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Page 1: Lifestyles After 50 Suncoast May 2014 edition

Vol. 25 • May 2014

www.lifestylesafter50fl.com • Suncoast • FREE

• Late Bloomers• Happiness Matters

• Angels of Bataan

Mothers Do Make A Difference

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Foster Mother: One of the Many Faces of MotherhoodDear Readers,

Motherhood can have

many faces. I am an adoptive and a biological mother, a mother-in-law and a grandmother. At one point, I moth-ered three students from Estonia. Four years ago I became a step-mother when I re-married. But before any of those, I became Foster Mother to Christy—a relation-ship that has lasted over 45 years. My fi rst husband and I were just 26 when we were asked if we would consider taking a 15-year-old girl into our home. We were told she was very bright. She was responsible for the care of seven siblings, fi ve of whom were under the age of six. “She needs to be where there are no small children and she can just be a teenager,” the case worker friend said. Christy, angry and suspicious, arrived in a shapeless gray sweatshirt with a scowl on her face. Tom passed her the butter that fi rst night at supper and when she reached for it, he pushed it forward so her thumb went into the soft butter. She looked up to see him smiling broadly at his playful welcome and she started laughing. She laughed and laughed—and would later tell us it was the fi rst time she’d really laughed in months.

Being foster parents was not always easy, but we had the privilege of giving her the space she needed to gain her footing for what became an extraordinary life. We offered her family, extended family, a church family, neighborhood relationships, conversations, canoe trips, books, trips, se-curity and the freedom to be a part of a peer group. And I think we laughed a lot! Christy has what iconic author Gail Sheehy has called “the spirit of survival.” She went to college and then moved to California over 30 years ago; for some years, we had random communications before settling into a close adult friendship. Christy earned two masters degrees, worked for the Los Angeles Times and married a wonderful man. Two years ago, I went to Los Angeles for her 60th birthday party. Ten women each told of the gracious, happy and loving friend, companion, counselor and confi dante Christy has been to them. In the group were fellow artists, a college dean’s wife, a poet, a librarian, an internationally recognized ukulele player, a sister-in-law, a Bon Apetit magazine editor—all women

who live interesting, successful and challenging lives like Christy’s. We are close friends, Christy and I, and we both realize not all foster parent/child experiences result in a bond like ours. At the same time, we feel blessed to have this incredible extension to our lives.

In this issue, you will read about some Florida women who choose being foster mothers as their lifestyle. They get up daily and deal head on with children of adults who could not make life work out to sustain family life physically and emotion-ally. We honor them this month of May for the lasting changes they may bring to even one child.

Janice Doyle, Editor

Editor Janice Doyle and her foster daughter Christy enjoy a 45-year-long relationship.

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For Opera Lovers7 Pinellas Opera League Luncheon.

Socialize, eat and be entertained by local opera singers. $20. 11 am at Dunedin Country Club. Call for reservations. 727-738-4007.

15 St. Petersburg Opera: Evenings With the Maestro. “Norma, the

Consummate Bel Canto.” Learn about Bel Canto, the art of beautiful singing,

with excerpts from the opera. 6 pm at The Music Gallery of Clearwater. $15/seniors. 727-530-3304.

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22 Coffee series – Beethoven’s Fifth Symphony

23 – 25: Pops series – “A Stars & Stripes Hit Parade” (for

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The orchestra regularly performs at the Straz Center in Tampa, Mahaffey Theater in St. Pete and Ruth Eckerd Hall in Clearwater. Tickets and info: floridaorchestra.org, or 1-800-662-7286.

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7 Nature Photography class at month-ly Florida Native Plant Society

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8 15, 22, 29 Music and Movies in the Park. Features local music talent be-

fore classic movie screening. 7 pm. Free (donations welcome) at North Straub Park, St. Petersburg. 727-463-4612.

9 The Music of the Eagles tribute con-cert. 8 pm at Mahaffey Theater. $35,

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9 Encore Academy: “Discover Your Strengths – What’s Next.” Work-

shops to assist Boomers with their “Encore Career.” 3 pm at The Green-house, St. Petersburg. 813-390-1010.

9 and 10 Taste of Pinellas. Music and food festival at Albert

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10 Bowling in the Dark. Bowling, music, fun to promote independent

living for the visually impaired. Prizes: best bowling shirts, most funds raised, best scores. $5 entry. 1 pm at Seminole Lanes Bowling Center. 727-544-4433, ext. 235.

