................................................................................................... 69
Universal Day numbers. The lessons and outcomes that are inherent in each day............................. 72
Day 1 ........................................................................................................................................ 72
Day 2 ........................................................................................................................................ 72
Day 3 ........................................................................................................................................ 72
Day 4 ........................................................................................................................................ 73
Day 5 ........................................................................................................................................ 73
Day 6 ........................................................................................................................................ 73
Day 7 ........................................................................................................................................ 74
Day 8 ........................................................................................................................................ 74
Day 9 ........................................................................................................................................ 74
Day 11 ...................................................................................................................................... 75
Day 22 ...................................................................................................................................... 75
Day 33 ...................................................................................................................................... 75
Personal Day numbers – The personal contribution toward the daily lessons and outcomes ............. 76
Day 1 ........................................................................................................................................ 77
Day 2 ........................................................................................................................................ 77
Day 3 ........................................................................................................................................ 77
Day 4 ........................................................................................................................................ 77
Day 5 ........................................................................................................................................ 77
Day 6 ........................................................................................................................................ 78
Day 7 ........................................................................................................................................ 78
Day 8 ........................................................................................................................................ 78
Day 9 ........................................................................................................................................ 78
Day 11 ...................................................................................................................................... 78
Day 22 ...................................................................................................................................... 79
Day 33 ...................................................................................................................................... 79
Other significant number .......................................................................................................... 79
Translating the alphabet into some numerology ........................................................................ 81
SECTION 3 The Solution .................................................................................................................... 93
Understanding a Negative Anchor.................................................................................................. 95
How a Negative Anchor Differs from a Negative Thought ................................................................ 98
Does Positive Thinking Work? ........................................................................................................ 99
Discovering the common trigger .................................................................................................. 100
Meditation ............................................................................................................................. 101
Exercise .................................................................................................................................. 103
The Mind ................................................................................................................................ 107
How to Deal with Negative Thoughts ........................................................................................... 108
Neuro Linguistic Programming ..................................................................................................... 112
Positive Thinking......................................................................................................................... 115
Health Benefits of Positive Thinking ............................................................................................. 116
How to Focus on Positive Thinking ............................................................................................... 118
Practicing Positive Thinking Everyday ........................................................................................... 120
Impacts of Negative Thoughts on the Brain .................................................................................. 122
The Power of Positive Thoughts ................................................................................................... 124
Tips to Increase Your Positive Thinking Level ................................................................................ 127
Happiness versus Success ............................................................................................................ 129
Maintaining Positive Thoughts..................................................................................................... 130
10 Day Plan ................................................................................................................................ 134
CONCLUSION.................................................................................................................................. 137
INTRODUCTION
This eBook covers everything you have wanted to know about
numerology. Giving you the tools you need to understand and
succeed, this eBook will answer your questions. It is broken down
into three sections.
Section I: The Overview
In this section you will be introduced to the history numerology.
You will learn about the connections between numerology and
ancient civilizations. You will be introduced to the connections
between numerology and the Bible. Finally you will skip to the
present and recognize what role numerology nowadays has to
play and answer the question: What Numerology Really Is?
Section II: The Formula
In this section you will be introduced formally to: Your brain –
the super computer. You will learn about the Neural Networks in
your brain and how thought creates reality. Psychological
Defense Mechanisms will be covered. You will figure out how
numerology works and what the meanings of numbers are. You
will learn about Pythagorean Numerology. You will be taught
how to calculate your numbers. You will learn things such as
your Birth day number, Birth name number, Life path number,
Expression number, and Soul Urge number. You will be taught
what your numbers reveals about you. You will also review other
numbers of significance: house numbers, telephone numbers and
find the numbers of the things you want.
Section III: The Solution
The third and final section will provide you with the solution. It
will teach you how to take control of your subconscious mind. It
will offer you step-by-step instructions for reprograming your
brain 10 days plan to get what you want.
SECTION 1 NUMEROLOGY: THE OVERVIEW
So what is numerology? Numerology is a belief that a special
relationship exists between numbers and events. It can be a belief
in the divine, a belief in the mystical, or a belief in any other form
of special relationship. Numerology is actually full of many
systems, as well as traditions, and beliefs. Numerological
divination by systems has been popular since the dawn of time,
used by many early mathematicians.
In modern times, numerology is associated alongside divinatory
arts and astrology.
In spite of a long history of these ideas being present, the term
“numerology” does not date back to any English recordings
before 1907. The term today of “numerologist” is placed upon
those who place their faith in numerical patterns and from these
patterns draw inferences about life. The term is even so popular
as to be used to describe those who supported the Elliot wave
principle with regard to their stock market analysis.
Modern numerology takes a lot from ancient cultures including
Babylonia and Pythagoras. It also takes from early Christian
mysticism, Kabbalah, and the early Gnostics. The Hindu Vedas,
as well as Egyptians, and Chinese all have books published about
the ideas associated with numerology.
Pythagoras and his philosophers thought that mathematical
concepts were an easier and more practical way to regulate and
classify things than physical concepts. They also believed they
held greater power. Pythagoras developed basic theorems for
modern mathematics, and organized the field of numerology
around 2600 years ago. It was St. Augustine of Hippo who wrote
that numbers were a universal language offered by a deity to
people, meant as confirmation of truth. Much like Pythagoras, he
believed that there are numerical relationships between
everything and it is up to the mind to look for the secrets that
these relationships have to reveal.
In the beginning of Christianity, many of the church fathers
commented on numerology. They repeatedly condemned the
system of numerology which had come from Babylonia sources,
Gnostic sources, and Pythagoreans. They considered these
interpretations to be exegesis. In the bible Irenaeus noted “666” as
the number of the beast. This number is derived from the
numerical value of the Greek letters of the Latin word “Lateinos”.
St. Ambrose explains explained that the seventh day is a good
day, but not because of the doctrine published by Pythagoras or
his philosophers, but because the prophet Isaias stated that the
principle gifts from the Holy Spirit were seven.
During the Council of Nicaea the ideas of numerology were cast
out, because anything that was not in favors with Christian
authorities and part of the state church beliefs were considered
violations against the Roman Empire. Astrology, too was cast out,
alongside other forms of “divination”. In spite of this, several
numbers were commented on and analyzed at the time within
conservative Greek Orthodox circles. The idea of numerology
remained a prominent subject in the literary discourse of Sir
Thomas Browne in 1658, who mentions the Quincunx pattern ad
its relation to the number five, which is found throughout botany
and art.
Modern Numerology
Numerology is a study of the symbol of numbers.
It gives you the entire picture, revealing diverse parts of yourself
and how they work in tandem to create who you are. With this
bigger picture, you can make the most out of your talents and
strengths.
In modern times it is used to determine an individual’s
personality, as well as their talents, inner needs, strengths,
obstacles, ways of handling other people, and emotional
reactions. Whether numerology is used to take advantage of
opportunities left unexplored, confirm your talents, examine
or life, or determine where you want to go next, it can be a
penetrating tool that allows you a more comprehensive
understanding of yourself and those you love.
How Does It Work?
Everything on this planet vibrates at a unique frequency. In fact,
everything in the universe does. By finding the rate at which an
object vibrates you can establish the energies and the qualities
associated with it. You can use a name and a birth date as your
most basic data and determine the frequencies of an individual.
You can calculate your numerological analysis to get information
on your character and your personality.
How Is This Done?
All numbers are reduced to a single digit that ranges between 1
and 9 except for the master numbers which are representative of
major vibration rates. You can get your number through simple
addition. Letters in the name of an individual can be converted to
numbers and then they are added together. By applying a
mathematical formula to the numbers that represent your name
and your birth date, you can derive four core elements as well as
two dozen modifiers on average. The symbolic evaluation of
these items will give you a complete analysis of your character.
An average of half your information is derived from your
name analysis and the other half from your birth date
analysis.
The Formula
Thoughts are incredibly powerful and can manifest into
something tangible so long as you truly desire it. A partner in a
law firm did not reach that point by only wanting to work for the
company. They reached that point by wanting to work with the
company. This desire to be made partner is what turned thought
into action, into something tangible: being made partner. That is
not to say that it is a simple process. It is not. Anyone who has
truly set their mind to a task can attest that it is a challenge to
avoid obstacles, to avoid getting distracted, or to avoid giving up.
It takes courage and perseverance and strength to turn thought
into something tangible.
That person who wants to make partner will be faced with
multiple challenges. They will be overloaded with work. They
will have to make sacrifices, sometimes picking work over a
personal goal now so that more goals can be achieved later. But
the thing that will keep the person working to make partner is
having a defined purpose. The defined purpose is working
effortlessly in order to turn the thought of being made partner
into a real promotion. Psychologists understand that someone
who truly dedicates their mind to something, puts everything
they have into achieving a goal, will do so. That headstrong
determination keeps someone going until they get what they
want.
Benjamin Franklin pursued his dreams in spite of having
dropped out of school when he was 10 years old. On his tenth
birthday he was told that his parents could no longer afford to
send him to school, so he opted to read voraciously and continue
teaching himself until he was able to invent the bifocals, the
lightening rod, and take his place as one of the Founding Fathers
of America.
Albert Einstein, contributing much as he did to the world, never
spoke until he was 4. Many people presumed him stupid because
of this. They thought he was lazy, and in school he never did well
and was told by his teachers that he would never make anything
of himself. Yet, with his “head in the clouds” , this genius was
able to think of abstract questions not previously asked, and then
in turn develop an answer to said questions. It was his “head in
the clouds” that thought up the theory of relativity.
This desire to turn thought into something real, turn a dream into
a reality, gives a person purpose. It gives them a goal to which
The person who wants to be made partner doesn’t give up
midway through and change careers. They don’t forget about
their dreams and stop trying. They focus all of their energy on
making that dream come true.
they should strive at all times. Bad days don’t get in the way.
Setbacks don’t seem so big. Nothing can stand in the way of
something who is making their dream come true.
How Does This Work? How Does A Dream Turn Into
Obsession Which Will Stop At Nothing? The Burning Desire
To Accomplish The Dream Is More Important Than
Anything. While Bad Days Or Setbacks Might Arise, The
Negativity Is Only Converted Into Good Stress, The Kind Of
Stress That Motivates A Student To Finish A Paper Before
The Encroaching Deadline.
There are many stories out there of people who have turned their
dreams into reality.
Take, for instance, the story of an individual
from a low income area, whose chances of getting out are slim. If
that person wants to get out of their neighborhood and go to
college, in order to make a life for his kids that is better than his,
he will do it. He may not have the money to go to college, but he
won’t let that get in his way. He will work hard at a minimum
wage job, for example, in order to come up with the money
needed. He will scrimp and save while going to school in order to
make the money needed for applications. He will better himself
academically so that he has a better chance of getting a
scholarship. He will take three buses, a train, and walk for miles
in order to complete an interview process. He will not let his lack
of extra-curricular activities set him back. He will simply explain
why he is more dedicated to the cause than anyone else, and why
he deserves the scholarship and admittance more.
