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History just isn’t something for history books when we have ancestors who were there. It’s part of our family histo- ry, too. We had family on both sides of our Lindman family tree living during some groundbreaking national events. So where were our female “kin” during the Woman Suffrage Movement, which was hot and in the news for nearly fifty years that focused on giving women the right to vote? That’s what this article is about. It was Abe Lin- coln who said in a speech at Chicago, Illinois on July 10, 1858: “I leave you, hoping that the lamp of liberty will burn in your bosoms until there shall no longer be a doubt that all were created free and equal.” Yet in the mid- 1800s, women were still second-class citizens. They were not encouraged to obtain a real education or pursue busi- ness. Women did not have the right to own their own property. After marriage, they could not keep their own wages or sign a contract. Women were expected to restrict their sphere to hearth and home, only. And, of course, all women were denied the right to vote. The movement to gain the right to vote for American women was known as Woman Suf- frage and it was the single largest en- franchisement and extension of demo- cratic rights in our nation’s history, cov- ering the most population of any issue. Along with the Civil Rights Movement, the Woman Suffrage Movement are considered the two most important American political movements of the 20th century. When Susan B. Anthony first began campaigning for women's rights, she was harshly ridiculed and accused of trying to destroy the institution of mar- riage. Of course, that was not her in- tention, but Woman Suffrage became a full-fledged polit- ical campaign, with its own press, an opposi- tion movement, its own political imagery, and its own philoso- phers, organiz- ers, lobbyists, financiers, and fundraisers. Utah’s Territorial Suffrage Associa- tion was headed by Emmeline B. Wells who orga- nized Utah’s three-day convention, that welcomed Susan B. Anthony on May 12, 1895. She spoke with Elder Orson F. Whit- ney and others to a gathering of over 6,000 people. The following year, our grandmother, Gladys B. Wolfe, was born on Aug. 14, 1896. That same year, Utah joined the Union as a state, with full woman suffrage. All women, in Utah, could now vote. Sadly, Glaydys’ mother, Mary Emma died in 1910 in Nebraska, without ever having had legal property rights nor the right to vote. Across the ocean a few years later in Sweden, in March 1900 ..continued p. 2 Ancestors Living the History FALL 2014 A FAMILY PUBLICATION VOLUME 8 ISSUE 2 Eight Year Olds 2 Guess Who? 3 Everyone Loves A Good Shortcut 4 Big Thumbs Up 6 Willing to Serve 7 Friends for Life 8 Happy 93rd Birthday 10 IN THIS ISSUE “Freedom is an eternal, God-given principle. There is no genuine happiness without freedom, nor is there any security or peace without freedom.” Ezra Taft Benson Anna Lindman Gladys Parker

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  • History just isnt something for history books when we have ancestors who

    were there. Its part of our family histo-ry, too. We had family on both sides of

    our Lindman family tree living during some groundbreaking national events.

    So where were our female kin during the Woman Suffrage Movement, which

    was hot and in the news for nearly fifty years that focused on giving women the

    right to vote? Thats what this article is about.

    It was Abe Lin-

    coln who said in a speech at

    Chicago, Illinois on July 10,

    1858:

    I leave you, hoping that the lamp of liberty

    will burn in your bosoms until

    there shall no longer be a

    doubt that all were created

    free and equal.

    Yet in the mid-1800s, women were still second-class

    citizens. They were not encouraged to obtain a real education or pursue busi-

    ness. Women did not have the right to own their own property. After marriage,

    they could not keep their own wages or sign a contract. Women were expected

    to restrict their sphere to hearth and home, only.

    And, of course, all women were denied the right to vote. The movement to

    gain the right to vote for American women was known as Woman Suf-

    frage and it was the single largest en-franchisement and extension of demo-

    cratic rights in our nations history, cov-ering the most population of any issue.

    Along with the Civil Rights Movement, the Woman Suffrage Movement are

    considered the two most important American political movements of the

    20th century.

    When Susan B. Anthony first began

    campaigning for women's rights, she was harshly ridiculed and accused of

    trying to destroy the institution of mar-riage. Of course, that was not her in-

    tention, but Woman Suffrage became a full-fledged polit-

    ical campaign, with its own

    press, an opposi-tion movement,

    its own political imagery, and its

    own philoso-phers, organiz-

    ers, lobbyists, financiers, and

    fundraisers.

    Utahs Territorial Suffrage Associa-

    tion was headed by Emmeline B.

    Wells who orga-

    nized Utahs three-day convention, that welcomed

    Susan B. Anthony on May 12, 1895. She spoke with Elder Orson F. Whit-

    ney and others to a gathering of over 6,000 people.

