Light on Marital Affairs

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1 Light on Marital Afairs I – Marital Discomort, Separation & Divorce saravanaLight on Marital Afairs - IMarital Discomort, Separation and DivorceSeparationVarahamihira in his 'Brha!!ata"a' a##s$ I there is a mi% o goo# an# a# planets in the th hose, the native (ill havemore than one marriage) *his vie( is also spporte# + ala+na Varma in his 'Saaravali')'-hala#eepi"a' sa+s$ I Vens or th lor# is hemme# et(een male.cs, or con!nct (ith male.cs or aspecte# +male.cs, it is a sign o losing the partner)al+ana Varma in his 'Saaraavali' sa+s$ Mars in th hose lea#s to loss o partner an# i that Mars is aspecte# +Satrn, then #eath o partner can e pre#icte#) *he planets Satrn, Mars, Sn, /ah an# eth are consi#ere# natral male.c (here as the planets 0piter an# Vensare natral ene.c) hen Satrn or /ah involve (ith th hose afairs, (e can sa+ the spose has past lie #ets toe repai# in terms o marriage relationship) Satrn an# /ah represent separation, sometimes o(ing to the #eath othe spose) I Mars is involve#, then it #enotes one o the partners ecoming aggressive an# (il# ths spoiling therelation)Separation is in#icate# (hen th hose lor# is in the hose o its enem+ or i th lor# is #eilitate# or th lor# isreceiving aspects rom male.cs or is in 'astangatva') Astangatva represents close con!nction (ith Sn)Separation is in#icate# i th lor# is posite# in 2th, 3th or 14th hoses an# is (ea") 5ere (ea"ness representscon!nction (ith a# planets)Separation is in#icate# i th hose is occpie# + male.c planets or aspecte# + male.c planets)In !#ging the horoscope the asic rle o 6Separative In7ence6 is to e anal+se# (hich gives a clear vie( o itsin7ences)The rule says that, "Sun, Saturn, ahu and !th house lord and lords o sign occupied #y these planetsare Separative" in character, that is to sa+, these planets case separation rom or aan#onment o the traits othe hose etc), (hich the+ in7ence + association or aspect)

8or e%ample, i t(o or more o the aove9mentione# planets in7ence the :th hose an# its lor#, one is orce# to leavehis home or contr+ o irth) I the+ in7ence th hose an# its lor#, one is separate# rom his (ie or hsan#) I the+in7ence 1;th hose an# its lor# an# Sn, one has to e separate# rom the ene.ts o the rling po(ers, vi<)resigning rom service, termination o service, change in proession, etc) So in vie( o these, (e provi#e a e( +ogas$1= 0piter in th hose generall+, even lor# o th #oes esto( ver+ n satisactor+ reslts) 5e cases great#isappointments an# #issatisaction in marrie# lie) 5e cases n#e #ela+ in marriage)4= Marital #isor#er ma+ occr see"ing separation (hen Vens is on# in riti"a, Moola, Ari#ra or 0+eshtha >a"shatras)?t o these riti"a is most inaspicios an# gives ver+ a# reslts)@= hen th lor# is in 2th an# aicte# + separative in7ence, there ma+ e separation) Similarl+, (hen th lor# orsigni.cator !oins the 2th lor# an# is aicte# + aspect or con!nction o male.cs, similar reslts are li"el+) hen strong 0piter ma"es a lin" (ith the aove cominations in an+ orm, the separation ma+ e save# t the hsan# an# (ie(ill e%perience arrels):= 2th hose #enotes legal #isptes an# connection o male.c 2th lor# (ith th hose, th lor# or signi.cator ma+reslt in legal action an# separation) Also (hen th lor# or signi.cator !oins 2th hose eing aicte# + male.cs)C= hen th hose, th lor# an# signi.cator all are aicte#, con!oine#, associate# or aspecte# + male.cs,nhappiness in marrie# lie is in#icate#) Signi$cators are %enus or males and Mars in case o emales&2= hen /ah an# Satrn !oin Lagna, one is li"el+ to ace strie an# separation in marrie# lie) hen th lor# isretrogra#e an# is also aicte#, similar reslts are e%perience#)= hen in a emale chart, Aries or Scorpio Lagna rise an# th lor# is (ea", comst, retrogra#e an# is also aicte#,she (ill e aan#one# + her hsan#)3= I comination o Sn an# Mars in either horoscope is in 4n#, th or 3th hose, it hol#s ot e%cellent prospects or#iscar#ing, separation an# #isnion) It #oes not necessaril+ involve loss o partner)= *o anal+se marriage, aiction to Vens + sitation, association or aspects o male.cs have an a#verse efect onmorals) Vens represents the other partner o marriage)1;= hen lor#s o 4n# an# th hoses are in constellation o evil lor#s, particlarl+ in the constellation o 2th lor# an#are aicte#, there (ill e separation, #ivorce, litigation etc et(een the cople) 'alathra Dosha *he (or# alathra means spose) Among the planets, Vens is the alathra "ara"a Eplanet in#icating (ie=) Among the14 hoses, th hose is the alathra sthanaEhose in#icating spose=) An+ male.c planet in th hose createsalathra #osha) Also, "alathra #osha is create# i the th lor# an# vens is aicte# in the irth chart) alathra #osha

