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October2016
NewEvangelistsMonthly-October2016
NewEvangelistsMonthly-October2016
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JourneytotheCross,byShaneCloonan-BookReviewbyVirginiaLieto
7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeilCatholicStandbyErikaVandiver
LikeArrowsintheHandofaWarriorPlotLineandSinker(EllenGable,Author)byEllenGableHrkach
September'sOpenBook&SabbathRestBookTalkErinMcColeCuppbyErinCupp
EssayonPartisanDissentLeadingtoRebellionIfIMightInterject
TheLieoftheApostolate{HowILeftMyChildrenPoor}BlossomingJoybyMelodyMarie
WhatAbout"I'mSorry"?CreoenDios!bySusanStabile
KnockingonClosedDoors-WhyHavinganApostolateisNotJust"ANiceThingToDo"UnderThyRoofbyKirbyHoberg
BedTimeBlessingBagsShiftingMyPerspectivebyClaireMcGarry
PoliticsispersonalbecausetobealiveistostruggleCatholicDeaconbyDeaconScottDodge
DoorsWideOpenAndThe800thPostPaucaVerbabyFr.StephenMorris
TeachingThroughStoriesbyCelesteBehe
UniversityLife!CruceSignatiBlogbyChristinaSawchuk
SavoringbyEllenKolb
MyWingedMessengersHarvestingTheFruitsofContemplationbyMichaelSeagriff
Lifeis...bySaintMotherTeresabyVijayaBodach
St.Jerome,DoctorofTranslationTheCatholicSpiritualLifebyEricJohnston
AboutaBoyStringofPearlsbyLauraPearl
WhyIdidn'twanttowrite...butneededto.TheologyisaverbbyElizabethReardon
GiveDrinktotheThirstybyKimPadan
"AbortioninGoodFaith"and"AbortionCare":ThesePhrasesAreNonsenseItMakesSensetoMebyLarryPeterson
MomminginSolidaritySweepingUpJoybyAlicia
BeWhollyTheCloisteredHeartbyNancyShuman
RevivingGod'sForgottenFriends:AuthorInterviewwithSusanPeekbyCarolynAstfalk
OfFamilyMantelsandtheNotreDameBasilicaClingingtoOnions
TheWearinessofRememberingbyMargaretFelice
7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeilCatholicStandbyDeniseHunnell
Election2016,Prayandwork!Catholic365byDeMaria
Jesus(MediterraneanAppearance)GracetoPaintbySisterMaresaLilley
PadrePiowasnotarigidTraditionalistTheShieldofFaithbyFrankRega
SufferingintheRoleoftheDivineComedyCatholicConundrumbyChristinaNagy
VineyardofLoveCatholicSoupbyVinnyCarr
ThefirstChristianEvangelistThoughtsofaYoungCatholicMedicbyChibuzorOgamba
Findingthe'Kind'inMankindHoldingHandsbyCarolBannon
Stop,Re-set,LivebukaspaladbyFr.AdrianDanker
WhowouldlikeaSkittle?OntheRoadtoDamascusbyRobertCollins
ScandalandtheNovemberElection
TheContemplativeCatholicConvertbyRichMaffeo
MyHusbandCheated:HealingandThrivingafterInfidelityConversationwithWomenbyEmilyBorman
Youcan'tfightitLMSChairmanbyJosephShaw
BlessGod'sCreaturesGreatandSmalljoyofnine9byMelanieJeanJuneau
'shroomWithUsStillbyJohnSchroeder
ShoppingCenterAttack:WhyICareACatholicCitizeninAmericabyBrianGill
TheTeachingPoweroftheParishBulletinSaints365byDebbieGaudino
GreatBooksPreschoolStoryTimeVeilsandVocationsbyJenniferElia
HowtoTeachCurrentEventsWithouttheEveningNewsSetonMagazinebyJenniferElia
AnewPoliticalPartyQuietConsecrationbyLeslieKlinger
WhentheSignofthecrosssaid"ThankYou,Lord!"AMomentFromDeSalesbyFr.RichardDeLillio
MotherTeresa-MyFriend,MyMentor,ASaintOurHome,Mary'sMantlebyEmilyDavis
WhenYouGrievetheLivingThePitterPatterDiariesbyRakhiMcCormick
God,Family,Work,ThenPlayJourneytoWisdombyLarry'T'Smith
ListeningtoHeartheWordofGodinOurLivesBlogoftheDormitionbyJohnRussell
PatronSaintsofStudentsTheKoalaMombyBonnieWay
NotKnowingBibleMeditationsbyBarbaraHosbach
WeNeedtheHolySpirit!RenewTheChurchBlogbyThomasandDeborahRichard
FromMysticalPremonitiontoContemplationbyDavidTorkington
Whatisthemoralresponsetotheduelingproblemsofstrangersinneedofrefugeandrankwickedness?BrutallyHonestbyRickRice
TheEssenceofTrueDiscipleship...Bartimaeus'QuietPlacebyBartimaeusTimeo
WhatOurLadyofSorrowsmightbeaskingofusCatholicReviewbyRitaBuettner
EverythingYouWantedtoKnowaboutRCIA&HowtoJointheCatholicChurchACatholicNewbiebyLynMettler
St.PadrePio-HisWisdomin25QuotationsBIGCCATHOLICSbyMatthewCoffin
WeMetatanAltarbyMaryHaseltine
EucharisticLoveandtheExaltationoftheCrossAmazingNearnessbyShannon
MyTributetoSaint"Mother"TeresaofCalcuttaFromthePulpitofmyLifebyRuthAnnPilney
WhatisHome?Lord,MakeMeaSaintbyJamieJo
AQuietEgobyTonyAgnesi
WhenGodSpeakstoYou...Literally!LittleDouglingsbyCarissaDouglas
Goodness:TheCaseforChristianityPeaceGardenPassagebyRoxaneSalonen
YouAreNotStuckSunflowerSojournbyLiannaMueller
RandomThoughtsVforVictory!byAnitaMoore
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IrecentlyattendedtheNationalMarketingNetworkTradeShow/CatholicWritersGuildConferenceinChicagothissummer.Atthetradeshow/conference,weGuildmembersgottomeetmanyauthorsandreceivefreeautographedbooks!Ihadagreattime.Yet,themostmemorablemomentformeoccurredasItraversedthroughtheTradeShowbooths.Icameacrossatablewithacertainchildren’sbookonit:JourneytotheCross.Isaidtomyself,“Hey,that’sthebookthatwoninmycategoryattheNationalIndieExcellenceAwardscontestthisyear!”Okay,nowImustseewhat’ssospecialaboutthisbookthatitbeatoutmyownbookinthecontest(minewasnamedafinalist).Whatoccurrednextwasbeyondawesome.
Isteppeduptothetableandmettheauthor’smother.Yes,Isaid“mother.”Thattookmeaback,becauseshelookedsoyoung.Iasked,“whereistheauthor?”AsIaskedthisquestion,ateenagerwalkeduptome.Atthispoint,I’mstunnedattheyoungageoftheauthor!IgottomeetShaneCloonanandimmediatelylearnedwhatahumble,respectful,andkindyoungmanhehasbecome.Forsomereason,Shanedidn’tknowthathisbook,JourneytotheCrosswonthe2016NationalIndieExcellenceAwardsintheChildren’sReligioncategory.Ihadtheabsolutehonorofinforminghim.IwishIcouldhavecapturedthelookonhisface.Hewasinawe.Eyeswide,hequietlysaidinawhisper,“Whythisisreallyhuge,isn’tit?”Yes,Shane,itishuge!
MyThoughtsonJourneytotheCrossandShaneCloonan
Laterthatevening,afterhehadautographedmycopy,Isatdowntoreadthestory,andinstantlyunderstoodwhyShane’sbookwontheaward.EveryoneknowsthestoryofJesus’birth,life,passionanddeath.However,noonehasevertoldthestoryfromtheviewoftheever-faithfuldonkeywhowasapartofJesus’life.BythetimeIreachedthelastpageofthebook,tearsfloweddownmycheeks;forthisstory,toldfromthisperspective,touchedmyhearttothecore.ThedonkeyhadsuchloveforJesusthroughoutthestory;onlywantingtobeJesus’faithfulservant.ShaneCloonanhasadefinitetalentforwritingchildren’sbooks.TheetchingsbyRichardBrowningareexquisite;givingourlittleonesanabilitytograspthemessageofthestory,viaillustration.
IamsogladthatImadeapointofaskingShanetosignmybookasfollows:“Fromtheawardwinningauthor,ShaneCloonan”because,onedayIhopethatthenameofShaneCloonanwillbeahouseholdname.Iplantokeepmyeyeonwhatelsethisyoungmanproduces;onceagainrequestingasignedcopy
fromthisawardwinningauthor!
IfyouwouldliketogetyourcopyofJourneytotheCross,clickhere.
Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://virginialieto.com/journey-cross-book-review/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).
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https://www.amazon.com/Journey-Cross-Shane-Cloonan/dp/1513603507/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1471444922&sr=1-1&keywords=journey+to+the+cross+shane+cloonanhttp://virginialieto.com/journey-cross-book-review/
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7ReasonsIDoNotWearaChapelVeil[atCatholicStand]
BecauseIAmNotMoreHolythanYou
Manypeoplethesedayslookatwomenwhochoosetopracticethedevotionofveilingas‘holierthanthou’–mostcharacteristicallyinNovusOrdoparishes.Nothingcouldbefurtherfromthetruth.Inmypersonalexperience,thereasonswomenveilarenumerous.TheirmotivationincludesemulatingtheBlessedMotherbecausesheistheconsummatefemalerolemodel.Anotherreasonisthat,oftentimes,sacredthingsareveiled–thetabernacle,forexample.Aslife-bearers,wewomen,haveasacredcollaborationwithourspousesandGod.Wecarrythetreasureoflittlesoulswithinourbodiesforninemonthsbeforeintroducingthemtothisworld.
BecauseItIsaFashionStatement
Therearesomanywaystoembellishourappearance.Wewearflatteringclothing,jewelry,andperhapsabitofmakeup.Yetachapelveilisnotafashionaccessory.Ifthetemptationtolookontheveilinthisway,itmaybewisetoreconsiderthispiouspractice.Conversely,wearingaveilisoftenahindrancetofashion.Thatcarefullycoifedhead,adornedwithabeautifulhairstylemayverywellbeflatandunflatteringbythetimethefinalblessingofMassisgiven.Wearingachapelveilcan,however,affirmtherecognitionofourGod-givenfemininityascomplimentarytothemasculinityofourspouses.
BecauseIAmNotStuckInThePast
SomeCatholicsofgoodfaithbelievethattheobligationforwomentocovertheirheadscontinuestobebindingtothisday.Othersknowthelawsurroundingveilingwasabrogatedandtherefore,believethepracticetobepassé.AquickstudyofCanonLaw,however,confirmsthat,whilethedevotionisnolongerbinding,itisacceptable,andevendesirable,asavoluntarypractice.
BecauseItIsaDistraction
Wearingachapelveilis,forme,atangiblewayofremovingmyselffromthisworldandenteringintoHeavenonEarth.AsIclipmyveiltomyhair,mydemeanorchanges,andmysoulstills.Yes,IamincommunionwiththeothersinsurroundingpewsbutmysoulisinstilldeepercommunionwithGod.ThedistractionsoflifeasusualfadeawayandmysoulistransportedtotheCross.There,MarystandsatmysideandwepondertogetherthisSonsheboreandtheSalvationHebrought.
