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As unmarried partners, do you know where youstand legally? What you rights are over jointfinances? Who is responsible for the children?What happens to your home if you split up? Cohabitation worries? Find out exactly whereyou stand!If you live together umarried, you might be surprised to learnhow little the law protects you. How few rights you have overproperty and money, however long you have lived together andregardless of any children.

‘Common law’ marriage is a myth. The law recognises marriedcouples (or couples in civil partnerships) as special, but oftenignores the relationship between unmarried people. This canundermine your position financially and emotionally shouldyou separate or your partner die without making a Will.

In this book, solicitor and broadcaster Philippa Pearson coversthe important legal issues that affect couples living together –from property and finances, children and illness to what to do inthe event of separation or death. Most importantly, she tells youabout the steps you can take to ensure you are legally protected.

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The Quick Guide to Living Togetherby Philippa Pearson

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Contents

The author iv

Some facts and figures v

Introduction vii

1 Things to consider when you decide to live together 1

2 Property and money 17

3 Children 27

4 Benefits and taxation 37

5 Gay and lesbian rights 41

6 Domestic violence 53

7 Splitting up 59

Appendices1 Sources of documents 74

2 Sample documents 76

3 Useful contacts 95

Index 101

The author

Philippa Pearson specialises in all aspects of family law. She

practises as a solicitor at Norris and Miles solicitors in Tenbury

Wells, a firm specialising in family, private client, conveyancing

and company law, as well as commercial and civil litigation. She

also writes and lectures on many aspects of family law, and is the

author of the Separation & Divorce Kit also published by Lawpack

Publishing.

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Introduction

Human beings thrive on living together. As Pooh Bear put it, ‘it’s

so much better with two’. Or is it? If a live-in relationship goes

wrong because of separation, illness or death, many complex

problems can arise and unfortunately, more often than not, the

law does not help. So it is important to protect yourself and your

loved ones by taking the right steps before problems occur.

There are many myths about the law relating to those who live

together which give people a false sense of security. The most

common myth is that a relationship is protected in law by

virtue of its being a ‘common law marriage’. But there are no

such people as ‘common law wives’ and ‘common law

husbands’, since the concept of a common law marriage was

abolished way back in 1753 by the Marriage Act. Despite the

fact that it is frequently referred to in the press, it plays no part

in the law of England and Wales.

Until recently in Scotland, there was a form of common law

marriage called ‘marriage by cohabitation with habit and repute’.

The theory behind this law was that if a man and woman

cohabited as husband and wife in Scotland for sufficient time

and were generally held and reputed to be husband and wife

and were free to marry each other, they would be presumed to

have consented to marry each other and if this presumption was

not overturned, they would be considered to be legally married.

This form of common law marriage has now been abolished by

the Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006.

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So, to conclude, if you are an unmarried couple living together or

if you are homosexual and not in a civil partnership, it is

extremely unclear as to whether you have any special rights

against your partner if you separate, however long you have

lived together and however many children you may have. This

means that you may not have any special rights to financial help

if things go wrong. But there are steps you can take to ensure

that you will be financially provided for in the event of

separation, illness or death.This book will help you to take those

steps and if you are one of the many people who did not take

any of these steps when your relationship was going well, then

don’t despair.This book will tell you how to make the most of the

law and about the protection you may be able to find.

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CHAPTER 1

Things to consider whenyou decide to live together

In the excitement of moving in together, the last thing you want

to think about is the legal issues, but it is always best to know

where you stand in the event of your relationship coming to an

end. Even if you have lived with your partner for years and have

children, you may still have no rights at all, so it is wise to

consider your position from the outset.

The various issues you should think about are as follows:

• Who owns your home (see chapter 2)?

• Do you have rights over each other’s finances (see chapter 2)?

• Do you want to make decisions on your lifestyle?

• What happens if one of you falls ill?

• What happens if one of you dies?

• If you are a gay couple, should you register your partnership

under the Civil Partnership Act 2004 (see chapter 5)?

It is also worthwhile making formal agreements on most of

these issues so that conflict can be avoided if any disputes arise.

