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DOWNLOADABLE Course Materials TexasBarCLE.com 800.204.2222 x1574 Education by the Bar, for the Bar MCLE CREDIT 6 Hours (1 Ethics) How to Say “No” and Preserve the Relationship LIVE Austin September 13, 2017 Texas Law Center LIVE Webcast Watch from your computer or mobile device! About Latz’s seminars and writings: Marty Latz is one of the most accomplished and persuasive negotiators I know. In [his book] Gain the Edge! You will see why. George Stephanopoulos, Anchor ABC News This Week with George Stephanopoulos Best CLE program I’ve attended in 25 years! Very practical & insightful. Well organized & well presented. Loved it!!!Amy Greaves Williams, Houston, TX, Doherty & Doherty LLP I brought a briefcase full of work to do assuming I’d be bored and didn’t even touch it. Fun, informative, great stories. Kari Samuels, Philadelphia, PA, Gibbons Del Deo Marty Latz, Esq. National Speaker Adjunct Professor – Negotiation 1995 - 2005 Arizona State Univ. Law

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DOWNLOADABLECourse Materials

TexasBarCLE.com800.204.2222 x1574

Education by the Bar, for the Bar

MCLE CREDIT6 Hours (1 Ethics)

How to Say “No” and Preserve the Relationship

LIVE Austin • September 13, 2017 • Texas Law Center

LIVE Webcast • Watch from your computer or mobile device!

About Latz’s seminars and writings: “Marty Latz is one of the most accomplished and persuasive negotiators I know. In [his book] Gain the Edge! You will see why.”• George Stephanopoulos, Anchor ABC News This Week with George Stephanopoulos

“Best CLE program I’ve attended in 25 years! Very practical & insightful. Well organized & well presented. Loved it!!!”• Amy Greaves Williams, Houston, TX, Doherty & Doherty LLP

“I brought a briefcase full of work to do assuming I’d be bored and didn’t even touch it. Fun, informative, great stories.”• Kari Samuels, Philadelphia, PA, Gibbons Del Deo

Marty Latz, Esq.National SpeakerAdjunct Professor – Negotiation 1995 - 2005Arizona State Univ. Law

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MCLE CREDIT

6 Hours (1 Ethics)MCLE Course No: 928001197Applies to the Texas Bar College and the Texas Board of Legal Specialization in Civil Appellate Law, Civil Trial Law, Family Law, and Personal Injury Trial Law.

TexasBarCLE presents

LIVE AustinSeptember 13, 2017Texas Law Center

Register by August 30 to save $50!

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Watch from your computer or mobile device!

LIVE Webcast September 13, 2017

No discounts apply for the webcast.

Wednesday6 hours including 1 ethics hour

8:00 Registration Coffee & Pastries Provided

9:00 Introduction - The "Family Negotiation Story" .25 hr

Martin E. Latz, Scottsdale, AZ Adjunct Professor Arizona State University, Sandra Day

O'Connor College of Law

9:15 Participants Challenges in Saying "No" .25 hr

9:30 Latz’s Five Golden Rules in How to Say "No" and Preserve the Relationship .5 hr• Information and interests are key-

don’t jump to “No”• How to explore mutual interests• Ways to open up and share more to

strengthen relationships

10:00 Preparing a Strategic Plan to Say "No" .5 hrIndividually select an example and prepare a strategic plan based on taught elements to say “No.”

10:30 Break

10:45 Latz’s Five Golden Rules (cont'd) .25 hr

• Understanding the meaning of “No”• When to say “No” and when to say

“Yes”

11:00 Continue to Prepare a Strategic Plan to Say "No" .25 hr

11:15 Negotiation Ethics - Part I .5 hr ethics including discussion of the Stalking

Horse Scenario and its:• Morality – is it right or wrong?• Ethics or Legality – does it cross the

legal or ethical line?• Effectiveness – does it work?

How to Say “No” and Preserve the Relationship

11:45 Networking Lunch Provided

12:45 Latz’s Five Golden Rules (cont'd) .25 hrPowerful standards that lessen the negative impact of “No.”

1:00 Continues to Prepare a Strategic Plan to Say "No" .25 hrIndividually prepare a strategic plan based on taught elements to say “No.”

1:15 Negotiate One-on-One Exercise .5 hr

1:45 Debrief Exercise .5 hrElements that worked well, not well and how to improve in the future.

2:15 Latz’s Five Golden Rules (cont'd) .75 hr• Ways to frame a “No” with a yesable

offer• Language to psychologically make them

feel good when hearing “No”• When to involve others in the “No”

conversation• How to control the setting to improve

the relationship• Impasse-breaking strategies if you say

“No” you reach impasse

3:00 Break

3:15 Preparing a Strategic Plan to Say "No" .25 hrPrepare a strategic plan based on taught elements to say “No.”

3:30 Negotiate One-on-One Exercise .25 hr

3:45 Debrief Exercise .25 hrElements that worked well, not well and how to improve in the future.

4:00 Negotiation Ethics - Part II .5 hr ethics including discussion of The False Promise

Scenario and its:• Morality – is it right or wrong?• Ethics or Legality – does it cross the legal

or ethical line?• Effectiveness – does it work?

4:30 Adjourn

ABOUT MARTY LATZ

Renowned negotiation expert Martin E. Latz, Founder of the Latz Negotiation Institute, has trained over 100,000 lawyers and business professionals around the world to more effectively negotiate, including in Bangkok, Beijing, Brussels, Hong Kong, London, Prague, Seoul, Shanghai, and Singapore.

An Adjunct Professor - Negotiation at Arizona State University, Sandra Day O'Connor College of Law from 1995 to 2005, Latz has also negotiated for the White House nationally and internationally on the White House Advance Teams.

Latz, a Harvard Law cum laude graduate, is the author of Gain the Edge! Negotiating to Get What You Want and has appeared as a negotiation expert on CBS’ The Early Show and such national business shows as Your Money and Fox Business. He writes a monthly negotiation column that appeared for many years in The Arizona Republic and that now is e-mailed to almost 30,000 readers per month.

For more on Latz, visit www.NegotiationInstitute.com.

How you say “No” to your client, partner, boss, or business colleague can make or break your career. Yet most people instinctively or intuitively blurt out “no” or take just a few minutes to consider it before jumping headfirst into a potential make or break moment. In this program you will shift your mindset and behavior from instinctive to strategic based on the experts’ proven research. Next time you face this situation, you will systematically think about which strategies to use and have a strategic framework within which to approach it. How you say “no” will then be based not only on your own experiences, but on the collective experiences of the best negotiators in the world and on the most up-to-date research.

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