By Taite DeVoeMOTHERLY MISERY

Misery is being told your only daughter has cancer.

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Misery is having to pay off medical bills that will never stop adding up.

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Misery is watching your daughter’s health deteriorate.

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Misery is sitting in a parking lot while your daughter is at support group, then telling her you stay because of paperwork.

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Misery is having to make sure every missed episode of America’s Next Top Model episode is recorded.

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Misery is when Hazel sleeps all day because cancer patients need their rest.

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Misery is creeping on Hazel and Augustus, but not being able to tease them because you don’t want to be caught.

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Misery is when Hazel gets sick… again.

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Misery is not knowing whether or not Hazel will recover.

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Misery is watching Hazel cart around her oxygen tank everywhere.

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Misery is having to walk alone in Amsterdam because your daughter is off with her boyfriend.

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Misery is when your daughter wants you to leave her alone because she has a boyfriend.

Mom. Get out.

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Misery is when your daughters boyfriend dies from cancer.

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Misery is when your daughter has to write a eulogy for the love of her life.

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