To live together without doing so could leave you or your family

in a very vulnerable or uncertain position if one of you dies or

you split up, whether or not you are the one with good income

or most of the capital in your relationship.

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The agreements you should think about preparing are:

• A trust deed relating to the ownership of your property in

England and Wales or a registered minute of agreement in

Scotland (see chapter 2).

• A cohabitation agreement dealing with the financial

structure of your relationship (see below).

• A living together agreement on how you run your life (see

below).

• A Lasting Power of Attorney (Property and Affairs) to deal

with your money and assets in case either of you becomes

incapacitated (see below).

• A Lasting Power of Attorney (Personal Welfare) to deal with

how you wish to be cared for in case either of you becomes

incapacitated (see below).

• Mutual Wills, where each of you makes a Will to leave your

interest in assets (e.g. property, bank accounts and any other

assets you see fit) to the other, together with whatever other

provisions may be appropriate.

• A parental responsibility agreement if you have children

(see chapter 3).

Most of these agreements are explained in this chapter and the

parental responsibility agreement is discussed in chapter 3. A

few sample agreements can also be found in Appendix 2 at the

end of this book.

Do you want to make joint decisions aboutyour finances?

The cohabitation agreement

A cohabitation agreement can be drawn up between you to

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record the financial obligations you wish to have towards each

other in order to avoid dispute. It should cover the following:

• Who will pay the outgoings (electricity/water bills, etc.)?

• How will home repairs and improvements be agreed?

• How will those repairs and improvements be funded?

• In what circumstances will the home be sold? (These can be

more detailed than the provisions you would put in your

trust deed, since it could deal with such things as how old

the children may have to be or how many of them should be

living at home.)

• How will the joint accounts be operated?

• How will the joint credit cards be operated?

• What are your intentions regarding your property and

assets after your death? (Wills would still be required, but

the agreement can be important evidence if it shows that it

was agreed that certain terms would be included in a Will.)

• Who is responsible for any school fees?

• Will you each enter into a Lasting Power of Attorney

(Property and Affairs) or a Lasting Power of Attorney

(Personal Welfare) (see below)?

• How will your possessions be divided?

Only financial issues should be contained in a cohabitation

agreement; however, the agreement may not be upheld by the

courts because it is not necessarily binding under English or

Scottish law. In theory, as a ‘contract’ between two people it

should be capable of enforcement through the courts. In

practice, it has not yet been done. However, the courts and the

government have made it clear there is no fundamental

principle against their being enforced providing certain

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safeguards are met as described below. At worst, even if such an

agreement is not upheld, it will always be good evidence for the

court if there is a disagreement between a couple and legal

action follows. For instance, Joe and Val enter into a cohabitation

agreement in which they promise both will leave their share in a

property to the other. Joe dies before he gets around to making

his Will. Val, who is entitled to bring a claim against Joe’s estate

because she lived with him for over two years, can produce the

cohabitation agreement as evidence of Joe’s intentions thereby

stopping his share in the property going to his parents, who are

his next of kin under the intestacy rules. A simple template

agreement is included Appendix 2; this is meant as a guide only

and you are advised to take legal advice before drawing up your

own.

Reviewing the cohabitation agreement

As time goes on, your relationship may change and significant

things will happen in your life that may make the terms of the

cohabitation agreement unfair. If a cohabitation agreement is

clearly unjust, it is unlikely that it will be upheld by the courts.

Therefore, if anything significant does happen in your

relationship, it is wise to consider redrafting the cohabitation

agreement; such a reason may be:

• the birth of a child;

• one of you becomes seriously ill;

• one of you becomes disabled;

• one of you is made redundant;

• a significant change in your financial circumstances or the

financial contributions you each make towards your

relationship and your home;

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• one of you receives a large inheritance.

Remember that if you decide to marry, the cohabitation

agreement will not be treated as being a prenuptial agreement.

In this instance it will only provide evidence of what your

intentions were towards each other when you were living

together. This is because marriage is itself a contract and it

supercedes any pre-existing contract.

