Newsletter July - September 2010

The mission of The Patrick Dempsey Center for Cancer Hope & Healing is to provide the high-est quality of education, support and wellness services to enhance the quality of life of indi-viduals, families, and communities touched by cancer. We strive to embrace the whole person, including body, mind, and spirit, in a respectful, inclusive, and healing environment.

JULY/AUG/SEPT 2010 NEWSLETTER

PLEASE SEE THE SPECIAL EVENTS SECTION FOR MORE DETAILS.

THE LANGUAGE OF COMFORTING: WHAT TO SAY AND DO FOR

PEOPLE IN DISTRESS

Listening with warmth and acceptance is one of the greatest

gifts we can give someone. We will explore what it means to be a

comforting presence.

BEGINNER’S REIKI CLASS

Come and learn about reiki! You will learn the history of reiki,

reiki ethics and principles, and how to give reiki to yourself

and to others.

FREE PROSTATE CANCER SCREENING CLINIC

Free bloodwork and examination will be offered to

men age 50 and over.

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Tweens to TeensTeenagers have their own unique set of needs when someone they love has been

diagnosed with cancer. This six week support group for adolescents ages 12-17 offers acomfortable environment to talk about what it’s like, learn more about cancer, and engage

in different projects with other teenagers facing similar struggles.

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SPECIAL FEATURE

Additional Leadership Staff Required to Keep Up With Center’s GrowthIn 2008, the year that the Dempsey Center opened its doors, the Center provided 6,000 direct service contacts to cancer patients and their families, supported by a staff of three full-time employees and 32 volunteers. In 2009, the numbers grew exponentially, with the Center providing cancer health education and support through our website, workshops, health fairs, and community events to tens of thousands of people. We also had 8,000 direct patient and caregiver contacts through our direct care services, including counseling/oncology social work, financial resource counseling, helpline calls, integrative medi-cine services such as massage therapy and reiki, and other direct care. We nearly doubled the number of free workshops offered through the Center, and increased our pool of volunteers to 173, and our staff from 3 to 7 regular full- and part-time employees. The inaugural Dempsey Challenge event increased our visibility and reach, resulting in growing numbers of patients and their loved ones utilizing the Center for support and care, along with increased involvement from caring and generous community members who joined the Center’s volunteer and donor pools.

“We have reached a point where the administrative work involved in leading the Center requires two positions---a Program Director, who can focus on developing, directing, and maintaining the quality of the services and programs offered by the Center, and an Executive Director, who can focus on providing administrative oversight, in terms of fiscal management; en-hancing organizational operations; and developing and maintaining external communications and partnerships,” notes Kerry Irish, the Center’s Program Director and co-founder. “We are thrilled to bring someone of Teresa’s caliber to our team!”

In addition to leadership roles in a number of Maine organi-

zations, Teresa comes to us with a clinician’s heart and ex-

perience. She received a Master of Arts from the Franciscan

School of Theology in Berkeley, CA. and her Post-Masters

certificate in Spiritual Direction from The Mercy Center for

Healing the Whole Person located in Colorado Springs. She

is a spiritual director, lay theologian, retreat facilitator, lec-

turer and author. She has also served as a hospital chaplain,

providing spiritual and pastoral care to patients and fami-

lies at end-of-life.

Teresa firmly believes in the Center’s

mission to embrace the whole person

– in mind, body and spirit – in a respect-

ful, inclusive and healing environment.

“I continue to be impressed with the

dedication and commitment of Cen-

ter staff and volunteers. I have been

inspired and humbled by the cour-

age displayed by individuals living

with and affected by cancer.”

Dempsey Center Welcomes Executive Director

We are pleased to announce that Teresa Schulz will be joining The Patrick Dempsey Center for Cancer Hope & Healing in the newly created role of Executive Director. Teresa has extensive experience in management and leadership roles, most recently as a member of the Human Resource team at Central Maine Medical Center. Teresa has also served as the “Tools

for Intentional Living & Transformation” series facilitator at the Dempsey Center.

SPECIAL FEATURE

Staff Listing:

Liane BenderPatient Service Representative

[email protected]

Carol BrewsterCancer Resource Specialist & Center Assistant

[email protected]

Caroline “Tookie” Bright, LMSW-CCChildren’s Programming Coordinator

[email protected]

Chrissy Caine, BSFinancial Resource Counselor

[email protected]

Mary DempseyVolunteer Corps Manager

[email protected]

Emily Ecker, LCSWOutreach Oncology Social Worker

[email protected]

Julia Harper, BSCancer Resource Specialist & Center Assistant

[email protected]

Chriss Hayden, BS/CHEBreast Health Outreach Patient Navigator

[email protected]

Maureen Higgins, LCSWCancer Health Outreach Educator

[email protected]

Kerry Irish, LCSW, OSW-CProgram [email protected]

Dorn McMahon, LCSWOutpatient Oncology Social Worker

[email protected]

Colleen O’Connor, LCSWOutpatient Oncology Social Worker

[email protected]

Teresa Schulz, MAExecutive [email protected]

Terri Quatrano-Simpson, LCSWOperation Inspiration Program Coordinator

[email protected]

Wendy TardifDempsey Challenge Event Manager

[email protected]

Mark TurcotteCommunications Specialist

[email protected]

Rebecca WrightDevelopment Director

[email protected]

(207) 795-8250 or toll free at 1-877-336-7287Fax: (207) 795-8255

The Dempsey Center is pleased to offer three new ongoing monthly offerings!