BecauseIAmNotVain
Realisticallymyalmostsixtyyearshavelefttheirmark.Short-cropped,saltandpepperhairthatisleftundyed,abodynotnearlyassvelteasmyyoungerself,andcreasesetchedintolaughlinesatmouthandeyes–thatistherealityofmypresentself.Wearingachapelveilofthefinest,importedlacewoulddonothingtochangetheserealities.Ifanything,donningaveilwhenfewornoothersdoistheoppositeofvanity.ItspeaksofhumilityandacomfortwiththeGod-givenself.
https://churchpop.com/2014/12/08/10-reasons-women-wearing-veils-church/http://designsbybirgit.blogspot.com/2013/10/interior-disposition-why-fix-your-hair.htmlhttp://designsbybirgit.blogspot.com/2013/07/veiling-revisited-is-it-mandatory.htmlhttp://www.catholicstand.com/decision-wear-veil-mass/
BecauseIDoNotWanttoCallAttentiontoMyself
Howeasyitistoseekacceptance–tobeoneofthecrowd.Whenweblendinwearealmostanonymous.Thatbitofextraweight,thecharcoalhair,andunexceptionalfacecanmakeforamonolithicscene.Itisexactlywhenwestepoutofourcomfortzone,forthesakeofthespiritual,thatwebecomedifferent.Althoughthisisnevertheintent,especiallyforanintrovert,itspeaksofadevotionthatovercomes.Itovercomesthetrepidationofbeingjudgedandpresentsavulnerabilitynotusuallysought.ItcouldbecalledachildlikegifttoFatherGod,oneofthewaystoshowHimlove.
BecauseIDoNotWantPraiseFromOthers
“She’ssuchagoodCatholic;lookathowmodestlyshedressesandwearsachapelveil!”No,thatisnotatallwhatwearingaveilisabout.Ifanything,thoseofuswhopracticethisoptionaldevotionwouldrathernotbecalledoutasholywomen.Speakingformyselfandthosefriendswhoalsoveil,weareasorrylot.Ourliveshavetakenusonmanycrookedpathsandself-inflicteddetours.WehavenotalwayslistenedwhentheHolyGhostwhispered,muchlesswhenHehitusintheheadwhileshoutingatus,likethesinfulchildrenweare,topleasepayattention.
WomenWhoVeil
Womenwhoveilvaryasmuchasourchapelveilsdo.Wecomefromallwalksoflife–cradleCatholics,converts,young,old,LatinMassdevotees,NovusOrdoattendees,married,single,andmyriadothercharacteristics.Evenourreasonsforcoveringourheadsarenumerous.ThecommongroundisourdevotiontoourbeautifulCatholicfaith,handeddowntousdirectlyfromJesustohisdisciplesinanunbrokenpieceofHeavenonEarth.
Weseekforgiveness,sinandconfess,resolveandfall–butwepickourselvesbackupagain,keepingoureyesonthePrize.Whetheryoujoinusinthedevotionofwearingachapelveilornot,weareyoursisters.Letustrulybeincommunion.Letusprayforoneanother.
Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://www.catholicstand.com/7-reasons-not-wear-chapel-veil/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).
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LikeArrowsintheHandofaWarrior[atPlotLineandSinker(EllenGable,Author)]
“ChildrentooareagiftfromtheLord,thefruitofthewombarewardLikearrowsinthehandofawarriorarethechildrenbornofone’syouth.Blessedaretheywhosequiversarefull.Theywillneverbeshamedcontendingwithfoesatthegate.Blessedisthemanwhohasfilledhisdesirefromthesethings…”Psalm1273:5
Sohowmanyarrowsmakeafullquiver?
Theansweristhatitdependsonthequiver…andthesizeofthearrows.
Ourpublishingcompany’snameisFullQuiverPublishing.
Wenowhave14books(mostpublishedbyotherauthors)andfourbookscominginthenextyear.
Often,peopleassumethatwearepartofthe“Quiverfull”Movement.AtWikipedia,Quiverfullisdescribedas:“amovementamongconservativeevangelicalChristiancouples…itpromotesprocreation,andseeschildrenasablessingfromGodeschewingallformsofbirthcontrol,includingnaturalfamilyplanningandsterilization.Adherentsareknownas“quiverfull”,“fullquiver”,“quiverfull-minded”,orsimply“QF”Christians.SomerefertotheQuiverfullpositionasProvidentialism…”
Aninternetsearchofthewords“FullQuiver”showsourwebsiteonthefirstpage,alongwithamajorityofwebsitesandblogsdevotedtotheQuiverfullMovement.
Iadmirecoupleswhofollowthisideology,especiallyinthisdayandagewhenthemajorityofmarriedcouplesareusingartificialcontraceptionorbecomingsterilized.
However,wearenotpartoftheQuiverfullMovement.Instead,weproudlyuseandteachNatural
http://www.fullquiverpublishing.comhttp://www.fullquiverpublishing.comhttp://www.ccli.org
FamilyPlanningtoplan,spaceandlimitbirths.WhenweareteachingNFP,wealwaysencouragegenerosityandalwaysstressthereshouldbeseriousneedtoavoidpregnancy.WeagreewiththeChurch’steachingsontheTheologyoftheBodyandarewell-versedinthetwoencyclicalsHumanaeVitaeandFamiliarisConsortio.Ourpublishingcompanypublishesfictionandnon-fictionthatpromotestheChurch’steachingsonsexandmarriage.
Sowhythename?
Yearsago,IlistenedtoatalkbyKimberlyHahn,inwhichshequotedtheScripturepassageaboveandtalkedaboutthegreatgiftofchildrenandwhygenerositywassoimportant.Shelaterstatedthisconceptinherbook,Life-GivingLove:EmbracingGod’sBeautifulDesignforMarriage:“Weareinaspiritualbattle,andourchildrenareourarrows:Howmanyarrowsdoyouwantinyourquiverwhenyougointobattle?”
Thistalkmadeadeepimpressiononme.Sowhenwewereformingourpublishingcompany,afterdiscussingdifferentnames,thisisonethatwefeltGodcallingustouse:“FullQuiverPublishing.”ItneverdawnedonusthatwewouldbeconfusedwiththeQuiverfullfolksandthat,occasionally,wewouldreceiveanemailoracallfromsomeoneintheQuiverfullmovement.
Backtothenumber:mostquiversholdabout12arrows.MyhusbandandIhavelostsevenbabiesthroughmiscarriageandareraisingfivesons:wethankGodforour“fullquiver.”
Copyright2013EllenGableHrkach
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http://www.vatican.va/holy_father/paul_vi/encyclicals/documents/hf_p-vi_enc_25071968_humanae-vitae_en.htmlhttp://www.vatican.va/holy_father/john_paul_ii/apost_exhortations/documents/hf_jp-ii_exh_19811122_familiaris-consortio_en.htmlhttp://www.amazon.com/Life-Giving-Love-Embracing-Beautiful-Marriage/dp/1569552924/http://ellengable.wordpress.com/2016/09/14/like-arrows-in-the-hand-of-a-warrior-or-how-full-quiver-publishing-got-its-name/
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September'sOpenBook&SabbathRestBookTalk[atErinMcColeCupp]
CarolynAstfalkhasafirstWednesdayofthemonthbookreviewlinkup!
IntheinterestsofbeingasefficientwithmytimeasIpossiblycan,I’mkillingtwobirdswithonestone.Inadditiontoreviewingbooksfor#OpenBook,I’vestartedamonthlyeventonFacebookLiveoveratmyauthorpage.It’scalledSabbathRestBookTalk,andinitI’lltalkaboutafewofthebooksI’vereadinthepastmonthintermsofhowthey,asfiction,helpusgrowinhumanity.
Thismonth’sfocuswasonmeaning,orhowfictionusesmeaningtoconveylayeruponlayerofexperience,understanding,anddimensionalityofthehumanexperience.Whenwehumansusesymbolstocommunicatemeaning,wegivefleshandboneandsubstancetotheinvisible.
September’sSRBTFeaturedFiction:
JaneEyrebyCharlotteBronte
http://www.carolynastfalk.com/tag/open-book/http://www.carolynastfalk.com/category/my-scribblers-heart-blog/https://www.facebook.com/erinmccolecuppauthor/
TheLion’sHeartbyDenaHunt
(ClickhereformymoredetailedreviewofTheLion’sHeart)
AChairforMyMotherbyVeraB.Williams
https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00KWJ5X3I/ref=dp-kindle-redirect?_encoding=UTF8&btkr=1https://erinmccolecupp.com/2014/06/25/wwrw-the-lions-heart-by-dena-hunt/https://www.amazon.com/Chair-Mother-Anniversary-Reading-Rainbow/dp/0688040748/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182455&sr=1-1&keywords=a+chair+for+my+mother
OtherstuffI’mreading:
ItisRightandJustbyRev.JohnCunningham,OP&Rev.GeorgeCardinalPell[nonfiction]
NightbyElieWeisel[narrativenonfiction]
https://www.amazon.com/Right-Just-Responses-Roman-Missal/dp/0988188856/ref=sr_1_1?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182011&sr=1-1&keywords=it+is+right+and+justhttps://www.amazon.com/Night-Elie-Wiesel/dp/B005DK84AA/ref=sr_1_4?s=books&ie=UTF8&qid=1473182180&sr=1-4&keywords=night+elie+wiesel
Andhere’sSeptember’sSabbathRestBookTalkvideo:
Whatareyoureading?Don’tforgettolinkupYOUR#OpenBookreviewsoveratCarolyn’s!
Thiscontributionisavailableathttp://erinmccolecupp.com/2016/09/06/septembers-open-book-sabbath-rest-book-talk/Copyrightisretainedbythecontributingauthor(followabovelinkforinfoonthispiece).
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EssayonPartisanDissentLeadingtoRebellion[atIfIMightInterject]
INTRODUCTION
BenedictXVI,inoneofhispre-papacybooks,discussedturningtheCatholicfaithintopartisanfactions.Init,hepointedoutwhatfaithwasincontrastwithwhatpeopleweretryingtodowiththeChurch.
WhenIadvocateaparty,ittherebybecomesmyparty,whereastheChurchofJesusChristisnevermyChurchbutalwayshisChurch.Indeed,theessenceofconversionliespreciselyinthefactthatIceasetopursueapartyofmyownthatsafeguardsmyinterestsandconformstomytastebutthatIputmyselfinhishandsandbecomehis,amemberofhisBody,theChurch.
JosephRatzinger,CalledtoCommunion:UnderstandingtheChurchToday,trans.AdrianWalker(SanFrancisco:IgnatiusPress,1996),158.
ThefaithoftheChurchcallsustochangetogrowclosertoGod.PartisanshipcallsontheChurchtochangetomatchwhatismostpleasingtous.Ifwe’renotcareful,wemightfindourselvesrebellingagainstGodinthenameof“reforming”or“restoring”theChurchtowhatwewantwhilepretendingwe’redoingitforthebenefitofothers.Asalways,thisisnotacasewhereonlyonefactionisguilty.AnytimewegetangryattheChurchforchangingthingsfrom,ornotchangingthingsto,whatwethinkisbest,we’rebehavinginapartisanmanner.
Clarifications
I’dliketoclarifysomethingfirst.WhatIwroteabovedoesnotdenytherightuseofCanonLaw#212§3.I’mconcerned,however,thatsomepeoplewhoappealtothiscanonaremisusingittodemandtheChurchbecomemorelikewhattheywant,notconsidering(or,perhaps,refusingtoaccept)thattheChurchmighthavevalidreasonsformakingsomechangesandrefusingtomakeothers.
IwouldalsoliketoclarifythatthisdoesnotmeanthelaityhasnothingtosaywhenapriestorbishopmisuseshisauthorityandactsagainsttheteachingoftheChurch.OurLordgaveHisauthoritytoSt.PeterandtheApostles,andishandeddownfromgenerationtogenerationtothePopeandbishopsincommunionwithhim.Thepriestorbishopwhoactsagainstthismagisteriumabuseshisoffice.Suchaonecannotdemandthatthelaityactagainstwhatthemagisteriumteaches.
PARTI:AUTHORITYANDDISSENT
WhoHastheAuthoritytoDetermineProperInterpretationandChurchPractice?
