MEDITATIONS,QUOTES vol24 (1)

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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 30

NARCOSIA Publishing -2008


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Gheorghe Cornel ARDELEAN

MEDITATIONSVOL. 30

NARCOSIA Publishing

ARAD COUNTY, MACEA

2008


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CIP description of the Romanian National

Library

Gheorghe Cornel Ardelean

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978-606-8048-09-3


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Urge to read, analyze and apply

these meditations

By reading and analyzing the

meditations of AGC, by applying one

or more thoughts we will find solutions

that will help us:

I. Discover:

1. qualities;

2. defects;

3. capabilities;

4. skills;5. some opportunities

to succeed in life;

6. finding a partner for life;

7. keeping our marriage;8. discovering our feelings;

9. discovering our

mistakes;

10. etc..


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II. To prevent some:

1. mistakes;2. accidents;

3. divorces;

4. trouble;

5. bankruptcies;

6. failures;

7. conflicts;

8. etc..

III. Become:1. more efficient;

2. happier;

3. more loved;

4. more honorable;5. appreciated;

6. more respected;

7. more loved;

8. more organized;


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9. more optimistic;

10. more plan;

11. most active;12. best;

13. fairer;

14. more humane;

15. more unselfish;

16. popular;

17. more famous;

18. etc..

IV. Come out of:1. the state of lost hope;

2. the state of pessimism;

3. the state of despair;

4. the state of passivity;5. the state of inactivity

6. etc..

V. Participate at:


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1. social life;

2. political life;

3. the activity of non-profit organization

4. etc..

VI. Find more

opportunities to meet

favorable or more

favorable conditions.

VII. To let us change ourlives more in better, to

make it more beautiful.

VIII. To expand ourchances to find the right

partner for life.

IX. To let us realize and to


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maintain a happy marriage.

X. To let us raise andeducate our children better,

to take more care of them.

I am writing these meditations

and adding these books, other

publications and on the Internet, etc..

because we need them every day and it

is necessary to apply them so that we

each achieve what we want: a more beautiful life, a more prosperous and

happy one. These meditations reflect a

tiny part of reality, of what would be

good to be present in real life and inhuman relations.

I expect good news from you,

good deeds that you have done

influenced by the fact that you have


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read and applied one or more ideas to

make your life more beautiful, more

prosperous, more happy and to be positive lively models for others.

Each of us can become a positive

new model for those around us thus

participating in the creation of a better

human society, of a more prosperous

one, and a happier one.

I would be very happy and

excited if one or more ideas that you

have read, help you in one way oranother or make you happier, more

prosperous, etc..

I wish you all health, happiness

and the achieving of all things that youwant.

I expect your news, ideas,

opinions, troubles and joys, etc..


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Sincerely, love and with much joy,

I invite you to visit my site

www.ardeleancornel.eu and to write tome at: [email protected]

Ardelean Gheorghe Cornel

(AGC)


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1) Those who are willing to try newways have more and greater chances to

find the right partner for life.

2) Those who have the sense ofobjectivity make many exchanges ofinformation.

3) Those who have the sense ofobjectivity must be promoted.

4)

Those who have the sense ofobjectivity have the capacity to maintain

efficient co-developments.

5) Those who have the sense ofobjectivity are more credible.

6) Those who have the sense ofobjectivity have more and greater chances

to achieve a happy life.

7) The sense of credibility helps usbecome more credible.


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8) People who are full of life andmature have greater chances to achieve a

happy marriage.9) People with prejudices cannotachieve some efficient co operations

because of some prejudices.

10) People with prejudices may notachieve a mature love because of

prejudices.

11) People with prejudices cannotachieve efficient co-development because

of some prejudices.

12) People with wrong ideas cannotsucceed in life because of some wrong

ideas.

13) People with wrong ideas cannotachieve their own happiness because ofsome wrong ideas.

14) People with wrong ideas cannotachieve social relations because of some

wrong ideas.


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15) Wrong ideas must not be sustained.16) Some people with wrong ideas donot trust themselves because of somewrong ideas.