#ela+s the marriage an# it is ver+ har# to .n# a sitale partner or marriage) Fven ater the marriage, the+ lac" goo#n#erstan#ing an# live a separate# lie) *he+ also lac" con!gal liss (hich ltimatel+ en#s p in #ivorce) In somecases, the spose sfers #e to health prolems an# even #eath ma+ occr in severe cases) Similarl+, 3th hose iscalle# as Mangal+a sthana Ehose in#icating marital tie=) Male.c planets in 3th hose create Mangal+a #osha) -lanet 0piter is calle# as the Mangal+a "ara"a Eplanet in#icating marital tie=) I the 3th lor#, 0piter an# 3th hose is aicte#,then the person aces trole in marital lie #e to Mangal+a #osha) Mangal+a #osha (ill spoil the marriage lie either+ separating hsan# an# (ie + sen#ing someone a(a+ rom home or else + #ivorce or + giving #eath to thehsan#) Gommon efects o "alathra #osha$1) Dela+ in marriage 4) Hnhapp+ marital lie @) Misn#erstan#ings :) Lac" o con!gal liss C) Separation or#ivorce2) Ill health to spose ) -rematre #eath o sposeMars Dosha( Mars in th or 3th hose$ Mars creates "alathra #osha in th hose an# Mangal+a #osha in 3th hose) *his is also calle# as "!a #osha or Mangal Dosha) I alathra #osha is create# + the .er+ mars, etter get +orhoroscope matche# (ith a mangli" person or a happ+ marital lie) Mangli" people are aggressive an# angr+ prone) Imars is aspecte# + 0piter, male.c efects o mars (ill e re#ce# mch an# the+ can ma"e a happ+ marital lie)



Sani dasha( Satrn in th or 3th hose$ Satrn creates "alathra #osha in th hose an# Mangal+a #osha in 3th hose) *his is also calle# as Sani #osha) Satrn #osha #ela+s the marriage an# marriage ta"es place onl+ ater the age o @;in man+ cases nless other(ise a ene.c planet aspects Satrn) ?ther(ise, the native marries a person (ho is ver+mch ol#er than the native) An# this age #iference (ol# e more than eight) ?r other(ise the+ ma+ get marrie# to aperson (ho is #ar"er in comple%ion or the one (ho is inerior + social stats or (ealth than the native) *re afectionrom the heart (ill not e there et(een the coples))aga Dosha( /ahet in th or 3th hose$ /ah or "et creates "alathra #osha in th hose an# Mangal+a #osha in3th hose) *his is also calle# as >aga #osha) >aga #osha creates troles in choosing a right partner or marriage) *he+ are mostl+ #isappointe# in the marriage lie even i marrie# earl+) 5ealth o the spose ma+ not e goo#) >ogoo# relationship (ith In9la(s) *he+'ll al(a+s e in a ear imagining that some ne%pecte# event (ol# occr) *hespose might spea" lies or se #eceiving (or#s) *+ceptions on 'alathra dosha and Mangalya dosha(1) I 0piter aspects the th hose or 3th hose, then the #osha get cancelle#)4) I the lor# o the th or 3th hose is strongl+ place#, then the #osha #oesn't harm mch@) I the planet creating #osha is place# on its o(n hose or e%altation hose, then there is no #osha)-articlar prolems in marriage agreement relate# to graha placementShani in J *he strong @r# #rishti rom Shani pon +vati hava K i#leness an# stagnation in marriage)J Bore#om, nresolve# rstration (ith negative haits o the spose, an# storn resistance to change (hiler#ene# (ith responsiilities or chil#ren)J Sta+s in the marriage 6or the chil#ren6)J Lor# Shani is a orce o or#erliness thereore Shani alone (ill not enorce a #ivorce) Bt i other actors pressre asplit, one o the long9term grievances o the aan#oning partner ma+ (ell e en#rance o #eca#es o 6motion (ithotprogress6 #e to the storn resistance EShani= o the spose preventing an+ creative or(ar# movement on matterso lingering #isagreement)J Gon7ict resoltion is stalle# an# a pattern o (or" e%hastion comine# (ith a ocs on the rotines o chil#9raising

an# strctre# entertainments Esch as amil+ vacations, school perormances, sports competitions etc= ten# toreplace intimate marital commnication) *his is a rather long9term prolem an# it ma+ in#ee# persist ntil #eath #othem part)

Simha in lagnaJ Simha or Ghan#ra lagna aces a special set o marriage challenges) "alatra"ara"a Sh"ra th lor# Shani are othenemies o lagna lor# Sr+a)J *he Simha native reires an inor#inate amont o attention, ho(ever the spose ten#s to e ocse# on thee%ternal net(or" o social relationships to the e%clsion Eor so it eels= o the intimate nee#s o the native)J ?ne ma+ eel si#eline#, or simpl+ #eprive# o that ocse#, e%clsive praising attention (hich Simha #eman#s)Slightl+ more acte or the Simha9Ghan#ra than or the Simha9lagna)J I Simha Ghan#ra is in rasi lagna, the perceive# shortall o personal attention, regar#less o an#ant attentionreceive# rom the plic a#ience, lac"ing rom the spose ma+ e too mch or the native to ear in marriage an##ivorce ma+ reslt)