10 “Going Coastal,” Introduction to Fishing for Youth. Bring

grandkids 7 to 12. Fishing poles, bait and tackle provided. 1 pm at Wheedon Island Preserve, St. Petersburg. Free; registration required at 727-582-2100.

10 “From Broadway to the Silver Screen” concert by the Palm

Harbor Community Chorus. 2 pm at the Palm Harbor Public Library. Free; donations welcome. 727-786-2610.

11 Fly Balls and Flights of Fancy. Jim Schnur, Pinellas County Historical

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11 “Sinatra Salutes the Ladies” special Mother’s Day Dinner

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16 Spring Health Fair. Healthcare and wellness products, informa-

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17 The Invention Convention, $14.95/seniors, 10 am to 1 pm;

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17 “The Science of Sky Watching” presentation by The Mutual

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17 Recreation Open House. The Largo Community Center,

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18 Adopt-a-Palooza. Vendors, Ask-a-Trainer, concessions and

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21 – June 15 “Steel Magnolias” at American Stage Theatre, St.

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29 Edible Art Trivia Night. Team up with up to five friends.

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30 “A Bench in the Sun.” Two old coots and a once famous actress

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Have you ever said to yourself “I’d love to get a computer, if only I could figure out how to use it.” Well, you’re not alone. Computers were supposed to make our lives simpler, but they’ve gotten so complicated that they are not worth the trouble. With all of the “pointing and clicking” and “dragging and dropping” you’re lucky if you can figure out where you are. Plus, you are constantly worrying about viruses and freeze-ups. If this sounds familiar, we have great news for you. There is finally a computer that’s designed for simplicity and ease of use. It’s the WOW Computer, and it was designed with you in mind. This computer is easy-to-use, worry-free and literally puts the world at your fingertips.

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Looking for Your Encore Career? Help Is Here!BY EVELYN MACKEY

What will 78 million boomers do in their 50s, 60s and beyond?

Many of them are interested in new careers—encore careers, that is—giv-ing them another chance to earn, this time something that combines per-sonal fulfillment, social impact and continued income. In short, something that puts their passion to work for the greater good. As Encore.org says it: work in new ways, on new terms, to new and even more important ends. And older workers, according to one labor economist, will be a crucial part of the workforce in the future. That’s a good thing, because boomers make up the largest, healthiest, best-educated population of Americans. Those on the leading edge of the generation are pioneers in a new stage spanning the decades between middle and late life. Neither young nor old, they represent an extraordinary resource.

What about you? If you’re in that group longing to find an encore position, how will you prepare? “It’s exciting to help people find their passion,” says Bevan Gray-Rogel, President and Founder of Encore Tampa Bay. “It’s more than just deciding how to fill your day.” The organization’s mission is to provide pathways, programs and resources that help boomers discover and connect to their encore careers. “People are excited about doing something that aligns with their values and purpose, but there’s a lot of fear also.” Gray-Rogel is one of 14 Encore Innovation Fellows. Her focus is working with encore entrepreneurs. “I will be creating models and framework for community groups to find ways to tap into this windfall of talent, people over 50 who want to give back to the community and do other things than what they’ve always done.” Part of the larger

Encore.org purpose is then to use these models all across the country. Gray-Rogel’s Encore Academy in St. Petersburg helps people become aware of what’s going on, the psychological and emotional issues involved in moving forward, letting people know they’re not alone in their struggle. Conversational Exploration and Discovery discussion groups help boomers get comfortable looking forward to what’s next and managing transition, topics that help people get comfortable with their new status. Beyond that, Gray-Rogel offers workshops and programs to help look at past roles and find what they might have wanted to do—imagin-ing and visualizating, that “what if...?” permission to dream. Next Gray-Rogel helps put the pieces together to “see what that looks like.” Workshops help discover strengths and find out what’s out there.

She adds, “If a senior wants to start up a business, I’m here to help them recognize their skills, abilities and financial needs. We help a boomer get clear on what their passion is and de-mystify the entrepreneurial process, to understand what they’re able to bring to the table.” There are also great examples of organizations making this paradigm shift right here in Tampa Bay. Patina Solutions where seasons professionals want to continue working. And Boomerswork, which provides services that can match out-of-work boomers with businesses. Encore Tampa Bay is making a difference in the Tampa Bay com-munity by connecting passionate, experienced, talented older adults to organizations that are in need of this level of expertise and experience. Learn more about the Encore Acad-emy and its founder, Bevan Gray-Rogel, at encoretampabay.com.

