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Calhoun: The NPS Institutional Archive

Institutional Publications The Classmate Magazine

1991-02

The Classmate: Officer Students' Wives' Club /

Vol.5, no.2 (February 1991)

http://hdl.handle.net/10945/47359

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Welcome Aboard Newcomer's The Officer Students' Wives' Club

(OSWC), extends a special invitation to all new Naval postgraduate School (NPS) stu­dents and their spouses to attend the Wel­oome Aboard - New Comer's Evening_ This unique evening has been rescheduled for Thursday, February 21, 1991, at 7:30 pm in the Barbara McNitt Ballroom of Herrmann Hall.

The feature presentation of the evening will be ·CRAMALOT' - a musical oomedy performed by fellow students and spouses giving an entertaining look Into family and student life at N PS. Mrs. Oeryt Hess, the choir director at the NPS Protestant Chapel vvill direct the musical production. ,

Additionally, there will be speakers, refreshments, door prizes and displays by NPS and community organlUltions offering information on activities, services, and volunteer opportunities In the area. Child care will be provided free of charge through the Child care Center on a first come-first serve basis. Reservations are

required and must be made during the week of February 11-15, by calling Mrs. Mull (646-2734) at the Center.

If you would like further information,

oontact Susie Thompson at 372-8617 or Barbara Comerford at 375-9602. We look forward to seeing you at New Comer's Evening.

IS WASHINGTON IN YOUR FUTURE? Come To Talk To The Caring Professionals Of USRA!

Patti Wilder, GRI Military Wife,

Relo Specialist

ealty ssociates

SEE YOU AGAIN AT THE HOLIDAY INN APRIL 26,27 & 28

FOR FREE RELOCATION PACKAGE

CALL: (800) 847-7787 * ASK FOR PATTI OR JANET *

Janet Owen Military Wife,

Relo Specialist

J\MERICAN SERVICE J-\ MERICAN PRIDE

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OSWC Valentine's Day Bake Sale

