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MassofThanksgiving
MARKALOYSIUSHEFFERNAN
10April1953-11October2017
SacredHeart,Kew
MarkAloysiusHeffernan
LovedSonofFrank(dec)andNinoe(dec)
AdoringHusbandtoDonna
BeautifulandGentleFathertoSimon,Claire,Madeleine,TimothyandStephanie
DedeandPoppatoAlec,Stella,LeoandIvy
BrothertoDan(dec),Vin(dec),Xavier(dec),Trudy,BerniceandKathy
FriendtoCountless|AccountanttoHundreds|CommunityMan
ENTRANCESONG
WindBeneathMyWings,BetteMidler
Itmusthavebeencoldthereinmyshadow,Toneverhavesunlightonyourface.Youwerecontenttoletmeshine,that'syourway.Youalwayswalkedastepbehind.
SoIwastheonewithalltheglory,Whileyouweretheonewithallthestrength.Abeautifulfacewithoutanameforsolong.Abeautifulsmiletohidethepain.
Chorus
Didyoueverknowthatyou'remyheroAndeverythingIwouldliketobe?Icanflyhigherthananeagle,Foryouarethewindbeneathmywings.
Itmighthaveappearedtogounnoticed,ButI'vegotitallhereinmyheart.IwantyoutoknowIknowthetruth,ofcourseIknowit.Iwouldbenothingwithoutyou.
Chorus,repeat
Thankyou,thankyou,ThankGodforyou,thewindbeneathmywings.
INTRODUCTORYRITES FrBrendan: InthenameoftheFather,andoftheSon,
andoftheHolySpirit.All: Amen.GREETING FrBrendan: ThegraceofourLordJesusChrist,andthe
loveofGod,andthecommunionoftheHolySpiritbewithyouall.
All: Andwithyourspirit. LIGHTINGOFTHEPASCHALCANDLE DominicHogan FrBrendan: Inbaptism,MarkreceivedthelightofChrist.
Hewalkedasachildofthelightandkepttheflameoffaithaliveinhisheart.
SPRINKLINGWITHHOLYWATERGemmaLambe&CarolineHealyFrBrendan: WhenMarkwasbaptised,hewasbaptised
intothelifeanddeathofJesus.Nowthathehasendedthisjourneyoffaith,wesprinklehiscoffinwithwaterthatisholyasareminderofChrist'spromiseofeverlastinglife.
PLACINGOFTHEPALLTrudyConnolly,BerniceRasmussen,KathyCromieFrBrendan: AtMark'sbaptismhebecameanewcreation
andwasclothedinChrist.
All: MayChristenfoldMarkinhisloveand
bringhimintoeternallife.
PLACINGOFSYMBOLS
Cross–SimonHeffernan
FamilyPhoto-Alec&StellaHeffernan(Mark'sgrandchildren)
WeddingRing-DonnaHeffernan
Calculator-LizClancy(Mark'sniece)
SydneySwanscap–MaryConnolly(Mark'sniece)
WORDSOFREMEMBRANCE
TimandMadeleineHeffernan
NeilCrawford
DonnaHeffernan
OPENINGPRAYER
FrBrendan: EternalGod,grantpeaceandmercytoMark.MaythecareanddevotionofhislifeonearthfindalastingrewardinHeaven.Lookkindlyonusnow,asweturntoyourcompassionandlove.Strengthenourfaithinourloss.
WeaskthisthroughChristourLord.
All: Amen.
LITURGYOFTHEWORD
FIRSTREADING BillClancy
AreadingfromtheBookofIsaiah25:6-9
TheLORDofhostswillpreparealavishbanquetforallpeoplesonthismountain;Abanquetofagedwine,choicepieceswithmarrow,Andrefined,agedwine.AndonthismountainHewillswallowupthecoveringwhichisoverallpeoples,Eventheveilwhichisstretchedoverallnations.Hewillswallowupdeathforalltime,AndtheLordGODwillwipetearsawayfromallfaces,AndHewillremovethereproachofHispeoplefromalltheearth;FortheLORDhasspoken.Anditwillbesaidinthatday,“Behold,thisisourGodforwhomwehavewaitedthatHemightsaveus.ThisistheLORDforwhomwehavewaited;LetusrejoiceandbegladinHissalvation.”
ThewordoftheLord.
All: ThanksbetoGod.
RESPONSORIALPSALM(SUNG)
TheLordismyShepherd-Boniwell
TheLordismyShepherd,andIwanttofollow,whereverheleadsme,whereverhegoes.Overthemountains,thewatersandby-ways,valleysandhighwayshe’swaitingforme.
Refrain Iwanttogotomeethimthere,tolaymyselfdowninhislove.TheLordismyshepherd,andIwanttofollow,whereverheleadsme,whereverhegoes.
Andwhileonthejourneytowherewearegoing,hepromisedtobetheretohelpusalong.Andoverthemountainswe’llwalkontogether,toknowallthewondershe’sgiventome.