The Lung Cancer Wellness and Support Group

This group offers an opportunity for lung cancer patients, survivors, and family caregivers/loved ones to receive support while

learning about resources and new information regarding lung cancer. Beginning July 15, the group will meet every third Thursday of the

month from 1:30p to 3:00pm in Conference Room D.

TILT GroupTools for Intentional Living and Transformation (TILT) helped

reveal the sacredness of life - in wellness and illness. In our initial six week sessions, we began to explore ways to act - not react - out of

that sacredness. For those who have completed the initial TILT sessions and wish to continue honing those intentional living

tools, we are offering monthly gatherings the first Tuesday of every month from 4:30-6:00 p.m in the Conference Classroom at

CMMC. Space is limited to 12 participants and preregistration to join this group is required.

Monthly Touch Drawing* CircleLed by Helen Warren, an artist, art educator and healer.

Meets the first Wednesday of the month (beginning Aug. 4th) 4:30 -6:30 pm in the Conference Classroom at CMMC (1st floor, across

from the Boardroom). This circle provides a unique opportunity for relaxation, reflection, expression and rejuvenation. The playful

yet profound process of Touch Drawing* involves drawing with your fingers and hands, allowing impulses to well up from within and take

form on the paper. This creative practice encourages you to open to and let nourishing energy flow freely, to trust your body’s wisdom and intuition, and to access deep sources for healing and inspiration.

The circle gathered and Helen’s gentle guidance provides a safe and relaxing space in which to journey. No experience

necessary, only a willingness to open to the magic!!

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Yoga for Life11:00-12:00p.m.

Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m.

Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.

Mini-Spa6:30p.m.

Massage



Caring Cards5:30-7:30p.m.

Massage

Yoga for Life11:00-12:00p.m. Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m. Lung Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m. Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.Caring Cards5:30-7:30p.m.Massage


Puppet Making1-2:30p.m.



Massage

Caregiver Support12-1:30p.m.

Massage

Psychosocial12-1:00p.m.

Warmth of Life!4:30-6:00p.m.

Sewing Circle5:30-8:00p.m.

Reiki Class5:30-7:30p.m.

Massage

Target Cancer9-11:00a.m.


Painting with Pastels6-8:00p.m.

Massage

CLIMB5-7:00p.m.

Painting with Pastels6-8:00p.m.

Massage

TILT4:30-6:00p.m.

Breast Cancer Support6-7:30p.m.

Tweens to Teens6-7:30p.m.

Teleconference1:30-2:30p.m.



Target Cancer9-11:00a.m.





Teleconference1:30-2:30p.m.



Massage

Seeking Balance at Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.


Massage

Target Cancer9-11:00a.m. Look Good10:00-12:00p.m.Sewing Circle9-12:00p.m. Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.Chakras3-4:30p.m.Knitting Circle6:30-8:30p.m.Massage

Target Cancer9-11:00a.m. Yoga for Life11:00-12:00p.m. Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m. Jewelry 3-5:00p.m. Veterans 4-6:00 p.m. Mini-Spa 6:30p.m. Massage


Prostate Support6:00-7:30p.m.


Massage

“Courage is like love; it must

have hope for nourishment.”

~ Napoleon

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Lung Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.


Mini-Spa6:30p.m.

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Mini-Spa6:30p.m.

Massage


CLIMB5-7:00p.m.

Massage

CLIMB5-7:00p.m.


Massage

CLIMB5-7:00p.m.


Massage

TILT4:30-6:00p.m.

CLIMB5-7:00p.m.

8/23 - Reiki Class5:30-7:30p.m.

Massage

I CAN COPE1:30-3:00p.m.

TILT4:30-6:00p.m.








Touch Drawing4:30-6:30p.m.


Massage



Massage

Look Good10:00-12:00p.m.

Sewing Circle9-12:00p.m.

Taming the Tiger1:30-3:00p.m.



Massage


Chakras1:30-3:00p.m.



Massage


Prostate Support6:00-7:30p.m.


Massage

“Hope is itself a species of happiness and, perhaps, the chief happiness which this world affords.”

~Samuel Johnson

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Yoga for Life11:00-12:00p.m. Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m. Lung Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m. Cancer Support1:30-3:00p.m.Caring Cards5:30-7:30p.m.Massage


Massage

Psychosocial12-1:00p.m.


“Teal Toes”6-7:30p.m.

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Prostate Cancer Screening Clinic1-4:00p.m.

I CAN COPE1:30-3:00p.m.

TILT4:30-6:00p.m.


TILT4:30-6:00p.m.


TILT4:30-6:00p.m.

Guidance through Grief2-3:30p.m. or4:30-6:00p.m.


TILT4:30-6:00p.m.

Guidance through Grief2-3:30p.m. or4:30-6:00p.m.


9/26 - The Art of Living Imperfectly4-5:30p.m.



Massage


Touch Drawing4:30-6:30p.m.


Massage

Sewing Circle9-12:00p.m.

Look Good10:00-12:00p.m.



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Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m. Mini-Spa6:30p.m.

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Vision Journals1:30-3:30p.m.

Knitting Circle1:00-3:00p.m. Massage

Emotional & Spiritual1:30-3:00p.m.


Prostate SupportDinner & Learn6:00-7:30p.m.


