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  • October2016

    NewEvangelistsMonthly-October2016

  • NewEvangelistsMonthly-October2016

    Forward...aboutthiseBook

    JourneytotheCross,byShaneCloonan-BookReviewbyVirginiaLieto

    7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeilCatholicStandbyErikaVandiver

    LikeArrowsintheHandofaWarriorPlotLineandSinker(EllenGable,Author)byEllenGableHrkach

    September'sOpenBook&SabbathRestBookTalkErinMcColeCuppbyErinCupp

    EssayonPartisanDissentLeadingtoRebellionIfIMightInterject

    TheLieoftheApostolate{HowILeftMyChildrenPoor}BlossomingJoybyMelodyMarie

    WhatAbout"I'mSorry"?CreoenDios!bySusanStabile

    KnockingonClosedDoors-WhyHavinganApostolateisNotJust"ANiceThingToDo"UnderThyRoofbyKirbyHoberg

    BedTimeBlessingBagsShiftingMyPerspectivebyClaireMcGarry

    PoliticsispersonalbecausetobealiveistostruggleCatholicDeaconbyDeaconScottDodge

    DoorsWideOpenAndThe800thPostPaucaVerbabyFr.StephenMorris

    TeachingThroughStoriesbyCelesteBehe

    UniversityLife!CruceSignatiBlogbyChristinaSawchuk

    SavoringbyEllenKolb

    MyWingedMessengersHarvestingTheFruitsofContemplationbyMichaelSeagriff

    Lifeis...bySaintMotherTeresabyVijayaBodach

    St.Jerome,DoctorofTranslationTheCatholicSpiritualLifebyEricJohnston

  • AboutaBoyStringofPearlsbyLauraPearl

    WhyIdidn'twanttowrite...butneededto.TheologyisaverbbyElizabethReardon

    GiveDrinktotheThirstybyKimPadan

    "AbortioninGoodFaith"and"AbortionCare":ThesePhrasesAreNonsenseItMakesSensetoMebyLarryPeterson

    MomminginSolidaritySweepingUpJoybyAlicia

    BeWhollyTheCloisteredHeartbyNancyShuman

    RevivingGod'sForgottenFriends:AuthorInterviewwithSusanPeekbyCarolynAstfalk

    OfFamilyMantelsandtheNotreDameBasilicaClingingtoOnions

    TheWearinessofRememberingbyMargaretFelice

    7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeilCatholicStandbyDeniseHunnell

    Election2016,Prayandwork!Catholic365byDeMaria

    Jesus(MediterraneanAppearance)GracetoPaintbySisterMaresaLilley

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    WhowouldlikeaSkittle?OntheRoadtoDamascusbyRobertCollins

    ScandalandtheNovemberElection

  • TheContemplativeCatholicConvertbyRichMaffeo

    MyHusbandCheated:HealingandThrivingafterInfidelityConversationwithWomenbyEmilyBorman

    Youcan'tfightitLMSChairmanbyJosephShaw

    BlessGod'sCreaturesGreatandSmalljoyofnine9byMelanieJeanJuneau

    'shroomWithUsStillbyJohnSchroeder

    ShoppingCenterAttack:WhyICareACatholicCitizeninAmericabyBrianGill

    TheTeachingPoweroftheParishBulletinSaints365byDebbieGaudino

    GreatBooksPreschoolStoryTimeVeilsandVocationsbyJenniferElia

    HowtoTeachCurrentEventsWithouttheEveningNewsSetonMagazinebyJenniferElia

    AnewPoliticalPartyQuietConsecrationbyLeslieKlinger

    WhentheSignofthecrosssaid"ThankYou,Lord!"AMomentFromDeSalesbyFr.RichardDeLillio

    MotherTeresa-MyFriend,MyMentor,ASaintOurHome,Mary'sMantlebyEmilyDavis

    WhenYouGrievetheLivingThePitterPatterDiariesbyRakhiMcCormick

    God,Family,Work,ThenPlayJourneytoWisdombyLarry'T'Smith

    ListeningtoHeartheWordofGodinOurLivesBlogoftheDormitionbyJohnRussell

    PatronSaintsofStudentsTheKoalaMombyBonnieWay

    NotKnowingBibleMeditationsbyBarbaraHosbach

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    Whatisthemoralresponsetotheduelingproblemsofstrangersinneedofrefugeandrankwickedness?BrutallyHonestbyRickRice

  • TheEssenceofTrueDiscipleship...Bartimaeus'QuietPlacebyBartimaeusTimeo

    WhatOurLadyofSorrowsmightbeaskingofusCatholicReviewbyRitaBuettner

    EverythingYouWantedtoKnowaboutRCIA&HowtoJointheCatholicChurchACatholicNewbiebyLynMettler

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    EucharisticLoveandtheExaltationoftheCrossAmazingNearnessbyShannon

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    AQuietEgobyTonyAgnesi

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    Goodness:TheCaseforChristianityPeaceGardenPassagebyRoxaneSalonen

    YouAreNotStuckSunflowerSojournbyLiannaMueller

    RandomThoughtsVforVictory!byAnitaMoore

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    Forward

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    IrecentlyattendedtheNationalMarketingNetworkTradeShow/CatholicWritersGuildConferenceinChicagothissummer.Atthetradeshow/conference,weGuildmembersgottomeetmanyauthorsandreceivefreeautographedbooks!Ihadagreattime.Yet,themostmemorablemomentformeoccurredasItraversedthroughtheTradeShowbooths.Icameacrossatablewithacertainchildren’sbookonit:JourneytotheCross.Isaidtomyself,“Hey,that’sthebookthatwoninmycategoryattheNationalIndieExcellenceAwardscontestthisyear!”Okay,nowImustseewhat’ssospecialaboutthisbookthatitbeatoutmyownbookinthecontest(minewasnamedafinalist).Whatoccurrednextwasbeyondawesome.

    Isteppeduptothetableandmettheauthor’smother.Yes,Isaid“mother.”Thattookmeaback,becauseshelookedsoyoung.Iasked,“whereistheauthor?”AsIaskedthisquestion,ateenagerwalkeduptome.Atthispoint,I’mstunnedattheyoungageoftheauthor!IgottomeetShaneCloonanandimmediatelylearnedwhatahumble,respectful,andkindyoungmanhehasbecome.Forsomereason,Shanedidn’tknowthathisbook,JourneytotheCrosswonthe2016NationalIndieExcellenceAwardsintheChildren’sReligioncategory.Ihadtheabsolutehonorofinforminghim.IwishIcouldhavecapturedthelookonhisface.Hewasinawe.Eyeswide,hequietlysaidinawhisper,“Whythisisreallyhuge,isn’tit?”Yes,Shane,itishuge!

    MyThoughtsonJourneytotheCrossandShaneCloonan

    Laterthatevening,afterhehadautographedmycopy,Isatdowntoreadthestory,andinstantlyunderstoodwhyShane’sbookwontheaward.EveryoneknowsthestoryofJesus’birth,life,passionanddeath.However,noonehasevertoldthestoryfromtheviewoftheever-faithfuldonkeywhowasapartofJesus’life.BythetimeIreachedthelastpageofthebook,tearsfloweddownmycheeks;forthisstory,toldfromthisperspective,touchedmyhearttothecore.ThedonkeyhadsuchloveforJesusthroughoutthestory;onlywantingtobeJesus’faithfulservant.ShaneCloonanhasadefinitetalentforwritingchildren’sbooks.TheetchingsbyRichardBrowningareexquisite;givingourlittleonesanabilitytograspthemessageofthestory,viaillustration.

    IamsogladthatImadeapointofaskingShanetosignmybookasfollows:“Fromtheawardwinningauthor,ShaneCloonan”because,onedayIhopethatthenameofShaneCloonanwillbeahouseholdname.Iplantokeepmyeyeonwhatelsethisyoungmanproduces;onceagainrequestingasignedcopy

  • fromthisawardwinningauthor!

    IfyouwouldliketogetyourcopyofJourneytotheCross,clickhere.

    Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://virginialieto.com/journey-cross-book-review/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).

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    https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Cross-Shane-Cloonan/dp/1513603507/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1471444922&sr=1-1&keywords=journey+to+the+cross+shane+cloonanhttp://virginialieto.com/journey-cross-book-review/

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    7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeil[atCatholicStand]

    BecauseIAmNotMoreHolythanYou

    Manypeoplethesedayslookatwomenwhochoosetopracticethedevotionofveilingas‘holierthanthou’–mostcharacteristicallyinNovusOrdoparishes.Nothingcouldbefurtherfromthetruth.Inmypersonalexperience,thereasonswomenveilarenumerous.TheirmotivationincludesemulatingtheBlessedMotherbecausesheistheconsummatefemalerolemodel.Anotherreasonisthat,oftentimes,sacredthingsareveiled–thetabernacle,forexample.Aslife-bearers,wewomen,haveasacredcollaborationwithourspousesandGod.Wecarrythetreasureoflittlesoulswithinourbodiesforninemonthsbeforeintroducingthemtothisworld.

    BecauseItIsaFashionStatement

    Therearesomanywaystoembellishourappearance.Wewearflatteringclothing,jewelry,andperhapsabitofmakeup.Yetachapelveilisnotafashionaccessory.Ifthetemptationtolookontheveilinthisway,itmaybewisetoreconsiderthispiouspractice.Conversely,wearingaveilisoftenahindrancetofashion.Thatcarefullycoifedhead,adornedwithabeautifulhairstylemayverywellbeflatandunflatteringbythetimethefinalblessingofMassisgiven.Wearingachapelveilcan,however,affirmtherecognitionofourGod-givenfemininityascomplimentarytothemasculinityofourspouses.

    BecauseIAmNotStuckInThePast

    SomeCatholicsofgoodfaithbelievethattheobligationforwomentocovertheirheadscontinuestobebindingtothisday.Othersknowthelawsurroundingveilingwasabrogatedandtherefore,believethepracticetobepassé.AquickstudyofCanonLaw,however,confirmsthat,whilethedevotionisnolongerbinding,itisacceptable,andevendesirable,asavoluntarypractice.

    BecauseItIsaDistraction

    Wearingachapelveilis,forme,atangiblewayofremovingmyselffromthisworldandenteringintoHeavenonEarth.AsIclipmyveiltomyhair,mydemeanorchanges,andmysoulstills.Yes,IamincommunionwiththeothersinsurroundingpewsbutmysoulisinstilldeepercommunionwithGod.ThedistractionsoflifeasusualfadeawayandmysoulistransportedtotheCross.There,MarystandsatmysideandwepondertogetherthisSonsheboreandtheSalvationHebrought.

    BecauseIAmNotVain

    Realisticallymyalmostsixtyyearshavelefttheirmark.Short-cropped,saltandpepperhairthatisleftundyed,abodynotnearlyassvelteasmyyoungerself,andcreasesetchedintolaughlinesatmouthandeyes–thatistherealityofmypresentself.Wearingachapelveilofthefinest,importedlacewoulddonothingtochangetheserealities.Ifanything,donningaveilwhenfewornoothersdoistheoppositeofvanity.ItspeaksofhumilityandacomfortwiththeGod-givenself.

    https://churchpop.com/2014/12/08/10-reasons-women-wearing-veils-church/http://designsbybirgit.blogspot.com/2013/10/interior-disposition-why-fix-your-hair.htmlhttp://designsbybirgit.blogspot.com/2013/07/veiling-revisited-is-it-mandatory.htmlhttp://www.catholicstand.com/decision-wear-veil-mass/

  • BecauseIDoNotWanttoCallAttentiontoMyself

    Howeasyitistoseekacceptance–tobeoneofthecrowd.Whenweblendinwearealmostanonymous.Thatbitofextraweight,thecharcoalhair,andunexceptionalfacecanmakeforamonolithicscene.Itisexactlywhenwestepoutofourcomfortzone,forthesakeofthespiritual,thatwebecomedifferent.Althoughthisisnevertheintent,especiallyforanintrovert,itspeaksofadevotionthatovercomes.Itovercomesthetrepidationofbeingjudgedandpresentsavulnerabilitynotusuallysought.ItcouldbecalledachildlikegifttoFatherGod,oneofthewaystoshowHimlove.

