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HOW WHITE PEOPLE CAN WORK FOR RACIAL JUSTICE REVISEO EDITION PAUL KIVEL

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HOW WHITE PEOPLE CAN WORK FOR RACIAL JUSTICEREVISEO EDITION

PAUL KIVEL

Advance Praise for UPROOTING RACISMUprooting Racism continues to be a pO'werful and wonderful book, a O\1jor contribution to our understanding of racism as white people. It amwers many of the questions whites have dlOUght about but were afraid to discuss. Not only does Kivel address tough issues related to whiteness and racism, creating greater underslanding of the complexities of these issues, but he also identifies specific wa)'S that whites can be allies for change all done with honesty, forthrightness, respect, and from the heart. For any white person who is sincere about working for social justice, here's the source.-

-Judith H. Katz, Ed. D., author of White Aware"ess: Ha"dbook/or Anli-Racism Training; and The I"clusion Breakthrough: U"leasbing rbe Real POUJer 0/DiversityPaul Khci wriles MID clarity and deplh in a '!)Ie !hal ire than C\"et, we as white people need to put our shoultkrs to the task of.

working with people of color to uproot racism. A'i Idiscuss in rmre detail in the book, it is inOOequate to say "I am not prejudiced," and morally evash'e to say "I treat C\tt)one the

same." In a world in which racism continues to be one of the bedrocks of our on.izations and institutions, in which rmSl people of Ollor, C\'Ct)' single day, are confronted with therepercussions of racial discrinWtion, t, and exploitation, we IWSI ask oursehoes "What do I stand Ji)l Who do I stand with? Do I stand for rnciaI justice, the end of discrimination and rnciaI oolence, and a society truly based on equal opportunity? Do I stand wilh people of color and white allies in the struggle to uproot racism?"'

These arc the questioos Ichallenge }OU with as }UU begin to read this book.What do }OU stand for? Who do }'OU stand with? What are }OU going to do about it? I hope this book helps you to be clearer and tmre eJIl'CUvC in answering these questions. Paul Kivel Marc" 2002

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A note to readers outside the United Statesany of Ihe examples used in the book from the United States, where I live and about which I hmot to infonnation. Many reports, snldies, and accounts M ofracism in other white majority societies show similar patterns ofracism against people of color in such countries as Great Britain, Canada, France, Gennany, Australia, and New Zealand. For example, the Pareldl Report, "The Future ofMulti-edmic Britain," doruments extcnsh'C institutional and cultural racism throughout Great Britain. Ifyou live in a while majority rountry, talkto people ofcolor, im'CStigate the studies and reports, and don't let yoursdfbe compL1Cent or indifferent simplybecause the situation is not exactly the thaI which I describe in the Uniled Stales.are rrore access same as

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Introduction: "Only Justice Can Put Out the Fire'"It is not another book about how bad 61led with facts and figures about inequality and injustice. In this book I want to talk to )QU personally about what rncism means to those of us who arc white, and how we can tmke a difference in the struggle for racial justice. TIlere is fire raging across the United States -usuallya series of bmsh fires erupting whenc''er conditions arc right, sometimes a fircstonn, always a smoldering cauldron. Whether it is major urban uprisings, intellectual debates, or everyday conflicts in our ncighborboods and schools, racism is bumffig us all. Some ofUS have lhiId-degree bums or have died from its effects; rmnyothers lilt! in the chaned wreckage. Most of us suffer fu5t. and second-degree bums at somc time in our livcs. \le all live with fear in the glow of the fire's menacing and distorted light. As white people we do rmny things to SUI'Vh'e the heat. Som.! of us lOOve to the suburbs, put bars on our windows, put on our hearts, and teach our children distrust for their own protection. Some of us believe the enemy is "out there" -and we can be safe "'in here,"Most olus OC\'eI' talkabout what it means to be "in hcrc"with other white people and why we are so afraid of people with darker skin colors "out there." When we don't talk about our fears, we are pm'Cllted from doing anything effecth'e to put out the fire. lUll after poll shows that most white Americans are scared. We are scared about violence; we are scared about the economy; we are scared about the safety, education, and future of our children. Much of the time those fem are directed towani people of color -long-tenn residents or recent inunigrants. It is easy for us to fOOlS on them, and yet doing so is devastating to our ability to address the critical national issues of jobs, education, social infrastructure, familyviolence, and economic development. Since the uprising in South Central Los Angeles in 1992, white people arc C\'CIl more afraid than before. Once again people of color brought the injustice of racism to our national attention. We saw the fire flare up and again we were frightened. Manyofus wanted to do something, to pickup a bucket and throw water on the 8ames, but the size of the blaze seemed to make our individual efforts useless. Besides, many of us thougbt that we were too far awayfrom the cause of the fire to make a difference. A:ople of color were defined as the problem and the inner cities as the site. In fuct, Ibere are already lIames in our (all 100 often predominanOywhile) schools, churches, neighborhoods, and workplaces. Poverty, family violence, crime, drugs, fear, suicide, and despair are not limited to somewhere "out there" nor to "those people."A BOOK ABour RACIS.\I FOR WHITE PEOPLE.