    The following year, our grandmother,

    Gladys B. Wolfe, was born on Aug. 14, 1896. That same year, Utah joined

    the Union as a state, with full woman suffrage. All women, in Utah, could

    now vote.

    Sadly, Glaydys mother, Mary Emma died in 1910 in Nebraska, without ever

    having had legal property rights nor

    the right to vote.

    Across the ocean a few years later in Sweden, in March 1900 ..continued p. 2

    Ancestors Living the History

    FALL 2014 A FAMILY PUBLICATION VOLUME 8 ISSUE 2

    Eight Year Olds

    2

    Guess Who?

    3

    Everyone Loves A Good Shortcut

    4

    Big Thumbs Up

    6

    Willing to Serve

    7

    Friends for Life

    8

    Happy 93rd Birthday

    10

    IN THIS ISSUE

    Freedom is an eternal, God-given

    principle. There is no genuine happiness

    without freedom, nor is there any security

    or peace without freedom.

    Ezra Taft Benson

    Anna Lindman Gladys Parker

  • LIDMAN LEGACY

    Anna Victoria Lindberg was born. Women in Sweden had

    rights as early as 1718. Those woman who were taxpaying members of a citys business guild were allowed to vote and stand for elections. Then in 1811, married business women in Sweden were allowed to make decisions regarding their own

    affairs. Meanwhile, in the United States, which ironically had been founded on freedom for all, the national movement to

    enfranchise women would last an additional 109 years, and involve three generations and millions of women.

    Only after decades of the most intense political activity did

    women eventually win the right to vote, nationwide. It came slowly though, state by state. It took California until 1911 to

    grant the right to vote and then nearly another decade for the whole of the nation. Utah was one of the first states.

    It was during this time frame, on November 29, 1916, that

    Gladys Wolfe married Daniel Boyd. Gladys was 20 years

    old. She later wrote about her husband: We went back to his home near Heber, Nebraska. He farmed his fathers place for one year.

    It was during 1918 that a battle was going on in her state for woman suffrage. However, she did not ever write about it:

    Dan and I had moved to Richmond, California. Dan was working in the oil fields in California and I went back to Ne-

    braska. I started at the Grand Island Business College. I had to work for my board and room.

    By August 1919, the Nebraska legislature met in a special

    session and unanimously ratified the 19th amendment to the U.S. Constitution. Later, Tennessee became the 36th

    state to ratify the amendment. Within days, the U.S. Secre-tary of State certified the amendment, and women were fi-

    nally allowed to vote, nationwide, after Aug. 26, 1920.

    By that following December, in 1920, Anna Lindman and

    her mother first set foot on American soil in New York, and

    Ancestors Living the History

    Eight Year Olds

    Amy and David Brown still live

    in Nixa, Missouri. And their youngest, Spencer Burk Brown,

    was baptized on September

    7th and was both baptized

    and confirmed by his father.

    His mother

    said, So hap-py my sweet

    Spencer make the choice to

    be baptized. He was surrounded by family and friends on his special day.

    Tennille and Daren Upham announced the baptism of their youngest son, Bran-

    don, who was baptized in Utah in their new neighborhood in Lehi on September 9th

    2014.

    He was baptized and confirmed by his dad. They were fortunate to have both sets of

    grandparents in attendance along with

    Page 2

    then made their way to Utah. For

    Anna, it would be 17 more years be-fore she would become a US citizen

    and have the privilege of voting. On June 24, 1937 Anna finally became a

    citizen and she always took voting very seriously.

    Of her move to San Francisco, Cali-

    fornia, Gladys Wolfe wrote, We left (Nebraska) in September 1923. Gail

    (Gladys youngest brother) had rent-ed us (divorced Glayds and her friend

    Vivian) an apartment in the same building where he was living. The

    address was 1027 Golden Gate Avenue. We lived there a while, then went over to Oakland.

    Gladys could have voted in California in the early 1920s. It was in San Francisco where she would meet and marry Daniel Delroy Par-

    ker in 1925.

    I never realized that my mother (Mary Louise) was only the second generation of women to have the privilege of voting in our family.

    She had a deep love and appreciation of liberty and activity exer-cised her right to vote. I remember how she kept the old back &

    white Television on in the kitchen during the elections to learn about candidates and issues as she did the ironing and housework.

    As we discover and cherish the lives of ancestors and those who

    have gone on before usas we learn of their sacrifices, it can help us all appreciate our own freedoms and blessings.