Buy Sweets For Your Sweet In the Basement of Herrmann Hall ~~~

~~~~,... ~ . ~~

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Now open Thursday evenings

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to provide dental care for her patients with busy schedules.

WISElLEN ]t.GIER O.os

Don't let your busy schedule keep you from the dental care you need,

call Dr. Lagier today

at 649-4149

5SO Camino El Estero, Suite 200 Monterey

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TABLE OF CONTENTS

Editor's Note, ........ .. .... ............................................................................. 4

OFFICER STUDENTS' WIVES' CLUB NEWS Newcomer's Evening ........................................................ Inslde Front Cover OSWC Valentine's Day Bake sale .......................................... ...................... 1 President's Message ................................................. ................................. 5 New Kids On The Block ............................................................................. 7 OSWC Mini Oasses ................................................................................... 7

11 NPS COMMUNITY NEWS Family Service Center Needs Volunteers ...................................................... 6 Babysitting Ccrop ..................................................................................... 6 Navy-Marine Corps Relief .......................................................................... 8 Navy Junior Baseball League ...................................................................... 9

FEATURES La Mesa Neighbors To The Rescue ............................................................ 1 D 30 Million ...................... ........................................................................ 11 Cover Story: What's Wrong With This Picture ........................................... 12 May I Have This Dance? .......................................................................... 13 Keeping It Alive ...................................................................................... 14 A Weekend To Remember ....................................................................... 15 An Afternoon With Sylvia Panetta ............................................................ 17 Romantic Escapes ................................................................................... 19

COLUMNS

12 R~urant Review ................................................................................. 21 Coastal CUisine ....................................................................................... 22 Hammer And Thread .............................................................................. 23 February Around The Bay ........................................................................ 25

COVER ILWSTRATlDN Original artwork by Susanne de Ura laskowskI «;)1991

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,he classmate.

Edltor-In-Chlef leigh Gardener SMC 2330 ••.................... 372-6711

Advisor Val Jensen ......••..•....•••••..• 372-8633

Asslstant-to-the-Edltor Susanne de Ura laskowski ......................•................ 372-7963

Copy Editor Jan Golden ...................... 655-3386

Production Editor Kelly Gallagher ..••............ 373-6294

Illustrator Susanne de Ura laskowski ................................ .•..•• 372-7963

Photographers Tina Brock ...................... 649-3653 Beth Hedges ..........•.•..•.... 655-1013 Rhonda Williams ......•.••..•• 372-4473

Writers Moille Baker ...........•..•..... 375-9198 TIna Brock .........•.......•.... 649-3653 Jennifer Church .......•.....•• 373-7943 Jennie Culpepper ............. 373-7918 Regina Galvin ..........•..•...• 373-3802 Beth Hedges ••.................. 655-1013 Seshu RaJan .........••.•..•...• 649-4103 Susan Romanelli .............. 372-7918 Faye White ..•................... 384-9847

AdvertIsing Sales: George LaVenture .....•.....• 372-7918

BillIng: Pamela Wawrz.enlak ......... 373-7346

Th, Dassmate w. originated and preYl-ously edited ~ tIM w .... of the studtnta of the Clnual U,.. and NIYII SdeIK'e School. It I. now .ponsored by the Officer Stud.nu' Wives' aub of the Naval Postgrwlu" School. Materials and o~nJoRl contaJned h,r,ln are thON of the contributors and should not be conslderld .. offldal .xpra.sion of tIM ~r Studenu' Wins' Club or the Department of the Mh)'. Adnrtls ....... nu I" the publication do not constitute an .ndol'MnMnt by the 0... putment of the NrIJ of .. mea adyertlsed. Written pennlasion is MCHIafJ to ,..prtnt an)'

mat.rlal herein. Publl .... d It no cost to the u.s. Covernment by Her,ld Prlnt.r •• 201 Foam St.. Monterey, CA.

'I'M monthly dAdline for AU. COpf to the Editor, SMC 2330, I, the bt of the month prior to the montII of publication (Nov.m_ 1st to got Into tile Decombor _~ Tho _-lin. for .:Iv'ttl,lng ~PJ' I. the !hh of the month prior to the month of publkftlon.

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Editor's Note by Leigh Gardener

I had such neNe last month. I asked my staff of stJlI weary Christmas shoppers to stop their holiday celebratJons and write artJdes of romance. I fully expected at least a glare or two, Instead they took their romantJc thoughts and ran with them.

Thank you, Susanne, for such a spec­tacular cover. Only a NPS student would try to fit In studies with romance. Or is It vise­versa? Regina GaMn contJnues this great cover Idea with our lead story, "What's Wrong With This PictJJre?'. Every wife or spouse here at NPS will have an easy tJme reIatJng to Regina.

Mollie and Chuck Baker both have romantJc stories to share with us this month. Mollie writes about the wonderful

benefits of a Marriage Enrounter weekend. Chuck gIves us a male's perspectJve with his story entJtJed, "Keeping It Alive". Together they define the word "romance".

If you long for a quiet evening this Val­entJne's Day, try Susan RomaneIli~ sweet­heart supper. Just add some soft music and a dozen red roses and you are all set

Do you need an enchanted evening away from home this February? If so, Kelly Gal­lagher has some terrific suggestJons for you. Kelly and Dennis desaibe some of the beautJful bed and breakfast Inns In our area.

Have a wonderful February. And may all your second looks not be for physics and calculus booksl

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President's Message by Olngerlee Ingles-Young

These six months have flown by so quicklyl Beginning with March the OSWC will have a new Executive Board and It will be an exciting time for those ladles. These past months I have used my President's message to thank all the wonderful ladles who have chaired an event for the club, now I would like to take a moment to thank those Executive Board members who I've worked with these past months.

Thank you, Beverly, for being a v.onder­ful First Vice President I could always count on your being there with me to represent the dub whenever we were asked by the community or command, which meant the world to me. I, like many others, enjoyed the speakers you had for the dub, not to mention the raffles and food which were just greati Thanks for being a super lady!

Thank you, susan, for taking care of our CUrriculum Representatives along with the many other things you do as Second Vice President I knew with you to guide the

superjobl Thank you, Michelle, for being our

"Queen of the Copy Machine" and fer han­dling my correspondence these past six months. I appreciate your support and all you have done for the dub. Many times you went above and beyond your Correspond­Ing Secretary duties for the Executive Board, and It was so appreciated as are you! Thanks for being such a special lady.

Thank you, Lisa, for recording our meetings between Laura's birth and her post birth feedings. I appreciate your dili­gence and dedication to the club during your first round with motherhood. You definitely had an exdtlng six months! Thank you for being so speclall

Thank you, Judy, for always having the budget In order and balanced. It made the Executive Board's life so much easler, kncwIng what we could spend from month to month. I appreciate your taking time out from your weekends to meet me at func­

RELOCATING? las paid. lreatjobl 'D Patty lellantonl

liP

during the first two months of Laura's birth. I feel I can speak for the ExecutiVe Board In saying you made our lives a lot easier by giving us one less thing to worry about

Some upcoming events to look forward to: Elections -February 4 In the La Novia Room 7:30 p.m. Valentine's Day Bake Sale - February 14 In Herrmann Hall Cramalot - February 21 In Herrmann Hall with Information booths on the Quarter­deck 7:30 p.m. Bargain fair - March 2 at La Mesa School 10:00-12:00 Masquerade Ball - March 2 In the Bartlara McNitt Ball­room Herrmann Hall 6:00 p.m. Easter EOOStravaganza - March 23 NPS grounds 10:00 a.m.

VIRGINIA BEACH - NORFOLK NEWPORT NEWS - HAMPTON

WASHINGTON D.C. MARYLAND - NORTHERN VA

or the spouses of all students. In addition to sponsoring rour, Intermtional Students' Wives Tea and many other 'ink Flyers and the OSWC Directory. To obtain member­Anderson, 2674 SMC, Monterey, CA. Phone 373-5407. Jer of duty stay). Membership is free to all International

or Anywhere In the USA

SEND FOR FREE RELOCATION PACKAGE!!!

Check the information you are looking for and drop this card in the mail RIGHT AWAYI

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__ Associate _________ _

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~r Editor's Note

~ by leigh Gardener

~ .

• . , -

.;. '- ~. ..

~ Jr' .

