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Passion Before Profit: Following
Your Passion Is The EssentialEntrepreneurial TraitComment NowFollow Comments
Restaurateur, investor, philanthropist, and environmentalist Sean Meenan is now seeing the benefits of
focusing on passion before profit. (Photo credit: Jamel Toppin
A little over fifteen years ago, a young wayward New Yorker dressed like a
!"#$s pi%p i%agined owning a restaurant on the &orner of Eli'a(eth and
Prin&e streets ) an interse&tion nestled in the yet*to*(e*na%ed trendy No+ita
neigh(orhood -ith its rough fa.ade and re%nants of drug paraphernalia, the
neigh(orhood linked the esta(lished East /illage and 0o1o neigh(orhoods,
and inha(ited old guard Italian, 2hinese and 3o%ini&an i%%igrants Portions
of the world &ollided within the s%all New York 2ity neigh(orhood every
single day, and one %an wanted to &onne&t that &o%%unity with the power offood
Today, that sa%e New Yorker has turned his idea into an ever*e4panding
e%pire that in&ludes si4 restaurants, a non*profit organi'ation, an i&oni&
residential (uilding, an award winning &lothing &o%pany, and one of the
world$s largest e*&o%%er&e we(sites The a%(itious %an, however, still
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speaks with the sa%e enthusias% and &onvi&tion as a re(ellious twenty*
so%ething year old, (arely taking a (reath or even leaving roo% to annotate
pun&tuation The only differen&e: he$s traded his platfor% shoes and wide*
&ollared shirts in for a &olle&tion of 5angol hats and flat*(illed (ase(all &aps
1is na%e is 0ean 6eenan 1e is a restaurateur, investor, philanthropist,
environ%entalist, and developer But, you would never know it when first
%eeting hi%, or even (y looking at his (usiness &ard It$s his unpretentious
sin&erity, pier&ing passion, and undenia(le instin&t that give away his evident
su&&ess 1e is a rare spe&ies of 2E7 that doesn$t have to win anyone over with
industry 8argon or an elevator pit&h
This was all e%anating fro% a %an who (uilt the 2af9 1a(ana (rand,
pioneered &o%%er&e in the now trendy No+ita and Ft reene neigh(orhoods,opened New York$s first solar powered restaurant, and was an initial investor
in the glo(ally renowned e*&o%%er&e we(site, Etsy 1e didn$t have to %ention
his list of a&&o%plish%ents That is, until I grilled hi% for infor%ation
A re&ent &onversation with hi% got %e thinking a(out those not*so*o(vious
traits that su&&essful entrepreneurs share Those traits that aren$t &onfir%ed
through a sta&k of water%arked (usiness &ards or designer suits, aren$t
vo&ali'ed (y dropping na%es or %ade up %ultisylla(i& 8argon, and aren$t
perfe&ted with pra&ti&e or learned fro% a (ook These are innate traits thatpeople with the entrepreneurial spirit posses, (ut truly su&&essful people
%anifest the% through all their endeavors
But where do those traits &o%e fro%; I reali'ed that it all starts with passion )
the intense &o%pelling e%otion, desire, and enthusias% for so%ething
0o%eti%es, it$s not a(out sear&hing for the ne4t (ig idea, disrupting the
industry, or &reating the ne4t
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%e, that$s really the (eauty of Brooklyn ) the (eauty of life And, I was a(le to
do that ) &ele(rate people and (ring people together ) in a way that was even
(igger than I &ould at 2af9 1a(ana=
In ##C, he opened the1a(ana 7utpost, New York$s first fully solar powered&af9, and it ?ui&kly witnessed the sa%e fa%e that its older si(ling did in
6anhattan The spa&ious area and outdoor seating gathered even %ore people
fro% the Ft reene neigh(orhood, and 6eenan was again i%%ersed in his
new neigh(orhood
2ontinuing with his urge to s&ale his passion, 6eenan &ontinued to %anifest it
in different ways ?ui&kly 1e founded a nonprofit &alled 1a(ana -orksthe
following year The foundation offers weekend progra%%ing for &hildren and
parents, a design progra% that gave ar&hite&ture students the opportunity to
help the neigh(orhood through design, and initiatives that worked to greenthe area with &o%%unity gardens
Feeling fully &onne&ted to the neigh(orhood, 6eenan pur&hased a residential
(uilding that would (e&o%e a Brooklyn i&on The Brooklyn +ove (uilding also
a&ts as pu(li& art, with Brooklyn*&entri& %urals painted (y lo&al raffiti artists
and art students, who &o%%e%orated for%er Brooklyn*ite Biggie 0%alls on
the (uilding$s e4terior wall
Eventually, 6eenan$s 1a(ana (rand (e&a%e an i&oni& neigh(orhood staple inits own right 7thers (egan to take noti&e and wanted a pie&e of Brooklyn
-ithin the ne4t few years, 6eenan opened several %ore 2af9 1a(anas as the
opportunities arose ) two restaurants were opened in the Bar&lays 2enter,
ho%e to the Brooklyn Nets, and others were opened in 6ali(u and 3u(ai
Passion can inspire others
6eenan ad%its that when he opened his e&o*&ons&ious 1a(ana 7utpost in
Brooklyn, he drank the prover(ial solar*powered 5ool*Aid -hat (egan assolar panels installed on the rooftop ?ui&kly snow(alled into (i&y&le*powered
(lenders and (en&hes %ade fro% re&y&led lu%(er The Brooklyn &af9 (e&a%e
the first fully solar powered restaurant, and su(se?uently taught others a(out
the value of taking &are of the environ%ent
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Passion &an inspire others organi&ally, and 6eenan has done so su&&essfully
(y leading through e4a%ple, whi&h works %u&h %ore effe&tively than wearing
Birkensto&ks and s%elling of pat&houli
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1ow To Find Your Passion And0tart A rowing BusinessComment NowFollow Comments
'laudia 'han, ounder, S../. 0lobal Media1 -ubov 23ria, 'hief 'reative 4fficer, !'!0M2526R720R48P1
and 2le9andra il+is ilson, 'oounder, 0ilt
After ! years of &o*running a su&&essful &o%pany, 0he&ky$s, known for its irls
Night 7ut events that &o%(ine &o&ktails, shopping and networking, 2laudia
2han wanted %ore purpose in her life
Open yourself up to opportunity
You &an$t know where opportunity lies, if you$re not aware of what$s going onin the world2han (e&a%e a sponge, soaking up %arketpla&e trends until she
fi4ated on one: wo%en$s advan&e%ent had stagnated -hether it is the
per&entage of wo%en leading Fortune ,### &o%panies, serving on their
&orporate (oards, holding politi&al offi&e or raising %oney to s&ale their
(usinesses, the nu%(ers had stalled
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Know what youre good at
1ow &ould 2han inspire and en&ourage wo%en to (reak (arriers; By starting
a %ore purposeful wo%en$s %edia &o%pany that &ould provide a%(itious
wo%en with honest advi&e and stories of today$s leading fe%ale role %odels
that they nor%ally would not have a&&ess to And (y &onvening these wo%enat live events, she &ould help the% (uild the networks they need to a&hieve
their goals
-hile wo%en (uild deep relationships with ea&h other, to unlo&k our potential
we need to open %ore doors for ea&h other 8ust as %en doFro% her past
e4perien&e, 2han knows how to throw events that foster (onding 0he had
done this for nearly a de&ade with 0he&ky$s Now she had a (igger purpose
1er &o%pany 01E lo(al 6edia has laun&hed two %edia (rands sin&e it$s
6ar&h # in&eption 2laudia2han&o%, a we(site that shares hundreds ofe4&lusive interviews with inspirational wo%en fro% 0o%aly 6a% to 2hristy
Turlington Burns, and 01E 0u%%it) an annual Dune wo%en$s week of
events that (rings the &ontent to life The (rands are designed to inspire
wo%en to drea% (ig and do (ig with passion and purpose
2han evaluated the %arketpla&e and found there was no dire&t &o%petition
There were so%e high*end &onferen&es, (ut no pu(li&ation or &onferen&e
&onne&ting today$s wo%en leaders with the %asses 0in&e wo%en approa&h
their lives holisti&ally, not separating personal fro% (usiness, 2han$s &ontentalso &o%(ines leadership with lifestyle
Self funding your businesses requires creative marketing tactics
2han &hose not to raise %oney, she funded the &o%pany herself 0he
(ootstrapped everything, in&luding %arketing the event 0he was &reative in
pro%oting her events, partnering with other (rands that ai%ed to inspire
wo%en, fro% wo%en$s organi'ation C Broads to fitness &hain Physi?ue C" to