17) Some people with the wrong ideascan not achieve mature love because of

some wrong ideas.

18) People who inspire trust contributemore to global humanization.

19) People who inspire trust have morechances to meet more favorable situations.

20) People who inspire trust have agreater ability to achieve happy marriages.

21) People who inspire trust have moreabilities to achieve a more beautiful life.

22) People with the sense of disciplinemust be supported.23) People with the sense of disciplinehave achieved a mature love.

24) People with the sense of disciplinehave achieved outstanding performances.


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25) People with the sense of disciplinehave a greater ability to achieve more

performances.26) People with the sense of disciplinehave more chances to achieve their desired

future.

27) People with the sense of disciplineare engines of development in all areas ofactivity.

28) People who are not careful withothers must not be promoted.

29) People who are not careful withothers have difficulties in achieving

mature love.

30) People who are not careful withothers have difficulties in finding the right

partner for life.31) People who are not careful withothers achieve their own happiness much

harder.

32) The state of uncertainty causes


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postponing the taking of some decisions.

33) Political uncertainty causes manyproblems in social relations.34) Political uncertainty makes theexchange of information very difficult.

35) Those who only solve problemsthrough constructive methods have a

greater ability to maintain thoseconstructive methods.

36) Those who solve problems onlythrough constructive methods make many

exchanges of information.

37) Those who solve problems onlythrough constructive methods have more

chances to find the right partner for life.

38) The state of nervosity stops us fromachieving a happy marriage.39) The state of nervosity stops us fromdeveloping our trust in the future.

40) The state of nervosity makes it verydifficult to maintain efficient global co


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operations.

41) The state of nervosity makes oursuccess in life harder to achieve.42) Assuring personal freedom preventsmany mistakes.

43) Assuring personal freedomcontributes a lot to social relations.

44) Assuring personal freedomcontributes a lot in preventing many

failures.

45) A positive conception of life helpsus a lot to achieve our own happiness.

46) A positive conception of lifecontributes a lot in achieving a positive

global future.

47) A positive conception of life helpsus maintain a happy marriage.48) A positive conception of lifeincreases our chances to achieve a happy

marriage.

49) The uncertainty of incomes can


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sometimes change our life.

50) The uncertainty of incomes reducesour participation in global humanization.51) Those who discover unique ways towork for a better life have more chances to

achieve their desired future.

52) Those who discover unique ways towork efficiently for a better life moreeasily maintain efficient co-developments.

53) Those who know how to takeadvantage of the opportunity to create

must be promoted.

54) Those who know how to takeadvantage of the opportunity to create

must be rewarded.

55) Those who control circumstanceshave greater capacities to participate inachieving the greater good.

56) Those who control circumstancescan control them better if they make

necessary exchanges of information.


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57) Those who know that discipline isthe key of dreams are engines of

development in all areas of activity.58) Those who know that discipline isthe key of dreams make few mistakes.

59) Those who know that discipline isone of the keys of dreams prevent many

mistakes.60) Those who know that discipline isone of the keys of dreams develop their

trust in the future.

61) Those who have had bettereconomical and social conditions during

their evolution have the capacity to

maintain mature love.

62) Those who have had bettereconomical and social conditions duringtheir evolution have a greater trust in

themselves.

63) Those who are oriented towardslasting success are engines of development


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in all areas of activity.

64) Those who are oriented towardslasting success are mostly creative.65) Those who live their life

passionately and not at random usually

trust themselves.

66) Those who live their life passionately and not at random have agreater capacity to achieve true love.

67) Those who have opportunities todevelop have greater chances to make true

friends.

68) Those who have opportunities todevelop have more chances to increase

their confidence in themselves.

69) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have a great capacityto maintain their desired efficient global

co operations.

70) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have a greater ability


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to achieve personal goals.

71) Those who willingly expand their positive experience have greater chancesto make true friends.

72) The need to succeed makes peoplemore creative.

73) The need to succeed must beappreciated.74) The need to succeed creates a more

beautiful life for some persons.

75) The majority of those who do nothave a purpose in life make many

mistakes.

