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    Some people tell me, ‘Oh,

     you wouldn’t want me in

    Heart magazine. There’snothing interesting about me.’

    We get so used to reading

    sensationalist stories that we belittle our

    own valuable life experiences. I don’t

    agree that “Everyone has a book in

    them,” but I do believe everyone has a

    story to tell. Thank you Dave, p1; Liz, p5;

    and Helen, p8 for sharing your very

    personal and inspiring stories with us.

    Some of our many teamsHeart highlights some of our many

    teams. Read about football, netball andeven footgolf on p4 as Danny and Anna

    talk about SportsReach and how you or

    someone you know might like to join

    in the fitness fun. Pages 6–7 are about

    a very different kind of team – a new

    song-writing group called ‘Fulwood Free

    Music.’ The members work hard to

    produce some powerful modern songs

    that we use in church. Page 10 focuses

    on the Inclusion Team, led by James and

    Sarah. Please do read this short

    introduction to their work as they’d value

    your feedback, ideas and opinions.

    We are here for youWe never put commercial

    advertisements into Heart. All our ads

    refer to activities run by Fulwood Free

    Methodist Church (FFMC) for the benefit

    of the whole community, from babies to

    teens to senior citizens. Whoever you are,

    we are here for you. Find fun at the Fun

    Day p12, friendship at the 18-30s group,

    and faith at The Venue p10.

    ServicesAnd finally – we recently began TWO

    identical morning services to make space

    for newcomers. Children can sit with you

    or go to ‘Energize’  (ages 2 – 11). Teens

    have their own service. For deaf users

    of BSL/SSE, the services are signed by

    friendly volunteers. If you wish to be

    prayed for or visited by one of our pasto-

    ral team, please don’t hesitate to ask. For

    information phone or email the church

    office, or call into reception on weekdays.

    Enjoy your summer!

    KatharineEditor (Twitter: @katharine59)

    Y O U R S T O R Y

    I S V A L U A B L E

    I’m an unassuming, quiet

    sort, more often referred to

    as ‘Jason’s dad,’ or ‘Min’s

    husband’ than my own name. 

    I grew up in Nuneaton, the eldest of6 kids. I became Area Manager for

    ‘Candis,’ a national door-to-door

    magazine. This started out as a plain

    sheet of paper

    listing the football

    results - like

    a football pools

    thing, which cost

    20p per fortnight.

    ‘Candis’ eventually became more of a

    glossy magazine. The point of it was to

    raise funds for cancer research and

    during my time with the company weraised over 40 million pounds. My wife,

    Min, and I moved to Preston when I

    was promoted to Regional Manager.

    Here, I managed 143 agents who

    distributed the magazine throughout

    the North West. After 29 years I moved

    on when Min and I bought, then ran, a

    B&B on Blackpool Road.

    As a teenager in Nuneaton, I’d

    attended Sunday School at a local

    church and enjoyed it. However, one

    year in the run-up to Easter, a dragon ofa guy forced us to practice singing so

    much that I got totally fed up. I’m a

    terrible singer at the best of times, so it

    was a pain! I left

    that church,

    never to return!

    In Fulwood,

    Min had been

    going to church

    for about 12 years but she never

    pressurised me to go with her. I’m a

    keen golfer. One day I was invited to

     join a golf event to raise money forKibogora Hospital in Rwanda. It was

    run by members of Fulwood Free

    Methodist Church. I got on really well

    with the other players. After that I went

    to various informal events at the

    church. One day I said to Min, “I’ll come

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    Dave and grandson Timmy

    P h  o t   o :  K  ei   t  h 

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     I’m a terrible singerat the best of times

    Heart Team: Katharine Gardner, Sara Wright,

    Anna Kember, Paul Stanier, Ian Clarkson

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    to a church service with you,” and she was gobsmacked.

    What hit me when I went was that everyone seemed so

    cheerful. I have since discovered that they’ve all got their

    problems, yet are content and joyful. I thought, “This is fine.