Consider another lesson: a man and his wife want to retire early
and live comfortably. In order to do that in the future, with no
assets or savings to speak of at present, they start cutting back
their spending. They move into a small apartment far from their
places of work so that they can save money on rent. The money
saved goes into a savings account. They trade in their cars and
buy one, cheap car to save on insurance costs and car payments.
The money they save goes into their savings. They bike where
ever they can to save on gas. The money saved goes into savings.
They never dine out or splurge on expensive dinners or weekend
trips. They count every calorie, including the calories from the
olive oil used to sauté food and only eat precisely what their body
needs. They grow the majority of their food at home so that they
save on fresh fruits and vegetables. They eat very basic foods,
never splurging. They live like this for ten years. It was difficult,
and many times it was tempting to just dip into the savings for a
small treat. But they didn’t. In ten years, they had saved nearly all
of their combined paychecks every single month and were able to
successfully retire to a small town where they can still bike
everywhere and enjoy freshly grown foods from their yard. They
were able to achieve their overall goal because they worked
effortlessly for a set amount of time. They let nothing stand in
their way.
Consider another story of a man and his
family. The man worked for years at a plain job in order to
supply for his family. He used his mediocre job to pay for a home.
He was a mere ten years from retirement, had been saving just
enough to get his kids through school and not much more. He
would receive a nice pension from his job which be sufficient to
pay off all of the family debt, finish paying off the house, and
allow for a comfortable retirement. Then the worst happened. The
company closed and he was let go without any pension.
Everything fell apart. The children’s school fund was used to pay
the mortgage and the man scrambled to find work. He could have
given up. His story was much like everyone else in his
neighborhood. But he did not let that stop him. He knew he
needed another job. He knew he would have to start over and
that his pension would no longer be there. So he took the train
into the city every day and went to interview after interview. He
was told that he was one in one thousand applicants over and
over. He was told that he was not qualified. He was told he had
no tangible skills. He had filled a role that seemingly had no
translatable skills. So he spent what little he had taking some
night classes, learning applicable skills that could be used in a
new job. When he finished, he continued to head to the city to
look for work. He was told again that he was one in one
thousand. He was told that he had skills now, but so did
everyone else. He did not let that stop him. He continued to
search for jobs knowing that his passion and desire to provide for
his family would get him a job he deserved. After months of this,
he did. He was able to start over. He was able to salvage his
house, to start repaying his debt, and to re-fund his children’s
college accounts.
Failure and success can happen in an instant. Failure can help
cultivate a renewed drive and passion. People who endure
failure can profit from them when they look back and reflect on
what lessons the failure teaches. Defeat is not the end. It paves
the way to new opportunity.
There are many success stories featuring historic and present day
individuals who overcame hardship and self-doubt in order to
achieve total success and happiness. Take Bill Gates for example.
He is currently the richest man in the world, but his first business
called Traf-O-Data failed. And it failed miserably. He and his
partner at the time used this failure, knowing that their minds
were focused on success, and it helped them prepare for
Microsoft. It was through this large failure that they continued to
try and try until they were successful.
So how can someone find success from failure? This is the exact
topic this book will present.
Well, in essence there are steps that someone
can take in order to learn from failure and convert it into success.
Now consider that wealth and success (in whatever form you
want it), will only come to those who work hard. Now, bear in
mind that this idea is not limited to hard physical work. It takes
hard emotional and mental work too. Success starts with your
start of mind, your purpose. It is argued by some people that
depression is a self-fueling cycle because it is all contained in the
mind. When someone who is depressed thinks about how
depressed they are, it makes them feel more depressed. The
opposite is also true. Someone who is happy, who then reflects on
how happy they are, will become happier.
This exact notion can be described to success and failure.
The first is to listen to the negativity and let the hard times keep
you down.
The second is to ignore the negativity and focus instead on your
goals, your dreams and your passion. It was once said that
obstacles are merely the things you see when you stop focusing
on your path. If you want to finish tending to your garden, for
example, and you stand there looking at how dirty everything is
and how many weeds you have to pull, you will lose focus. You
will stop thinking about your goal of tending to the garden and
will instead be sucked into a negative mindset. If this happens, it
is not likely that you will get any work done because you will just
sit there thinking about how much work you have. But if you put
on your gloves and just start working, you will soon lose yourself
in your overall purpose until you have achieved the goal. You
won’t focus on the obstacles, you will focus on the goal.
If you are told over and over that you are a failure, that you
will never achieve your dreams, and bad things continue to
happen to you, you are faced with two options:
This can be applied to anything. If you have a presentation for
work that you have to finish by the end of the week, you can
choose to focus on the overall goal or get lost in the wilderness of
the obstacles ahead of you. If you sit there and ponder how little
time you have left, what all you have to do, and how your next
promotion depends on it, you will waste a great deal of time and
energy. You would be better off focusing on the overall goal of
finishing the project. For some people that means having quiet
space to think creatively. For others that means breaking down
the larger goal into smaller, tangible goals. But the word
“impossible” should never be uttered or thought at any point.
You have to make a conscious decision to become successful.
The purpose of this book is to teach anyone who wants to know,
how to change your mindset and stop thinking about failure and
instead start thinking about success. The phrase “mind over
matter” truly is at the heart of all this. You have to change your
mind set before you can do anything else. You have to believe in
yourself and free yourself of any limitations. Stop thinking that
you are “too poor” or “too stupid” or “too out of shape”. Stop all
of the negative thoughts that hold you back from success. If you
get rid of these thoughts and you instead become determined to
better yourself, your financial situation, or goal you have, then
you will be on the right path to success.
You truly are the master of your fate and the captain of your soul.
You have the power to control your thoughts and change them
from negative to positive.
As you continue reading, remember to remain open-minded. Do
not let your thoughts cloud your mind. Do not let yourself think
“well I could never that” while you are reading. You can, so long
as you have the right determination.
These principles you are about to learn can be applied to your life
and the lives of those around you. They will take effort, and they
may not come easily. But rest assured, that if you follow them,
you will start achieving success.
Developing the Brain
Many people claim that we only use 10% of our
brains. This is only partly true. In fact, we use all of
our brains, but we only use 10% of it consciously.
When you are trying to remember your list of
chores, where you put your keys, or the name of the
new employee at work, you are using your conscious mind. You are
using 10% of your brain. But the moment you stop focusing on your
chores, the moment you are distracted from your search for the keys,
or the moment you walk away from the new employee, those
thoughts slip into your subconscious. Your subconscious is always
working. It occupies the other 90% of your brain.
More often than not, when you stop focusing on trying to remember
something, you remember it. That is why when you experience “tip
of the tongue syndrome” (where the word you need is on the tip of
your tongue, but you cannot remember it), the word or name for
which you were searching always pops into your head at a random
time later in the day. Because you stopped using the 10% of your
conscious mind to think about it and instead let the other 90%, the
more powerful subconscious, think about it.
Yes, and Yes.
That is why you remember things easier when your subconscious is
working on them. That is the same reason why having faith is so
important.
Faith is a state of mind. It can be created by repeating instructions to
your subconscious. This does not mean you have to be the Little
When you turn on a light would you rather it use 10% of its power
or 90%? Do you think a car engine would be more powerful if it
could use 90% of its power?
Engine That Could and walk around saying “I think I can, I think I
can, I think I can”. Instead, you have to learn to suggest things
automatically to your subconscious. That sounds much more
complicated than it really is.
Auto suggestion to your subconscious takes place when you truly
have desire, when your thoughts are will not waiver, as discussed in
the first two chapters, when your desire and thoughts translates
immediately to your subconscious.
In doing this, you will convince your subconscious that you believe
you will get the things you want. Your subconscious will then act
upon this belief, forming faith in the process.
Now, faith may seem unfamiliar at first. Faith may not be something
you believe in initially, or appreciate. But with time, with continual
work, your mind will come to appreciate it and be influenced by it.
Faith simply means that any thought you which you repeatedly pass
to your subconscious will be accepted by your subconscious
eventually, then acted upon physically.
Your thoughts are much more powerful than you might accept.
Consider the idea of a self-fulfilling prophesy. So many modern
television shows integrate the idea of fate, seeing the future, etc… In
all of these shows, when a person knows the future, when they see
what will transpire, they try to take steps to avoid it happening.
They go out of their way to make sure that the predictions do not
manifest.
And yet, it is their attempt to stop the events that inevitably causes
them to transpire.
The same is true of faith and success. If you truly believe that you will fail at a
job interview, and you focus your thoughts on how you will fail, those
thoughts will penetrate your subconscious, become the only thing on which
you can focus, and inevitably manifest physically. The physical manifestation
might be the appearance of nervousness, mumbling, shaking, staring at the
floor out of fear, or being lost in your negative thoughts. All of these things will
lead to you not getting the job. This is often referred to as a self-fulfilling
prophesy. You prophesized that you would not get the job and those negative
thoughts are what led you to not get the job.
The same is true of positive thoughts
and faith. Going back to the previous
example: if you believe that you WILL
get the job, then all of your thoughts will
focus on getting the job, why you are the best for the job, and that
will permeate your subconscious and manifest physically. The
physical manifestation will be confidence, knowing the right words
to say, shaking hands and making eye contact, and in the end,
getting the job. In this instance, you were able to secure the job
because you focused on positive thoughts. The self-fulfilling
prophesy was that you would get the job, and your faith and desire
combined, allowed your subconscious to believe it, which then
caused you to act on it and make it a reality. From this story you
should realize that you are the creator of your own success or
destruction. You can cause success or failure to take place. If you
want to succeed, you need to truly believe and have faith in the fact
that you already have the tools you need to succeed and you can
make it happen.
If you wanted to be a doctor, you have to realize that you have the
tools you need to become one. You have the powerful mind and
desire that will help you study and learn, that will help you get
accepted to medical school, pass your tests, and become a doctor.
You have the tools to do whatever you want so long as you believe
it! Now, even if you have faith, something bad might happen to
knock you down, causing your faith to shake a bit.
Consider the story of Avery. Avery knew she wanted to become a
doctor. It was everything she ever wanted. She worked hard her
entire childhood, filled her free time with leadership activities,
sports, and all the extra-curricular activities she could find. That got
her a full scholarship to a college in her home state. It was not the
college she wanted to attend, but it was reputable enough that she
took the scholarship and was able to save quite a bit of money for
her living costs and eventual medical school costs. After working
hard for four years, she received her degree. She had faith, and she
succeeded.
But then she took the necessary tests and applied to medical school
and was rejected. She was not just rejected once, but rejected from
every medical school to which she applied. This shook her faith a bit.
But she did not let it get her down. She knew that practice would
make perfect. She asked why she was rejected and was told that she
needed more experience. Now, this was a catch 22 in and of itself
because in order to get medical experience she needed to go to
medical school, but medical school was out of the question without
more experience. She put everything she had into applying for jobs
at all local medical facilities. Eventually she was accepted and began
dedicating herself to a year of working as an intern at a local
hospital. Getting the experience she needed, one year later she re-
applied and was finally accepted.