Dhanus lagna – Dhans in lagna or Ghan#ra lagna aces a special set o marriage challenges)J alatra"ara"a Sh"ra (ho is oth 2th lor# an# 11th lor# is the enem+ o lagna lor# r) Lor# o th 5ose, B#ha isthe enem+ o lagna lor# r)J r9B#ha animosit+ is responsile or contempt or patroni<ing attit#es in marriage)J r (ho can e i#enti.e# (ith hmanistic philosophical native ma+ ecome highl+ rstrate# (ith thecommerciali<e#, (is#om9a#versarial B#ha as the ehaviors o the spose)

Meena lagnaJ Meena in lagna or Ghan#ra lagna aces a special set o marriage challenges)J alatra"ara"a Sh"ra (ho is the @r# an# 3th Lor# is the enem+ o lagna lor# rJ th Lor# B#ha is the enem+ o lagna lor# r)J r9B#ha animosit+ is responsile or contempt or patroni<ing attit#es in marriage)J r (ho can e i#enti.e# hmanistic philosophical native ma+ ecome highl+ rstrate# (ith the commerciali<e#,(is#om9a#versarial B#ha9ehaviors o the spose)

Material Dissolution o legal marriage contract, splitting o assets, reversal o vos(J ?ccrs in perio# o 2th Lor#) E2th9rom9Ghan#ra #issolves the emotional alance, t ph+sical matters are est !#ge# rom /asi lagna)=J Depen#ing on the natre o the rea"9p an# the rasi lagna o the nativit+, a ormal #issoltion o marriage mightoccr ite some time ater the ps+chic 6#eath6 (hich tells the native or the spose that the marriage is .nishe#) ESeethe tale o lagnas or #ivorce)=J 8ormal Dissoltion o the marital .nancial estate ma+ occr in perio# o th Lor# (ho is 14th rom 3th attorne+s,a#visors, cort argments, restoration o alance)J ochara /ahet (ill retrn to a partnership lagna$ o to no#al a%is in rasio to no#al a%is in navamshao to lagna a%is o rasio to lagna a%is o navamshao to a%is o rasi Moon

'etu( Alienation and detachment(



J I 14th Lor# is also lor# o et, the native is personall+ alienate# or #isconnecte# rom the matters o the hose in(hich et resi#es)J I 2th Lor# is also the lor# o et, #isagreements (ith others are not ac"no(le#ge#, the native acts hostile to(ar#others t #oes not see his o(n role in creating con7ict)J I Shani is hose #ispositor et, somer netralit+ an# #etachment applies to the matters o the hose in (hichet resi#es)J I et is (ith Moon, in an+ #omain, the native is emotional #etache# rom lie) E*he native ma+ e a sccesslperson (ith a goo# home an# amil+N t their n#erl+ing emotional connection is (ea")=J I et occpies th hava in either rasi or navamsha, the native is #isconnecte# an# alienate# in marriage) E*herema+ e plent+ o e%ternal in#ications o sccess, t the interior o the marriage relationship is #isconnecte#)=Sometimes the spose is a spirital .gre, t normall+ the partner is inaccessile emotionall+, an# marriage isalienate#)J I et occpies 4n# hava, the same alienation Ecltral, religios, emotional, ph+sical= (ith the secon# spose) An#the same repeating attempts to "eep connecting)

Lord o !th .ouseJ I 14th Lor# is also a ene.c,Enatral or temporal= the alienation e%perience ma+ have some highl+ positive aspects,sch as the intrige o oreign travel or long perio#s o ritl seclsion in a research or me#itation sanctar+ space)Alienation can e a goo# an# necessar+ thing or the accomplishment o certain goals) *+picall+ the perio# o 14th Lor#cases the native to leave their o(n contr+ or haital social cltre #ring the h"ti)J I 14th Lor# is also a male.c, there is ph+sical, emotional, mental, or spirital imprisonment) E8or Vrishaha lagnaan# Dhansha lagna, the alienating ehavior o the spose ma+ e aggressive)=J 8or marriage, *he perio# o 14th Lor# as 2th rom th #oes give alienation rom the spose)J I 14th Lor# is a ene.c, the reasons or alienation ma+ e goo# an# ltimatel+ ene.cial, sch as the spose is(or"ing on pro.tale oreign sinessN or the spose is in seclsion or proessional reasons, or research or me#iationN

or the spose is ta"ing valale me#ical treatment)J I 14th Lor# is male.c, the alienation is itter an# eels efortl E"armic=)

