Living With Honour by Rupak

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He is the founder of qualified learning system .He is

Business Consultant and successful entrepreneur; he isalso much sought-after speaker. He is the author ofinternational Bestseller book YOU CAN WIN. He gotLIFE TIME ACHIVEMENT AWARD for the causes of

Humanitarian Service to the Society

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1. Principles Of Honour

2. Foundation For Success3. Grace Under Fire

4. Character And Reputation

5. Leaders Or Misleaders

6. Leaders Are Forever7. Corruption

8. Teaching Honour

9. Freedom Not Free

10. Justice

11. Honour Above Honour

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Honourable living is about accomplishment not justachievement

Honour- Is about live with dignity

Honourable- Is to beworthy respect

ADVANTAGE-It gives meaning of life

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Values-Values are universal benchmarks

Consistency-

It means behaving in the same way under similarsituation

Character-

It is sum of total of many qualities which reflectintegrity, honesty, ethics, courage, mental toughnessetc.

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Integrity-

The integrity of a person is not measured by hisstatus or profession but by his conduct

What is difference between integrity and

honesty?A person may be honest but could still be lackingintegrity

Honest- Genuine honesty is motivated more by desire to dothe right thing than the desire to not get caught

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Ethics- Ethics is commitment to higher order of moralvalues and an ability to distinguish right from wrong

Conscience- Conscience is the guiding lamp that makes us dothe right thing

Loyalty- Loyalty is hallmark ofstrong character is an attitudeas well as action

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An honourable person is-

1. Bold but not a bully

2. Humble but not apologetic

3. Confident but not conceited

4. Proud but not arrogant

5. Tender but not weak6.Strong but not rude

7. Firm but not stubborn

8. Cool but not cold9. In love with life but ready to die

10. content but not complacent

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What is true courage? It is ability to face criticism. True courage is what ittakes to stand firm when you stand alone1.What would you have done?

2.What would you advise the girl to do ?3.How would you handle the situation?

4.What are the girl`s choices?

a. She could expose the moneylender by asking him toshow both the pebbles.

b. She could refuse and sacrifice her father.c. She could take a black pebble and sacrifice herself to her

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Five steps to develop courage -

1. Face up to reality.2. Re-examine your value system and take a stand.

3. Build character, build courage.

4. Practise small acts of courage.5. Perfect practice leads to preparation.

Cowards die times many before their death.The valiant never taste of death but once.

William Shakespeare

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What is character?

Character is not a gift , it is an accomplishment.Character is built bit by bit through hard work.REPUTATION CHARACTER

1. Reputation is what other

people think of us.

1. Character is knowing who we are.

2. Reputation is the picture. 2. Character is the reality.

3. Reputation may be damage by

others.

3. Character can only be damage by

oneself.

4. Reputation is a bonus. 4.Character is an achievement

5. Reputation may grow like

mushroom.

5. Character grows like an oak tree

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What is Leadership?

Leadership is not about making emotional speechesand leading demonstrations. Leadership involves trust

When was the last time you took a stand?Leaders take bold stands. Cowards on the other handavoid situation that challenge them

Why are people afraid to take a stand?Because it is inconvenient. They feel "I am too weakand helpless and the problem too strong. I can notmake a difference

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What is good leadership?

Pseudo leaders Great leaders

1.position 1.action

2.control 2.support3.talk 3.listen

4.scare 4.inspire and motivate

5.self-centred 5.relating well to others

6.rely on reputation 6.rely on character

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If you want become a good leader ask yourself the

following question-

1.Can people trust me?

2.am I doing the best?

3.Am I committed to the task?

4.Do I care about others?

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Leader who leave a legacy are those who start out ontheir journey with great ideas and a deep sense ofcommitment.

Genuine leaders think not only today buttomorrow and the day after.

Such leaders change the course of history.

Leadership is about taking initiative and

being accountable.

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Sources of power for leaders-

1. Power by position-Position gives authority and authority gives power butonly good behaviour begets respect.

2. power by proxy-

This is power that is given or received through aprocess of delegation by a higher authority

3. Power by personality-

This is often referred to as charisma.4. Power by proficiency-

Proficiency in any particular field can give limited power

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5. Power by principle-

This flows our value system , beliefs, courage, conviction

and integrity.

MANAGER LEADER

1. The manager

maintain.

1. The leader develops.

2.The managercounts on controls.

2. The leader counts ontrust.

3. The manager

does thing right.

3. The leader does the

right thing.

The difference between management and leader-

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What is corruption?

In a corrupt society, laws are spider webs that catchthe weak and the poor but can be destroyed by the richand powerful.

Corruption is evil desire to exploit the unfortunate,the defenceless and the vulnerable.

Causes of corruption-Scarcity-

Corruption can result from scarcity of essential goodswhere demand is high and supply is low.

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Abject poverty-

For the sake of survival, a person has to resort to

corrupt practices.Acquire wealth-

To meet the object of luxurious living, people resort to

corruptionHow do we fight corruption?

1. Create strong and honest leadership who will guide

the citizens and the nation through this process.

2. Check the lure of easy money and power through astrongjudiciary.

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3. Be prepared to sacrifice in the struggle for humanityas opposition will come from vested interests

4. Create a national movement against corruption byeducating citizens of their social obligation.

History stands witness to the fact thatthose who cut their country`s throat end up

cutting their own

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Education-Character or Academics- Education is soul of society.

There are two kind of education

a) one that helps you make a living and one thatmakes your life.

b)The real end of any education is to build characterand help develop good citizens of tomorrow.

Honour in marriage

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You are the wealth of this nation.

There are two kinds of people talker and doers.

A nation that forgets its freedom freighters stand tolose its own freedom.

God and the solider

God and the solider,All men adore

In time of trouble,And no more;

For when war is overAnd all things righted,

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Justice and honourable living go hand in hand.

No country can survive where:

1. Lawlessness becomes the law.

2. The guilty go unpunished.3. Citizens are indifferent.

Justice is truth of action.

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It is better to be honourable than to be honoured.

WINNERS

Don`t do different things.They

Do things differently!

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