Do you want to make joint decisions aboutyour lifestyle?

A living together agreement

Some couples who decide to live together choose to enter into

a living together agreement. This is a document in which the

couple can record any moral or lifestyle issues that are non-legal

so that each party is clear as to what is expected of him from the

outset. This can then prevent disputes arising over matters that

are outside the compass of the law. It is therefore a separate

document from the cohabitation agreement, which deals with

legal issues, and the trust deed, which deals with property issues.

In a living together agreement you can deal with the following

matters:

• Who will have responsibility for cleaning the home?

• Who will have responsibility for cooking for the family?

• How will the children be brought up?

• What religious upbringing or type of schooling will they have?

• Who will you both turn to in the event of relationship

difficulties (e.g. to Relate, the relationship counselling

service, or to a faith)?

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• Any other issues that may be important to the two of you

and which you think need regulation.

Specialist family solicitors or mediators can draft living together

agreements for you, but couples can also prepare their own

since they are not intended to be legally binding. Since they are

not capable of enforcement some might say, ‘Why make one?’

For this reason they are rare in the UK, but some couples,

particularly those stung by a previous experience, might like to

put agreements of a non-legal nature in writing. An example of

a simple agreement is included in Appendix 2 at the end of this

book.

What happens if one of you falls ill?

Lasting Powers of Attorney

There is always the possibility that either you or your partner

may become mentally incapable as a result of illness or accident.

If you are married, it is unlikely that anybody would question

your spouse’s dealing with your affairs, but if you are not, your

partner may not automatically be viewed as your

‘representative’ and it is therefore wise in these circumstances to

draw up a formal document known as a Lasting Power of

Attorney (LPA) in England and Wales.There are two types of LPA:

LPA (Property and Affairs) and LPA (Personal Welfare). In Scotland

they are called a Continuing Power of Attorney (CPA) and a

Welfare Power of Attorney (WPA). The LPA (Property and Affairs)

(in Scotland it’s called a CPA) authorises your partner to act on

your behalf in all matters (subject to any restrictions or

conditions you include) concerning your property and affairs.

The LPA (Personal Welfare) (in Scotland it’s called a Welfare

Power of Attorney) authorises the Attorney to make decisions on

behalf of the Donor in respect of his general personal welfare.

Decisions about a person’s personal welfare are wide-ranging.

They can include decisions about where he lives, how he is cared

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for and what healthcare he receives; this can include specific

decisions about treatments or more general decisions.

Do I have the authority to look after my partner’saffairs if he becomes mentally incapable?

Not automatically, so it is advisable for you both todraw up a Lasting Power of Attorney (Property andAffairs) granting each other this right.

Before an LPA can be used (even when the Donor (being the

person who grants the Power of Attorney) has no problems with

capacity) it must be registered with the Office of the Public

Guardian (OPG), a government organisation that is responsible

for the management of the affairs of adults who are incapable.

Once registered an LPA can be used by the Attorney unless it is

expressed not to apply until the Donor lacks capacity in respect

of the specific decision. An LPA (Personal Welfare) can only be

used by the Attorney if the Donor lacks capacity in respect of the

particular decision.

It is absolutely vital that you trust the person whom you ask to

be your Attorney because if you are deemed to be mentally

incapable, you will not be able to unappoint him if you become

dissatisfied with the way in which he is acting on your behalf. It

can therefore be a good idea to appoint two people under the

LPA to avoid the possibility of abuse of the responsibility.

Before the Mental Capacity Act came into force on 1 October

2007 people could grant an Enduring Power of Attorney (EPA) to

a trusted person to act for them if they became incapacitated.

Although EPAs can no longer be created as they have been

replaced by LPAs, any existing EPA remains valid whether or not

it has been registered at the Court of Protection provided that

both the Donor of the power and the Attorney(s) signed the

document prior to 1 October 2007. As long as you consent to its

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use an EPA can be used by your Attorney while you still have

mental capacity. If you start to lose your mental capacity your

Attorney is under a duty to register the EPA with the Court of

Protection. While the registration is being processed your

Attorney can pay regular bills on your behalf and everyday items

such as food but they can not deal with large transactions such

as the sale of your house until your EPA is registered.