    I will have some of this!” Min was happy, as were my son

    Jason and his wife Lorraine who were already involved.

    I could never understandThe one thing I could never understand was that people

    were saying, ‘God came into my life’. I just didn’t get it.

    Nothing like that happened for me. Nothing. Then something

    big did happen.

    Jason and Lorraine were expecting their third baby. The

    first scan showed that the baby had got Foetal Cystic

    Hygroma, growths onthe head and the back.

    The medics said even if

    the baby survived the

    pregnancy there would

    be many complications

    and likely death. They

    seemed to hint that the baby would be better off aborted.

    Everyone was devastated. We all said, “No,” even me.

    “However he arrives, we will love him.” One of my friends

    suggested that there might be a problem with the machine,

    but there wasn’t, because 3 weeks later Lorraine underwent

    a second scan which showed the dangerous growths still

    there.We begged people to pray and they did. People prayed

    in Fulwood, in Sri Lanka where Lorraine’s dad is a pastor,

    and in the USA. Myself? I prayed a hard prayer to God: “Now

    is the time to prove yourself.” Two weeks passed. Time for

    another scan, a further test. This time, the hygroma had

    vanished! We were overjoyed. Timmy was born perfect,

    apart from a mark on the back of his neck where the growth

    had been. I was in no doubt that God answered my prayer - I

    still tell everyone I meet. A few weeks after Timmy’s birth I

    asked to be baptised as a Christian. Since that time, I have

    never doubted God. I totally trust Him. More recently, Jason

    asked me, “Would you still believe in God if Timmy died?” I

    said, “Definitely. I’d thank God for lending him to us.” I know

    now that faith does not depend on any child continuing to

    live, or even to be healthy.

    The noisier the better!I began to help out at the church. I used to drop my

    grandsons at Kickstart, the midweek children’s club, so I

    offered to help run that for a while. Now I am on a rota of

    minibus drivers, offering lifts to and from the 11am Sunday

    service for those needing transport. We respond to requests

    from the town centre, Ashton, Larches or wherever someone

    lives, within reason! [Heart note: If you would like a lift to and

    from the 11am service please phone 01772 861597 and ask

    for details]

    I have changed in many small ways. I used to think, “I’m

    not a bad person so I don’t need to be a Christian,” but,

    nowadays, for example, I’m more aware of thinking of

    others before myself. Forexample; now when a

    shopkeeper gives me too

    much change I’ll admit it

    and give it back. Once,

    Min and I found money on

    some stairs. Instead of

    thinking, “Wow! That will pay for a meal out for us,” we

    tracked down the person who’d lost it. All our small actions

    can make a big difference in the world.

    I love all of my grandchildren. Timmy, now aged 6, is

    particularly lively, but he has a huge grin that seems to keep

    him out of trouble. I’m sure that when his little sister starts at

    Queen’s Drive School the teachers will say, “Not anotherBuckler!”

    I told you before what a terrible singer I am – but

    nowadays I do genuinely enjoy singing the lively songs at

    church. And the noisier the better because I can join in and

    no one worries if I’m out of tune. Even around the house,

    you might catch me humming one of the songs I learnt at

    church!

    ...they’ve all got their

     problems, yet are content 

    and joyful.

    People were saying, “God came

    into my life.” I just didn’t get it.

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    oin us for a two course meal followed by a cuppa

    and a short service where we sing a couple of

    hymns, hear a short Bible message and pray.Tis group is aimed at those who are retired, but all are welcome.

    While Lunch Fellowship is usually the 3rd Wednesday in the month this

    is not always the case so if you want to come, please contact Vicky at the

    church office. She will send you a free programme in the post.

    Join us for homemade soup, a freshwarm roll and a glass of juicefollowed by a homemade cake and

    a cup of freshly brewed coffee or a

    cup of tea.

    We welcome young mums with babes in arms, business

    folk on their lunch break, the retired, and students on study

    days. Please come in. You will be made welcome.