/inding hether Separation in a Marriage is heading toards Divorce0J ?verall con#ition o th hava an# th navamsha) A strong th hava (ill (ithstan# the siege o all #ivorce actors,incl#ing perio#s o 14th Lor#)J I the spose in estion is 4n# or sseent marriage, chec" the lagnas or those marriages)J I 14th Lor# is ene.c, there ma+ e genine ene.ts coming rom the alienation) Bene.c 14th Lor# ma+ not e aharinger o later #ivorce nless there is a connection et(een et an# 14th Lor#)J I 14th Lor# is male.c an# the client is reporting a rogh time, chec" the overall strength o 14th Lor# in D91 an# D9)Ghec" also the ne%t occrrence o Vimshottari h"ti o 4n# Lor# or 3th Lor#, (hich are the "ara"as or #ivorce)

%imshottari divorce lords or the lagnasLagnaJ 2th Lor# 14th Lor# 9 /ashi9pati or 6loss o agreement6 ie), con7ict, animosit+ an# ill9(ill

J 4n# Lor# 3th Lor# – /ashi pati or #eath o partner, or #ivorce

Mesha 9 B#ha, r, Sh"ra, !aVrishaha 9 Sh"ra, !a, B#ha, rMithna 9 Sh"ra, !a, Ghan#ra, Shaniar"a 9 B#ha, r, Sr+a, ShaniSimha 9 Ghan#ra, Shani, B#ha, ran+a 9 Sr+a, Shani,Sh"ra, !a *hla 9 B#ha, r, Sh"ra, !aVrischi"a 9 Sh"ra, !a, B#ha, rDhansha 9 Sh"ra, !a, Ghan#ra, ShaniMa"ara 9 B#ha, r,Sr+a, Shanimha 9 Sr+a, Shani, B#ha, rMeena 9 Sr+a, Shani, Sh"ra, !a

Timing Marital con1ictVimshottari #asha timing seences or the 14 lagnasJ Mesha lagna, Vimshottari perio# o the con7ict9trigger 2th Lor# B#ha, is ollo(e# imme#iatel+ the 6I give p6 etperio#, then + the #ivorce9trigger 4n# Lor# Sh"ra perio#) et #oes gives time or staili<ation or cool9#o(n et(eenthe 2th Lor# irritation an# the 3th Lor# 6#ea# to me6 e%perience, t et can also e%acerate separative ten#encies)I 2th Lor#, et, an# 4n# Lor#s are strong, Mesha can e%perience a #ivorce #ring this h"ti seence) Also appliesto Mesha Ghan#ra) E*his seence cannot occr in et Maha#asha or Sh"ra Maha#asha )J /or %risha#ha lagna, the perio# o 14th Lor# !a signals imalance an# aggressive #isagreealeness or thespose also gives (ith#ra(al or the native) !a h"ti is ollo(e# + /ah h"ti, (hich can en7ame the passionsan# generate some acting9ot) Ater /ah's (il# time comes the perio# o 3th Lor#, r) Ghec" the strength o thegraha involve#) E*his seence cannot occr in /ah Maha#asha or r Maha#asha)J /or Simha lagna, perio#s o 2th Lor# Shani can e especiall+ ta%ing, an# the+ are ollo(e# ine%oral+ + perio#s o4n# Lor# B#ha) Hnless spporte# + ene.cs, Simha has a notoriosl+ #iOclt time in marriage or this an# otherreasons)



J /or Thula Lagna, it has the reverse seence to Mesha$ Vimshottari perio# o the #etachment9trigger 14th Lor#,B#ha, is ollo(e# imme#iatel+ + the #ivorce9trigger 3th Lor# Sh"ra) Little time or recover+ o engagement et(eenthe (ith#ra(ing o 14th Lor# an# the 3th Lor# 6#ea# to me6 e%perience (hich #issolves the nion) I 3th an# 14thLor#s are oth strong, *hla can e%perience a #ivorce #ring this h"ti seence) Also applies to *hla Ghan#ra)J %rischi2a Lagna has the reverse seence to Vrishaha, (ith i#entical reslts$ 2th Lor# sposal animosit+ rom !ah"ti is ollo(e# + /ah h"ti, (hich can en7ame the passions an# generate some acting9ot) Ater /ah's (il#time comes perio# o 4n# Lor# r) Ghec" the strength o the graha involve#)J Ma2ara lagna, perio# o L914 r or spose's illness or animosit+, is ollo(e# + perio# o 4n# Lor# Shani or#ivorce) Shani is a natral male.c so this setp is (orth (atching #ring the relevant Vimshottari perio#s)J /or 'um#ha lagna, perio# o 14th Lor# Shani perio# or spose's illness or animosit+, is ollo(e# + perio# o 3thLor# B#ha or #ivorce) B#ha is not a natral male.c li"e Shani t B#ha can still case trolePJ Mithuna, 'ar2a, 'anya, Dhanau, an# Meena lagnas have no ac"9to ac" con7ict9#ivorce perio#s)

Type o DivorceJ *he total e%perience o #ivorceEsocial, emotional, ph+sical, ps+chological, .nancial, amilial, etc)= is #e.ne# primaril++ the con#itions o 3th hava an# its lor#)J I 3th Lor# is in an aspicios graha, #ivorce ma+ e amicale or gainl)J I 3th Lor# is a male.c, e%pect #iOclties)J I 3th Lor# is a netral planet EB#ha in avorale rashis or Vrishaha, mha lagnas= #ivorce ma+ give a sense oneither loss nor gain, t simpl+ moving on throgh the c+cle o lie)J -lanetEs= in occpation o 3th hava sggest involvement (ith secret matters) *he scope o hava93 incl#es, t isnot limite# to, secret e%tramarital se%al relationships)