However,CatholicsdogowrongwhensomeoneclaimsthatthePopeandbishopstodayareinerrorandgoagainsttheteachingsofearlierPopesandCouncilsorthattheywerewronginthepastandfinallyaregettingitright.ThemagisteriumdecideshowtobestapplythetimelessteachingsoftheChurchtothe
http://www.vatican.va/archive/ENG1104/__PU.HTM
problemsoftoday.Incontrast,someonewhoclaimsthatarecentPope“violates"whatSt.PiusXsaid,orsomeonewhoclaimsSt.JohnPaulII“violated"VaticanII,hasnostandingtointerpretthedocumentsagainstthemagisteriumtoday.
Thisconfusessomepeople.Afterall,aren’ttheyappealingtothemagisterium?No.Theyareappealingtotheirpersonalopiniononhowtheythinkthedocumentshouldbeinterpretedagainstthosewhoactuallyhavetherightandresponsibilitytodeterminehowthedocumentistobeinterpreted.It’slikeapersontryingtoarguethathisinterpretationoftheConstitutionisrightandtheSupremeCourtiswrong.TheindividualsimplydoesnothavetheauthoritytointerprettheConstitutioninabindingmanneronthecountry,andtheindividualdoesnothavetheauthoritytointerpretmagisterialteachinginabindingmanneronthecountry.
SelectiveObedienceisDissent
Theproblemis,peopleassumethattheyonlyhavetolistentotheChurchiftheyagreewithwhatshesays.Ifsheteachessomethingtheydon’tlike,dissentersaccuseherofbecoming“conservative”or“liberal.”They’llaccuseherofbetrayingtraditionorbetrayingVaticanII.BecausethePopeandbishopsaredeemed“wrong”intheseareas,dissentersclaimtheydon’thavetoobeytheshepherdsoftheChurch.They’llappealtoconscienceortraditionwhenitsuitsthemandtreattheteachingtheydon’tlikeasifitwereanopinionorevenanerror.
TheproblemwiththatviewistheChurchisnotaninventionofmenwitharbitraryrules.Catholicsbelieve(ifthey’renotgrosslydeficientintheirreligiouseducation)theChurchestablishedbyOurLordandtheCatholicChurchtodayareoneandthesame.ThismeanssheteacheswiththeauthoritygivenbyChrist(Matthew16:19,18:18,28:18-20).SinceOurLordlikensrejectingHisChurchwithrejectingHim(Luke10:16,cf.Matthew18:17),dissentisaseriousmatter—rebellionagainstGodHimself.
Churchteachingisnotarbitrary.Theteachingsaremadeforourbenefit.HowdowelivetobefaithfultoGod?WhatisincompatiblewithlovingHim?ChurchteachingexiststomakeHisteachingknown.TheChurchisthemeansOurLordchosetobringknowledgeofHissalvationoftheworldandthecommandmentswemustkeepifwewouldbesaved(seeJohn14:15).ObeyingonlythepartsofHisteachingweagreewithanywayisrejectingOurLordontherest.IfwerejectHim,itwillnotgowellforus(Matthew7:21-23).
PARTII:SOMEDANGEROUSERRORSTHATLEADTODISSENT
ThedangerforCatholicstodaycomesfromthefactthatrejectionofauthority(dissent)hasmetastasized.It’snolongeracaseofagingmodernistsandradicaltraditionalistsliketheSSPX.Ithasspreadtothemainstreamofthefaith,sothatagrowingnumberofCatholicswhooncedefendedthefaithnowbelievetheChurchisinerrortothepointthattheyopenlyquestionorevenrejectlegitimateteachingauthoritywhenitgoesagainsttheirpreferences,forgettingthatGodpunishedsuchbehaviorasrebellion.
http://www.ifimightinterject.com/2016/09/thoughts-on-hardness-of-heart-and.html
WhydoweassumeGodwon’tpunishourrebellion,whenHepunisheditinothers?
Withthatinmind,I’dliketolookatsomeofthedangerouserrorsthatleadpeopletodissentwhilebelievingthemselvestobe“faithful”tothe“true”Church(whilerejectingthosegiventhetaskofshepherdingittoday).
VincibleIgnorance
Whenapersonhasnowayofknowingwhatthetruthis,butfollowsone’sconscienceandseekstodowhatisrighttothebestoftheirknowledge,Goddoesnotcondemnhimforwhatwouldbeimpossibletoknow.Butwhenapersoncouldknowiftheybotheredtodotheresearch,thentheydonothavethisexcuse.WhensomeonemakesanaccusationagainsttheshepherdsoftheChurch,wemustfindoutthecontextofwhatwassaid,takingintoaccountthedifferenceofculture,history,andotherconditionsthatleadtomisinterpretation.BecauseRashJudgmentandCalumnyaresins,wecan’tjustrepeatwhatweheard.Wehavetoactuallylearnthetruthaboutwhatwasclaimed.
Forexample,whenpeoplecondemn(orpraise)PopeFrancisfor“supportingsamesexmarriage”becausehesaid“WhoamItojudge?”theyareguiltyofvincibleignorance.Theycouldlookitupandreadtothetranscript,whichshowsthosewordshadnothingtodowithwhatpeoplethink.Becausetheycouldlearn,butprefertoremainintheirignorance,theirlackofknowledgewillbejudgedbyOurLord.
Thisleadsustooursecondproblem.
KnowingLessthanYouThinkYouDo
Relativismmustberejected.WecannottwistChurchteachingtoturn“ThoushaltnotdoX”into“XisOK!”Theproblemis,somepeopleknowlessaboutwhattheChurchintendstoteachthantheythinktheydo.There’s2000yearsofCatholictheologyoutthere,dealingwithcountlesswayspeoplecansin,aswellasknowledgeofreasonswhytheirguiltmaybeincreasedordecreased.Apersonignorantaboutthesethingsmightseetwodifferentissuesandassumetheyarethesame—andthatonemustcontradicttheother.Sotheychoosetheonethatfitstheirpreferenceandsaytheotheroneiswrong.Butifthedifferencesbetweenthetwocasesaregreaterthanthesimilarities,wecan’tcomparethemandclaimthey
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contradicteachother.
Forexample,recentlyonFacebook,IencounteredsomeoneclaimingthatSt.PiusXsaidthatsecularismwasa"perniciouserror”andthatPopeFrancissaidstatesmustbesecular.Therefore,thispersonreasonedthatthis“proved"PopeFranciswasaheretic.Apersonseeingthismightthinkthisstatementwasproven.TowhichIsay,“Notsofast."
St.PiusXdidsaythisintheencyclical“VehementerNos”(#3),writtenin1906.ThecontextofthisencyclicalwasFranceestablishinganti-CatholiclawsabsolutelyexcludingtheChurchfromanyroleinthestate(asituationworsethaninAmericatoday).Underthoseconditions,allreligionswereequallyisolated.Putincontextoftoday,whathewascondemningwastheexpulsionoftheCatholicChurchfromthepublicsquare.Incontrast,PopeFrancis,speakingaboutFrance110yearslaterspokeaboutanationneedingtobesecularinthesenseofnotharassingreligionsinfavorofone,butalsoinsistingonreligiousfreedomwhichFrancedidnotprovidein1906.Thecontextmissedbyaccuserswas110yearsofexperience.St.PiusXwaswritingaboutanewrebellion.PopeFrancisspokeaboutwhattheChurchlearnedsincethen.Forexample,theexperienceoftotalitarianhostilitytoallreligionandreligiouspersecutionfromasectarianstateintheMiddleEast.
Inotherwords,St.PiusXwasn’twrongincondemningFrancefortheirattackonreligion,butPopeFrancisspokefromtheperspectiveofthingsnotyetpresentin1906anddidnotcontradicthispredecessor.
FalseDualism
Onecommonassumptionisthatifyoudon’tsupportapreferredposition,yousupporttheantithesiswithalltheevilsitinvolves.OnecommonexampleintheelectionseasonistargetingCatholicswhoopposebothTrumpandClinton.BecausetheywillnotvoteforTrump,theyareaccusedofvotingforClintonandsupportingallareasherpoliticsviolateCatholicteaching.Anotherexamplemightbeassumingthatwhoeverthinkscertaingovernmentprogramsdon’tworkmustfavorlettingpeoplesuffer.
Theerrorhereassumesthatthereareonlytwopossiblesolutionsandifapersondoesnotsupporttheaccusersfavoriteposition,hemustbeguiltyofsupportingtheevilsoftheotherside.Butiftherearemorethantwopossibilities,thisaccusationisfalse.AssumingthereisnoattempttoevadeChurchteaching,adisagreementoverthebestwaytocarryitoutisnotendorsingevil.TraditionalismandModernismarenottheonlytwooptions.ConservativeandLiberalarenottheonlytwooptions.ThesefactionsdonotexpresswhetherapersonisafaithfulCatholicornot.IfXiswrong,allCatholicsmustrejectXregardlessoftheirpoliticalorliturgicalpreferences.
CONCLUSION:FROMFALSEASSUMPTIONSTODANGEROUSERRORS
Icouldcomeupwithseveralmoreerrors,butIwanttowrapthisarticleupbydiscussingwhytheyaredangerous.ThedangeristheseerrorsleadCatholicstothinkthatthepersonwhohasdifferentpreferencesonhowtoproceedisactingoutofmalice.SotheconservativeCatholicassumesthattheliberalCatholic(orviceversa)automaticallyembraceseverythingevilaboutthatpoliticalview.Theradicaltraditionalistassumesthenon-traditionalistisamodernist.PeopleassumethatPopesandbishopsspeakas21stcenturyAmericansanddon’tconsiderthetimesandplacestheyknewwhenspeaking.
AccusersseedifferencesandassumethedifferencemeansarejectionofChurchteaching,orarejection
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ofwhatJesussaidinScripture.Theaccusersdon’tconsiderwhetherthey’vegottensomethingwrongandmakeunjustaccusations.WhentheseaccusationsaremadeagainstthePopeandbishopswhentheyteach,theyseparatetheaccuserfromtheChurchwhilethinkingtheyareintheright.TheyalsocausescandalbyunderminingfaithinOurLordprotectingHisChurchandleadingotherstodisobeyaswell.
Whatwehavetorememberisweneedtoknowthefactsandcircumstancesinvolvingtheactsbeforemakinganaccusation.WhentheaccusedisthePopeorabishopproperlyexercisinghisteachingoffice,weneedtorememberwehavetogiveourassent.Inallcaseswemustremembercharityandmakesureweproperlyunderstandandnotactrashly.TheChurchdoesnotturnwrongintoright,butcircumstancescanmeanthattwoeventsthatlooksimilarcanactuallybeverydifferent.IfwerashlyassumeevilonthepartoftheshepherdsoftheChurch,wecan’tjustshrugoffthefalseaccusationonJudgmentDay.We’llhavetoanswerforourrebellion.
Sotoavoidjudgment,wemustrecognizewemightnothaveallthefactsandthereforemightnotproperlyunderstandwhatseemswrongatfirstglance.Yes,therewillbesinoutthereandwemustcorrectsinners.ButwemustnotassumewearealwaysintherightandthePopemustbewrongifherulesdifferentlythanwewant.
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TheLieoftheApostolate{HowILeftMyChildrenPoor}[atBlossomingJoy]
TheysaidthatIshouldhaveanapostolateifIwantedmykidstogrowinfaith.ThatIshouldbuildupthekingdom.Usemyskills.Bealeader.Besaltandlighttotheworld.Theysaidthatitwasn'tenoughtolovemykids...thatGodmademeformore.
Theywerewrong.
Myfamilyismyapostolate.Myhomeismyheadquarters.Myhusbandmyfundraiser.IfGodcallsmetodosomefurtheroutreach,itwillonlybethatwhichdoesnotleavemyfamilyunloved,uncaredfor,orwithonlytheleftoversofwhoIam.
Myapostolicworkshaveoftenbeenexcuses...distractions...waysoffeelinglikeaproductiveChristianwhileavoidingtheharderwork.Awayofbreakinguptheboredomofsacrificialworkdonewithoutdevotion.