    BecauseIDoNotWantPraiseFromOthers

    “She’ssuchagoodCatholic;lookathowmodestlyshedressesandwearsachapelveil!”No,thatisnotatallwhatwearingaveilisabout.Ifanything,thoseofuswhopracticethisoptionaldevotionwouldrathernotbecalledoutasholywomen.Speakingformyselfandthosefriendswhoalsoveil,weareasorrylot.Ourliveshavetakenusonmanycrookedpathsandself-inflicteddetours.WehavenotalwayslistenedwhentheHolyGhostwhispered,muchlesswhenHehitusintheheadwhileshoutingatus,likethesinfulchildrenweare,topleasepayattention.

    WomenWhoVeil

    Womenwhoveilvaryasmuchasourchapelveilsdo.Wecomefromallwalksoflife–cradleCatholics,converts,young,old,LatinMassdevotees,NovusOrdoattendees,married,single,andmyriadothercharacteristics.Evenourreasonsforcoveringourheadsarenumerous.ThecommongroundisourdevotiontoourbeautifulCatholicfaith,handeddowntousdirectlyfromJesustohisdisciplesinanunbrokenpieceofHeavenonEarth.

    Weseekforgiveness,sinandconfess,resolveandfall–butwepickourselvesbackupagain,keepingoureyesonthePrize.Whetheryoujoinusinthedevotionofwearingachapelveilornot,weareyoursisters.Letustrulybeincommunion.Letusprayforoneanother.

    Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://www.catholicstand.com/7-reasons-not-wear-chapel-veil/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).

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    http://designsbybirgit.blogspot.ca/2014/05/veiling-and-you-5-things-catholic-boys.htmlhttp://www.catholicstand.com/7-reasons-not-wear-chapel-veil/

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    LikeArrowsintheHandofaWarrior[atPlotLineandSinker(EllenGable,Author)]

    “ChildrentooareagiftfromtheLord,thefruitofthewombarewardLikearrowsinthehandofawarriorarethechildrenbornofone’syouth.Blessedaretheywhosequiversarefull.Theywillneverbeshamedcontendingwithfoesatthegate.Blessedisthemanwhohasfilledhisdesirefromthesethings…”Psalm1273:5

    Sohowmanyarrowsmakeafullquiver?

    Theansweristhatitdependsonthequiver…andthesizeofthearrows.

    Ourpublishingcompany’snameisFullQuiverPublishing.

    Wenowhave14books(mostpublishedbyotherauthors)andfourbookscominginthenextyear.

    Often,peopleassumethatwearepartofthe“Quiverfull”Movement.AtWikipedia,Quiverfullisdescribedas:“amovementamongconservativeevangelicalChristiancouples…itpromotesprocreation,andseeschildrenasablessingfromGodeschewingallformsofbirthcontrol,includingnaturalfamilyplanningandsterilization.Adherentsareknownas“quiverfull”,“fullquiver”,“quiverfull-minded”,orsimply“QF”Christians.SomerefertotheQuiverfullpositionasProvidentialism…”

    Aninternetsearchofthewords“FullQuiver”showsourwebsiteonthefirstpage,alongwithamajorityofwebsitesandblogsdevotedtotheQuiverfullMovement.

    Iadmirecoupleswhofollowthisideology,especiallyinthisdayandagewhenthemajorityofmarriedcouplesareusingartificialcontraceptionorbecomingsterilized.

    However,wearenotpartoftheQuiverfullMovement.Instead,weproudlyuseandteachNatural

    http://www.fullquiverpublishing.comhttp://www.fullquiverpublishing.comhttp://www.ccli.org

  • FamilyPlanningtoplan,spaceandlimitbirths.WhenweareteachingNFP,wealwaysencouragegenerosityandalwaysstressthereshouldbeseriousneedtoavoidpregnancy.WeagreewiththeChurch’steachingsontheTheologyoftheBodyandarewell-versedinthetwoencyclicalsHumanaeVitaeandFamiliarisConsortio.Ourpublishingcompanypublishesfictionandnon-fictionthatpromotestheChurch’steachingsonsexandmarriage.

    Sowhythename?

    Yearsago,IlistenedtoatalkbyKimberlyHahn,inwhichshequotedtheScripturepassageaboveandtalkedaboutthegreatgiftofchildrenandwhygenerositywassoimportant.Shelaterstatedthisconceptinherbook,Life-GivingLove:EmbracingGod’sBeautifulDesignforMarriage:“Weareinaspiritualbattle,andourchildrenareourarrows:Howmanyarrowsdoyouwantinyourquiverwhenyougointobattle?”

    Thistalkmadeadeepimpressiononme.Sowhenwewereformingourpublishingcompany,afterdiscussingdifferentnames,thisisonethatwefeltGodcallingustouse:“FullQuiverPublishing.”ItneverdawnedonusthatwewouldbeconfusedwiththeQuiverfullfolksandthat,occasionally,wewouldreceiveanemailoracallfromsomeoneintheQuiverfullmovement.

    Backtothenumber:mostquiversholdabout12arrows.MyhusbandandIhavelostsevenbabiesthroughmiscarriageandareraisingfivesons:wethankGodforour“fullquiver.”

    Copyright2013EllenGableHrkach

    Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://ellengable.wordpress.com/2016/09/14/like-arrows-in-the-hand-of-a-warrior-or-how-full-quiver-publishing-got-its-name/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).

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    http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.htmlhttp://www.vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/apost_exhortations/documents/hf_jp-ii_exh_19811122_familiaris-consortio_en.htmlhttp://www.amazon.com/Life-Giving-Love-Embracing-Beautiful-Marriage/dp/1569552924/http://ellengable.wordpress.com/2016/09/14/like-arrows-in-the-hand-of-a-warrior-or-how-full-quiver-publishing-got-its-name/

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    September'sOpenBook&SabbathRestBookTalk[atErinMcColeCupp]

    CarolynAstfalkhasafirstWednesdayofthemonthbookreviewlinkup!

    IntheinterestsofbeingasefficientwithmytimeasIpossiblycan,I’mkillingtwobirdswithonestone.Inadditiontoreviewingbooksfor#OpenBook,I’vestartedamonthlyeventonFacebookLiveoveratmyauthorpage.It’scalledSabbathRestBookTalk,andinitI’lltalkaboutafewofthebooksI’vereadinthepastmonthintermsofhowthey,asfiction,helpusgrowinhumanity.

    Thismonth’sfocuswasonmeaning,orhowfictionusesmeaningtoconveylayeruponlayerofexperience,understanding,anddimensionalityofthehumanexperience.Whenwehumansusesymbolstocommunicatemeaning,wegivefleshandboneandsubstancetotheinvisible.

    September’sSRBTFeaturedFiction:

    JaneEyrebyCharlotteBronte

    http://www.carolynastfalk.com/tag/open-book/http://www.carolynastfalk.com/category/my-scribblers-heart-blog/https://www.facebook.com/erinmccolecuppauthor/

  • TheLion’sHeartbyDenaHunt

    (ClickhereformymoredetailedreviewofTheLion’sHeart)

    AChairforMyMotherbyVeraB.Williams

    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KWJ5X3I/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1https://erinmccolecupp.com/2014/06/25/wwrw-the-lions-heart-by-dena-hunt/https://www.amazon.com/Chair-Mother-Anniversary-Reading-Rainbow/dp/0688040748/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182455&sr=1-1&keywords=a+chair+for+my+mother

  • OtherstuffI’mreading:

    ItisRightandJustbyRev.JohnCunningham,OP&Rev.GeorgeCardinalPell[nonfiction]

    NightbyElieWeisel[narrativenonfiction]

    https://www.amazon.com/Right-Just-Responses-Roman-Missal/dp/0988188856/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182011&sr=1-1&keywords=it+is+right+and+justhttps://www.amazon.com/Night-Elie-Wiesel/dp/B005DK84AA/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182180&sr=1-4&keywords=night+elie+wiesel

  • Andhere’sSeptember’sSabbathRestBookTalkvideo:

    Whatareyoureading?Don’tforgettolinkupYOUR#OpenBookreviewsoveratCarolyn’s!

    Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://erinmccolecupp.com/2016/09/06/septembers-open-book-sabbath-rest-book-talk/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).

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    https://youtu.be/3DOEZOR4DE4http://www.carolynastfalk.com/tag/open-book/http://erinmccolecupp.com/2016/09/06/septembers-open-book-sabbath-rest-book-talk/

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    EssayonPartisanDissentLeadingtoRebellion[atIfIMightInterject]

    INTRODUCTION

    BenedictXVI,inoneofhispre-papacybooks,discussedturningtheCatholicfaithintopartisanfactions.Init,hepointedoutwhatfaithwasincontrastwithwhatpeopleweretryingtodowiththeChurch.

    WhenIadvocateaparty,ittherebybecomesmyparty,whereastheChurchofJesusChristisnevermyChurchbutalwayshisChurch.Indeed,theessenceofconversionliespreciselyinthefactthatIceasetopursueapartyofmyownthatsafeguardsmyinterestsandconformstomytastebutthatIputmyselfinhishandsandbecomehis,amemberofhisBody,theChurch.

    JosephRatzinger,CalledtoCommunion:UnderstandingtheChurchToday,trans.AdrianWalker(SanFrancisco:IgnatiusPress,1996),158.

    ThefaithoftheChurchcallsustochangetogrowclosertoGod.PartisanshipcallsontheChurchtochangetomatchwhatismostpleasingtous.Ifwe’renotcareful,wemightfindourselvesrebellingagainstGodinthenameof“reforming”or“restoring”theChurchtowhatwewantwhilepretendingwe’redoingitforthebenefitofothers.Asalways,thisisnotacasewhereonlyonefactionisguilty.AnytimewegetangryattheChurchforchangingthingsfrom,ornotchangingthingsto,whatwethinkisbest,we’rebehavinginapartisanmanner.

    Clarifications

    I’dliketoclarifysomethingfirst.WhatIwroteabovedoesnotdenytherightuseofCanonLaw#212§3.I’mconcerned,however,thatsomepeoplewhoappealtothiscanonaremisusingittodemandtheChurchbecomemorelikewhattheywant,notconsidering(or,perhaps,refusingtoaccept)thattheChurchmighthavevalidreasonsformakingsomechangesandrefusingtomakeothers.

    IwouldalsoliketoclarifythatthisdoesnotmeanthelaityhasnothingtosaywhenapriestorbishopmisuseshisauthorityandactsagainsttheteachingoftheChurch.OurLordgaveHisauthoritytoSt.PeterandtheApostles,andishandeddownfromgenerationtogenerationtothePopeandbishopsincommunionwithhim.Thepriestorbishopwhoactsagainstthismagisteriumabuseshisoffice.Suchaonecannotdemandthatthelaityactagainstwhatthemagisteriumteaches.

    PARTI:AUTHORITYANDDISSENT

    WhoHastheAuthoritytoDetermineProperInterpretationandChurchPractice?

    However,CatholicsdogowrongwhensomeoneclaimsthatthePopeandbishopstodayareinerrorandgoagainsttheteachingsofearlierPopesandCouncilsorthattheywerewronginthepastandfinallyaregettingitright.ThemagisteriumdecideshowtobestapplythetimelessteachingsoftheChurchtothe

    http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__PU.HTM

  • problemsoftoday.Incontrast,someonewhoclaimsthatarecentPope“violates"whatSt.PiusXsaid,orsomeonewhoclaimsSt.JohnPaulII“violated"VaticanII,hasnostandingtointerpretthedocumentsagainstthemagisteriumtoday.