Massage

SPECIAL EVENTS & WORKSHOPS

A LUNCH-AND-LEARN SERIES FOR CANCER CAREGIVERS

Date/Time: 1st Monday of the month, 12:00-1:30 p.m.Location: Conference Room D at CMMC

A caregiver can be anyone who is involved with the emotional and/or physical care of a loved one who has cancer. As a caregiver, it is essential that you care for your self as you care for your loved one. These sessions are designed to provide you with tools to do this, while offering the opportunity to connect with other caregivers.

The series is facilitated by Emily Ecker, LCSW, Outreach Oncology Social Worker for The Patrick Dempsey Center for Cancer Hope & Healing. Lunch will be provided and pre-registration required. Space is limited to 8 partici-pants, and early registration is strongly encouraged.

7/5/10: The Language of Comforting: What to Say and Do for People in Distress Guest presenter: Val Walker. Listening with warmth and acceptance is one of the greatest gifts we can give someone. We will explore what it means to be a comforting presence, and learn what to say and do for people in distress. We will especially focus on how to use the best words for offering comfort, and what we need to avoid saying.

Val Walker has had many years of experience as a grief and loss counselor and is the author of The Art of Comforting: What to Say and Do for People in Distress, being published by Tarcher/Penguin (Fall 2010).

8/2/10: Laughter is Good “Medicine”Guest Presenter: Carol Emery, Certified Laughter Leader. Do you need a reason to laugh? Here are a few: Laughter can lower your blood pressure, reduce your stress, connect you with others, lift your mood, and its cost-free! Carol works with River Valley Healthy Communities Coalition and is a Certified Laughter Leader, trained by the World Laughter Tour.

9/13/10: Caring for My Mom Guest presenter: Mary Dempsey, Volunteer Corps Manager at the Dempsey Center. Eleven years ago, Mary’s mother was first diagnosed with cancer. Adult children who become caregivers have a unique experience, role and perspective that differs from other types of caregivers. She’ll share these and tips that she’s learned along the way.

PAINTING WITH PASTELS

Date/Time: 7/19/10 & 7/26/10, Mondays, 6:00-8:00 p.m. Location: Conference Room H at CMMC

Co-led by Selia Dubois, artist and cancer survivor, and Patricia Poulin, RN, artist. Art is considered a form of yoga, during which the participant may experience feelings of inner peace and tranquility. We all have a need to express ourselves and have an inner talent that needs to be discovered. By the end of the second session, we will have a beautiful work of art that we can be proud of. No previous art experience necessary! Session is limited to 15 participants and early registration is encouraged.

TWEENS TO TEENS

Date/Time: 7/6/10 - 8/10/10, Tuesdays, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Location: The Patrick Dempsey Center

Facilitated by Tookie Bright, LMSW – CC, Children’s Program Coordinator. Teenagers have their own unique set of needs when someone they love has been diagnosed with cancer. This 6 week support group offers a comfortable environment to talk about what it’s like, learn more about cancer, and engage in different projects with other teenagers facing similar struggles.

“Tweens to Teens” is for adolescents ages 12-17. Due to the progressive and cohesive nature of this group we request that participants make every effort to attend all sessions if at all possible. The group is free and pre-registration is required. Please contact Tookie Bright at 795-8256 for more information.

All programs are FREE and are open to cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers. Pre-registration is required for all programs in order to ensure adequate space & refreshments: call 795-8250 or 1-877-336-7287 to register.

Program Cancellations due to weather will be posted on our website: www.dempseycenter.org.

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CELEBRATING THE WARMTH OF LIFE!

Date/Time: 7/12/10, 4:30-6:00 p.m. Location: Conference Room I at CMMC

Presented by Marcy Covey. Learn yogic and energetic postures that honor the sun, and our place in it! We’ll participate in gentle movements, breathing activities and some chanting!

BEGINNER’S REIKI CLASS

Date/Time: 7/12 & 19, 8/16 & 23, Mondays*, 5:30-7:30 p.m. Location: The Dempsey Center

Reiki practitioners use gentle touch to promote health and relaxation. The recipient relaxes into a comfortable position, fully clothed. The reiki practi-tioner places his or her hands on or just above the body, with the intent to channel healthy energy. Many people report increased feelings of wellness and relaxation after a reiki session.

Come and learn about reiki! You will learn the history of reiki, reiki ethics and principles, and how to give reiki to yourself and to others. *Classes are offered for 4 weeks, but attendance at all 4 sessions is not required. Partici-pants may sign up for each session individually. Space is limited to 8 participants/session and early registration is required by contacting the Dempsey Center at x8250. For more information, contact Meredith Kendall, RN, MSN, Dempsey Center Reiki Coordinator @ [email protected] or 207-795-7599.

SEEKING BALANCE

Date/Time: 7/14/10, 1:30-3:00 p.m. Location: Conference Room I at CMMC

Presented by Rev. Don Mayberry. Cancer is an unwelcome intrusion into our lives that can knock us off our balance in more ways than one. There are many ways to maintain our balance, including the encouragement of friend-ships, telling our stories, listening to the stories of others, and engaging our spirits through prayer, meditation, or other practices. This session will involve open conversa-tion about the various ways that we strive to stand up to this particular chapter of our lives. We want to more than cope...we want to live meaningful and hopeful lives even when the darkness is trying to knock us off our feet.

Quilts for CLIMBNew Dempsey Center volunteer Dee Roberge donated various quilts for young graduates of the Center’s CLIMB (Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery) program. CLIMB is a six-week program designed by the Children’s Treehouse Foundation for children ages 5-11 with a parent or grandparent diagnosed with cancer. The new program will be offered quarterly through the Center and Roberge has offered to provide support and instruction to members of the Center’s sewing group who are willing to assist in creating the quilts.