    And did you know that according to Relative Finder, a BYU Family History technology and data site, Susan B. Anthony is our 11th

    cousin 3 times removed. The common ancestor is Joyce Tiptoft and, links thought the material side of our tree through Gladys

    Bell Wolfe.

    aunts, uncles, and cousins there to support him on his very

    special day.

    Julie and Eric Jensen had a son Jared turn 8 years old and he was baptized on September 28, 2014 at

    the Bennion 19th ward building.

    He was baptized and confirmed by his father Eric. Jared helped plan his baptism program and asked his

    sister Jaycee to sing a musical number, and Grandma Suzie and his

    brother Jaden to give talks.

    Jared had both sets of his

    grandparents attend along

    with family and

    many friends

    and three of his school teachers.

    He was thrilled to finally be bap-

    tized.

    Brandon and Daren

    Upham Jared and Julie Jensen

    Spencer and David Brown

    Susan B. Anthony

  • Guess Who? Can you recognize these family faces?

    Page 3 LINDMAN LEGACY

    Eight Year Olds

    The son of Natalie and Mikal Lindman, Parker Lindman, turned eight years old, Novem-ber 24. A few days later he was bap-tized on November 29, 2014 at 10:00 am at the The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints chapel located on 6401 Westwind Way in Crestwook, Kentucky. The family sent out Invita-tions announcing his special day, and friends and family

    were invited for a light luncheon. Congratulations Par-ker!

    November was a thrill for Tif-fany and Russ Walston who welcomed their first child. Adelyn Louise Walston, named after her great grand-mothers. She will be called

    Addie. She was born Friday, November 21, 2014, 8 lbs. 6 oz., and 21 1/2 inches long.

    Parker Mikal Lindman

    A New Arrival

    Tiff, Russ, and Addie

    1.

    2.

    3.

    4.

    5.

    6.

    7.

    1. Sadie, Lorene, Dave, and Joshua Williams 2. Jessica, Shea, Tanner, Andy Allred 3. Victoria & Leonard Rutherford with foster kids, Levi & Logan 4. Chase Hansen (John & Torrie) 5. Kamber and Landon Banks 6. Jared, Jaden, Jaycee, Joslynn Jensen (Julie & Eric) 7. Rex and Olivia Ballard (Kristine & Michael) 8. Leo, Ivan, and Norah Brown (Joseph & Lauren Brown)

    8.

  • Everyone Loves A Good Shortcut, Especially Dad

    Page 4 LINDMAN LEGACY

    Everyone loves finding the

    shortest route to their desti-nation and saving time. And

    Wilford Lindman was defi-nitely one of those.

    The first time I remember my

    Dad taking a shortcut was when I was around eight

    years old. It was after wed moved to Utah and Mom and

    Dad had been working on the house. Before the move from

    California, the family had vacations and fun trips to the

    beach and other places. But building a new house our-

    selves, with all the costs and work, there seemed to be

    very little time and money for vacations.

    Finally, with Moms prod-ding, it was decided that wed take time out for family.

    After all, Kay and Boyd Gunderson had invited us to

    join their family for one of their campouts at Ferron Res-

    ervoir. Our families had chil-dren near the same ages and

    that would be a fun time to-gether. The location was a

    mere 165 miles away, only taking about 3 hours or so to get there. We were to meet the

    Gundersons there. So we packed up the Rambler station wagon with all the supplies needed, had prayer, and headed

    south on Highway 89 past Ephraim, Utah veering east towards the Manti-La Sal National Forest. Ferron Reser-

    voir sat just below the ridgeline at an elevation of 9,400 feet.

    Dad didnt like to stop, except for gas, cutting down on the travel time. Wed often carry a glass jug or jar for us little girls with small bladders.

    As we got closer to our destination, we stopped at a gas station, and Dad struck up a conversation with one of

    the locals while filling the gas tank. During the conversa-tion, Dad mentioned we were headed to Ferron Reser-

    voir, and the local man told him of a good shortcut.

    Once the tank was filled, we left the small town trying to follow the directions given. Before long the road left the

    pavement, then was gravel, and became more and more difficult, and very bumpy. The back of the car would

    drag, as it was loaded down. It must have been Dads idea to have Jerry and Diane sit on the front fenders on

    either side over the front wheels of the car to balance the weight of the car so the back end wouldnt drag so much. I thought it was fun and adventurous. At times it was so

    bumpy, I felt as if I would bounce high enough to hit my head on the roof of the car. We had to go slow on these roads, but we fi-

    nally reached the small

    cabin in which we were to stay nestled in beauti-

    ful pine trees located near the Gundersons cabin.