Iwouldhavebeenabetterwoman,wife,mother,daughter,sister,friend,andhomeschooleroverthelast20yearsifIhadn'tboughtintotheideathatIneededtobecomesomekindofministertotheworld.Somemomshavethegiftofbeinghighenergy.Iamnotoneofthem.AndIhaveexpendedmyselfinsomanydifferentdirectionsandIwasconvincedthatmyoutreachesandapostolicworkswerethemoralequivalentofwhatIwasdoingathome.InowbelieveIwaswrong.
IonceprintedoutthewordsofPopeSt.JohnPaulIItorecalltheminmydailywork.Hesaid:
"Youmustneverbecontenttoleavethemjustthecrumbsofthefeast.Youmusttakeofyoursubstance,andnotjustofyourabundance,inordertohelpthem.Andyoumusttreatthemlikeguestsatyourfamilytable."
IfanciedmyselfarealwinnerbecauseIthoughtIunderstoodhismessagewhichwastocareforthepooroftheworldinawaythatcostssomething.IknewwhatitmeanttobeonthereceivingendofChrist-likesacrificialloveandIknewthepowerofthemercyofJesusandIwantedtobethatforothers.MyproblemwasthatIdidn'tseethehypocrisyofleavingthecrumbsformyownchildrenwhileIfedstrangers.
Ididn'tseethemasguests.Ididn'tseethemasthepoor.Ididn'tseethem.NotthroughthelensofChristanyway,butonlyasashallowmom.
Oh,howthenarcissismofourageseepsintothecracksofourships!
AsweapproachMotherTeresa'scanonization,IhearherwordswithanewintensitybecauseIrealizethatIneverfullyunderstoodhereventhoughshewasboldandsimpleinhermessage.Iwastoobusypattingmyselfonthebackforbeingapostolic.
HerwordsbecameplacardstoconsolemyselfthatIwasdoingjustfine.PointtoJesus.Loveallthepeople.Idid.But...itwasshallow.Itwastheeasywayout.KindoflikebuyingprettytrinketsattheDollarTreetofeelgoodaboutsavingmoneyinsteadofshowingupforworktopaythebills.Anapparentgoodthatdistractsfromthehardworktowhichwearereallycalled.
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WhatAbout“I’mSorry”?
September24,2016bySusanStabile
Twoincidentsinthelasttwodayspromptthispost.
First,yesterdayIlearnedthatsomeoneIhadsharedsomenewswithconfidentiallyhadsharedthenewswithatleastoneotherperson.HeknewwhatIsharedwasconfidential,heknewwhyIdidnotwanthimsharingit,andheagreedtokeepthenewsquiet.Yet,fromthetimingofwhenthepersonhetoldturnedaroundandsharedthenewswithathirdperson,itappearshewastednotimeinbreachingtrust.WhenIconfrontedhimyesterday,tellinghimIwasangry,allhesaidwas“Youhavearighttobeangry.”Nohintofapology.
Second,wehaveagroupofstudentsforwhomitisextremelydifficulttofindtimestoschedulemeetingsgiventheirvariedschedules.Havingfoundtwotimeblocksthatworkforeveryone,wehavetoldthegroup(multipletimes)tokeepthosetwoblocksfreeuntiltheyreceivedanactualscheduleofmeetings.AmeetingwasscheduledforFriday(yesterday)afternoonandnoticeofthatsentoutearlierintheweek.OnThursdaylateafternoononeofthestudentsrushedintometosayshehad,severalweeksago,plannedtobeawaythisweekendandwasleavingFridaymorning.ThemostIgot,afterremindingherthatshewastoldtokeeptheblockopenwas“Iprobablyshouldhavetoldyouthisearlier.”Yathink?No“sorryforcausingyouallwastedtimeandenergy”or“I’msorryfortheinconvenience.”
Wegetthissortofthingallthetimeinthepublicrealm.Publicofficialswhocan’tgetanyfurtherinacknowledgingtheirwrongdoingthan“mistakesweremade”,asthoughthosepeskylittlemistakescreatedthemselves.Thewords“I’msorry”rarelypasstheirlips.
ButIguessIdon’texpectthatsameinabilitytoapologizeinpersonalrelations.IneverlikedthelineinLoveStorythat“lovemeansneverhavingtosayyou’resorry.”Itmatterstosay“I’msorry.”Itmattersbothforthepersonwhomessedup–intentionallyornot–totakeownershipoftheimpactoftheiractionorinactiononthepersontheyaffected.Anditmatterstothepersonharmedtohearthewords.
TheFirstLetterofJohnasksifwedon’tlovethepeoplewecansee,howcanwelovetheGodwecannotsee.Iwonderifwemightask:Ifwecan’texpresscontritiontothosewecansee,howmuchdowereallymeanitwhenweexpressourcontritiontotheGodwecannotsee.
Update:Ijustreceivedane-mailapologyfromoneofthetwopeopledescribedabove.Whetheritwasaresultofreadingmypost,orjusthavinghadtimetoreflect,theapologyisappreciated.
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KnockingonClosedDoors-WhyHavinganApostolateisNotJust"ANiceThingToDo"[atUnderThyRoof]
Afriendlinkedtoarecentblogpost
TheLieoftheApostolate
.Thepostreallybuggedme.Themaincallofthepostisgood-thatweshouldmakesureourfamiliesarelovedandcaredfor-butitwentaboutitinawaythatdidnotsitwellwithme.
Ithinkwhatbotheredmeisthatthepostgavetheimpressionthatservingbeyondyourfamilyisoptional.Thatitissomethingthat'sgreatifyougetaroundtoit,butnobiggieifyoudon't.
Thatisselfishnavalgazingmasqueradingasholiness,myfriends.
Youknowwhathappenswhenpeoplefeelthatservingintheirparishes,neighborhoods,schoolsisoptional?Theworkdoesnotgoaway,itshiftsontosomeonetryingtofillinthegaps-orworse,thatsupportnetworkdisappearsforgood.
Lately,that'sbeenmeformyparish.I'vebeenattemptingtocarrytheweightoffivepeople.I'monlyoneperson,anditshows.
Youknowthesaying"Manyhandsmakelightwork"?Ithinkonecannotappreciatehowmuchthemanyhandsareneededuntilonetriestodotheworkofthemany.It'snotpretty.
Icannotexpresshowmuchevenalittleassistancewouldhelp.Itmaynotfeellikemuch,butsomeonevolunteeringtosetupdrinksbeforeaparishevent,printoutfliers,orbeagreeteratthedoortakesloadsofburdenoffofthosepeoplewhoaretryingeverythingtheycantokeepthisshipafloat.
WhenIlookaroundtryingdesperatelytocommunicatehowmuchthosewillinghandsareneeded,allI'vebeenseeingareclosedarms.
Therearetypicallyreasons,manyofthemaregood,tohavethedecisiontovolunteerbe"notrightnow",buttherewillALWAYSbeareasonnottostepup.
Itmayfeeltoyoulikeyou'rejustsaying"notrightrightnow",buttothepeoplewhoarelefttotryand
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keepthingsafloatitfeelsmorelikeyou'resaying"notmyproblem".Whennotonehelpercanbefound,thosevolunteersthatareleftarebeingdisrespectedandtakenadvantageofbytheverypeopletheyaretryingtoserve.
Ifyouwanttohaveahealthyneighborhood,parish,orschool,youhavetoshowup.Itisnotsomeoneelse'sproblem,itisyourproblem.Myproblem.Ourcollectiveproblem.
YouCANfindsomewaytocontribute!Ireallytrulybelieveeverypersonisvaluableandneeded,andthateverypersoncangivebacktothosecommunitiestheysofreelyutilize.
Taptheoldladyontheshoulderwhoyouseealwaysdoingsomethingfortheparish,tellherhowmuchyouappreciateit,andaskhowyoucanhelp.(Seriously,Icannotrecommendthishighlyenough.Youhavenoideahowlongithasprobablybeensinceanyonetoldher"goodjob".)
Fillaneedthatyouseeinyourneighborhood.
Askyourkid'steacherifthereissomethingtheywishtheyhadavailablefortheirclassroom.
Whatifyouhavebabiesandthisisallscaryandoverwhelming?
Ihaveawholepostaboutthat!
Theideathatyourfamilyisyourapostolateisallwellandgood,butitisnotoktousethatasareasontoignoreyourlargerfamily.Don'tforgetaboutus!Wehaven'tforgottenaboutyou.
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BedTimeBlessingBags[atShiftingMyPerspective]“Buttheonewholistensanddoesnotactislikeapersonwhobuiltahouseonthegroundwithoutafoundation.”Luke6:49
Iamaterriblemotheratbedtime.Bythathourofthedaymytankisempty,andthere’snotashredofpatienceleftinme.Toprotectmykidsfromthemeanmommythatlurkswithin,myhusbandusuallyputsourkidstobed.
Thatbeingsaid,inourhouseholdmyhusbandhaseveryWednesdaynightoff(mynightoffisThursday).SotagI’mitforWednesdays.Knowingthis,I’mveryconsciousofkeepingsomeenergyandpatienceinreserveonWednesdayssoIcanmakeitthroughbedtime.
However,lastWednesdaywasalongerdaythanusual.Masonhadbaseballpracticeatnight.Ishouldhaveknownwhatwascoming.
Althoughbedtimeistypically8p.m.,wewerejustleavingtheballfieldatthathour.Ispenttheshortdrivehomestressingthefactthatmykidshadtogetreadyforbedthesecondwegotinthedoor.Despitemylecture,Zackdecidedtosharpenhisdrawingpencilat8:30p.m.andaccidentallydetachedthesharpenerfromthepantrywall.
Puttingasidemyowndesperateneedforthefreedomthatwasalreadysupposedtobemine,Itriedtohelphim.Butthreesecondsintoit,whenIcouldn’tfixthesituation,theswitchflippedinsideofme.ICOMPLETELYlostit:screamingandyellingtothepointofflappingmyarmslikeacrazylady!
Immediately,therewasthefranticpitter-patteroflittlefeetrunningupthestairsandbedroomdoorsslammingasallthreekidsranforcover.
Mykidsknowthissideofmealltoowell.IsupposeIdon’thaveenoughmommyguilttofeelbadaboutit;apersoncanonlydosomuch.Weallhaveourbreakingpoints,andbedtimeismine(therearealotofothertimestoo,but…).
IjustifyitbysayingitwouldbeworseifIwereaperfectmother.Mykidswouldhavetoliveuptothatwhenthey’reparents.IjokinglysayI’msavingthemfromtherapybybeingsoflawed.
Therealtruthis,IknowIneedtotryharder.Ican’tbelikethepersonintheparablefromLuke6wholistensbutdoesnotact.Attheveryleast,Ineedtoputsomesortofbedtimesafetynetinplace,afoundationofsorts:awaytosmooththingsoverifImisstepwhilewalkingthroughthebedtimeminefield.
OverthesummerIsawthemovieMiraclesFromHeaven(amovieIhighlyrecommend).JenniferGarnerplaysthemom.Eachnight,shevisitseachofherkidsaftertheyhavegonetobed.Sheasksthemwhattheyprayedforthatnight.Ilovedthatthelastmemoryeachofherkidshadbeforedriftingofftosleepwasofsharingtheirdeepesthopewiththeirmom.
I’vealwaysbeenabigfanofgratitudeandKarenO’Connor’sBlessingBagidea.SoI’mcombiningconcepts.Thispastweekend,IhungBlessingBagsoffeachofmykids’beds.Everynightnow,Ivisiteachofthemaftertheyhavegonetobed.Iaskthemwhattheyaremostgratefulforfromthatday.Iwritewhatevertheysayonalittlepieceofpaper,foldit,andthentogetherwesay,“ThankyouGod,”asIdropthepaperintotheirbag.
Nomatterwhattranspiredduringtheday,nomatterifIlostmycoolornot,theirfinalmemorybeforegoingtobednowisoneofalovingtimewithme.Moreimportantly,theyareexpressingdeepgratitudetoGod.Inmymind,therecanbenostrongerfoundationtobuildupon.