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racism is,

Our houses arc burning out from under us, and we need

to pick up our buckets and start carrying water now. But just like the volwltecr fire departments in rural conununities and small towns, we need to be part of a fire line where evtryone realizes that when the sparks are flying, anything (3Il catch on fire. We need to be a comnwnity that is alert for the signs of sparks and embers so they can be put out before a bigger

blaze develops. We don't need scare tactics. 1bcy just rcinfonx the fear and paral)sis. "don't need nwnbcrs and statistics. They produce numbness and despair. ,, need to talk with each other, honestly, Simply, caringly. We need to learn how to talk about racism without rheloric, whieb funs the flames; withoUI attad

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Let's Talklater in this book. You also may mn'e an ethnic identity>QU are proud o( and )Uu ha\'e a religious background, a culture, a country of origin, and a history. WhatC\-'CJ' your other identities, )UU probably are not used to being addressed as white. "Other" people are Ahican American, Asian American, Pacific Islanders, Native American, tino/as, or Muslittti. "Other" people have countries of origin and primary languages that are not Fnglish. Rarely in this country do we identify oursehoes or each other as white. It is an adjecth--e thai is seldom heard explicidy, but is everywhere implied. People are assumed white wllcss otherwise noted, much as people (and animals) are assumed to be male. Read me following lines: He walked into the room and lrnmediately noticed her. This new sitcom is about a middleaged. middlHlass couple and their three teenage children. The average American drinks two cups of coffee a day.

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A.\I TAlJ.1(j TO YOU as one white person to another.

I amJewish, and I will talk about that

Women today want to catch a man who is strong, but sensitive. She didn't know if she would get into the coUcge of her choke. My grandmother In'Cd on a fum all her life. I have a friend who has AIDS. He won a medal on the Special Olympics basketball team Are all these people white? Read the sentences again and imagine the people referred to are Chinese Americans. Does that change the meanings? Try making them Native American. How does that change the meaning?If you are of Christian background, what happens when you

make them Jewish or Muslim?

In reality, we would Rn'e to specify they are Chinese Amerian or Nam-e AmericanorJewish or Muslim because we would Dot automatically assume they were. Similarly w }OO and me. m:: asswne we are white. It can seem like we're stating ith the obvious. Yet there is something about stating the obvious that makes us feel Wlcasy, marked. Why notice? What's the point of sa}ing I'm white? We howe been led to belie\'C that racism is a question of panirular acts of discrimination or oolence. Calling solOCooe a name, denying sonrone a job, excluding6

someone from a neighborhood - that is racism. These certUnly are acts of radsnL But what about living in a wh suburb where people ofcolor are excluded or harassed? What ite about 'working in an organization where people of color are paid less, have mlre menial workor fewer opportunities for advancement? What about shopping in a store where }{)u "'" treated respre cautious, feruful, and hesitant around people of color. These are ph)5iologicll and p5}cltologica1 responses that we can notice in owsdves and see in other white people. These responses belie our ,UbaJ. assutanttS that we don't notice racial differences. There's absolutely nothing wrong with being white or with noticing the difference that color nDkes. You were hom without choice intO }(JUT fumily. You did not choose lOur skID color, native language. or rulture. '\bu are not responsible for being white or forbeing raised in a white-dominated, racist society in which you have been trained to run'e partiadar responses to people of color. 'YOu are responsible for how you respond to racism (which what this book is about), and }'Ou can only do that consciously and effectively if)oo start by realizing that it makes a crucial difference that )llU are while.