    We were all excited to venture out of the car.

    The trees towered around us, and I loved it. It was

    a great location with the Reservoir and fishing just

    a short distance away.

    We had a great time, and attended the LDS Church

    in Ferron, Utah on Sun-day.

    Having made treasured

    memories, the trip home was without hazards or

    short cuts.

    But after arriving home, while mother was run-

    ning errands, the back end of the gas tank

    dropped down and dragged on the asphalt

    as she was traveling down Highland Drive.

    She pulled over to the side of the street, and got out to see what was going on. No-

    ticing gasoline running out a hole in the tank, with great ur-gency, she ran to a

    nearby grocery store, grabbed a

    potato, explaining what it was for, and

    ran back to the car, to plug the hole.

    Upon her return a

    large puddle of gas-

    oline had already flowed around the

    entire back of the car. Knowing that

    any spark could ignite an explosion

    and fire, she quickly forced the potato in

    the hole, then went back to the store to

    use their phone to call for help. Shook

    up, and a bit flus-tered she finally

    returned home safe-ly to tell the story.

    The cars gas tank was repaired, and Dad learned the cost and hazard of a shortcut...or did he? See the next page..

    The dirt road to Ferron Reservoir. Left side, Diane on front of car, Mother inside passenger side, Jerry on the right side, with Suzanne peeking outside the window.

    Ferron Reservoir fishing. (Front to Back) Suzanne, Jo-anne, Jerry, Guni Gunderson, and Carol.

  • Everyone Loves A Good Shortcut, Especially Dad , continued

    Page 5 LINDMAN LEGACY

    There was another shortcut that Dad took, on another trip.

    This time, Diane was married so she did not get to experience this one, and Jerry was on his mission.

    We were with Dad as he travelled for business during the

    summer of 1964 in a long, Cadillac road car with a long Air-stream trailer in tow. It was hot and we were all tired of trav-

    eling.

    Dad took out the road map that he always kept in the glove compartment and looked at it. He was good at navigation

    from a map, because hed traveled a great deal as a sales rep for Angle Equipment.

    After looking at the map he

    mentioned that there was a nice, cool mountain, scenic route we could take. I re-called that he said those omi-

    nous words, that this moun-tain route would get us to our

    destination quicker. Oh, Oh. That should have set off the

    alarms for us, but it didnt. How quickly we forgot.

    We headed up into the moun-

    tains, and he was right, it was more scenic. The road

    wound around as we climbed the mountain higher and

    higher. But soon the road became narrow, and from

    there, to our surprise the pavement ended...and it became a gravely, dirt road.

    After traveling a ways, the grade became steeper and the

    road narrowed even more. Finally Dad realized that this road could be troubleand dangerous. The mountain was on one side of the narrow road, and a steep drop off on the other

    side. From my vantage point, we were hemmed in with no place to goand no place to turn around. There was no civili-zation anywhere close and the sun was setting fast.

    Well, Dad announced calmly, I can see this road isnt going to work. Were going to have to turn ourselves around. I remember sitting in the back seat of the car feeling uneasy

    and a bit scared. I thought to myself, Thats impossible. Theres no way this long trailer and car can turn around. I thought that we were stuck for sure. Joanne remembers being really scared. She remembered Mom saying, Wilf, dont do it. But Dad decided to try it.

    Picture this: the Airstreams length, as Dad remembered it in the late 1990s, was around 30 feet, including the hitch. The Cadillac was around 18 feet, making our total length about 48 feet that had to be turned around. Dad instructed us to all get

    out of the car. Then he rolled down all the windows, and said, Mary Louise, get the big flashlight out of the trailer.

    Once the flashlight was retrieved, Dad instructed Mom to be

    the lookout. Saying, I want you to kneel down as close to the

    edge of the cliff as you can, and signal me when the back wheels

    of the Airstream get close to the edge. Yell, Stop!

    As I remember, Dad asked Carol to be the lookout on the moun-tain side of the dirt road. Dad started by cranking the steering

    wheel and backed slowly towards the cliff. Mother watched and we all stood cringing as the back end of the trailer went out over

    the precipice and then Mom would yell in a loud voice, "STOP as the wheels neared the edge.

    The car jerked to a stop. Dad then turned the steering wheel as

    far as possible the opposite direction, the car moving forward making a slight turn as he pulled

    toward the mountain. The head-lights illuminated the rocky shapes

    on the mountain wall, and Carol, standing near yelled, STOP! as the front bumper was about to come in contact with the mountain

    and Dad slammed on the brakes and the car would jerk to a stand-

    still.