QuestionsForReflection:
*Whenismyweakestpointinmyparentingday?
*Isthereasafetynet,afoundationofsorts,Icanputinplacetoeitheravoidthepitfall,orredeemthemoment?
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Politicsispersonalbecausetobealiveistostruggle[atCatholicDeacon]
Inthefirstsectionofthesecondchapterofhisbook
Jesus&Salvation:SoundingsintheChristianTraditionandContemporaryTheology
,inwhichheintroducesNewTestamentsoteriology,RobinRyan,inreferenceto"thereignofGod"proclaimedbyJesus,notes,"Thereisaninescapabletensionbetweenthe'already'andthe'notyet'...thatshouldnotbedissolved."HetheninvokesthegreatNewTestamentscholar,RaymondBrown:
ThekinglyruleofGodwasalreadymakingitselfpresentinJesus'person,proclamation,andactions,butthecompleteandvisiblemanifestationofthekingdomlayinthefutureandwouldalsobebroughtaboutthroughJesus,theSonofMan
"Thistension,"Ryanconcludes,"isintrinsictotheChristianunderstandingofGod'ssavingworkinJesus"(29).WhatisoftenleftoutatthispointisthattheHolySpirit,asLukeTimothyJohnsonnotablypointedout,isChrist'sresurrectionpresenceamongus.Inotherwords,God'skingdomdidn'tappear,disappear,andwillcomebackinfullwhenChristreturns.It'sbeenpresentallthistime,strivingtowardsrealization,butneverbeingfullyrealized.Livingthetensionbetweenthealreadyandthenotyet,whichcantrulybedescribedasdialectical,ispreciselywhatitmeanstoliveasaChristian.Livingthistensionishowyouaresaved.
God'sreignmustneverbeconceivedofasanotherhuman-enactedutopianscheme.Livingthekingdomasapresentrealityisnotprimarily,orevennecessarily,political,atleastnotascommonlyunderstoodtoday:activismattheexpenselove.StrivingtoliveGod'sreignasapresentrealityistheembodiment,Ithink,ofwhatVáclavHaveldubbed"anti-politicalpolitics."ItseemstomethatthemostcompellingglimpsesofGod'sreignpresentintheworld,ancientandmodern,havebeengivenwhenChristianslivedGod'sreignasapresentrealityunderhostileregimes:St.Lawrence/St.MaximilianKolbe;Sts.Perpetua&Felicity/St.MariaSkobtsova.
It'simportanttopointoutafewpeoplewho'vemadeGod'sreignvisibleinsocietiesthatarehostileduetoindifference:DorothyDayandBrazilianArchbishopHelderCâmara.ItwasCâmarawhoobserved,"WhenIgivefoodtothepoor,theycallmeasaint.WhenIaskwhythepoorhavenofood,theycallmeacommunist."LivingGod'sreignbetweenthealreadyandthenotyetisintenselypersonal,butbynomeansprivate."Ourfaithcanonlybelivedthroughthe
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absence
ofmanifestationsofthepowerofChristaccordingtoourexpectations,"LuigiGiussaniobservedwaybackinthe1960s."OurChristianvocation,"heinsisted,"becomes
authentic
onlythroughthisabsence[...].WhereChristisnolongervisibleaspersonalaction,thenHisactioncoincides,becomesonewith,themotivationandactionofourperson..."
"IHaveLovedYouWithanEverlastingLove.IHaveHadPityOnYourNothingness,"
SpiritualExercisesofCommunion&Liberation2016,pg.2).
YoungSteelWorkers,byIvanBevzenko,1961-anexampleofSoviet-stylesocialistrealism
Havel,whowasoftenconsiderednaïve,graspedthedangerofutopianschemes:
Aheavenonearthinwhichpeopleallloveeachotherandeveryoneishard-working,well-mannered,andvirtuous,inwhichthelandflourishesandeverythingissweetnessandlight,workingharmoniouslytothesatisfactionofGod:thiswillneverbe.Onthecontrary,theworldhashadtheworstexperienceswithutopianthinkerswhopromisedallthat.Evilwillremainwithus,noonewillevereliminatehumansuffering,thepoliticalarenawillalwaysattractirresponsibleandambitiousadventurersandcharlatans.Andmanwillnotstopdestroyingtheworld.Inthisregard,Ihavenoillusions(SummerMeditations16)
Hewentontodescribethestruggleforabettersocietyintermsofawar."NeitherInoranyoneelse,"hewentontoobserve,"willeverwinthiswaronceandforall.Attheverymost,wecanwinabattleortwo-andnoteventhatiscertain."Nonetheless,hestillthoughtitimportanttoengageinthestruggle,pointingoutitisacenturiesoldwarthatwilllikelystretchforcenturiesintothefuture.HespeculatedthatperhapsGodwantsitthisway,whichItaketomeanit'ssimplythegivennatureofreality-youdon'thavetolikeit,butyoucan'tavoiditexceptbyself-deception.Neverforgetyoubearsomeresponsibilityforrealitybeingthisway.
Havelfirmlymaintainedfightingthiswar"istherightthingtodo.""Itisaneternal,never-endingstruggle,"hecontinued,"wagednotjustbygoodpeople...againstevilpeople,byhonourablepeopleagainstdishonourablepeople,bypeoplewhothinkabouttheworldandeternityagainstpeoplewhothinkonlyofthemselvesandthemoment.Ittakesplaceinsideeveryone.Itiswhatmakesapersonaperson,andlife,life"(
SummerMeditations
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16).
InwakeofthewomanpouringointmentonhisfeetinthehouseofSimontheleper,Jesustoldhisdisciples,whocomplainedtheointmentcould'vebeensoldandtheproceedsusedtohelpthepoor,theywouldalwayshavethepoorwiththem(
Mark14:3-9
).Thereasonforthisis
not
becauseGodwillstherebepooramongus,butbecausewerefusetolivethetensionrequiredtomakeGod'sreignapresentreality.Thewoman'sactionshowstheseemingincongruitythathappenswhenthenotyetcollideswiththealready.Veryoftentheresultofsuchacollisionisbeautiful.
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DoorsWideOpenAndThe800thPost[atPaucaVerba]
Todaymarksthe800thpostforthePaucaVerbablog.AndhereisaphotoofthemonasterychapelinCyprusdedicatedtotheMotherofGodTrooditissa.Thedoorsarewideopen,invitingustoenterourowninnerroom,oursecretplace,topray.Likeopendoors,that'sallthese800postshavehopedtodo.
AftertheshepherdsvisitedthecaveofBethlehemandreturnedhomepraisingGod,SaintLuketellsus:ButMarytreasuredupallthesesayingsandreflectedontheminherheart.Luke2:19
Totreasure.Toreflect.Toponder.ToturnthethingsofGodoverandoverinourhearts.Thankstoallwhoenterherewithme.Isendgoodwishesandablessing.
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HereistheiconoftheTrooditissaMotherofGodfoundinthehigh-altitudeCyprusmonasterybearinghername.Themonkwhopaintedtheiconsparednoeffort,enfoldingtheHolyMotherandHerChrist-Childingreatfoldsofembroideredfabric.Angelsburstthroughthecloudsplacingheaven'scrown;theChildsitsinthecrookofhisMother'sarmasifonathrone.Maryseemstostandatheaven'swindowlookingoutatushappily,whileJesuswondrouslyreadshisopenbook.Maybeheisreadingtheancientprophecieswhichtellofhisbirthormaybehisfavoritepsalm.
ButtheTrooditissaiconhasaspecialty.Underthistitle,Maryisinvokedbywomenwhocan'tconceive."Womenwhoareinfertile,"thetraditionsays.Andwhilethisisnotableandmanycoupleswillgivetestimonyaboutthewonder-workingicon,I'dsuggesttheTrooditisssamightunderstandfertilityasamatteroftheheartevenmorethanobstetrics.
Sotoexplorethislargersense,Ilookedupthewordfertile,discoveringmanysynonymsandotherbeautifullyrelatedwordsthatcandeepenourprayerandhelpustoadvanceinspiritualunderstanding.
Fromtheinfertilityofsomucharguing-deliverus,OLady.Fromthesterilityofcynicismandcomplacency-deliverus,OLady.Fromthebarreninnerworldofsuspicion-deliverus,OLady.Fromfruitlessopinion-atingandarrogance-deliverus,OLady.
Fromtheunproductiverehearsingofresentments-deliverus,OLady.Fromtheimpoverishmentofharboringoldwounds-deliverus,OLady.Fromthefallowmindoffeveredimaginings-deliverus,OLady.Fromthedeathofingratitude-deliverus,OLady.
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OLady,makeusbountifulinlove,andrichinmercy.OLady,giveusahighyieldofhope;bringforthgoodnessinus.OLady,guideustoplentifulrejoicing,generativeoftrustinGodandthechild-ingofkindness.
OLady,thatwewouldflowercompassion,andbefruitfulingooddeeds.OLady,thatwewouldbebirth-ersoflove,ourmindsteemingwithgoodthoughtsofothers,ourwordsbearersofpeace.OLady,mothersomethingnewofJesusinus;smileintousanabundanceofjoy-carryingfaith.
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TeachingThroughStories(ThefollowingarticleoriginallyappearedinToday’sCatholicTeachermagazine.)
ByCadetgray(Ownwork)[CCBY-SA3.0orGFDL],viaWikimediaCommonsOnceuponatime,therewasatreasuredandbeautifulart.Itwasheldinhighesteembyall,andpracticedwhereverpeoplegathered.Thisbeautifulartwasknownasstorytelling.
TheearlyChristianslivedinastorytellingculture.Infact,inherbookAroundtheYearwiththeTrappFamily,MariaAugustaTrappsaysthat“Itisquiteprobablethattherewasstory-tellinggoingonintheeveningsinthelittlehouseinNazareth.”Certainly,itiseasytoimagineSt.JosephtellingOldTestamenttalestotheattentiveChildJesusonhislap,whileMarylistensnearby.PerhapsitwasthisstorytellingtraditionthathelpedformOurLordasasuperbstoryteller.Theparableshetold–theProdigalSon,theLostCoin,theGoodSamaritan–touchedtheheartsofhislistenersinawaythatsimplystatingtheparables’corelessonscouldnot.It’snowonderthat,ininstructingthepeople,Jesus“didnotsayanythingtothemwithoutusingaparable.”(Mark4:34)
Manygenerationslater,storytellingstillheldarespectedplaceinsociety,bothasanartformandasameansofpassingdownvalues.IntheMiddleAges,theprinciplesoftheFaithwerecommunicatedintheformofstoriescalledexempla(from“example).Exemplamadeuseofeverydaypeople,places,andthingstoillustratepointsoffaithandmorals.Thepopularityofexemplatoteachcatechismwasbasedonbeliefintheadage“Verbadocent,exemplatrahun”:“Wordsinstruct,examplesillustrate.”
Today,theuniversalChurchstillrecognizestheusefulnessofstoriesforreligiousinstruction.AccordingtotheAsianCatholicnewspaperUCANews,religionteachersinIndonesiahaveadoptedateachingmethodthatincorporatesstorytellingandfolklore.Thearticlereportsthat“teachers´experiencesarethemosteffectivemeanstotransferreligiousvaluestoschoolchildren.”
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CatechizingfromScripture
WhileIndonesiancatechistsareengagingtheirstudentswithfolktales,ChristianLeBlancistellingstoriestohissixthgradeclassatSt.Mary’sCatholicChurchinGreenville,SouthCarolina.LeBlanc,anAmazingCatechists.comcolumnist,istheauthorofTheBibleTellsMeSo:AYearofCatechizingfromScripture.