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this dcnial.

''I 'm Not Racist " nmlER W I'm not racist. I don't belong to the Klan.

rr IS F.\SY OR DImCUD' TO MY that we're white, the phrase \\-'t often want to say

next is "But I'm not racist."1bc:re are lots ofwa)"S that we have learned to phrase

I hare friends who are people of wlor. I don't see color, I'm color blind. I do anti-racism work I went to an unlearning racism workshop.

This book is not about whether )UU an: racist or not, or whether aU white people are racist or noC. are not conducting a moral im't1ltory of ourseh'eS, nor creating a moral standanl to divide other white people from us. T avoid being called racist we may daim that we don't notice color and don't treat o people differently based on color. Howe\'Ct, we all notice color in just about every situation we're in. It's not useful or honest for any of US to claim that we don't. It is too pervasi\'t! a construct of our society to avoid When we say things IiJie . don't see color," we are tr)iog to maintain a selfimage of impartiality and fairness (and whiteness). Some of the motivation behind the claim that Vi'e are color neutral is to establish that we don't mistteat people or discriminate against them because of their race. Ultimately, this discIainu pm'el1ts us &om taking responsibility for challenging radsm because we believe that people who sec color are the problem The only way to treat people with dignity and justice is to recognize that racism has a profound negative effed: upon our lives. Noticing color helps to counterad: that effed:. blStead of being color neutral we need to notice mudl IlXlre acutely and insightfully exactly the difference that color makes in the way people are treated. Just as it's not useful to label ourseh'CS racist or not, iI is not useful to label each other. White people, indi"iduaUy and coUecthrly, have done and continue to do SOD! \'CI)' brutal things in the name of whiteness. We may want to separate ourselves from the white people who commit these acts by daiming that they are racist and we are not. But because racism operates institutionally, to the benefit of all white people, we are connected to the acts of other white people. Of course )ou're nOi a menDer of the Klan or other CAtrefniSl groups. Of course )QU watch what )'Ou say and don't make rude racial comments. But dissodating from white people who do is not the answer. '\bu maywant to dissociate )uurself from their actions"

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but }UU still need to challenge their beliefs. Y can't challenge thenl or e\'t;n speak to ou them ifyou have separated }uurself from them, creating some magical line w the racists ith on that side and }UU over here. This divire recent historical times in western Europe, those with English heritage were pen:eived to be pure white, The Irish, Russians, and Spanish were considered darker races, sometimes black, and certainly non-while. The white categoryWM slowly extended to include northern and middle European people, but still, e\'en 70 years ago, it definitdy excluded castenl or southern European peoples such as Italians, R>les, Russians, and G"""", In the last few decades, although there is still prejudice agaUist people from these geographkal backg:rowuis, they have become generally accepted as white i the n United States. 1 The important distinction in the United States has alwa)S been binary - first between those who counted as Christians and those who were pagans. As historian Winthrop Jordan has wrinen:

