How to Save Lives in Desperate Times

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    CONTACT:Adrienne [email protected]

    FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

    SAVING LIVES IN DESPERATE TIMES

    How to Help and Not Hurt the Ones We Love and Care For

    NEW YORK CITY, June 30, 2010 These are, in deed, desperate times with so many people

    facing unemployment, layoffs, reductions in social services and closings of hospital and emergency

    rooms. Its no wonder that the number of people experiencing depression is increasing as are the

    rates of that most taboo of subjects, suicide.

    Its a sin, suicide. Considered so ghastly, you cant be placed in hallowed ground; so heinous that,

    in ancient times, the suicide was buried at a crossroads, his survivors stripped of their lands, all

    their possessions and driven away as if they never existed.

    And yet it is so common that more people take their own lives each year than are murdered by

    someone else. Twice as many people die from suicide than from AIDS. It touches people of every

    age, background, culture, social, religious and sexual persuasion.

    Its our grandmother who never got over the loss of her husband of 49 years and just wanders her

    silent apartment, lost and alone. Its our son, struggling with the horrifying realization he is sexually

    attracted to one of his male schoolmates. Our older sister, sunshine and smiles on the surface, but

    in her mid-30s, unmarried and terrified she is going to spend the rest of her life alone. Our boss

    whose recent financial setbacks and fear of losing his job have been accompanied by an inability

    to perform sexually. Our next-door neighbor, a police officer, whose constant struggle with alcohol

    is taking its toll especially late at night when he finds himself preoccupied with cleaning his gun.Our nephew, who was thought to be simply hyperactive but who, as he got older, is unable to hide

    the voices that tell him to do terrible things.

    What to say and what to do when someone talks about suicide scares even the most experienced

    mental health professional, let alone the friend, family member or colleague who overhears

    someone talking at work.

    But the Samaritans of New York, the people with the most experience in the world responding to

    those who are depressed, in crisis and suicidal has the answer. Based on their work operating

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    NYCs 24-hour confidential suicide prevention hotline which has answered 1 million calls over the

    last 20 year, Samaritans has created a free guide that every person can use, lay or professional,

    caregiver or friend. It connects people with the latest information, the most effective methods of

    responding to people in crisis, clinical research, scholarly articles - Everything you need to know

    to help a person in their time of crisis. Its free and immediately accessible on the Internet.

    Most people, no matter what their education, training or experience, are uncomfortable talking

    about suicide, especially if it is with someone they know or care about, says Alan Ross, Executive

    Director of the Samaritans of New York which created this resource in response to the needs of the

    NYC caregivers and health providers who are seeing increasing numbers of people who are

    depressed and in crisis.

    Samaritans Free Internet Guide to Suicide Prevention Materials and Resources provides

    family members, friends, lay and professional health providers in NYC with easy-to-access links to

    the best available information on suicide statistics, warning signs, risk factors, the keys to effective

    responses to high-risk individuals (including children, adolescents, adults, elderly, survivors, etc.),

    current research and major organizations that provide additional resources as well as references tothe latest clinical studies and evidence-based programs, scholarly and practical articles of interest.

    Go to: www.samaritansnyc.org/prevention/resourcematerials

    People in distress can be helped. People who are suicidal dont want to die they just cannot cope

    with the pain they are experiencing. The better we are at recognizing what causes depression and

    suicide, how to respond to someone in crisis and how to help, the more likely we are to save a life

    in these desperate times.

    This project was made possible with funding from the New York City Council, City CouncilSpeaker Christine Quinn and the New York State Office of Mental Health.

    About The Samaritans

    The Samaritans of New York is the local branch of the international humanitarian movement withcenters in 42 countries. A non-religious, non-profit organization, Samaritans is devoted to helping

    people who are in crisis and feeling suicidal. Volunteer-run programs practice a communications-based response called "befriending," which emphasizes listening to what a person in crisis isfeeling and thinking without expressing personal judgments or opinions. The Samaritans 24-hoursuicide prevention hotline is the city's only confidential hotline devoted to preventing suicide. Itoperates seven days a week and is staffed by volunteers who go through intensive training. Formore information, visit www.samaritansnyc.org

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