LeBlanc’smethodofBible-basedcatechesisisuniqueinthatitinvolvesplentyofgive-and-takebetweenteacherandstudent.LeBlancbelievesthatachild’sexperienceoflisteningtoastoryreadaloudfromabook–althoughfamouslycomparedto“tangiblewealthuntold,casketsofjewelsandcoffersofgold”(StricklandGillilan)–is“passive,”andthuslesseffectivewhenitcomestolearningthefaith.
“Readingaloudisfine,”hesays.“Iusedtoreadtomykidstoo.Butonlyhalfofstorytellingisthetelling,theotherhalfisthepersonalwitnessofthestoryteller.Thekidsneedtoknowthatthestorymatterstotheteller.”
“RememberthatBiblestoriesallstartedoffasoralaccountsandthenhadtobeeditedwaydownforpracticalreasons,”saysLeBlanc,“soyoushouldplanonnotreadingthemstraightfromthebookwithoutlotsofcommentaryandembellishment.”
Toparentswhoaren’tusedtointeractivestorytelling,LeBlancoffersthesetipsforspinningastirringstory:
Letthekidschimeinwithwhattheyknowandcantell.They’lllovetoactivelyparticipate.
Hamitup!Becomethecharactersinthestorybychangingyourvoiceanddemeanor.
Drawpictures,orhavethekidsdrawpictures.Includetheillustrationsinthestorytellingprocess.
Askthekidsquestionsthatpulltheminandcausethemtothink.Makesomeofthequestionssillyandsomeserious.
Connectthemes/lessonsinthestorytotheireverydaylife.TheParableoftheMustardSeed,forexample,canberelatedtothechild’sownexperienceofplantingagardenandwatchingtheseedssprout.
CatechizingfromLife
CatholiceducatorandstorytellerAlyssaBormesagreesthatreal-lifeexperiencescanbepowerfuleducationaltools.Bormes’bookisanexampleofanarrativethatteachesthefaith.Ittellstheincrediblestoryofthe1980Men’sOlympicHockeyTeamanditsunlikelygoldmedalwinovertheSovietUnionteam.AccordingtoBormes,theaccountis“thestoryofeveryunderdog,fullofsuffering,doubts,anddetermination.”
Bornesbelievesoutthat,inordertolearn,weneedconcrete,relatableexamples.SheusesTheCatechismofHockeytoillustratethepowerofexampleinstorytelling.
“JustimagineGrandpatellingthisstorytohisgrandchild.Imaginehimtakingthechildonavirtual‘pilgrimage’tothearenawhereitallhappened,and‘hearing’thecrowdcheering‘U.S.A.,U.S.A!’The
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accountis,inessence,theDavidandGoliathstory,andithasnowmadeanindeliblemarkinthemindofthechild,whocandrawuponitlaterinlifewhenfacingoverwhelmingodds.”
ObservesBormes,“Jesusfoundwaystoexpressage-oldtruthsinnewstories.Wecandothesameinthemidstoftheeverydaygoingson.”
CatechizingfromtheChurch
InhisarticleTheBirthofCatholicEvangelism,DealHudsonstated:“TheCatholicversionofChristianityhasfarmorestoriesready-to-handthananyotherdenomination–fromits2000yearhistoryanditsroleinthecreationofWesternCivilizationtothestoriesofitssaints,martyrs,clergy,andreligious.Ifit’struethatgoodstorytellingisthebasisofeffectiveevangelismthentheCatholicChurchisthemostfertilesoilonecouldimagine.”
Addingthat“theverysimplecanbethekeytotheverymystical,”Bormesadvisesparentstolookclosetohomeforstorytellinginspiration.
“TheChurchhasgivenusallthetoolstocatechizeourchildren,”shesays.“We,asparents,justneedtoknowtheStory!”
Bornesoffersthesesuggestionstoparents:
Takeyourkidstoyourparishchurch.Seehowmanysymbolstheycanfindinthewindowsandartoftheirownparish.Whatandwherearethesymbolsofbaptisminyourparish?Whydoesthebaptismalfontoftenhaveeightsides?WherearethesymbolsoftheEucharist?WhatdoesIHSstandfor?
Findoutwhichsaintisthepatronofyourparish.Getthewholestoryofthatsaint,includingtheatmosphereoftheworldatthetimethesaintwasonearth.Tellthechildrenthesaint’sstorywiththepassionduetoit!Then,goonapilgrimagetoyourownchurch,oracrosstown,totheside-altarwiththatsaint,therebymeetingthesaintandgivingthechildanewfriendforthejourneyoflife.
TalkaboutthestoriesbehindthefeastsoftheChurchyear.Arethereanyethnictraditionsrelatingtoyourfamily’sobservancesoffeastdaysandholydays?Doesyourfamilyenjoyspecialfoodsoncertainholydays?Doesyourparishhavespecialcustomsrelatingtotheliturgicalyear?Findoutthestoriesandsharethem!
Propitup!TheChurchinHerwisdomuses“bellsandsmells”tohelpengageallofoursensesandconnectustoHeaven.Parentscanmakeuseofpractical,everydaythingstohelpchildrengraspthetruthsandbeautyoftheFaith.Bornessays,“IoftenusestickfigurestoexplaintheTrinity;Iuseabaseballdiamondtoexplainactualtimethatwelivein,andGodbeingoutsideoftime;Iuseabagofholycardstoexplainchastity.”
Bormesstressestheimportanceofhavingchildrendomorethanjustlistentoastory.Byencouragingtheirchildrentowalkthroughthechurch,fingerthebaptismalfont,orsampleafeastdaymeal,parentshave“attachedthestorytomoresensesthanjusthearing.Thechildrenhavetouchedthestory…andithastouchedthem.”
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BeginningStorytelling
Perhapsyoustilljustcan’tpictureyourselfasastoryteller.Maybeyou’reafraidthat,inyourfirstattemptatsharingaScripturestory,you’llmixupDathanwithDavid,orconfuseJerichoandJeroboam.PerhapsaverbatimreadingofThePokyLittlePuppyisallyouthinkyoucanhandle.
Ifthat’sthecase,thenrepeatafterme:“IthinkIcan,IthinkIcan.”Thefactisthatyoudon’tneedtobeaLeBlancoraBornes–oraGrimmoraGeisel–totellagoodstory.Hereareafewjumping-offpointsforthereluctantstoryteller:
Takeoffyour“parent”hat
Rememberwhen,asachild,youmetyourteacheratthegrocerystoreorthemailmanatMass?Youweresurprisedthattheteacherandthemailmanhadlivesoutsidetheirrespectiveworkplaces.DelightyourkidsbytellingthemaboutdemureMother’sadventuresasacompetitiveskier,orstaidFather’santicsastheclassclown.IguaranteethatyourchildrenwillbethrilledtohearaboutMomandDadbeforetheybecameMomandDad.
Kidslovetohearabouttheirbabydays,andmanymotherslovetorecallthedetailsoftheirchildren’sbirthsandearliestdays.Whatwastheweatherlikeonthedaythechildwasborn?WhatdidMothersaywhenshefirstsawhim?TellabouthisBaptism.DidhecrywhenFatherpouredwateroverhishead?Athome,washecontentorcranky?Didhesleepmuch?Whendidhefirstsmile?Theseminutiaeareboundtocaptivatethechildwhoisthestory’scentralcharacter.
Takeatalethatyoulovedasachildandpersonalizeitforyourkids.I’vehadfunretellingthebelovedstoryof“TheGloriousWhitewasher”fromTomSawyer,replacingTom’snamewiththatoftheentrancedyounglistener,andthenamesofTom’scompatriotsBenRogers,BillyFisher,andJohnnyMillerwiththoseofthelistener’ssiblingsandfriends.ThechildwillenjoyimaginghimselftheownerofTom’samassed“wealth”–whichincludedakittenwithonlyoneeye
twelvemarbles,apieceofbluebottle-glasstolookthrough,atinsoldier,acoupleoftadpoles,sixfire-crackers,fourpiecesoforange-peel,adilapidatedoldwindowsash,andadeadratandastringtoswingitwith.
Beginwith“WhenIwasakid…”
”Andthenmydadtookoffhisshoeandsmackeditagainstthewindow,shatteringtheglass.”That’stheclimaxofastoryaboutmyfamilygettinglockedoutofourhousesomeforty-oddyearsago.Imusthavetoldittomyownkids,byrequest,athousandtimesovertheyears.Partofthestory’sappealliesinitsquaintdetails,e.g.Cellphonesdidn’texist,sowecouldn’tcallourneighborsforhelp.Bonusinterest-clincher:Mom,whowasthirteenatthetime,wasmortifiedthattheepisodehadbeenwitnessedbytheboyacrossthestreet,whomsheliked.
“Youbecomeagreatstorytellerbytellingstories,”saysBornes,“andovertimehoningyourcraft.”
AddsLeBlanc,“Don’tjusttellthestory.Shareitsothatyourlistenerswillbeimbibedwithit.”
Andeveryonelivedhappilyeverafter.
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UniversityLife![atCruceSignatiBlog]
Well,Imovedoutandhavebeenlivinginauniversityresidenceforfourweeksnow.Thehomeschoolerisaliveandinfact,thriving!I’vecertainlylearnedalotinthepastfewweeks,aboutmyself,myfamily,school,citylife,andpeopleingeneral.
#1.Homeschoolingcanprepareyouforlife‘intherealworld’.
September7thdawnedbrightandsunny,andthewholeofcreationseemedcheerfulthatmorning.Iwasfeelinganxious,though.Itwasmyfirstdayofschool.Ever.Withtheexceptionsofadriver’sedcourseandgivingapresentationtosomefourthgradersoncomposting,Ihadneverevensetfootinaclassroombefore.SoasIlefttheresidence,IrecalledJulieAndrewssinging“IHaveConfidence”inTheSoundofMusicandbythetimeIreachedmyfirstclass,Iwasfeelingmuchbetter.This‘realschool’thingisnotashardasIthoughtitwouldbe,andall6ofmycoursesaregoingverywellnow.
BecauseIhavesomedietaryrestrictionsIoptednottoeatatthecafeteria.Sothatmeansbuyingmyowngroceriesandcookingformyselfontopofschool.GoodthingIhavelotsofpracticeinthisarea!Cookingforthefamilyoverthepastfouryearshascertainlypaidoff.Groceryshoppingandbudgetingarenotnewtome,butIamstilllearningtocheckflyersforsavings,usethestorerewardscard,andavoidimpulsebuys.Thenearestgrocerystoreisa15minutewalkfrommyresidence,soIcancombineexerciseanderrandsintoonetrip.
Learningtomanagemytimethroughoutmyhighschoolyearswasthebiggestblessingindisguise.Althoughitwasdifficultatthetime,itpreparedmeforlivingonmyownanduniversitylife.InhighschoolIusedastudytechniquecalledthePomodorotechnique.Ido25minutesofstudying/writing/reading,takea5minutebreak,andrepeat.Afewhoursofstudyinggobyveryquicklythisway.IcancompleteprojectswaybeforethedeadlineifImanagemytimeandexerciseself-control.Weekendsaremytimetocatchuponlaundry,cookformyself,orspendsometimewithfriends,whichleadstomynextpoint…
#2.Haveasupportsystem.
ThereisnowayIwouldbecopingsowellifitweren’tforthesupportofmyfriendshereinthecity.Myfamilylives3hoursaway,soMomhasbeentextingmeoftentomakesureI’mdoingalrightandsometimesthefam-jamwillcallmeorSkypemessagemebecausetheymissmequiteabit.Thiscontactwiththemisgreat,butitdoesn’treplacereallifecontact.Thankfully,I’vegotfriendshereinthecityandinthepastfewweeks,we’vegoneforwalks,hadcoffeeatvariousshops,goneswingdancing,wentforabeerafterAdoration,andsatonaparkbenchwatchingthesunsetandthecitylightscomeon.ThissupportsystemhaskeptmeoptimisticandIknowthatnomatterwhatstrugglesIface,Iamnotalone.
#3.Prayerlifeisvital.
vital:adj,essentialtoorsupportinglife;necessarytoexistence.FromtheLatinvitameaninglife.