    I remember saying lots of silent

    prayers, asking Heavenly Father to

    help us all be safe. Over and over, Dad backed up slowly toward the

    descending cliff again and again and Moms voice rang out STOP filling the quiet night air. Then Dad moved forward, then back, then

    forward, then back, inch by inch until each loud command, STOP!

    The minutes turned into what seemed like hours and dusk turned into the black of night, the sky

    lit up with thousands of stars. In my young mind I wondered, What will happen if someone came from the other direction and found us blocking the road. Thank goodness, no one did.

    I felt like Dad always could solve or fix problems. This gave me some sense of peace, even though I was still scared. I felt Dad

    would keep us safe, and I trusted him.

    Even though it was dark and cold, Mother and Carol still were at

    their posts. I watched Mom with the flashlight poised on the edge as Dad again and again backed up ever so slowly. I was worried

    that the flashlight would dim. But Moms voice never dimed, as it loudly echoed, STOP again and again. Im sure the adrenaline was pumping for her. She did not want to see their transportation

    with her sweetheart in it, fall off the mountain. It seemed to me as a kid, Dad had nerves of steel, as he calmly worked on the

    problem with great determination.

    I dont know how much time passed away on that mountain road that night? But Id say angels must have been watching and pos-sibly helping, too.

    Dad finally turned around in the right direction, and hailed for us

    all to get back inside the car. Once together, everyone breathed a sigh of relief. A prayer of gratitude was offered thanking heaven

    for the watchful eye and care that night. After all, we had to rely on Heaven and Dads inspired, calm and determined actionsand all of us working and praying toward a solution. As in life, these are the things that get us throughnot necessarily the shortcuts.

  • BRAVOA BIG THUMBS UP

    LINDMAN LEGACY Page 6

    Great Grandpa

    Wilford Lindman gives a BIG THUMBS UP for

    this smattering of family achievements.

    Mark and Kerri Wil-

    liams were on the go with their kids earlier

    this year.

    On July 12th, Mark

    Williams posted the following: It's been a medal kind of day. Hayden and Katie won

    1st place for the Cache Cup. Hannah was 2nd

    place in softball! On November 15th Hayden played football as

    #31 and he made some great tack-les. And the team became the

    Champions in the Mesquite football tourney.

    Tennille Upham is another one of

    those taxi moms, running kids to all kinds of sport events. This fall

    season Mikayla played for the Lehi

    High School volleyball team in the state games at UVU on the 7th of

    November and it was broadcast on KSL.com. What a way to view

    sports now days. Grandpa War-ren Bingham was on the sidelines

    cheering. The team played hard, but lost in the finals and come in

    second place. Grandpa Warren also mentioned that he loves hav-

    ing the grandkids close so he can

    also watch Ryan play football.

    Amy and David

    Brown were proud of their oldest son Jo-

    sephs accomplish-ments when he partici-

    pated in his first debate tournament in Nixa,

    Missouri. It was held November 1st, and he

    ended up walking away with the second place

    trophy. Congratula-tions!!

    Klarie, Julie and Eric

    Browns daughter still enjoys playing basketball. Even though her team is at the low

    end of the totem pole, and is regularly beat really badly, Klarie keeps her chin up and tries hard to listen to what the coach

    wants her to do so she can score some points.

    Julie and Eric Brown

    are also proud of Katelyn Browns artistic accom-plishments. In art class, she does some amazing

    projects. The latest pro-ject she took magazine

    pages, rolled them on a pencil, took the pencil

    out, flattened the rolls and made an amazing

    star shaped bowl in her 5th grade class. She is so

    talented! She just glued the strips together and the

    bottom she made circles to form her shapes.

    A son, Colten Brown is going to be graduating in December,

    and is working on his eagle project. He will be getting people to help him take pictures of grave-

    stones in cemeteries. They will be downloaded to a website for family

    history. They hope to beat the snow. Colten will be attending

    BYU, so hes also in the process of filling out his application.

    Jaden Jensen, Eric and Julie

    Jensens son is on the Varsity Track Team at Bennion Junior High

    School. During a track meet on October 7th he got 15th place with

    a time of 8:59. According to his

    dad, Jaden has consistent-

    ly improved his times and placements over the 4 rac-

    es he has participated in.

    Their eldest daughter, Jay-

    cee Jensen was one of the leads in the Taylorsville

    High School musical Aida. She stared as Princess Am-

    neris.

    This photo is taken in the opening scene, in the

    Egyptian wing of a modern museum, As she stands as

    a (singing) statue of Am-neris, a female Pharaoh.

    It was a great perfor-

    mance.