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    It goes without saying that sport is vital for

    health, friendship and fun! Football andnetball are taught in schools where children

    are encouraged to engage in sport for exercise

    and camaraderie.One way to continue playing team sports after school

    is through SportsReach. Two members of Fulwood Free

    Methodist Church, Anna Snalam and Danny Garratt, explain

    what SportsReach has done for them.

    Football and Netball – AnnaAnna Snalam (21) studies Physical Education and School

    Sport at Edge Hill University. Aged 12, she encountered

    SportsReach, an organisation that allows her to combine

    her love for sport with her Christian faith. She is a player,

    manager and umpire in the SportsReach netball league

    and also plays for a women’s football team. Through

    SportsReach, Anna plays, coaches and officiates football

    matches here and abroad, in countries such as Germany

    and Austria. She loves touring, socialising

    with her team mates and

    developing her skills as a football player. Anna says,

    “SportsReach fills a big part of my heart and I hope I cancontinue to be involved for many more years!”

    Footy and FootGolf – Danny Fulwood Free Methodist Church has a men’s football

    team, which is part of the SportsReach network and is

    managed by Danny Garratt (25). Danny is a part-time

    Management Accountant, a GCSE maths tutor and is set

    to become a FootGolf Course Manager. FootGolf is an

    addictive and unconventional sport in which players use

    their feet to get a football into a hole in as few shots as

    possible. Open to everyone, FootGolf requires the skill to

    strategically combine power and precision in every game.

    Danny plays football for a SportsReach team, meaning

    he can both play and manage in a weekly competitive

    football league. It is a fun, friendly atmosphere. Danny

    loves PNE, so he delights to say that his home pitch is

    Moor Park, on the nearest pitch to Deepdale Stadium,

    where his team play others from around Lancashire, before

    enjoying a post-match chip butty!

    Summer Schools for 7 – 16 year oldsAs well as the regular teams that train and play each

    week, SportsReach also run Soccer and Netball Schools for

    7-16 year olds during the summer.

    See www.sportsreach.org.uk

     All Welcome!SportsReach builds friendships through sport withanyone, regardless of age, race, gender or religion. The

    teams are open to anyone aged 16+ for football and 14+ for

    netball. You can train and play each week. If you want to

    know more, please contact Danny or Anna via the church

    office, or phone the SportsReach office: 01524 730 000.

    SPORTS

    RACH Anna and Ruth’s 21st birthday

    football match

    “SportsReach fillsa big part of

    my heart...” 

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    I   A  M  V a l  u a b  l   e Being a teenager isdifficult enough without

    the added complication

    of battling a mental illness.

    By age 15, Liz’s battle with

    anorexia nervosa was already

    out of control.Mental illness is taboo throughout

    society and usually misunderstood.

    People tend to liken depression to

    sadness, anxiety and panic to worry,

    or eating disorders to wanting to

    ‘look good’.

    Wanting more

    Liz’s battle with anorexia

    began when she just wanted to be

    accepted, along with some unkind

    comments from her peers. As she

    began to exercise more regularly

    and diary her food intake, she

    received positive feedback from her

    friends about her new figure. This

    fuelled the desire to pay detailed

    attention to calorie-counting and

    how many minutes spent on gymequipment. As she devoted more

    time and energy on controlling her

    figure, she became sadder, more

    isolated, more nervous and physically

    weaker. The irony of finally achieving

    her ‘ideal’ figure, was that she felt

    more sad and lonely than ever.

    She became

    increasingly alone

    As the anorexia developed,

    comments such as ‘too skinny’ and‘you used to be attractive’ began

    to surface – unhelpful comments to

    anyone, but hearing these comments

    whilst battling this eating disorder

    were crushing for Liz. She became

    increasingly alone. Her personality

    changed; she was volatile, impulsive

    and never satisfied with her relentless

    effort to self-improve.

    Many of us know someone

    suffering with mental illness, which is

    why Liz wants her story to be shared,

    knowing that her struggle might helpsomeone else realise they are not

    alone. Looking back she can see how

    her faith and her church, coupled with

    medical advice, helped her along the

    tough road to recovery.