fashion (rand B2B6AAG>IA a%ong others The ta&ti& worked 7nly in its
se&ond year, the 01E 0u%%it -eek attra&ted thousands of wo%en to its##H events a&ross the 0 and glo(ally
Build a great culture around your teams skill sets and passions
2han doesn$t run her &o%pany in a traditional way 0he finds people that get
her %ission, (elieve in the drea%, and have &he%istry with her 0he will
&usto%i'e a 8o( to the skill set and interests of the person she hires so they
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flourish 7ne of the advantages wo%en have in (usiness is that they nurture
their tea%s
-hat$s to &o%e;
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disease*&reating ver%in, or give people a %ore hu%ane %ouse*re%oval
option, (ut to win the %ousetrap (usiness lottery: to e4it the %ousetrap
(usiness altogether with a very fat &he&k in hand, having &reated a &o%pany
that so%e larger entity sees as having tre%endous potential in the %ousetrap
innovation spa&e, and retire with the pro&eeds to the 0outh of Fran&e Theygenerally (uild a tea% and a &o%pany with an eye toward s&ala(ility and
independen&e fro% the% In the pro&ess, these folks ?uite often &reate
wonderful new things ) (ut their fo&us, what they really want to do, is figure
out how to (uild so%ething that &an (e s&aled up and sold
Flavor #2: The richar !ran"on ($) entrepreneur. This
entrepreneur is passionately &o%%itted to (ringing a produ&t or servi&e to the
world that$s (etter, faster, sleeker, si%pler, %ore sustaina(le, %ore delightful,
easier, et& 1e or she wants to (uild a (etter %ousetrap (e&ause he or she &ansee so &learly how %u&h coolerit would (e than anything that &urrently e4ists
And this person &an$t wait to see how it$s going to happen ) and &an$t wait to
%ake that new reality happen They generally (uild a tea% and a &o%pany
(ased pri%arily in their passion for the thing Kservi&e, produ&t, &apa(ilityL and
their relentless %ove%ent toward %anifesting it in the world Now, this kind
of entrepreneur ?uite often also gets ri&h Kas witness the a&tual >i&hard
BransonL and so%eti%es even (uys a house in in the south of Fran&e ) (ut
then he or she pro(a(ly keeps working on the ne4t, even &ooler version of
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so%ething together For instan&e, I$% wat&hing %y son ) who is heavily
weighted toward the >B side ) having lots of diffi&ulty finding an operating
rhyth% with his (usiness partner, who is a pure, unadulterated, ##M 6A5
They have these frustrating &onversations where Ian fo&uses KpassionatelyL on
(rand and how they &an (uild a (usiness and a reputation (y giving their&usto%ers an e4perien&e that$s uni?ue attra&tive to a parti&ular
de%ographi& in a very spe&ifi& way And his partner 8ust wants to fo&us on
redu&ing &osts, in&reasing operational effi&ien&ies and turning ta(les over
?ui&kly, so their restaurant will (low up and turn a (ig profit and they &an
ulti%ately e4it They$re speaking two different languages entirely, with al%ost
no overlap, and I know that ea&h thinks the other isQnot wrong, e4a&tly, (ut
8ust not that appealing
And it see%s to %e that if you$re an entrepreneur, it$s i%portant to (e&o%eaware of your pri%ary flavor It will help you get &lear a(out what su&&ess
looks like for you, and it will also help you %ake sure that your partners share
enough of your %indset to speak the sa%e language and (e e4&ited a(out the
sa%e future
-hi&h %ay very well in&lude that house in the 0outh of Fran&e, whatever your
flavor
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Follo* and dis&over how to (e a followa(le leader Booklist &alled it a book
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The 6ost 0u&&essful +eaders 3oC Things Auto%ati&ally, Every
3ay$% comments, =# called
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Beyond de&ision %aking, su&&essful leadership a&ross all areas (e&o%es
learned and instin&tual over a period of ti%e 0u&&essful leaders have learned
the %astery of anti&ipating (usiness patterns, finding opportunities in
pressure situations, serving the people they lead and over&o%ing hardships
No wonder the (est 2E7s are paid so %u&h %oney In #, salaries for the## top*paid 2E7s rose C per&ent to a %edian UC %illion per year,
a&&ording to a study (y &o%pensation*data &o%pany E?uilar for The New
York Ti%es
If you are looking to advan&e your &areer into a leadership &apa&ity and V or
already assu%e leadership responsi(ilities ) here are C things you %ust do
auto%ati&ally, every day, to (e a su&&essful leader in the workpla&e:
1 !ake Others "eel Safe to Speak#$p6any ti%es leaders inti%idate their &olleagues with their title and power
when they walk into a roo% 0u&&essful leaders defle&t attention away fro%
the%selves and en&ourage others to voi&e their opinions They are e4perts at
%aking others feel safe to speak*upand &onfidently share their perspe&tives
and points of view They use theire4e&utive presen&eto &reate an
approa&ha(le environ%ent
% !ake &ecisions
0u&&essful leaders are e4pert de&ision %akers They either fa&ilitate the
dialogue to e%power their &olleagues to rea&h a strategi& &on&lusion or they doit the%selves They fo&us on
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tra&k The proto&ol she i%ple%ented ) (y &learly &o%%uni&ating
e4pe&tations ) in&reased perfor%an&e and helped to identify those on the
tea% that &ould not keep up with the standards she e4pe&ted fro% us
+ (hallenge People to ,hink
The %ost su&&essful leaders understand their &olleagues$ %indsets,
&apa(ilities and areas for i%prove%ent They use this knowledgeVinsight to
&hallenge their tea%s to think and stret&h the% to rea&h for %ore These
types of leaders e4&el in keeping their people on their toes, never allowing
the% to get &o%forta(le and ena(ling the% with the tools to grow
If you are not thinking, you$re not learning new things If you$re not learning,
you$re not growing ) and over ti%e (e&o%ing irrelevant in your work
- Be .ccountable to Others
0u&&essful leaders allow their &olleagues to %anage the% This doesn$t %ean
they are allowing others to &ontrol the% ) (ut rather (e&o%ing a&&ounta(le to
assure they are (eing proa&tive to their &olleagues needs
Beyond 8ust %entoring and sponsoring sele&ted e%ployees, (eing a&&ounta(le
to others is a sign that your leader is fo&used %ore on your su&&ess than 8ust
their own
/ 0ead by )*ample+eading (y e4a%ple sounds easy, (ut few leaders are &onsistent with this one
0u&&essful leaders pra&ti&e what they prea&h and are %indful of their a&tions
They know everyone is wat&hing the% and therefore are in&redi(ly intuitive
a(out dete&ting those who are o(serving their every %ove, waiting to dete&t a
perfor%an&e shortfall
!easure 2 3eward Performance
reat leaders always have a strong 7I, they are a&tive in a&knowledging
hard work and efforts Kno %atter the resultL 0u&&essful leaders never take
&onsistent perfor%ers for granted and are %indful of rewarding the%
4 Provide (ontinuous "eedback
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E%ployees want their leaders to know that they are paying attention to the%
and they appre&iate any insights along the way 0u&&essful leaders always
provide feed(a&k and they wel&o%e re&ipro&al feed(a&k (y
&reatingtrustworthyrelationships with their &olleagues They understand the
power of perspe&tive and have learned the i%portan&e of feed(a&k early on intheir &areer as it has served the% to ena(le workpla&e advan&e%ent
5 Properly .llocate and &eploy ,alent
0u&&essful leaders know their talent pool and how to use it They are e4perts
at a&tivating the &apa(ilities of their &olleagues and knowing when to deploy
their uni?ue skill sets given the &ir&u%stan&es at hand
16 .sk 7uestions8 Seek (ounsel
0u&&essful leaders ask ?uestions and seek &ounsel all the ti%e Fro% the
outside, they appear to know*it*all ) yet on the inside, they have a deep thirstfor knowledge and &onstantly are on the look*out to learn new things (e&ause
of their &o%%it%ent to %aking the%selves (etter through the wisdo% of
others
11 Problem Solve9 .void Procrastination