    Thisconfusessomepeople.Afterall,aren’ttheyappealingtothemagisterium?No.Theyareappealingtotheirpersonalopiniononhowtheythinkthedocumentshouldbeinterpretedagainstthosewhoactuallyhavetherightandresponsibilitytodeterminehowthedocumentistobeinterpreted.It’slikeapersontryingtoarguethathisinterpretationoftheConstitutionisrightandtheSupremeCourtiswrong.TheindividualsimplydoesnothavetheauthoritytointerprettheConstitutioninabindingmanneronthecountry,andtheindividualdoesnothavetheauthoritytointerpretmagisterialteachinginabindingmanneronthecountry.

    SelectiveObedienceisDissent

    Theproblemis,peopleassumethattheyonlyhavetolistentotheChurchiftheyagreewithwhatshesays.Ifsheteachessomethingtheydon’tlike,dissentersaccuseherofbecoming“conservative”or“liberal.”They’llaccuseherofbetrayingtraditionorbetrayingVaticanII.BecausethePopeandbishopsaredeemed“wrong”intheseareas,dissentersclaimtheydon’thavetoobeytheshepherdsoftheChurch.They’llappealtoconscienceortraditionwhenitsuitsthemandtreattheteachingtheydon’tlikeasifitwereanopinionorevenanerror.

    TheproblemwiththatviewistheChurchisnotaninventionofmenwitharbitraryrules.Catholicsbelieve(ifthey’renotgrosslydeficientintheirreligiouseducation)theChurchestablishedbyOurLordandtheCatholicChurchtodayareoneandthesame.ThismeanssheteacheswiththeauthoritygivenbyChrist(Matthew16:19,18:18,28:18-20).SinceOurLordlikensrejectingHisChurchwithrejectingHim(Luke10:16,cf.Matthew18:17),dissentisaseriousmatter—rebellionagainstGodHimself.

    Churchteachingisnotarbitrary.Theteachingsaremadeforourbenefit.HowdowelivetobefaithfultoGod?WhatisincompatiblewithlovingHim?ChurchteachingexiststomakeHisteachingknown.TheChurchisthemeansOurLordchosetobringknowledgeofHissalvationoftheworldandthecommandmentswemustkeepifwewouldbesaved(seeJohn14:15).ObeyingonlythepartsofHisteachingweagreewithanywayisrejectingOurLordontherest.IfwerejectHim,itwillnotgowellforus(Matthew7:21-23).

    PARTII:SOMEDANGEROUSERRORSTHATLEADTODISSENT

    ThedangerforCatholicstodaycomesfromthefactthatrejectionofauthority(dissent)hasmetastasized.It’snolongeracaseofagingmodernistsandradicaltraditionalistsliketheSSPX.Ithasspreadtothemainstreamofthefaith,sothatagrowingnumberofCatholicswhooncedefendedthefaithnowbelievetheChurchisinerrortothepointthattheyopenlyquestionorevenrejectlegitimateteachingauthoritywhenitgoesagainsttheirpreferences,forgettingthatGodpunishedsuchbehaviorasrebellion.

    http://www.ifimightinterject.com/2016/09/thoughts-on-hardness-of-heart-and.html

  • WhydoweassumeGodwon’tpunishourrebellion,whenHepunisheditinothers?

    Withthatinmind,I’dliketolookatsomeofthedangerouserrorsthatleadpeopletodissentwhilebelievingthemselvestobe“faithful”tothe“true”Church(whilerejectingthosegiventhetaskofshepherdingittoday).

    VincibleIgnorance

    Whenapersonhasnowayofknowingwhatthetruthis,butfollowsone’sconscienceandseekstodowhatisrighttothebestoftheirknowledge,Goddoesnotcondemnhimforwhatwouldbeimpossibletoknow.Butwhenapersoncouldknowiftheybotheredtodotheresearch,thentheydonothavethisexcuse.WhensomeonemakesanaccusationagainsttheshepherdsoftheChurch,wemustfindoutthecontextofwhatwassaid,takingintoaccountthedifferenceofculture,history,andotherconditionsthatleadtomisinterpretation.BecauseRashJudgmentandCalumnyaresins,wecan’tjustrepeatwhatweheard.Wehavetoactuallylearnthetruthaboutwhatwasclaimed.

    Forexample,whenpeoplecondemn(orpraise)PopeFrancisfor“supportingsamesexmarriage”becausehesaid“WhoamItojudge?”theyareguiltyofvincibleignorance.Theycouldlookitupandreadtothetranscript,whichshowsthosewordshadnothingtodowithwhatpeoplethink.Becausetheycouldlearn,butprefertoremainintheirignorance,theirlackofknowledgewillbejudgedbyOurLord.

    Thisleadsustooursecondproblem.

    KnowingLessthanYouThinkYouDo

    Relativismmustberejected.WecannottwistChurchteachingtoturn“ThoushaltnotdoX”into“XisOK!”Theproblemis,somepeopleknowlessaboutwhattheChurchintendstoteachthantheythinktheydo.There’s2000yearsofCatholictheologyoutthere,dealingwithcountlesswayspeoplecansin,aswellasknowledgeofreasonswhytheirguiltmaybeincreasedordecreased.Apersonignorantaboutthesethingsmightseetwodifferentissuesandassumetheyarethesame—andthatonemustcontradicttheother.Sotheychoosetheonethatfitstheirpreferenceandsaytheotheroneiswrong.Butifthedifferencesbetweenthetwocasesaregreaterthanthesimilarities,wecan’tcomparethemandclaimthey

    http://www.scborromeo.org/ccc/para/2477.htmhttp://w2.vatican.va/content/francesco/en/speeches/2013/july/documents/papa-francesco_20130728_gmg-conferenza-stampa.html

  • contradicteachother.

    Forexample,recentlyonFacebook,IencounteredsomeoneclaimingthatSt.PiusXsaidthatsecularismwasa"perniciouserror”andthatPopeFrancissaidstatesmustbesecular.Therefore,thispersonreasonedthatthis“proved"PopeFranciswasaheretic.Apersonseeingthismightthinkthisstatementwasproven.TowhichIsay,“Notsofast."

    St.PiusXdidsaythisintheencyclical“VehementerNos”(#3),writtenin1906.ThecontextofthisencyclicalwasFranceestablishinganti-CatholiclawsabsolutelyexcludingtheChurchfromanyroleinthestate(asituationworsethaninAmericatoday).Underthoseconditions,allreligionswereequallyisolated.Putincontextoftoday,whathewascondemningwastheexpulsionoftheCatholicChurchfromthepublicsquare.Incontrast,PopeFrancis,speakingaboutFrance110yearslaterspokeaboutanationneedingtobesecularinthesenseofnotharassingreligionsinfavorofone,butalsoinsistingonreligiousfreedomwhichFrancedidnotprovidein1906.Thecontextmissedbyaccuserswas110yearsofexperience.St.PiusXwaswritingaboutanewrebellion.PopeFrancisspokeaboutwhattheChurchlearnedsincethen.Forexample,theexperienceoftotalitarianhostilitytoallreligionandreligiouspersecutionfromasectarianstateintheMiddleEast.

    Inotherwords,St.PiusXwasn’twrongincondemningFrancefortheirattackonreligion,butPopeFrancisspokefromtheperspectiveofthingsnotyetpresentin1906anddidnotcontradicthispredecessor.

    FalseDualism

    Onecommonassumptionisthatifyoudon’tsupportapreferredposition,yousupporttheantithesiswithalltheevilsitinvolves.OnecommonexampleintheelectionseasonistargetingCatholicswhoopposebothTrumpandClinton.BecausetheywillnotvoteforTrump,theyareaccusedofvotingforClintonandsupportingallareasherpoliticsviolateCatholicteaching.Anotherexamplemightbeassumingthatwhoeverthinkscertaingovernmentprogramsdon’tworkmustfavorlettingpeoplesuffer.

    Theerrorhereassumesthatthereareonlytwopossiblesolutionsandifapersondoesnotsupporttheaccusersfavoriteposition,hemustbeguiltyofsupportingtheevilsoftheotherside.Butiftherearemorethantwopossibilities,thisaccusationisfalse.AssumingthereisnoattempttoevadeChurchteaching,adisagreementoverthebestwaytocarryitoutisnotendorsingevil.TraditionalismandModernismarenottheonlytwooptions.ConservativeandLiberalarenottheonlytwooptions.ThesefactionsdonotexpresswhetherapersonisafaithfulCatholicornot.IfXiswrong,allCatholicsmustrejectXregardlessoftheirpoliticalorliturgicalpreferences.

    CONCLUSION:FROMFALSEASSUMPTIONSTODANGEROUSERRORS

    Icouldcomeupwithseveralmoreerrors,butIwanttowrapthisarticleupbydiscussingwhytheyaredangerous.ThedangeristheseerrorsleadCatholicstothinkthatthepersonwhohasdifferentpreferencesonhowtoproceedisactingoutofmalice.SotheconservativeCatholicassumesthattheliberalCatholic(orviceversa)automaticallyembraceseverythingevilaboutthatpoliticalview.Theradicaltraditionalistassumesthenon-traditionalistisamodernist.PeopleassumethatPopesandbishopsspeakas21stcenturyAmericansanddon’tconsiderthetimesandplacestheyknewwhenspeaking.

    AccusersseedifferencesandassumethedifferencemeansarejectionofChurchteaching,orarejection

    http://w2.vatican.va/content/pius-x/en/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-x_enc_11021906_vehementer-nos.htmlhttp://www.la-croix.com/Religion/Pape/INTERVIEW-Pope-Francis-2016-05-17-1200760633

  • ofwhatJesussaidinScripture.Theaccusersdon’tconsiderwhetherthey’vegottensomethingwrongandmakeunjustaccusations.WhentheseaccusationsaremadeagainstthePopeandbishopswhentheyteach,theyseparatetheaccuserfromtheChurchwhilethinkingtheyareintheright.TheyalsocausescandalbyunderminingfaithinOurLordprotectingHisChurchandleadingotherstodisobeyaswell.

    Whatwehavetorememberisweneedtoknowthefactsandcircumstancesinvolvingtheactsbeforemakinganaccusation.WhentheaccusedisthePopeorabishopproperlyexercisinghisteachingoffice,weneedtorememberwehavetogiveourassent.Inallcaseswemustremembercharityandmakesureweproperlyunderstandandnotactrashly.TheChurchdoesnotturnwrongintoright,butcircumstancescanmeanthattwoeventsthatlooksimilarcanactuallybeverydifferent.IfwerashlyassumeevilonthepartoftheshepherdsoftheChurch,wecan’tjustshrugoffthefalseaccusationonJudgmentDay.We’llhavetoanswerforourrebellion.

    Sotoavoidjudgment,wemustrecognizewemightnothaveallthefactsandthereforemightnotproperlyunderstandwhatseemswrongatfirstglance.Yes,therewillbesinoutthereandwemustcorrectsinners.ButwemustnotassumewearealwaysintherightandthePopemustbewrongifherulesdifferentlythanwewant.

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    TheLieoftheApostolate{HowILeftMyChildrenPoor}[atBlossomingJoy]

    TheysaidthatIshouldhaveanapostolateifIwantedmykidstogrowinfaith.ThatIshouldbuildupthekingdom.Usemyskills.Bealeader.Besaltandlighttotheworld.Theysaidthatitwasn'tenoughtolovemykids...thatGodmademeformore.

    Theywerewrong.

    Myfamilyismyapostolate.Myhomeismyheadquarters.Myhusbandmyfundraiser.IfGodcallsmetodosomefurtheroutreach,itwillonlybethatwhichdoesnotleavemyfamilyunloved,uncaredfor,orwithonlytheleftoversofwhoIam.

    Myapostolicworkshaveoftenbeenexcuses...distractions...waysoffeelinglikeaproductiveChristianwhileavoidingtheharderwork.Awayofbreakinguptheboredomofsacrificialworkdonewithoutdevotion.

    Iwouldhavebeenabetterwoman,wife,mother,daughter,sister,friend,andhomeschooleroverthelast20yearsifIhadn'tboughtintotheideathatIneededtobecomesomekindofministertotheworld.Somemomshavethegiftofbeinghighenergy.Iamnotoneofthem.AndIhaveexpendedmyselfinsomanydifferentdirectionsandIwasconvincedthatmyoutreachesandapostolicworkswerethemoralequivalentofwhatIwasdoingathome.InowbelieveIwaswrong.