Photo: Caroline “Tookie” Bright, Dempsey Center Children’s

Programming Coordinator on left, and Dee Roberge on right.

Martel Elementary ‘Steps’ for the Dempsey CenterAs part of the 2009 International CyberFair Project theme “Unite and Share,” Darlene Letourneau’s third grade class at Martel Elementa-ry School decided to recognize individuals and organizations that devote time and money to improving the lives of people of Lewiston. The class challenged all Martel students to walk 10,000 steps per week and collect donations in memory of Martel staff members who have succumbed to cancer. Through the event, the Martel community raised $872.45 for the Dempsey Center and honored the memories of Ms. Liza Beckwith, Ms. Judith Fairweather, Mrs. Sonya Charest, Mrs. Denise Dube, Mrs. Francoise Campbell, and Mr. Kenneth Jones.

Photo: Mary Dempsey, Joshua, Camryn and Mrs. Letourneau.


OPERATION: TARGET CANCER!

Date/Time: 7/19/10-7/22/10, Monday-Thursday, 9:00–11:00am Location: Conference room A at CMMC

Facilitated by Tookie Bright, LMSW – CC, Children’s Program Coordinator. What does cancer look like to you? Cancer is a complex disease that can be difficult to understand and some-times even more difficult to picture. This hands-on four day imaginative art program is designed for children and teens ages 6-14. During the process of creation participants will be encouraged to ask questions, tell stories, and make friends all while building a really cool piñata to share with family and friends at the final day celebration.

Monday 7/19/10 : What is cancer? In the design phase, the group will explore what cancer means to each person, how their lives have been affected and what it might look like if they could see it.

Tuesday 7/20/10: Bulking upDuring the second meeting the group will build their piñata from scratch with paper mache and other home-based construction materials.

Wednesday 7/21/10: Creativity unleashedThe third session is reserved for decorating the paper mache masterpiece and planning the final week’s celebration.

Thursday 7/22/10: The Re-Mission: Destroy CancerParent, families and friends are invited to attend this celebration of Hope & Healing where the final Piñata will be unveiled.

CHAKRAS: YOUR SEVEN ENERGY CENTERS

Date/Time: 7/21/10, 3:00-4:30 p.m.Location: Small Board Room at Bridgton Hospital

Presented by Emily Ecker, LCSW, Outreach Oncology Social Worker. The Seven Chakra system is based on ancient Eastern traditions. Learn about what they are, what colors, emotions and tones are associated with each one and how they can support your well being.

JEWELRY MAKING WITH HEMP AND BEADS

Date/Time: 7/22/10, 3:00-5:00 p.m. Location: Conference Room C at Rumford Hospital

Presented by Sue Beaudoin. Sue has been working with hemp and beads for many years. She will help you to custom design a necklace and bracelet. No art experience necessary and all materials are provided. Class size is limited to 7 so please sign up early.

VETERANS ISSUES AND CANCER SURVIVORSHIP

Date/Time: 7/22/2010, 4:00-6:00 p.m. Location: Central Maine Medical Center in Conference Room H at CMMC

Presented by Dorn W. McMahon and Jim Doherty. This presentation is for Veterans who are diagnosed with cancer and their family members. During this work-shop Jim will give information about the Department of Veterans Affairs and how they support veterans with cancer. Jim will also give information about Lewiston’s new Veterans Center slated to open with in the next year. Dorn W. McMahon will speak briefly about the Patrick Dempsey Center’s relationship with Veterans and services available to support cancer survivors and their families.

CLIMB® PROGRAM (CHILDREN’S LIVES INCLUDE MOMENTS OF BRAVERY)

Date/Time: Mondays, 7/26-8/30, 5:00-7:00 p.m. Location: The Dempsey Center

A child is never too young to be affected when a parent or loved one is diagnosed with cancer. Just as an adult can benefit from professional and peer support, so can children. Children’s Lives Include Moments of Bravery (CLIMB®) is a free six-week pro-gram designed by the Children’s Treehouse Foundation for children and their parents or adult care-givers. Each week there will be a light meal provided, followed by a group session. The parent/caregiver group will meet separate from the children’s group and will focus on parenting during this challenging time. Each session the children’s group will focus on a select topic and feeling.

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7/26/10: All About Me Each child will be encouraged to share things about themselves. The focus will be on making connections and new friends. The feeling of the week is happy.

8/2/10: What’s Cancer? This week will focus on cancer education. A special field trip to the hospital will make cancer treatment a little more understandable and a little less scary. The feeling of the week is confused.

8/9/10: It’s Okay to Feel Sad This week the kids will enjoy an art activity to help them talk about some difficult feelings. The Tear Cup will also help kids to find things they can do to make them feel better. The feeling of the week is sad.

8/16/10: Cancer Can Be Scary The children will be encouraged to talk about things that scare them and things that also help make them feel strong. Puppet making will assist in identifying each child’s strengths. The feeling of the week is scared.

8/23/10: It’s Not Fair! The focus of this week will be on the feeling mad. Anoth-er art project will help kids to identify things that make them mad, how to talk about them, and how to let those feelings go without hurting themselves or others.

8/30/10: Get Well Soon The final group night is focused on the sick loved one. Each child will create a get well card that will express some of their feelings. The group will end with a celebration and graduation.