A General Power of Attorney

A General Power of Attorney (GPA) is similar to an LPA Property and

Affairs/CPA (in Scotland), but it is usually created for a set period of

time in cases where the Donor is going away or cannot deal with

his affairs for a time for another reason and he wishes to have

someone to act on his behalf.With a GPA, authority can be granted

to the Attorney for general or specific purposes. A GPA usually

stops at the end of a specific period or upon request or by the

Donor’s entering into a Deed of Revocation. It is automatically

revoked if the Donor loses mental capacity. Unlike the LPA it does

not need to be registered. Therefore, if you become mentally

incapacitated and you only have a GPA, your Attorney will have to

apply to the Court of Protection.The Court of Protection is a special

court which deals with the issues arising out of the affairs of those

who are incapable of managing their own.

In Scotland, there is no Court of Protection. If no CPA has been

signed and a person has become incapable of managing his

own affairs, you may have to apply to the Sheriff Court for a

guardianship order to allow you to deal with that person’s affairs

on his behalf. Advice can be obtained from a solicitor and the

Office of the Public Guardian (see Appendices for the address).

The meaning of ‘next of kin’ and ‘hospital proxies’

Although often used, the meaning of ‘next of kin’ is unclear,

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because the law does not define it. Hospitals, however, tend to

be flexible and will usually treat unmarried partners, or indeed

anyone you wish to nominate, as next of kin when you are

checked into hospital. The problem as to who is your next of kin

may arise, however, if you are unconscious when you arrive in

hospital and you have competing family members for the

position of next of kin (e.g. children from a first marriage). It can

therefore be a good idea to put a card in your wallet stating

whom you wish to be your next of kin, in case of emergency.

A person who is next of kin has no legal rights to see your medical

notes or deal with your personal possessions.Appointing someone

as next of kin will not give him any rights to inherit any property or

assets on your death.

Your next of kin cannot consent or refuse to consent to medical

treatment on your behalf – only you can do that. However, he can

tell the doctors what he believes your decision about medical

treatment would be if you were conscious.

Is my partner seen as my ‘next of kin’ when itcomes to my medical treatment?

The law is unclear on this matter. As a result, you canfill in a ‘healthcare proxy appointment form’, whichwill inform the hospital of your medical decisions.

However, a partner can still encounter difficulties with the medical

profession when the other partner is ill, particularly if their

relationship has been one of short duration.

To get round this, it is possible to ask your hospital to provide a

‘healthcare proxy appointment form’ and in it you can give precise

details of exactly what medical decisions can be taken by your

proxy or next of kin. Sometimes these can be attached to an LPA

(Personal Welfare) (see below).

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Fortunately, there is a legal principle known as the ‘doctrine of

necessity’ that justifies medical intervention in an emergency if

there is no one to speak on your behalf or there is a dispute

between competing people for the next of kin position.

Advance Medical Decisions/Living Wills

Any patient who is suffering from a terminal illness can

unwittingly cause disputes between relatives and partners if it is

not clear what is to happen about his medical treatment in the

event that he becomes incapacitated. An Advance Medical

Decision (England and Wales) or Living Will (Scotland) is a

document that can be used to avoid such conflicts, as in it a

person can state clearly in what circumstances a life support

machine can be turned off and where he would like to die (e.g.

at home or in hospital). This is similar to an LPA (Personal

Welfare). If you create an LPA (Personal Welfare) after an Advance

Medical Decision and the LPA (Personal Welfare) covers the same

treatment as the Advance Medical Decision, the Advance

Medical Decision will cease to be valid. If, however, you make an

Advance Medical Decision after an LPA (Personal Welfare) and

the Advance Medical Decision covers the same treatment as the

LPA (Personal Welfare), the Attorney of the LPA (Personal Welfare)

cannot consent to that treatment on your behalf.

What happens if one of you dies?