3lacement o Lord o 4th .ouse - Some Divorce *fectsEmst e comine# (ith the natal con#itions o 3th hava, 3th rom Ghan#ra, #rishti etc)=

1st 5ose *he #ivorce e%perience Ei in#icate#= shapes the native's personalit+) *his native is prone to(ar# s##en, orce#changes in lie 9 #ivorce or #eath o spose eing onl+ one e%ample) I 3th lor# is ene.c, native is associate# (ithprivilege#, secret, transormative processes) I 3th lor# is male.c, reent acci#ents an# shoc"s can e e%pecte#)8inancial procee#s rom settlement o !oint acconts, i an+, (ill n# #evelopment o the ph+sical vehicle incl#ingintentional changes ma#e to the o#+ an# rain) *his native li"es to change their appearance an# social i#entit+reentl+) ara"a or mltiple c+cles)4n# 5ose-rocee#s o #ivorce or #eath o the .rst spose are re9investe# in the secon# marriage, or se# to #evelop thetra#itions o the native's irth amil+) *his is more t+picall+ a setp or (i#o(hoo# rom the 1st marriage an# lessreentl+ #ivorce)@r# 5oseDivorce lor# has entere# the mentalit+ hose) Monies rom the !oint assets o marriage or #ivorce settlements ma+ einveste# in siness commnications, into the silings, or into mental prsits) 8reentl+ the native ears mores##en changes, an# prchases insrance policies as protection

:th 5oseDivorce lor# has entere# the sheltering hose) Divorce i in#icate# a#vances the native's philosophical a(areness an#emotional stailit+ in lie, casing matrit+ an# re#ole# commitment to a goo# home lie) *he mother (as li"el+ also#ivorce#, an# she ma+ provi#e valale gi#ance to negotiating the changes))Cth 5oseDivorce lor# has entere# the creative intelligence hose) Divorce Ei in#icate#= ene.ts the native's career) Settlementn#s ma+ promote speclative investment sch as stoc" mar"et or .nancial ac"ing o creative ventres) *he #ivorceprocess stimlates the native's a(areness o the c+cle o lie an# #eath (hich promotes creative harmoni<ation (iththat c+cle) F%aggerate# c+cle o gains an# losses, t i the planet is a ene.c, native (ill see that nothing at all islost) *role or the ol#est chil# (ho ma+ have m+sterios or #iOclt to #iagnose con#itions) Srgical proce#resto(ar# ertilit+, or pon the el#est chil#)2th 5oseDivorce lor# has entere# the con7ict hose) Assets acire# throgh !oint eforts o the sposes gets re#irecte# tomanaging perpetal post9#ivorce con7ict) *he native is gainl .nanciall+ ater #ivorce t he mst spen# heavil+ or

policing o the terms o the settlementN agreements are oten ro"en) Distriting the marital estate is a contentios,con7icte# process that ma+ contine in#e.nitel+) Lots o trole getting a lasting agreement on rles or #istriting !oint assets) 5o(ever the total efect o separating his assets rom his spose's control, #espite the metho# o#istrition eing constantl+ in contention, is pro.tale .nanciall+) Gontinos #isagreements (ith an# intererencerom the e%9spose) Along (ith .nancial gainlness, this con7ict #estro+s creates ill9(ill to(ar# an# sometimes hi##enillness) Ironicall+ the native's post9#ivorce gainlness is proportional to the level o con7ict)th 5oseHpon #ivorce E(hich is li"el+ (ith this +oga= !oint assets o marriage (ill ten# to remain (ith the spose) *he nativema+ give p all claims to the !oint assets, an# go (an#ering)3th 5oseAssets o marriage ten# to remain (ith the native ater #ivorce) I strong an# aspicios 3th lor# in s(a"shetrasggests that s##en trns o the c+cle o irth an# #eath sch as (i#o(hoo# or #ivorce ma+ e oth reent an#ene.cial) Bene.ts rom ta% schemes)th 5oseDivorce settlements are .nanciall+ an# religiosl+ ene.cial) *he native's ather ma+ have een #ivorce#, an# he can

ofer valale gi#ance to move throgh the process o re9negotiation o i#entit+) >ative is avore# in chil#9csto#+