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We Honor Foster Mothers Who Pick Up the Pieces of Children’s Broken Lives

BY JANICE DOYLE

“Life is so complex out there. It’s gotten so rough

for some of the children,” says Bobbi of St. Petersburg, a foster mother with 31 years of experience. Today’s foster kids come with lots of mental and emotional abuse. “We give them something they haven’t had before. And when they are in my home, they are mine.” Wendy and her pastor husband in Fort Myers have been married 40 years and have raised five kids of their own. Now they are foster par-ents. She says, “The difficulty comes because the kids all come with some history which may be drug or abuse related. That means they are very scared and very hurt and it takes a while to work through it.” Peggy in Ocala has been a foster mom 23 years. She says, “You don’t do it for the money, you do it for the kids who need love and care.” She’s seen older kids come in from parents who have taught them to do the wrong things and the kids don’t want to change. Peggy gives a hearty laugh and says, “But the little ones are still okay. I’ll take the little ones peein’ and poopin’ any time.” “You have to love them uncondi-tionally so they can heal. They have all been through some sort of trauma and need to heal. We can help that process,” says Joy in Leesburg. “I would say the most important challenge is getting to know and understand each child and what they’ve been through and how it has impacted them,” says Victoria from Ocala. “One of the biggest mistakes we made in the beginning was to have the same expectations of foster kids as we did with our own biological kids.”

These women are all foster mothers around or beyond the age of 50. When their phones ring, they may be asked to provide a safe place to live for children who have been removed from their family just minutes or hours before. Many foster children have major physical issues. Experienced foster moms keep stashes of clothes and child care supplies in closets and drawers for children who arrive with nothing but the clothes on their backs. Their needs include support, encouragement, reassurance, self-esteem, self-worth and most importantly, love. Oh, and food, schooling and toys, too. Foster moms have access to an array of counselors, therapists, doctors and specialists—all a part of the system which tries to pick up the pieces of the broken lives of families. And at the core of the system is the need for foster mothers.

Eckerd’s Director of Licensing Laurallyn Segur says, “The older foster mothers bring experience and wisdom. They’ve raised families. They understand parenting and love children. Many have a lot to offer and don’t want a house without children in it. They’re ‘lifers’ as far as children are concerned.”

And so, we honor these and all foster mothers, who know that every day really is Mother’s Day when you’re making a difference in the life of a child.

What They Said:

• “It’s very fulfilling and I’m never lonely.”

• “Let it be fun, enjoy them; they will bless your socks off!”

• “Successes come when there’s an adoption that goes well. The last infant I had was adopted, and I see him on Facebook

all the time. I’m seeing him grow up.”

• “With five kids, the real challenge here is making sure that each child gets quality time in the evenings. And then on the 8th day …God created bedtime!”

• “Every single day, you have to make sure these kids know they are loved and that you are committed to helping them walk through their challenges.”

• “When I have a child at home I’m more organized and stay on schedule.”

• “We have a young lady we had in foster care for two years when she was 9 to 11 yrs old. She’s come back to us at 22 and wants to be part of our

family! She never forgot the influence we were in her life!”

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Victoria from Ocala and her family.

Foster mom Bobbi from St. Petersburg.

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Late Bloomer/Baby Boomer

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I am returning to college. I have advised my adult son of that so he

can put SHE GRADUATED on my tombstone. When my peers are retir-ing, I will be entering the job market. I am learning that if you wait long enough, school becomes fun. Last semester, I sat in a classroom for the first time in thirty years. I loved it. The procedure is so simple. You are given information, you learn the information and then you are given a reward called a grade. You pay money for this, a lot of money. I am pleased to scream from the rooftops that I am an A student. I have heard it said that nontraditional students may have acquired time man-agement skills that traditional students

lack. My best time management skill has been to take one class at a time. I am taking philosophy. I have become very thoughtful, contemplating such thoughts as: If life is one big school, who is the principal? Am I in trouble? Am I late? Where’s the nurse’s office?

Once I have my AA, I will get a BA, an MA and then a Ph.D. Unless I get a RIP. I could be teaching in a university when I am in my seventies. Another secret to my academic success is the undeniable parallel between age and the progressive

decline in one’s ability to have wild fun. This is very helpful. I have a definite advantage over the twenty-year-old sitting next to me with her head on her desk.