    IonceprintedoutthewordsofPopeSt.JohnPaulIItorecalltheminmydailywork.Hesaid:

    "Youmustneverbecontenttoleavethemjustthecrumbsofthefeast.Youmusttakeofyoursubstance,andnotjustofyourabundance,inordertohelpthem.Andyoumusttreatthemlikeguestsatyourfamilytable."

    IfanciedmyselfarealwinnerbecauseIthoughtIunderstoodhismessagewhichwastocareforthepooroftheworldinawaythatcostssomething.IknewwhatitmeanttobeonthereceivingendofChrist-likesacrificialloveandIknewthepowerofthemercyofJesusandIwantedtobethatforothers.MyproblemwasthatIdidn'tseethehypocrisyofleavingthecrumbsformyownchildrenwhileIfedstrangers.

    Ididn'tseethemasguests.Ididn'tseethemasthepoor.Ididn'tseethem.NotthroughthelensofChristanyway,butonlyasashallowmom.

    Oh,howthenarcissismofourageseepsintothecracksofourships!

    AsweapproachMotherTeresa'scanonization,IhearherwordswithanewintensitybecauseIrealizethatIneverfullyunderstoodhereventhoughshewasboldandsimpleinhermessage.Iwastoobusypattingmyselfonthebackforbeingapostolic.

  • HerwordsbecameplacardstoconsolemyselfthatIwasdoingjustfine.PointtoJesus.Loveallthepeople.Idid.But...itwasshallow.Itwastheeasywayout.KindoflikebuyingprettytrinketsattheDollarTreetofeelgoodaboutsavingmoneyinsteadofshowingupforworktopaythebills.Anapparentgoodthatdistractsfromthehardworktowhichwearereallycalled.

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    WhatAbout“I’mSorry”?

    September24,2016bySusanStabile

    Twoincidentsinthelasttwodayspromptthispost.

    First,yesterdayIlearnedthatsomeoneIhadsharedsomenewswithconfidentiallyhadsharedthenewswithatleastoneotherperson.HeknewwhatIsharedwasconfidential,heknewwhyIdidnotwanthimsharingit,andheagreedtokeepthenewsquiet.Yet,fromthetimingofwhenthepersonhetoldturnedaroundandsharedthenewswithathirdperson,itappearshewastednotimeinbreachingtrust.WhenIconfrontedhimyesterday,tellinghimIwasangry,allhesaidwas“Youhavearighttobeangry.”Nohintofapology.

    Second,wehaveagroupofstudentsforwhomitisextremelydifficulttofindtimestoschedulemeetingsgiventheirvariedschedules.Havingfoundtwotimeblocksthatworkforeveryone,wehavetoldthegroup(multipletimes)tokeepthosetwoblocksfreeuntiltheyreceivedanactualscheduleofmeetings.AmeetingwasscheduledforFriday(yesterday)afternoonandnoticeofthatsentoutearlierintheweek.OnThursdaylateafternoononeofthestudentsrushedintometosayshehad,severalweeksago,plannedtobeawaythisweekendandwasleavingFridaymorning.ThemostIgot,afterremindingherthatshewastoldtokeeptheblockopenwas“Iprobablyshouldhavetoldyouthisearlier.”Yathink?No“sorryforcausingyouallwastedtimeandenergy”or“I’msorryfortheinconvenience.”

    Wegetthissortofthingallthetimeinthepublicrealm.Publicofficialswhocan’tgetanyfurtherinacknowledgingtheirwrongdoingthan“mistakesweremade”,asthoughthosepeskylittlemistakescreatedthemselves.Thewords“I’msorry”rarelypasstheirlips.

    ButIguessIdon’texpectthatsameinabilitytoapologizeinpersonalrelations.IneverlikedthelineinLoveStorythat“lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou’resorry.”Itmatterstosay“I’msorry.”Itmattersbothforthepersonwhomessedup–intentionallyornot–totakeownershipoftheimpactoftheiractionorinactiononthepersontheyaffected.Anditmatterstothepersonharmedtohearthewords.

    TheFirstLetterofJohnasksifwedon’tlovethepeoplewecansee,howcanwelovetheGodwecannotsee.Iwonderifwemightask:Ifwecan’texpresscontritiontothosewecansee,howmuchdowereallymeanitwhenweexpressourcontritiontotheGodwecannotsee.

    Update:Ijustreceivedane-mailapologyfromoneofthetwopeopledescribedabove.Whetheritwasaresultofreadingmypost,orjusthavinghadtimetoreflect,theapologyisappreciated.

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    KnockingonClosedDoors-WhyHavinganApostolateisNotJust"ANiceThingToDo"[atUnderThyRoof]

    Afriendlinkedtoarecentblogpost

    TheLieoftheApostolate

    .Thepostreallybuggedme.Themaincallofthepostisgood-thatweshouldmakesureourfamiliesarelovedandcaredfor-butitwentaboutitinawaythatdidnotsitwellwithme.

    Ithinkwhatbotheredmeisthatthepostgavetheimpressionthatservingbeyondyourfamilyisoptional.Thatitissomethingthat'sgreatifyougetaroundtoit,butnobiggieifyoudon't.

    Thatisselfishnavalgazingmasqueradingasholiness,myfriends.

    Youknowwhathappenswhenpeoplefeelthatservingintheirparishes,neighborhoods,schoolsisoptional?Theworkdoesnotgoaway,itshiftsontosomeonetryingtofillinthegaps-orworse,thatsupportnetworkdisappearsforgood.

    Lately,that'sbeenmeformyparish.I'vebeenattemptingtocarrytheweightoffivepeople.I'monlyoneperson,anditshows.

    Youknowthesaying"Manyhandsmakelightwork"?Ithinkonecannotappreciatehowmuchthemanyhandsareneededuntilonetriestodotheworkofthemany.It'snotpretty.

    Icannotexpresshowmuchevenalittleassistancewouldhelp.Itmaynotfeellikemuch,butsomeonevolunteeringtosetupdrinksbeforeaparishevent,printoutfliers,orbeagreeteratthedoortakesloadsofburdenoffofthosepeoplewhoaretryingeverythingtheycantokeepthisshipafloat.

    WhenIlookaroundtryingdesperatelytocommunicatehowmuchthosewillinghandsareneeded,allI'vebeenseeingareclosedarms.

    Therearetypicallyreasons,manyofthemaregood,tohavethedecisiontovolunteerbe"notrightnow",buttherewillALWAYSbeareasonnottostepup.

    Itmayfeeltoyoulikeyou'rejustsaying"notrightrightnow",buttothepeoplewhoarelefttotryand

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  • keepthingsafloatitfeelsmorelikeyou'resaying"notmyproblem".Whennotonehelpercanbefound,thosevolunteersthatareleftarebeingdisrespectedandtakenadvantageofbytheverypeopletheyaretryingtoserve.

    Ifyouwanttohaveahealthyneighborhood,parish,orschool,youhavetoshowup.Itisnotsomeoneelse'sproblem,itisyourproblem.Myproblem.Ourcollectiveproblem.

    YouCANfindsomewaytocontribute!Ireallytrulybelieveeverypersonisvaluableandneeded,andthateverypersoncangivebacktothosecommunitiestheysofreelyutilize.

    Taptheoldladyontheshoulderwhoyouseealwaysdoingsomethingfortheparish,tellherhowmuchyouappreciateit,andaskhowyoucanhelp.(Seriously,Icannotrecommendthishighlyenough.Youhavenoideahowlongithasprobablybeensinceanyonetoldher"goodjob".)

    Fillaneedthatyouseeinyourneighborhood.

    Askyourkid'steacherifthereissomethingtheywishtheyhadavailablefortheirclassroom.

    Whatifyouhavebabiesandthisisallscaryandoverwhelming?

    Ihaveawholepostaboutthat!

    Theideathatyourfamilyisyourapostolateisallwellandgood,butitisnotoktousethatasareasontoignoreyourlargerfamily.Don'tforgetaboutus!Wehaven'tforgottenaboutyou.

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    BedTimeBlessingBags[atShiftingMyPerspective]“Buttheonewholistensanddoesnotactislikeapersonwhobuiltahouseonthegroundwithoutafoundation.”Luke6:49

    Iamaterriblemotheratbedtime.Bythathourofthedaymytankisempty,andthere’snotashredofpatienceleftinme.Toprotectmykidsfromthemeanmommythatlurkswithin,myhusbandusuallyputsourkidstobed.

    Thatbeingsaid,inourhouseholdmyhusbandhaseveryWednesdaynightoff(mynightoffisThursday).SotagI’mitforWednesdays.Knowingthis,I’mveryconsciousofkeepingsomeenergyandpatienceinreserveonWednesdayssoIcanmakeitthroughbedtime.

    However,lastWednesdaywasalongerdaythanusual.Masonhadbaseballpracticeatnight.Ishouldhaveknownwhatwascoming.

    Althoughbedtimeistypically8p.m.,wewerejustleavingtheballfieldatthathour.Ispenttheshortdrivehomestressingthefactthatmykidshadtogetreadyforbedthesecondwegotinthedoor.Despitemylecture,Zackdecidedtosharpenhisdrawingpencilat8:30p.m.andaccidentallydetachedthesharpenerfromthepantrywall.

    Puttingasidemyowndesperateneedforthefreedomthatwasalreadysupposedtobemine,Itriedtohelphim.Butthreesecondsintoit,whenIcouldn’tfixthesituation,theswitchflippedinsideofme.ICOMPLETELYlostit:screamingandyellingtothepointofflappingmyarmslikeacrazylady!

  • Immediately,therewasthefranticpitter-patteroflittlefeetrunningupthestairsandbedroomdoorsslammingasallthreekidsranforcover.

    Mykidsknowthissideofmealltoowell.IsupposeIdon’thaveenoughmommyguilttofeelbadaboutit;apersoncanonlydosomuch.Weallhaveourbreakingpoints,andbedtimeismine(therearealotofothertimestoo,but…).

    IjustifyitbysayingitwouldbeworseifIwereaperfectmother.Mykidswouldhavetoliveuptothatwhenthey’reparents.IjokinglysayI’msavingthemfromtherapybybeingsoflawed.

    Therealtruthis,IknowIneedtotryharder.Ican’tbelikethepersonintheparablefromLuke6wholistensbutdoesnotact.Attheveryleast,Ineedtoputsomesortofbedtimesafetynetinplace,afoundationofsorts:awaytosmooththingsoverifImisstepwhilewalkingthroughthebedtimeminefield.

    OverthesummerIsawthemovieMiraclesFromHeaven(amovieIhighlyrecommend).JenniferGarnerplaysthemom.Eachnight,shevisitseachofherkidsaftertheyhavegonetobed.Sheasksthemwhattheyprayedforthatnight.Ilovedthatthelastmemoryeachofherkidshadbeforedriftingofftosleepwasofsharingtheirdeepesthopewiththeirmom.

    I’vealwaysbeenabigfanofgratitudeandKarenO’Connor’sBlessingBagidea.SoI’mcombiningconcepts.Thispastweekend,IhungBlessingBagsoffeachofmykids’beds.Everynightnow,Ivisiteachofthemaftertheyhavegonetobed.Iaskthemwhattheyaremostgratefulforfromthatday.Iwritewhatevertheysayonalittlepieceofpaper,foldit,andthentogetherwesay,“ThankyouGod,”asIdropthepaperintotheirbag.

    Nomatterwhattranspiredduringtheday,nomatterifIlostmycoolornot,theirfinalmemorybeforegoingtobednowisoneofalovingtimewithme.Moreimportantly,theyareexpressingdeepgratitudetoGod.Inmymind,therecanbenostrongerfoundationtobuildupon.

    QuestionsForReflection:

    *Whenismyweakestpointinmyparentingday?