0u&&essful leaders ta&kle issues head*on and know how to dis&over the heart of
the %atter at hand They don$t pro&rastinateand thus (e&o%e in&redi(ly
profi&ient at pro(le% solvingJ they learn fro% and don$t avoid un&o%forta(le
&ir&u%stan&es Kthey wel&o%e the%L
etting ahead in life is a(out doing the things that %ost people don$t likedoing
1% Positive )nergy 2 .ttitude
0u&&essful leaders &reate a positive and inspiring workpla&e &ulture They
know how to set the tone and (ring an attitudethat %otivates their &olleagues
to take a&tion As su&h, they are likea(le, respe&ted and strong willed They
don$t allow failures to disrupt %o%entu%
1' Be a :reat ,eacher
6any e%ployees in the workpla&e will tell you that their leaders have stopped
(eing tea&hers 0u&&essful leaders never stop tea&hing (e&ause they are so
self*%otivated to learn the%selves They use tea&hing to keep their &olleagues
well*infor%ed and knowledgea(le through statisti&s, trends, and other
newsworthy ite%s
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0u&&essful leaders take the ti%e to %entor their &olleagues and %ake the
invest%ent to sponsor those who have proven they are a(le and eager to
advan&e
1+ ;nvest in 3elationships0u&&essful leaders don$t fo&us on prote&ting their do%ain ) instead they
e4pand it (y investing in %utually (enefi&ial relationships 0u&&essful leaders
asso&iate the%selves with
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C -ays To Identify Bad +eaders;> comments, ?@ called
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In a previous pie&e entitled +ooking For +eadership, I share a nu%(er of
&on&erns a(out &orporate A%eri&a$s o(session over leadership assess%ents
There$s a not so su(tle a(di&ation of responsi(ility that has o&&urred as
rationali'ations take pla&e around 3I02 s&ores, or 8ustifi&ations surrounding a
O# review are used to defend an ineffe&tive leader 6y ?uestion is this: whata(out real world tests; If your enterprise has trou(le identifying leaders, or
has a shortage of leaders, you don$t have a testing pro(le% ) you have a
leadership pro(le% 7ne of the pri%ary responsi(ilities of leadership is to
&reate %ore and (etter leaders I (elieve it was Dohn 6a4well who said, hen leaders fail to lead themselves: A leader who la&ks &hara&ter or
integrity will not endure the test of ti%e It doesn$t %atter how intelligent,
affa(le, persuasive, or savvy a person is, if they are prone to rationali'ing
unethi&al (ehavior (ased upon &urrent or future needs, they will eventually
fall prey to their own undoing 7pti&s over ethi&s is not a for%ula for su&&ess
' Put#up or shut#up: Nothing s%a&ks of poor leadership like a la&k of
perfor%an&e No(ody is perfe&t, (ut leaders who &onsistently fail are not
leaders, no %atter how %u&h you wish they were -hile past perfor%an&e isnot always a &ertain indi&ator of future events, a long*ter% tra&k re&ord of
su&&ess should not (e taken lightly 0o%eone who has &onsistently
e4perien&ed su&&ess in leadership roles has a %u&h (etter &han&e of su&&ess
than so%eone who has not It$s i%portant to re%e%(er unproven leaders
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&o%e with a high risk pre%iu% 0%art &o%panies re&ogni'e potential, (ut
they reward perfor%an&e
+ Beware the know#it#all: The (est leaders are a&utely aware of how %u&h
they don$t know They have no need to (e the s%artest person in the roo%, (ut
have the unyielding desire to learn fro% others I$ve often said, leaders whoare not growing &annot lead a growing enterprise 7ne of the hall%arks of
great leaders is their insatia(le &uriosity If a leader isn$t e4tre%ely &urious
a(out every aspe&t of their organi'ation, trust %e when I say there are huge
pro(le%s on the hori'on
- >hen theres a failure to communicate=-hen leaders are &onstantly
flu%%o4ed (y those who don$t see% to get it, there e4ists (oth a leadership
and &o%%uni&ations pro(le% 0how %e a leader with poor &o%%uni&ation
skills and I$ll show you so%eone who will (e short*lived in their positionreat leaders &an &o%%uni&ate effe&tively a&ross %ediu%s, &onstituen&ies,
and environ%ents They are a&tive listeners, fluid thinkers, and know when to
dial it up, down, or off
/ ;ts all about them: If a leader doesn$t understand the &on&ept of eal leaders take the (la%e and give the &redit ) not the
other way around +ong story shortJ if a leader re&eives a vote of non*&onfiden&e fro% their su(ordinatesQga%e over
Sing a little Kumbaya: -hile loveand leadership are &ertainly two
words you don$t often hear in the sa%e senten&e, I &an assure you that rarely
does great leadership e4ist without love (eing present anpra&ti&ed In fa&t,
if you e4a%ine failed leaders as a &lass, you$ll find that a la&k of love,
%ispla&ed love, or %isguided love were a &ontri(uting &ause of said failures, if
not the root &ause E%pathy, hu%ility and kindness are signs of leadership
strength ) not weakness4 One si?e fits all leadership style: The (est leaders are fluid and fle4i(le
in their approa&h They understand the power of, and ne&essity for &onte4tual
leadership
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haul Think open*sour&e not proprietary, surrender not &ontrol, and
&olla(orate not di&tate
5 0ack of focus: +eadership is less a(out (alan&e and %ore a(out priority
The (est leaders are ruthless in their pursuit of fo&us Those leaders who la&k
the fo&us and attention to detail needed to apply leverage and resour&es in anaggressive and &o%%itted fashion will perish +eaders who are not intentional
and are not fo&used, will fail the%selves and their tea% +eaders who la&k
dis&ipline will %odel the wrong (ehaviors and will inevita(ly spread
the%selves too thin 7rgani'ations are at the greatest risk when leaders lose
their fo&us Intentions %ust (e aligned with results for leaders to (e effe&tive
16 &eath by comfort ?one: The (est organi'ations (eat their &o%petition
to the future, and the (est leaders understand how to pull the future forward
+eaders satisfied with the status ?uo, or those who tend to (e %ore &on&erneda(out survival than growth won$t do well over the long*run The (est leaders
are fo&used on leading &hange and innovation to keep their organi'ations
fresh, dyna%i& and growing Botto% line ) leaders who (uild a stati& (usiness
doo% the%selves to failure
11 @ot paying attention to the consumer: +eaders not attuned to the
needs of the %arket will fail As the old saying goes, if you$re not taking &are of
your &usto%ers, so%eone else will (e %ore than happy to 0u&&essful leaders
fo&us on the &onsu%er e4perien&e, whi&h in turn leads to satisfa&tion and
loyalty The (est leaders find ways to &onsistently engage the &onsu%er andin&orporate the% into their innovation and planning initiatives If you ignore,
%istreat, or otherwise don$t value your &usto%er (ase, your days as a leader
are %ost &ertainly nu%(ered
1% :et ;nvested: +eaders not fully &o%%itted to investing in those they lead
will fail The (est leaders support their tea%, (uild into their tea%, %entor
and &oa&h their tea%, and they truly &are for their tea% A leader not fully
invested in their tea% won$t have a tea% ) at least not an effe&tive one Never
forget the old saying, people don$t &are how %u&h you know until they knowhow %u&h you &are ) words to live (y for leaders
1' ,he A. word: >eal leaders are a&&ounta(le They don$t (la%e others,
don$t &lai% &redit for the su&&ess of their tea%, (ut always a&&ept
responsi(ility for failures that o&&ur on their wat&h 6ost of all, leaders are
a&&ounta(le to their tea% I$ve always said that leaders not
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a&&ounta(le totheir people will eventually (e held a&&ounta(le !+their
people
1+ ;ts the culture stupid: The lesson here is that &ulture %atters ) forget
this and all other efforts with regard to talent initiatives will (e dysfun&tional,
if not altogether lost 3on$t allow your &ulture to evolve (y default, &reate it (ydesign The first step in &ultural design is to (e very, very &areful who you let
through the front door People, their traits, attitudes, and work ethi& Kor la&k