I am paying for my books by selling t-shirts printed with “Late Bloomer / Baby Boomer” with a picture of a turtle kissing a hare. I draw heavily from preschool influences. I have advice to give to other baby boomers who return to college. We tend to talk a lot. Don’t monopolize the classroom discussions. My next fund-raiser is a discussion guide for “Baby Boomers: When Putting Your Foot in Your Mouth Is No Longer Possible.” Older is wiser. Anyone can be a Late Bloomer/Baby Boomer and return to school. Apply, register, do the process. Be proud, stand tall. Order and wear your Late Bloomer/Baby Boomer t-shirt. A senior student, not to be confused with a graduating senior, does not have to worry about ruining their future. This is the future. So go ahead, mess up, it is

too late to ruin your life. You might even be surprised and earn an A. You can reach the author at [email protected].

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senior, does not have to worry about ruining their future.

This is the future. So go ahead, mess up, it is too late to ruin your life. You might even be

surprised and earn an A.

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Association, there are currently 1,900 places to play pickleball in the US with more courts being added each month. It’s popular with players of all ages, but seniors in particular are sweet on the sport as an alternative to ten-nis because it’s less physically taxing. Some players who’ve been sidelined from other sports with bad knees or feet find that they can play pickleball pain-free. In West Central Florida, there’s a strong pickleball community. Hills-borough County Parks and Recreation has introduced the sport to some local recreation centers and offers free lessons several days a week at se-lected locations. The Sun City Center Pickleball Club is one of the area’s largest and Kings Point, Meadow Pointe in Wesley Chapel and Valencia Lakes have pickleball clubs and courts of their own. Pickleball is consistently the biggest event at the Tampa Bay

Senior Games (held each October) according to event organizers. In addition to being an easy sport to learn (some say it takes only five minutes), pickleball is a very social sport. Some clubs allow those with physical limitations to join as social members and each club typically has an active social schedule. The social nature of the sport in part accounts for its rapid spread. Before the US Pickleball Association was formed in the 1980s, the sport spread primarily through word of mouth. The associa-tion now has over 20,000 members.

Wondering where to get started in learning about pickleball? Pickleball-Channel.com is a new website that just launched, aimed at providing resources for both novice and experienced pickleball players. The channel’s Executive Producer Rusty Howes says that with the lightning-speed growth of pickleball, there was a need to provide exciting digital content online to serve the sport’s growing fan base. Each

week, the channel will debut new video content, and they’re always looking for new players, teams and organizations to feature. The site offers advice on any-thing from what shoes to wear for play to game techniques, as well as insight into the people who play pickleball. It may have a funny name, but pickleball is gaining a serious follow-ing that looks like it’s here to stay. If you’ve got a great pickleball story to share, email [email protected]. For more info on pickleball, visit usapa.org/what-is-pickleball.

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Veterans Corner

BY JANICE DOYLE

Today American women serve alongside men in the military and

are trained to face combat. In 1941, that wasn’t the case, but 79 Army and Navy military nurses did face combat and near death. They were left behind when MacArthur was forced to retreat from the Philippines. Taken prisoner by the Japanese and subjected to hun-ger, disease and repeated bombings, the women survived and were saved when the American liberators arrived. Mary Cronk Farrell’s book, Pure Grit, pays tribute to the heroism and determination of these extraordinary women who cared for the sick and wounded while facing their own illness, lack of food and supplies, and the knowledge they might never return home. The stories of the individual women make for fascinating reading. For example, Ethel Thor arrived for duty in 1940 in heels, stockings and gloves. When young Frankie Lewey signed up, she told her mother, “If ever there is a war, I hope I get right in the thick of it.” Peggy Nash had been supervisor of surgery at US Naval Hospital in Guam and was preparing to leave to get married. In October 1941 she was transferred to Manila and became one of the eleven naval hospital nurses in-carcerated in Santo Tomas Internment Camp. Maude Denny Williams ended up leaving her soldier husband behind as a patient in Hospital #2 in Bataan when nurses were evacuated to Corregador. Her husband did not survive to come home. Millie Dalton, an Army nurse from Georgia, said, “There was no way in the world we were prepared for war.”

Frances Nash, who learned life and death nursing at Grady Memorial Hospital in Atlanta, was told to “prepare to be taken prisoner.” She continued working, destroying paper-work to keep it from enemy hands. When she did get orders to flee, she took enough morphine pills to provide nurses with lethal doses if needed. Maude Davidson refused to leave the Filipino nurses behind when the Americans were ordered to evacuate Manila for Corregidor. Sally Blaine managed her hospital ward lying down on her cot suffering from

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STORY BY ANDREA GROSS; PHOTOS BY IRV GREEN

A life-size model of a cosmonaut floats near the ceiling. A few feet

away a green Statue of Liberty holds aloft a plasticized chocolate sundae. And sitting next to me are two men who might, just might, be making a deal that will change my life. This is Buck’s of Woodside, a restau-rant in the hills surrounding California’s Silicon Valley. It’s a place known for comfort food, quirky décor and big deals, like the ones that resulted in fund-ing for Hotmail, Netscape and PayPal.