    *Isthereasafetynet,afoundationofsorts,Icanputinplacetoeitheravoidthepitfall,orredeemthemoment?

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    Politicsispersonalbecausetobealiveistostruggle[atCatholicDeacon]

    Inthefirstsectionofthesecondchapterofhisbook

    Jesus&Salvation:SoundingsintheChristianTraditionandContemporaryTheology

    ,inwhichheintroducesNewTestamentsoteriology,RobinRyan,inreferenceto"thereignofGod"proclaimedbyJesus,notes,"Thereisaninescapabletensionbetweenthe'already'andthe'notyet'...thatshouldnotbedissolved."HetheninvokesthegreatNewTestamentscholar,RaymondBrown:

    ThekinglyruleofGodwasalreadymakingitselfpresentinJesus'person,proclamation,andactions,butthecompleteandvisiblemanifestationofthekingdomlayinthefutureandwouldalsobebroughtaboutthroughJesus,theSonofMan

    "Thistension,"Ryanconcludes,"isintrinsictotheChristianunderstandingofGod'ssavingworkinJesus"(29).WhatisoftenleftoutatthispointisthattheHolySpirit,asLukeTimothyJohnsonnotablypointedout,isChrist'sresurrectionpresenceamongus.Inotherwords,God'skingdomdidn'tappear,disappear,andwillcomebackinfullwhenChristreturns.It'sbeenpresentallthistime,strivingtowardsrealization,butneverbeingfullyrealized.Livingthetensionbetweenthealreadyandthenotyet,whichcantrulybedescribedasdialectical,ispreciselywhatitmeanstoliveasaChristian.Livingthistensionishowyouaresaved.

    God'sreignmustneverbeconceivedofasanotherhuman-enactedutopianscheme.Livingthekingdomasapresentrealityisnotprimarily,orevennecessarily,political,atleastnotascommonlyunderstoodtoday:activismattheexpenselove.StrivingtoliveGod'sreignasapresentrealityistheembodiment,Ithink,ofwhatVáclavHaveldubbed"anti-politicalpolitics."ItseemstomethatthemostcompellingglimpsesofGod'sreignpresentintheworld,ancientandmodern,havebeengivenwhenChristianslivedGod'sreignasapresentrealityunderhostileregimes:St.Lawrence/St.MaximilianKolbe;Sts.Perpetua&Felicity/St.MariaSkobtsova.

    It'simportanttopointoutafewpeoplewho'vemadeGod'sreignvisibleinsocietiesthatarehostileduetoindifference:DorothyDayandBrazilianArchbishopHelderCâmara.ItwasCâmarawhoobserved,"WhenIgivefoodtothepoor,theycallmeasaint.WhenIaskwhythepoorhavenofood,theycallmeacommunist."LivingGod'sreignbetweenthealreadyandthenotyetisintenselypersonal,butbynomeansprivate."Ourfaithcanonlybelivedthroughthe

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  • absence

    ofmanifestationsofthepowerofChristaccordingtoourexpectations,"LuigiGiussaniobservedwaybackinthe1960s."OurChristianvocation,"heinsisted,"becomes

    authentic

    onlythroughthisabsence[...].WhereChristisnolongervisibleaspersonalaction,thenHisactioncoincides,becomesonewith,themotivationandactionofourperson..."

    "IHaveLovedYouWithanEverlastingLove.IHaveHadPityOnYourNothingness,"

    SpiritualExercisesofCommunion&Liberation2016,pg.2).

    YoungSteelWorkers,byIvanBevzenko,1961-anexampleofSoviet-stylesocialistrealism

    Havel,whowasoftenconsiderednaïve,graspedthedangerofutopianschemes:

    Aheavenonearthinwhichpeopleallloveeachotherandeveryoneishard-working,well-mannered,andvirtuous,inwhichthelandflourishesandeverythingissweetnessandlight,workingharmoniouslytothesatisfactionofGod:thiswillneverbe.Onthecontrary,theworldhashadtheworstexperienceswithutopianthinkerswhopromisedallthat.Evilwillremainwithus,noonewillevereliminatehumansuffering,thepoliticalarenawillalwaysattractirresponsibleandambitiousadventurersandcharlatans.Andmanwillnotstopdestroyingtheworld.Inthisregard,Ihavenoillusions(SummerMeditations16)

    Hewentontodescribethestruggleforabettersocietyintermsofawar."NeitherInoranyoneelse,"hewentontoobserve,"willeverwinthiswaronceandforall.Attheverymost,wecanwinabattleortwo-andnoteventhatiscertain."Nonetheless,hestillthoughtitimportanttoengageinthestruggle,pointingoutitisacenturiesoldwarthatwilllikelystretchforcenturiesintothefuture.HespeculatedthatperhapsGodwantsitthisway,whichItaketomeanit'ssimplythegivennatureofreality-youdon'thavetolikeit,butyoucan'tavoiditexceptbyself-deception.Neverforgetyoubearsomeresponsibilityforrealitybeingthisway.

    Havelfirmlymaintainedfightingthiswar"istherightthingtodo.""Itisaneternal,never-endingstruggle,"hecontinued,"wagednotjustbygoodpeople...againstevilpeople,byhonourablepeopleagainstdishonourablepeople,bypeoplewhothinkabouttheworldandeternityagainstpeoplewhothinkonlyofthemselvesandthemoment.Ittakesplaceinsideeveryone.Itiswhatmakesapersonaperson,andlife,life"(

    SummerMeditations

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  • 16).

    InwakeofthewomanpouringointmentonhisfeetinthehouseofSimontheleper,Jesustoldhisdisciples,whocomplainedtheointmentcould'vebeensoldandtheproceedsusedtohelpthepoor,theywouldalwayshavethepoorwiththem(

    Mark14:3-9

    ).Thereasonforthisis

    not

    becauseGodwillstherebepooramongus,butbecausewerefusetolivethetensionrequiredtomakeGod'sreignapresentreality.Thewoman'sactionshowstheseemingincongruitythathappenswhenthenotyetcollideswiththealready.Veryoftentheresultofsuchacollisionisbeautiful.

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    DoorsWideOpenAndThe800thPost[atPaucaVerba]

    Todaymarksthe800thpostforthePaucaVerbablog.AndhereisaphotoofthemonasterychapelinCyprusdedicatedtotheMotherofGodTrooditissa.Thedoorsarewideopen,invitingustoenterourowninnerroom,oursecretplace,topray.Likeopendoors,that'sallthese800postshavehopedtodo.

    AftertheshepherdsvisitedthecaveofBethlehemandreturnedhomepraisingGod,SaintLuketellsus:ButMarytreasuredupallthesesayingsandreflectedontheminherheart.Luke2:19

    Totreasure.Toreflect.Toponder.ToturnthethingsofGodoverandoverinourhearts.Thankstoallwhoenterherewithme.Isendgoodwishesandablessing.

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  • HereistheiconoftheTrooditissaMotherofGodfoundinthehigh-altitudeCyprusmonasterybearinghername.Themonkwhopaintedtheiconsparednoeffort,enfoldingtheHolyMotherandHerChrist-Childingreatfoldsofembroideredfabric.Angelsburstthroughthecloudsplacingheaven'scrown;theChildsitsinthecrookofhisMother'sarmasifonathrone.Maryseemstostandatheaven'swindowlookingoutatushappily,whileJesuswondrouslyreadshisopenbook.Maybeheisreadingtheancientprophecieswhichtellofhisbirthormaybehisfavoritepsalm.

    ButtheTrooditissaiconhasaspecialty.Underthistitle,Maryisinvokedbywomenwhocan'tconceive."Womenwhoareinfertile,"thetraditionsays.Andwhilethisisnotableandmanycoupleswillgivetestimonyaboutthewonder-workingicon,I'dsuggesttheTrooditisssamightunderstandfertilityasamatteroftheheartevenmorethanobstetrics.

    Sotoexplorethislargersense,Ilookedupthewordfertile,discoveringmanysynonymsandotherbeautifullyrelatedwordsthatcandeepenourprayerandhelpustoadvanceinspiritualunderstanding.

    Fromtheinfertilityofsomucharguing-deliverus,OLady.Fromthesterilityofcynicismandcomplacency-deliverus,OLady.Fromthebarreninnerworldofsuspicion-deliverus,OLady.Fromfruitlessopinion-atingandarrogance-deliverus,OLady.

    Fromtheunproductiverehearsingofresentments-deliverus,OLady.Fromtheimpoverishmentofharboringoldwounds-deliverus,OLady.Fromthefallowmindoffeveredimaginings-deliverus,OLady.Fromthedeathofingratitude-deliverus,OLady.

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  • OLady,makeusbountifulinlove,andrichinmercy.OLady,giveusahighyieldofhope;bringforthgoodnessinus.OLady,guideustoplentifulrejoicing,generativeoftrustinGodandthechild-ingofkindness.

    OLady,thatwewouldflowercompassion,andbefruitfulingooddeeds.OLady,thatwewouldbebirth-ersoflove,ourmindsteemingwithgoodthoughtsofothers,ourwordsbearersofpeace.OLady,mothersomethingnewofJesusinus;smileintousanabundanceofjoy-carryingfaith.

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    TeachingThroughStories(ThefollowingarticleoriginallyappearedinToday’sCatholicTeachermagazine.)

    ByCadetgray(Ownwork)[CCBY-SA3.0orGFDL],viaWikimediaCommonsOnceuponatime,therewasatreasuredandbeautifulart.Itwasheldinhighesteembyall,andpracticedwhereverpeoplegathered.Thisbeautifulartwasknownasstorytelling.

    TheearlyChristianslivedinastorytellingculture.Infact,inherbookAroundtheYearwiththeTrappFamily,MariaAugustaTrappsaysthat“Itisquiteprobablethattherewasstory-tellinggoingonintheeveningsinthelittlehouseinNazareth.”Certainly,itiseasytoimagineSt.JosephtellingOldTestamenttalestotheattentiveChildJesusonhislap,whileMarylistensnearby.PerhapsitwasthisstorytellingtraditionthathelpedformOurLordasasuperbstoryteller.Theparableshetold–theProdigalSon,theLostCoin,theGoodSamaritan–touchedtheheartsofhislistenersinawaythatsimplystatingtheparables’corelessonscouldnot.It’snowonderthat,ininstructingthepeople,Jesus“didnotsayanythingtothemwithoutusingaparable.”(Mark4:34)

    Manygenerationslater,storytellingstillheldarespectedplaceinsociety,bothasanartformandasameansofpassingdownvalues.IntheMiddleAges,theprinciplesoftheFaithwerecommunicatedintheformofstoriescalledexempla(from“example).Exemplamadeuseofeverydaypeople,places,andthingstoillustratepointsoffaithandmorals.Thepopularityofexemplatoteachcatechismwasbasedonbeliefintheadage“Verbadocent,exemplatrahun”:“Wordsinstruct,examplesillustrate.”

    Today,theuniversalChurchstillrecognizestheusefulnessofstoriesforreligiousinstruction.AccordingtotheAsianCatholicnewspaperUCANews,religionteachersinIndonesiahaveadoptedateachingmethodthatincorporatesstorytellingandfolklore.Thearticlereportsthat“teachers´experiencesarethemosteffectivemeanstotransferreligiousvaluestoschoolchildren.”

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  • CatechizingfromScripture

    WhileIndonesiancatechistsareengagingtheirstudentswithfolktales,ChristianLeBlancistellingstoriestohissixthgradeclassatSt.Mary’sCatholicChurchinGreenville,SouthCarolina.LeBlanc,anAmazingCatechists.comcolumnist,istheauthorofTheBibleTellsMeSo:AYearofCatechizingfromScripture.

    LeBlanc’smethodofBible-basedcatechesisisuniqueinthatitinvolvesplentyofgive-and-takebetweenteacherandstudent.LeBlancbelievesthatachild’sexperienceoflisteningtoastoryreadaloudfromabook–althoughfamouslycomparedto“tangiblewealthuntold,casketsofjewelsandcoffersofgold”(StricklandGillilan)–is“passive,”andthuslesseffectivewhenitcomestolearningthefaith.