thereofL are &ontagions This &an (e positive or negative ) the &hoi&e is yours
The old saying,
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By Diane Pauley
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Once you enter the or!in" orl#, you$ll hear o%%ice banter li!e, &'ou !no you$(e ma#e it hen the
bi" "uy ants to see you) or &*ll the har# or! is "oin" to be orth it some#ay+)
Do you really ant to ait %or someday
'ou$re %ocuse# on the bi" payo%% o% success+ But hat #oes successe(en loo! li!e -t may inclu#e
the house, car an# 401.+ Or it mi"ht be ma!in" enou"h to retire later on an# en/oy li%e+ sually, it
has somethin" to #o ith the hope o% a "oo# /ob a%ter colle"e+
But somethings missing, and thats the other seven-letter word you may have orgotten:
!assion"
Figuring out what !assion loo#s li#e
hen you$re li(in" out your passion, you #on$t nee# to ait %or retirement to en/oy li%e+ Passion
euals happiness+
hat #oes passion loo! li!e
-t loo!s a little somethin" li!e this a!in" up re%reshe#, bein" ecite# %or or! because it #oesn$t%eel li!e actual &or!,) antin" to share hat you$re #oin" ith others, %eelin" totally satis%ie# on
the insi#e an# antin" to scream %rom the roo%tops+ 'ou$re /ust that happy+
-% that$s the case, hy are so many still li(in" on the success pen#ulum
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or one thin", the !assion route may $e more rewarding, $ut its harder+ -t ta!es
#etermination, har# or!, thic! s!in an# some %aith 6here are en'ers out there ri"ht no li(in" a
passion8%uele# li%ebecause it is achie(able+
%ow do you go a$out living a !assion-driven
liestyle&
Start by %olloin" these %our simple steps
1+ rite #on your core (alues 9a+!+a+ principles an# belie%s that you li(e by:+
2+ rite #on hat you lo(e to #o hobbies, si#e pro/ects, etc+
3+ *## your core valuesto your loved ho$$iesan# rite #on hat /obs ha(e both+
4+ Pursue careers 9or create your on;: that in(ol(e both your (alues an# your hobbies+
9 passion+:
?ost o% us miss this simple %ormula+ -t really isthat easy@ there$s nothin" to o(ercomplicate+ 'ou
can e(en start by as!in" a %e uestions+ or eample, i% you$re in a pro%ession you #espise, hy
are you still there -% your A8to85 /ob is "i(in" you mil# to se(ere #epression or aniety, is it orth it
to stay
'he $iggie: dont settle
Don$t settle %or a career that un#ermines your talents, s!ills, (alues an# belie%s+
* paychec! may be a means to an en#, but a paychec! is not orth losin" your core i#entity o(er+
here oul# e be no i% #ison #eci#e# to "i(e up an# not create the %irst incan#escent li"ht
here oul# our technolo"y be in 2013 i% Ste(e obs ha#n$t %oun#e# *pple -% you$re rea#in" this
ri"ht no on a ?acBoo! Pro in a ell8lit room, then you "et the point+
Don$t "i(e up on your passion %or a &smarter) path+ 6hat &smart) career mi"ht en# up buyin" you
e(ery material possession your heart #esires, but it on$t buy you happiness+ 'our time is (aluable
an#it #eser(es to be spent isely+
-% you ha(e to #i" that bachelor$s #e"ree out o% your closet to remin# you hat your #reams ere
%reshman year, #i" it out+ -% it means rumma"in" in your basement or attic to %in# those action
heroes or comic boo!s you a#mire# as a chil#, #o it+
Find that micro!hone, that ca!e, that (ournal or that !aint$rush" )a#e an eort to
rediscover what you used to love and what used to matter to you" 6hat$s the only real ay %or
you to unco(er your core (alues an# belie%s+
Because it$s ne(er too late "et o%% the success pen#ulum+ 'ou ha(e the ultimate poer to #eci#e
hen to start li(in" your li%e+ 'our boss, partner or %rien# can$t #eci#e that %or you+ Only you can+
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Be bra(e+ Be coura"eous+ Be passionate+ Because that$s your true %orm o% success+
Diane Pauley is a life coach who uses her passion for the written word to help young postgrads
find their life calling at PostGradolescence. You can also follow her optimistic tweets on Twitter.
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*+* Im!ortant Lie Princi!les 'o Live By very aybyCeleson?ay 21, 2012 Share6his mail 6his Post
Do you ha(e a personal manualith a list o% li%e principles to li(e by
-n to#ay$s article, -$# li!e to share the 101 important li%e principles to li(e by e(ery #ay+ ?any o% the
principles liste# are lessons hich - learne# at one point or another+ 6his list complements the other
101 sister lists e ha(e at P to #ate, such as 101 ays 6o Ei(e Ei%e 6o ullest, 101 ays 6o Be a
Better Personan# 101 -mportant Fuestions 6o *s! 'oursel% in Ei%e+ -n a ay, this li%e principles list is
a repurposin" o% the principles con(eye# in the other lists as a#a"es to %ollo e(ery #ay+
Don$t #iminish this list /ust because there are 101 points, because e(ery sin"le one o% them is
important+ - recommen# you to boo!mar! this list, rea# 283 principles each ee!, #i"est them, thenreturn the net ee! to pic! out another 283 principles to pon#er o(er+
.eep #oin" that until you are #one ith the 101 li%e principles, a%ter hich you ill probably see ne
meanin" behin# the principles you ha(e rea# be%ore+ 6hat$s because these li%e principles are
timeless lessons ith bottomless #epths+ - continually %in# ne layers o% meanin" behin# each
principle no matter ho many times - ac!nole#"e it+
- no present to you the 101 li%e principles
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1+ .$ility is more o% a %unction o% the time you spen# honin" your cra%t, rather than a result o%
hat you ere born ith+ Gea# 10,000 Hours 6o De(elop 6alent
2+ .$undance e li(e in a orl# o% abun#ance+ 6here are unlimite# ealth an# unlimite#
opportunities %or e(eryone+ So #on$t orry about hether you can succee# in somethin" an#
%ocus on ho to succee# in it+
3+ .ction is a necessary part o% success+
4+ /.nd0, not /1r0 -t$s not about choosin" Option * or Option B+ -t$s about Option C I an
option you create hich has e(erythin" you ant, an# more+
5+ .nger: is the most (olatile %orm o% emotion you can e(er bur#en yoursel% ith+ (ery bit o%
an"er you hol# on to #ama"es your soul+ hene(er you %eel an"ry, remember that theperson you are hurtin" is yoursel%+
J+ .nnoyances (erythin" that annoys you mirrors somethin" insi#e you+ Gather than loo!
outar# %or the solution, loo! insi#e to un#erstan# here that annoyance is comin" %rom+
Gea# Day 22 ?irror an *nnoyance, Be a Better ?e in 30 Days Pro"ram
7+ .ttachment only causes an"uish in the lon" run because nothin" is permanent in this
orl#+ Don$t mourn o(er the loss o% somethin"+ Be happy that it happene# instea#+ Principle
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K10 o% 10 Sure%ire ays 6o Be nhappy in Ei%e
L+ .wareness is the %irst step to the resolution o% any problem+
A+ Beauty Physical beauty is "reat but it #oesn$t last+ -nner beauty, on the other han#, stan#s
the test o% time+ 6his #oesn$t mean e shoul#n$t impro(e our physical beauty I e shoul#
%ocus on bein" beauti%ul, both on the insi#e an# out+
10+ Beauty, 23 6here is no one stan#ar# o% beauty+ Beauty comes in all shapes, all siMes, all
%orms, all colors+ 'ou are beauti%ul as you are+ Stop tryin" to con%orm to the ima"e o% beauty
constructe# by the society an# embrace the beauty that is you+
11+ Being yoursel -t is better to be a %irst rate (ersion o% yoursel% than a secon# rate (ersion o%
someone else+ 9u#y arlan#:12+ Belies 'our belie%s a%%ect your li%e more than you thin! they #o+ -% you ant to ha(e the best
li%e eperience you can e(er ha(e, sitch out your #isempoerin" belie%s ith empoerin"
ones+
13+ Belies, 23 Hal% the thin"s you say are usually more to #o ith your internal belie%s an#
issues than to #o ith other people+
14+ Blame: hene(er you point a %in"er at someone else, there are 4 other %in"ers pointin" bac!
at you+
15+ Business -n business, bein" the co" in the system also means you are the clo" in the
system+ Eearn to ha(e your business run ithout you, be it (ia automatin"or outsourcin"+
(en i% you still ant to or! on your business a%ter that, that$s %ine I it$s important that you
or! on the business an# not in the business+ Gea#?illion Dollar 6ip K4 Scale p 'our
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or!