Due to the progressive and cohesive nature of this group we request that participants make every effort to attend all sessions if at all possible. The groups are free. The children’s group will be co-facilitated by Tookie Bright, LMSW-CC, and Renee Courtemanche, RN, OCN. Terri Quatrano-Simpson, LCSW, Oncology Social Worker, will lead the parent/caregiver’s group.

PUPPET MAKING FOR KIDS

Date/Time: 7/29/10, 1:00 -2:30 pm Location: Conference Room D at CMMC

Presented by Tookie Bright, LMSW-CC, Children’s Program Coordinator. This child friendly program is designed for parents and their young children ages 3-8. Together parents and children will be offered the opportunity to create their own fleece puppets that represent strength, hope and healing.

Community of Poland donates in memory of Betty BrewsterWhether he was cramming for mid-terms, shoot-ing jump shots or swinging for the fences, Betty Brewster was there for her son, Matt, a 17-year-old student at Poland High School. After years of being cancer-free, Betty succumbed to her second bout with lung cancer in February. “She was always there for me whenever I needed her,” said Matt, her only child. “She was amazing.” After serving as the primary caregiver for her sister, who also had cancer, Betty began her personal battle in 2001. The upper lobe of her right lung was removed and she faced the disease head-on, staying active and doing her best to wear out the school’s track.

The cancer returned in the fall of 2009 and Betty remained determined, promising herself and her family that she would not give up the fight. She kept Matt focused on his schoolwork and cheered as if all mem-bers of the Knights baseball and basketball teams were her own. “She loved being around family and friends and watching games. She would help anyone in any way she could,” said Matt. The community of Poland rallied to make a contribu-tion in Betty’s memory. Proceeds from the school’s Wall of Hope, filled with cards purchased for a dollar, and a Knights basketball game totaled $515. Matt presented the check to Operation Inspiration, a program within The Patrick Dempsey Center for Cancer Hope & Healing at Central Maine Medical Center that provides support, education and wellness services at no cost to lung can-cer patients, survivors and caregivers. “My mom would want me to do something good for people,” said Matt.

“I know what it’s like for someone to have cancer.”

Photo: From left, Poland High School Athletic Director Don King and student Matt Brewster present a check to Dempsey Center Operation Inspiration Program Coordinator Terri Quatrano-Simpson and Dempsey Center Program Director Kerry Irish.


“I CAN COPE”: EDUCATIONAL CLASSES FOR PEOPLE FACING CANCER

Date/Time: First Tuesday of each month beginning in August, 1:30-3:00pmLocation: Family Life Center at Parkview Adventist Medical Center

The American Cancer Society’s “I CAN COPE” classes are designed to provide education, increase skills and reduce stress by presenting information about cancer-related topics. These topics include: Diagnosis and treatment, Side effects of treatment, Emotions and Self-esteem, Cancer and Intimacy, Communication Skills, Community Resources, Financial Concerns, Pain Manage-ment, Nutrition and Fatigue. The “I CAN COPE” classes offered at Parkview Adventist Medical Center are taught by a licensed clinical social worker and will provide pa-tients, caregivers and loved ones with support, skills and practical information that will help meet the challenges of the cancer experience. Sessions will be facilitated by Terri Quatrano-Simpson, LCSW and Marieke Giasson, RN and are as follows:

8/3/10: Diagnosis and TreatmentWe will learn about the basics of cancer, how it is diagnosed and treated.

9/7/10:Exploring Self-esteem and intimacyWe will discuss the impact of cancer on self-esteem and intimacy while learning skills to increase communication with our friends and loved ones.

TAMING THE TIGER: COPING WITH ANXIETY

Date/Time: 8/18/10, 1:30-3:00 p.m. Location: Small Board Room at Bridgton Hospital

Presenter: Emily Ecker, LCSW, Outreach Oncology Social Worker. The challenges of living with a serious illness such as cancer can create a lot of worry and anxiety. Learn some techniques for managing these emotions in a healthy and proactive manner.

CHAKRAS: YOUR SEVEN ENERGY CENTERS

Date/Time: 8/19/10, 1:30 – 3:00 p.m. Location: Conference Room C at Rumford Hospital

Presented by Emily Ecker, LCSW, Outreach Oncology Social Worker. The Seven Chakra system is based on ancient Eastern traditions. Learn about what they are and what colors, emotions and tones are associated with each one.

TOOLS FOR INTENTIONAL LIVING AND TRANSFORMATION©: A SPIRITUAL COACHING COURSE FOR CANCER PATIENTS, SURVIVORS & CAREGIVERS

Date/Time: 8/23/10-10/4/10, Mondays*, 4:30-6:00 p.m.Location: CMMC Conference Classroom (1st floor, across from the CMMC Boardroom)

*Session will not meet on 9/6 due to Labor Day holiday

Back by popular demand, this course is presented by Teresa Schulz, MA. Teresa A. Schulz received a Master of Arts from the Franciscan School of Theology in Berke-ley, CA. She also received her Post-Masters certificate in Spiritual Direction from The Mercy Center for the Healing of the Whole Person located in Colorado Springs. She is a spiritual director, lay theologian, retreat facilita-tor, lecturer and author. She has also served as a hospital chaplain providing spiritual and pastoral care to patients and families at end-of-life.