    “Readingaloudisfine,”hesays.“Iusedtoreadtomykidstoo.Butonlyhalfofstorytellingisthetelling,theotherhalfisthepersonalwitnessofthestoryteller.Thekidsneedtoknowthatthestorymatterstotheteller.”

    “RememberthatBiblestoriesallstartedoffasoralaccountsandthenhadtobeeditedwaydownforpracticalreasons,”saysLeBlanc,“soyoushouldplanonnotreadingthemstraightfromthebookwithoutlotsofcommentaryandembellishment.”

    Toparentswhoaren’tusedtointeractivestorytelling,LeBlancoffersthesetipsforspinningastirringstory:

    Letthekidschimeinwithwhattheyknowandcantell.They’lllovetoactivelyparticipate.

    Hamitup!Becomethecharactersinthestorybychangingyourvoiceanddemeanor.

    Drawpictures,orhavethekidsdrawpictures.Includetheillustrationsinthestorytellingprocess.

    Askthekidsquestionsthatpulltheminandcausethemtothink.Makesomeofthequestionssillyandsomeserious.

    Connectthemes/lessonsinthestorytotheireverydaylife.TheParableoftheMustardSeed,forexample,canberelatedtothechild’sownexperienceofplantingagardenandwatchingtheseedssprout.

    CatechizingfromLife

    CatholiceducatorandstorytellerAlyssaBormesagreesthatreal-lifeexperiencescanbepowerfuleducationaltools.Bormes’bookisanexampleofanarrativethatteachesthefaith.Ittellstheincrediblestoryofthe1980Men’sOlympicHockeyTeamanditsunlikelygoldmedalwinovertheSovietUnionteam.AccordingtoBormes,theaccountis“thestoryofeveryunderdog,fullofsuffering,doubts,anddetermination.”

    Bornesbelievesoutthat,inordertolearn,weneedconcrete,relatableexamples.SheusesTheCatechismofHockeytoillustratethepowerofexampleinstorytelling.

    “JustimagineGrandpatellingthisstorytohisgrandchild.Imaginehimtakingthechildonavirtual‘pilgrimage’tothearenawhereitallhappened,and‘hearing’thecrowdcheering‘U.S.A.,U.S.A!’The

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  • accountis,inessence,theDavidandGoliathstory,andithasnowmadeanindeliblemarkinthemindofthechild,whocandrawuponitlaterinlifewhenfacingoverwhelmingodds.”

    ObservesBormes,“Jesusfoundwaystoexpressage-oldtruthsinnewstories.Wecandothesameinthemidstoftheeverydaygoingson.”

    CatechizingfromtheChurch

    InhisarticleTheBirthofCatholicEvangelism,DealHudsonstated:“TheCatholicversionofChristianityhasfarmorestoriesready-to-handthananyotherdenomination–fromits2000yearhistoryanditsroleinthecreationofWesternCivilizationtothestoriesofitssaints,martyrs,clergy,andreligious.Ifit’struethatgoodstorytellingisthebasisofeffectiveevangelismthentheCatholicChurchisthemostfertilesoilonecouldimagine.”

    Addingthat“theverysimplecanbethekeytotheverymystical,”Bormesadvisesparentstolookclosetohomeforstorytellinginspiration.

    “TheChurchhasgivenusallthetoolstocatechizeourchildren,”shesays.“We,asparents,justneedtoknowtheStory!”

    Bornesoffersthesesuggestionstoparents:

    Takeyourkidstoyourparishchurch.Seehowmanysymbolstheycanfindinthewindowsandartoftheirownparish.Whatandwherearethesymbolsofbaptisminyourparish?Whydoesthebaptismalfontoftenhaveeightsides?WherearethesymbolsoftheEucharist?WhatdoesIHSstandfor?

    Findoutwhichsaintisthepatronofyourparish.Getthewholestoryofthatsaint,includingtheatmosphereoftheworldatthetimethesaintwasonearth.Tellthechildrenthesaint’sstorywiththepassionduetoit!Then,goonapilgrimagetoyourownchurch,oracrosstown,totheside-altarwiththatsaint,therebymeetingthesaintandgivingthechildanewfriendforthejourneyoflife.

    TalkaboutthestoriesbehindthefeastsoftheChurchyear.Arethereanyethnictraditionsrelatingtoyourfamily’sobservancesoffeastdaysandholydays?Doesyourfamilyenjoyspecialfoodsoncertainholydays?Doesyourparishhavespecialcustomsrelatingtotheliturgicalyear?Findoutthestoriesandsharethem!

    Propitup!TheChurchinHerwisdomuses“bellsandsmells”tohelpengageallofoursensesandconnectustoHeaven.Parentscanmakeuseofpractical,everydaythingstohelpchildrengraspthetruthsandbeautyoftheFaith.Bornessays,“IoftenusestickfigurestoexplaintheTrinity;Iuseabaseballdiamondtoexplainactualtimethatwelivein,andGodbeingoutsideoftime;Iuseabagofholycardstoexplainchastity.”

    Bormesstressestheimportanceofhavingchildrendomorethanjustlistentoastory.Byencouragingtheirchildrentowalkthroughthechurch,fingerthebaptismalfont,orsampleafeastdaymeal,parentshave“attachedthestorytomoresensesthanjusthearing.Thechildrenhavetouchedthestory…andithastouchedthem.”

    http://www.catholic.org/news/national/story.php?id=55009

  • BeginningStorytelling

    Perhapsyoustilljustcan’tpictureyourselfasastoryteller.Maybeyou’reafraidthat,inyourfirstattemptatsharingaScripturestory,you’llmixupDathanwithDavid,orconfuseJerichoandJeroboam.PerhapsaverbatimreadingofThePokyLittlePuppyisallyouthinkyoucanhandle.

    Ifthat’sthecase,thenrepeatafterme:“IthinkIcan,IthinkIcan.”Thefactisthatyoudon’tneedtobeaLeBlancoraBornes–oraGrimmoraGeisel–totellagoodstory.Hereareafewjumping-offpointsforthereluctantstoryteller:

    Takeoffyour“parent”hat

    Rememberwhen,asachild,youmetyourteacheratthegrocerystoreorthemailmanatMass?Youweresurprisedthattheteacherandthemailmanhadlivesoutsidetheirrespectiveworkplaces.DelightyourkidsbytellingthemaboutdemureMother’sadventuresasacompetitiveskier,orstaidFather’santicsastheclassclown.IguaranteethatyourchildrenwillbethrilledtohearaboutMomandDadbeforetheybecameMomandDad.

    Kidslovetohearabouttheirbabydays,andmanymotherslovetorecallthedetailsoftheirchildren’sbirthsandearliestdays.Whatwastheweatherlikeonthedaythechildwasborn?WhatdidMothersaywhenshefirstsawhim?TellabouthisBaptism.DidhecrywhenFatherpouredwateroverhishead?Athome,washecontentorcranky?Didhesleepmuch?Whendidhefirstsmile?Theseminutiaeareboundtocaptivatethechildwhoisthestory’scentralcharacter.

    Takeatalethatyoulovedasachildandpersonalizeitforyourkids.I’vehadfunretellingthebelovedstoryof“TheGloriousWhitewasher”fromTomSawyer,replacingTom’snamewiththatoftheentrancedyounglistener,andthenamesofTom’scompatriotsBenRogers,BillyFisher,andJohnnyMillerwiththoseofthelistener’ssiblingsandfriends.ThechildwillenjoyimaginghimselftheownerofTom’samassed“wealth”–whichincludedakittenwithonlyoneeye

    twelvemarbles,apieceofbluebottle-glasstolookthrough,atinsoldier,acoupleoftadpoles,sixfire-crackers,fourpiecesoforange-peel,adilapidatedoldwindowsash,andadeadratandastringtoswingitwith.

    Beginwith“WhenIwasakid…”

    ”Andthenmydadtookoffhisshoeandsmackeditagainstthewindow,shatteringtheglass.”That’stheclimaxofastoryaboutmyfamilygettinglockedoutofourhousesomeforty-oddyearsago.Imusthavetoldittomyownkids,byrequest,athousandtimesovertheyears.Partofthestory’sappealliesinitsquaintdetails,e.g.Cellphonesdidn’texist,sowecouldn’tcallourneighborsforhelp.Bonusinterest-clincher:Mom,whowasthirteenatthetime,wasmortifiedthattheepisodehadbeenwitnessedbytheboyacrossthestreet,whomsheliked.

    “Youbecomeagreatstorytellerbytellingstories,”saysBornes,“andovertimehoningyourcraft.”

    AddsLeBlanc,“Don’tjusttellthestory.Shareitsothatyourlistenerswillbeimbibedwithit.”

    Andeveryonelivedhappilyeverafter.

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    UniversityLife![atCruceSignatiBlog]

    Well,Imovedoutandhavebeenlivinginauniversityresidenceforfourweeksnow.Thehomeschoolerisaliveandinfact,thriving!I’vecertainlylearnedalotinthepastfewweeks,aboutmyself,myfamily,school,citylife,andpeopleingeneral.

    #1.Homeschoolingcanprepareyouforlife‘intherealworld’.

    September7thdawnedbrightandsunny,andthewholeofcreationseemedcheerfulthatmorning.Iwasfeelinganxious,though.Itwasmyfirstdayofschool.Ever.Withtheexceptionsofadriver’sedcourseandgivingapresentationtosomefourthgradersoncomposting,Ihadneverevensetfootinaclassroombefore.SoasIlefttheresidence,IrecalledJulieAndrewssinging“IHaveConfidence”inTheSoundofMusicandbythetimeIreachedmyfirstclass,Iwasfeelingmuchbetter.This‘realschool’thingisnotashardasIthoughtitwouldbe,andall6ofmycoursesaregoingverywellnow.

    BecauseIhavesomedietaryrestrictionsIoptednottoeatatthecafeteria.Sothatmeansbuyingmyowngroceriesandcookingformyselfontopofschool.GoodthingIhavelotsofpracticeinthisarea!Cookingforthefamilyoverthepastfouryearshascertainlypaidoff.Groceryshoppingandbudgetingarenotnewtome,butIamstilllearningtocheckflyersforsavings,usethestorerewardscard,andavoidimpulsebuys.Thenearestgrocerystoreisa15minutewalkfrommyresidence,soIcancombineexerciseanderrandsintoonetrip.

    Learningtomanagemytimethroughoutmyhighschoolyearswasthebiggestblessingindisguise.Althoughitwasdifficultatthetime,itpreparedmeforlivingonmyownanduniversitylife.InhighschoolIusedastudytechniquecalledthePomodorotechnique.Ido25minutesofstudying/writing/reading,takea5minutebreak,andrepeat.Afewhoursofstudyinggobyveryquicklythisway.IcancompleteprojectswaybeforethedeadlineifImanagemytimeandexerciseself-control.Weekendsaremytimetocatchuponlaundry,cookformyself,orspendsometimewithfriends,whichleadstomynextpoint…

    #2.Haveasupportsystem.

    ThereisnowayIwouldbecopingsowellifitweren’tforthesupportofmyfriendshereinthecity.Myfamilylives3hoursaway,soMomhasbeentextingmeoftentomakesureI’mdoingalrightandsometimesthefam-jamwillcallmeorSkypemessagemebecausetheymissmequiteabit.Thiscontactwiththemisgreat,butitdoesn’treplacereallifecontact.Thankfully,I’vegotfriendshereinthecityandinthepastfewweeks,we’vegoneforwalks,hadcoffeeatvariousshops,goneswingdancing,wentforabeerafterAdoration,andsatonaparkbenchwatchingthesunsetandthecitylightscomeon.ThissupportsystemhaskeptmeoptimisticandIknowthatnomatterwhatstrugglesIface,Iamnotalone.

    #3.Prayerlifeisvital.

    vital:adj,essentialtoorsupportinglife;necessarytoexistence.FromtheLatinvitameaninglife.