1J+ 4hange ust because you ha(e realiMe# somethin" #oesn$t mean the orl# aroun# you ill
chan"e ri"ht aay+ -t ta!es time %or your thou"hts to ripple out an# e%%ect the reality because
the physical orl# is #enser than the spiritual one+ So #on$t be hun" up ith hat$s on the
outsi#e but stay true to hat$s insi#e you+ Be %ocuse#+ 9Ge%er to K33 ocus:
17+ 4hange that lasts -t$s better to create sustainable chan"e than chan"e that is uic! but
#oes not last+ Stop "oin" %or the easy ay out+ Eearn ho to create lastin" chan"e instea#+
1L+ 4hanging !eo!le 'ou can$t chan"e other people+ 'ou can only chan"e yoursel%+
1A+ 4om!aring 6here is no nee# to compare because e(eryone is #i%%erent+ 'our "oal is not to
be li!e others but to be yoursel%+ Stop comparin" ith others an# %ocus on bein" yoursel%instea#+ 9See K11:
20+ 4om!etition 6he only competition you ha(e is yoursel%+
21+ 4onditional things Somethin" that is con#itional can ne(er stan# the test o% time+ or
eample, i% your partner ants to be ith you only i% you #o N, ' an# , hereby N, ' an#
are not thin"s that you belie(e in+ Or say, i% a parent ill only lo(e his chil# i% he aces his
eams+ 6hese are relationships roote# in %ear an# not hat you ant to be a part o%+
22+ 4onidence is a uality that comes %rom !noin" onesel%+ -t can$t be manu%acture#
re"ar#less o% ho many material ob/ects you on or hat statuses you ha(e+ Gea# Ho 6o
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Be 6he ?ost Con%i#ent Person -n 6he orl#
23+ 4riticism helps you to become better+ Gather than re/ect it, celebrate it+ Gea#Ho 6o i(e
Constructi(e Criticism J Help%ul Su""estions
24+ 4riticism, 23 Gecei(in" criticism means hat you are #oin" is orthhile enou"h %or
people to critiue on+ One ill not criticiMe unless heshe %eels heshe has a sta!e in it+ 6he
more criticism you "et, the better, because that means you are #oin" somethin" o% real (alue
an# orth+
25+ 4ynics, S#e!tics, and Pessimists are not orth ar"uin" ith+ 6hey are ne"ati(e time
bombs aitin" to "o o%%+ 'ou ill only en# up 9more: bitter, #ama"e#, an# upset at the en# o%
the echan"e+ Gea# Ho 6o Deal ith ner"y
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31+ Fear is a #isempoerin" emotion to li(e ith+ 'our real sel% is not %ille# ith %ear+ Discar# it
an# you ill be set %ree+ Gea# Ho 6o O(ercome ear938part series:
32+ Fear, 23 Qo matter ho much %ear you ha(e, your %ear can be conuere# ith lo(e+ 9By
lo(e, -$m re%errin" to uni(ersal lo(e, not speci%ically romantic lo(e+:
33+ Focus is hat happens hen you stop lettin" yoursel% "et #istracte# by the unimportant
thin"s+
34+ Force 'ou can$t %orce thin"s to happen i% they are not meant to be+ 6here is a time an#
place %or e(erythin"+ 'ou can only #o hat you can an# let the uni(erse ta!e care o% the rest+
35+ Forgiveness isn$t about %or"i(in" other people+ -t$s really about %or"i(in" yoursel%+ 6o
uote Eeis Sme#es, &6o %or"i(e is to set a prisoner %ree an# #isco(er that the prisoner asyou+) Gea# Day 25 or"i(e 'oursel%,Be a Better ?e in 30 Days Pro"ram
3J+ Friendshi!s * %rien#ship is a bon# beteen to li!e8min#e# souls+ -% there are %rien#s you
no lon"er %eel an a%%inity %or, perhaps it$s time to let the %rien#ships "o an# or! on buil#in"
ne %rien#ships+ Gea# hy - Parte# ays ith ?y Best rien# o% 10 'earsan#Ho 6o
Ha(e ?ore Best rien#s in Ei%e 6he Heart%elt ui#e
37+ Frustration ma!es you %eel ba# an# #oesn$t help you sol(e your problem+ Gelease the
%rustration in you an# or! on the issues instea#+ Gea#13 Helpin" Points hen 6hin"s
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Don$t o 'our ay
3L+ Fulillment 'ou create a more %ul%illin" li%e by "i(in" attention to the "oo# thin"s, not the ba#
thin"s@ by celebratin" the "oo# stu%%, not hinin" about the ba# stu%%@ by or!in" on thin"s
that you lo(e, not #oin" the thin"s that you hate+
3A+ Future 'ou can$t control the %uture, but you can a%%ect the present moment+ -% you ant to
ha(e a better %uture, create it+ 9Chec! out inspirational uotes on theuture+:
40+ 5enerosity Bein" "enerous #oesn$t #epri(e you+ hen you are "enerous to others, you
subseuently recei(e more into your li%e+ Gea#*re 'ou motionally enerous
41+ 5iving and 6eceiving Gather than thin! about hat you can recei(e 9hether %rom people
or %rom the uni(erse:, thin! about hat you can "i(e to others+42+ 5rowth *lays challen"e yoursel% to reach "reater hei"hts+ 6here is alays room to be
better, re"ar#less o% ho you are or hat you ha(e #one+ Be attache# to the notion o%
"roth, not an en# state+
43+ %a$its 'our habits ma!e you ho you are+ cellent habits "i(e you an ecellent li%e+
Gea# Culti(ate Ei%e 6rans%ormin" Habits in 21 Days
44+ %a!!iness is the result o% #oin" hat brin"s you /oy+ -t is not a "oal to be achie(e#+ Gather
than %ocus on bein" happy 9%or the sa!e o% bein" happy:, #o hat ma!es you happy instea#+
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Gea# Ho 6o Be Happy 10 6imeless Principles %or Eastin" Happiness
45+ %aste Sometimes, more haste lea#s to less spee#+ Bein" in a hurry can lea# to more
mista!es compare# to i% you ere not+
4J+ %umility ill earn you more respect, ac!nole#"ment an# reco"nition than arro"ance e(er
ill+ 6here$s no nee# to be a sho o%%+ -% you are really "oo# at hat you #o, it ill
automatically sho throu"h your accomplishments+
47+ Ideals are "oo# but #on$t let them stop you %rom li(in" in the present+ 6hey are meant to
inspire you an# "i(e you a #irection to mo(e toar# so that you can maimiMe your present
moment 9not to ta!e you aay %rom li(in" in it:+
4L+ Im!roving: -% you thin! you can$t impro(e any %urther in somethin", then you are /ust notaare o% your areas %or impro(ement+
4A+ Individuality (eryone is #i%%erent+ *ccept that each an# e(ery person is uniue+ Stop
imposin" epectations on people+
50+ Ins!iration comes %rom bein" in the state o% %lo+ -% you$re not %eelin" inspire#, you$re not in
a state o% %lo+
51+ Intuition hen in #oubt, %ollo your intuition+ -t ill "ui#e you to here you nee# to be+
52+ Intuition and Logic Contrary to popular belie%, intuition an# lo"ic are not at o##s ith each
other I they "o han#8in8han#+ Hone your analytical min# throu"h constant thin!in"+ Culti(ate
your intuition by listenin" to your "ut+ 6hey ill be the bi""est tools you ha(e at your
#isposal+
53+ 7ealousy is hat happens hen you resent someone$s success+ But you #on$t ha(e to,
because you are capable o% achie(in" that same le(el o% success, an# more+
54+ 7udgement u#"in" people #oesn$t ma!e you a better person+ -t only ma!es you an u"ly
one+
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55+ Laughter Perhaps a little cliche, but lau"hter is one o% the best me#icines %or the soul+
hen$s the last time you ha# a "oo# lau"h -% you ha(en$t been lau"hin"smilin""rinnin" %or
a hile, maybe you ha(e been too sti%le# in your li%e+ o #o somethin" that ma!es you
loosen up an# lau"h out lou#+
5J+ Let go Sometimes you ha(e to let "o o% hat you ha(e no in or#er to mo(e %orar#+ Gea#Day 2L Eet o,Ei(e a Better Ei%e in 30 Days Pro"ram
57+ Let go, 23 -% there is somethin" you can$t let "o o%, #i" #eeper+ 6here is probably somethin"
in you aitin" to be unco(ere#+ Gea#*s! Celes I -s -t Possible 6o Eet o o% nhappy Past
ore(eran#Ho 6o ?o(e On rom a Gelationship958part series:
5L+ Lie is an eperience that you acti(ely create, not somethin" you ait aroun# to &happen)+
5A+ Limits 6he only limit in li%e is yoursel%+ Qo one$s stoppin" you %rom becomin" better an#
achie(in" more ecept yoursel%+ 6o reach "reater hei"hts, i#enti%y your limits an# remo(e
them accor#in"ly+
J0+ Love isn$t somethin" you #eliberately see! out+ -t$s somethin" that happens hen you %ollo
your li%e path, become the ri"ht person, an# meet that ri"ht person alon" your li%e$s /ourney+