“The Valley,” as it’s generally called, is centered in the fertile farmland between Palo Alto and San Jose. “This area was paradise back in the Sixties,” says Phil Consentino, who owns J & P Farms, the last commercial orchard in San Jose. Since then, the valley’s population has increased six-fold, and flourishing fruit trees have been cut down to make room for middle-class homes and apartments.

This transformation from a region of bountiful orchards to one filled with some of the world’s most renowned high tech companies began just a few miles from Buck’s in a small garage at 367 Addison Avenue in Palo Alto. In 1939, Stanford graduates Bill Hewlett and David Packard pooled their life savings ($538) in order to start a small electronics company. Today Hewlett-Packard ranks 43rd on Fortune’s 2013 list of the world’s largest companies, and the small garage is on the National Register of Historic Places. The sign out front dubs the garage the “Birthplace of Silicon Valley.” My husband dubs the $538 a good investment.

Another Silicon Valley landmark, the house where Steve Jobs lived from the mid-1990s until his death in 2011, is a few blocks away at 2101 Waverly Street. The two-story brick home, which sits on about a half acre, is fairly large but at the same time unpretentious and casual. People walk with purpose in the Silicon Valley, but the suits of Mad Men have morphed into the jeans of geniuses. During our week in Silicon Valley, we see only four men in sports coats, none in ties. (The dress code for women is more liberal. The only rule: save the stilettos for after-hours.)

Comfortable shoes are a necessi-ty here where workplaces are not clustered in high-rises but sprin-kled across “campuses”—a word that connotes low-slung buildings interspersed with large open spaces and youth and convivial-ity. Some companies provide their employees with bicycles. Except for the Apple store, the buildings are closed to visitors, so we move on to Castro Street in the town of Mountain View.

Unlike Buck’s, which is the restaurant where people make deals, Castro Street is filled with eateries where folks hatch ideas. Here, over salads and stir-fry, lattes and scones, ideas are floated, debated and often massaged into “the next great thing.” In the Red Rock Coffee Company we find a packed crowd taking advantage of the café’s free wi-fi. Most people are in baggy shorts, sandals and look to be about nineteen years old. Finally we set out for the geeky part of our expedition—a visit to three Silicon Valley museums that will, we hope, give us a layman’s overview of high tech wizardry. They succeed beyond our wildest expectations. At the Computer History Museum we see everything from ancient

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this past January, passengers had taken to calling it the greatest fan fest on the high seas. They were surprised, and then some, that their weeklong cruise through the Caribbean wasn’t just back-to-back concerts, perfect days by the pool and visits to postcard-perfect island towns. Already the stuff vacation dreams are made of, the Country Music Cruise turned out to be seven days of getting up close and personal with country superstars who dropped by cooking seminars, classes on songwriting,

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“To be able to have this many country stars in one place and to really get to sit down with them and talk to them about old times and memories that we’ve shared together is incredible,” said Crook about the star-studded cruise. “It’s great to be in such an intimate environment and so close to the audience,” added Martina McBride, who is planning something special for fans during her performances on the cruise. “We are incorporating some of the hits into the new show. They will be slightly different arrangements, but of course still recognizable. Me and the band are looking forward changing it up a little bit.”

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BY BRIAN GUNNELL

If it’s not too late already, try looking at just the N-S hands and

decide how you are going to play that Spade suit. Where’s the lady?

That 1NT opening showed 15 – 17 HCP, after which the auction inches its way up to 4♠. West leads the ♦Q, which is won by your Ace. You have one loser in each of the side-suits, so to make your contract you must avoid losing a trump trick.

In the play of the Spades you could choose to finesse against West, or to finesse against East, or to play “for the drop” (hoping that the suit is 2 – 2 or the ♠Q is singleton). The general rule, when holding a 9-card fit, is to

play for the drop, all things being equal that is about a 58 percent chance. But why settle for 58 percent when you can have 100 percent? Yes, it’s time for some counting. N-S have a combined 22 HCP, that leaves E-W with 18. West has already played the ♦Q, leaving precisely 15 or 16 HCP in the East hand. As East has already advertised 15 – 17 he must have all the missing high cards with the possible exception of one of the missing Jacks. So at Trick

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