8/2310: Explore and Renew Your Inner Spirit The art of intentional living/Reconnect with your spiritual self/Reflect on your spiritual biography

8/30/10: Deepening Your SpiritualityA path to intentional living/Embrace the spirit within/Develop spiritual principles

9/14/10: Develop and Grow in Your SpiritualityIntentionally living into your life/Being fully present/Choose a spiritual practice

9/21/10: Grounded in the Sacredness of Ordinary LifeIntentional ways to draw closer to the spirit within/ Celebrate your spiritual story/Recognize the spiritual dimensions present in your life

9/28/10: Grace Happens – MetanoiaIntentional transformation, a path to wholeness and healing/Healing memories/Forgiveness and reconciliation

10/4/10: Imparting Your Wisdom – Spiritual Wills and LegaciesIntentional ways of evaluating your non-material wealth/Creating a spiritual will/Sharing your spiritual legacy

*Due to the progressive nature of the course sessions, we request that participants make every effort to attend all sessions if at all possible. The course is FREE and light refreshments will be provided. Space is limited to 12 participants and preregistration is required.

SERIES


“TEAL TOES” & COMMUNITY OVARIAN CANCER AWARENESS TALK WITH THE NATIONAL OVARIAN CANCER COALITION

Date/Time: 9/13/10, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Location: Conference Room A at CMMC

September is Ovarian Cancer Awareness Month. Please join Ronni Arno Blaisdell, Director of Communications for the National Ovarian Cancer Coalition, as she dis-cusses the quiet, but not silent, signs and symptoms of ovarian cancer. Learn to listen to your body and increase awareness about the disease. Be sure to take part in Teal Toes and have your nails painted in the color designated for ovarian cancer awareness! Volunteers will polish your nails while you listen to the presentation!

FREE PROSTATE CANCER SCREENING CLINIC

Date/Time: 9/24/10, 1:00-4:00 p.m. Location: Hematology/Oncology Associates, 12 High St., Suite 205, CMMC

Free bloodwork and examination will be offered to men age 50 and over by Drs. Mailhot and Parker of Central Maine Urology Center. Please call The Dempsey Center at 795-8250 or 1-877-336-7287 to register.

THE ART OF LIVING IMPERFECTLY

Date/Time: 9/26/10, 4:00-5:30 p.m. Location: The Casco Library

Presented by Marcy Covey. Start with an understanding of the human condition. Add two shakes of forgiveness, some breathing techniques, a bit of gratitude, and a dash of imperfection! That’s life!

THE EMOTIONAL AND SPIRITUAL IMPACT OF CANCER

Date/Time: 9/29/10, 1:30-3:00 p.m. Location: Small Board Room at Bridgton Hospital

Presented by Priscilla Bickford, Chaplain for the Bridgton Hospital. A cancer diagnosis affects us spiritually and emotionally. Discussion will focus on our reactions, coping and finding a meaning in it all.

DINNER & LEARN FOR PROSTATE CANCER PATIENTS, SURVIVORS, AND CAREGIVERS

Date/Time: 9/29/10, 6:00-7:30 p.m. Location: Conference Room H at CMMC

September is Prostate Cancer Awareness Month. Join us at the Prostate Support Meeting on 9/29/10 for a special dinner presentation. Details will be available soon on the Dempsey Center website: www.dempseycenter.org. Preregistration is required in order to ensure adequate refreshments.

CREATING VISION JOURNALS

Date/Time: 9/30/10, 1:30-3:30 p.m. Location: Conference Room A at Rumford Hospital

Presented by Rhonda Ouelette, Soul Coach. Using a variety of art media, including magazines, photographs, and fabrics, you will create a journal for yourself to hold your personal thoughts, feelings and visions. Journals will be provided or bring your own to add to. Your old maga-zines and personal photographs are also welcome. Limit 12.

TELECONFERENCES

Please join us in the Patrick Dempsey Center to listen to free telephone education workshops for people living with cancer, presented by national experts and offered by CancerCare, Inc. Please register in advance by calling the Center at 795-8250. You may also listen at home by registering through CancerCare, Inc: 1-800-813-4673 or www.cancercare.org.

7/7/10, 1:30-2:30 p.m.: Update on Lymphoma Treatment from the 2010 American Society of Clinical Oncology (ASCO) Annual Meeting

7/13/10, 1:30-2:30 p.m.: The Eighth Annual Cancer Survivorship Series: Living With, Through and Beyond Cancer, Part IV: Survivors Too: Communicating With and Among Family, Friends and Loved Ones

ONGOING CANCER SUPPORT GROUPS & PROGRAMS

BREAST CANCER SUPPORT GROUP: This weekly group is for breast cancer patients/survivors at any point along their journey from diagnosis to survivorship. The group meets every Tuesday from 6:00-7:30 p.m. in Conference Room D in the lower level of the 12 High St/Medical Office Building at CMMC. Please contact the Patrick Dempsey Center to preregister before initial attendance so that we can plan for space & refreshments accordingly.

CANCER WELLNESS & SUPPORT GROUPS: These groups for patients, survivors, and caregivers combine support with education designed to teach participants skills to enhance wellness & healing. Groups meet every Wednesday from 1:30-3:00 p.m. in Conference Room I at CMMC and every Thursday from 1:30-3:00 p.m. in Room 357 at Rumford Hospital.

CARING CARDS STAMPING SESSIONS: Stampers and scrappers of any ability level are invited to join us each month as we work together to create uplifting notecards for cancer patients. Sessions are FREE and notecards and some stamps and materials will be provided, but attendees are welcome to bring their own supplies as well. Meets the first and third Thursday of each month from 5:30-7:30 p.m. in the Patrick Dempsey Center. Space is limited so please contact the Center to preregister.