    Indeeditis.Whenplanningoutmyday,Isetaside45minutesforprayerinthemorning.Angelus,morningoffering,Rosary,andsometimeinsilencecanbefitintothisblock.Ifindthatthistimeinprayerisagood

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  • wayofpreparingforthedayandfortifyingmyselfthroughGod’sgrace.IfeelWAYbetterwhenIstartmydaylikethis.Becauseofmyclassschedule,Ican’tmakeittodailyMass,butItrytogotoMassorAdorationatsomepointbetweenMondayandFriday.IneedtorechargeandbefilledbymySavior.

    That’sallIhaveforreflectionnow.PraiseGodforalltheblessingsHehasgivenme!Noteverythinghasbeenperfect,butHisloveenduresandovercomeseventhegreatestsorrows.RememberthatHelovesyouandnothingcanseparateyoufromthatlove!

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    SavoringAfriendandIrecentlydroveupstateonbusiness.Westretchedthedrivehomeintoawindingtripthroughtwonotches(localparlanceforamountainpass)beforefinallysettlingdowntoI-93.Afterall,itwasearlyautumn.Eveniftheleavesweren’tturningyet,thecrispairwasworthtakingtimetoenjoy.

    Therewerethingswaitingtobedoneathome.MyfriendandIhadeveryreasontoscootbackattopspeedoncethebusinessmeetingwasover.Wedecidedinsteadtosavorthemountainsasbestwecouldfromthecar.Wearebothofapoliticalbent,andthisisthehighseasonforthat.Allthemoreatreat,then,todecideonthespurofthemomenttoputbusy-nessandcampaignsasideforafewhours.

    Athomelater,IfoundthesewordsfromPopeSt.JohnPaulII.Theyfittheday.JohnPaulunderstoodsavoringtherightthings.

    Whoeverreallywantstofindhimself,mustlearntosavornaturewhosecharmisintimatelylinkedwiththesilenceofcontemplation.Therhythmsofcreationaresomanypathsofextraordinarybeautyalongwhichthesensitiveandbelievinghearteasilycatchestheechoofthemysterious,loftierbeautythatisGodHimself,theCreator,thesourceandlifeofallreality.

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    MyWingedMessengers[atHarvestingTheFruitsofContemplation]

    ThankyouAllisonGingrasandElizabethRiordanforyourweeklyinvitationtore-postourfavoritearticlesonWorthRevisiting.

    MyWingedMessengers

    (OriginallypostedAugust29,2016)

    ThepresenceofmyfeatheredfriendsatthesetimesofprayerisGod’swayofremindingmethatifHecaresandprovidesfortheselittlecreatures,howmuchmorecertainIcanbeHewilldosoforme.

    Icanneverberemindedofthistruthenough.

    However,duringmymostrecentretreatthere,Godusedawingedmessengerinatotallydifferentway.YouseeinalltheyearsIhavebeencomingtotheAbbey,IhaveneverheardanybirdschirpingwhileIwasininthemainchapelinthemonastery–locatedamilefromtheretreathouse.

    SilencereignssupremeinthatSacredspace,sincewords–writtenorspoken–arenotalwaysnecessary.OurlovingLordisabletocommunicatewithusinsilence.ItisforthatreasonthatIhavecometorelishandenjoythesequiettimesinHisPresence.ThepeaceandsolitudeservesasreminderformetoincreasethefrequencywithwhichIsitinsilencegazingatHimeitherintheexposedMonstranceorbehindlockedtabernacledoorswhenIamnotonretreat.

    ButonthelastdayandmylastHolyHourofmymostrecentretreatthere,Iwasgiftedwiththesongofasinglesingingbird,penetratingthroughthesoothingandcomfortingsilenceoftheMonastery’smainchapel.Thathadneverhappenedduringpriorvisits.

    SincetherearehundredsofacresoflandsurroundingtheMonasteryanditsretreathouse,whatbroughtthisparticularbirdtothisspecificspottointerruptthesacredsilenceofthisspaceonthisonesingleoccasion?AndforthatmatterwhatbringsthechirpingbirdstoserenademeattheretreathousechapeleverytimeIbegintopraythere?

    God!

  • WhywouldHeblessmeso?

    BecauseHewantsmetounderstandHewillbringmetowhereHewantsmetobeifIbuttrustHimandobeyHispromptingsasdohislittlefeatheredfriends.

    WillIlistentoHim?

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    Lifeis...bySaintMotherTeresa

    IremembermymothercopyingthispoemofMotherTeresa'sinherownnotebook.Icanstillpictureherclearandbeautifulhandwriting.Howwelongedtomeether!!!Shewasalivingsaint,likeFatherDamienofMolokai.Shetaughtbyexample.Shemademewanttobeanun(well,IdidgotoaConventschoolandIlovedthosesisters,sotheymayhavesomethingtodowiththisdesireaswell).Shemademewanttobegood.Shemademewanttobeholy.HowwonderfuloftheChurchtorecognizehersanctityafteralltheseyears.Prayforus,MotherTeresa.

    Lifeisbeauty,admireit,Lifeisbliss,tasteit,Lifeisadream,realizeit,Lifeisachallenge,meetit,Lifeisaduty,completeit,Lifeisagame,playit,Lifeisprecious,careforit,Lifeiswealth,keepit,Lifeislove,enjoyit,Lifeismystery,knowit,Lifeisapromise,fulfillit,Lifeissorrow,overcomeit,Lifeisasong,singit,Lifeisastruggle,acceptit,Lifeistragedy,confrontit,Lifeisanadventure,dareit,Lifeishappiness,deserveit,Lifeislife,defendit.

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  • ~apoembySaintMotherTeresaofCalcutta

    (Ilovethisphoto,swipedfromTanBooksFBpage.Sojoyful.Justdiscoveredthenameofthephotographer:MichaelCollopy.Herearesomeofhisotherphotos.)

    AbeautifulreflectiononMotherTeresaandmotherhoodbyFatherGeorgeRutler.TherearemanybeautifulbooksaboutandbyMotherTeresa.Favoritesinclude:ComeBeMyLightandNoGreaterLove.HereIsharejustafewofherthoughtsaboutthegreatevilofabortion.

    AndhereisthefulltextofPopeFrancis'homilyattheMassforcanonization.

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    St.Jerome,DoctorofTranslation[atTheCatholicSpiritualLife]

    St.JeromeandtheBible

    I’msureyouknowthatSt.Jerome,whomtheChurchcelebratestoday,said,“IgnoranceofScriptureisignoranceofChrist.”Itshouldbeunderlinedthathedidn’tsaythisinpassing.Jerome’swholelifewasorientedaroundhisloveofScripture.HewasanirasciblemonkfromDalmatia(justtotheeastofnorthernItaly),whodidBiblicalworkinRomeandthenwassentbythePopetoBethlehem,wherehelivedinacave,studiedwithlocalexperts,includingJews,andtranslatedtheBibleintoLatin.Hewasn’tthefirstonetodothat,buthediditwell.

    ButthoughthebestnameforSt.Jeromewouldbe“DoctoroftheBible,”todayIwouldlikeustoconsiderhimasthe“DoctorofTranslation.”

    DoctoroftheChurch(ironically,sincewe’retalkingaboutaDoctorofTranslation)isapoorlytranslatedterm.InLatin,doctordoesn’tmeanhealer,itmeansteacher.(Weprofessor-doctorsaremoreproperlydoctorsthanthoseso-calledmedicaldoctors!)Thephraseisusedbythetraditiontotalkaboutthatparticulargroupofsaintswhosewritingsareespeciallyimportant:the“doctors”arethegreatteachersof“doctrine.”Thetitleseemstohavegrownupinpartasakindofliturgicalcategory:somesaints’feastsdeservespecialliturgicalemphasis(andlater,aspecialliturgy)becauseitissoimportantthatwelearnfromtheirwritings.

    IntheWest(wheretheyspokeLatin,andsousedtheLatinword“doctor”)thetitlefirstwenttoSt.Augustine,arguablythegreatestteacheroftheWesterntradition(atleastuntilSt.Thomas,whoviewedhimassuch);alsoSt.Ambrose,hisgreatandspiritualteacher;St.GregorytheGreat,oneofthemostimportantonestotranslateAugustineintospirituality;andSt.Jerome.

    LatersomeEastern,Greekfatherswerenamed:St.JohnChrysostom–hissecondnamemeans“goldenmouth,”becausehewasthegreatestpreacheroftheearlyChurch,bringinghismonasticwisdomtothemetropolisofConstantinople;themonk-bishopfriendsSt.BasilandSt.GregoryNazianzus,whoespeciallyenrichedtheteachingoftheTrinity;andlater,togivetheEastfourliketheWest,St.Athanasius,greatdefenderofthedivinityofChrist.

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  • Lateron,ThomasAquinaswasaddedtothelist–andafterthatthetitlewasextendedtomanygreatwriters.Thepointofallthisisthatthedoctorsaregreatwriters.Itisadistinctionmeanttopointustowardwritingsofthesaintsasanimportantpartofourfaith.

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    St.Jerome,St.Francis,andOurLady

    Now,theinterestingthingforustodayisthatJeromeisnotanespeciallyimportantwriter.Don’tgetmewrong:hewasasaint,andlikemanysaintsoftheearlyChurch,hehadinterestingthingstosayaboutspirituality,andJesus,andtheBible.ButevenhiscommentariesonScripturearenotthatimportant.

    JeromeisnotadoctoroftheChurchbecauseofhisoriginalwritings.JeromeisadoctoroftheChurchbecauseofhistranslation–oftheBible.

    Understandthis,andakeyelementoftheLatintraditionsuddenlycomesintofocus.JeromeisoneofthefavoritesaintsoftheMiddleAges–andtheirverymostimportant“writer”(doctor)–purelybecauseheputtheBibleintoalanguagepeoplecouldunderstand.

    ThedeepestthingwelearnfromthisdevotiontoSt.JeromeishowmuchthetraditionlovedtheBible.Buttheotherthingwelearnishowmuchtheylovedtranslation.

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    St.Jerome(ontheright)andtheCross

    Letmebeblunt.Thisissomethingcompletelyinsideoutabout“traditionalism.”SomeCatholicstodayloveLatinbecauseit’snotthevernacular.ButtheMiddleAgeslovedLatinbecauseitwasthe

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    SomepeopleknowthattheChurch–inauthoritativedocuments,suchasatTrentandVaticanI–saidthattheVulgate,Jerome’sLatintranslationoftheBible,isauthoritative.ButpeoplewronglyinterpretthattomeanthatLatinisauniqueBiblicallanguage.Tothecontrary,thetradition–andthosedocuments:readthem!–understandstheVulgatetobeanendorsementnotofLatin,butoftranslation.What’samazingaboutSt.Jerome,forthemiddleages,isthathetooktheBibleoutofalanguagethatWesternerscouldnotunderstandandtranslateditintoalanguagetheycouldunderstand.What’samazingisthatwecanheartheBibleinalanguageweunderstand.

    St.Jeromeis,firstofall,asaintoflovingtheBible.Butheisalso,andinseparably,asaintoflovingtranslationintothevernacular.Vulgatemeansvernacular,the“vulgartongue,”thelanguagedumbpeoplespeak(orspoke).

    IfwewanttolovetheBible–andtolovetheTradition,whichlovestheBible–wetooneedtolearntolovetranslation.LikeJerome,it’sbestifwecanlearntheoriginallanguages.Butforallthosepeoplewhocan’t,thankGodforsaintslikeJeromewhomaketheBible(andtheliturgy)accessibleinthelanguageofthepeople.ThankGodfortranslators.

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    AboutaBoy[atStringofPearls]

    Onceuponatime,therewasalittleboywholosthisdadtosuicideatthetenderageofsix."Don'tbemadathim,"heremembershispaternalgrandmother,"Grammy,"tearfullypleadingwithhismotherinthedaysfollowinghisfather'sfuneral."Whywouldmymombemadatmydadfordying?"thelittleboywondered.

