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How to make a good first impression in dating

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First impressions do last. Your actions and intentions are interpreted through the filter of a good impression. Showing your best is a must when attracting and seducing women. Make your entrance into the lady’s life memorable with these useful dating tips for men. There is no second chance for a good impression.

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Have you heard of the phrase, “first impression lasts”? Well, this is true. Although I first

encountered this phrase from a body spray commercial, I can verify it for myself that this catchy

expression is true. An impression refers to a feeling, idea or opinion about something or someone

that is formed without any conscious thought. When you make an imprint on someone, your

future actions and intentions will be perceived or interpreted based on your initial impression.

This means that whatever you do from that point onwards will be filtered through the funnel of

your first impression. As you can see, good impression is really important. The question is,

“How can you make a good impression?”

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When you meet a girl for the first time, attracting and seducing her may not be enough. You also

need to make the romantic encounter memorable for her. Let the thoughts of you linger in her

mind. Leave your mark in her psyche. Make her remember you for the rest of her life. Don’t be

like the average guy that she meets on a regular basis. Be awesome! You can have a good start

by having a good impression.

We can compare making a good impression to stamping a mark. You have to make sure that you

use enough ink and you apply enough pressure in order to make the mark more recognizable.

Such principle also applies to attracting and seducing women. You want the lady to remember

you after the brief encounter. You are leaving your mark on her so to speak. Here are some

useful dating tips that will help you to make a good impression:

1. Make good eye contact. Are you afraid of looking into her eyes? What is the worst thing that

could happen? Such experience makes you feel uncomfortable and you make the situation more

awkward by avoiding any eye contact with her. You did not look her in the eye because you

don’t want to scare her away. Unfortunately, you make an opposite effect. You have aroused her

suspicion because of the poor eye contact. In our culture, good eye contact conveys

trustworthiness and confidence. So next time you meet a girl for the first time, look her in the eye

and show to her your trustworthiness and true self-confidence.

2. Talk using a deep voice. You are a man. You are expected to be masculine in the way that you

talk, think, and act. A deep sexy voice is attributed to being an alpha male. For some reason,

alpha males are more attractive to women than the average joe. If you happen to have a pre-

adolescent squeaky voice, then you may need to practice deepening your voice. It may take some

time and practice but this goal is feasible.

3. Groom yourself. If you are going to leave your mark on the girl, then do it with a scent of

stimulating perfume. Be the best version of yourself by doing some grooming practices that can

bring out the best of you. In contrast, don’t repel the ladies with that strong unwanted odor that

will haunt her for days. If you can take care of yourself, then you can also take care of the other

people that you love.

4. Manifest self-confidence. You cannot fake true self-confidence. You have to firmly believe in

yourself before the aura of confidence will shine through. Relying so much on other people’s

approval for your validation can ruin your self-esteem. I would encourage you to be aware of

what other people say and think about you but don’t let other people run your life. Having the

guts to take charge of your life despite the opposition is itself your true self-confidence.

5. Initiate interaction. As an alpha male, you are expected to start the interaction. Although

women are having more control over their lives in the last decades, one could not deny the fact

that the ladies still find the alpha males attractive. When you see a good looking woman, don’t

be afraid to approach her. You are only making the situation more awkward if you hesitate. You

only have a small window of opportunity to attract and seduce the girl. So I encourage you to

strike while the iron is still hot.

6. Be courteous. If flattery will not take you anywhere, then your courteousness can take you

places where only a few people go. Put into consideration the welfare of others. This is what you

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call respect. This could be manifested in your words and actions. Women want to be respected.

When I say respect, I don’t mean being nice. There is a slight difference between the two. When

you truly respect someone, you are outcome independent. You don’t need to be rewarded

because you truly believe in the validity of your actions. In comparison, being nice means doing

something good in order to have something good in return. This is a turn off for a lot of women.

They don’t want to be treated like a slot machine. You don’t necessarily do good things for them

and expect sex in return. It does not necessarily work that way.

7. Flirt. Girls want some indicators of interest as a validation. They don’t put on their make-up

and sexy clothes for no reason. You can provide them with positive reinforcements for a job well

done by flirting with them. You cannot underestimate the effects of flirting on women. It will

make them feel good about themselves and it can also arouse their interest in you. Did you know

that memory is closely related to emotional triggers? This means that if you can elicit a strong

emotional stimulation from the women, then you are more likely to be remembered. The strong

emotional stimulation need not to be positive. The strong negative emotional stimulation will

have the same effect.

8. Take charge of the interaction. Although women are now having more control over their

lives thanks to the feminist movement, they still expect their partners to be an alpha male. They

want a man who can take charge of the situation and who can sweep them off their feet. You

have to achieve a certain level of control over your life in order to be considered as a potential

partner. Women prefer alpha males because nice guys frustrate them.

9. Keep the conversation light and casual. Deep conversations are reserved only for people who

are in your inner circle. Having a deep conversation with a stranger can be a daunting

experience. You are putting everything on the table too soon. You are not leaving enough room

for mystery and interest to blossom. Keeping the conversation light and casual during the initial

interaction can prove beneficial to your part. It has less pressure but more on pleasure. This will

provide an environment that is conducive for attraction and seduction.

10. Extend your friendship to the people surrounding you. Who do you think is more

attractive? The man who is isolated or the man who is surrounded by gorgeous women?

Naturally, you will answer the man who is surrounded by a group of beautiful ladies. When you

are surrounded with a lot of friends, you are sending a resounding message to the girl that you

are socially competent and you are approved by the society. People tend to follow the crowd and

the dictates of the society. Gorgeous women are no different. This is how the principle of social

proofing comes into play. The more will have more and less will have less.

Making a good impression is like leaving a mark in the woman’s psyche. It has to be good and

memorable. You have to remember that ladies will gauge your future words and actions with

their first impression about you. Therefore, it is important for you to make a good impression

because first impression lasts. Apply the useful dating tips that are presented to you earlier so

that you can increase your chance of making a good impression into the girl.

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