I had such nerve last month. I asked my staff of still weary Christmas shoppers to stop their holiday celebrations and write artJdes of romance. I fully expected at least a glare or two. Instead they took their romantic thoughts and ran with them.

Thank you, Susanne, for such a spec­tacular cover. Only a NPS student would try to fit In studies wlth romance. Or is It vise­versa? Regina Galvin continues this great cover Idea with our lead story, 'What's Wrong With This Picture?". Every wife or spouse here at NPS wlll have an easy time relating to Regina.

Mollie and Chuck Baker both have romantic stories to share with us this month. Mollie writes about the wonderful

DEVELOPERS MO

benefits of a Marriage Encounter weekend. Chuck gives us a male's perspective wlth his story entitied, "Keeping It Alive" . Together they define the word "romance".

If you long for a quiet evening this Val­entine's Day, try Susan Romanelll~ sweet­heart supper. Just add some soft music and a dozen red roses and you are all set

Do you need an enchanted evening away from home this February? If so, Kelly Gal­lagher has some terrific suggestions for you. Kelly and Dennis describe some of the beautiful bed and breakfast Inns In our area.

Have a wonderful February. And may all your second looks not be for physics and calculus booksl

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President's Message by Glngerlee Ingles-Young

These six months have flown by so qulcklyl Beginning with March the OSWC will have a new Executive Board and It will be an exciting time for those ladles. These past months I have used my President's message to thank all the wonderful ladles who have chaired an event for the club, now I would like to take a moment to thank those Executive Board members wiho I've worked with these past months.

Thankyou, Beverly, for being a wonder­ful First Vice President I could always count on your being there with me to represent the dub whenever we were asked by the communit;y or command, which meant the world to me. I, like many others, enjoyed the speakers you had for the dub, not to mention the raffles and food which were just greatl Thanks for being a super ladyl

Thankyou, susan, for taking care of our CUrriculum Representatives along with the many other things you do as Second Vice President I knew with you to guide the CR's that all the Infonnatlon the dub puts out would reach all the spouses here at N PS. Thanks so much for coming through for the club whenever aSked. You did a

superjobl Thank you, Michelle, for being our

"Queen of the Copy Machine" and for han­dling my correspondence these past six months. I appreciate your support and all you have done for the dub. Many times you went above and beyond your Correspond­Ing secretary duties for the Executive Board, and It was so appreciated as are you I Thanks for being such a spedallady.

Thank you, Lisa, for recording our meetings between Laura's birth and her post birth feedings. I appreciate your dili­gence and dedication to the club during your first round with motherhood. You definitely had an exdtlng six monthsl Thank you for being so spedall

Thank you, Judy, for always having the budget In order and balanced. It made the Executive Board's life so much easler, knowing what we could spend from month to month. I appredate your taking time out from your weekends to meet me at func­tions to make sure everyone was paid. Thanks so much for doing such a greatjobl

One last thank you goes to Patty McShane for stepping In for Usa Bellantoni

OSWC MEMBERSHIP

during the first two months of Laura's birth. I feel I can speak for the Executive Board In saying you made our lives a lot easier by giving us one less thing to worry about

SOme upcoming events to look forward to: Elections -February 4 In the La Novia Room 7:30 p.m. Valentine's Day Bake Sale - February 14 In Herrmann Hall Cramalot - February 21 In Herrmann Hall with Information booths on the Quarter­deck 7:30 p.m. Bargain F-..Ir - March 2 at La Mesa Schoo 1 0:00-12:00 M~uerade Ball - March 2 In the Barbara McNitt Ball­room Herrmann Hall 6:00 p.m. Easter EGGStravaganza - March 23 NPS grounds 10:00 a.m.

The OSWC is the Oftirers Students' Wive'.'! Qub of the Naval Postgraduate School for the spouses of all students. In addition to sponsoring monthly activities such as luncheons, OSWC also sponsors the Art Auction, Adobe Tour, International SbJdents' Wwes Tea and many other Holiday events. Dues collected entitle you to member discounts as well as monthly Pink Ayers and the OSWC Directory. To obtain member­ship, fill out the form belO'N and send it with a check made out to OSWC to: Susan Anderson, 2674 SMC, Monterey, CA. Phone 373·5407. Dues: $2 per quarter, minimum 4 quarters for new members/renewals (or remainder of dut;y stay). Membership is free to alllnll!mational spouses. SMC # _____ New Member ____ Renewal ___ Active ___ Associate __________ _

Last Name Flrst _____ Phone # _____________ _

Spouse's Name Rank _____ Service ____________ _

Curriculum ___________ Graduation Date (monthlyear) ______________ _

~ ____________ at;y ______ · ~pCode _________ _

Length of Membership Amount Endosed $ _______________ _

Are you interested in committee work? YES ___ NO ___ Volunteer? YES ___ NO _________ _

Would you like to partidpate in ourf dub administration? YES NO __ _

Do you wish to have your Name, Spouse's Name and Service, Address and Telephone Number in the QSoNC Directory? (members only)

YES ___ NO ___ Would you like a copy of the QSoNC By-laws? YES ___ NO __ _

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If you need a baby sitter, the Co-op may be the answer to your sitting problems. Your children are always In the care of experienced parents, and It's a great way to meet new people.

The Co-op Is an organization of La Mesa parents who baby-Sit for other members, either during the day or evening. Instead of paying money, you pay points that are acrumulatEd by baby-slttlng. There Is a one time Sign-up fee of $2.00.

It's always reassuring to have a respon­sible adult caring for your child. If you have any questions about the Co-op or are Inter­ested InJoInlng, please call the Co-op Chair­person, Karen Cecil, at 375-8253.

• VOLUNTEERS NEEDED!!! Volunteers are needed at the Naval

Postgraduate School Family Service Center. Put your special talents and skills to work for the community. A wide variety of rewarding and challenging positions are available now. Next volunteer orientation dass Is scheduled to begin In March. Con­tact Rose Anna D'Aurla, Volunteer Coordi­nator, at 646-3141 or 646-3060 for fur­ther detailS and applications. We are lo­cated In Room 039, Herrmann Hall, Fam­Ily Service Center.

• HELP WANTED THE ClASSMATE needs a billing direc­

tori The position calls for a professional person (paid by commission) to collect payments from local merchants who adver-

. tise In THE ClASSMATE. For more Infor­mation, call George laVenture at 372-7918.

• ERRATA We mistakenly forgot to thank the kind

folks at Domino's Pizza who contributed food prizes to the santa's Visit program in December. Thank you, Domino's.

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New Kids on the Block by Susan Anderson

Amanda Kathleen Born 5 December 1990 6100., 1 07.. 18 112" parents; William & Jennifer Schulz

Clemence Born 6 December 1990 6 100., 15 07.. parents; OlrlS & Micheline Prazuck

('I\vIns) Natalie RIta " L1a VIvian Born 10 December 1990 Natalie, 6 100., 14 07.. 18", ua, 61OO., 1207.. 19" parents; MedlO & Kathy Monti

Sydney Brooke Born 30 November 1990 8 100., 15 oz. 20" parents; Rusty & carla Settlemeyer

MeganE. Born 3 December 1990 10100.,21 112" parents; Greg & Mary Hayes.

Send birth announcements to: Susan Anderson, SMCZ674

OSWC CLASSES By Patrtce Mull

If you are Interested In teaching a class, OSWC Oasses would lOve to know about It Please phone me, Patrice Mull, at 655-3976, and I will be happy to lISt your name and dass. It's a great way to meet people and put a little money In your pocketl If you are Interested In taklng any of the classes listed belOw, please call the Instructors for more Information.

Classes Aerobics and Body Conditioning - Lynn Menches (655.Q290) Art School for Children - Usa Stoshak (call carmel Youth Cenl!!r at 624-1645; OR the new f't. Ord Youth Center for registration) Basketweavlng - Denise Peters (649-6083) Beginning TolelFolk Art Painting - Andrea K1ndl (649-6537) Bowling - Oleri Kendall (373-1183) Breastfeedlng Made Easy-Alida Burgett (646-8919) Decorating with Dip 'N Drape - Jo Ann Mclean (655-0717) Mother's Day Away - Stachla Knorr (375-3407) Mother's Morning Out - Renee Neely (375-3762) Plano - Katie Oare Mazzeo (372-2233) Plano - Kazuko Mockett (624-9596) Plano - Nathalie PlOtkln (373-5671) Smocked Clothes - Lynn Montgomery (655-4532) Ukranlan Egg Decorating - Martha Faller (372-6320) Washl Eggs " Crafts - Paula Jean Palmore (375-2757)

1\rtorlng Elementary Grades" Sign Language - Susan Anderson (373-5407) Mar-Irene Pollard (624-9137)

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NAVY-MARINE CORPS RELIEF If you are like I was, you may have heard

of, but had never been directly Involved with, the Navy Relief SOCIety. If that Is so, your Impression of the SOCIety may be col­ored by common misconceptions. This month, I will address some of the more common myths.

MYTH: There Is too much red tape getting a Navy Relief loan In an emergency.

FACY! Navy Relief must have verification of an emergency. American Red Cross can usually obtain verification In less than 24 hours. If, however, you have emergency leave from your command, Navy Relief considers that suffident verification, and a loan can be granted for transportation Immediately.

MYTH: Only Officers' wives can work as Navy Relief volunteers.