    Searching formore

    Liz says she started

    searching for God when

    she realised that she was

    out of control. Although

    her anorexia was initially a

    technique to gain control of

    her life, she quickly lost it. She knew

    she needed someone greater than

    herself to steer her recovery. Every

    day, Liz clings to the knowledge that

    God looks deeper than the

    surface and cares about

    her every thought and

    need. Liz summarised her

    present feelings saying:

    “It gives me enormous

    strength to be able to

    declare that, whether

    I look wonderful

    or whether I look

    a horrible mess,

    my opinion on my

    appearance has no

    power to change the value

    of who I am or the potential

    that my life holds.”

    Loving yourself more

    Through counselling, support

    from her family and friends,and her church home-group,

    Liz found the strength to

    discuss her illness. She

    was encouraged by cards

    and messages from her

    friends in

    her home-group

    when other friendshad distanced themselves.

    Now recovered, Liz is 20 years

    old and in her 2nd year studying

    Social Psychology at Loughborough

    University, as well as being involved

    in the Christian Union there.

    Liz’s story of recovery is

    encouraging and uplifting, but the

    stigma attached to mental illnesses

    still exists. When we talk about

    mental illness, we understand it

    better. When we ask victims of these

    illnesses about their experience, wehear that above all they feel very

    isolated.

    “People look at the outward appearance, but

      the LORD looks at  the heart. ”From the Bible, 1 Samuel 16:7 

     Visit your GP, or phone the

    Samaritans 116 123, or

    Cedar House Counselling Centre

    01772 880909.

    LIZ’S INSPIRING STORY OF HER

    BATTLE WITH ANOREXIA

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    – Band member photographs

    by Andrew Astin

     A S (30)   cleans carpets for a living.Andrew describes himself as ‘a moustache-loving, tweed-

    sympathiser with a passion for music!’ He says, “As soon as

    I was big enough to sit behind a drum kit I started playing

    music in church. Since I was 6 years old I’ve played piano,

    drums and guitar. I studied Music Technology at uni then

    spent 4 years working as a professional sound engineer.

    Aged 15, I formed a band called ‘Grand Old Juke’ that got

    me into composing and recording in a big way. My musical

    taste is eclectic, so when I need inspiration for composition,

    I’ll often listen to new sounds such as the Indie/Rock band,

    Mutemath.

    I love drums and keys, guitar and vocals, as well asstudio engineering and production. From the outset ‘FFM’

    agreed to scrutinise

    honestly one another’s

    music and lyrics. We

    edit our own songs then

    work on them with one

    or two of the others, be-

    fore fine-tuning with the

    whole group until final-

    ly a song is introduced

    to the church. Every

    song should take us on

    a journey and evokeemotion – if, by the

    end of a song you’re in

    the same mood as you

    were at the beginning,

    it has achieved nothing!

    Ultimately, I only want

    to produce music that I’m not embarrassed to play to my

    friends.

    It’s vital not to regurgitate old clichés, but to produce

    fresh lyrics that are spiritually authentic, so we base our

    work on words from the Bible, a collection of 66 books that

    includes 150 psalms. Most of these psalms or songs were

    composed by David (of David and Goliath fame!), who cries

    out to God whenever he’s depressed, scared, angry, joyful,

    bereaved, or thankful. Our task is to use David’s words, or

    other Biblical prose, in a contemporary style. I start with the

    music, then ask myself, “How does it feel?” before writing

    the lyrics. The lyrics and music interweave like a ball of

    elastic bands. Having done secular gigs for over a decade

    I’m used to people engaging with my music, but in church

    when people sing ‘our songs’ to God it makes the endless

    hours of creativity worthwhile.”

    P C (44)  is a football-loving father ofthree girls. He grew up in a musical family. His parents were

    members of the Preston Opera Company. Pete says, ‘I’m a

    self-taught drummer, but also play piano and bass guitar. I

    was influenced by the Indie/Rock scene of the late 80s and

    early 90s. As a youth I played in various bands emulating

    our heroes of the day – chasing that elusive record deal!’