    Katie and Hayden Williams

    Jaden Jensen Mikayla Upham

    Joseph Brown

    Jaycee Jensen

    Katelyns cool art project

  • Willing to Serve

    LINDMAN LEGACY Page 7

    All of us can choose to serve

    others. Many of us will be called to serve in the Church

    in many capacities in our life times. But for Mary Louise,

    who had just turned 12 years old when she was asked to

    lead the music in her Sunday meetings, the accepting of

    that calling would change the course of her life. It was when

    she was serving in that capaci-ty a few years later, that an

    impressed Axel Lindman, who just happened to be at-

    tending Church in her ward while working in San Francis-

    co, wrote home to his son, Wilford about the beautiful

    girl who was leading music and that he ought to come

    down to San Francisco to work and meet her.

    I loved music, Mary Louise shared in interview (taken from transcripts made in the

    late 1990s), Id not had les-sons in music, piano or voice,

    but hoped to have lessons someday. One Sunday, our

    Bishop asked me if Id lead the singing in church. I didnt know how to read music at all. I guess you could say, I sang

    by ear. I had a really good ear for music, and could pick up

    on the beat, remembering what I heard and could follow

    along well, singing the melo-dy.

    So as you might imagine when he asked me to lead the music I was a bit nervous, but

    I told him Id just do my best.

    During this time there happened to be a member in our ward who was gifted in music. His name was Brother Kind-ley. He was Scottish, and was the choir director. The bishops daughter, Beverly would play the piano, and during choir practice, hed beat the time of the music on the piano with his baton, making sure that the music was played and sung in the right meter and tempo.

    Although young, I lead the music in several organizations. One day, Brother Kindly approached me and to my surprise he handed me a baton, similar to the one he used, and he

    casually mentioned that he had carved it for me out of a piece of wood he had on hand. I thanked him for his thought-

    fulness. I wasn't sure why hed made that for me, and I thought that maybe he saw some kind of potential in me.

    Although I liked leading with my hands and fingers, I decided to use the baton because of his thoughtful gesture the next

    time I was asked to lead. It must have pleased Brother Kindley to see Mary Louise use the baton. Also there was no way for him to realize then the chain of

    events he had started. After all, she was called to be the chorister many times in her life time. And all her children remember those

    times wellthose times when shed look down at us from the stand with a disapproving, arched eyebrow when not quiet

    enough. Well also forever remember mother listening to music at home, and beating out the tempo of the music with her eyes

    closed, caught in the beauty of what she was hearing.

    And for her, one of her most treasured events in her life came years later while serving in the mission field at a district confer-

    ence that was held in the Kirtland Temple. She later wrote in Soul Harvest, an account of family missionary stories: We were called to go to a meeting in the Kirtland Temple. We were excited for that opportunity. We arrived and through a chain of events, I

    was asked to lead the music for the meeting. One of the songs that we sang was featured at the dedication of the Kirtland Tem-

    ple, The Spirit of God Like a Fire is Burning. As I stood to lead that song a special feeling came over me. I thought to myself,

    Who would have ever thought that Mary Louise Parker Lindman would have had such a wonderful privilege? I was both shocked and thrilled that I would be asked. When the congregation started singing praises to God, the words seemed to bring such power

    and majesty to the meeting.

    A feeling of knowing that we have a Father

    in Heaven who loves us touched everyone

    there. The meaning of the words filled my

    soul, and my spirit soared as I stood in

    the same building that the early saints had

    erected to worship God. The tears freely

    flowed down my cheeks. As the song

    continued I could hard-ly sing the words of

    this glorious hymn, for surely the Spirit of God

    did burn like a fire, within me. This was a choice and wonderful experience for all that

    were in attendance, but especially for me as I had this special privilege to lead the music.

    The thing that we want all our children, grandchildren, and great grandchildren to know is our testimonies that we hold dear. This

    Church is the only true church on the earth and we are so blessed

    to be a part of it and to strive to live the principles that it teaches. Wilford and I gained a great love for the Prophet Joseph Smith

    and his family during this time. They endured more in their lives than many of us will ever have to face. We are so grateful that he

    was valiant to his calling as the first prophet of this Church.

    The same hand-made baton, that was gifted to a once nervous

    and self-conscious teenager so many years ago was used to lead songs and hymns of praise throughout her life. Mother didnt have a degree in music, yet she blessed our lives with a love of good music. Her first hymnal and baton were still among her treas-

    ures, and are a testament to a young girls willingness to serve when asked, no matter what.