FAcr: Navy Relief welcomes all volun­teers. Spouses of any service member are welcome. We have spouses of both retired and active duty members worklng In our

by Jennifer Church

office and thrift shop, In many different capacities, as well as some community members who lovtngly knit and crochet the Items In our layettes.

MYTH: Someone living beyond his or her means can borrow money every month

CALL TOLL FREE

1-800-762-5599 For a free comprehensive Relocation Package on the San Diego County Areas

(OUTSIDE CALIF. CALL COLLECf: (619) 422-45(0)

from Navy Relief. FAcr: Navy Relief helps with Short

Tenn Unanticipated Needs. This specifi­cally excludes helping someone to maintain a standard of IMng he or she cannot afford. We will help plan a reasonable budget, and then the service member must take the Initiative and stay within this budget If Navy Relief Is to assist

MYI'H: Navy Relief always has enough volunteers.

FAcr: With this command In particular, our volunteers are always graduating and moving on, leaving vacandes that can be filled only by people like youl We currently have openings for Interviewers, reception­Ists, thrift shop workers, and hospitality locker workers. One oftheseJobs is certain to be right for you. We reimburse for child care, too. We can be found In Herrmann Hall,Justdownstalrs from the Quarterdeck. We are open MWF 1 ()()()'13JO. Just phone us at 373-7665 If you have any questions, or to offer your time.

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The Navy Junior Baseball League (NJBL) sponsors La Mesa Village's Uttle League program. The league IS open to depend­ent children of all active duty, reserve, and retired military personnel In the Monterey

rected to register with Monterey Pony Baseball Inc. Age verification Is required at the time of registration and all boys and girts who attain the league age as of 31 July 91 are eligible. Monterey residents

slo05 are Mustang (9 & 10), Bronco (11 & 12) and Pony (13& 14).

Peninsula area. It Is also open to dependent children of all dvillan employees of NPS and Its tenant commands. Foreign military and civilian students are welcome and encouraged to have their children partici­pate as well. Civilian students who attend La Mesa Elemen­tary School are also eligible to partldpate.

LETIS PLAY

The NJBL plays two seasons corre­sponding with the Spring and Summer Quarters at NPS. Funding for the NJBL

comes partly from the NPS Rec­reation Fund. A registration fee of $20 Is charged to cover the cost of a practlceJersey, ball cap and end of season trophy.

The league divides players by age Into T-Ball and Minor Leagues. T-Ball: Boys and girls who have attained the age of five as of 1 January 1991 are eligible. Six and seven year oIds also play In this league. POC Pam Allie-Morrill: 649-3412. Minor League: Boys and girls ages eight -ten are eligible to partldpate. POC Mike Kendall: 373-1183. M<!Ior League: NJBL will not sponsor a M<!Ior League Division this year. Children ages 11 - 14 are dl-

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LA MESA NEIGHBORS TO THE RESCUE

I have always wanted to write an article for The Classmate, but I never rould come up with a topic that motivated me enough to sit down and write on~ntJI now. My family and I just moved from La Mesa to San Diego. I felt fortu­nate In that this Is only our third Navy move, but we are now 0 for 3. I say 0 for 3 because we have yet to have what rould be termed a "good move".

Our first move was from Pensarola to Vir­ginia Beach. Since It was just my husband and I then, we decided It would be just as easy to move ourselves. Which it would have been, had we the same amount of time as pre­vious dasses before we had to report to our new duty station. But we didn't My hus­band had to report 6 days after picking up his orders. We did It without too much dif­ficulty, but we swore we'd NEVER move ourselves again. (roo bad we didn't listen to ourselvesl)

The serond move was a disaster from the word go- and we didn't move our-

by Margaret McKavltt

selvesl This move was so bad that It has been rerorded In some hard working stu­dent's thesis for all time. Some of the prob­lems: The packers put UadrO figurines unprotectecl In the bottom of boxes (ap-

proximately $700 damage there); The truck never arrived so our stuff went into storage overnight; The driver decided to try to make more $ by unpacking our ward­robe boxes and stuffing 2-3 small boxes In the bottom of them, then cramming our dothes back on top; Our stereo system was stolen except for our turntable (guess he alreadY had one of those); etc., etc. We fig-

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ured there had to be a better way, and we thought we had found It We thought wrongl

We decided with this move, we'd 00 part of It ourselves (where was that voice from

Pensacola?) and part using a "professional". Surely this had to work! And It mlght've If... We made arrange­ments with a guy to come In to pack us up and heip load the truck for a reasonable amount of money. Then all he had to 00 was drive the truck from Monterey to San Diego. No problem ... or so we thought! The ar­rangements were all made; we had our boxes, tape, wrapping

paper, the truck, everything was In order. Except for the "professional". He never bothered to show up. He never even both­ered to call. We got to know his answer­Ing machine very well, however. When the packing day arrived and he didn't, my hus­band and I were In shock. But we pro­ceeded ahead and starting packing. It wasn't too long before the word was out, and In rushed the cavalry.

The cavalry being our wonderful neigh­bors. Our wonderful neighbors who were there when our daughter vvas born, when our one car needed a new transmission, and we needed a sitter for "just a little while". These people unselfishly gave up part of their Sunday and the entire Colum­bus Day holiday to pack boxes, watch chil­dren, load a truck and trailer and provide meals. There are a lot of things to dislike about being a military famJly (moving tops my list), but I wouldn't trade the friends we've made for anything.

By the way, we did get to San DIego with 110 damage, thanks to those Special friends.

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30 MILLION by Susanne de Ura Laskowski

I finally did It. After nine months of liv­Ing In california, I bought my first Lotto ticket. Actually It was three. The first two tickets I purchased, the romputEr ranOOmly picked my six numbers for me. But then after I got home I started thinking, there were certainly significant numbers like blrthdates, ages, and anniversaries that might be better than the ones randomly assigned to me. SO I went back, handed over another buck and chose 3, 5,35, 34, 12, 43. I was satisfied. I don't think I would have coped too well If a romplete stranger from another d~ won by using the ages of my son, daughter, husband, myself, my birthday, and reversing the numbers of my age. There .. .1 was set. All I had to do was sit back and wait for saturday's drawing and match my winning numbers In the paper to launch me Into the 30 million dollar world of the Rich and Famous.

Of course, I have given a great deal of thought to being rich and famous. Most people's big, big mistake Is that they run right out and Immediately make an Impul­sive purchase of a new expensive Item like: a mansion, condo at Vall, boat. sports car, fur, or some big gaudy diamond. They have It all wrong. The first thing you want to get

Is a housekeeper. That's rlght-a house­keeper.

For some unknown reason, this essen­tial Job Is ronslstentiy overlooked and ig­nored by the media, which Is pure negli­gence. Think about It. How much fun Is a mansion If you still have to mop the Im­ported Italian marble floors, polish the mahogany, and dean all ten toilets bowls? For some reason practicall~ goes out the window when It comes to "champagne wishes and caviar dreams". This IS the per­son who can liberate you from all the bor­Ing mundane chores that limit or Interfere

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completely with the amount of fun you can have.

My mind already had the 30 million neatly appropriated so, of course, I was more than mildly disappointed when 35 tumed out to be the only number Lotto and I had In common. As I stared at the paper I realized I had to say "goodbye" to my empire, the one that had taken shape over the past few days: the manSion, the horse, designer clothes, the ronvertlble, and Eu­ropean vacations. It was hard ... but nothing hurt quite as badly ... as letting the house­keeper go.

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What's Wrong With %is Picture?

Here we are at the Naval Postgraduate SChool. Its Valentine's Day and for once there Is no sea duly and no field problems. Our husbands are actually at home. 4>-' ..,

The opportunlly for romance ~ should be optimal, right? SO what's the problem?

Before coming to Monterey, did you hear how wonder-ful It would be to have such an ex­tended amount of time together with your beioved? You probably heard of the spectaaJlar sun· sets and the breath· taking shoreline. Such things create lasting memories.

Unfortunately, all the dors of the Monterey I'pnlln<II'"

as Inspiring as they may be, do ing for the grades. Students,

by Regina Galvin

realist approach to living with a student. This occurs when your kitx:hen table trans· forms Into his private work area (the light

Is best there--

If your mate Is Involved In his differen· tlal equations so much that he falls to no­tice you, perhaps you could try the follow­

Ing: Slip quietly behind that closed door of his with nothing on but a smile.

