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Page 1: JENNIFER JAY - My Adoption Advisor

J E N N I F E R & J AY

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WE ARE

FROM

S o u t h e r n C a l i f o r n i a

We met at church in a college Bible Study, where

Jay played drums, and

Jennifer helped take care

of a disabled woman. We

noticed each other, and soon

started dating. We dated for

4 months before we knew we

belonged together. We got

married on a rainy day, and

we had a bagpiper play at

the wedding! Now, we live in a cozy house with our little dog, Renee.

JAY WORKS FULL TIME, and JENNIFER STAYS HOME. In the evenings,

we like to try new dishes

for dinner, or try a new

restaurant. We also take

Renee for walks after

dinner when we can. On the

weekends, we like to take

road trips. We belong to a

car club, so we go for a lot

of drives with the group, and

often take the car on the

racetrack.

Nothing beats a day at the beach

On the way to the mountains with our car club

On a cool vacation in Monterey

We love to hike in Hollywood!

Playing our favorite board game!

J E N N I F E R& J A Y

We know you want the best for your baby, and so do we!

We hope that you will

get a good sense of

who we are through

our stories and

pictures.

We are happy to tell you

about us, and the life

we enjoy together, and

we can’t wait to get to know you,

too! We want your baby to grow up

knowing all about his or her birth

mother.

WE WANT TO ADOPT A BABY because we want to share our

love and our life with a little one. Also, we love music, and the sound

of a baby’s laughter is the best

music in the world! We truly enjoy

each other and the quiet little life

we have together, and we would

love to share all we have. Jennifer

has a neurological condition that

makes pregnancy too risky, but the

condition is completely controlled

with medicine, and our neurologist

assures us she will be a fine mother.

We both grew up with loving

parents who gave us fun childhood

memories, & we look forward to being loving parents ourselves, & giving fun childhood memories to our future child.

� Love

� Joy

� Peace

� Patience

� Kindness

� Goodness

� Gentleness

� Concerts

� Walks

� Car Shows

� Movies

� Theme Parks

� Road Trips

� Family Vacations

OUR

C o r e Va l u e s

Our favorite photo booth photo from our friend’s wedding

A day enjoying the sunshine

O U R L O V E S T O R Y

I n te r e s t s & H o b b i e s

� San

Francisco, CA

� Mammoth,

CA

� Monterey,

CA

� Phoenix,

AZ

� Maui,

HI

OUR

Fav o r i te P l a c e s

H

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I grew up in Virginia with loving

parents. Even though they were

divorced, they made sure that I

knew I was loved. After graduating

high school, I pursued my dream of

becoming a professional musician,

which led me to Hollywood,

California, where I attended the

Musicians’ Institute. I’m very thankful

that my parents were supportive and

allowed me to pursue my passion.

However, my passion changed after

meeting Jennifer. I decided to enjoy a quiet life at home, rather than the life of a musician on the road.

Soon after graduating the Musicians’

Institute, my life changed. I became

a Christian. That change gave me a

better outlook on life and family. I see family and faithfulness to God as the most important aspects of life. I serve God by serving and

loving my family. I now work as an audio engineer for a Christian radio broadcast. It’s a wonderful

environment with friends who share

the same values as me.

MY MY

BY BY

JAY J E N N I F E R

L I F ET O D A Y

L I F ET O D A Y

� Movie: What

About Bob?

� Song: Tom Sawyer by

Rush

� Concert:

Rush 2015

� Music

� Cars

� Digital

Media Arts

� Reading

� Writing

� Walking

J ay ' s Fav o r i te s

J ay ' s P a s s i o n s Je n n i f e r ' s P a s s i o n s

Jay is very responsible,

and a hard worker. He

also has a huge heart. I

love to see how protective he

is of his nieces. I love to watch him interacting with children, as he is so gentle and tender. He is a perfect blend of

strength and gentleness!

When I first saw Jennifer,

I was attracted to her

beauty. After getting to know her, I was much more attracted to her love and service to others. We were very comfortable

together. We laughed together, and

immediately felt like we belonged

together.

Jennifer has worked and

volunteered in many

classrooms. It’s apparent

that she loves children. She

also likes to help with the

homeschooling of some of

our friend’s kids. The kids

love it when she comes over,

because she makes learning

fun for them. Jennifer will be a great mother because loving her children will be her first priority.

W H Y I L O V E J A Y

W H Y I L O V E J E N N I F E R

1 Hard-working

2 Responsible

3Reliable 4 Humble 5 Fun!