CAREGIVER SUPPORT & EDUCATION: A monthly “Lunch & Learn” series for adults whose loved one has cancer, facilitated by a licensed clinical oncology social worker. Sessions will be held the 1st Monday of the month at CMMC, 12:00-1:30 p.m. Lunch will be provided and pre-registration required. Space is limited to 8 participants, and early registration is strongly encouraged. See session descriptions in the “Special Events & Workshops” section.

GUIDANCE THROUGH GRIEF SERIES: 9/21/10-11/2/10, 2:00-3:30 p.m. at AHCH Hospice House, and 4:30-6:00 p.m. at CMMC, Conference Room H. An 8-week struc-tured education & support group designed for grieving adults jointly offered by Central Maine Medical Center & Androscoggin Home Care & Hospice. For more informa-tion or to register, contact Jim Douglas, 777-7740.

“I CAN COPE”: THE AMERICAN CANCER SOCIETY’S CLASSES FOR PEOPLE FACING CANCER: Starting in August, this group will meet on the first Tuesday of each month from 1:30pm to 3:00pm in the Family Life Center at Parkview Adventist Medical Center. Sessions will be co-facilitated by a licensed clinical oncology social worker and an oncology nurse, and will provide patients, caregivers and loved ones with support, skills and practi-cal information that will help meet the challenges of the cancer experience. See session descriptions in the “Special Events & Workshops” section.

KNITTING CIRCLES: All knitters—any ability level—are welcome to join either or both of two knitting circles. You may bring your own projects, and we will also be working on creating hats, lap blankets, bra inserts, etc., that will be donated to benefit cancer patients. Light refreshments will be provided. Meets every Wednesday from 6:30-8:30 p.m. in the Patrick Dempsey Center and every Thursday from 1:00-3:00 p.m. in the CMMC Conference Center (room locations vary, please call the Center for more information).

LOOK GOOD, FEEL BETTER: This program of the American Cancer Society helps patients cope with changes in appearance (e.g., loss of eyelashes and brows, changes in skin, loss of hair, etc.) related to cancer and treatment. Participants are provided a free makeup kit and taught how to use the cosmetics to look and feel their best. Sessions will be offered the third Wednesday of the month from 10 a.m-noon in Sam & Jennie Breast Care Center (please note that sessions, and wigs, are avail-able to ALL cancer patients—not just those with breast cancer.) Patients must pre-register by calling The Patrick Dempsey Center.

New! LUNG CANCER WELLNESS AND SUPPORT GROUP: This group offers an opportunity for lung cancer pa-tients, survivors, and family caregivers/loved ones to receive support while learning about resources and new information regarding lung cancer. Beginning July 15, the group will meet every third Thursday of the month from 1:30pm to 3:00pm in Conference Room D.

MASSAGE THERAPY SERVICES: Free therapeutic massage therapy services are provided to CMMF cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers in the Patrick Dempsey Center every Monday, Wednesday and Thursday. Contact the Patrick Dempsey Center to learn more or to schedule an appointment.

MINI-SPA SERVICES: Join us for a relaxing evening of free mini spa treatments for cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers. Sink into one of our comfortable chairs and enjoy a warm foot soak and hand treatment in a calm, peaceful atmosphere. Tea and fruit will be available for refreshment. Seatings are limited to four people per eve-ning and require an appointment. Sessions are offered the 2nd & 4th Thursday evening/month, 6:30 p.m. at the Patrick Dempsey Center. For more info or to schedule an appointment, please call the Patrick Dempsey Center.

PROSTATE SUPPORT GROUP: Education & Support for men and families living with prostate cancer, facili-tated by Dorn W. McMahon, LMSW-CC, Oncology Social Worker. Meetings are held the last Wednesday of the month from 6:00-7:30 p.m. in Conference Room H. For more info, please call the Dempsey Center: 795-8250.

ONGOING CANCER SUPPORT GROUPS & PROGRAMS

PSYCHOSOCIAL ONCOLOGY NETWORKING GROUP: for clinical & medical social workers, counselors, & chaplains who work with cancer patients. Meetings provide oppor-tunities to listen to guest speakers, share resources and consultation regarding challenging cases. Meetings are held the second Monday of every other month, begin-ning in January, from 12:00-1:00 p.m. in Conference Room D. Contact the Center for more information or to register. Please feel free to bring a brown-bag lunch!

REIKI SERVICES: Free reiki services are provided to CMMF cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers in the Patrick Dempsey Center for 8-12 hours a week. Days and time vary; please contact the Center to learn more or to schedule an appointment.

SEWING CIRCLES: All sewers - any ability level - are wel-come to join one or both of our two monthly groups to make sewn items for cancer patients. Items include com-fort packs, hearts of love, ports of love, sewn hats, and lap quilts. Light refreshments will be provided. Sessions are held the second Monday of every month from 5:30-8:00 p.m. and the third Wednesday each month from 9 a.m.-12:00 p.m. Contact the Center for location info and/or to learn more.

New! TILT GROUP: Tools for Intentional Living and Trans-formation (TILT) helped reveal the sacredness of life - in wellness and illness. In our initial six week sessions, we began to explore ways to act - not react - out of that sacredness. For those who have completed the initial TILT sessions and wish to continue honing those inten-tional living tools, we are offering monthly gatherings

the first Tuesday of every month from 4:30-6:00 p.m. in the Conference Classroom at CMMC. Space is limited to 12 participants and preregistration to join this group is required.