She had her moments of doubt. The internship tested her time and
time again. There were moments when she truly doubted whether
she wanted to be a doctor, or whether this would be worth it. But
she continued to persevere. She re-kindled her faith every time it
was brought down and through continual practice was able to
achieve her goals.
Through Auto Suggestion!
You can cultivate faith with auto suggestion. Faith is the
cornerstone, the point from which riches and success begin. Faith is
also the foundation for intelligence, the antidote for failure, and the
element which can take your ordinary thoughts and turn them into
tangible success. The power of faith is truly inspiring.
Have you heard of the concept of positive thinking? This concept
relates directly to the power of faith.
Positive thinking is the act of changing the way you think. Instead of
thinking and saying negative things, you start thinking and saying
positive things. You see everything through a positive lens. If you
almost get in a car accident, and swerving to miss the other driver
who fell asleep at the wheel causes your tire to blow, you can still see
the positive. The positive might be: at least I didn’t get in an
accident. Or: at least no one was hurt. Or even: thankfully I had the
extra money to cover a new tire and can still drive to work. It is easy
to see all things negatively, positive thought takes effort. But positive
thoughts, the same as negative thoughts, are powerful in that they
lend themselves to more positive thoughts.
If you focus on the good, you will start to see more good all around.
This is the power of faith. If you start to have faith in one thing,
thinking positive thoughts, it will lead to more faith and more
positive thoughts. Soon enough, your faith and positive thoughts
will dominate your mind and motivate you.
But not letting your surroundings or environment negatively
influence you, taking away your faith, requires a great deal of self-
confidence. You have to remember first and foremost that you are
capable of achieving anything you want. You have to remember that
positive thinking will lead to more positive thinking, and more
positive thinking. Therefore, you need to focus on positive thinking
at all times. Improving your self-confidence at all times will help you
to auto-suggest success and eventually achieve it with continued
faith. But this takes courage. It takes continual effort. Fear will try to
get in the way. Fear will try and stop you from achieving your goals.
You have to have the self-confidence to overcome the fear and
continue working toward your goals, continue with your positive
thoughts, and enjoy success.
Gandhi is a stunning example of the self-discipline and confidence it
takes to stay away from negative thoughts, to overcome fear and to
have the courage to succeed.
First: he thought about his goals. He imagined the idea.
Second: he mixed faith with the original idea.
Third: he formulated a plan that helped him turn his idea into
something real.
Fourth: he put his plan into action and followed through with
persistence.
Fifth: he maintained a burning desire.
These steps can be followed by anyone who wants success.
Remember that wealth and success begins with a thought. It all
starts in your mind. It is those thoughts which are then put into
action. Faith is what removes the limitations and allows you to
continue on your path toward success!
Auto Suggestion
Auto suggestion was briefly touched upon in the last chapter, but in
this chapter we will get deeper into the idea. It is a term which refers
to any way in which you suggest things to your mind. Auto
suggestion does not necessarily refer to speech or thoughts. It can be
any of the five senses. If you walk into a bakery just to get a whiff of
the freshly baked muffins, you are auto suggesting the idea of
hunger. It is a way of communicating subconsciously. By taking
control over the thoughts that subconsciously enter your mind
consciously, you can influence all of your thoughts.
This is what auto-suggestion is all about. Think of your conscious
mind as the gatekeeper. The conscious mind is what allows thoughts
to enter into the subconscious. The conscious mind can stop a bad
thought in its tracks, or allow a positive thought. People have
absolute control over the thoughts that enter their subconscious
through any of the five senses. But most people never exercise this
control. Failure to exercise this control is what leads so many people
to get stuck in a “rut”, as it were and never reach their goals.
To put it in easier terms: think of good food versus bad food. You are
consciously in control of the food you put in your body. You can
choose to put in bad food, which will ruin your health and lead to a
slew of diseases and a faster death. Or, you can choose to put in
good food and live a healthy, happier life. The same is true of your
mind. You can consciously allow good thoughts, or you can
consciously allow bad thoughts. This is what auto suggestion is all
about.
You were previously told to write down your statements for success,
what you desire most, and to read them out loud to yourself
repeatedly. By doing this, you are communicating your desire
directly into your subconscious mind. This is what cultivates faith.
By repeatedly reading your goals aloud, you are voluntarily creating
habits which are good for you and your mind. Now go back to
chapter 2 and read the six steps again.
For almost everyone, it should be the latter.
The same is true of your statement. You cannot make it a routine
that you begrudgingly do each day without thinking. You have to
put in conscious thought and emotion while you read it. Don’t skim
the text. Stop and put effort into reading the goals out loud and truly
feeling emotion connected to achieving those goals. Why?
Because it will manifest better results for you if you do. Studies show
us that consciously thinking of the muscles we are targeting at the
gym will lead to better results. This is why yoga is so effective; you
Remember, you cannot mindlessly read the statement you wrote.
This will have no effect. Think about an actor reading lines. Are you
inspired by the actor who reads their lines in a monotone voice with
a stoic expression? Or are you inspired by the actor who puts feeling
into their lines?
are consciously focusing on the area you want to improve and tying
in emotion. This technique is not just for the body. It is for the mind.
You have to consciously focus on the things you want to improve,
the things you want to do, in order for them to have the best effect
and outcome.
The same way that you have faith your workout will help your
body, you need to have faith that reading your words aloud will
help your mind. Remember that there is no such thing as something
for nothing. In order to achieve, you must work. In order to get
bigger muscles, you must push yourself and persevere at the gym.
In order to be successful, you must push yourself and work toward
achieving your goals. That begins with daily readings. You need to
be able to concentrate on your desire 100%. This concentration is
what will turn a passing desire into a burning desire, something that
takes over your thoughts. Your ability to do this is directly related to
your ability to use auto-suggestion.
The only way for you to use the 6 steps described in chapter 2
effectively is to use concentration. This begins with fixing in your
mind the exact amount of money that you need.
Remember the trip to Italy? She needed an exact amount. She
focused on that amount and with her eyes shut, she could literally
see that money appear. This is where you must be. This is what you
must do every day.
You need faith too. Faith is what will help you repeat these thoughts
every day until they have entered your subconscious mind. Let your
imagination run freely, see what plans it can create for how to obtain
the money you want or the item you desire. Don’t sit around and
wait for a definite plan. The minute you can visualize yourself with
money, you need to start putting that plan into action. The plans
may only appear in an instant, a flash in your mind. But you must
grab on to that thought that flash of a plan, and put it into action.
So Remember, These Are The Steps You Must Follow:
First: find a quiet spot where you can close your eyes and repeat out
loud the written statement you made. It should be somewhere that
you will be not be interrupted. You need to see yourself in
possession of your goal when you close your eyes.
Second: repeat this every morning and every night until you can
truly see the money in your possession when you close your eyes.
Third: keep the written copy of your goals where you can see it, so
that it is always there in the back of your mind.
Remember that in doing this, you are beginning auto-suggestion.
Your subconscious will only act on instructions which you truly
believe. That is why you must have faith. Faith will produce the
belief that your subconscious needs. No matter how odd these
instructions may seem at first, it is important that you follow them.
Eventually you will understand the power of the rules and achieve
the success you desire! Many people have heard that they are in
control of their fate. How is this true? Because you have the power to
change anything in your life by influencing your subconscious.
Remember that auto suggestion is conscious, and it takes conscious
effort to follow the rules laid out before. So remember that following
these instructions precisely will open the way to success.
Now it is time to learn all about your numbers….
Figuring Out Your Own Life Number: The Numerology In Your
Birth Date.
Finding out your life number is something important and it is the
numerals and digits of your birth date added together.
For example: 18.07.1963: 1+8+0+7+1+9+6+3 = 35; 3+5 = 8
or 23.05.1963: 2+3+0+5+1+9+6+3 = 29; 2+9 = 11 ... Master
Number, do not reduce to 2.
or 29.12.1963: 2+9+1+2+1+9+6+3 = 33 ... Master Number, do
not reduce to 6.
or 04.01.1961: 0+4+0+1+1+9+6+1 = 22 … Master Number, do
not reduce to 4.
When trying to show how this can be done through contributions
and support to part of a team, there is an easy story about a
bunch of people, maybe even twelve or more, who are travelling
on a tour. With most of these types of tours, the different
personalities of the people going through it will be shown pretty
fast. In this case, for instance, there is not going to be a guide or a
driver for the bus and it is going to ultimately be up to them
when they figure out how to both get from A to B on a map and
to figure out what those two places even are going to be. When
they choose this direction, they are adding some purpose to their
journey. This is a professional purpose and a higher purpose as
well, regardless of whether they know that fact or they do not
know it.
The team on their journey, trying to find their way.
Number One is a team leader. He has a lot of ambition and is acting
with enthusiasm to start new and to try to find some ideas the
others have not thought of. The other people on the tour see this
and the path that they go is formed based on which direction he is
going. Ones do not really care if people are following them or not
and they have a problem with communication. This, thus, leads
people to call them arrogant and is where the team begins with
two starts helping one.
The first one can be intimidated by the fear that they have of
being lonely. They will feel alone a lot and this will dominate
their methods of thinking at times. This can happen even when
they are completely surrounded both other people. When they
are aware that they can be seen as arrogant, they may use that to
conceal the fear that they have and to break down the barriers
that they have before them. This can make things fun and a bit
easier on everyone that is involved. Do not rush these types of
people because they will run away into themselves and hide
instead of busting out and embracing others.
Two is someone who would be good at the job of assisting one.
They are generally going to be people who are going after causes
that they think are worth it and they try to help where help is
needed. They might follow number one because number one will
need help out there being all alone. This is an issue that should be
obvious. Everyone needs someone to help at times, why not a
number one. Others might be trying to find out how to get some
place. Two will then step up and try to explain how to get
somewhere to the group and to the leader in general. They both
might have some good support systems backing them up but that
does not mean that two is any less worthwhile than one is. With
this, a team will form and the hub will be two. Ones have many
needs and the team will be able to form a natural base and the
journey will be able to continue in earnest.
Two might have made a group of friends but they will sometimes
have to deal with the issue of fear. They generally fear that
nobody is there to support them in their life role of being a good
talker and someone who is supportive of others. They have a
problem with seeing support when it is being given to them. This
causes some problems wherein twos can find themselves separate
from the group that they made for themselves. Only the self-
awareness that they have will be able to make a hole in this wall
that they put up. Telling them will fall on ears that are not
listening and their walls are designed to help keep the support
that they need from ever getting in!
Three is someone who will sense a new way being taken from
where there was nothing in the past. This is something like the
way that an artist might stare at a blank canvas. They like to look
around and spread creativity, be it with color, songs, sounds, or
stories. They are trying to light up the way for others to move
forward and to help others learn new things. They talk about
adding things where there might not have been anything in the
past. All of these things are very important for a group dynamic.
They will usually have some sort of problem with fear as well.
That might be that the work that they are doing is simply not
good. Maybe they believe that others will not like it. When they
do this they tend to forget that being creative is simply being
creative. The Universe in general is not going to care if it is good
or bad.