76) The possibility to consciouslychoose helps us achieve the desired social

relations.

77) A positive enterprising spiritincreases our ability to achieve ourselves.78) A positive enterprising spirit must

be rewarded.

79) A positive enterprising spirit creates


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the ability to achieve more and greater

outstanding performances.

80)

Efficient people in positive actionshave greater chances to maintain their

desired efficient co operations.

81) Efficient people in positive actionshave more chances to find the right partner

for life.82) The sense of quality increases ourchances to maintain the desired positive

social relations.

83) The sense of quality makes us makemany exchanges of information.

84) The sense of quality increases ourchances of maintaining a mature love.

85) The sense of quality helps usbecome more performing.86) Constructive thinking makes ushave zero tolerance for crimes.

87) Constructive thinking helps usmaintain the desired positive social


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relations.

88) Constructive thinking helps uscontribute to achieving the greater good.89) Constructive thinking must besustained.

90) The sense of fairness increases ourchances to achieve efficient co-

developments.91) The sense of fairness helps usachieve a happy life.

92) The majority of those who have theability to react with understanding achieve

their desired future.

93) The majority of those who have theability to react with understanding make

fewer mistakes.

94) The majority of those who have theability to react with understanding havemore chances to succeed in life.

95) The majority of those who have theability to react with understanding have


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more chances to achieve their own

happiness.

96)

The majority of those who have theability to react with understanding must be

appreciated.

97) People who know how to motivatemust be appreciated.

98) Solving problems through positivemethods does not create problems with the

law.

99) Solving problems through positivemethods does not create other problems in

an illegal way.

100) Solving problems through positivemethods is an obligation of every

individual.

101) Solving problems through positivemethods does not make building ourdesired future much more difficult.

102) The sense of commitment in workcreates true friends.


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103) The sense of commitment in workmakes us contribute a lot to global

humanization.104) The sense of commitment in workincreases our ability to achieve efficient

co-developments.

105) Humanist ideas push many peopleto achieve the greater good.106) Humanist ideas prevent many wars.107) Humanist ideas prevent manymisfortunes.

108) Humanist ideas push people to buildthe achievement of efficient global co

operations.

109) The safety of respecting humanrights is a necessity for each state.

110) People who can control theiremotions have a greater ability to becomemore efficient.

111) Solving problems through positivemethods is a necessity for each of us.


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112) Solving problems through positivemethods increases our ability to maintain

true friendships.113) Solving problems through positivemethods increases our ability to maintain

efficient co-developments.

114) Those who are remarkably giftedare engines of development in all areas ofactivity.

115) Those who are remarkably giftedmany times have an efficient thinking.

116) Those who are remarkably giftedmostly have human sense.

117) Those who are remarkably giftedmostly have a lot of ideals.

118) People who have had success manytimes have been industrious.119) People who have had success havegiven up living in the state of fatigue.

120) People who have had success havemostly had a broad horizon.


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121) People who have had success havethe ability to quickly see the advantages

and disadvantages of actions.122) People who have success are mostlyenthusiastic people.

123) People who have success are mostlyoriented towards the outside world.

124) People who have success are mostlyintrigued.

125) People who have success are mostlycareful with others.

126) People who have success are mostlyorganized.

127) People who have success are mostlycapable.

128) People who have success are mostlynot worried.129) People who have success are mostlyoriented towards success.

130) People who have success mostlyhave a realistic image of themselves.


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131) People who have success expandtheir experience willingly.

132)

People who have success havecontrolled circumstances many times.

133) People who have success havemostly had a strong comeback of

professional achievement.

134) People who have success are mostlynot influenced by other persons.

135) People who have success have agreat obligation to fight for everything

they can become.

136) People who have success have theobligation to choose the objectives they

can achieve.

137) People who have success are mostlymore optimistic than the others.138) People who have success have

peaceful relations with co-developers.

139) People who have success deal withnon secure social situations.


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140) People who have success have positive links between the way they

prepare and the objectives chosen to beachieved.

141) People who have success preparethemselves continuously day by day.