1 Diligent

2 Thoughtful 3Nurturing

4 Faithful 5 Loving

FIVE

FIVE

W O R D S A B O U T JAY

b y Je n n i f e r

W O R D S A B O U T J E N N I F E R

b y J ay

H ó

Enjoying the sun

Jennifer at the piano

Holding a friend's baby at church

Jay making music

Getting Dessert with family friends

Jay at work

My book is here!

Puppy love!

Playing in the water at Laguna Beach

Driving a little car at a company picnic

� Movie:

Napoleon Dynamite

� Singer: Gloria

Estefan

� Book: Pride & Prejudice by Jane Austen

Je n n i f e r ' s Fav o r i te s

Shortly after Jay and I were

married, I got a job close

to home at the local library.

After a few years, I decided I wanted to focus on home and family. I now volunteer in several different places, and I have plenty of time to see family and friends. I also spend time with our

neighbors. I do all I can to

foster strong relationships.

I believe our relationships

are vital to health and

happiness.

A

S P E C I A L N O T E A B O U T

J E N N I F E R

Hiking with a friend's daughter on New Year's Day

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Our Christian faith is

very important to us.

It teaches us to love

and forgive, and that is the

foundation of our marriage. We go to church every Sunday, and also attend a weekly Bible study. We have many

dear friends at church who are

like family to us. We believe

spiritual health is an important

part of life for everyone.

OUR

C H U R C H FA M I LY

Jim at Jennifer's birthday party in the park Hiking with Morgan in HI

THE THE

P E O P L EW E L O V E

P L A C EW E C A L L

H O M E

JAY’S MOM recently moved to our neighborhood from

Virginia, so his nieces Taylor and Brooke came to visit. We

enjoyed taking them both hiking, and taking them to tour

Hollywood and go sight seeing in Los Angeles. Jay’s dad

also came to visit recently, and we had fun taking him to the

beach and trying new restaurants together.

JENNIFER’S DAD lives at the beach not too far from

us, so we see him regularly. Jennifer’s sister makes a trip

to Southern California a few times a year, and we enjoy a

family reunion. We love to walk around the beach town

where my dad lives!

Dinner with Kitty, Ned, Suzanne and Jim

� Debi & Gary:

"This is a kind and wonderful couple. Being parents is the desire of their hearts."

� Nathan:

"Kristen and I have known this couple for years. They would be the world's most

amazing parents!"

� Taryn:

“I have known these two since I was a little girl. They are wonderful people with so much love

to give.”

OUR OUR

Fa m i l y & Fr i e n d s S ay : Tr a d i t i o n s

Grabbing lunch with friends Making music with Brooke

Selfie with friends after church

With Judy and Don at one of our favorite places to show off, Vasquez Rocks

Our community is one of the safest cities in the country. We

have a lot of open outdoor space, with a lot of nature trails

in the hills, and sidewalks through the community away from

the main roads. We can use these safe and quiet trails to walk

to many parks and shopping centers. The community is very family-friendly, and offers many classes for all walks of life, from infants to senior citizens. The city also hosts several outdoor

music concerts every week in the summer, and fairs throughout

the year.

Enjoying a mid-morning snack

Celebrating

each other’s

birthdays

Christmas

party with

Jennifer’s

cousins

Christmas

dinner with

family

Christmas

dinner with

neighbors

Christmas

concert at

church

4th of July 5k

run with Jay’s

work

Annual picnic

with Jay’s

work

Easter dinner

with family

Thanksgiving

dinner with

family

Hawaii trip

with Jay’s

family

� Jay can't wait to...

1 Listen to music with your child2 Teach your child about cars

and go to car shows3 Spend time living life and being

fully engaged with your child

� Jennifer can't wait to...

1 Read to our future child2 Look at books together

3 Take the baby out for walks

M E E T R E N E E

Renee is our little dog who is part corgi, and was born in Korea. A

business woman found her

there, and brought her back

to America. She came to

live with us when she was

2, and she’s been here for

3 years. She barks a lot at

new people, but as soon as

someone pets her, they are

her new best friend. Renee

is addicted to love. She can’t

have enough people petting

her. She loves it when kids come over!

She's a funny little dog!Our little family

Welcome to our beautiful home!

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� make the world a better place

by being kind to all

� have compassion for the

weak and disabled

� have a big, loving community

� enjoy the outdoors

� be given every educational

opportunity

� be taught to make and

appreciate music

� be read to, and taught to value

education

� be spiritually nurtured

� have friends of all ages and

races

� know how much we respect

you, how much you love him

or her and how you made a

very brave choice out of love

for your child.

OUR

P L A N S A S P A R E N T S

T h e C h i l d E n t r u s te d to U s Wi l l :

Thank you for letting us tell

you about us. We can’t wait

to become parents and start

making happy memories with our

future child! God bless you and the little life growing inside of you!

O N E L A S T T H A N K

Y O U