#iscssions, an# oten receives an+ chil#ren pro#ce# + the marriage (ithot a strggle) oo# ortne throghs##en, m+sterios changes in general)1;th 5oseDivorce afects plic stan#ing in a mi%e# (a+, sall+ ten#s to(ar# a negative efect) >ative ma+ sfer some mentalillness or pressre to rationali<e his #ivorce) 8inanciall+ netral, ten#s to(ar# slo(l+ regaining lost investments overtime)11th 5oseDivorce an# lie's #iOclt transormations in general (ill prove to e gainl) -rocee#s rom #ivorce ma+ permit thenative to prchase properties or vehicles, or n# ormal e#cation) Divorce also increases access to rien#s an# tomore #iverse areas o the mar"etplace) ESpose ma+ have een a sociall+ restrictive orce)=14th 5ose>o material pro.t rom #ivorce settlement, t potentiall+ goo# spirital reslts) *he process o i#entit+ loss can +iel#(is#om an# calm, #evelop the imagination an# stimlate creative coaching) Ater marriage i#entit+ loss, the nativetranser i#entit+ to niversal orces, (hich loo"ing ac" (ill e reali<e# as a great ene.t althogh it (as painl at thetime o orce# separation rom the elove#) Ma"es a compassionate therapist)3lanets in 4th .ouse - *fects on DivorceEi mltiple "ara"as in hose93, reslts o each "ara"a have to e comine# an# realance# (ith the other occp+ing"ara"as=Sr+aSel9righteos an# eels entitle# to "eep their social stan#ing) enerall+ resists #ivorce, (ol# mch rather see"e%tramarital romance) Strong ego attachment to #ignit+ o marrie# stats)Ghan#ra5ealing an# careta"ing to(ar# the e%9spose an# ma+ contine an emotional relationship long ater the legalrelationship is en#e#) Sentimental, treats the spose li"e their chil#)!a

Divorce is competitive, a .ghtB#haF%9sposes #evelop a siling relationships, veral, goo# #ivorce agreements is B#ha is aspicios

r?ptimistic an# e%pansive to(ar# the #ivorcerenegotiation o i#entit+ process) I r isaspicios, mch appreciation to(ar# the e%9spose an# the native is (ell9treate# in the #ivorceprocessN contining collegialit+ aprQs9#ivorce)Sh"raDivorce ma+ e gentle an# s(eet, (ith goo# (ill to(ar# the e%'s remarriage)ShaniDivorce #ela+e# or #enie#, native has long lie (ith minimal contritions to the !oint assets poolrom their spose) /eires stailit+ o social stats) Spose rom a lesser social ran", t "armicoligation to remain in the relationship at least at the legal level)/ahGra<+ an# npre#ictale trn o events in #ivorce) Ma+ #ivorce an# remarr+ the same person t(ice or even thrice)eti #ivorce occrs, the native is not involve# in it) Ma+ not sho( p in cort or respon# to legal action) F%treme#etachment rom the process)'ara2as or Divorce5Multiple Marriages( *he stronger the "ara"a + rashi, #rishti etc) the stronger its #ivorce9remarriage efects$J Sr+a in hose9 Esel9righteosness in marriage=J Sr+a in hose9C Enative craves romantic attention=J /ah or et in hose9J /ahet +ti rasi L9, or Eto a lesser po(er=J /ah9et +ti navamsha L91 or L9 in#icates craving or ne( partners, reent remarriagesJ th Lor# in #shthamshaJ Mtal #rishti o enem+ rahain navamsha 1 a%is

J r an# /ah #rishti pon L9 or Sh"ra

Shani in yuvati #havaJ is not a #ivorce "ara"a t rather signi.es #etermine# har#9(or"ing plo##ing throgh an an ar#os or #isappointingmarriage)J ives #etermination to tolerate a emotionall+ or .nanciall+ (ithhol#ing, or lo(9caste or n#erperorming, spose)J Depen#ing on other 6permission6 graha, the native ma+ not nee# to accept their marital oppression in#e.nitel+)J *his placement o Shani t+picall+ sho(s sstaine# "arma o a trolesome spose or a long perio#, even i #ivorce#oes eventall+ occr (hen h"ti o a #ivorce graha Esee tale aove= releases the "arma))J Best reslts (ith an ?l#er or conservative spose) 8or social reasons, Shani in hava9 is generall+ an easierplacement or a emale)Divorce-related Transits(J Irreconcilale #iferences lea#ing to ph+sical separation reentl+ occr at milestones o 91;, 1:91C, 1913, 49439or9 49@;, @29@, or :C9:3 +ears)J Legal Divorce ma+ occr some +ears ater the ph+sical separation, #epen#ing on the strength o the ar#ha lagna)



J *here are ver+ e( #ivorces ater :C +ears o marriage) ERes, there are some, #e to vimshottari #ashaconsi#erations not afecte# + these transit c+cles)= o /ah c+cles are , 13, 4, @2, C:, An#2@+ears)o Shani c+cles are #rations o 1:91C, 49@;, ?r ::9:C +ears)o An+ o these milestone 6retrns6 that might occr simltaneosl+ (ith h"ti o 4n# Lor# or 3th Lor#, can contriteconsi#erale momentm to a #ivorce)3sycho-emotional connections(J I these connections are not present, strctral (ea"ness in the marriage enhances li"elihoo# o #ivorce$ o her rasiMoon a%is shol# matches either his navamsha no#al a%is, or his navamsha no#al a%iso her rasi Moon a%is shol# matches either her navamsha no#al a%is, or her navamsha no#al a%iso or non9tra#itional committe# nions, partner91 mst match partner94 as aoveo i one's rasi Moon is not 6matche#6 to the navamsha lagna or no#es Eor possil+, navamsha Moon= o the otherpartner, ?ne remains 6emotionall+ invisile6 to the partner)