Number Four is generally going to be someone known as the
worker. They are going to take care of tasks that have to be done
over and over for others to be comfortable. They do this and
recreate things through their work that is needed by everyone on
a daily basis. They need to be thought of as the layers and the
pavers on the way who are making the path that the other people
will have to move on in a more comfortable and easy way. This is
a thing that is going to allow us all to bring goods and things
along with us and get work done, knowing things are being taken
care of on that end.
If big challenges are going to occur, it is usually going to be with
the issue that four has with feeling overwhelmed by things and
putting them off. They always tend to think that they have too
much to do. Fours just want to generally get things done and do
their best but they have problems with learning new skills
because they put it off until it is too late to do anything. This also
leads to problems with their own personal growth. This can be
fixed if someone is able to demonstrate to them why it is a good
idea to learn something. They have to show everyone, themselves
and their friends, how things are done and what they are able to
do.
Five is going to be the one who tries to make people laugh so that
they will be able to change somehow. They are very social. They
like to make the journey fun for everyone else through the
provision of entertainment. They tend to mix and plan parties
very well, but the entertainment that they tend to provide can
also prove to be a problem because it can distract others. They are
often spending time avoiding feelings and their own reality
through their partying. They can also create change when it needs
to be created. Life might be too hard for some people, but fives
will always try to remind us that we are growing and trying to
strive toward an ultimate freedom. They do not fear the negatives
associated with the struggle in life. They want to fly and to travel
and create unity and awareness for nearly everyone. When the
way becomes hard, fives are going to be coming in and trying to
make it easier. But they are prone to quitting.
Fives always have a serious issue with being challenged by their
own fear of changing. A lot of the things that they are involved in
can make things easier but also more difficult in some ways. They
are agitated by change. This fear can cause problems with
avoidance in the long term.
Six is going to be someone who is working with a bunch of
people to try to bring their opinions together. They are able to
relate very well with the people around them and they help to
keep peace along the journey. The goal that they have it to make
sure that everyone on the path is united, feels welcome, and is a
good part of the team in general. Sixes have a way of getting to
know how everyone is working and how well they would work
together. They also have no issue understanding what it is like to
walk in the shoes of other people and can facilitate understanding
between people who might otherwise have trouble with it.
Sixes often have problems with their family. This is likely because
they have to have an emotional attachment with many people in
their own circle of influence. The fears that they generally have
are usually going to be based on problems in their family and the
ideas and opinions that they might have. They worry a lot about
not being able to keep people united when they are trying to form
a team. The challenge here is that in a lot of family environments
when people get thrown together they are able to learn to deal
with the differences that they have in their life. This is not like
something like choosing friends and workmates who already
share your opinions. They are usually going to be able to save
themselves some trouble through the allowing of everyone to be
with their being. Trusting people to share their gift with each
other is important to them.
Sevens are going to be trying to focus on studying and thinking
about the spiritual side of life. They generally want to try to take
everything onto themselves and to tell the team that they
appreciate everything that they are doing in terms of spirit. You
have to maintain all of the things that people want to do. It has to
be good for everyone that is trying to work together or things
would simply not work the right way. They try to tell us that
everything is going to be happening at the right time, for the
people who need it, for the right reasons and that there is
generally going to be a higher purpose to everything that is
happening. It is important that we are all part of that and the
sevens are the ones who are going to try to see the silver linings in
things. The rest of us are left feeling blind without them.
They are going to bring more of the brains to the operation and
will try to bring things inward that the entire team will be able to
focus on. This is something that they may not know everything
about because they are often troubled by the fears that they have.
They will usually try to bury themselves within academic study
and then their fear will be based on the apparent lack of evidence
of the spirit. They might even lose touch with their own feelings
when they are doing this work and then they will deny them
when they need to speak about their own ideas.
Eights are generally going to be attracted to the potential of
opportunities in the future for helping make some wealth
through expansion of the soul. They are the ones who are going
to be moving forward with working and organizing. They will
also be up to their own elbows in trying to get work done through
management and keeping thing in order. They design some very
good systems but that does not mean that they do not also have
their own fair share of studies. They draw up lists and rosters and
take regular stock etc.
They also have a problem because they feel like they may lack
something and they have an issue in which they prey on the fear
that other people have of being poor. They see this and they allow
some abundance regardless of the possible lack of evidence that
these things have in the reality of their life. That fear of poverty
has them in a vice grip which they simply cannot break with any
amount of ease. It is simply the opposite of the way that they
need to be letting things happen in their own life.
Nine is the visionary of the group who is able to see the end result
of all of the work that is being done. They soak up everything
around them and try to amplify the energy like some kind of
sponge on steroids or something. They are the ones who are
trying to spread out their own energy and their vision. They use
mental telepathy along with others to give a vision that the
leaders of the group will be aware of the tone that they use. It is,
thus, also important for them to work on both finishing some of
the projects that they have started and to work on doing things
such as clearing out all of the clutter.
They do not have fears like the other but they have to have the
burden of remembering everything that they have in their mind.
This is something that can change and transform in any given
situation which can lead to significant problems for them if they
are not being careful about what they are doing. They might not
even be aware of the things that they are doing to change what is
around them.
Master Numbers also have their role in the team.
Eleven is going to be someone who will be talking to you on a
level that is both higher and more important than the two is
capable of. When they do not behave like two is behaving with
ease, they are playing their other role as the representative of the
team in general. This means that they will have to do all of the
communicating on behalf of the team and they will be attempting
to report back with plans for the other teams. This is a lot of stuff
that will ultimately come in the form of taking some ideas from
the members of the team through a process of sharing.
They often have problems through which they are allowing their
fears to challenge them. This is because they do not know if they
need some sort of support or not. There is support for everyone,
and elevens can perfectly convince themselves that all of this is
made up. They say that they can support themselves and that
they do not need help. If they do, then they allow themselves to
slide into the depression that they might have. And then they will
remind them that we can only see what we think about and that
this can pass. If they would just let themselves do what they
believe that they need to do then they would not have a problem
accomplishing all of their goals in a very real way.
Number 22 is someone who is going to be helping to build and
design all of the things that we have and that we need to work on.
They are going to put together the underlying foundation that
will then be used to complete everything for the team and the
community at large. They work when they are not a four, they
still design and direct people to put in the right paths that they
will eventually need to use in order to get where they are trying
to go.
The problem that they are going to have is usually going to be a
problem with a lack of the work that they may have. It is a fear
that the Universe does not have a team which might need them
for their help. It is one that might lead them to believe that they
have a life without a purpose. That is a significant problem for the
people on their team and the people themselves.
33 is going to be the one who is working with the team. They are
also a six. If they were not a six then they would be trying to do
everything that they could to understand that they can’t follow
everything they need to do on the way. Like the other two, they
can get information from a plane of existence that is higher than
others and this helps them to do all of the things that they need to
do.
The biggest problems that they have in their life is trying to come
to terms with the things they have to do like allowing for the idea
that everything must come together in one way or another.
When the journey is not going well, what is standing in the way
and going wrong?
Life Challenge Number
This is one in which you will have a number assigned to you as a
person which makes it hard to find someone else who might have
a matching life number to yours or something like that. This
means that it will have to be talked about if we are planning to go
into a new strength and weakness flowchart. We have to be
careful and think over what we are choosing to do when adding
contributions to the skill base that we want to know about.
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If we want this number to work well we have to change the way
that we calculate it and then change the numbers of our own birth
date.
18.07.196
3
1+8 = 9
.
0+7 = 7 . 1+9+6+3 = 19; 1 + 9 =
10; 1 + 0 = 1
= 9 . 7 . 1
We also have to figure out how different these numbers are to
come up with the two sub challenge numbers.
9 – 7 and 7 – 1
2 and 6
Finally we will have to figure out the difference between those to
figure out the new life challenge that we have to deal with.
2 – 6
4
Some of the challenges that will come here will play a role in our
life. This is especially true when we think about how it might
relate to them. It also plays a role in the way that we have to look
out for and make people aware of all of the things that are going
into the negative things in our lives. This is talked about in the
team through their journey and the challenges that are present in
all of their individual numbers. So there are some rather healthy
things to do.
The 0 Challenge Number
A lot of people will find out that everything is the same number
and that they will relate that influence into their life. That can be a
serious problem for a lot of people and will result in a 0. This
means that they have to find out what being responsible really is.
If you have zero, you have to transform all of that fear that you
see in other people and turn it into something that can be useful
for both you and your own team. This is extremely important and
is something that is vital to life.
Personal Year
Life itself is going to give everything to us that we need to figure
this all out. In addition, it provides a lot of ways through which
we can figure out our own life roles. This gives us all the time in
the world that we might need to keep going. The repetition that
we have in our life becomes one of the largest learning tools we
see then we will have no problems. This is a day we have to keep
going through.
Almost once every ten years, we have to experience all of this
again. Over and over. The job that we have during this time is to
make sure that we keep going with it and not to let it happen over
and over again. This can end up bleeding into the other areas of
our life if we are simply not careful enough. This means that we
can relate to the roles which are played by the members of the
team that you are in. Each year we can get some experience in the
other nine roles which are taking some responsibility for our own
life.
This does not happen once every year. It happens also every
week, month, and year of your entire life. We have to look out for
these things to happen and if we are not careful about it then it
could lead to some significant problems down the line for
everyone.
If you are going to be putting out work into finding out what year
we are in and the number for that year, it is about the same as
trying to find out all of the other numbers that have been talked
about so far.
For example: 18.07.2010: 1+8+0+7+2+0+1+0 = 19; 1+9 = 10; 1+0= 1
And
Personal Year Challenge, using the subtracting method:
18.07.2010
1+8 = 9 and 0+7 = 7 and
2+0+1+0 = 3 9 – 7 and
7 – 3
2 and 4
2 – 4
2
This whole story is somewhat spelled out when talking about the
journey. This is assuming, of course, that every single member of
the team will have the roles that they have within them already
played out by someone every year. You might be on the way but
you will have to take some kind of action with regard to this. The
life challenge, for instance, is something that will help guide you
into knowing things like where you will be sabotaged.
If you look at the nine years in your life you might be able to find
some information there which will be useful and will help make
the list of your life events better for one reason or another. This
could be through the addition of columns to the list. This could
also have something to do with the personal numbers or the
number of the challenge. If you get lucky you might even see
some kind of spiral effect moving upward through all of these
things.
Every year in your life is going to have some sort of focus that
you will have to follow that is going to be different from both
your role and your number in life. This is the same as all the
years. Every four digits of the year will be put together to make
one single number. This is how it is done.
When you are figuring out your own life number then you have
to find that it will play a role with everyone and not just you. This
means everyone in your workplace or something. Whether it is
school or a professional association or something.
When we are coming up with the number for the year you might
be able to find something about how the thing comes in on two
different levels. One of them is the self and one of them is the
team that we play a part in which is not going to play a huge role
in the year goal that we have coming. Being a part of the entire
thing makes us all connected and gives us something that will go
forward to move in with our own goals. Every year gives us
something which we will be able to do in another way. This
improves the understanding of the selves we have.