StIli no reaction? 1ry writing an equation across your body.

If no Immediate response Is forthcoming, have faith, one thing the stu·

~ -"" . dents do learn here Is u~Ed . to try to find the pr0b­

lems' solution. On a positive note,

. there are times be­"' ... - d fte •.... '. ~ tween exams an a r

.... :. finals when romance • abounds, as evidenced by the high birth rate one finds here.

ij~~~~~~~':~e things speak for them-

Students take note. Even for the diligent of you out there, this Val-

~~,~t~~ Day needn't be a complete roman-

our spouses) must expend an exceptlona W'--: amount of attention on other mundane

void. A well timed "I love you", accom­panied by the kind of kiss that shows her you're not thinking about your studies may bejust the perfect Valentine. Of course, a dozen red roses, dinner out with just you and her and a panoramic view of the bay, followed by an evening of romantic sweet­nothings whispered In her ear, would suf­fice as well.

matters, such as academics. Bottom line analysis here Is, one of 'ole

Newton's laws of motion has taken effect: for every action there Is an equal and op­posite reaction. Yes, the more time you actually get to live together. the less time he is physically at home. UkewIse, the more attention you want. the greater amount of concentration his studying requires.

Particularly frustrating Is the, "he's home but he's not home" paradox. This Is that precise moment of spatlotemporal equilibrium when the door to his studY doses. He's gone. Sure, you know he's In there, but the Situation calls for you to ignore realily. For all practical purposes he might as well be away at the library.

Other families have to take a more sur-

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Id) whlle~"" rest of the family seeks shel- ter to more obscure parts of the house. This requires an / especially active Imagination be- cause you can see him, but he's not there. His physical being may be sitting In your home, how­ever, his mind Is far away In an academic abyss.

SO where does that leave romance? Any­where you can find It dear friends. Maybe It will be that fleeting kiss In front of Herrmann Hall, or perhaps you may have to engineer a more tactful approach.

Wouldn't It be pleasant if there was a Valentine's Day In every quarter? It could bejust one day out of the rest that you are your favorite student's special assignment. one day that requires all his undivided attention, one day that even takes prece­dence over televised sports.

Perhaps that day will come. For now hO\Never, to those of you who find yourself asking your Romeo, "where art thou?", try the-mmputer center.

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If.. *May

I was slWng at a comer table, humming under my breath, "Your mama oon'tdance and your daddy oon't rock n' roll." My foot was tapping and the dance floor was crowded with merry revelers. My husband and I sat, like grandparents at a vveddlng, staring solemnly at the "youngsters" danc­Ing, occasionally wagging our heads In dis­may at a very short sklrt or a particularly energetic dancer.

I am married to a man who "doesn't dance". It's one of those absolutes In our marriage, as In he will absolutely never change his mind about dancing. I have trted plying him with liquor, threatening dire consequences, begging etc., and I can't even persuade him to slow dance. I suspect that at some early point In his social career he attended a high school dance. Perhaps he stepped out on the dance floor, let loose and someone pointed or smirked, or he Imagined they pointed and smirked and he decided never to dance again.

He thinks he will look silly. It Is no use explaining to him that many of the people who are dancing look silly. He Is the klnd of man who makes up his mind once and rarely changes It That essentially makes me a waltflolNer, one of those pitiful women destined to dance with her father, an occa­Sional nephew, or the husband of a sympa­thetic fliend.

Dandng has always been to me the epit­ome of romance. My mother and father (who did dance) could still dance a stately waltz even after they had been married for forty years. Some of my best memortes of long forgotten high school boyfriends are the languorous moments of slow dance clinging that marked adolescent love. I watched "DIrty Dandng" a dozen times, thlilled by the romance between Patrick SNayze and Baby.

As Valentine's Day approached, I again considered the romance quotient In my marrtage and wondered If the man In my life would ever ask the all-Important ques­tion, "care to dancer Had the romance

* )I. JI. ¥- '* I Have This Dance?

by Mal)' Anne Schneider

gone completely from my life? COUldn't he ask me to dance every other year or so, which Is about how frequently INe actually have the occasion to dance?

I have reconsidered the 'romance quo­tient' and have rationalized that I may have to look elsewhere for the ever elusive romantic formula. I must consider that a man who will grudgingly run to the store at 10 p.m. for feminine hygiene products, who will bake a perfect strawberry-rhu­barb pie (my favortte) for my homecoming, and who will peer Into the dark recesses of my mouth for yet another Imagined den­tal calamity to calm my nerves deserves some melit on the plus side of the roman­tic equation.

The stuff of romance Is not always as obvious In real life marriages as It Is on the big screen or In the widely read romantic novels In today's bookstores. Dressed as I

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am, quite frequently In a dingy white Qx:a­Cola T-shirt with yesterday's mascara smudged under my eyes, I Imagine I don't often fulfill my husband's own romantic fantasies of Brigitte Bardot lounging In sklmpy swlmwear on the shore of the French Riviera.

He asked me to be his partner once, more than thirteen years ago. And with the absolute conviction of a man who rarely changes his mind, he hasn't switched JErt­ners between dances, even when the strains of a romantic melody INere hard to dlscem In our marriage, or when I occa­sionally stomped heavily on one of his feet

I am still saving that all-Important last dance of the evening for the only partner I really care to dance ·N1th. He Is the not-50-tall but quite dark and handsome man seated next to me. And If he ever gets up to dance, I am sure It will be with me.

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A Pizza Hut parking lot may not strike you as a romantic location, but something about the amblanoeJust seemed to set me off that January night seven years ago. I had made a life changing decision In the weeks previous. I chose to use the money I'd squirreled away for a 12-Gauge shot­gun, to purchase a diamond ring. With my glrifriend's best pal In tow, I took off to shop for this gem. That night under the beautiful moonlit skies of the scenic Sh­enandoah Valley, dressed In my sharply pressed VMI unlfonn, I would ask this lady to be my wife. The speech was well re­hearsed In my head. I picked her up; "Be cool" I kept saying. Dinner was over and not much was eaten. We sat In the park­Ing lot of the elegant Pizza Hut of Buena Vista, Virginia. As we gazed at the old Chevys racing around the parking lot of the nearby Dairy Queen, the sound of squeal­Ing tires and yahoos filled the air like a concert. My grand speech turned Into, "Here this Is for you" as I handed her the ring. I waited a second to see her reaction, as If working a surface bait to tease a giant bass. YESII She took the bait. That's how It started. Now, Is this a steamy romance or what?

Today the fire burns even hotter. My wife Is also the mother of our four girls. In each of the girls a tiny facet of their mother shows. I've Increased my Invest­ment fourfoldl How, you might ask, does a couple keep any sort of romance alive with a household of six people and a large, fat lazy da;f? It's a matter of priority. You see, I have been richly blessed with MOllie, my gins, and our LFL dog. Okay, not the dog, he was an SPCA klcklback. I have come to realize my fortune by constantly taking stock of my family. Is my wife re­ally the most Important person to me on this earth? How have I made that dear to her this week? The two exams this week,

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Keeping It Alive by Chuck Baker

the computer prQ)ect, that thesis experi­ment and the 011 change In the car will plague my mind to the exduslon of every­thing else, If I let it. Tb many of us here, we are eager to attack those tasks ahead of us and proceed forward. This Is how we achieve our goals and use our God-glven talents to their optimum. I used to con­sider such tasks as tangible problems which must be handled right now. If It wasn't on my list It could walt. WHAT A GEEKII In twenty years or so I'll be retired, my Job will not matter, but my wife will. In fifty years when I'm wearing those old man green work pants and want someone to go fIShing with me, or talk to me, or help me fInd my reading glasses, who will be there? For me, It shall be that little blonde from the Pizza Hut parking lot.

Here's what we do: Take the family on a picnic; It's cheap and fun. Go to the li­brary; one of us sits In the kid's library and reads stories to the kids while the other relaxes with their favorite magazine or looks up a great "How to" book, or a rec­Ipe, or dreams about some beaUtiful home arrangement for our next duty station. It's free and It's funl Make a bird house with your kids. It may never actually get fin­Ished, but kids have fun trying to use a saw or tap In nails. Make cookies; the mess can be cleaned up and a little flour never hurt anything. What does this have to do with romance? Simple, kids are a part of the family. If they feel loved, you will too . . They'll still color on the sofa, scratch your great Aunt Theresa's sideboard with a bar­rette, and feed the LFL dog chocolate. They're kids, don't give up. Now the fun part of this romancing ...