J here (e are lc"+ enogh to have veri.e# irth #ata or oth sposes in a #ivorce case, it is almost al(a+s thecase that one spose (ill e 6invisile6 to the other an# that this inailit+ to recogni<e the other person's ps+cho9emotional realit+ is the n#erl+ing case o 6irreconcilale #iferences6 in #ivorce)J -h+sical separation vs) legal #ivorce *iming o 6#ivorce6 most oten means, he h"ti an# gochara no#es in efect(hen cople ph+sicall+ separates (ith a clear intention to #ivorce) 6Moving ot6 an# 6starting over6 oten happens+ears eore a .nal legal settlement is reache#) Divorce relate# events sch as (hen the legal #ivorce petition is6.le#6 or (hen it is 6.nal6 #o oten ollo( ic"l+, an# are complete# (ithin the initial ph+sical separation h"ti)) *hese actions are less personal an# more aot social position, propert+, csto#+, etc) I the t(elth hose Eo illsions=has a ver+ strong Ar#ha lagna 99 (hich is to sa+ there is a strong po(er oJ -o(er o -lic Illsion -lic Illsion nctioning in the person's lie 99 an# he seventh hoseTIIIpaBhava+vatiUhava)htm is also (ea" 9 the plic a#mission o #ivorce Elegal #ecree= ma+ occr man+ +earsater moving9ot) In real lie the gap et(een an internall+ Espiritall+emotionall+= (ea" marriage an# the e%ternal,

plic appearance o a strong on# is oten on# in coples (ho are plic .gres, pillars o their commnit+, (hohol# political or religios oOce, or other(ise have an instrmental nee# to maintain a convincing plic 6ace6 ocontining marriage long ater the+ have separate#) Shol# a person's rasi chart #ispla+ this comination o (ea"9th(ith strong Hpapa#a, the+ are not mar"e# as a h+pocrite or a complsive liar) Hsall+ the orces o plic e%pectationare mch stronger than the in#ivi#al's o(n corage to e honest, an# the conseences o plic annoncement o#ivorce too painl to one or oth parties) atch or the perio# o the lor# o 4n#9rom9Hpapa#ato see the plicannoncement)J Hpapa#a an# Darapa#a$ *he -o(er o -lic IllsionJ Marriage is not onl+ a private relationship, t it is also a plic instittion) /egar#less o private trth, plicperceptions can #etermine the marriage plic stats)o A14 is the ar#ha lagna o 14th hose (hich is name# papa#ao A is the ar#ha lagna o th 5ose (hich is also name# #arapa#ao i the Hpapa#a EA14= is strong, t the th hose ecomes (ea" An# 3th hose efects are elt,

o this (ill mean ph+sical separation et(een the cople an# marriage as sch ma+ contine to srvive in this (orl# oillsion)o *hs people or otsi#ers (ill contine to consi#er the cople as hsan# an# (ie (hen the+ are ph+sicall+separate#)

J *he secon# hose rom the Hpapa#agives the e%act timing o the Actal rea"age o marriage as ever+one gets to"no( that this separation, #ivorce or #eath o spose has occrre#)J *he eighth hose rom Vens (ill ring those people (ho (ill Activate this rea"age o marriage either -5RSIGALLR,?/ AG*HALLR)J I the lor# o the secon# is associate# (ith Darapa#a then the person ha# ph+sical relationship eore the marriagean# this + itsel can e a case o rea" o the .rst marriage)

3hysical Separation

J 4n# rom an+ hose sho(s the satrationE#eath= o matters containe# in that hose) th hose rles marriage, the.rst marriage in particlar) *iming o 6satration point6 (hen this lie's "arma in the matter o marriage relations iscomplete#, is set + the sche#le# perio# o the lor# o 4n# rom9crrent9marriage) o rom the .rst spose(hether +#eath or #ivorce is seen in the h"ti o lor# o 4n#9rom9th , ran#hra hava) Ater age @4, also consi#er 3th9rom9Moon)Wo rom the secon# spose(hether + #eath or #ivorce is seen in the h"ti o lor# o 4n#9rom94n# , Saha!a hava)Ater age @4, also consi#er @r#9rom9Moon)Wo rom the *hir# spose(hether + #eath or #ivorce is seen in the h"ti o lor# o 4n#9rom9th , "arma hava) Aterage @4, also consi#er 1;th9rom9Moon)W

? corse the reglar #asha rotations o separation9casing hose lor#s #o not garantee separation o marriagepartners) 8ar rom itPo Marriage as *he core social an# emotional on#o a#lt lie, (ill remain secre + #ealtnless signi.cant#estaili<ing +ogas afect Vens, 0piter, or the marriage hoseEs=)o Marriage is a po(erl +ogaP 8or most people, ego9attachment to the marriage partner's o#+personalit+ is secon#

onl+ to ego9attachment to one's o(n o#+personalit+P



o ?nl+ i other actors are lea#ing to instailit+ in marriage, #o (e go loo"ing or the clprit 64n#9rom6 lor# to in#icatetiming o separation)Sri& 6&%& aman - A 7atechism o AstrologyJ X) 111 $ 8rom (hich hose or planet #o +o pre#ict a secon# marriageYJ Ans$ o Vens an# the th hose in#icate marriage)o I +o are sre that the .rst (ill either #ie or separate rom the hsan#, ta"e the planets in the th or associate#(ith Vens)o *he strongest (ill #etermine the secon# (ie)o In a emale horoscope, ta"e Satrn in the place o Vens E-rasna Marga=)o Some athors (ant s to rea# the 11th hose an# this ma+ also e a#opte#)6