In the event that a partner in a couple living together dies, the

law in England and Wales that applies to them is very different

from that relating to married couples. First, the surviving partner

will have no right to claim a widow’s pension, unless a specific

nomination to that effect has been made and accepted by the

trustees of the pension fund. Secondly, the surviving partner will

not necessarily have any rights over his partner’s estate (i.e. his

property, money and belongings).

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By law, if one spouse in a married couple leaves a Will in which

he excludes the other spouse or leaves an inadequate amount of

money, then the surviving spouse can make an application to

the court to adjust the Will so that he receives sufficient money

from the estate of the deceased. The law is also similar for those

in registered civil partnerships.

If this happens to a spouse in Scotland, he can claim his legal

rights (called ‘jus relictae’ or ‘jus relicti’). If there are no children,

the spouse is entitled to half the deceased’s moveable estate (i.e.

everything except property) and if there are children, the spouse

is entitled to one-third of the moveable estate.

However, if a married person dies, but has not made a Will, the

law of intestacy will apply and his spouse will automatically

receive a large part of his estate.The law of intestacy is a fixed set

of rules relating to how an estate should be distributed in the

event that no Will is left.

In contrast, if your live-in partner dies in England and Wales and

he does not leave a Will or in his Will he leaves you insufficient

money, then you can apply for monies out of his estate only if:

1. you were financially dependent upon him at the time of

death; and/or

2. you had been living with your partner for a continuous period

of at least two years immediately prior to the date of death.

To be successful on an application made under either of the above,

you have to have good evidence to support either 1.or 2.and it can

be a good idea to refer to a cohabitation agreement if there is one

because this should have evidence as to what was intended.

In Scotland, the law is different. At present, you can apply for

monies out of your partner’s estate if you have a contractual

right to monies (perhaps in terms of the cohabitation

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agreement) and you can claim that you have made

contributions to his estate (e.g. mortgage payments or home

improvements) by payments made under the legal principle

known as ‘unjustified enrichment’.

The Family Law (Scotland) Act 2006, which came into force on 4

May 2006, states that if a cohabitant dies without leaving a Will,

the surviving partner can apply to the court for the payment of

a capital sum from the deceased’s estate and/or a court order for

the transfer of the property to him. The maximum the surviving

partner can be awarded by the court is equivalent to what a

spouse or civil partner would receive under the laws of intestacy.

Although there is no minimum period a couple must have

cohabited for prior to the death of one partner in order to apply

for a court order, the court will take into account the length of

time a couple have been living together, the nature of their

relationship and the type and extent of the financial

arrangements between them. The application to the court must

be made within six months of the death of the cohabitant or it

will not be considered by the court. The right to apply to the

court only applies if the cohabitant died intestate. If he left a Will

he can effectively disinherit his surviving partner or can make

alternative provision for him.

The law of intestacy

If someone dies without making a Will, he dies ‘intestate’.The law

of intestacy in England and Wales states the following:

1. The total estate goes to a surviving spouse (or registered

civil partner) where there are no children, parents, brothers

or sisters.

2. If the deceased is survived by a spouse (or registered civil

partner) and children, the spouse (or registered civil

partner) will get the ‘chattels’ (i.e. personal possessions) and

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a fixed sum (currently £250,000). In addition, the spouse (or

registered civil partner) will have the right to use one-half of

the remaining estate for the rest of his life and on his death

it will then pass to the deceased’s children. The remaining

one-half share goes directly to any children.

3. If there is a surviving spouse (or registered civil partner) and a

parent or brothers and sisters but no children, it is the same as

for 2. above, but the fixed sum received by the surviving

spouse (or registered civil partner) is increased to £450,000.

4. The total estate passes to the children of the deceased if

there is no surviving spouse (or registered civil partner).

5. If there is no surviving spouse (or registered civil partner) or

children, the estate passes to the blood relatives of the

deceased in order of closeness, starting with his parents.