142) People who have success have agreat capacity of rapid perception.143) People who have success have agreat capacity of rapidly taking decisions.

144) People who have success mostlycontrol the necessary discipline to achieve

the successes they desire.

145) People who have success mostlyhave a quiet conception of imaginative

life.

146) People who have success have avery dynamic behavior.147) People who have success have a

burning desire to succeed.

148) People who have success seek to


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build a life on rational thoughts.

149) People who have successvoluntarily assume only when they havespontaneous successes the achievement of

the goal.

150) People who have success are mostlycurious.

151) People who have success alsosupport the collaborators of people who

have successes.

152) Most of the people who havesuccesses are willing to try new ways to

achieve new successes.

153) Most of the people who havesuccesses have the ability to approach

problems simultaneously from different

points of view.154) The majority of people who havesuccesses continuously react to become

more efficient.

155) The majority of people who have


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successes have a corresponding behavior

with others.

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The majority of people who havesuccesses have a warm behavior towards

people.

157) The majority of people who havesuccesses are giving.

158) The majority of people who havesuccesses have a reserved and shy

behavior.

159) The majority of people who havesuccesses have a corresponding social

behavior.

160) The majority of people who havesuccesses are optimistic.

161) The majority of people who havesuccesses are realistic in everything theydo.

162) The majority of people who havesuccesses are calm in stressing situations.

163) The majority of the decisions taken


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at first sight are wrong.

164) Wrong decisions must be revealedas being wrong as soon as possible.165) A wrong decision must not beapplied.

166) A decision, in order to be fair mustbe legal also.

167) An illegal decision must be changedwith a good decision as soon as possible.

168) Many well-known failures are dueto wrong decisions.

169) The majority of decisions have bothpositive effects as well as negative effects.

170) Decisions must be taken so as tohave a maximum of few negative effects.

171) Before taking a decision we mustbuild and consider all possible effects thatit can have, both negative and positive

ones.

172) Those who know how to take positive decisions have more and greater


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successes.

173) People who know how to takepositive decisions can perfect themselves.174) People who take positive decisionsare engines of development.

175) We each have the right to take apositive decision.

176) We each have the obligation to takea positive decision.

177) It is a necessity that each of us takesa positive decision.

178) People who take positive decisionshave more and greater chances to achieve

their desired future.

179) People who take positive decisionsare mostly credible.

180) People who take positive decisionsmostly have few mistakes and even zeromistakes.

181) People who take positive decisionshave greater and more chances to achieve


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themselves.

182) The majority of people who take positive decisions more easily maintainthe positive social relations that they have.

183) Spouses must reward each othershugs with hugs.

184) Spouses must reward each otherskisses with kisses.185) Spouses must reward each otherstenderness with tenderness.

186) Friends must reward each otherstrue friendship with true friendship.

187) Friends must reward each othersfairness with fairness.

188) Compliments must always be madewhen we have the opportunity.

189) Compliments must be encouraged.190) Compliments create satisfactions.191) We must never be cheap withcompliments.

192) Compliments must be appreciated.


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193) Contradicting for the sake ofcontradiction is a great mistake.

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Changing for the sake of change is agreat mistake.

195) Life is a lot more beautiful whenyou feel you truly live it.

196) Life is a lot more pleasant when youfeel you truly live it.197) Love failures must never discourageus.

198) Failures in friendships must neverdiscourage us.

199) Loving and being loved by theperson you love is a great achievement.

200) Friendships sometimes become loverelations.

201) Those who know how to achievetrue friendships have more chances toachieve happy marriages.

202) True friendships help us more easilyachieve true loves.


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203) True friendships help us knowpeople better.

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We must persevere until we succeedin achieving the desired true friendships.

205) We must persevere until we succeedin achieving the desired marriage.

206) We must persevere until we succeedin achieving true love.207) True friendships must permanentlyour models.

208) Happy marriages must permanentlybe our models.

209) True loves must permanently be ourmodels.

210) We must appreciate in each personwhat is worth appreciating.

211) We must never be poor inappreciation.212) Just appreciations help people

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213) Spouses must appreciate each other.