J Sh"ra "ara"a or sposeY o Mainl+ or male nativit+) Sh"ra K "ara"a or marriagean# all other contractal

agreements also) Sh"ra K "ara"a or harmon+, partnership, alance, mtal spport, #iplomac+) I there is #amage to Sh"ra Ee)g), Sh"ra et= then the marriage e%pectations are (ea"ene# an# the li"lihoo# o secon# marriage increases) >atrall+ the Vimshottari Dasha timing mst trigger a #ivorce, t (ithot the pre9e%isting(ea"ness no trigger (ill (or") Sh"ra an# hava9 speci.call+ in#icate marriage or men (ho preer to marr+ (omen)

As Shri /aman sa+s, omen have their o(n s+stem in 0+otisha) 8or (omen, Sh"ra is not the #irect pro.le o the hsan# t rather the #isposition o marriage contract an# here%pectations o harmon+ in the nion) r in#icates the .rst hsan#, Shani is the 4n# hsan#, an# graha associate# (ith Shani in#icate thir# an#sseent hsan#s) In m+ recor#s, there is a case o a (oman "no(n to me (ho (as marrie# an# #ivorce# .ve

times eore the age o :4) In her nativit+, all graha e%cept chan#ra9rah occp+ a rashi o Shani) Marriage91 comesrom r) Marriages 49@9:9C come rom Shani an# three graha (ith Shani) Ater she e%haste# the "arma o each o r in arashi o Shani, then Shani, then three graha (ith Shani, she stoppe# getting marrie# an# entere# a monaster+) She isno( a great healer an# saint)

Man+ esterners have three or more marriages)J /ah9etJ In m+ practice Eat least so arP= I .n# that 4n# Lor# is the est signi.cator o the 4n# marriage partner male oremale, an# that most plic aspects o the 4n# spose's lie can e rea# rom 4n# hava as lagna) Ee)g), career o 4n#spose K 1;th9rom94n#, K native's hava911=)J th Lor# is the signi.cator o @r# sposeN L9: K :th sposeN L911 K Cth sposeN etc)Timing o a Second marriageJ Marriage an# all remarriages (ill ollo( the same timing rles$J Bh"ti o one o these classic marriage9ma"ers$ o Shani, Sh"ra, /ah or et

o >avamsha o th Lor# or 1st Lor#o /ahet transit throgh one o these a%es D91 or D9 no#al a%is

D91 or D9 lagna a%is D91 or D9 a%is o Moon

8hat to e+pect in the ne+t spouse(J -lic characteristics o the ne%t9in9line spose are seen throgh the ollo(ing lagnas$ o 1st spose lagna, ta"e th5oseo 4n# spose lagna ta"e 4n# 5oseo @r# spose lagna ta"e th 5oseo :th spose lagna ta"e :th 5ose

Determining Spouse9s previous Marriages Echil#ren, relatives, an# siness afairs + conting geometricall+rom the lagna o the relevant spose9hose)=

F)g),o career o 1st spose K 1;th9rom9 th K an#h hava also see the rasi lor# o the :th navamshaWo career o 4n# spose K 1;th9rom94n#K laha hava also see the rasi lor# o the 11th navamshaWo career o @r# spose K 1;th9rom9thK rip hava also see the rasi lor# o the 2th navamshaWo Eprevios= chil#ren o 4n# spose K Cth9rom94n# K ari hava also see the rasi lor# o the 2th navamshaWo Eprevios= spose o 4n# spose K th9rom94n# K ran#hra hava also see the rasi lor# o the 3th navamshaW

Marriage vs& LoveMarriage is seen via Rvati an# /omance , Fntertainment, love9afair an# love9o9chil#ren99 is seen via ptra havaFven i no marriage is orthcoming, +or love lie might e alosPI hose9C an# its Lor# are strong, perio#s o L9C (ill ring plent+ o love) L9C love is not concerne# (ith social #t+ trather is a celeration o the sel) *+picall+ L9C perio#s pro#ce pre love E(ith either lovers or chil#ren= that #oes notreire the social vali#ation on#age o legal marriage)It is ite possile to have a lie .lle# (ith marvelos romance (hile living completel+ ree o marriage 9 an# viceversaP

6ene$cs in yuvati sthana



o r in +vati #oes not prevent #ivorce, t rather creates a rien#l+ post9#ivorce relationship)o r or Sh"ra in ran#hra hava is also helpl or positive resorce sharing post9#ivorce$ generos alimon+,contining rien#l+ concern or the (elare o the e%9spose, cooperative co9parenting, etc)

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