In Scotland, the law of intestacy is as follows:

1. If the deceased left a spouse (or registered civil partner), the

surviving spouse (or registered civil partner) is entitled to

‘prior rights’ which consist of:

a) the deceased’s interest in a house where the spouse (or

registered civil partner) was resident at the date of

death currently up to the value of £300,000. If the house

is valued to be over this amount, the spouse (or

registered civil partner) is entitled to a cash amount of

£300,000;

b) furnishings and plenishings in the house currently up

to the value of £24,000; and

c) cash, currently £75,000 if there are no children and

£42,000 if there are.

Thereafter, only if there are no children, brothers or sisters, or

parents, the remainder of the estate goes to the surviving

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spouse (or registered civil partner).

2. If the deceased is survived by a spouse (or registered civil

partner) and children, the spouse (or registered civil

partner) is entitled to ‘prior rights’ (see above) and from

what is left a one-third share of the moveable estate. The

remainder of the estate goes to the children.

3. If there is a surviving spouse (or registered civil partner) and

a parent or siblings, the spouse (or registered civil partner) is

entitled to ‘prior rights’and from what is left a one-half share

of the moveable estate. The remainder is shared between

the sibling(s) and parent(s).

4. If there is no surviving spouse (or registered civil partner),

the total estate passes to the children.

5. If there is no surviving spouse (or registered civil partner), or

children, the estate passes to the closest blood relatives.

Will I automatically inherit my partner’s estatewhen he dies?

No, so you must both make Wills. If your partner dieswithout making a Will, his estate will be distributedamong his blood relatives in accordance with therules of intestacy.

There is also a rule in Scotland that if the deceased’s child dies

before him but there is a grandchild or grandchildren, the

grandchild or grandchildren are entitled to the share their

parent would have received if he had been alive at the time of

the deceased’s death.

So, to conclude, if you and your partner were not married or

registered as civil partners, the deceased’s estate will not pass to

you automatically, however long your relationship may have

lasted. It is therefore particularly important that you both make

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Wills. If you don’t, then under the law of intestacy you may

receive no money at all.

Children

In England and Wales, if you die and you have a child who is born

outside marriage, he will be treated by the law in exactly the

same way as the child of a married couple. This means that if he

does not receive sufficient inheritance under a Will, he can make

an application (using an adult who brings the application for

him as his ‘next friend’) against your estate simply by virtue of

being your child and if there is no Will, he is automatically

entitled under the law of intestacy as can be seen above.

In Scotland, similarly, a child born outside marriage is treated the

same way as a child of a married couple. If there is a Will but it

makes no or insufficient provision for the child (or children), then

the child is entitled to claim one-third of the moveable estate. If

there are, for example, two children, they can claim one-sixth

each. If there is a spouse (or registered civil partner), then the

child is entitled to one-half of the moveable estate. If, for

example, there are two children, then they can claim a quarter

each. This right is called ‘legitim’.

If there is no Will, the child will be entitled under the laws of

intestacy.

Making a Will

The law has precise rules about the way you should make your

Will. There is a wide range of DIY Will kits, books, forms and

software to help you, all available online at www.lawpack.co.uk.

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If you are a gay couple, should you registeryour relationship under the Civil PartnershipAct 2004?

The Civil Partnership Act 2004 came into effect in December

2005. Under the Act, a relationship between two people of the

same sex can be registered giving them both most (but not all)

of the rights and responsibilities that married couples have.

There are special rules for those that have had gender

reassignment and the Act does not apply to heterosexual (i.e.

opposite-sex) couples or to unregistered same-sex couples (with

a few exceptions). However, for those in same-sex relationships

who, after reading this book, would like to acquire obligations

and rights towards each other that are akin to marriage rather

than the law for unmarried couples, this Act enables them to

enter into a publicly recognised and fully committed

relationship.

A full discussion of the way the Act works and how to register a

civil partnership can be found in chapter 5.

Immigration

For immigration purposes, the general rule is that your partner

(whether same sex or not) may join you in the UK provided that

you are settled, or are applying to settle here and you can show

that any previous relationship or marriage has broken down, you

have lived together with your partner for two years before

coming to the UK and you intend to live together permanently.

It is also important to show that you will be able to maintain

yourselves adequately without needing public funds and that

you will have adequate accommodation without needing public

funds.

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