Refrain Iwanttogotomeethimthere,tolaymyselfdowninhislove.TheLordismyshepherd,andIwanttofollow,whereverheleadsme,whereverhegoes.
SECONDREADINGPatRasmussen
AreadingfromPhillipians1:4-11
IthankmyGodeverytimeIrememberyou.
Inallmyprayersforallofyou,Ialwayspraywithjoybecauseofyourpartnershipinthegospelfromthefirstdayuntilnow,beingconfidentofthis,thathewhobeganagoodworkinyouwillcarryitontocompletionuntilthedayofChristJesus.
Itisrightformetofeelthiswayaboutallofyou,sinceIhaveyouinmyheartand,whetherIaminchainsordefendingandconfirmingthegospel,allofyoushareinGod'sgracewithme.GodcantestifyhowIlongforallofyouwiththeaffectionofChristJesus.
Andthisismyprayer:thatyourlovemayaboundmoreandmoreinknowledgeanddepthofinsight,sothatyoumaybeabletodiscernwhatisbestandmaybepureandblamelessforthedayofChrist,filledwiththefruitofrighteousnessthatcomesthroughJesusChrist-tothegloryandpraiseofGod.
ThewordoftheLord.
All: ThanksbetoGod.
GOSPELACCLAMATION
All: Alleluia!Alleluia!
ThisisthewillofmyFather,saystheLord,thatallwhobelieveintheSon
willhaveeternallifeandIwillraisethemtolifeagainonthelastday.
Alleluia
GOSPEL
FrDave: TheLordbewithyou.
All: Andwithyourspirit.
FrDave: AreadingfromtheHolyGospelaccordingtoMatthew,6:25-34
"ThereforeItellyou,donotworryaboutyourlife,whatyouwilleatordrink,oraboutyourbody,whatyouwillwear.Isnotlifemorethanfood,andthebodymorethanclothes?
Lookatthebirdsoftheair:theydonotsoworreaporstoreawayinbarns,andyetyourheavenlyFatherfeedsthem.Areyounotmuchmorevaluablethanthey?
Cananyoneofyoubeworryingaddasinglehourtoyoulife?Orsinglecubittoyourheight?
Andwhydoyouworryaboutclothes?Seehowtheflowersofthefieldgrow.Theydonotlabourorspin,yetItellyouthatnotevenSolomoninallhissplendourwasdressedlikeoneofthose.
IfthatishowGodclothesthegrassofthefield,whichisheretodayandtomorrowisthrownintothefire,willhenotmuchmoreclotheyou-youoflittlefaith?
Sodonotworry,saying'Whatshallweeat?'or'Whatshallwewear?'
ForitistheGentileswhostriveforallthesethings,andyourheavenlyFatherknowsthatyouneedthem.
Butseekfirsthiskingdomandhisrighteousness,andallthesethingswillbegiventoyouaswell.Sodon'tbeanxiousabouttomorrow,fortomorrowwillworryaboutitself.Liveonedayatatime.
ThisistheGospeloftheLord.
All: PraisetoyouLordJesusChrist.
HOMILY
FrBrendan
PRAYERSOFTHEFAITHFUL
FrBrendan: Infaithandlove,wepraytoourGod.
PhillipChappell: WeprayfortheChurchanditsteachingonlifeeternal.MaythisbeseenasacontinuationofthePromiseofJesusthatHewillgivelifetothefulltoMarkintheKingdomofGod.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
StewartOldfield: WeprayforMarkwhohasbeentakenfromusinthissuddenway.Weremembertheincrediblewarmthhebroughttoourlives,andtothelivesofsomanypeople.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
FionaSlocombe: MayallthewonderfulmemorieswehaveofMarkstaywithusandinspireusinourcompassionandunderstandingofothers.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
DonRoyce: ForallwhomournMark,maythepainoftheirsorrowbesoftenedandtheemptinessbefilledwithlove.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
GillCosta: WegivethankstothestaffatTheAlfredhospitalwhocaredforMarkduringhislastdays.Weprayforallwholivetheirliveswiththeaimofmakingthesufferingofotherseasiertobear.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
MartinHeffernan: WerememberMark’sparentsFrankandNinoe,hisbrotherDanandVin,hissisterXavier,hisbrotherinlawPatrickandhisnephewsGrantandPeter.MaytheyallbeunitedintheKingdomofGod.Lordhearus.
All: Lord,hearourprayer.
FrBrendan: WeoffertheseprayersinfaithandlovethroughChristOurLordAmen.