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Protestant Christianity was an important element ill Englisb patriotism . . . . Christianity was interwoven into [an j Englishman's] conceptioll o his own nationality, and be was thereJore inclined to regard the Negroes' lack o true religion as j j J part o tbeirs. Being a Christian was not merely a matter o subscribing to certaill doctrines; it was a quality il/berent in oneself and in one's SOciety. It was interconnected witb (Ill the other attributes o 1I0rmai and proper men. 1 JM Africans and Native Americans were rom'med to Ctianity, such a simple distinction was no longer nsefuI, at lea.! as a legal and politieal difference, In addition, because Europeans, Nath-e Ameri5 ofbow they were being defined. Although a few scientists still try to prove the existence ofraces, most scientists have long ago abandoned the use of race as a valid category 10 distinguish between humans. n 111ere is such tremendous genetic difference or variation within racial groupi gs, and such huge orlap betlveen them, that no particular racial groupings or distinrtions based on skin color or other phf.'iical characteristics are useful or justi1ied. That hasn't stopped Imlly people from believing that distinct races exist and from trying to use scientific language to buttress their arguments.' There is likewise no scientific (Le., biological or genetic) baus mwded, 1WIed, ensI:nd, and 10rtured the TainoiArawak peoples. The U.S. Army al Fort Clark delibernlely di stributed sutallpox. 1 infected blankets to the Mandan in order to IW1 them T oday we blame l)C()ple of color for racism by saying, "look at the way they act," "If they weren't so angry ... ,It or "They are immoral, lazy, dumb, or Wlambitious."REDEFINITION wanl 10 hold adults responsible for what they do. Therefore we must carefully and accurately investigate what happened so that we can SlOp violence. Ifwe don't look at the O\'CraU context and take differentials of power into acwWlt, we can be susceptible to the tactic ofredefinition. For example, he , "It was IlUItual co.mat." "She hit me first." "It takes Iwo 10 6gbt." Ifwe am no longer claim that Colwmus simply and innocently discovered America, we try to redefine that C\'Cnt too. The 1992 quincentennial llUlscum exhibit in New York was called "FncoWlter," a word implying some 1C\'el of mutuality, equality, and neutrality. In the sam.! \-ein we say, "The settlers had to proted: them'ieh'eS from lndian attacks." T oday we redefine racism as a nrutuaI problem by saying, "This COlUltry is just a big melting pot,n "An)body can be prejudiced," or "I\:ople of color attackwhite people too," IT WAS UNINTENTIONAL

At this point in the battle the group or indi idual with more power, who has clearly v done something that resulted in some kind of devastation, m claim that the damage ight was unintentional and therefore their responsibility was minimal. The ballerer sa things such as . dkln't intend to hit her." "I didn't mean to hit her so hard." "Things got out of handn First of all, da.itm of innocence by someone who hast), desaibe how white people were al'W}"5 afraid of them. I began to notice

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my own and other people's gestures - the tensing, the guardedness, the suspicion,

the watchfulness. White fear is primarily fear of men of rolor. ( aM have fears about wo of color, but they are not as visceral or pcnasi\'e.) For example, I grew up playing cowbo and Indel the cournge and integrity to inlmupt verbal abuse. Following are suggestions for wbere to start. If }OU can teU at the beginning that a joke is likely to be off ensive or imohoes stereotypes and putdowns, }OU can say something like: "I don't want to hear a joke or story that reinforces stereotypes or puts down a group of people," or "Please stop right

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there. It sow)(1s like your story is going to make fun of a group of people and I don't want to hear about it," or ". don'l like humor that fIl3k>s il lUlSafc for people here," or "I don't want to hear a joke that asks us to laugh at someone else's expense." There are rmnyways to say something appropriate without attacking or being oft'ensr.'C )Qursel Using "... statements should be an impol1aDt part of lOur strategy. Rather than attacking someon it is stronger to state how)U" feci, what }UU want. Other people may still become defensn.-e, but there is rmre opportunity for them to hear what lUll have to say if )'00 word it as an "F statClrellt. Often you don't know the story is offensive until the pundilinc. Or you just are nOl sure what )Qu're hearing, but it makes )'OU uncomfortable. It is appropriate to say aftenvards that the joke was inappropriate because ... , or the scory was offensive because ... , or it made you feel uncomfortable because ... Trust }Qur feelings about it! In any of these interactions you may need to explain further why stories based on stereotypeS reinforce abuse, and why jokes and comments that put J>OO1)le down are offensive. Rather than calling someone racist or writing someone 00; interrupting abuse is a way to do public education. It is a way to put what }l}U know about racial stereotypes and abuse into action to stop them. Often people telling racial jo are defensive about being called on the racism and may argue or defend thcrmel,er's ofAfrican Americans invoh-ed at all levels ofthe civil rights movement, but perhaps not e\"eO a rmjority ofAfrican Americans were acti\'e participants.