Year 1 – The first year is the best year for trying to begin some
new projects and come up with new ideas. The beginnings that
can happen here will make you long for new outcomes in your
own life and will only lead to better things happening in the
future. This is a time when you should try to get rid of the fears
that you might have of being alone or of having issues in your life
that you do not know how to deal with.
Year 2 – When you are going to do something like find and give
support, this is important for the things that might happen during
the year. This means that you will have to have some form of
clear communication through yourself and the people around
you. In the place that you have to be then you will have to both
give and get some assistance through the blocking of the
universal energy flow that you have. So you might have some
support based entirely on the desire for success that you might
have. So then you have to give some support and it has to be in a
lot of ways and to flow the way that you want it to. This means
that the more that you give, the more that you get.
Year 3 – Here is the time when you will be setting some goals and
trying to make them manifest themselves through the work that
you are doing. Any things that you have that need to get done
will have to be done in this time. This is a year when you will
have to add some creativity to your work and make the goals that
you have for the year try and come true. This could mean a lot of
things, but you have to be vigilant.
Year 4 – During this year you will want to be finishing tasks. This
is going to be through doing things with an intense focus on the
time that you are putting in. This helps to show the abilities that
you might have at your disposal. Production is going to be based
primarily on what you are doing to get things done in a timely
fashion and without too much delay. If you are trying to learn
something new then you might need to be aware that you will
have to be careful what you are doing.
Year 5 – Try to make some changes during this year. This is
definitely a good time for it and it is a time in which you should
be excited. Keeping things the same is a problem for a lot of
people and this is a good way to break out of the routine and to
get to some places that you do not have to worry about having
been before. Find a unique way to get through this and you will
be sitting pretty in the future. Keep a firm understanding of what
is going on here with regard to that and everything else.
Year 6 – Time to take some support from others. This is
something which you simply have to do. Find mediation through
the help of other people. You should be on a serious lookout for
problems that might occur. There can also be some rifts in the
relationship of the family and with other people who might be
involved. This also means you will have to find a way to work
with other people in your team and the people who are in your
family as well. Watch out for pitfalls when trying to do these
things.
Year 7 – This is a year to take some time off. Look at your spirit
and do some work on the reflection of the time that you have had
so far. Think about changes which might be taking place with
regard to the meaning that you have placed on your own life.
This means you should try to get to know yourself more than
others in this year and to think about the problems that you might
be having with regard to your own goals and things of that
nature.
Year 8 – If you are trying to get in with some of the best results
that you can, then you should try to remember the organization
of self that you have. This will include managing things such as
resources and a management of the business that you are
working with. The wealth might be made through a use of
resources in a unique or inventive way. You can also try to set up
and perhaps improve some of the systems that you use to try to
manage the resources that you have at your disposal. These are
meant to try to do things like support progress and creativity in
any way possible.
Year 9 – This is going to be one of the final years. You will have to
use this time to finish things and to make sure that your vision is
all good for the next years and the future moving forward. This is
a way that we can both clear away all of the things that have been
going wrong during the last year and to make way for new things
in the future that will pave a bright path. This is when you should
spend time daydreaming and trying to dream very large.
The focus for each month of the year
Every single month in the year is going to provide some sort of
hint for the things that can come in the future. The focus of the
entire month needs to be a long term thing, sort of similar to the
focus for the year as a whole. This should replace the word year
with the word month if you are following what is happening
above. This will allow us to fine tune the things that might change
during the first few months of the year and it will also allow us to
do different things for the final months. If the year gets off to a
somewhat slow then you will have some time to change it to
become better than it already is by following this method. This is
also good for giving you time to help communicate with some
other members of your team.
There is also even more!
The focus for each day of the month
Trying to make plans for one day or another day based on the
energy that is universal to everyone is going to be something
which is important for everyone. This means that you will have to
maintain a staunch awareness of what you are doing and what
changes that might incur in the future.
The work that is in the number that you come up with here is a
way through which you can add eight digits to the date. Then
add them again until they reduce everything to one digit. This is
going to have some exceptions.
For example: 23.05.2010: 2+3+0+5+2+0+1+0 =
13; 1+3 = 4, 29.12.2006:
2+9+1+2+2+0+0+6 = 22 ... Master
Number.
Personal Day Number: use today’s day and month numbers,
plus your own year of birth.
For example: 23.05.1963: 2+3+0+5+1+9+6+3 = 29; 2+9 =
11 ... Master Number, 29.12.1963:
2+9+1+2+1+9+6+3 = 33 ... Master Number
Universal Day numbers. The lessons and outcomes that are
inherent in each day.
– A day for trying new things and Day
making new beginnings. This is
something that would make a great place to start and to pursue
new projects with growing enthusiasm.
Day -
This is a good day for communication with others and to try to
share information about how connected we all are in the larger,
grander, scheme of things in general.
Day –
A day meant to foster the creativity that is present in all of us.
This is a day when you should be making your ideas come to life
and to share things with others.
Day –
A day for repetitive simple work that has very little or no
complexity involved in it. This is a good day to keep up the house
or to try to do things like your books or mowing the lawn.
Day –
A day that is meant to be promoting some sort
of balance of outcomes through socializing with other people and
working on transformation of the self.
Day –
On this day you should be trying to deal
with your family issues. Put some sort of importance on concepts
like unity. This is a good day to try to get to know other people
on a more deep level than you are currently at.
Day –
This is a day that nothing should be done.
Take a break! Your awareness should
primarily be done in a spiritual way through this day and your
true feelings will help to make a paradigm shift through both
understanding and a higher purpose. This is a good day through
which you can share your insights.
Day – This day is one in which you will be
trying to manage your own resources and to
make some routines and systems through
which you can apply your own self-discipline.
Day – A day for finishing tasks and projects.
This is a void through which you can see what
you really want or need. Finishing things
will leave your life wide open for the creation of a new vision of
the future.
Day – Try and give or receive
support on this day. That
is what the day is for. It is
also for getting to know the people around
you who might be trying to do things.
Day – During this day, all of
the work is going to be done on
systems. This will help to
improve and enhance productivity, to streamline things already
going on, and to find some of the best practices which might be
used to help create some continuity. This will help make some of
the tasks that have to be done easier.
– This is a day that is all Day
about unity in the
community. In the
opportunity given here for groups there is going to be room for
meditation that will help with progress and help to provide
understanding for everyone.
Personal Day Numbers – The Personal Contribution Toward
The Daily Lessons And Outcomes
These numbers are going to try to represent the contributions to
our daily lives that the days of the week might have.
Day 1 – This day is all about leading. It means trying to have the
courage to learn a new skill or to try out something new. It means
you will lead through a positive example.
Day 2 – This is a support day in which you will try to help other
people to get the outcomes in their life that you want to see them
have.
Day 3 – This is when we are going to be using the creative juices
within us to help enhance our own outcomes.
Day 4 – This is when we work through a calm attitude and stay
focused on the task that is at hand. This is where we will be trying
to practice doing tasks until the overall job that needs to be done
is finished.
Day 5 – This is a change in our own attitude through which we
can get a balance in the various aspects of our lives. The job here
and the main key is to try to be mindful and to try to celebrate
change in the self through transformation, awareness, and
personal development. This is good.
Day 6 – This is the time in which we will be trying to help others
via positive communication and that will result in a feeling of
encouragement for other people and understanding of the self.
Day 7 – This is all about being both aware of the feelings that we
have and trying to observe things in every way that we can to
keep connected to the overall spiritual purpose that we have
within us. This is important as well.
Day 8 – This is about staying focused. Focus and discipline is the
key here. You have to maintain being organized and using good
judgment. That is how we will take responsibility for the
outcomes that we will eventually see.
Day 9 – This is about completing tasks to create voids for new
ideas to emerge. The day is all about visualizing a positive future
for us.
Day 11 – Sharing with others and the ideas that they have is the
key to this day and communication is very important.
Day 22 – Consciousness of the task that is at hand without
striving off. It is trying to evolve to complete it in the best way
that we possible can without going off task.
Day 33 – This is a day that should be focused on the connecting
of community members and the overall unit.
Other Significant Number
The day that you are born on, not the date of birth, is something
that we see. People will often say that they can see the attributes
of this day within us all. This is an example. If your day of birth
number is nine, then you will be seen as having a clear vision and
be seen as someone who is relatively good at figuring out the
temper of the various people in the group. If the life number is
different, then this would not be a number that we would want to
spend a lot of time or focus on. Though others may still pick it up
and call it their first impression of us.
Beyond that, the day of birth can sometimes be an illusion which
can draw us away from the goals that we have in our lives. This is
something that can lead to us becoming somewhat distracted
from the action that we need to take and by the new idea that we
might have. This is also going to help keep us from staying
focused on the goals that we have in our birth date numerology.
House numbers, phone numbers, every other kind of number that
you can think of. They can all be added up to try and figure out
things that might be playing a large role in our own life and how
we might be going to try to achieve the goals that we have set out
for ourselves. The Universe might be supporting us in this but we
will never really known unless we somehow manage to do
something with regard to these numbers. This is how the
numerology of it all will show us about how the path can be both
easy and fun. The signs along the way will give you lessons and
warnings that you should heed in order to do everything best.
Using numbers in this way is very important if you want to learn
anything about your own awareness. This is how we are going to
be able to make ourselves both emotionally clear and less fearful
of the changes that could be coming in the future. We might have
a better understanding of the things that might be happening in
the future. This is something that will come via a clear
understanding of how things might be going to change in the
near future. This is important and is also very interesting to read
and learn about.
So what about the peoples phone numbers or the other things?
Why are we not going to accept them or visit them based on these
numbers? Why would that be done?
Translating The Alphabet Into Some Numerology
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9
A B C D E F G H I
J K L M N O P Q R
S T U V W X Y Z
The consonants that are in our names and on the certificate that
we are given at birth will usually add up to our expression
number, which is how we express ourselves through our
thoughts and our feelings. This is left brain thinking.
The vowels that are in our names will ultimately add up to the
spiritual number that we have. Our experience with our thoughts
and feelings, the way that we feel, and the life experiences that we
have. This is something important to the undercurrent of our lives
and will play a role in the benefits of creating and improving the
awareness of the spiritual things that we have going on. This is
important. One example of this is the fact that we can create
anything and we can choose to materialize through connection to
the creative force of the universe. The result of this could be either
conscious or it could be subconscious, depending on whether the
focus is going to be on the positive or the negative. The outcomes
that you want are going to need to have an intention of focusing
on fun and easy outcomes. The number you pick reflects the
experience of right brain.
All of the letters that are in the name add up to the evolution
number. What we came to learn from this life all comes from that
number. Our way of getting what we want instead of what we try
to contribute is determined by our own life number. This happens
regardless of whether we know it is happening or not. So even if
we raised with a name that isn’t the same as the one we have,
which may have been changed at some point, that birth name is
going to play a strong role in your life in general. This number is
what we are going to be aiming to achieve mastery in, generally.