Ax a romantic dinner for two, break out the sliver, the china (In our case, both pieces), light a candle, play some music, snap open a bottle of your favorite vineyard squeezin's, and throw a couple of filet

.,

mignons Into the broiler. The kids are In bed. You and your wife are dressed In your most comfortable blue jeans and sweat shirts. The atmosphere Is relaxed because It's your housel You don't need a credit card and you don't need to drive home. What the heck, leave the dishes until to­morrow. Relax, talk with that person who means so much to you.

On Saturday mornings here the girls sneak In and tap on my nose (an easy tar­get on me) and I SlipoutquletJy to prepare our weekly pancakes while Mommy sleeps. I've learned to cook them all the way through so the girls like the pancakes even more now. Sometimes, my wife paints pictures for me, sometimes she bakes her Wood Class apple pie. Once or twice she has even left a rose In a vase on the desk In my study. This seems to have been when the school work has been particularly chal­lenging; after seven quarters, she has seen many of those. Imagine all of this as well as caring for kids, washing diapers, fixing meals, cleaning house, and running er­rands. In other words, these little gestures mean so much to each of us. It feels a little corny at first, but the rewards are great. A card taped to the fridge, or bathroom mirror, a silly cartoon on the computer. It's all worth It.

Hey, sorry to lapse Into seriousness for a moment, I am sure If you have read this far that you are sincerely committed to your husband or wife and these Ideas are not new to you. Superl This Is a tough school. It Is a taxing environment, the pace of which we do not control. It Is an Intense ego buster.

Remember that giri who you proposed to at your Pizza Hut? Take her out for a pizza, and let her have the last piece, like you used to.

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A Weekend to Remember

On a chilly, starless night In NOllember, a brown statlon wagon makes Its way east on callfomla State Route 156, towards a blinking yellow light The couple In the car sits silently, each absorbed In their own IIWe bubble of apprehension. The butter­flies In her stomach begin to agitate more as they approach their destJnatlon.

The car makes a right rum at the blink­Ing light In the glow of the headlights, they search for their next landmark. "There It IS· , she announces, "St Frands Retreat House. Follow the amm." The car makes another left turn, then a right, then another right, follOWing the arrows which lead them down a narrow, winding tree­lined lane. To their right, they can make out the outline of hills against the cold autumn sky. The road winds on and on among the hills which are now all around them. Their excitement grows as they begin to see other cars, oneJust disappear­Ing around a bend In front of them and another approaching from a distance be­hind thenn. They know IIerY little about this adventure they are about to undertake, only what the brochure had told theon. But they dld know that for the first tlme In their four and a half years of marriage, they were about to spend an entlre weekend alone together. Well, sort of alone. The kids were being well-cared for at a friend's

by Mollie Baker

house, and all other necessary arrange­ments had been taken care of by the week­end ooordinators. The brochure had prom­Ised that If they had a good marriage -which they did - this weekend would enrich It and help make It a great marriage. It had also promised that there would be no group sharing, only husbands and wives sharing privately In the Intlmacy of their own rooms. Nellertheless, they felt some­what skeptlcal and apprehensive as they drove on Into the night

At last they passed through a set of stone gates. Below them on their right, they could see several lighted buildings nestled at the foot of a hilI. They could see cars up ahead, filing neatly Into parking spaces, and people moving to and fro be­tween the buildings and the parking lot As they pulled their car to a stop In Its ap­pointed space, a man and a woman emerged, from nowhere It seemed. Amid smiling IntroductJons, they hOisted the couple's suitcase and said "C'mon, we'll show you to your room." The couple fol­lowed uncertainly behind them, over­whelmed by the warm kindness of these strangers.

Inside, they were greeted by two more smiling people who handed them ready­made nametags and assigned theon a room. On they went, following their suitcases through the dimly lit, door-lined hallway to room 80. "Here we are; said the man as he put the suitcase ),1 the room, "Hope you enjoy your weekend", and with a knowing smile they were gone.

The room was sparsely furnished. There were two Single beds, a small desk with a chair, and an aqJolnlng bathroonl. It was pleasant and cozy, although certainly not elegant It didn't matter anyway; af-

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ter all, they had notoorne here to be pam­pered. l11ey had oome because they needed an opportunity to be together. ffoNay from the routine cares of children, work, and home. For the next 46 hours, they were going to focus their attention entirely on each other and on their marliage.

He glanced at his watch; It was 7:45. "Well, let's go see where we're supposed to be,· he said. "We have 15 minutes.· They followed the other people who were slowly migrating towards a large, well-lighted oonference room. Quiet bits of light­hearted chatter floated around the room as oouples filed In and stood awkwardly, ex­pectantiy, around the pelimeter of the rows of waiting chairs.

They stood sllentiy off to one side and assessed the room. Many of these oouples were their age, although some were obvi­ouslya decade or so older. and one oouple even looked to be about 70. They glanced at each other and smiled, both thinking the same thing: they never dreamed anyone that age would be on a Marliage Enooun­ter weekend. He reached for her hand, and as they stood there self-consciously she noticed that few of the other oouples were holding hands, or touching In any way.

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Everyone seemed strained, as If they oould not bear the thought of any public display of affection. Here they were In a society that glamorized romance, with a room full of people who seemed strangely unroman­tic.

A man entered the room and made his way up to the long table In the front "Please find a seat, and we can get started,· he announced. "TWo dozen nervous oouples sat down and liveted their attention on the three people at the table In the front of the room ...

Forty-six hours later, the emotionally spent oouple returned to their room for the last time. He reached Into the suitcase to find his watch; It was almost six o'clock. They talked excitedly as they pushed apart their beds and straightened up the room as Instructed. Outside In the hallway, exuber­ant, glowing oouples walked by hand In hand or arm In arm, making ready for their Journeys home.

Out In the parking lot, they bid farewell to their new friends and to St Francis Retreat House. It was time to go home, back to reality. But this trip would be dif­ferent; they had so much to talk about this time. They had thought they knew each

other Inside and out, but after a weekend spentshaling their deepest, most Intimate selves with each other, they had grown doser than they had thought possible. The fire was back In her eyes when she looked at hlm,Just like It had been when they were first failing In love. And she was amazed at how much her respect for him had grown over the weekend, as they had at­tempted to lay bare their souls for one another. He felt the excitement, too. There was a new level of Intimacy In their mar­liage that had never been there before. It had been an emotionally and spiritually uplifting weekend, one which they would never forget And as the words of a song dlifted through her mind, "There Is a new world somewhere they call the promised land, and I'll be there some day, If you will take my hand ... But If I should lose your love clear, I don't know what I'd do; for I know I'll never find another you"; she re­alized that the brochure had been right they did have a great marliagel

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AN AFTERNOON WITH SYLVIA PANETfA

Between phone calls and bites of mI­crowaved lunch, Sylvia Panetta takes a break from her frantic pace at the 16th COngressional District OffIce to answer the following question. Who Is Sylvia Panetta?

The question Is posed to her and after a moment to collect her thoughts, she begins without hesitation, "First of alii am an Individual. Over the years I have learned to understand myself, to test myself and knON my strengths and weaknesses. I think the key philosophy In life, that I have, Is that I know who I am, what I am and where I'm going:

She deviates momentarily from her thought process, to observe the office functioning. COntented that allis well, she continues. "One learns things from trial and error. The Important thing In life Is to benefit from It What I mean by that Is, to learn from It and that Includes mistakes as well as the correct things we do. We learn from all our experiences. I've always ad­dressed my life, whether personally or professionally In that manner."