      Heart, SoulM

    ost newcomers are surprised by the music at Fulwood

    Free Methodist Church. Three bands take it in turns to

    lead services. One visitor said, “I came back because

    the sound was so uplifting and energising – and I’m in my 60s!”

    Recently the musicians formed a song-writing group called ‘FFM’

    – Fulwood Free Music, where they compose new material. Here,

    4 of the 10 members of the group explain what motivates them:

    “Some music is so original it’s hard to

    listen to and some is so unoriginal it

    might as well not have been written.” – Andrew

    Can be downloaded onTunes, Spotify & Amazon

     Andrew Slack 

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    A few years ago, Pete and his family joined Fulwood FMC

    where he now plays drums in one of the bands.

    Pete says, “Some of us wanted to express our faith

    creatively, so we began to meet to share song-writing ideas,

    review recordings and scrutinise lyrics. Of course, the words

    must make sense and be theologically correct. We don’t

    want to contradict the Bible. I compose the melody then

    fit words to it, because the rhythm and pace of the music

    determine the theme; an upbeat rhythm may suit a song

    of praise, whereas a slower melody goes with reflective,

    prayerful words. From the outset we agreed to approach

    the venture with a sense of humility, inclusiveness and

    encouragement. It is deeply satisfying to create words andmusic that 100s of people connect with. I contributed to a

    song called ‘My God.’ In it are words that resonate for me;

    “You are the rock, firm beneath my feet. Step by step you

    are changing me.”

    J D (18)   works at Sainsbury’s. Hesays, “I’m an easy-going, light-hearted musician who began

    learning sax aged 8, drums aged 10 and the guitar, aged 13.

    Andrew Slack taught me guitar. He had ‘a massive influence’

    on my song-writing and music production. He invited me to

     join FFM, which is a brilliant group. The first time I heard

    the congregation singing something I’d written I felt over-

    whelmed that God used my idea to help people connectwith Him in worship.”

    John expresses his feelings through music, often sitting

    at the piano to play freely. When he’s away from home he

    records ideas on his phone. He says, “When I listen back I

    sometimes say, ‘Well, that was an awful idea!’ but occasionally

    I think, ‘That’s really good!’ I find myself writing songs with

    no words. I’m not great with words so doing this allows me

    to express myself. I believe that God created music for the

    purpose of connecting the human heart and soul to himself

    and that we can glorify God with all kinds of music. Being a

    musician, I think it’s super easy to get upset about your idea

    being changed. I can be over-sensitive when an idea of

    mine is criticised, but we agreed from the outset to be

    honest. Honesty and trust is key when working in a group.”

    G W (36)   is a softwareengineer and father of two children. He says, “As a youngster

    I listened to tunes and tried to play them on my toy keyboard.

    I graduated from the EastEnders theme tune to more

    complex music. I got to grade 5

    but was never confident sight-

    reading all those dots and

    squiggly symbols. I much prefer

    playing by ear. Being part of

    Fulwood Free Music is right up

    my street. It’s where I can be

    creative, compose melodies

    and improve the skill of writing

    lyrics. I love to compose songs

    with deep meaning that draw

    people together in a unified

    voice that focuses not on me,but on God.

    I don’t get far if I deliberately

    decide to write a melody. How-

    ever, an idea might pop into my

    head when I’m driving, or at

    work, or in the middle of the

    night. I quickly hum it into a

    voice-recorder before it disap-

    pears. The FFM group helps me

    to develop the skill of bringing

    words and music together to

    form a complete piece. The first

    song to emerge from the groupis a particular favourite of mine.

    Entitled ‘You Are The One,’ it is full of energy, with strong

    words that focus on God’s greatness.