    12 year old Mary Louise Parker

    Photo of Mary Louise's original Kindley-made baton and Mission Ward Hymnal

  • Gladys Parker, had a knack of staying in touch with fami-

    ly and friends. She was one of those loyal friends for life.

    She spent a great deal of her time writing and corre-

    sponding

    with those

    she cared

    about and

    loved. She

    came from

    that era of

    letters and

    postcards as

    a form of

    communica-

    tion. And

    must have

    been thrilled

    at the ad-

    vent of the

    telephone.

    Gladys Wolfe

    wrote: I

    was born on a

    farm near Yutan,

    Sanders County,

    Nebraska on Aug

    14, 1896. I dont

    remember when

    we moved from

    there. My brother

    Joseph Gail Wolfe was born 3 November, 1898 on a farm near

    Memphis, Saunders County, Nebraska. I was two years old

    and remember the house there. I fell down the front steps so

    many times. I remember the straw shed were Papa kept the

    cattle.

    We didnt leave Mead to move to Osceola until March

    1907. It was sad to move. I think Mama was heart

    broken to leave such a nice house and go to an old

    house like we had at Osceola, but Papa had more

    land to farm and thought he could make more mon-

    ey.

    Mama had her first stroke early in the spring of

    1908, and had a stroke every year for three years.

    She passed away July 31, 1910 (fourteen days before

    Gladys 14th birthday).

    It was during this very difficult time that her school

    teacher reached out in loving compassion. On the

    photo featured above, Gladys wrote: Helen Brown

    one of my school teachers who was teaching at Ston-

    er Country School before Mama died in July. She

    came to Mamas funeral, she was good to me.

    The two remained life-long friends, keeping up their

    correspondence. Mary Louise always seemed aston-

    ished that a teacher would take such interest in a

    student, creating a long-lasting relationship, and

    would talk about Miss Brown with admiration. Its not hard to

    imagine how overwhelming and devastating the loss of a mother

    would be for a vulnerable teenager, but life has to go on and its a

    blessing when there are earthly angels that reach out to comfort,

    and Gladys spoke of her teacher with great affection.

    Gladys continues: After Mammas death, Elsie and I kept house

    and went to school, walking a mile and a half, and many times we

    ran almost all the way so we wouldnt be late. I studied awhile at

    night, then I got sleepy and went to bed, and (without thinking)

    locked the door before Elise came up.

    When she came up, she couldnt get in, she rattled the door then

    went down stairs and told Papa. He rattled the broom stick up

    that vent in the floor. Finally Gail crawled up on the porch roof, he

    Friends for Life

    LINDMAN LEGACY Page 8

    Stoner Country School. Photo taken near Osceola,

    Nebraska about 1908. Gladys, the tallest girl in the back row, and Gail far right in the front row.

    Helen Brown, Gladys Wolfes School Teacher

    Stoner Country School near Osceola. Miss Browns class. Elsie and Miss Brown, back row. Gladys, center and Gail far left on the front row.

  • Friends for Life, continued

    LINDMAN LEGACY Page 9

    And because of those moves,

    she became good at making

    new friends wherever she

    went:

    Papa bought a dry land farm

    from Chet Martin. The land

    Papa bought was 10 miles

    north of Forsyth, Montana.

    Papa sold all the horses and

    cattle he didnt want to take

    with him. And Harry Martin,

    Willie and Gail, and Uncle

    George Wolfe all went with

    Papa up to Montana to build a

    house for us to live in.

    We left Osceola the first part

    of October 1913. The men

    lived in a sheep wagon while

    they were building the house.

    We had two bedrooms and a

    kitchen. To finish the house the

    men just nailed building paper between the studs. It was very

    cold winter, 55 degrees below zero. Papa kept a good fire in the

    stove until after ten o-clock at night. Our homestead in Montana

    proved to be a poor investment.

    Our vegetables were the best I ever ate, any where. Papa and

    Mother stayed three years, and Papa never harvested a crop.

    Twice he was bailed out and the last year it dried up.

    With these recollections of her youth, Gladys was always one to

    maintain relationships and keep in touch and treasure family.

    Long after she was married, she also still kept in touch with her

    beloved teacher, Helen Brown. We are blessed that she left us

    with some personal records of these life events.

    took off the screen, and opened the window, crawled in and

    unlocked the door. Elise came in and got into bed and I never

    heard a thing. But the next morning I sure got a good lecture

    on what would happen to me if I ever locked that door again.