New! MONTHLY TOUCH DRAWING* CIRCLE: Led by Helen Warren, an artist, art educator and healer. Meets the first Wednesday of the month (beginning Aug. 4th) 4:30 -6:30 pm in the Conference Classroom at CMMC (1st floor, across from the Boardroom). This circle provides a unique opportunity for relaxation, reflection, expression and rejuvenation. The playful yet profound process of Touch

Drawing* involves drawing with your fingers and hands, allowing impulses to well up from within and take form on the paper. This creative practice encourages you to open to and let nourishing energy flow freely, to trust your body’s wisdom and intuition, and to access deep sources for healing and inspiration. The circle gathered and Helen’s gentle guidance provides a safe and relaxing space in which to journey. No experience necessary, only a willingness to open to the magic!!

YOGA FOR LIFE: FREE Gentle yoga classes for cancer patients, survivors, and caregivers of all fitness levels, of-fered every Thursday from 11:00 a.m.-12:00 p.m. in the CMMC Wellness Center. Summer sessions will be held on July 8, 15, 22 ,29 and Aug 5th, and then will resume on September 16th. Contact the Dempsey Center to register.

Community Event for Cancer Patients/Survivors and Loved Ones as part of The Dempsey Challenge 2010Scott Burton is a cancer survivor and so much more! He’s an award-winning comedian and World-class juggler who brings energy, passion and roars of laughter to his speaking engagements. Skilled comedy, incredible juggling and profound honesty make this a one of a kind experience.

Scott offers a hilarious, life-affirming spin on adversity with his clean, playful comedy. This is not humor therapy, it is human therapy!

Scott will be presenting on Saturday, October 3 from 1:00 to 2:00 at the L/A Public Theater. This event is free, but seating is limited and RSVP’s are required. For more information or to make reservations, call 207-795-2443.

PROFILES OF COURAGE, CARING, AND COMMITMENT

To this day, though Rhonda has incurable ovarian cancer, she is determined to “continue living and not waste time dying.” Talking with Rhonda is like listening to a bird sing its beautiful song on the first day of spring. Her voice and words take hold and wrap you in a warm embrace. You can’t help but catch her enthusiasm for life.

Though her spirit is strong, she admits that there have been difficult times since she was diagnosed with cancer. She grieves for her husband of 38 years, John and their two children, Jarrett and Travis. She says “[I} have to be diligent or grief will sneak up behind me and try to suck me back into the darkness.”

She has been surrounded by the love of her im-mediate and her extended family. “I don’t know what I would have done without my cancer support group on Wednesday afternoons,” she says, “after all, they are the ones who have traveled the same journey. I have ac-cessed ways to tap into relaxation therapy, spirituality and nature. There are numerous books and online sites for women who are reaching out for help. The Dempsey Center has been an invaluable wealth of caring, informa-tion and services.”

Rhonda says that her cancer has given her many un-expected gifts and blessings. She has connected with amazing caregivers and fellow patients. One fellow patient, Diane, inspired Rhonda to write a poem called “Earth Angel.” According to Rhonda, Diane filled an empty spot in her life. “Our time together was too short,” says Rhonda, “but I treasure every minute of it. I would have never met her if not for cancer.” She says that cancer has also given her a sense of “freedom.”

During the past four years, “I have allowed myself to do and try things differently,” explains Poisson, “I bought a kayak and have seen several breathtaking lakes and ocean coves. I’ve snow shoed and taken fun workshop courses.”

While cancer has caused her to change her life, she has tried to accept the changes and put

them in a positive light. “For example,” says Rhonda, “instead of traveling to far away destinations that take a lot of activity and energy, I have planned trips and outings closer to home.” She has also made a point of telling the people in her life that she loves

them. “If I need to right a wrong, I do, and I’ve let myself forgive those who may have hurt

me. The hardest challenge,” says Rhonda “is to forgive yourself, but it is important.”

For anyone who has been recently diagnosed with cancer, Rhonda offers the following advice: Try to keep your life as normal as possible, but let it be okay to bring in your world a bit to accommodate what you’re going through at the moment. Treasure the little things you may have overlooked before. And most importantly, reach out to family, friends and local support groups. You may not realize it, but they need you to ask them for help just as much as you do.

Rhonda describes herself as being drawn to other people who have cancer, like it is her mission to reach out to them and help them in whatever way that she can. I think that anyone who speaks with Rhonda will be easily drawn to her and captivated by her spirit and enthusi-asm for life. She is truly an amazing, loving and coura-geous person. Words alone cannot adequately describe Rhonda Poisson.

Profile of Courage

Rhonda PoissonBY COLLEEN LUNN SCHOLLER

This section of our newsletter provides us with an opportunity to highlight and celebrate cancer patients, caregivers (both professional and familial), and cancer center volunteers. Your input in this

section is very valuable! If you would like to nominate a cancer patient, caregiver, or volunteer to highlight here, please contact Kerry Irish at 795-7118 or [email protected].

If you’ve ever thought about getting in your car and driving the Old Route 66 from Chicago to California, Rhonda Poisson would tell you to “go for it.” In 1999, Rhonda, someone who has in her

words, “always lived life to the fullest,” drove from Chicago to the California Santa Monica Pier with her husband in a 1966 Chevelle Malibu. They got on the internet and planned a trip

that had them off the freeways and staying in “mom and pop hotels.”

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