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Nelson’s Funeral Home
270 N. Dogwood Avenue
Ridgeway, SC 29130
(803) 337-4500
www.nelsonsofridgeway.com
Miss Me, but Let Me Go
When I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rights in a gloom-filled room;
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little but not too long
And not with your head bowed low.
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me but let me go.
For this is a journey that we all must take,
And each must go alone
It’s all a part of the master’s plan
A step on the road to home.
When you are lonely and sick at heart
Go to the friends we know
And bury your sorrow in doing good deeds.
Miss me but let me go.
Daddy
We know how much you loved us
And you know we loved you too.
We will forever miss you
And God knows that this is true.
We are forever grateful for being allowed to have you.
The weary hours and days of pain are over now for you.
So sleep on our loving Father until we meet again.
We not only lost a father, we also lost a loving friend,
Sleep on Daddy, take your rest.
Although we really loved you;
We know that God loved you best.
We know that you will be a “lion king” in heaven watching over all
of your cubs.
We will feel you in our presence because we know that we are
loved.
Your Loving Family
Floral Bearers Family and Friends
Acknowledgements
Words are inadequate to express the gratitude we feel toward all of our
family and friends who have consoled us during our bereavement.
Your many acts of kindness during these times will always be
remembered. May God bless each of you.
The Family
I’ll See You Soon
Losing a loved one is so hard to bare,
And you look at life and wonder if it’s fair.
The Lord makes no mistake and he’s never wrong;
For the rest of the family and yourself, you have to be strong.
If you always think positive you will always win;
In the great blue sky you will see them again.
They are living in the LORD’S bosom and they call it Paradise;
So you will know it has to be nice.
Just put a smile on your face and go on with your life,
When you see your loved one again, you will know the time is right.
Author Unknown
Sunday, March 13, 2016, 3:00 P.M.
Nelson’s Funeral Home
270 N. Dogwood Avenue
Ridgeway, SC 29130
Reverend Ricky Truesdale, Officiating
Mr. James L. Vanderhall July 26, 1938 – March 7, 2016
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IN LOVING
“And I saw a new heaven and a new earth: for the first heaven and the first earth
were passed away; and there was no more sea. And I John saw the holy city new
Jerusalem, coming down from God out of heaven, prepared as a bride adorned
for her husband,. And I heard a great voice out of heaven saying, Behold, the
tabernacle of God is with men, and he will dwell with them, and they shall be his
people and God himself shall be with them and be their God. And God shall wipe
away all tears from their eyes; and there shall be no more death, neither sorrow,
nor crying, neither shall there be any more pain: for the former things are passed
away.” Revelation 21:1-4
Mr. James L. Vanderhall was affectionately known by his children as the “Lion
King.” He was born July 26, 1938 in High Point, NC to the late Robert and
Lula Simon Vanderhall. He departed his earthly life on Monday, March 7,
2016 at his residence surrounded by his family.
James attended the Public Schools in High Point, NC. After graduating high
school, James enlisted in the United States Navy from which he retired after
serving thirty years. While serving in the military, James continued his
education by receiving his Bachelor’s Degree and a Master’s Degree. During
his military career, James received the Bronze Medal and several other awards
and medals for exceptional job performance.
He believed in having a strong family bond. Having a strong family bond was
instilled in his children from birth. He was a principled man and he stood up
for what he believed and he encouraged his children to do the same.
James was the kindest and most generous person that you could possibly know.
He often made sacrifices in order to give to others. He was charming,
intelligent, articulate and a great speaker. Being active in the political arena,
he had many accomplishments, as well as political bumps. He was very active
politically on the local and state level.
In 1980, he co-chaired a Citizens Group which fought to bring about the
Fairfield County elected School Board. He also authored the legislation that
gave this board, at that time the only board with taxing power in the state.
This was a hard fought battle to have this become a reality. It took more than
two years before the first elected School Board was in place.