    Minnie Wentz, who was working for Mrs. J.A.C. Johnston told

    Papa she thought she knew a woman in Grand Island by the

    name of Lulu Benson, who would come and keep house for us if

    he wanted her to. He went to Grand Island and met her and

    hired her. She came in 1911 or 1912. She had a daughter Hel-

    en. She came and lived with us. On Jan 9, 1913 Papa and she

    were married. She was good to us.

    Change was much more a part of my grandmothers life than I

    ever realized. From the loss of her mother to moving from farm

    to farm so the family could survive. Whenever a move was

    proposed and a final decision made to move, Gladys and the

    other children rolled up their sleeves and pitched in and helped.

    Written by Gladys on back of photo: Our Homestead Pa built in Mont about 1915. Maggie and Willy standing with our horses.

    Newly Called Missionary's Lorene and Dave Williams welcomed home their son Ben,

    from his mis-sion just in

    time to say goodbye to

    his sister, Stephanie

    (far left in photo) who

    was on her

    way to serve

    the people of Norway.

    From a few posts on Fa-

    cebook it ap-pears that

    Lindsay Williams is enjoying the people of Japan.

    Recently the eldest of

    Kristine and Michael Ballards children is ready and excited to serve. Gina Ballard announced that

    she received her mission call to GERMANY BERLIN

    MISSION! She reports to the Provo MTC on January

    14th, 2015!

    Gina posted via Facebook:

    I feel SO blessed and I am SO excited to serve

    The Lord as a mission-ary!! Gina and parents have attended the temple in preparation for her departure.

    Gina Ballard

    (l to r) Elsie and Gladys work-ing on the dry farm

  • LINDMAN LEGACY Page 10

    Grandpa Lind-

    mans 93rd birth-day was celebrat-

    ed by many family members. The

    party was hosted at Carol and Nor-

    riss home.

    It was complete with the Taco

    Man, making yum-my, to-order tacos,

    burritos, and enchi-ladas, with pot luck

    salads on the side.

    And of course, a traditional Mexican

    Piata for the kids to take a turn

    swinging at, and of course, eventually

    enjoying the candy when the Piata was

    finally split. Many of the

    children were really good about making sure eve-

    ryone got some candy.

    All sang Happy Birthday as a giant whipped

    cream cake was present-ed. When grandpa was

    asked how he was doing on his birthday, he re-

    plied, Still here on earth. This event was a high-

    light for family, but it was especially for Grand-

    pa Lindman who talked of the big party, days

    after the event. Its not every day a person turns

    93 years old, and he enjoyed every minute of

    the wonderful family and many festivities.

    93rd Birthday

    Facing Adversity with Hope and Gratitude

    The last week of

    September, Grand-pa Lindman experi-

    enced what tests revealed was a

    stroke. Examined by paramedics at his

    home, it was decided that although all his

    vitals looked good, it

    was advised that he

    be taken to the hos-pital. Doctors deter-

    mined that the area of the stroke caused

    some memory issues and partial blindness in the right eye. In addition, he had some weakness on the right side. He was

    admitted to the hospital. After several days in the IMC, he was released and Carol made arrangements to have him taken

    to the Sandy Rehab Center were therapists helped him with speech therapy, swallowing, as well as strengthening his limbs

    and assisting him in gaining better balance.

    Before long, Grandpa had taught all who came within his voice, a bit of Swedish. And despite the challenges and frus-

    tration of his physical body, he would always thank those

    helping and working with him. He progressed in some ways,

    but it seemed slower that he would have liked, but he kept persevering and would not give in or give up. Even when his

    legs became extremely swollen, with intensified leg and hip pain, which made walking even more difficult, he worked

    through it with a smile. His worsening lymphedema made it even harder to find comfortable positions to sleep. Experienc-

    ing great discomfort and lack of sleep, Grandpa has continual-

    ly tried to stay hopeful

    and thankful. Surround-ed by family, a priest-

    hood blessing was given and finally things took a

    turn for the better.

    On November 10th he was released from Sandy

    Rehab, and taken south

    to the Binghams home, where together with Joannes care and more personalized home health care assistance,

    within a short time his legs made great im-

    provements for which we are grateful.

    Henry B Eyring gave

    perspective on adversity when he said:

    The very opportunity for us to face adversity

    and affliction is part of the evidence of Gods infinite love. God gave us the gift of living in mortality so that we could be pre-pared to receive the greatest of all the gifts of God, which is

    eternal life. Then our spirits will be changed. We will become able to want what God wants, to think as He thinks, and thus

    be prepared for the trust of an endless posterity to teach and to lead through tests, to be raised up to qualify to live forever

    in eternal life.

    Grandpa Lindman in IMC Hospital

    Sandy Rehab Center

    Grandpas very swollen legs