There Wt'J'e a "Ubstantial nwnbcr ofwhite allies in the struggle, but ccrtainly thcy were fur from a majorityofwhites. But those that were acm-e were elfecthoe enough in ooofrontingwhite power that the country could not oontinue to operate without attending to some of the most glaring aspeas or racism at the lime.

There are ongoing stmggk!s todayto end racism. The question I hope to le"I'J'" of America. Second, our history affects our current SituatiOrui and experiences. The effects of sJavery, the genocide of Nathoe Americans, the conquest of Mexico, and the banning of Chinese and later all Mian immigration continue to influencc our lives and the lives of people of color. Third, we cannot build bUSt and an honest conunitment to creating equality in this C01l1ltry ij' we are dCll)mg the injustioo; of the past. Our good faith efforts to cbauge the S}Stcm will not be taken seriously if we continue to deny or distort the record of white racism. Fourth, the past, t.'\'CIl with all its hoD'Ot, can give us hope for the future. While Americans did contribute to abolishing slavery and ending conlie labor. u;, expanded the ,'Ole to people of color and women and allowed them to hold elected office. \lie ended le sanctioned segregation and broadened the democratic base ofthis C01l1ltry. u;, can ea1io'" about Afiican Americans, !here ;s much ,, can do to end racism 1St them Below are questions and activities to use as a starting JX)intQUESTIONS AND ACTIONS:

AFRICAN AMERICANS1.

List wa)5 that at one time or another you or )'Our unity have downplayed, minimized, or denied lite effects ofslavery and post..la\ryJUn Crow segregation on the AfricanAmerican romnnmity. List wa)5 )Qur fumily may have colluded with or benefited from the economic exploitation of African Atrericans. What are 00)' !hat, acth-ely or Ihrough maction, )OU have resisted lite full ntegration ofAfrican Americans into )uur workplace, school, sodaI i organizations, or congregation? Notice which contemporary national problems are bJanx.'d predominantly on African Americans. What national polities are being iliscussed to blame and punish African Americans for these problems? Analy.LC )'Our mmmunity. Which parts - schools, reacational fucilities, job sectOIS, clubs - are presently de fucto segregated? a Which of these do )'OU participate in? b. What amId you do to challenge this segregation? Notire what specific institutional practices mntribute to de facto segregation n i )itrary, racially I>ased, and a continuation of historic patterns of discrimination, Thompson notes, '1>enying felons the right to lute after they have served their sentences and done their time runs against both the idea that people can redeem themljeh and one of the nation's most imponant prindples, the right 10 choose who gol'trnS you."" As prominent neoconservative soe on )'Our metropolitan area if aU people had access to good education and decent jobs? What would ha\'e to happen for this to become a reality?

10. Aflinmti\'e action is a 1001 for full inclusion and equal opportunity for aU people, oot only people of color. Go back through these questions and substinue ,,"'Orren for people of color. Substitute lesbians and gay men for192 UPROOTING

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people ofcolor. Substitute people with Wsabilities. Substitute seniors and )oung people.

11. What fears, doubts, questions, or concerns do )'Ou rur.-e about afJlnmtft.-e action? Where do your fears come from? What coukl you do to answer your questions? Who could )'Ou talk with aboot )'Our concerns? 12. Have ),ou e\'Cl" been chosen for a job, training program, coUege-la"Cl program. or holLSing opportunity for which )'ou were less qualified than othas? Have )uu ever been gn'en preference because of family conneaions, economicbackground, age, race, or gender?

13. Think again aboot Question 12 and try to under.itlnd "")' that fumily connections, economic batkgrolUld, race, age, or gender may have given )'Outhe bCllcfit ofthe doubt compared to other applicants.

14. Do )'OU think that veterans, sons of alunmi, fanners, or odler people whoreceive preferential treatment experience self -doubt, lowen.'{( self-esteem, or

feelings of guilt because of iU

15. Besides numerical goals, what measures would)Ou suggcst be used to roonitor racial and other fonm of discrimination ? 16. How are you goi g to respond to people who say that affimntft.'C action wtfuirly ndiscriminates against white males?

