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    Harlene Anderson, Ph.D.Houston Galveston InstituteTaos Institute

    Sylvia London M.A

    Irma (Neca) Rodriguez

    Margarita TarragonaGrupo Campos Eliseos

    [email protected]

    www.harleneanderson.orgwww.grupocamposeliseos.com

    http://www.harleneanderson.org/http://www.grupocamposeliseos.com/http://www.grupocamposeliseos.com/http://www.harleneanderson.org/
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    1. Maintain skepticism

    2. Avoid generalizations

    3. Privilege local knowledge

    4. Knowledge as interactive social process

    5. Language as a creative social process

    6. Knowledge & language as transforming

    7. Everyday ordinary life

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    A particular way in which we orient ourselves

    to be, respond and act with another personthat invites the other into sharedengagement and joint action.

    A relationship in which people connect,collaborate and create with each other. A social activitya communityin which

    members become conversational partners whowork, create and learn together.

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    Appreciating and equally valuing the truth,knowledge, experience and capabilities that

    each person brings. Engaging the other to have a sense ofparticipation, belonging, ownership,accountability and joint responsibility.

    Collaborating invites imagination andcreativity and therefore is inherentlygenerative.

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    A particular kind of dialogue or form of talk in

    which participants engage with each other (outloud) and with themselves (silently)in words or

    gestures--in a mutual or shared inquiry about the

    issues at hand: jointly examining, questioning,

    wondering, reflecting, etc. A process that involves speaking, listening and

    hearing.

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    Dialogue is a process of trying to understand theother.

    Understanding is an active process not apassive one. Rather than understanding another persons

    words from a theory, try to understand byresponding to learn.

    Check-out to see if you have heard what theother wants you to hear.

    Develop local understandings that come fromwithin the conversation.

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    Dialogue requires becoming human.

    Transformationwhether in meaning,understanding, thought oraction--isinevitable, inherent and unpredictable indialogue.

    Therapy is a dialogically-structuredactivity.

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    Human systems are language, meaning-generating systems.

    Process is dynamic, evolving and non-formulaic.

    Focus shifts from the individual or group

    toperson(s)-in-relationship. Focus shifts from thinking about

    systems to thinking systemically.

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    A way of being with

    (not a technique or method)

    A posture, an attitude, and a tone that reflects a way ofbeing in relationship and conversation with people,including a way of thinking, talking, acting, and beingresponsive with them.

    Consistent with this view, the philosophical stancebecomes a philosophy of lifea worldview that does notseparate professional and personal.

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    Conversational Partners in

    1. Shared inquiry

    2. Relational expertise

    3. Not-knowing

    4. Being public

    5. Mutually transforming6. Uncertainty

    7. Everyday ordinary life

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    Approach each relationship & situation as

    unique.

    Assume responsibility for inviting collaborativerelationships (context) & dialogicalconversations (process).

    Allow the client to be center stage.

    Offer questions, opinions, speculations orsuggestions as way of participating in theconversation & in a tentative manner.

    Do not assume or understand too quickly, butrather as a curious learner.

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    Maintains a dialogical conversation with him- or

    herself, as a first step toward dialogue. Keeps inquiry within the parameters of the

    agenda.

    Entertains multiple & contradictory ideassimultaneously.

    Uses coherent language.

    Responsively listens, talks & hears.

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    Creates space for others to listen and speak;

    Accesses inner silent thoughts and put them into spoken words;

    Highlights the multiple angles from which any information, event orperson can be experienced, described or explained;

    Highlights the richness of different voices: a person may hold multiple,and contradictory, thoughts simultaneously about any situation or

    person; Invites respectful talk about a person in their presence;

    Invites conversations that in turn invite the other person into them;

    Highlights that it is not necessary to strive for consensus or a product.

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    Presenter(s) What is your agenda, expectation or hope?

    List the cast of characters. Tell us what you think we need to know.

    Listeners Listen as a character. Hold your questions & comments.

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    Anderson, H. & Gehart, D. (2007) Collaborative Therapy: Relationships and Conversations thatmake A Difference. New York: Routledge.

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    More Readings

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    Sparrman, M. (2011) Polyvision Supervision. International Journal of Collaborative Practices.Trevarthen, C. (2004) Learning about ourselves from children: Why a growing human brain needs

    interesting companions. Research and Clinical Centre for Child Development Annual report 2002-2003(No. 26, 9-44). Hokkaido University: Graduate School of Education.

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    Wittgenstein, L. (1953) Philosophical Investigations. Oxford: Blackwell.

    See: Publications on www.harleneanderson.org and www.access-success.comSee: Dissertations: by Janice DeFehr and Bill Blaine Wallace on www.taosinstitute.org

    http://qix.sagepub.com/http://www.harleneanderson.org/http://www.access-success.com/http://www.taosinstitute.org/http://www.taosinstitute.org/http://www.access-success.com/http://www.harleneanderson.org/http://qix.sagepub.com/
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    INTERNATIONAL JOURNAL OFCOLLABORATIVE PRACTICES

    An open-access on-line bilingual

    journal

    To Read: www.collaborative-practices.com

    To Subscribe:[email protected]

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