LITURGYOFTHEEUCHARIST
PREPARATIONOFGIFTSAdrianConnolly&LukeCromie
HYMN MEDITATIONFROMTHAIS,JULES
MASSENET
EUCHARISTICMINISTERSTimHogan&AnnaStrafford
COMMUNIONMUSIC HALLELUJAH,LEONARDCOHEN
YouAreMine,DavidHaas
IwillcometoyouinthesilenceIwillliftyoufromallyourfearYouwillhearMyvoiceIclaimyouasMychoiceBestill,andknowIamnear
IamhopeforallwhoarehopelessIameyesforallwholongtoseeIntheshadowsofthenight,IwillbeyourlightComeandrestinMe
Chorus Donotbeafraid,IamwithyouIhavecalledyoueachbynameComeandfollowMeIwillbringyouhomeIloveyouandyouaremine
IamstrengthforallthedespairingHealingfortheoneswhodwellinshameAlltheblindwillsee,thelamewillallrunfreeAndallwillknowMyname
Chorus
IamtheWordthatleadsalltofreedomIamthepeacetheworldcannotgiveIwillcallyourname,embracingallyourpainStandup,now,walk,andlive
Chorus
PRESENTATIONOFMARK'SLIFE
“Timestheyareachanging”
PRAYERAFTERCOMMUNION
FrBrendan: Letuspray.LordGod,whoseSonleftus,intheSacramentofhisBody,foodforthejourney,mercifullygrantthat,strengthenedbyit,ourfatherandbrotherMarkmaycometotheeternaltableofChrist,wholivesandreignsforeverandever.
All: Amen.
FINALCOMMENDATIONANDFAREWELL
FrBrendan: Beforewegoourseparateways,letustakeleaveofourbrother,Mark.Mayourfarewellexpressourloveforhim;mayiteaseoursadnessandstrengthenourhope.OnedayweshalljoyfullygreethimagainwhentheloveofChrist,whichconquersallthings,destroysevendeathitself.
SIGNSOFFAREWELL
(ThecoffinissprinkledwithholywaterasareminderofthelifeofGodwhichbeganinbaptism;itisalsoincensedasasignofthedignityofthebodyofthedeceased.)
FrBrendan: Withwater,andwithincense,wefarewellMark.SaintsofGod,cometohisaid!CometomeethimangelsoftheLord!
All: ReceivehissoulandpresenthimtoGodtheMostHigh.
FrBrendan: MayChristwhohascalledyou,takeyoutohimself;mayangelsleadyoutoAbraham'sside.
All: ReceivehissoulandpresenthimtoGodtheMostHigh.
FrBrendan: Givehimeternalrest,OLord,andmayyourlightshineonhimforever.
All: ReceivehissoulandpresenthimtoGodtheMostHigh.
PRAYEROFCOMMENDATION
FrBrendan: Intoyourhands,Fatherofmercies,wecommendourbrotherMarkinthesureandcertainhopethat,togetherwithallwhohavediedinChrist,hewillrisewithhimonthelastday.MercifulLord,turntowardusandlistentoourprayers;openthegatesofparadisetoyourservantandhelpuswhoremaintocomfortoneanotherwithassurancesoffaith,untilweallmeetinChristandarewithyouandwithourbrotherforever.
WeaskthisthroughChristourLord.
All: Amen.
FrBrendan: Maytheangelsleadyouintoparadise;maythemartyrscometowelcomeyouandtakeyoutotheholycity,thenewandeternalJerusalem.Eternalrestgrantuponhim,O
Lord,andletperpetuallightshineuponhim.Mayherestinpeace.
All: Amen.
CONCLUDINGRITE
FrBrendan: TheLordbewithyou.
All: Andwithyourspirit.
FrBrendan: MayalmightyGodblessyou,theFather,theSonandtheHolySpirit.
All: Amen.
FrBrendan: GoinpeaceglorifyingtheLordbyyourlife.
All: Amen.
RECESSIONAL
OnEagles'Wings,lyricsbyJoshGraven
YouwhodwellintheshelteroftheLord,WhoabideinHisshadowforlife,SaytotheLord,"MyRefuge,MyRockinWhomItrust."
Refrain AndHewillraiseyouuponeagle'swings,Bearyouonthebreathofdawn,Makeyoutoshinelikethesun,
AndholdyouinthepalmofHisHand.
Youneednotfeartheterrorofthenight,Northearrowthatfliesbyday,UnderhiswingsyourrefugeHisfaithfulnessyourshield
FortoHisangelsHe'sgivenacommand,Toguardyouinallofyourways,Upontheirhandstheywillbearyouup,Lestyoudashyourfootagainstastone.
Refrain
PALLBEARERSClaireHeffernan
SamEastick
TimHeffernan
MickCromie
TerryHeffernan
JohnCumper
SimonHeffernan
DominicHogan
Donna,Simon,Claire,Madeleine,TimandStephaniewould
liketothankyouforyourloveandsupport,andforsharingthiscelebrationofMark’slife.
Markwillbeprivatelycremated.
AttheconclusionofMassyouarewarmlyinvitedtojointhefamilyforrefreshmentsandtoshareourstoriesofMarkat
the
Q.P.O(186HighSt,Kew)from2.00pm
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