17. list three things )Uu can do to defend or strengthen affinltn'C action programs la in )'Our workplace, COl1DlUJnity, or state. 18. Choose one that )OU will start doin

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Angry White Guys for Af firmative ActionPRoPOsmoN 209 (which would run'C eliminated affintive na were passed), a group of white men in Oakland came together to iliscuss way.;; that we could add our efforts to those of people of odor who were defending affintive actioD. We were angry that racism continued, angry that na affinrtive action was being curtailed, and angry that white men were being portrayed as ra the victims of affinnative action Program'i. naunt olmiClvcs Angry While Gu)S for Affirmative Action and began a campaign to address white people on the issue. We dtose the name to challenge the conventional thinking that all white men were racist, reactn'e, and resentful of affintive action. na As a group, we felt that since we had benefited so directly &om aflinmfu'C action progrnms it would be hypocritiad to deny these benefits to people ofcolor just when they had finally gained access to them That, of course, would be further racism. When we gathered for meetings ofAngry White Guys for Affinmtivc Aaion, our goal .1101 to Wlderstand our privilege, but to use our status as white men to counter the was racist attacks on communities of color. WorlGng closely wilh organi;t.ations led by people of color, we mapped out a Slratcgy to reach white peopk in the urban and suburban areas arolUld us. We g3\'C talks and conducted v.'Orkshops, we wrote editorials, we stood on street romcrs with our b3lU1cr, we ronductcd a walk of hope between urban and subwban churches and synagogues, we educated white people about the history of affinmtive action and about the decepth-e and manipulative tactics being used to attack it. And we talked about our O\VIl experiences as beneficiaries of affintive action, na challenging the myth of a level pla}iug field. (See the section on white benefits in Part II of tIUs hook for my personal account.) In this workwe were foUowing a long tIadition ofwhite people who have been allies to people of color in the struggle to end racism Abolitionists, anti-imperialists, anti lynching crusaders, Civil Rights 1OO\'Cment activists - we have a proud history of white people, induding white n, using their education, their experience, their money, their access, their \'OiCCSt their hearts, and their minds to chal1cnge racism Although institutional dtange seems difficult to tackle, we are already ul\'Oh'Cd in SC\'Crai institutions in our daily mes. Our workplace, the schools we or our chiklren attend, the stores v..'e patronize, the places we socialize, the comnnutiry with which we congregate for religious worship - we have some It't'trnge at each of these institutions. We need to analyL.e the institutions we are a part o evaluate the influence we ha\'C either alone or with others, and devise effective strategies for challenging racism. The next

I action pro in California ifit

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sections suggest some W3}S you might focus on institutions )'OU are already im'Oived with. including )uur workplace, )'Our school system, the police, the aimi.na1 justice S}stem, and )'Our religious organilation.

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At Workin the workplace and economy. As David Roediger explai.ns in his book The W ages o Whiteness, part of Ihe campaign to f entice white male workers into industrial jobs during the 19th century was the rationalization that at least they were not slaves. They cou1d keep their white masculinity intact, n while giving up their economic indcp;ndence, because they were told that being a worker in a factory was not the same as being a slave working for a master. Male industrial workers e\'entually borrowed the language of slavery to desoibe their ''waged sla\'Cry." They pla)'Cd on similarities between their work situation and that of slaves, at the same time trying to keep the diffcrentts dear so they could preserve industrial jobs for whites. The relationship of racism to work issues is complex. In general. early white industrial workers were manipulated by racism, and in tum they used radsm to gain economic benefits. EmplO1'C1'S manipulated racism to create a false sense of pride and opportunity among while workers, which workers then used to separate themselves from male workers of color. \lurk in the United Stales is still highly segregated by , race, and gender. The overall economy. as weD as most large organilations. is verticaUy segregated as wen. Upper-m iddle- and uppel'dass white IOCD have access to the jobs with the n'OSt money, pmyer, and statUS. Women, working-class whites, and people of color are strung out on the economic h ierarchy, but are found disproportionately at the bottom in the least secure, most unsafe, poorest paid jobs. Racism has a1wa been intimately tied to the economic hierarchy, and an early purpose of racism in the United States w:jst, etc.)? 4. What are you going to do about it?