    Thatboywouldn'tknowthedetailssurroundinghisfather'sdeathformanyyears,untilhewasa21-year-oldnewlywedwithanigglingsuspicionthathehadn'tbeentoldthewholestory...andspenthoursinthelibraryporingoveroldnewspapersuntilheuncoveredthedevastatingtruth,andthensharedhisnewfoundknowledgewithhisbeautifulyoungbride.

    Notagreatwaytobeginamarriage,youmightsay;butthattall,handsomenewlywedwiththePaulNewman-blueeyesandthemoviestargoodlooksjustcelebrated60yearsofweddedblisswithhisoneandonlysweetheart.I'dsaythat'snottooshabby,foraboywhoselifecouldhavebeenirreparablyshatteredbyeventsthattookplacewhenhewasonlysix.

    Afterhisfatherdied,theboy'smother(whowastheeldestofsixsiblings)wentawaytoattendnursingschoolandgethercareerstarted,sothatshecouldeventuallybecomethesolesupporterofherchildren.Thegrievingwidowlefttheboyandhisyoungersisterwithhermother,who'dbecometheheadofthefamilyafterthecrashof'29robbedherfatherofhisfinancialsuccessandlefthimabrokenman."Mimi"wasatough-as-nailsmatriarch,asensible,hard-working,no-nonsensewomanwho,whenitcametoherfatherlessgrandson(anadmittedlysometimesnaughtylittletyke!),neverthoughtitwasbesttosparetherodifitmeantspoilingthechild.

    ThismightsoundlikesomehorrifyingDickensiantale,butneverfear:thatboyadoredhisupbringinginthattinytowninupstateNY,describinghissevenyearsinhisbelovedgrandmother'scaretohisownoffspringinlateryearsas

    themostidyllicofchildhoodsimaginable

    .Hewassurroundedcompletelybywomen(hisgrandmother,hissister,andseveralteenagedauntswhowerestilllivingathomeatthetime);hehadnostrongmalesinhislifetouseasrolemodelsforlateron,whenhewouldbecomeahusbandanddadhimself.Andyethewasmarriedat21andsoonafterbecamethedadofmany.Bythetimethatboywasjust28,hewasalreadythefatheroffive:threedaughtersandtwosons.

    Once,whenthatboy'seldestdaughter'sfourthsonwassixyearsold,itsuddenlyoccurredtoherthathewasthesameageasherdadhadbeenwhenhelosthisfather.Theideaofleavingherownboymotherlesswassodifficulttocontemplatethatsheaskedhimifhehadanymemoriesofhisfather."Nope,"hesaid,inthetight-lippedfashiontypicalofhimwhenhedidn'tfeelliketalkingaboutsomething."Noneatall."Andtheboy'sdaughterwasunspeakablysadwhensheheardhisanswer.

    Butafewyearslaterduringathunderstorm,thedaughterrealizedthatherdadhadn'tbeenentirelytruthfulwhenhegaveherthatcurtreply.Asafiercestormragedoutside,shetoldhimhowmuchthunderstorms

  • frightenedher."Oh,notme,"hereplied."Ilove'em.OneoftheearliestmemoriesIhavefromwhenIwasalittleboyisofsittingonmyfather'slapontheporch,watchingthelightningcomedown."

    "Aha!"thoughtthedaughter."Sohe

    does

    rememberhisfather!"Andshewashappy,becausethatmeantifshe'ddiedwhenoneofherownboyswasonlysix,hemightrememberher,too.

    Thatboyisanoldmannow.Hishealthisdeteriorating,andheisfacingtheendofalonglifewelllived.He'shandlingthemostrecentprognosisfromhisdoctorwithhisusualcourage...becauseatsix,hehadtolearnhowtobebraveandstrongatamuchyoungeragethanmostofushaveto;atsix,helearnedtotakewhatlifethrewathimwithoutcomplainingoraskingforpity.Hedidn'thaveafathertoshowhimtheropeswhenhewasgrowingup,buthelearnedhowtoclimbthemonhisown.Hewasaboywhofiguredout,allbyhimself,howtobeaman.

    Iamproudtocallthatboymyfather.

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    WhyIdidn'twanttowrite...butneededto.[atTheologyisaverb]

    Today,theadviceofagoodfriendofmineSr.MariePaul,aPaulinesisterbyvocation,echoedinmymind.“Ifyoufindyourselfatalossofwhattowriteorhowtowritewhatyoufeelyouneedto,justwriteaboutwhyyoucannotwrite.”Why?First,itgetstheflowgoingbutalsotheremaybesomethingthereworthexploring-thereasonbehindwhyyouarefeelingblockedorresistant.Doingthishashelpedmetoseemoreclearlywhatitisthatisholdingmebackandcaptive.

    AndsoIbegin..nolongeraslavetofearbutrecognizingthatitiswithGod,withhisstrengthanddesirethatIcandoallthings.Itisn’tthatIamfearfulofwriting,orsurrenderingmyinmostthoughtsandfeelings,butthatthetaskofwritingwithandforapurposetakesbothtimeandenergy.Twothingsthatcanfartoooftenseeminshortsupply.For,introspectivelyIunderstandmyowntendencytogivefullyofmyselftowhateverIcommitto.Nottreadingintheshallow,IlongtoseethingstocompletionandrestonlywhenIfeelIhavegivenmyall.Yet,inmydesiretoserve,haveIneglectedmyowncupthatlongstobefilled?IsthiswhyIamclingingtodowntime,andstingywhenitcomestowritinglately?

    AndstillIknowthatspirituallythattendingtotheseedofabuddingquestion,oremergingprayerthrough

  • writingismorethanafacetofselfexpression.Thefruitofwhichhas,forme,beenawindowofclarificationandapathofdiscernment.ItisanopeningofmindandhearttotheSpirit,adiscoveryofareasofneededimprovement,anacceptanceofmercyandarecognitionthatIamloved.Evenstillitcanbeameanstoencourageothersintheirwalkoffaithtoo,whomaywonderiftheyarealone.InneedofaSavior?Wonderful,thereismuchcompanionshipinthejourney!However,forthistobepossiblewemustbeauthentic-sharingequallyofthechallengesandsuccesses,ofthesorrowsandjoysandofabrokennessthatisonlymadecompletethroughChrist.

    So,itisthenthatIamcalledtowrite.HangingbyathreadIcannotseetheentiretapestrythatGodweaves.Perspective.Writingspirituallybecomesawaytobetterseethegiftsthatwehaveandunderstandthewhybehindwhatwearetodo.Up,down,inandouthishandguidesmyhearttowardshispurpose.Witheachwordwrittenandeachpauseplaced-thereisaconversationbetweenmyheartandGod.Aseekingandafinding,andareneweddesiretostaynearwhenIonceagainhavestrayed.“Thereyouare!”,Isay.“IamwhereIhavealwaysbeen,rightbesideyou.”Hesays.

    WhileIinitiallyhadlittleinclinationtowritetoday,Godknewthatitwasexactlywhatwasneeded.Haveyouconsideredwritingasawaytomoveyourheart,orasameansofdiscernment?Whatisholdingyoucaptivetoday?

    Peace,

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    GiveDrinktotheThirsty

    Manymonthsago,asIwaspreparingformyfirstEmbraceMercytalk,IcontemplateddoingaseriesontheWorksofMercy.IforgotallaboutthatideauntilthismorningwhenIhadana-hamoment.TherearenotenoughMondaysleftinthisJubileeYearofMercytogiveeachoneoftheseworksitsownseparatepost,soIwilllikelycombinethemfromtimetotime.Here’shopingforgoodfollow-through!

    Sowhatwasmya-hamoment?IwasfillingapitcherwithwatersoIcouldbrewsometeawhichIwillthenpouroverice.Idothisoften;generallynotnoteworthy.ButthenInoticedabug…averytinybug…floatinginthewater.Wehavehadwindowsopenforaweek,andourscreensarenotinthebestofshape.Ipromptlypouredthewaterdownthedraintostartover.Then,Ifeltatingeofguilt.

    IwasremindedofaconversationIhadnearly20yearsagowithacollegestudentwhospenthersummerinHaitiwiththeMissionariesofCharity.Wewereonretreat,andafewofusteammemberswereinthekitchendebatingwhetherornotweshoulddrinktheunopenedmilkwhichhad“expired”twodaysprevious.ThisyoungwomantoldushowpeopleinHaitiwouldjustaboutgivetheirrightarmstohavesuchaluxuryasagallonofcoldmilk.Shecontinuedtoshareabouthersummerexperience,includinghowshewitnessedwomensiftingflourdailytogetbugsoutbeforetheycookedtheirmeagermeals.Shemadethesepointsfirmly,withoutheapingguiltonus,butinsteadwithachallengetobemoregratefulforallthatwehad.Needlesstosay,weusedthe“expired”milkthatday.

    ThatentireconversationenteredmymindasIwatchedmywatergodownthedrain.Allbecauseofagnat.What’sworseisthatIdon’tevendrinkwaterstraightfromthetapanyway.Irunitthroughmyspecialpitcher,sittinginmyoffice,thathasafilter.Yep,I’mthatpicky.Idon’tlikedrinkingplainwateratall,anddefinitelynottapwater.Icantasteadifferenceinmyteawithunfilteredwater,oratleastIhaveconvincedmyselfofthis.Ihaveaccesstocleandrinkingwater.Every.Single.Day.AndyetIwantitcleanerandtastier.MayGodhavemercyonme.

    NowIrealizethatGodcreatedmetoliveinatimeandplacewithsuchablessing.Idon’tthinkHewantsmetofeelguiltyeverytimeIenjoyaglassofcoldmilkorafabulouscupofEnglishbreakfasttea.WhatIdothinkisthatGodwantsme,andallofustobemoremindfulofthosewhodon’thavetheseblessings.Beyondbeingmindful,wemustdosomethingaboutit.Idecidedtoponderthismore.

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  • Manypoverty-reliefcharitiesassistcommunitiesbybuildingwellsforsafedrinkingwater.OnesuchorganizationisCatholicReliefServices,whoseprogramsarevaried,butincludecleanwaterinitiatives.Othercharitiesdealspecificallywithcleanwateralone,recognizingitwillinevitablyimpactcommunityhealth,agriculture,andeducation,alongwithjustabouteverythingelse.TodayIdiscoveredCharity:Waterandwasdeeplymovedbytheirboldmission.IspentacrazyamountoftimewatchingtheirvideosonYouTube.Iencourageyoutocheckthemout.

    Financiallysupportingsuchorganizationsisgood,buthowelsecanweheedJesus’wordstogivedrinktothethirsty?

    ConsiderlookingintoareafoodpantriesoryourlocalSt.VincentdePaulSociety.PerhapsyoucoulddonatebottledwateronamonthlybasistostocktheirshelvesSometimesalackofcleanwatercomesfromunpaidbills.Byhelpingtopaywaterandsanitationbillsforpeopleinneed(suchasthroughyourchurch),familieswillbehealthier.Keepsomebottledwater,handsanitizerandotherhygieneproductsinyourcarascarepackagestogiveawaywhenyouseesomeoneinneed.Pray.Withoutceasing.Theissueofdrinkingwatercanbeoverwhelmingifwetrytotakecareofitonourown.Godhasalreadycreatedthewater.Let’saskHimhowwecanshareitmoreabundantlyandgenerously.

    IknowIwillstillenjoymytea,icedorhot.Hopefully,however,Iwillbeabetterstewardofthewaterthatisavailabletome.AndhopefullyIwillgrowingratitudeforthatwater,andeveryblessingthatisshowereduponmedaily.

    Whatsimpleblessingsdoyouhavethathavebeeneasytotakeforgranted?Howdoyouofferupprayersofthanksgiving?Insong?Ajournal?Feelfreetosharebelow.

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    "AbortioninGoodFaith"and"AbortionCare":ThesePhrasesAreNonsense[atItMakesSensetoMe]

    ITMAKESSENSETOME

    ByLarryPeterson

    Iusuallywalk45minutestoanhourbeforedawn.Ablacksky,splatteredendlesslywithtwinkli