J1+ Low consciousness !eo!le -% you #o not ant to be a%%ecte# by people o% lo
consciousness, simply raise your consciousness to a le(el here you are sa%e %rom them+
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Gea# ?ap o% Consciousness
J2+ Low consciousness !eo!le, 23 Eo consciousness people hol# you bac! %rom reachin"
"reater hei"hts+ 6hese inclu#e ener"y (ampires, critical people, #ishonest characters, an#
people ith temperament issues+ Eet them "o %rom your li%e an# sen# them lo(e as you #o
that+
J3+ )aterial o$(ects are /ust tools to help you en/oy your li%e+ 'ou #o not carry them ith you
hen you #ie+ So, #on$t in(est yoursel% in them+ Gather, in(est yoursel% in the #e(elopment o%
your consciousness+ Gea# ?aterialism Bree#s nhappiness
J4+ )eaning o lie is up to you to create+ 'ou can either treat li%e li!e it has no meanin" or see
it as this amaMin" opportunity that the uni(erse has blesse# you ith+ Gea# Disco(er 'our
Purpose in the Qet 30 ?inutes
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J5+ )ista#es are there to help you learn more about yoursel%+ Don$t be hun" up about the
mista!es you ma!e+ Don$t be a%rai# o% ma!in" 9more: mista!es either+ Be hun"ry about the
lessons they embo#y+
JJ+ )oney is a symbol o% (alue echan"e beteen people+ 6he amount o% money you earn is
simply a representation o% the (alue you are "i(in" to others+ 6o earn more money, simplycreate more (alue %or others+
J7+ )otivation comes naturally hen you #o hat you lo(e+
JL+ 8asty !eo!le 6here is alays somethin" "oo# in e(eryone I e(en in the nastiest o% people+
-t$s up to you to reco"niMe that+
JA+ 8asty !eo!le, 23 6he nastiest o% people are also the unhappiest o% people+ Be !in# to them
because they are the ones ho nee# your lo(e the most+
70+ 1$stacles 6he obstacles that lie beteen you an# your "oals are not there to stop you %rom
reachin" your "oals+ 6hey are there to stop the people ho #on$t ant them enou"h+
9Ori"inal uote by Gan#y Pausch+ atch his commencement speech at Carne"ie ?ellon 10
Poer%ul an# -nspirin" ra#uation Speeches 'ou Don$t ant 6o ?iss9K3 on the list::
71+ 1!!ortunities #on$t come !noc!in" on your #oor /ust by (irtue o% you #oin" nothin"+ 'ou
can either passi(ely ait %or opportunities to %all onto your lap or acti(ely create them
yoursel%+
72+ Passion -% you aren$t %olloin" your passion, you ha(e nothin" to lose+ Seriously+ -% you
ha(e to or! %or at least 23s o% your li%e, you mi"ht as ell base it o%% your passion+ Stop
lettin" yoursel% be hun" up by %ear an# start pursuin" your #reams+ Gea# Ho 6o O(ercome
ear O% Eoss *n# Pursue 'our Dreamsan# Passion or ?oney
73+ Past: 'ou can$t chan"e the past@ it has happene# an# it is hat it is+ iatin" on it isn$t "oin"
to "et you anyhere+ 'ou can only chan"e the present to create a better %uture+
74+ Peo!le you disli#e 'our li%e is limite#, so spen# it aroun# people you li!e+
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75+ Pleasing other !eo!le hen you li(e a li%e tryin" to please others, you en# up not li(in" a
li%e at all+ 'ou are /ust li(in" others$ li(es un#er the %aca#e o% your li%e+
7J+ Positivity -% you ant to ha(e more positi(ity in your li%e, start by bein" more positi(e
yoursel%+ Spot the sil(er linin" behin# e(ery #ar! clou#+ Geco"niMe the stren"ths o% the
people you are ith+ See the "oo# si#e o% e(erythin" you ha(e+77+ Possi$ilities e li(e in a orl# o% possibilities+ *nythin" you ha(e e(er #reame# o%,
ima"ine#, or ishe# %or, is possible, as lon" as you set your heart an# soul to it+
7L+ Power 'ou ha(e all the poer in you to #o e(erythin" you e(er ant, an# more+ So start
#oin" hat you ant an# let the poer in you emer"e+
7A+ Procrastination is a si"n o% a bi""er issue+ Stop tryin" to %i your procrastination as a
problem an# start thin!in" about hy you are procrastinatin" in the %irst place+ Gea# Ho 6o
O(ercome Procrastination958part series:
L0+ Progress Celebrate ho %ar you$(e come, an# not ho much you ha(e yet to achie(e+ 6he
%ormer ill empoer you to "reatness, hile the latter is roote# in %ear an# only ser(es to
hol# you bac! %rom "reatness+
L1+ Priorities .no hat matters to you an# or! on them+ 6hese are the thin"s that ill brin"
you the "reatest happiness in li%e+ Gea# Put irst 6hin"s irst
L2+ Lead $y e9am!le -% you ant to initiate chan"e, lea# by eample+ or#s can only #o so
much+ * li(in" eample shos e(erythin"+
L3+ 6eality ust li!e ho the !in# o% %ruit a tree bears is a result o% the see# it is son %rom, your
eternal reality is merely a re%lection o% your internal belie%s+ Chan"e your belie%s an# your
reality ill %ollo suit+ 9See K12:
L4+ 6egret is hat happens hen you are stuc! ith the impression that you #i# 9or #i#n$t #o:
somethin" you ish you #i#n$t 9or #i#:+ But you can$t chan"e the past@ no one can+ ?il! that
is spiltcan$t be unspilt+Stop li(in" in the past an# start li(in" in the present+
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%&ore
inspirational 'uotes atPersonal ()cellence *uotes+
L5+ 6elationshi!s * relationship is a bon# beteen to #ynamic in#i(i#uals+ -t shoul# be
acti(ely create# beteen the parties in(ol(e#, an# not somethin" you base o%% o% norms an#
other relationships+ Don$t impose epectations on your relationships@ nurture them an# let
them come into their on+ Gea# Ho 6o -mpro(e 'our Gelationship ith 'our
Parents9series:
LJ+ 6esistance 6he more you resist somethin", the more it ill persist+
L7+ 6es!ect (eryone, no matter ho, #eser(es respect+ -% you ant others to respect you, it$s
important you respect them %irst+
LL+ 6es!onsi$ility Qobo#y is responsible %or your li%e+ 'ou are+ -% you #on$t ta!e responsibility%or your li%e, no one ill+ 6he #ay you stop pushin" blame onto others is the #ay your li%e is
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"oin" to turn aroun#+ Gea# 'ou are the CO o% 'our Ei%e
LA+ 6esults 6he results you "et in li%e are a %unction o% the actions you ta!e+ 6he more actions
you ta!e, the more results you ill see+
A0+ 6oot cause Behin# e(ery occurrence is a root cause+ Di" %or the root cause an# a##ress
that+ Gea# Create Geal Chan"e -n Ei%e *##ress Goot Cause (s+ %%ects
A1+ See#ing love -% you are #esperately see!in" lo(e, perhaps there$s somethin" insi#e you
that$s bloc!in" you %rom seein" it+ Because lo(e is e(eryhere, aroun# you, an# in you+
6here$s no nee# to see! lo(e so much as you /ust nee# to be aare o% its presence + 'ou are
the pro#uct o% lo(e+ 'ou are the bi""est source o% lo(e+ 'ou li(e in a orl# o% lo(e+ Gea# L
6ips on *ttractin" *uthentic Eo(e -nto 'our Ei%e
A2+ Settling Settlin" is %or losers+ Don$t e(er, e(er, settle %or somethin" less than your i#eal+
'our i#eal is yours to ha(e+ i"ht %or it+
A3+ S!ite hen you try to spite other people, you are really /ust hurtin" yoursel%+ 6he people
you are tryin" to spite may not care+ -n %act, they may not e(en !no ho hun" up you are
o(er them+ *ll you are #oin" is /ust actin" out a sel%8create# story an# script in your min#+
A4+ Success Success is the result o% bein" "reat at hat you #o+ Bein" "reat at hat you #o is
the result o% har# or!+ Har# or! is the result o% #etermination, persistence, an# relentless%ocus+
A5+ Success, 23 6here is no such thin" as an o(erni"ht success+ (ery success you see, e(en
i% it seemin"ly uic!, is the result o% lon" perio#s o% har# or! that too! place lon" be%ore the
point o% success+
AJ+ 'ime is a construct create# by man so e can ha(e structure in our li(es+ 'ou become a
sla(e to time hen you alays thin! in terms o% the time you ha(e an# hat you shoul# #o
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rather than o% results an# outputs+ Gather than try to mana"e time, or! on sel%8mana"ement