Up 10 this point we ha\-e been talking about institutions that may ha\'e IOOre effect on US than we howe on them. There is much that we can do to change them, panirularly if we work in concert with others. But they can present fonnidable chaIJenges to our abilily to organae and sustain social action. There is one instirution o\'Ct which we ha\'e a lot of mntrol. It is a place where we can work to make changes with the people who are closest to us. This is a place where we can practice the sliiJls we want to dc\'CIop and model the kind ofsociety we want to buikl This is a place that can nurture and sustain our struggles against social injustice "out there." This place is at home ,vith our fumiJy.236 UPROOTING

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Home and Familyof social action as including how we Ih'e with other fumiJy n:.!rOOcrs. The walls separating us from the community are penneable, and racism doesn't stop at the door. This section will give )QU ideas for eliminating racism in the wa)5 )Uu Jh.'C with others and raise }Qur children. Although }UIU' fumily JllCtlilers may all be white and }Qur nei bors appear so, there gh ImJ' weD be people of orher rulture people in intemcial fumilies, people of mixed heritage, or people who arc passing as white armng }uur friends. l\!ople ofcolor may also be providing services for you, }uur dilldrcn, your apartment, house, or }ard. Our environment is seldom as white as we assume it to be because we generally don't notice people of color when their presence doesn't challenge our sense of dleir proper role. Our homes are I separJble from the greaterconmnmity than they have e\'er been. They are connected to the outside world via 1V (including cable channels), computer

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as an issue out there, in the commmlity. We don't think

games, the internet, to}S, music from CDs and cassettes, radio, books, magazines, the daily newspaper and direct market catalogs. Each of these provides a vehide by which racism , can enter your home, but they also give you opportunities to respond to it.Do you talk about racism where you live? When you and other family members watch a movie, discuss the news, or talk about daily events, do you notice and discuss racism?Talking about racism is not easy for roost of us to do. Few of us grt"W up n homes i where racism or otherdiffirnlt and emotional issues were mentioned at all. We come from backgrom)ds of silence, ignorance, or a fuIse belief that to talk about racism is to further it. When talk about race did occur, SOil:.! of us experienced conOid with funily members

because we disagreed over racial issues. We can admowledge and overcome these past experiences and Q"Catc an abmsphcre in our own hon:.!s where we can openly and respectfuly talk about issues of race, gender, or class. l It is challenging to raise white children in the highly racist sociery we live in. When babies are born they are unaware of racial difference and attach no intrinsic value to skin color. e know that they begin to notice racial diJfcrences and their effects between the ages of two and ID'e. Througllout rheil' childhood rhey an: borOOarded wirh stereotypes, misinfonnation, and lies about race. Without our inten'etltion theywiU become the racist,bock troops of !he next gcneratiolL They ImJ' not (or they may) herome members of extremists groups or commit hate crimes, but they may well become white people who acrept the injustice, racial discrimination, and violence in our society and perpetuate237

racism through their coUusion. That is why we must begin leaching them at an early age to enDt-.tce diffcrcu.ces and to beco anti-racist acth-Ns. We can start this process by assesing our home and family environment for evidence ofracism s ut: ha,'e an impact on fumily, friends, and neighbors by the ph)sicaI environment we create in our home. Do the calendars, pictures, and posters on your walls reflect the diverse socierywe fure in? Arc there books by worncn and men, lesbian, straight, and gay people from rmny different cultures? Are there magazines from ronmuutities ofcolor? t: don't get extra points if there arc Nor arc we Ir}ing to create an ethnic muscwn. But paying attention to our environment broadens our perspecthre and counters the stream ofnegative racial stereot}pes that otherwise enter our home through the media. It is C\'en more important to disruss racism and to pay attention to our home if we have children. As responsible parents we need to think about the toys, games, computer dolls, books, and pictures that our )Qung ones are exposed 10. It is not just children of color who need Latino/a, Asian-Amerkan, Native-American, and African American dolls. It is not just children of color who are hurt by computer games that portrny people of color as eW, dangerous, and expendable. I am not recommending that you purge your house of fuvorite games and to or become funatical about the racism )'Ou find in )'Our child's life. Children don't need to be protected from racism. They see it all the time. They need to be given critical thinking tools for reoognmng, analyaog, and responding to the different fonus that rncism tak.

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