This is our professional goal or our higher purpose in life. It is
like a secret hidden agenda that is playing a huge role in our life.
This is something that is going to make a balance through
expression and spirituality numbers. The left and the right brain
will have to be in balance.
Example using name at birth:
5 + 6 = 11 Spirituality
1 3 5 9 5 6 3 6
J A C Q U E L I N E C H O U F F O T
1 3 8 3 5 3 8 6 6 2
2 + 7 = 9 Expression
11 Evolution
The name Jacky is being given to her at birth, and she will
generally be going to continue learning through her life by
experiencing benefits of both spiritual and unconscious support.
The communication with others is larger community in addition
to the family. She might have an issue of being aware of this in a
physical sense. As this was discussed earlier, the master numbers
can generally come up with a knowingness and are able to pick
up information in a very spiritual way through mental telepath.
This is known as communication via a higher plane. The
consonants in her name from birth are about expressing some
positive visions for the future and working on getting rid of the
emotional clutter that they might have. They like to absorb their
own energy. Combining all of her numbers including the ones
from her name are important. This is one of the most expressive
ways of getting things done. It is something that is not necessarily
needed on the higher level.
The names that we have are going to represent the energy that we
have on a much deeper level. In that way, we often have things
that are given to us on a whim. This is usually because of
something that someone else has done. This could be a result
from the misspelling of the name or a problem like a nickname.
Since a nickname is going to be used more often than a legal
name, they usually represent things which are somewhat more
transient in our personality. Along with the skills and attitudes
that we bring into our lives, and through the various stages that
our lives are made of. The same numbers have the same goal,
generally, with regard to numbers. These will help to support our
goals that are inherent in our own life numbers.
This is interesting to a lot of people in the west. Women’s names,
for instance, will tend to change much more often than men. This
means that they are able to change their suit to fit multiple
circumstances. This teaches us some good skills of flexibility and
changing in our attitude. This skill cannot be overlooked but it is
also something that can rob us of our own identity. This is a way
of getting back to life numbers that are generally derived from
birth dates. They can be useful with regard to changing the
direction and purpose of our life. This is going to fit in relatively
well with the mind and it also works with the focus that we have
toward getting to our life goal.
5 + 9 = 5 Spirituality
1 3 5 9 5 9
J A C Q U E L I N E F R I N G S
1 3 8 3 5 6 9 5 7 1
2 + 1 = 3 Expression
8 Evolution
These numbers show some of the new skills and the new ways of
thinking that the resulting evolution will support. Her life
number will change based on the time that she was known by her
name and the changes the outlook that she has in general.
5 + 8 = 4 Spirituality
1 3 5 9 5 3 5
J A C Q U E L I N E T U R N E R
1 3 8 3 5 2 9 5 9
2 + 7 = 9 Expression
4 Evolution
Often, the skills and the attitudes of the four will try to trump the
eleven during the time when Jacki had this name. So now her
challenge number would be brought into focus. Jacki probably
would have had some trouble when dealing with this number
and she would probably have both felt and seen the results of this
which would have tested her patience when trying to do some
boring or mundane tasks. She maintainer her expression of nine
to all of the positive outcomes that she got. She then was able to
get back to her basics.
5 + 6 = 11 Spirituality
1 3 5 9 5 1 5
J A C Q U E L I N E L A G D E N
1 3 8 3 5 3 7 4 5
2 1 = 3 Expression
5 Evolution
The last name of Jacki will bring her back to the original spiritual
number that she is at. This will also give her a new way of
evolving into the future and expressing things through change
and transformation. This brings us back to the earlier name of
Frings as the numbers in that name come back. This time they are
adding a benefit with regard to creation and transformation
mastery.
1 + 6 = 7 Spirituality
1 9 1 5
J A C K I L A G D E N
1 3 2 3 7 4 5
6 + 1 = 7 Expression
5 Evolution
The thing about this is, the first name and the last name
combination tends to draw the focus of Jacki onto her own
spiritual feelings and to help her express those through an
evolution in change and transformation in general. It is
interesting to note that the evolutionary number in this last name
must be important!
Name info is often only in a general form. This is the things that
we do with our days our months and our years in terms of our
goals. They are inherent to our own life number, which is
something that matters the most to us. For those of us who have
issues with name changes, we usually relate that essence of the
numbers to the phases that we are going through at any given
time in question. So they play a role but it is not an enormous
role. Numbers are important but they are somewhat superficial
when compared to the overall deeper purpose which is often
associated with our lie goals and the number that is our own Life
number.
When you are picking a name for your child or yourself you need
to pick one that helps to mirror the life number of your birth date
since it will be able to provide more focus. This will also help to
lessen distraction in life and to alleviate some conclusion.
When you are trying to work out the number of some words, you
will find a lot of interesting things. God is spiritual number six
and expression number eleven and evolution number eight. This
helps to translate to an understanding through mediation on a
deeper level than some other ideas and is something that comes
through via sharing. This can result in wealth, in organization,
and in things like wealth and comfort in life.
One way that you might want to take a look at this is through the
example of six six six. This is all about meditation and
understanding. This could even have a role in directing us to
family issues or problems. When you add all of the six’ together,
you wind up with eighteen. This is a number that can help show
leadership and ambition. It shows that we are being extremely
disciplined in both our actions and the thoughts that we have.
So what about thirteen? This number is usually being seen as
unlucky. It turns ambition and creativity into work that people
get bored of. So why is this something that people would be
afraid to risk? Probably because a lot of people do not want to do
what they actually want because they are afraid they will go
broke doing it. That they might not be able to make enough
money. The number four generally means death. This could mean
something like the fear that repetition will have a negative effect
on creative juice.
So what do you see? Do you believe that the cup is ultimately half
full or half empty? When it is half empty we are looking at a
challenge in our life and the challenge is something that the life
number that we have might be involved in. Using positive aspects
of the life number is extremely important. It is also important to
use the challenge number in a good way. This would be viewing
the glass as half full instead of half empty.
Try to share your journey with other people. Figure out how
numbers might play a role in the life of the family and friends
that you have around you and you will better be able to
understand how they might connect to each other. This can help
you find ways that your lives might intersect on a more deep
level. Share with others and try to help make life easy and more
fun for them as well.
SECTION 3 The Solution
While the brain was covered a bit in section II, we will now delve
a bit deeper into understanding the subconscious.
To better understand the concept of anchor thoughts, it is
important for us to understand what an anchor is. Simply stated,
an anchor is a trigger or stimulus which evokes a particular
response. An anchor thought can be set in any of your 5 senses. In
most cases, anchors usually take the form of words, actions,
sights and sounds among other kinds of reactions.
While at times these anchor thoughts might be triggered
internally by words, at other times they are triggered externally.
The language that you speak has the potential of triggering the
anchor thoughts. On the other words, anchors might be set
accidentally or deliberately.
It is also important to note that anchors might be gathered
instantly when someone is learning or slowly over a long period
of time. Some forms of anchors are genetic which means that they
are passed from one generation to another. They might also be
positive or negative anchors depending on how well they are
used.
When used on NLP, anchoring is used as an important technique
which helps in state management. This is used by either an
experienced practitioner or the subject himself. When this is
done, a very important technique is used to set up the trigger
deliberately. When this is done, it usually helps in the reflective
access which leads it to the state that is of interest. The following
are the key conditions for effective anchoring process.
They should be unique and specific in terms of volume, touch
and tonality
They should be refreshed which helps to minimize the risk of the
effect that is disappearing
It should also be set as the response is at its peak position
With this in mind, let us look at some key aspects as to the form
in which anchoring may be:
They might be stacked where they are placed in the same
position. This will ultimately lead to a powerful situation
They might also be collapsed. This is a situation where two
separate anchors that are not similar are triggered immediately
Understanding a Negative Anchor
To better understand what a negative anchor is, it is important to
look at the NLP. In NLP, a negative anchor is usually looked at as
any immediate and automatically reaction to something. This is a
situation where you just find yourself in a situation. You don’t
have to do anything in it.
Not Just for Anger…
When many people think about negative anchor, what they think
about is that it is for anger. The thing is that they are not just for
anger. In all this, there are chances that in many people, negative
anchors are really negative. They include insecurity, loneliness
and rejection among others. There are positive anchors too that
are very important. The positive anchors play a very important
role in all this.
There is a big difference between negative anchors and negative
thoughts. However, there is usually a form of similarity between
the two. The biggest difference between the two is speed in which
one reacts to something. It is possible to have a negative thought
all day or actually months. However, when there is a negative
anchor, there will be no delay. It will take effect immediately.
Consider this example: Assume that a friend of yours just
insulted you. Chances are that you will spend the rest of the day
being mad. It will really disturb you. If the comment was against
you personally, then you might end up hating yourself because of
what was said. As it continues to consume you, you will start to
realize that it shouldn’t be a negative anchor, and instead is a
negative thought, because you are left thinking about it all day.
On the other hand, consider a situation where the friend insults
you and you decide to settle the issue immediately. When this
happens, it becomes a negative anchor rather than a negative
thought. Once you have responded like that, there are chances
that you will solve the situation instantly. Chances are that you
won’t get along the day feeling bad.
How a Negative Anchor Differs from a Negative Thought
As noted above, there is a big difference between a negative
anchor and a negative thought. When you have a negative
anchor, your day will be similar to a minefield. You will start the
day well but things will keep on changing as the day goes by.
When you are triggered negatively, you will react badly. The
following examples can end up triggering the situation:
When the plane has been delayed
When someone treats you badly
A situation where the driver in front of you is not driving well
When a friend keeps on complaining
When a friend keeps on giving you the wrong facial expressions
What this makes you feel is that your day is totally at the mercy
of these events. It leads you to believe that you are not fully in
control of the situation. But that doesn’t have to be the case.
Does Positive Thinking Work?
The fact of the matter is that when you have a lot of negative
anchors, it can be totally demoralizing. It is important not to be
negatively affected by the words and actions of others around
you. Being independent of the words and acts of others is what
contributes to a positive attitude.
The point that we are making in this situation is that positive
thinking do not always work with negative anchors. This is
because in a negative anchor, the response is usually immediate.
The good thing is that there is a solution to all this. A number of
stages have been identified.
Find out your common triggers
Try and eliminate the mentalities before you encounter them
again
We will look at each of these situations (solutions) independently.
Discovering the common trigger
The first thing that you should do is to identify the common
triggers that you go through. You should think back and see the
common things that do trigger your thoughts. This could be in
terms of hours and minutes. After you have done that, now take
your time to come forward. This will help you discover the point
which the trigger is.
As psychologists know, to solve a situation you need to
understand where you are. When you are able to do all this, there
are chances that you will be at a good position to make the right
decision. It also does not mean that you won’t get the triggers
anymore. But when you take time to think about it and discover
that it is just an anchor, it will help you to make the best
decisions. You have the understanding of all that and thus you
will be able to deal with it effectively.
Meditation
Breath focus is one of the powerful and simple techniques in
meditation. Here is the most basic way to do it:
Sit still and be quiet. Don’t move.