an# acti(ity mana"ement+ Gea#Become the ?aster o% 'our 6ime
A7+ 'ruth -t is alays better to tell the truth because you stay clean that ay+ hen you tell a lie,
you li(e a lie %ore(er+ Qot only that, you almost alays ha(e to co(er it up ith ne lies+ -t is a
cycle that ne(er en#s+
AL+ nha!!iness 100R o% the unhappiness you eperience in your li%e is a pro#uct o% your
thou"hts+ -% you ant to be happy, then ma!e aconscious choiceto be happy+ 9See K44:
Gea# Ho 6o Be nhappy 10 Sure%ire ays 6o Be nhappy in Ei%e
AA+ ;engeance is an act o% %orce%ear that #oesn$t sol(e the problem+ Eoo! at the history o%
man!in# an# the ars that ere a"e#+ o ith the path o% lo(e, not %ear(en"eance%orce+100+ Whats meant to $e -% somethin" is meant to be, it ill happen 9pro(i#e# you #o
your part in ma!in" it happen:+ 6he more ti"htly you try to "rab on to somethin", the more it
ill slip aay+ -t$s /ust li!e tryin" to "rab san# I it slips throu"h the crac!s o% your %in"ers
re"ar#less ho ti"htly you "rab it+
101+ Yoursel Don$t #o thin"s %or others@ #o them %or yoursel%+
Ho about you Do you ha(e any li%e principles to share ith the rea#ers eel %ree to #o that in
thecomments section+
6his is a timeless "ui#e, so be sure to boo!mar! it+ Share this ith your %rien#s an# %amily (ia the
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-% you li!e this post, you$ll lo(e the other posts in the 101 series
1+ 101 6hin"s 6o Do Be%ore 'ou Die
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5+ 101 ays 6o Be a Better Person
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Somehere alon" the ay, - became a bi" %an o% introspection, en/oyin" the process o% sel%8
re%lectin" an# thin!in" o(er uestions+
6o#ay, - belie(e uestions are a !ey to sel%8aareness an# personal "roth+ -n my 181 coachin"
sessions, - enable my clients to #isco(er the ansers to their "oalsuestions by as!in" them the
ri"ht uestions+ -t$# be easy i% - /ust tell my coachees hat they &shoul#) #o an# hat they &shoul#not) #o+ But that$s not the point+ -t$s about empoerin" my clients to #isco(er themsel(es throu"h
as!in" the ri"ht "ui#in" uestions, catere# to their situation an# their pro%iles+ 6he ri"ht uestions ill
help them untan"le the bloc!a"es in them an# connect ith their inner sel%+
-t #oesn$t matter i% you "et stumpe# in the be"innin", or i% you #on$t !no the ansers to the
uestions at %irst+ Our min#s are boun#less+ ust because you #on$t "et an anser imme#iately, it
#oesn$t mean there are no ansers+ 6he ansers are there I it$s /ust that your min# is too %o""y
since you$(e not consulte# it be%ore+ 6he more you as!, the clearer your min# ill be, an# the more
rea#y you$ll be to recei(e the ansers+
-$(e come up ith a set o% important uestions %or your sel%8re%lection+ Some are uestions hich -
as! my 181 clients, to unco(er the real them+ 6hese uestions ill help you %ocus on hat$s important
to you, an# hat you ant+ 6hey are not meant to be ansere# all at one shot I they are to be
thou"ht o(er a"ain an# a"ain, as part o% your "roth /ourney+ Pic! out a %e uestions to re%lect on
to#ay, then boo!mar! an# chec! bac! a ee! later to thin! o(er the others+ Chec! bac! re"ularly to
re%lect on the uestions+
Gemember, there is no one %inal anser+ -t$s a continuous #isco(ery process+ 'our ansers to the
uestions to#ay ill be #i%%erent %rom your ansers one month, three months, si months, an# one
year #on the roa#+ *## these important uestions to your ee!ly re(ie sessions+ 6his is a hi"hly
important article %or your "roth /ourney+
Here they are
1+ ho are you
2+ hat are you passionate about
3+ hat are the achie(ements you are most prou# o%
4+ hat are you most "rate%ul %or in li%e 9Day 14 o% Ei(e a Better Ei%e in 30 Days Pro"ramis
about epressin" "ratitu#e+:
5+ hat are the most important thin"s to you in li%e
J+ Ho oul# you #escribe yoursel%
7+ hat are your (alues hat #o you represent hat #o you ant to embo#y 9On Day 15
o% Ei(e a Better Ei%e in 30 Days Pro"ram,you ill i#enti%y your (alues+:
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1mage 2
L+ Do you lo(e yoursel%
A+ hy or hy not
10+ Ho can you lo(e yoursel% more to#ay
11+ hat is your i#eal sel% hat #oes it mean to be your hi"hest sel%
12+ Eoo! at your li%e no+ *re you li(in" the li%e o% your #reams
13+ -% you ha(e one year le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o
14+ -% you ha(e one month le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o
15+ -% you ha(e one ee! le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o
1J+ -% you ha(e one #ay le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o
17+ -% you ha(e an hour le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o1L+ -% you ha(e one minute le%t to li(e, hat oul# you #o
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1A+ hat oul# you #o to#ay i% there is no more tomorro
20+ hat are the bi""est thin"s you$(e learne# in li%e to #ate
21+ hat a#(ice oul# you "i(e to yoursel% 3 years a"o
22+ -% you are yoursel% 1 year %rom the %uture, ho oul# you a#(ise the you no 9On Day 22
o% Ei(e a Better Ei%e in 30 Days Pro"ram,e tra(el to the %uture to "i(e a#(ice to the us
to#ay+:
23+ -s there somethin" you$re still hol#in" on to -s it time to let it "o
24+ hat are you busy ith to#ay ill this matter 1 year %rom no 3 years 5 years
25+ hat are your Fua#rant 2tas!s
2J+ hat opportunities are you loo!in" %or27+ Ho can you create these opportunities
2L+ hat are your bi""est "oals an# #reams
2A+ hat$s stoppin" you %rom pursuin" them hy Ho can you o(ercome them
30+ -% you are to #o somethin" %or %ree %or the rest o% your li%e, hat oul# you ant to #o
31+ hat oul# you #o i% you cannot %ail@ i% there are no limitations in money, resources, time or
netor!s
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32+ hat #o you ant to achie(e 1 year %rom no
33+ 3 years
34+ 5 years
35+ 10 years
3J+ Ho important are these "oals to you
37+ hat i% these "oals are #ouble# 6riple# ?a"ni%ie# by 10 Ho oul# you %eel oul# you
pre%er to achie(e these or your pre(ious "oals
3L+ ho are the people ho ha(e achie(e# similar "oals hat can you learn %rom them
3A+ *re you puttin" any parts o% your li%e on hol# hy
40+ hat$s the top priority in your li%eri"ht no41+ hat are you #oin" about it
42+ -% you ere to #ie tomorro, hat oul# be your bi""est re"ret hat can you #o no to
ma!e sure that #oesn$t happen
43+ or e(ery eperience you "et hat are the bi""est thin"s you ha(e learne#
44+ Ho can you #o this better the net time
45+ -% you ha# 1 million #ollars, hat oul# you #o ith it
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4J+ Do you lo(e your /ob
47+ hat is your i#eal career
4L+ Ho can you start creatin" your i#eal career startin" to#ay
4A+ hat is your i#eal #iet
50+ hat #o you nee# to #o to achie(e your i#eal #iet
51+ hat is your i#eal home li!e
52+ hat #o you nee# to #o to achie(e your i#eal home
53+ hat is your i#eal physical loo!
54+ hat #o you nee# to #o to achie(e your i#eal physical loo!
55+ hat is your i#eal li%e5J+ hat can you #o to start li(in" your i#eal li%e
57+ hat oul# you ant tosay to yoursel% 1 year in the %uture
5L+ 3 years
5A+ 5 years
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J0+ 10 years
J1+ hat #o you %earmost in li%e
J2+ -s there anythin" you arerunnin" aay %rom
J3+ *re you settlin" %or less than hat you are orth hy
J4+ hat is your inner #ialo"ue li!e 9Day 2J o% Be a Better ?e in 30 Days Pro"ramis about
unco(erin" your limitin" thou"hts+:
J5+ hat limitin" belie%s are you hol#in" on to
JJ+ *re they helpin" you achie(e your "oals
J7+ -% not, is it time to let them "o
JL+ hat empoerin" belie%s can you ta!e on to help you achie(e your "oalsJA+ hat ba# habits #o you ant to brea!
