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Jewish Marriage as a rite of passage

Jewish Marriage as a rite of passage. Components of Rites of passage Time Refers to the age of applicant. Is there a specific time when this occurs? Place

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Jewish Marriageas a rite of passage

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Components of Rites of passageTime

Refers to the age of applicant.Is there a specific time when this occurs?

Place Where? Eg Church, other sacred area, or other.Participants Who is involved? This includes divine power, ritual experts, the initiated and the community

Charter The belief system. What do participants believe

concerning this rite of passage, and how are sacred writings related to this rite?

Set Form The inner logic or pattern of the rite of passage.Symbol system What are the symbols associated with this rite of

passage.Hierarchical and Role Relations

Where does the participant now fit in this new status? How do they now relate to others?

Transformation From what to what? Eg. Child to adult.

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Time

• In Old Testament times men were to marry from the age of eighteen and girls from the age of twelve.

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Time

• Tenakh ages for marriage overridden by Australian civil law.

• A man and a women then, must be 18 years of age before they can legally consent to be married.

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Time

• Marriage at a younger age (14 for females and 16 for males) is possible with the consent of the parents.

• Where a parent refuses to give consent, the person can seek permission from a judge or magistrate.

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Time

• Jewish weddings can take place on any day except Shabbat and festivals because

• “we must not mix one joy with another” (Talmud, Moed Katan, 8b).

• Most Jewish weddings take place on a Sunday, usually in the afternoon.

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Time

• Tuesday is considered a luck day to get married in Judaism as it is the only day, in the biblical story of Creation, for which God said “it was good”, not once but twice.

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Time

• The bride will try to plan the wedding for a time of the month when she expects not to be menstruating, as sexual relations may not take place at this time.

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Place

• May take place inside a synagogue or outside.

• It always takes place under a chuppah (a canopy)

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Indoors in the synagogue

or outdoors

Under the Chuppah

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Inside

or

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outside

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The Chuppah may be simple

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Often the Chuppah is elaborately decorated and supported by four

poles covered in flowers.

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Place• Sometimes it is simply

a prayer shawl held over the heads of the couple.

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The participants• kallah (bride)

• chassan (groom)

• Two official witnesses

• Friends and family

• rabbi (officiates)

• God is present

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A rabbi usually officiates• Though it can be any observant Jew

sufficiently familiar with the requirements, because

• marriage, under Jewish law,

• Is essentially a private contractual agreement

between a man and a woman.

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A minyan

• is required to be present

• because of the communal emphasis of the seven blessings.

• Thus an Orthodox ceremony requires 10 adult males to be present

• Progressive requires 10 adults

• Why?

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In Judaism marriage is • the ideal human state.

• rated very highly.

• seen as the way to emotional and spiritual fulfilment.

• desirable for both man and woman.

The Charter

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Marriage is considered

• To be the basic social institutional in Judaism.

• Judaism presents the woman

as the home-builder.

The Charter

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The sanctification of the home • is expressed in the woman’s special mitzvah,

• the mikveh,

• and all the food laws which the woman has to maintain.

• It is in these ties and obligations of marriage that God is to be sanctified.

The Charter

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Marriage can provide

• Physical fulfilment in the form of sexual expression.

• When Orthodox Judaism speaks of a sexual relationship

• it means marriage.

The Charter

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The Hebrew word for marriage

• Kiddushin (sanctification) expresses its sanctity.

• marriage is not only a sacred relationship,

• but the sacred relationship.

The Charter

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The set form of Jewish Marriage

Marriage as a rite of passage

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A marriage ceremony is a rite of passage.

• A rite of passage is One or more rituals that transport individuals from one role, phase of life, or social status to another from the

• Pre-liminal (before) through the

• Liminal (during) to the

• Post-liminal

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Pre-liminal stage

• Refers to the pre-ritual status of the individual who is in the old role, phase of life or social status,

• preparing for the new role, phase of life or

social status.

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In the pre-liminal stage

• Candidates are isolated from their given world or social group via a series of rituals of separation.

• Candidates are provided with a sponsor or guide to help them overcome the

coming ordeals.

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The liminal stage

• Refers to the

• ‘betwixt-and-between’ stage in which the individual is educated and transformed so as to learn those things necessary for their

new status.

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During the liminal stage

• The candidates are marked with one or more signs that link them to those who have already attained their new status.

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Post-liminal stage is

• Characterised by absorption into the faith community as a member who has achieved a new, higher status

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Candidates are

• Welcomed into their new state via a series of rituals of inclusion (dances, songs, prayers, greetings, communal meal, etc).

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Rites of inclusion are

• Performed by ritual experts who have already reached the new, higher state and

• have the power to perform the rituals.

You know I’m an expert!

Yes I’m

sure it’s 7

times!

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Rites include

• Handed down by the religious tradition.

wordsymbol

gesture

That’s 3 times 4 to go

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Candidates undergo a

• Series of rituals of incorporation, whereby they return to the community, but have a new status.

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The candidate’s new status

• Is marked by some kind of celebration.

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The Set Form

in Jewish Marriage

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When the families have met, and the young couple have decided to marry,

• the families usually announce the occasion with a small reception, known as a vort (engagement).

• Some families sign a contract, that delineates the obligations of each side regarding the wedding and a final date for the wedding.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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The couple are required • to meet the Rabbi a number of times before

they marry, so he can offer advice about the

meaning of marriage.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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There is also a meeting • between the bride and the rabbi’s wife who

will explain what is expected of each partner in a marriage.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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Two weeks before the

Orthodox wedding • the groom must obtain a Ketubah.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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One weeks before the

Orthodox wedding • the bride and groom stop seeing each other,

• in order to enhance the joy of their wedding through their separation.

• From a few days prior, until a week after the wedding, the couple are considered royalty and are, therefore, not to be seen in public without a personal escort.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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A few days prior to the wedding • the bride will visit the mikveh to immerse

herself as required by the Torah.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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On the Shabbat before the wedding

• The groom is called to the reading of the Torah.

• People throw nuts and raisins or sweets on him as a symbol of a sweet life.

Set Form – pre-liminal

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On the same Shabbat

• the Kallah's family and friends arrange a party for her,

• expressing their same wishes for her.

Set Form – pre-liminal