In 1982, he was the primary leader of more than 100 delegates who walked out
of the Fairfield County Democratic Party, protesting the lack of white support
for black candidates for elected offices. At the 1982 South Carolina State
Democratic Convention, Mr. Vanderhall co-authored a resolution that was
passed by the Convention that said the party should seek the support of all
Democrats serving in elected positions to become sensitized to the political
plight of Black South Carolina Democrats. It further stated that the black
community should receive a fair and impartial assessment of what realistic
political expectation it can depend on in regards to its continued membership
in the Party; and that blacks should be appointed to the many boards and
commissions locally and statewide.
He was also very instrumental in the Southern Christian Leadership Council
(SCLC) marches where more than 3,000 plus marched in Fairfield County in
support of equality for blacks. This was the largest number of people to march
in the SCLC tour.
In 1982, Mr. Vanderhall was instrumental in the election of Rufus Belton who
was the first elected black councilman from Ridgeway county-wide.
Obituary cont’d
In 1984, Mr. Vanderhall was instrumental in an FBI investigation that
caused the Juror selection process in Fairfield County to be amended.
Also in 1984, Mr. Vanderhall led an all Black Slate of Candidates for
every position in Fairfield County and he ran for the SC House of
Representatives. The Slate was unsuccessful except for one candidate;
but this effort made Mr. Vanderhall a viable political force.
In 1986, he along with three others filed the first lawsuit in the U. S.
District Court for the Fairfield County Council to become Single Member
Districts. The suit failed although there was at the time three blacks and
two whites on County Council. Two other whites at the time could not be
a part of the suit.
In 1996, Mr. Vanderhall was one of two blacks in a statewide lawsuit in
the U.S. District Court that challenged single member districts. It was
stated that single member districts only polarized the black vote and
placed black elected officials with diminishing political clout.
The accomplishments of this Navy decorated veteran is far more than
these that are listed. He loved the people of Fairfield County and often
said we have found a place of peace and beauty but can we in our own
greed, misunderstanding and distrust of each other continue to persevere.
He leaves to cherish his loving memories forever his wife of 58 years,
Shirley Miller Vanderhall; eight children, Tyrone P. (Teresa) Vanderhall
of Pensacola, FL, Alisha V. (Timothy) Murray of Ridgeway, SC, Brian T.
(Penny) Vanderhall of Winnsboro, SC, Kimberly E. (Jerome) Womack of
Jacksonville, FL, Latasha J. (Freddie) Robertson of Ridgeway, SC,
Nakeesha T. (Jerry) Young of Winnsboro, SC, Tiasia Vanderhall of
Ridgeway, SC and Torie Vanderhall of Ridgeway, SC; a host of
grandchildren great-grandchildren and great-great-grandchildren,
nieces, nephews, cousins and other loving relatives; two sisters, Mable
Turner and Phyllis Allen, both of High Point, NC; two brothers, Robert
(Delores) Vanderhall of Washington, DC and Leon (Thelma) Vanderhall
of Bensalem, PA; two aunts-in-law, Margaret (Roosevelt) McCaskle of
Monroe, NC and Lila Copeland of Boston, MA; two sisters-in-law,
Shirley and Valerie Miller of Boston, MA; special friends, William Grey
and Moses Bell of Ridgeway, SC.
He was preceded in death by two brothers, Paul and Donald Vanderhall.
Obituary
Order of Service
Reverend Ricky Truesdale, Presiding
Prelude- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Ms. Belinda Wilson
Processional- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -Clergy, Family and Friends
Opening Selection- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Congregation
“Blessed Assurance”
Scripture:
Old Testament- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -Reverend Curtis Robertson
New Testament- - - - - - - - - - - - - - Reverend James H. Adamson
Solo- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -Ms. Gloria Qualls
Prayer of Comfort- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -- -
Reflections- - - - - - -(2 Minutes Please)- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -
Poem - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -Ms. Torie Vanderhall
Solo- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -Mr. Eddie Nelson
Words of Comfort- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Reverend Ricky Truesdale
Presentation- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Funeral Directors
Closing Selection- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - -- - -Congregation
“I’ll Fly Away”
Recessional- - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - - Funeral Directors
Interment
Fort Jackson National Cemetery
4170 Percival Road
Columbia, SC 29229
Date – To be Determined