70+ hat"oo# habits#o you ant to culti(ate
71+ hat are the bi""est actions you can ta!e no to create the bi""est results in your li%e
72+ here are you li(in" ri"ht no I the past, %uture or present
73+ *re you li(in" your li%e to the %ullest ri"ht no
74+ hat is the meanin" o% li%e
75+ hat is your purpose in li%e hy #o you eist hat is your mission
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7J+ Ho can you ma!e your li%e more meanin"%ul, startin" to#ay
77+ hat #ri(es you
7L+ hat are the times you are most inspire#, most moti(ate#, most char"e# up
7A+ hat #i# you #o #urin" those times Ho can you #o more o% that startin" to#ay
L0+ Ho can you chan"e someone$s li%e %or the better to#ay
L1+ ho are the 5 people you spen# the most time ith
L2+ *re these people enablin" you or hol#in" you bac!1mage 2
L3+ hat ualities #o you ant to embo#y 9Ge%er to F7
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LJ+ hat is your i#eal li%e partner li!e
L7+ here can you %in# himher
LL+ Ho can you "et to !no himher
LA+ *re you a%rai#o% lettin" others "et close to you
A0+ hy 1mage 2
A1+ ho isare the most important person9s: to you in the orl#
A2+ *re you "i(in" them the attention you ant to "i(e
A3+ Ho can you spen# more time ith them startin" to#ay
A4+ hat !in# o% person #o you en/oy spen#in" time ith
A5+ Ho can you be this person to othersAJ+ ho #o you ant to be li!e in 1 year
A7+ 3 years
AL+ 5 years
AA+ 10 years
100+ ho are your mentors in li%e 9%ormal or in%ormal:
101+ hat is one thin" you$re "oin" to #o #i%%erently a%ter rea#in" this article
et the mani%esto (ersion o% this article6he Sel%8Ge%lection ?ani%esto
1ther .rticles in the *+* Series
-% you li!e this post, you$ll lo(e the other posts in the 101 series
1+ 101 6hin"s 6o Do Be%ore 'ou Die
2+ 101 ?ost -nspirin" Fuotes o% *ll 6ime
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%aceboo! share it ith others 9(ia buttons at the bottom o% the post:+ 6han!s, - really appreciate this;
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2004 or the &Ea School) thin" - as #oin" the summer a%ter+ 9maybe - atche# Legally Blondetoo
many times@ - #on$t ant to tal! about it+: Gi"ht no, it$s either upcyclin" or %urniture buil#in"@ -
ha(en$t or!e# it out yet+
-n beteen, there$s alays a %e other, lon"er ones li!e the &apanese 6oy Collectin") that$s been
on"oin" until my sisters came o(er to my house, ent into my bathroom 9that$s here my collectionas: an# %orcibly ma#e me mo(e them into a closet+
6hese coul# be classi%ie# as phases+ Or obsessions i% you ant to use the less politically correct,
but possibly more appropriate, term+ *nyay, the thin" that all o% these &phases) ha(e in common
is that they are hobbies, an# it has ta!en me years to %i"ure out the #i%%erence beteen a hobby
an# my &true callin"s+)
Ha(e you e(er rea# the stories in nespapers an# ma"aMines here a oman ho or!s in an
accountin" o%%ice su##enly uits to open a lobster %arm in ?aine Or some (ersion o% it 6hat$s the
type o% story that ma!es me start thin!in", &'eah, - shoul# be a %ull8time upcycler+) Here are some
ays to help you tell your hobbies %rom your passion+
*" .s# yoursel honestly: o I disli#e my current (o$&
6his one is important, because i% the anser is yes, then all you nee# is a career chan"e+ -t$s
entirely possible that you can %in# a hobby that you li!e hile you #isli!e your /ob an# con(ince
yoursel% that your hobby shoul# be your ne /ob+
3" 4ould you get sic# o your ho$$y and still do it&
6his one is important, too, because e(ery sin"le career "ets annoyin" or borin" at some point+
(en the lobster la#y has to #eal ith cleanin" lobster tan!s e(ery once in a hile, an# that can$t
be a %un tas!+ -% you can$t see yoursel% eatherin" the realistic #onsi#es on a re"ular basis, then
!eep it as a hobby+
=" Is it something you do to rela9&
.eep in min# that the minute you #eci#e that your passion can be your career, you$ll ha(e to %in#
somethin" else to #o to rela+ People ho on their #ream cupca!e shop #on$t "o home an# ma!e
cupca!es %or %un+
>" What is it you li#e a$out your ho$$y&
in#in" the common #enominator can help you #etermine i% your hobby coul# be a career+ or
eample, - li!e to ma!e thin"s, an# - ha(e been a #iehar# ma"aMine si%ter since - as (ery youn"+
or!in" in the social me#ia %iel# %its li!e a "lo(e an# spea!s to the core reasons - li!e my hobbies
9luc!y %or me, since there$s no real career path %or &ma"aMine brosers):+
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'he ltimate Secret to iscovering YourPassion
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By Gyan Chatterton
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e all !no those people+ 6he ones ho seem born to #o hat they #o+ 6he ones ho can$t ait
to "et to or! each #ay+ hether they$re musicians, actors or all Street stoc! bro!ers, they
oul#n$t #o anythin" else+ 6his passion enables them to plo throu"h li%e$s #i%%iculties ith ra,unbri#le# enthusiasm+
Ho #i# they lan# in these careers *n# ho can e %ollo in their %ootsteps
Eet$s "et one thin" out o% the ay %irst /Follow your !assion0 is misleading"(en i% it seems li!e
certain people ere #estine# to rite, play "ol% or stu#y the stars, it isn$t because they ere born
ith these interests+
'he cultivation o !assion
Consi#er Cal Qeport$s ar"uments+ Qeport is a computer scientist an# author o% %our boo!s about
passion+ He #oesn$t buy into the &%ollo your passion) mantra+ -n aninter(ie ithoshua iel#s
?illburn, Qeport says, &6here is no special passion aitin" %or you to #isco(er+ Passion is
somethin" that is culti(ate#+)
So let$s eamine an euation -$(e #e(elope# ith this in min#
?curiosity @ engagementA 9 time !assion
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e start by bein" curious+ rom a youn" a"e, e$re #ran toar#s the thin"s that e$re curious
about, an# as e "et ol#er, e$re epecte# to hone in on one that particularly appeals to us+
6his is here most o% us "et stuc!, because e$re a%rai# to pic! somethin" &ron"+) But remember
hat Qeport sai# &6here is no special passion aitin" %or you to #isco(er+) -n other or#s, there
isnt a /wrong0 choice $ecause there isnt a /right0 choice, either+ Pic! an interest an# rollith it+
Once e$(e pic!e# somethin", e acuire !nole#"e about that sub/ect, hich reuires more
curiosity+ e pic! up some boo!s, rea# articles an# atch (i#eos about our interest+ e choose
ma/ors in colle"e that allo us to eplore our interest more #eeply+ 6his "ets us acuainte# ith its
orl#, but e #on$t stop there+
'he im!ortance o the com!any we #ee!
Besi#es acuirin" !nole#"e the tra#itional ay, e also nee# to meet other people en"a"e# in
our interest+ 6his ser(es to purposes+ irst, it$s easier to "ather #etaile# !nole#"e %rom peoplethan %rom static me#ia+ Secon#, social engagement revolving around our interest reinorces
our commitment and uels that interest even urther+
6here$s a reason parents #on$t ant their !i#s han"in" out ith the ba# cro# e become li!e the
people e han" aroun#+ &People$s li(es,) says*nthony Gobbins, a orl#8renone# li%e coach, &are
o%ten a #irect re%lection o% the epectations o% their peer "roup+)
hat Gobbins is sayin" is that e set the bar %or our li(es base# on ho those aroun# us set
theirs+ -% e$(e pic!e# the (iolin as the passion to culti(ate, but e #on$t han" out ith other
musicians, there$s nobo#y to compare oursel(es to or to share our thou"hts an# eperiences ith+
On the other han#, hen e /oin a music scene, e meet people ho become our mentors an#
peers+ 6hey cheer us on an# hol# us accountable+
ngagement, engagement, engagement
But all this curiosity an# social contet oul# be orthless ithout consistent en"a"ement+
6his is here the passion euation really comes to li%e+ n"a"in" ith our interest re"ularly an#
repeate#ly ma!es it more interestin", plain an# simple+ 6he more interestin" it becomes, the more
it e(ol(es into a passion+
/Whatever we ocus on actually wires our neurons,0says .are *n#ersonin a Har"ardBusiness 4e"iew article+ &hate(er you pay attention toUor notUhas a hu"e e%%ect on ho you
see the orl# an# %eel about it+)
Culti(atin" our passions reuires prolon"e# interaction o(er months an# years+Durin" that
"estation perio#, the passion becomes more an# more anchore# in our min#s+ -% e$re in #esi"n,
e be"in to see the interconnecte#ness beteen our art an# the messa"e e$re tryin" to con(ey+ -%
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e$re in accountin", e be"in to internaliMe the relationship beteen the balance sheet an# cash8
%lo statement+
Consistent en"a"ement #ri(es our curiosity an# social en"a"ement as