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214) Appreciations must be as fair aspossible.

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People want to be appreciatedcorrectly.

216) He who makes correct appreciationsis appreciated a lot by people.

217) He who makes correct appreciationsis esteemed by people.218) Love gives trust to the one who isloved.

219) Complements satisfy affairs ofappreciation of people.

220) We must primarily see in everyperson his qualities.

221) Spouses must see the qualities firstin each other.

222) Kindness makes us moreappreciated.223) Kindness must never lack.224) Correct appreciations areappreciated a lot.


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225) The conversation between spousesis vital for the marriage.

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The conversation between spousescontributes a lot to maintaining happy

marriages.

227) When there is no correspondingconversation between spouses the

marriage has a lot to suffer.228) Corresponding conversations can belearned.

229) In order to achieve true friendshipswe must persevere until we succeed.

230) Even if we have had many failuresin achieving true friendships we must

persevere until we succeed.

231) We must never let ourselves bebrought down by failures.232) Failures must be used to succeed.233) Some failures can contributeenormously to achieving incredible

successes.


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234) Failures must never lead us to panic.235) Failures can be prevented.236)

Our mind can be constantlymaintained young.

237) Failures must never immobilize us.238) Each man is generally capable ofloving and of being loved.

239) In life, we will succeed if we do notlet ourselves be brought down by failures.

240) Mans most beautiful ideal is that ofachieving a true reciprocal love.

241) The happiness created by love ishard to equal.

242) Laughter makes us younger.243) Laughter makes us be in a goodmood.

244) Laughter reduces stress.245) Laughter prevents stress.246) Laughter strengthens us.247) The mutual vituperation of spousesis very harmful to the marriage.


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248) The mutual vituperation of lovers isvery harmful for their love.

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The mutual vituperation of friendsis very harmful to their friendship.

250) The mutual vituperation of friendsmust be prevented.

251) The mutual vituperation of spousesmust be prevented.252) The mutual vituperation of loversmust be prevented.

253) Failed marriages are painful but wemust never stop to try and make a new

marriage.

254) Confidence in ourselves gives uspower to persevere.

255) Confidence in ourselves increasesour chances to succeed in life.256) Confidence in ourselves makes usmore optimistic.

257) Confidence in ourselves is good forour health.


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258) Continuous self perfection helps ussucceed in life.

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Continuous self perfection helps usachieve a happy marriage.

260) Continuous self perfection helps usmore easily cope with difficulties.

261) Arrogance between spouses isunacceptable.262) Arrogance between friends isunacceptable.

263) Arrogance between lovers isunacceptable.

264) Being morose is bad for themarriage.

265) Being morose must be prevented.266) The hope of being happy helps usachieve our own happiness.267) The hope of being happy must beappreciated.

268) The hope of being happy must beencouraged.


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269) The cheerless man makes friendsharder.

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The optimistic man more easilymakes friends.

271) The optimistic man more easilyachieves a happy marriage.

272) The optimistic man more easilyachieves true love.273) The optimistic man more easilymaintains mature love.

274) The optimistic man more easilymaintains a happy marriage.

275) The optimistic man more easilymaintains an efficient cooperation.

276) The optimistic man must beappreciated.

277) The optimistic man must besupported.278) The optimistic man must beencouraged.

279) The optimistic man has more


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chances to achieve personal goals.

280) The optimistic man has morechances to achieve successes.281) The optimistic man has morechances to surpass himself.

282) The optimistic man many timespasses optimism to those around him.

283) The optimistic man must be a modelof optimism.

284) Life with an optimistic husband ismore beautiful.

285) Life with an optimistic wife is amore beautiful.

286) Optimism makes our life morebeautiful.

287) Optimism sometimes createsoptimism.288) Optimism makes us confident in thefuture.

289) Optimism makes us confident inourselves.


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290) Optimism is good for our health.291) Optimism does a lot of good tocooperation.292) Optimism does a lot of good to themarriage.

293) Optimism does a lot of good tolove.

294) Optimism does a lot of good tointer-human relations.