Indeeditis.Whenplanningoutmyday,Isetaside45minutesforprayerinthemorning.Angelus,morningoffering,Rosary,andsometimeinsilencecanbefitintothisblock.Ifindthatthistimeinprayerisagood
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wayofpreparingforthedayandfortifyingmyselfthroughGod’sgrace.IfeelWAYbetterwhenIstartmydaylikethis.Becauseofmyclassschedule,Ican’tmakeittodailyMass,butItrytogotoMassorAdorationatsomepointbetweenMondayandFriday.IneedtorechargeandbefilledbymySavior.
That’sallIhaveforreflectionnow.PraiseGodforalltheblessingsHehasgivenme!Noteverythinghasbeenperfect,butHisloveenduresandovercomeseventhegreatestsorrows.RememberthatHelovesyouandnothingcanseparateyoufromthatlove!
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SavoringAfriendandIrecentlydroveupstateonbusiness.Westretchedthedrivehomeintoawindingtripthroughtwonotches(localparlanceforamountainpass)beforefinallysettlingdowntoI-93.Afterall,itwasearlyautumn.Eveniftheleavesweren’tturningyet,thecrispairwasworthtakingtimetoenjoy.
Therewerethingswaitingtobedoneathome.MyfriendandIhadeveryreasontoscootbackattopspeedoncethebusinessmeetingwasover.Wedecidedinsteadtosavorthemountainsasbestwecouldfromthecar.Wearebothofapoliticalbent,andthisisthehighseasonforthat.Allthemoreatreat,then,todecideonthespurofthemomenttoputbusy-nessandcampaignsasideforafewhours.
Athomelater,IfoundthesewordsfromPopeSt.JohnPaulII.Theyfittheday.JohnPaulunderstoodsavoringtherightthings.
Whoeverreallywantstofindhimself,mustlearntosavornaturewhosecharmisintimatelylinkedwiththesilenceofcontemplation.Therhythmsofcreationaresomanypathsofextraordinarybeautyalongwhichthesensitiveandbelievinghearteasilycatchestheechoofthemysterious,loftierbeautythatisGodHimself,theCreator,thesourceandlifeofallreality.
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MyWingedMessengers[atHarvestingTheFruitsofContemplation]
ThankyouAllisonGingrasandElizabethRiordanforyourweeklyinvitationtore-postourfavoritearticlesonWorthRevisiting.
MyWingedMessengers
(OriginallypostedAugust29,2016)
ThepresenceofmyfeatheredfriendsatthesetimesofprayerisGod’swayofremindingmethatifHecaresandprovidesfortheselittlecreatures,howmuchmorecertainIcanbeHewilldosoforme.
Icanneverberemindedofthistruthenough.
However,duringmymostrecentretreatthere,Godusedawingedmessengerinatotallydifferentway.YouseeinalltheyearsIhavebeencomingtotheAbbey,IhaveneverheardanybirdschirpingwhileIwasininthemainchapelinthemonastery–locatedamilefromtheretreathouse.
SilencereignssupremeinthatSacredspace,sincewords–writtenorspoken–arenotalwaysnecessary.OurlovingLordisabletocommunicatewithusinsilence.ItisforthatreasonthatIhavecometorelishandenjoythesequiettimesinHisPresence.ThepeaceandsolitudeservesasreminderformetoincreasethefrequencywithwhichIsitinsilencegazingatHimeitherintheexposedMonstranceorbehindlockedtabernacledoorswhenIamnotonretreat.
ButonthelastdayandmylastHolyHourofmymostrecentretreatthere,Iwasgiftedwiththesongofasinglesingingbird,penetratingthroughthesoothingandcomfortingsilenceoftheMonastery’smainchapel.Thathadneverhappenedduringpriorvisits.
SincetherearehundredsofacresoflandsurroundingtheMonasteryanditsretreathouse,whatbroughtthisparticularbirdtothisspecificspottointerruptthesacredsilenceofthisspaceonthisonesingleoccasion?AndforthatmatterwhatbringsthechirpingbirdstoserenademeattheretreathousechapeleverytimeIbegintopraythere?
God!
WhywouldHeblessmeso?
BecauseHewantsmetounderstandHewillbringmetowhereHewantsmetobeifIbuttrustHimandobeyHispromptingsasdohislittlefeatheredfriends.
WillIlistentoHim?
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Lifeis...bySaintMotherTeresa
IremembermymothercopyingthispoemofMotherTeresa'sinherownnotebook.Icanstillpictureherclearandbeautifulhandwriting.Howwelongedtomeether!!!Shewasalivingsaint,likeFatherDamienofMolokai.Shetaughtbyexample.Shemademewanttobeanun(well,IdidgotoaConventschoolandIlovedthosesisters,sotheymayhavesomethingtodowiththisdesireaswell).Shemademewanttobegood.Shemademewanttobeholy.HowwonderfuloftheChurchtorecognizehersanctityafteralltheseyears.Prayforus,MotherTeresa.
Lifeisbeauty,admireit,Lifeisbliss,tasteit,Lifeisadream,realizeit,Lifeisachallenge,meetit,Lifeisaduty,completeit,Lifeisagame,playit,Lifeisprecious,careforit,Lifeiswealth,keepit,Lifeislove,enjoyit,Lifeismystery,knowit,Lifeisapromise,fulfillit,Lifeissorrow,overcomeit,Lifeisasong,singit,Lifeisastruggle,acceptit,Lifeistragedy,confrontit,Lifeisanadventure,dareit,Lifeishappiness,deserveit,Lifeislife,defendit.
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~apoembySaintMotherTeresaofCalcutta
(Ilovethisphoto,swipedfromTanBooksFBpage.Sojoyful.Justdiscoveredthenameofthephotographer:MichaelCollopy.Herearesomeofhisotherphotos.)
AbeautifulreflectiononMotherTeresaandmotherhoodbyFatherGeorgeRutler.TherearemanybeautifulbooksaboutandbyMotherTeresa.Favoritesinclude:ComeBeMyLightandNoGreaterLove.HereIsharejustafewofherthoughtsaboutthegreatevilofabortion.
AndhereisthefulltextofPopeFrancis'homilyattheMassforcanonization.
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St.Jerome,DoctorofTranslation[atTheCatholicSpiritualLife]
St.JeromeandtheBible
I’msureyouknowthatSt.Jerome,whomtheChurchcelebratestoday,said,“IgnoranceofScriptureisignoranceofChrist.”Itshouldbeunderlinedthathedidn’tsaythisinpassing.Jerome’swholelifewasorientedaroundhisloveofScripture.HewasanirasciblemonkfromDalmatia(justtotheeastofnorthernItaly),whodidBiblicalworkinRomeandthenwassentbythePopetoBethlehem,wherehelivedinacave,studiedwithlocalexperts,includingJews,andtranslatedtheBibleintoLatin.Hewasn’tthefirstonetodothat,buthediditwell.
ButthoughthebestnameforSt.Jeromewouldbe“DoctoroftheBible,”todayIwouldlikeustoconsiderhimasthe“DoctorofTranslation.”
DoctoroftheChurch(ironically,sincewe’retalkingaboutaDoctorofTranslation)isapoorlytranslatedterm.InLatin,doctordoesn’tmeanhealer,itmeansteacher.(Weprofessor-doctorsaremoreproperlydoctorsthanthoseso-calledmedicaldoctors!)Thephraseisusedbythetraditiontotalkaboutthatparticulargroupofsaintswhosewritingsareespeciallyimportant:the“doctors”arethegreatteachersof“doctrine.”Thetitleseemstohavegrownupinpartasakindofliturgicalcategory:somesaints’feastsdeservespecialliturgicalemphasis(andlater,aspecialliturgy)becauseitissoimportantthatwelearnfromtheirwritings.
IntheWest(wheretheyspokeLatin,andsousedtheLatinword“doctor”)thetitlefirstwenttoSt.Augustine,arguablythegreatestteacheroftheWesterntradition(atleastuntilSt.Thomas,whoviewedhimassuch);alsoSt.Ambrose,hisgreatandspiritualteacher;St.GregorytheGreat,oneofthemostimportantonestotranslateAugustineintospirituality;andSt.Jerome.
LatersomeEastern,Greekfatherswerenamed:St.JohnChrysostom–hissecondnamemeans“goldenmouth,”becausehewasthegreatestpreacheroftheearlyChurch,bringinghismonasticwisdomtothemetropolisofConstantinople;themonk-bishopfriendsSt.BasilandSt.GregoryNazianzus,whoespeciallyenrichedtheteachingoftheTrinity;andlater,togivetheEastfourliketheWest,St.Athanasius,greatdefenderofthedivinityofChrist.
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Lateron,ThomasAquinaswasaddedtothelist–andafterthatthetitlewasextendedtomanygreatwriters.Thepointofallthisisthatthedoctorsaregreatwriters.Itisadistinctionmeanttopointustowardwritingsofthesaintsasanimportantpartofourfaith.
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St.Jerome,St.Francis,andOurLady
Now,theinterestingthingforustodayisthatJeromeisnotanespeciallyimportantwriter.Don’tgetmewrong:hewasasaint,andlikemanysaintsoftheearlyChurch,hehadinterestingthingstosayaboutspirituality,andJesus,andtheBible.ButevenhiscommentariesonScripturearenotthatimportant.
JeromeisnotadoctoroftheChurchbecauseofhisoriginalwritings.JeromeisadoctoroftheChurchbecauseofhistranslation–oftheBible.
Understandthis,andakeyelementoftheLatintraditionsuddenlycomesintofocus.JeromeisoneofthefavoritesaintsoftheMiddleAges–andtheirverymostimportant“writer”(doctor)–purelybecauseheputtheBibleintoalanguagepeoplecouldunderstand.
ThedeepestthingwelearnfromthisdevotiontoSt.JeromeishowmuchthetraditionlovedtheBible.Buttheotherthingwelearnishowmuchtheylovedtranslation.
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St.Jerome(ontheright)andtheCross
Letmebeblunt.Thisissomethingcompletelyinsideoutabout“traditionalism.”SomeCatholicstodayloveLatinbecauseit’snotthevernacular.ButtheMiddleAgeslovedLatinbecauseitwasthe
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vernacular.
SomepeopleknowthattheChurch–inauthoritativedocuments,suchasatTrentandVaticanI–saidthattheVulgate,Jerome’sLatintranslationoftheBible,isauthoritative.ButpeoplewronglyinterpretthattomeanthatLatinisauniqueBiblicallanguage.Tothecontrary,thetradition–andthosedocuments:readthem!–understandstheVulgatetobeanendorsementnotofLatin,butoftranslation.What’samazingaboutSt.Jerome,forthemiddleages,isthathetooktheBibleoutofalanguagethatWesternerscouldnotunderstandandtranslateditintoalanguagetheycouldunderstand.What’samazingisthatwecanheartheBibleinalanguageweunderstand.
St.Jeromeis,firstofall,asaintoflovingtheBible.Butheisalso,andinseparably,asaintoflovingtranslationintothevernacular.Vulgatemeansvernacular,the“vulgartongue,”thelanguagedumbpeoplespeak(orspoke).
IfwewanttolovetheBible–andtolovetheTradition,whichlovestheBible–wetooneedtolearntolovetranslation.LikeJerome,it’sbestifwecanlearntheoriginallanguages.Butforallthosepeoplewhocan’t,thankGodforsaintslikeJeromewhomaketheBible(andtheliturgy)accessibleinthelanguageofthepeople.ThankGodfortranslators.
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AboutaBoy[atStringofPearls]
Onceuponatime,therewasalittleboywholosthisdadtosuicideatthetenderageofsix."Don'tbemadathim,"heremembershispaternalgrandmother,"Grammy,"tearfullypleadingwithhismotherinthedaysfollowinghisfather'sfuneral."Whywouldmymombemadatmydadfordying?"thelittleboywondered.