Born and raised In Norther.n california, Sylvia Varni left home to attend college at Dominican COllege In San Raphael, califor­nia. She studied nursing at St Joseph COl­lege of Nursing, also In San Raphael. Fol­lowing graduation, she not only became a registered nurse, but also Leon Panetta's bride.

During his studies at Santa Oara Univer­sity, In Santa Oara, california, Leon Panetta enrolled In the Reserve OffIcer's Training COrps. Upon graduation, he received a draft defer.ment from the Vietnam conflict to attend Santa Oara's law SdlOoi. Follow­Ing successful completion of law school, Lt and Mrs. Leon Panetta were off to their first asSignment

"Our first assignment," Mrs. Panetta recalled, "was the Basic OffIcer Infantry COurse at Fort Benning, Georgia. His branch was Intelligence, but In those days everyone was reporting to Benning: Be­cause of his mother's terminal Illness, the Panetta's received a compassionate reas­signment to Fort Ord, california.

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Panetta as "fantastic housing", the Panet­tas and their two young sons lived at their Fort Ord address for 18 months. In time, the Panetta family would grow to Include one more son.

Reminded of the early days and the frequent traveling required of the military lifestyle, Mrs. Panetta reminisced about a particular drive across country. "I remem­ber driving the southernmost route across the states In our V.W The boys were In the back and It was quite adventurous. "

"I understand what the spouse of a military person endures. You get to meet different people and have different experi­ences-that's not to say It Isn't difficult Having been In for just two years I under­stand that But It was often an exciting time:

The reminiscing and conversation con­tinued. Mrs. Panetta then began to discuss the role of being part of a family when a member of that family Is serving his or her country. She commented, "I feel I have a camaraderie with the spouse of someone In the military,. because, my husband Is pro­viding a service to his country also, as an elected official."

Uke most military families, the Panet­tas also endure sacrifices. Referring to this Mrs. Panetta said, "There are the absences. My husband lives most of the time back east and then comes home on weekends to meet with the constituents. There are posi­tive parts of that facet of your relationship. You are forced to live Independently. That

places you In a situation where you can develop as an Indlvldua~velop more of your own strengths and capabilities and strengthen your own character. That's also true for the absent spouse."

COmmenting on frequent separations she said, "My philosophy Is, the experiences In life that I have are Important to me because I can learn and grow from them. Does that mean that there's not loneliness? Of course, there's loneliness. Sometimes there Is that feeling of, oh ~, I wish I had someone here to help me."

"When the kids were smaller it was very difficult I was raising them pretiy much by myself. It was almost like being a Single parent, and that, Is a challenge."

"I was the one who made the decision to live In california and not move east (Washington D.C.). I realized It was my decision and therefore I had to learn to deal with It"

"When a \\Oman marries someone in the military, that Is part of her decision. It's a matter of dealing with the situation .. Sometimes that's hard, and I understand that because I've experienced It"

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and more spouses of congressmen and women Involved In their partner's career. I believe that before you get married you'd better know what you're getting Into. By that, I mean, find out what are the com­mitments. I frankly believe that now, In the 90's, the spouse does not have to feel as obligated to show or be a part of herlhis spouse's career. There Is a IIttie more Inde­pendence allowed. I see that In the mili­tary:

"You find more and more women who are married to people In the military, who lead their own life. This Is also true In poli­tics. What I'm saying Is that It is an Individ­ual decision. It was an Individual decision I made to be very Involved In my husband's career because I love Illt's part of me and it's part of him."

When an Individual serves his or her country, they represent the governmenl Inevitably, there will be times when publiC opinions will be In conflict to the govern­ment's position. Whether one Is serving their country In the military or In the U.S. COngress, It can be difficult to bear the brunt of hostJle public opinion: When asked how she reacts when the policies her husband represents come under critidsm,

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Mrs. Panetta responded, "First of all, this (our country) Is a democracy and everyone has a right to their opinion. If you can operate on that basis then It Isn't difflcull secondly, you have to maintain a certain amount of ollJectJvlty. What I may feel strongly about In one way, someone else may feel strongly about In another. Who am I to say I am all righr.> To understand that we all have a right to our opinion, that Is the beauty of democracy. "

"When I see someone outside demon­strating about something, whether It hap­pens to be that they agree or disagree with the congressman, that doesn't bother me at all. That's what leon Panetta happens to stand for because he believes In democ­racy. " Mrs. Panetta added that essential to surviving criticism Is to focus on "OllJectJv­Ity and respect for other people's opinions."

As an afterthought she added, "People talk about getting a thick skin; I don't agree that you have to get a thick skin. What you do get Is a greater sensitivity. If you're really wise and you learn from this life, you will have a greater sense of other people's feelings and needs, and of their opinions and vlevvs. If you accept people as Individu­als, It Is a lot easier to accept their views

and where they are coming from". What does the future hold for the Pan­

ettas?"1 will say, and I think this Is true for a military family, the lifestyle (we're living) Isn't forever. There will be a time when leon and I will do something else. There will be a time when leon and I say this Is It, we've given our service and now It's time to go on with something else. I think It's Important to evaluate constantly where you should be going and what you are doing, and I reserve the right to do so. "

With the phones once again In a non­stop barrage of ringing, the office Is a bastion of productive fury. One can't enter or leave the 16th Congressional District OffIce without the sense of knowing that this office gets down to business. Further­more, one can't meet Sylvia Panetta and not understand that she Is the catalyst for thatenvlronmenl

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1VJmantic Tscapes by Kelly and Dennis Gallagher

Hoping to escape from messy kltdlens, dirty diapers, and the thesis writing syndrome, my husband and I needed a weekend away. What better occaSion, we thought, than Valentine's Day. We decided to treat ourselves to a getaway weekend In a romantic Victorian mansion. While looking for the perfect place we found that Padflc Grove has a wide assortment of Bed and Breakfasts to choose from.

Since there are so many to share with you, we dedded to list a few of our favorites, but please realize that there are many more romantic possibilities around the Monterey Peninsula.

The Centrella 612 Central Avenue 372-3372

This historic Victorian bed and breakfast Inn, located In Pacific Grove, features twenty-sIx rooms, suites, and quaint cot­tages. The Inn was built In the 19th cen­tury. In the morning, a California break­fast Is served on a massive oak table which dominates the parior's furnishings. In the evening, the same setting Is used for fresh baked cookies and other specialties of the day. We Imagined ourselves sitting by the large fireplace sipping sherry. Though close to home, one could feel miles away In such an atmosphere.

The rates range from $80 to $165. The room rate Includes a full buffet break-

fast and the evening hors' d' oeuvres. The Inn also has a wonderful romantic getaway package called "Remember the Romance.·

The Gatehouse Inn 225 Central Avenue 649-8436

The Gatehouse Inn Is a charming his­toric Victorian, constructed In 1884, situ­ated In the heart of Padflc Grove. There are eight unique guest rooms, each dec0-rated with Victorian and 20th century an­tiques with touches of art deco. The rooms are named for their style of decor. My favorite room Is Langford Suite. The or­nate fireplace Is surpassed only by a spec­tacular view of Monterey Bay. Guests are greeted each morning by an expanded

continental breakfast served beside a roar­Ing fire. The guests also have the option of eating their feast In the cozy surround­Ings of their own room. Tea, sherr)( and local hors' d'oeuvres specials are prepared In the late afternoon hours. The Inn cap­tures the warmth of a by-gone era.

The rooms range In pnce from $95 for the Victorian room to $165 for the Langford Suite. The room rate Indudes a continental breakfast and the afternoon tea.

Green Gables Inn 104 5th Street and Ocean Avenue 375-2095

This romantic Queen Anne-styled mansion, builtin 1888, was owned by the

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Post family. The Inn offers eleven guest rooms, most with a view of the ocean. The Inn's romantic atmosphere Immediately reveals Itself to guests upon first entering the parior. It Is decorated with Impressive antiques, an original carousel horse, and a unique fireplace framed with stained glass window.>. Bay window alcoves beckon visitors to experience the spectacular view of Monterey Bay. A full gourmet breakfast Is served. A wine and cheese repast In the late afternoon Is also available. To end a wonderful relaxing day, the staff tums down your bed leaving a rose and ch0co­lates for their guests.