    We resist the temptation to pick words simply because

    they rhyme or fit nicely with a tune and don’t accept random

    waffling like any old nursery rhyme! The words must be

    accessible to people of all ages and experience. It would

    be foolish to bewilder you with over-elaborate, abstract

    ideas. When the group agree that something is good, they

    genuinely mean it and it isn’t just flattery. Sometimes we

    meet in my home, eat a takeaway then get out our pens to

    edit or forge a new verse. At other times, we share words or

    music in an online folder so there’s always something new tothink about. Occasionally, we head to The Groove Allotment

    (Andrew’s studio) to record a song with high quality. We’ve

    had some brilliant laughs – you should hear some of our

    early draft recordings – very funny in places! But some of

    our efforts evolved into songs that the congregation now

    enjoy.”

    and MusicFollow Fulwood Free Music on Facebook and InstagramCan be downloaded on iTunes, Spotify and AmazonCDs available from The Christian Resource Centre, Fox Street, PrestonFind lyrics and music on: www.fulwoodfmc.net

    Graham Whitehead 

     J oh n  D u c k et t 

     P e t e  C ou

     g h l an

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    BE AFRAIDThe following article was adapted for Heart Magazine from

    Helen’s original letter to ‘those who prayed.’ Helen is an ac-

    complished BSL interpreter. She volunteers on the Fulwood Free

    Methodist Church signing team for Sunday morning services.

    In January 2015 I was diagnosed with a cancerous throat tumour. Every day for 5 weeks I underwent radical radiotherapy at the Rosemere

    Centre at Royal Preston Hospital. A side-effect of the radiotherapy was

    that I couldn’t eat, so I was admitted to hospital to be fed through a

    nasogastric tube. I caught an infection, so was given antibiotics and more

    time in hospital. I was eventually discharged to be cared for by my sister, Susan.

    Despite her own medical problems she spent endless hours transporting me to

    and from hospital, waiting for my treatment to finish, and nursing me day and

    night. Her ongoing kindness is boundless!

     Words alone cannot express the comfort I felt because so many Preston peo-

    ple prayed for me. Before my treatment, I read some powerful words that seemed

    to leap from the page. I’m sharing them because they may comfort you if you’regoing through a difficult time yourself. Te words are from the Bible: “Te Lord

    himself goes before you and will be with you. He will never leave you nor forsake

     you. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged.”  Life is often tough. Sometimes

    people go through terrible things, but when I read these words I knew that

     whatever the outcome of the cancer, God was with me.

    Emmanuel אונמע (“God is with me” in Hebrew)

    Tis is what happened when I felt totally at the end of myself: It was very

    early one morning. I was in a room, awaiting a particularly difficult procedure.I felt stranded, alone and cold. I couldn’t move and was in great distress. My

    only thought was to pray, so I did – remembering the Bible words (above) that

    God would never leave me. As soon as I’d finished praying, a young male nurse

    came to my assistance. I was so relieved to see him that I quickly thanked God

    for sending me help. Whilst the kind, gentle nurse was tending to me I asked,

    “What’s your name?” He replied, “Emmanuel.” I was stunned, because this He-

    brew name means ‘God with us.’ At that moment I felt a surge of confidence

    that this was no coincidence, but a message of comfort from God. Emmanuel

    also told me he was an agency nurse. Regular staff said he must have come from

    an agency because no one remembered him and I never saw him again. (NB: If

    you know Emmanuel, let us know, so Helen can thank him.)Tank you for praying. Te tumour has been eradicated with little chance of

    it returning. I’m so grateful for the care of the Head and Neck Cancer team. I

    feel healthier than ever before and look forward to an active retirement!

    CHRISTIAN

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    www.prestonchristianresourcecentre.co.uk

    Email: [email protected]

    Tel: 01772 259279Welcome to 4-6 Fox St,

    Preston PR1 2AB

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    or you just want to find helpful

    resources on hard life issues or

    Christianity, then visit your local

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    he first time I go into a new building, whether it is

    a bank, a museum or theatre, I immediately

    check a few things, such as ‘Which way do I go

    next?’ or ‘What is expected of me?’ We (at Fulwood

    Free Methodist Church) understand that it can be

    nerve-wracking to enter a church where everyone else

    seems confident, but it is very unlikely you’ll be the

    only new person that day. So when you do come in,

    someone will be there to greet you, answer your

    questions and not leave you stranded!