Sit in a chair with your feet flat on the floor or sit on a cushion
with your legs crossed. Don’t scratch or move around. Staying
still is literally the entire point of the exercise and it will not
matter what you accomplish if you are unable to stop your basic
impulses.
Pay close attention to your breath during this process.
Close your eyes and try and focus on a single spot. Notice your
breath while you do this. Pay attention to what you are doing and
keep track of your inhales and exhales. Make sure you stay calm
and pay attention. If you find your mind starting to wander then
bring it back to where it was through any means that you have at
your disposal.
How does all of this feel? How does the mind wander? Pay
attention to these things.
After a few minutes stop thinking about your breathing and,
instead, think about how it actually feels to breath. Maybe you are
sensing this breath moving in and out or how it may be playing
on the feelings in your chest in a somewhat percussive pattern.
Maybe your mind will wander but you need to bring it back to
where it needs to be. If you want to refocus then you should just
start paying close attention to your breath. Start doing this for
something like five minutes a day and then work on increasing
that for even more.
Don’t be upset if you are bad at this. Being bad at meditation
means that your mind wanders a lot but that skill can translate
directly into will power. When you are off goal and you redirect
back to what you are trying to do you are accomplishing
something. This refocusing is like living a weight for your brain.
Don’t be worried about struggling because the struggle is the
adventure in itself.
Exercise
There is a monitoring system that is located all over your brain
and is connected to the will power section. It monitors your
thoughts and stimuli that are coming in as well as your emotions.
If you see things that don’t fit with your long term goals, this
system is activated. The cortex is stimulated and energy is
directed to the brain.
The heart will slow down
Breathing is harder
Muscles are looser
All these things change you physically so you can use your will
power. This system is in all people but it doesn’t always seem
apparent that this is the case. It is also a newer system.
Studies have been done and have shown in the past that the best
predictor of strength in the pause and plan response is HRV.
Everyone’s heart rate seems to vary a bit from moment to
moment. They are small fluctuations but they are safe. The
greater they vary the better their will power.
Stress > Sympathetic nervous > low varying
Self-control > Parasympathetic > High varying
Train your mind and your body. Here are two strategies which
will get you exactly what you want in terms of your will power
and your ability to achieve goals. They will help with boost
happiness and your general health. Studies have been conducted
with techniques used to increase will power. At the very end of
the treatment and use of the technique, here are some things that
changed: improved attention span, improved ability to tune out
all distractions, less smoking and drinking and caffeine use, less
junk food and more health food, no television watching, all
studying was getting done, more emotional control, more saving
money and less purchases on impulse, a decrease in
procrastination and an increase in timeliness.
So. What was this miracle drug that they used? Exercise. It helps
in every aspect of your life and is the number one thing that we
can compare to a will power wonder drug. HRV is going to shoot
up during exercise and your gray and white matter in your brain
increases. It also leads to increases in the cortex portions of the
brain. This can be as strong as some drugs work for depression.
What do you need to do? How much do you need to do? How
much are you willing to do? There isn’t any point in setting a goal
that you will not take care of and will abandon in a week. Five
minutes can help. What kind is best? The kind you are willing to
do. The mind and the body don’t care what you do, as long as
you actually do it.
Experiment: The Five Minute Will Power Fill Up
Feeling like you need a quick amount of will power? Go outside
for five minutes and move around for a bit. This will recharge
your batteries. If that outside area is some kind of green space,
this effect is even better.
The Mind
As a person, you are bombarded with millions of thoughts on a
daily basis. While some of these thoughts are good, others are not
good at all. Sometimes, people say negative things about you too.
Assume that someone you work with has the habit of giving you
a mean look. What will you do? Will you ask why she said that to
you or will you take time to feel bad for yourself because she
keeps glaring? In this situation, you need to recognize that the
mean look she just gave you has a chance of making you feel very
bad about yourself, but it should not bother you at all. In fact, it is
very likely that the reason she glares has nothing to do with you,
and is part of her personal problems. We all have them, but some
people let them weigh them down and then project them on to
others. When this happens, you can let it bother you too, sucking
the life out of you, or you can refer to the old adage of “I’m
rubber and you’re glue…” and keep living the life you want.
The reason why many people don’t achieve their dreams and
aspirations is that they have negative thoughts. These have the
ability to consume them and reduce them into anxious beings that
are not able to achieve their goals.
How to Deal with Negative Thoughts
The fact is that everyone has negative thoughts all once in a
while. The biggest challenge now has to do with how they handle
these thoughts. This is what separates the successful people and
those who are not successful. For instance, when you are sick, you
might say that you will never get well.
Alternatively you could decide to say that you will soon get well.
In this case, chances are that you will get well if you are the latter
person. Part of this is physiological. If you continue to tell
yourself that you will get well soon, and you make it a point to
take vitamins and make yourself laugh, you will naturally release
happy chemicals in your body like serotonin, which will help you
heal faster. But this emphasizes the point that positive thoughts
can literally go a long way.
When faced with a challenge, you can come up with a statement
like, “even though this is a major challenge right now because I
have a lot of work to do this week, I believe that after a few days,
I will get better and be back at work”. This is a better statement
than when you say something like, “I feel terrible, this could not
have come at a worse time, and I will never get over it”. The latter
appreciates that there is a problem and prophesies a negative
outcome while the former sees a light at the end of the tunnel.
This is a very important thing that you should always know
about controlling your thoughts.
Just take a moment and carry out this exercise. Go outside and sit
down in an open place. Don’t carry anything including your
phone. Once you are there, start thinking of anything that you
have in mind. Do you have something negative that you are
thinking about? Remember that you are the master of your mind.
You have a lot of potential to change things as many times as you
need until you become somebody better. If you are thinking that
you are a failure, start having a positive attitude that you are a
champion. Having positive thoughts can make your life better
which is very important. Think about this: have you heard about
any inventor who came up with something when he was
negative? No. Why not? Because they used positive thoughts to
complete their goals. When you take time to have positive
thoughts, it will help you to accomplish many things.
Some of these things that can be achieved are:
Reducing the risk of high blood pressure
Significantly reducing your risks of having a heart disease
Making your immune system stronger
Reducing your level of stress or depression
Preventing diseases such as stomach problems and insomnia
Brightening your life in terms of being optimistic
Tips to be Happier and More Positive in Life
The next thing that we will look is on a couple of things that you
could do to become happier in life. When these things are done,
then there are chances that you will be happier and successful.
Say a prayer. This does not have to be to any specific god, or any
god at all. You can send your prayer to the birds in the trees or
the sun in the sky. The fact of the matter is that when you take
your time to pray, chances are that it will guide you well in
achieving the goals.
Be yourself and live for the moment: this means that you should
focus on where you are today and not where you will be
tomorrow. If you have some issues, then tell yourself that this is
just a passing cloud. The sun is always shining above the clouds.
Be open to people around you. The thing is that when you share
problems with someone who is really close to you, you will be
good to go. It will help you be a better person. However, you
should carefully look at the person you are telling. You should
not tell someone who isn’t a good friend and might use the
information against you.
Also you can decide to treat yourself. For instance, you can decide
to play with your kids one afternoon or go shopping.
East well: Just because you have some issues is not an excuse for
you to starve yourself or binge on unhealthy food. You should eat
a nicely cooked meal. It is amazing what wonders this can do for
you
Neuro Linguistic Programming
Neuro linguistic programming (NLP) is basically the study of
words and human behavior. This is a study that is concerned
with how the words that a person says have the ability to change
his behaviors. It explains a number of key details on how human
words affect the brain and how the brain in return makes the
words actualized.
NLP basically represents 3 aspects of human behavior. The first
behavior that is very important in NLP is neurology. Neurology
is basically the aspects that usually control the human body
functions. The second aspect is language control. This determines
the way the person communicates and lastly there is the
programming which explains in detail the model which the
humans use to understand the world around him. Simply said,
NLP creates a link between the person, his mind and the way he
talks and communicates.
It is a philosophical aspect that explains a couple of key details as
to what make a person a human. It looks at the human thought
and analyzes to further develop a model that will be used to
explain the behavior. It also looks at the spirituality aspect of the
person. Researchers in this field take their time to go through
things that affect them and how they can handle it well.
Using NLP, a number of things have been developed and
observed. Scientists have identified and proven that there is a
very major correlation between the way a person says and what
they think, and who they finally become. This model was
developed by John Grinder who was a linguist and Richard
Bandler who was a mathematician. The hypothesis behind it is
that humans become who they perceive.
Positive Thinking
In achieving your life ambitions, it is very important to have a
positive thinking outlook. Consider a situation where you are
asked a question about your glass of water. In this, consider a
situation where you are asked whether it is half full or half
empty. What would be your response? As I am sure most of you
know, if your answer is “half full” you are a positive thinker. If it
is “half empty” you are considered a negative thinker. And your
thoughts play a direct role in what you can achieve in life.
Being positive means that you should appreciate that there is a
problem and then accept that there will be a way to fix the
problem. Not everything in life will be sunshine and kittens, but
that does not mean you have to be negative. You can appreciate
that a problem exists and then take active steps to fix it, instead of
being weighed down by the thought that things will never get
fixed. Even if you are unsure of exactly how it will be fixed, you
should be positive that a way will be found at the end of the day.
When positive thinking is combined by self-talk, chances are that
a solution to every problem will be found. Self-talk are unspoken
words that one thinks when one is either in a problem or when
one is idle.
Health Benefits of Positive Thinking
Positive thinking has many advantages. Many scientists and
researchers have found a correlation in positive thinking to
various things. Some of these things are:
Increased years of living
Reduced rates of depression and stress
Reduced levels of distress
Being immune to cold
Being psychologically and physically good
Having improved coping skills
It is believed that the body is always able to react to positive
energy and thus have a positive attributes than a negative person.
How to Identify Negative Thinking
The points below will help you to figure out whether you are
having some negative thinking and self-talk
Filtering: This is a situation where you magnify the negative
aspects of a situation and filter the good things about it. You are
then left with negative details.
Personalizing: This is where you blame yourself for anything
wrong that happens, even those which you don’t have any
control over.
Polarizing: This is where there is no middle ground in your
situations. You only view them as either bad or good.
Catastrophizing: This is when you are ever pessimist. A situation
where you always anticipate the worst thing.
How to Focus on Positive Thinking
When you turn the negative thinking positive, then chances are
that you will live a better life. Theoretically, this is a very simple
thing. However, practically, this can be a really big mess. Here are
a couple of things that you can always do:
Identify areas where need change: You should always assess the
situation and think of areas that really do need change. Starting
small can really help.
Always assess yourself. This is a situation where you develop
indexes to assess yourself well and check for anything.
Always be open to humor and things that have the ability to
make you happy
Having a healthy lifestyle will greatly help you
Always try to avoid people who are not very positive in life.
When you surround yourself with negative people, then you
won’t change at all.
Take part in positive self-talk
The table below will introduce a couple of negative self-talk. It
then highlights some of the best things that you can say to further
change your mind:
Negative self-talk Positive thinking
I have never done
such a thing before
Doing this thing will make
me learn better
This process is
impossible to be
done
It’s difficult but I can handle
it from another perspective
I don’t have the
required money for
the task
Necessity is the mother of
invention.