Thatboywouldn'tknowthedetailssurroundinghisfather'sdeathformanyyears,untilhewasa21-year-oldnewlywedwithanigglingsuspicionthathehadn'tbeentoldthewholestory...andspenthoursinthelibraryporingoveroldnewspapersuntilheuncoveredthedevastatingtruth,andthensharedhisnewfoundknowledgewithhisbeautifulyoungbride.
Notagreatwaytobeginamarriage,youmightsay;butthattall,handsomenewlywedwiththePaulNewman-blueeyesandthemoviestargoodlooksjustcelebrated60yearsofweddedblisswithhisoneandonlysweetheart.I'dsaythat'snottooshabby,foraboywhoselifecouldhavebeenirreparablyshatteredbyeventsthattookplacewhenhewasonlysix.
Afterhisfatherdied,theboy'smother(whowastheeldestofsixsiblings)wentawaytoattendnursingschoolandgethercareerstarted,sothatshecouldeventuallybecomethesolesupporterofherchildren.Thegrievingwidowlefttheboyandhisyoungersisterwithhermother,who'dbecometheheadofthefamilyafterthecrashof'29robbedherfatherofhisfinancialsuccessandlefthimabrokenman."Mimi"wasatough-as-nailsmatriarch,asensible,hard-working,no-nonsensewomanwho,whenitcametoherfatherlessgrandson(anadmittedlysometimesnaughtylittletyke!),neverthoughtitwasbesttosparetherodifitmeantspoilingthechild.
ThismightsoundlikesomehorrifyingDickensiantale,butneverfear:thatboyadoredhisupbringinginthattinytowninupstateNY,describinghissevenyearsinhisbelovedgrandmother'scaretohisownoffspringinlateryearsas
themostidyllicofchildhoodsimaginable
.Hewassurroundedcompletelybywomen(hisgrandmother,hissister,andseveralteenagedauntswhowerestilllivingathomeatthetime);hehadnostrongmalesinhislifetouseasrolemodelsforlateron,whenhewouldbecomeahusbandanddadhimself.Andyethewasmarriedat21andsoonafterbecamethedadofmany.Bythetimethatboywasjust28,hewasalreadythefatheroffive:threedaughtersandtwosons.
Once,whenthatboy'seldestdaughter'sfourthsonwassixyearsold,itsuddenlyoccurredtoherthathewasthesameageasherdadhadbeenwhenhelosthisfather.Theideaofleavingherownboymotherlesswassodifficulttocontemplatethatsheaskedhimifhehadanymemoriesofhisfather."Nope,"hesaid,inthetight-lippedfashiontypicalofhimwhenhedidn'tfeelliketalkingaboutsomething."Noneatall."Andtheboy'sdaughterwasunspeakablysadwhensheheardhisanswer.
Butafewyearslaterduringathunderstorm,thedaughterrealizedthatherdadhadn'tbeenentirelytruthfulwhenhegaveherthatcurtreply.Asafiercestormragedoutside,shetoldhimhowmuchthunderstorms
frightenedher."Oh,notme,"hereplied."Ilove'em.OneoftheearliestmemoriesIhavefromwhenIwasalittleboyisofsittingonmyfather'slapontheporch,watchingthelightningcomedown."
"Aha!"thoughtthedaughter."Sohe
does
rememberhisfather!"Andshewashappy,becausethatmeantifshe'ddiedwhenoneofherownboyswasonlysix,hemightrememberher,too.
Thatboyisanoldmannow.Hishealthisdeteriorating,andheisfacingtheendofalonglifewelllived.He'shandlingthemostrecentprognosisfromhisdoctorwithhisusualcourage...becauseatsix,hehadtolearnhowtobebraveandstrongatamuchyoungeragethanmostofushaveto;atsix,helearnedtotakewhatlifethrewathimwithoutcomplainingoraskingforpity.Hedidn'thaveafathertoshowhimtheropeswhenhewasgrowingup,buthelearnedhowtoclimbthemonhisown.Hewasaboywhofiguredout,allbyhimself,howtobeaman.
Iamproudtocallthatboymyfather.
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WhyIdidn'twanttowrite...butneededto.[atTheologyisaverb]
Today,theadviceofagoodfriendofmineSr.MariePaul,aPaulinesisterbyvocation,echoedinmymind.“Ifyoufindyourselfatalossofwhattowriteorhowtowritewhatyoufeelyouneedto,justwriteaboutwhyyoucannotwrite.”Why?First,itgetstheflowgoingbutalsotheremaybesomethingthereworthexploring-thereasonbehindwhyyouarefeelingblockedorresistant.Doingthishashelpedmetoseemoreclearlywhatitisthatisholdingmebackandcaptive.
AndsoIbegin..nolongeraslavetofearbutrecognizingthatitiswithGod,withhisstrengthanddesirethatIcandoallthings.Itisn’tthatIamfearfulofwriting,orsurrenderingmyinmostthoughtsandfeelings,butthatthetaskofwritingwithandforapurposetakesbothtimeandenergy.Twothingsthatcanfartoooftenseeminshortsupply.For,introspectivelyIunderstandmyowntendencytogivefullyofmyselftowhateverIcommitto.Nottreadingintheshallow,IlongtoseethingstocompletionandrestonlywhenIfeelIhavegivenmyall.Yet,inmydesiretoserve,haveIneglectedmyowncupthatlongstobefilled?IsthiswhyIamclingingtodowntime,andstingywhenitcomestowritinglately?
AndstillIknowthatspirituallythattendingtotheseedofabuddingquestion,oremergingprayerthrough
writingismorethanafacetofselfexpression.Thefruitofwhichhas,forme,beenawindowofclarificationandapathofdiscernment.ItisanopeningofmindandhearttotheSpirit,adiscoveryofareasofneededimprovement,anacceptanceofmercyandarecognitionthatIamloved.Evenstillitcanbeameanstoencourageothersintheirwalkoffaithtoo,whomaywonderiftheyarealone.InneedofaSavior?Wonderful,thereismuchcompanionshipinthejourney!However,forthistobepossiblewemustbeauthentic-sharingequallyofthechallengesandsuccesses,ofthesorrowsandjoysandofabrokennessthatisonlymadecompletethroughChrist.
So,itisthenthatIamcalledtowrite.HangingbyathreadIcannotseetheentiretapestrythatGodweaves.Perspective.Writingspirituallybecomesawaytobetterseethegiftsthatwehaveandunderstandthewhybehindwhatwearetodo.Up,down,inandouthishandguidesmyhearttowardshispurpose.Witheachwordwrittenandeachpauseplaced-thereisaconversationbetweenmyheartandGod.Aseekingandafinding,andareneweddesiretostaynearwhenIonceagainhavestrayed.“Thereyouare!”,Isay.“IamwhereIhavealwaysbeen,rightbesideyou.”Hesays.
WhileIinitiallyhadlittleinclinationtowritetoday,Godknewthatitwasexactlywhatwasneeded.Haveyouconsideredwritingasawaytomoveyourheart,orasameansofdiscernment?Whatisholdingyoucaptivetoday?
Peace,
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GiveDrinktotheThirsty
Manymonthsago,asIwaspreparingformyfirstEmbraceMercytalk,IcontemplateddoingaseriesontheWorksofMercy.IforgotallaboutthatideauntilthismorningwhenIhadana-hamoment.TherearenotenoughMondaysleftinthisJubileeYearofMercytogiveeachoneoftheseworksitsownseparatepost,soIwilllikelycombinethemfromtimetotime.Here’shopingforgoodfollow-through!
Sowhatwasmya-hamoment?IwasfillingapitcherwithwatersoIcouldbrewsometeawhichIwillthenpouroverice.Idothisoften;generallynotnoteworthy.ButthenInoticedabug…averytinybug…floatinginthewater.Wehavehadwindowsopenforaweek,andourscreensarenotinthebestofshape.Ipromptlypouredthewaterdownthedraintostartover.Then,Ifeltatingeofguilt.
IwasremindedofaconversationIhadnearly20yearsagowithacollegestudentwhospenthersummerinHaitiwiththeMissionariesofCharity.Wewereonretreat,andafewofusteammemberswereinthekitchendebatingwhetherornotweshoulddrinktheunopenedmilkwhichhad“expired”twodaysprevious.ThisyoungwomantoldushowpeopleinHaitiwouldjustaboutgivetheirrightarmstohavesuchaluxuryasagallonofcoldmilk.Shecontinuedtoshareabouthersummerexperience,includinghowshewitnessedwomensiftingflourdailytogetbugsoutbeforetheycookedtheirmeagermeals.Shemadethesepointsfirmly,withoutheapingguiltonus,butinsteadwithachallengetobemoregratefulforallthatwehad.Needlesstosay,weusedthe“expired”milkthatday.
ThatentireconversationenteredmymindasIwatchedmywatergodownthedrain.Allbecauseofagnat.What’sworseisthatIdon’tevendrinkwaterstraightfromthetapanyway.Irunitthroughmyspecialpitcher,sittinginmyoffice,thathasafilter.Yep,I’mthatpicky.Idon’tlikedrinkingplainwateratall,anddefinitelynottapwater.Icantasteadifferenceinmyteawithunfilteredwater,oratleastIhaveconvincedmyselfofthis.Ihaveaccesstocleandrinkingwater.Every.Single.Day.AndyetIwantitcleanerandtastier.MayGodhavemercyonme.
NowIrealizethatGodcreatedmetoliveinatimeandplacewithsuchablessing.Idon’tthinkHewantsmetofeelguiltyeverytimeIenjoyaglassofcoldmilkorafabulouscupofEnglishbreakfasttea.WhatIdothinkisthatGodwantsme,andallofustobemoremindfulofthosewhodon’thavetheseblessings.Beyondbeingmindful,wemustdosomethingaboutit.Idecidedtoponderthismore.
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Manypoverty-reliefcharitiesassistcommunitiesbybuildingwellsforsafedrinkingwater.OnesuchorganizationisCatholicReliefServices,whoseprogramsarevaried,butincludecleanwaterinitiatives.Othercharitiesdealspecificallywithcleanwateralone,recognizingitwillinevitablyimpactcommunityhealth,agriculture,andeducation,alongwithjustabouteverythingelse.TodayIdiscoveredCharity:Waterandwasdeeplymovedbytheirboldmission.IspentacrazyamountoftimewatchingtheirvideosonYouTube.Iencourageyoutocheckthemout.
Financiallysupportingsuchorganizationsisgood,buthowelsecanweheedJesus’wordstogivedrinktothethirsty?
ConsiderlookingintoareafoodpantriesoryourlocalSt.VincentdePaulSociety.PerhapsyoucoulddonatebottledwateronamonthlybasistostocktheirshelvesSometimesalackofcleanwatercomesfromunpaidbills.Byhelpingtopaywaterandsanitationbillsforpeopleinneed(suchasthroughyourchurch),familieswillbehealthier.Keepsomebottledwater,handsanitizerandotherhygieneproductsinyourcarascarepackagestogiveawaywhenyouseesomeoneinneed.Pray.Withoutceasing.Theissueofdrinkingwatercanbeoverwhelmingifwetrytotakecareofitonourown.Godhasalreadycreatedthewater.Let’saskHimhowwecanshareitmoreabundantlyandgenerously.
IknowIwillstillenjoymytea,icedorhot.Hopefully,however,Iwillbeabetterstewardofthewaterthatisavailabletome.AndhopefullyIwillgrowingratitudeforthatwater,andeveryblessingthatisshowereduponmedaily.
Whatsimpleblessingsdoyouhavethathavebeeneasytotakeforgranted?Howdoyouofferupprayersofthanksgiving?Insong?Ajournal?Feelfreetosharebelow.
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"AbortioninGoodFaith"and"AbortionCare":ThesePhrasesAreNonsense[atItMakesSensetoMe]
ITMAKESSENSETOME
ByLarryPeterson
Iusuallywalk45minutestoanhourbeforedawn.Ablacksky,splatteredendlesslywithtwinkli