295) Optimism prevents many failures.296) Optimism prevents many troubles.297) Optimism helps us self perfect.298) Optimism helps us surpassourselves.

299) Optimism helps us succeed in life.300) Optimism helps us achieve moresuccesses in life.301) By understanding ourselves we canachieve more successes.

302) By understanding ourselves wehave more chances to achieve our personal


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goals.

303) By understanding ourselves wehave more chances to self-perfect.304) By understanding ourselves wehave more chances to surpass ourselves.

305) Mistakes can be avoided.


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About the author and his ideas

Hmm ... I do not know where to begin. It is difficult to really know

someone. Often, the person on whom

you stopped is difficult to decipher.

That is not the case of Gheorghe

Cornel Ardelean. From the first

moment I knew and he got my

attention.

I recognized him immediately

from the descriptions made by hiscolleagues: "One small, with white

haired man with many books and

newspapers in his hand, they said. My

curiosity pushed me to address him,cheerful, open; he began to talk to me

as if we knew each other for years. A

person opened both to dialogue as well

as current jokes. I got to know him


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even better when we met at Club

Central. A nice company as long as

you succeed not to be attracted in that part of the discussion where his future

plans are. Plans that are repeated

endlessly become a burden for the

people around him. Not because it

would be something wrong in what he

says but through their very

repeatability.

On several occasions I have read

some of his meditations, others have been published in the magazine

"Freedom in Thought".

By their simplicity and the fact

that they expresses absolute truths, forthose who do not take seriously the

writings of Cornel Gheorghe Ardelean

they may seem indeed to read seriously

what to write, I bet they will find


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among the apparently simple lines, a

message equal to a person who has

suffered enormously because ofhuman and system injustices.

The cry of a man eager for more,

eager for simplicity, for the truth and

for a Utopia, wishful of a perfect

world.

If even 10% of what he writes

would be put into practice by us, then

certainly we would set ourselves and

with others at the same time.Surprisingly, nobody sees that Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean even puts into

practice what he writes, which means

that he really believes it.With an analytical style

impossible to confuse, Mr. Cornel

Gheorghe Ardelean is successful in a

few lines and penetrates into the


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essence of truth. By this thinking, he is

venturing into an area still unexplored

in specialized literature.Specialized topics are part of the

absolute truths that each of us have

deep within our being, so

acknowledged, so obvious, so natural

that no one has ventured to put them

on paper.

But surely there will be many

who, after reading and rereading these

absolute truths will solve many of the problems of their existence. The

novelty that makes Cornel Gheorghe

Ardelean stand out besides putting on

paper a well-known truth, is that it alsoleads to problem solving. It is a

promising start in an area of astute

competition and often an unscrupulous

one.


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I wish you success Mr. Ardelean

and may these meditations help as

many people as possible. Do not giveup, continue on the path that you have

chosen and maybe in the nearer or

further future the world will be at least

5% as you want it to be.

Do not give up ... We ... only a

few, I must admit, we are beside you.

SIMION SEBASTIAN EDUARD

Graduate of the Academy of Theater

and Film

Former journalist of the national

newspapers and Romania Libera,Evenimentul Zilei, was Her Majesty's

Paul of Romanias adviser

a businessman resident in Italy


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Gheorghe Cornel

Ardelean Writer (66

books written in English,

66 in Romanian,7 edited)born 03rd.11.1954, in

Macea, Arad County,

Email:

[email protected]

www.ardeleancornel.euI have known the economist Cornel Ardelean

for dozens of years, as a guy that outraged the

thought of some who did not believe in his ideas,

innovative, simply put but with a long and efficient

duration. After the Revolution he proved that he is

indeed a good economist by founding the first smallenterprise of Arad County, in the year 1990 of the

post-communist age.

I have always been by Cornel Ardeleans

side, never ceasing to believe that the man can rise

above his time if he wishes to and if he has the

potential to do it.

SABIN BODEA

President of the Writers League of Romania

Arad Branch

ISBN 978-973-88998-0-3

ISBN 978 606 8048 09 3

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MEDITATIONS,QUOTES vol24 (1)