Today is not the day
for this as I feel lazy
Though am lazy, I will get it
done anyway
Negative self-talk Positive thinking
This thing can’t
work no matter
what
It’s difficult but I will give it
a try
It's too radical a
change.
Let's take a chance.
Nobody likes to talk
to me
I'll see if I can open the
channels of communication.
I will never improve
in this
Though it’s hard, I will give
it a try
Practicing Positive Thinking Everyday
Positive thinking is simply not something that you decide to use
today and forget about it tomorrow. Not at all. Positive thinking
is something that you should always have. If you are a pessimist,
changing is not all that easy. However, giving it a try can really
help you.
While positive thinking is an easy statement to say, it is
unfortunate that it is not a very easy strategy to use. According to
researchers, positive thinking is not what many people think it is.
It is not just a situation of being happy. Positive thinking can
really add value to a person’s life if used well. This can include
changes in your daily life, health, money and relationships.
According to Barbara Fredrickson, positive thinking is
responsible for the successes of many people.
Barbara is a senior psychology researcher at the University of
North Carolina. She is famous for the publishing of an important
paper than explains the correlation between positive thinking and
basic life skills. She noted that when positive thinking is
employed in various things in life, the success rate of the person
will be phenomenon.
Impacts of Negative Thoughts on the Brain
Take a moment and consider this situation: You are walking in a
forest where a tiger just appears out of the blue. What will be
registered in your brain, by adrenalin, is a negative emotion
called fear. Many researchers, including Barbara believe that the
brain has a way of responding to various emotions. When the
tiger appears, you run, avoiding all the other sorts of danger but
your mind is fixed on the tiger.
In the same way, negative thoughts narrow your brain’s thinking
capacity and you only concentrate on the problem rather than the
vast opportunities. Just in the same manner that you respond to
the tiger or lion or any kind of danger, your brain power will be
narrowed down in the case of a major problem in your life.
Take another example: Assume that you are fighting someone.
During the fight, your only focus is to hurt the other person. You
are not concerned with whether you will kill him or not. Your
thoughts are narrowed in this situation.
The same happens when you are stressed about an exam that is
scheduled for the next day, especially if you have not studied.
Your thoughts are narrowed and the fear causes you to only focus
on the negative.
In each of these scenarios, your brain stops to focus on other
things that could ultimately be important to focus on just that
challenge that you are going through. When this happens, the
negative thoughts actually prevent the brain from seeing the
bigger picture. You don’t consider that the single exam is only
worth a percentage of your grade, or that if you accidentally kill
this person you could end up in jail.
However, you should note that there is nothing at all wrong with
you. It’s a normal survival instinct and everyone has it.
That is why in the next part we will look at the ways which the
brain is affected by the positive thoughts.
The Power of Positive Thoughts
When Barbara Fredrickson was creating the paper, she decided to
test the power of positive thoughts. She tried a couple of
experiments to show what happens when someone has positive
thoughts. She divides it into five categories put into different
films.
In the first two groups, clips that created positive emotions while
group 3 was a control group. Group 1 had images that created joy
and happiness. In the second group, images that created feelings
of contentment.
In the last 2 groups, clips that recorded negative emotions were
used. In the 4th group was images that created fear while in the 5th
group were images that created anger.
After the experiment was set, each participating member was
asked to imagine themselves in a situation where the
experiment’s feelings would come up and what they would do.
The people involved were handed a piece of paper to respond in
20 statements. Each one started with, “I would like to…”
The results were staggering. The respondents who had images of
fear and anger wrote the fewest responses while those with
images of joy and contentment wrote a higher number than the
control experiment.
What the experiment showed is that when you are going through
a positive issue in life, you will tend to see more possibilities.
When you are going through a tough situation that is obviously
negative, you will have very limited possibilities. This was a huge
step forward in proving the value of positive thinking.
Influence on Positive Thinking on Building your Skill Set
The fact of the matter is that the benefits of positive emotions last
for a long period of time. They don’t just last for a few minutes.
Positive emotions play an important role in building the skills of
an individual.
In this situation, a real example is necessary. Take the example of
a child who likes to play, sing, and swing on branches and one
that hates all these. Chances are that this child will develop
quality social skills, athletic mentality and also communication
skills better than a child who hates all of those things. Later in life,
the current playful one will learn to be independent but also
active and happier in life.
When started early in life, these skills mature with the child and
last for a long period of time. The foundation that was established
when the child is young will last for a long time. The child will be
more athletic, better communicator, better in education and also
better in management because the child learned the skills earlier
in life. This is what was referred by Fredrickson as the “broaden
and build theory”, as the positive emotions usually broaden your
sense of thinking and navigating life’s issues. Negative emotions
do the negative.
Tips to Increase Your Positive Thinking Level
At this point you may be wondering what you should do to
increase your ‘broaden and build” theory in real life. The best
thing about all this is that anybody can use the trick and live a
content life. It is not limited to anyone in particular. The best
thing that you can do to benefit from this theory is to do what you
love.
Consider the 3 ideas below:
Meditation- According to research, people who have invested a
lot of time to meditation are more productive. They display more
attention to positive skills than those who don’t. According to
Fredrickson, people who meditate on a daily basis end up having
a better life, performing well and also achieve better goals in life.
Writing- It is scientifically proven that when you spend a lot of
time writing, you will develop some quality positive thinking
guide. According to the journal of Research I Personality, people
who wrote about their positive experiences each and every day
developed to be happier people than those who fail to write. I
have personally tried writing good things about each day and I
have been very successful.
Play- It is said that work without play makes ‘Jack’ a dull boy.
This Jack could be you. When you spend your time thinking
about money, houses, cars and meetings, chances are that you
will not have a good amount of time to enjoy yourself. It has been
proven that people who play often have a better life than those
who ignore it.
When you smile and enjoy the quality benefits of life, there are
chances that you will live a good and productive life. It will help
you have a positive way of thinking which is still very important.
Happiness versus Success
This is usually an egg-chicken situation where it is hard to explain
which one comes first.
Do you become happy when you are successful or do you become
successful if you are happy? In reality, both of these situations are
correct. What you need to know is that it is not possible to
become successful in life if you are not happy. Have you ever
seen any leading executive who is always sad? Your guess is as
good as mine.
Researchers have noted a compounding effect called the upward
spiral that happens when people are happy. Happy people don’t
limit their mind to one thing. No, they are always ready and
willing to do new things. They believe that when they try these
techniques, there will be better chances of being good.
Where to go from here…
While happiness is a very good thing, the fact of the matter is that
it is usually easier said than done. It is possible to have a desire to
be really happy about life. However, getting to that point at times
could prove very challenging. The best thing that you can always
do is to find ways of building happiness. Think of the successes
that you have had in life and after doing that, chances are that
you will be very happy.
Maintaining Positive Thoughts
Being happy once in a while is something that is possible. In fact,
it is a bit easier. However, retaining that happiness is usually the
biggest internal challenge that you can ever go through. The next
part explains a couple of ways that you can do to help you
become happier in life.
Never wait for happiness- In this, you should not just sit around
and wait for happiness. You should seek happiness by having
better priorities such as meditation and writing. Having a good
attitude will also help you in this.
Clarify and prioritize your goals- You should then learn the
basics for prioritizing what you really want in life. In this, you
should prioritize things that make you happy. These are the
details that usually make you happy.
Make your purpose clear- You need to have a purpose in life.
You should think of which purposes you do have in life and use
them well to be happy.
Discover your purpose in life- You now need to discover your
purpose in life. You should meditate on the top reasons why you
were actually created. Write them down.
Visualize how you want your future to be- To be happy, you need
to look into the future. You should have a clear picture of what
you really want to achieve in life. See yourself living in
abundance, with a good family and home.
Have life goals- You cannot reach the place that you are going if
you don’t have the direction. You should create goals (both short
term and long term). These goals will help you to make the right
decisions.
Resiliency- To be happy, you should note that it is usually not a
very smooth ride. It is a challenging situation that will have ups
and downs. But when you are very happy, you increase the
chances that you can push through challenges.
The use of self-talk- Everyone has a form of inner conversation.
This is when you talk to yourself via the mind. You should
therefore have a conversation that is not only positive but also
real. To be happy, you need to even criticize yourself, positively.
Laugh away- Do you know that magic happens when you laugh?
Things change when you smile. Therefore, it is important for you
to always smile when you are faced with life’s challenges. You
should know that when you laugh, things will ultimately change.
As it is often said, laughter really is the best medicine.
Seize the day- It is a very important thing to always enjoy the
moment. No matter how hard life is today, you should take it
within yourself to live it to the best of your abilities and make
sure that you can look back on the day and be happy with what
you did. Always enjoy the moment. You should not think of your
past or future. You should only live for the moment, and let the
little things bring you happiness. As the saying goes, the past is
history; the future is a mystery and today is a gift.
Be optimistic- The next step to happiness is being optimistic.
When you are able to look at the positive angle of life, chances are
that you will be happier in life. Even when something terrible
happens you should go ahead and think that it all happens for a
positive reason. When you are able to think like this, chances are
that you will be happier in the long term.
10 Day Plan
In order to get what you want you need to make a change now.
You need to remember that your thoughts are powerful and with
them and control of your subconscious mind you can make a
change and get what you want now.
For the next ten days you can follow this plan toward controlling
your subconscious and make the changes you want:
Day 1 Day 2 Day 3 Day 4 Day 5
Calculate
your
numbers
Calculate
your
numbers
Calculate
your
numbers
Calculate
your
numbers
Calculate
your
numbers
Exercise
Exercise
Exercise
Exercise
Exercise
Meditate
Meditate
Meditate
Meditate
Meditate
Practice
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Remember that doing a little bit of each and improving the
amount will help you on your ten day path. You may struggle at
first but that is natural. Meditation, for example, may be
challenging for you at first, but persevering and doing a bit at a
time will make it much easier for you.
CONCLUSION
In the first section you were introduced to the history
numerology. You learned about the connections between
numerology and ancient civilizations. You were introduced to the
connections between numerology and the Bible. Finally you
skipped to the present and recognize what role numerology
nowadays has to play and answer the question: What
Numerology Really Is?
In the second section you were introduced formally to: Your brain
– the super computer. You learned about the Neural Networks in
your brain and how thought creates reality. Psychological
Defense Mechanisms will be covered. You figured out how
numerology works and what the meanings of numbers are. You
learned about Pythagorean Numerology. You were taught how to
calculate your numbers. You learned things such as your Birth
day number, Birth name number, Life path number, Expression
number, and Soul Urge number. You were taught what your
numbers reveals about you. You will also review other numbers
of significance: house numbers, telephone numbers and find the
numbers of the things you want.
The third and final section provided you with the solution. It
taught you how to take control of your subconscious mind. It
offered you step-by-step instructions for reprograming your brain
10 days plan to get what you want. Now you have all of the tools
you need to get out there and change your life.