The rates range from$95 to $155. The room rate Includes a full breakfast, the afternoon repast, and turn-down service.

The Roserox Country Inn 557 Ocean View Boulevard 373-7673

The Inn Is an hiStoric countly Victorian mansion perched on the edge of the Pacific shoreline. The mansion was built around the Illm of the cenlllry for Dr. Julia B. Platt. Miss Platt. a doctor of zoology, was the

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first woman mayor of Padflc Grove. The Roserox Is a four story bed and breakfast Inn that has patterned harUNood floors and ten foot high redwood beamed ceilings. Each of the eight guest rooms, with their own special names, fealllres down com­forters, coordinated linens and towels, and fine soaps Imported specially for Roserox. The Inn provides a happy hour with rom­pllmentary wine, beer, soft drinks, and hors' d'oeuvres around the fireplace In the parior. After spending a night away from the NPS grind, you awaken to the alluring aroma of the Inn's own spedal blend of coffee. Breakfast can be enjoyed In bed (that's my kind of breakfast), on one of the ocean patios, or In the rountly French-tiled momlng room. Televisions and telephones are ronsplcuously absent from the guest rooms - a fealllre we found delightful. This inn has spectacular view.; and wonder­ful service.

The rate for rooms ranges from $125 to $205. The fee Indudes breakfast, happy hour, and a spedal take home memento of your stay at Roserox Inn.

The Seven Gables 1m 555 Ocean View Boulevard 372-4341

The House of seven Gables Is a won­derful example of the large, showy Victo­rians that were built along the oceanfront of the Monterey Bay. All of the guest rooms have ocean views, queen size beds and full private baths. The furnishings throughout the house are a formal Vlcto­rian Slyle and fine European, Oriental, and American antiques grace the many rooms. The Inn specializes In a generous sit-down breakfast served with dasslc elegance In the grand dining room. A four o'dock "High Tea" Is set out on the sunporch that has a fantastic view of Monterey Bay and Lover's Point This Inn Is an unforgettable treat with elegant furnishings, beautJful gardens, and a spectacular view of the rocky coast­line. The rates vary from $95 to $165. The price Indudes the full breakfast and the afternoon "High Tea".

Although these inns are not meant to provicJe an exhaustive list of possibilities, we hope that jOu and your Valentine will find It a useful guide.

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DINNER AT FISH AND BASIL

by Jennie Culpepper

There are many popular romantlc res­taurants on the peninsula that are perfect for you to take your valentlne. FIsh and BaSil, located at 105 ocean View Blvd .. Inside the American 11n Cannery Outlet center In Pacific Grove, may be one you had not thought of.

Upon entering this European style atrium, you'll fOrget you're under the same roof as the crowded warehouse style shop­ping center. The high ceiling and golden lighting create an airy romantic atmosphere and the floor to ceiling windows shOlN off a scenic view of Monterey Bay.

FIsh and Basil offers a moderately priced menu featlJring, as you may have guessed, a wide variety of seafood Items Including fresh salmon and snapper. If you enjoy pasta, try the tasty homemade cheese tortellinl with smoked salmon In cream sauce. For the landlubber, steak and rack of lamb are also available. The generous main course portions, ranging from $8.00-$15.00, do not Indude salad. The soups and salads will add another $4.00 to your bill.

If you have a soft spot for sweets, skip the appetlzer to save room for one of the scrumptlous desserts. The dessert and af­ter dinner drink list Is extensive. Anything you may crave from pie to mousse to Ice cream or tortes Is available. Particularly outstanding are the creme filled tortes topped with homemade hot fudge and whipped cream, otherwise known as prof­lterolls.

While the food and atmosphere are wonderful, the service IsJust average. Our walter was congenial but didn't go out of his way to check up on us. You'll most likeiy need to signal yours for refills of your beverage and your check. But if It's a ro­mantlc dinner you're seeking, you may not even notice the lack of extra outside atten­tion.

The atmosphere Is on the formal side but any attJre from casual to formal Is welcome. FIsh and Basil serves lunch and dinner seven days a week and also a brunch on Sunday. Reservations are suggested and can be made by calling 649-0707.

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CoadtaL Cuuine

• Sweetheart Supper. by Susan Romanelli

Acrordlng to Alfred, Lord "Tennyson, "In spring a young man's fancy lightly turns to thoughts of love.· While that may be true of spring (or maybeJust of the romantlc lord), I have serious doubts about midwinter (and my husband).

Around our house, unless I strategically place chocolate hearts and florist advertisements on the computer keyboard by the 12th, Valentine's Day passes without notice. That's a lot of work for a bunch of rosebuds which, until given to me with a flourish, had taken up residence In a bucket outside Del Monte Produce.

This year I have secured a promise that CUpid's arrows will be mutually exchanged. While his Idea of a romantlc dinner was my fa· vorite beverage, (expensive champagne), and his favorite snack, (microwave popcom), we have compromised on an easy-to-prepare supper, getting the little one to bed early, a lot of candles, and rentlng "Pretty Woman" Instead of" RoboCop 11".

With a little luck, he'll remember to stop at Del Monte Produce on the way home, too.

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Peel the avocado and cut In half lengthwise, twisting to release the pit Cut each half Into four lengthwise slices. Arrange ietIlJce leaves on each salad plate. Place two pairs of avocado slices, wide ends up, on leaves to form a heart shape. Fill the heart with cherry tomatoes. Add dressfng.

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At this point we plan to cheat with a roasted chicken (chez safeway) and a loaf of bakery fresh sourdough French bread, before moving on to this simple, yet elegant dessert Don't forget the pink champagne.

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Preheat oven to ~5". Butter 6 Individual custard or souffle dishes and lightly coat

with sugar. Blend the raspberries with syrup, In a food processor or blender until smooth. UsIng a mixer, beat the egg whltes to soft peaks, beat In the sugar 1 table­spoon at a tlme, and contlnue beating un­til the peaks are stiff and glossy. Gentiy fold Into the raspberry puree.

Pour the batter Into the dishes and bake until puffed and Ilghtiy golden, about 12 to 15 minutes. While the souffles are baking, whip the cream with the liqueur to soft peaks. Serve the souffles hot, topped with the cream.

Serves 6.

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VALENTINE WREATH by Beth Hedges

Several years ago my mom found a new craft making wreaths from styrofoam and fabric. She said that anyone could do It - so I took her up on the Idea. After making several wreaths for friends, I've finally made one for myself. Here Is Ma's method for a great gift.

MATERIALS 1/4 yard each of 4 different patterns of material

(should have one that contrasts) 1 8"· 11" st;yrofoam wreath - round or, as I've used here, heart shaped 1 yard each of 3 compllmental)' colors of 1/4" ribbon 1 straight pin 1 cutide pusher or something similar

I NSfRUcrlONS; 1. Use pinking shears and cut each 1/4

yard of fabric Into squares 3"x3". You will have a nice stack of squares for each color.

2. Begin on the Inside rim of wreath, (No.1 on diagram). Place the point of the cuticle pusher In the center of the fabric square, and pull the fabric tight around the stick with the printed side of the fabric against the stick. Insert fabric Into st;yro­foam with cutide pusher approximately 11

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6. With the ribbon, tie a small bow having long tails and pin It to the wreath.

Your wreath Is now ready to be hung. You can customize these to any season or color scheme. My mom made me a beau· tiful Olrlstrnas one last year. I've not only hung It, but I've used It with a candle In the middle as a centerpiece for my table. Be creative. There Is no limit to your lmaglna· tion. THANKS, MA, FOR ANOTHER GREAT IDEAl!!

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FEBRUARY AROUND THE BAY Z - 3 IVER SCHMIDT'S ANTIQUE SHOW AND SALE. This event will be held at the

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10 TOGETHER WITH LOVElRUNlWALK. 10K runlwalk which benefits the Monterey Rape Q-Isls Center. The events are open to men, women, and oouples. Medals are awarded. For more Information, call 373-3389.

Z3 BTH ANNUAL CLAM CHOWDER COOK-OFF. 100 entrants oompete for prizes; restaurant, Individual and media categories. Spectators purchase tasting kits during the judging, 10 a.m. to 1 p.m., Santa Q-uz Beach Boardwalk, 400 Beach Street, Santa O-Uz.

Z3 - Z4 MONTEREY HOT AIR AFFAIR. This event begins at dawn when the bal­loons lift off for maneuvers and oompetition. There will be a pancake breakfast at 6:30 a.m., followed bY food, arts and crafts and merchantooncessions. There will also be balloon rides and family fun until 11 a.m. There will be an admission charge plus parking fee. Held at Laguna Seca Recreation Area on Hwy. 68. For more Information, call 424-7644.

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