    Just relax and be yourself.

    Nowadays, in most churches, there

    is no dress code – wear a suit,or your jeans and sweatshirt –

    however you feel comfortable. And

    you don’t need money. We don’t

    usually take a public offering – and

    when we do, it is for a project, such

    as the hospital in Rwanda that we

    support. Refreshments are free.

    Children are welcome to sit with you, but they may

    prefer to go to ‘Energize’ – ask to speak to a Children’s

    Church leader to find out what suits your family. Parents

    with babies (under 2 years old) can bring them into the

    service, or there’s a crèche for parents to stay with their

    children at the back and still see & hear the service. For11 – 16s, there is ‘Ignite’ – a teen’s church – usually with

    sausage butties in case they missed breakfast!

    Again, relax. Our

    morning services last just

    over an hour. You may be

    unfamiliar with the songs,

    but most are easy to pick

    up. The singing can be

    loud (enthusiastic!) so

     join in, or stay seated andlisten, as you choose. All

    the words are on a big

    screen at the front. The

    talks (sermons) are Bible-based and relevant to modern

    life, often with on-screen visuals.

    Make friends over a brew.

    Chat to a Pastor or other

    leader. You might like to

    come back to try the monthly

    afternoon traditional service,

    or the lively evening service.

    ‘Church’ is not a building

    - it is Christian people

    gathering to worship God,

    and to support one another

    through life’s joys and difficulties. Everyone is as valued as

    everyone else; whatever nationality, older, younger, male,

    female, child, rich, poor, those with a strong faith and those

    who doubt. Share the journey with us.

    AARGH!

    What is

    expected of me?

     I  d o n ' t  k n o w  w ha t 

     t o  d o  d u r i n g 

     t h e  s e r v i c e ?

    An d  af t e r w ar d s ? 

    THE VENUEFortnightly, Thursdays 7.30-9.30pmInformal, friendly chats about the Christian faith

    for anyone interested. Questioning encouraged.

    No charge. Free refreshments.

     Share the journey with us.

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    QUESTIONLast year, James and Sarah

    Kewley took on the role of

    ‘Inclusion Co-ordinators’

    at Fulwood Free Methodist

    Church. James was a primary

    school teacher, but most

    recently works as an advisory

    teacher supporting schools to

    include children with

    additional needs. Sarah has

    worked in special schools and

    now works as a support

    worker for adults with learning

    disabilities within their own

    homes. They say:

    “It is vital that children and adults

    with disabilities feel not only included,

    but valued and equal within the

    church environment. We recognise

    that people with autism and other

    additional needs might struggle to

    cope in this lively place so our aim is

    to offer a safe haven for those seeking

    a quiet, more structured zone. Within

    the church, we are raising awareness

    towards those with additional needs;

    this means supporting the leaders of

    different church activities such as,

    Toddlers, Energize, Impact, and

    Sunday Services, to promote

    inclusion. We set up a core team of

    people, each with a real heart and

    desire to enable every person with a

    disability to be included in church life

    and activities.”

    Many of the adults who lead

    children’s and youth work have

    completed training with us. This raised

    awareness of different additional

    needs. We gave ‘top tip’ strategies to

    support inclusion, including

    awareness of the needs of carers,

    parents and siblings of the child. Our

    resources for ‘Energize’ (JuniorChurch) include a sensory tent and a

    visual timetable which are currently

    being successfully used to support

    children with additional needs.

    We value your opinion as our team

    moves carefully forward. If you have

    any questions or ideas as to how

    FFMC could support you, your family

    or friends with disabilities then please

    email us at: [email protected]

    Thanks!’

    P h  o t   o :  I   an

    H

    T H E   I N C L U S I O N

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    FREE

    F V C CW 7.30 - 9.00

    Stewart and Lisa Bell (Choir co-ordinators)

    This new choir is open to everyone

    regardless of age, race, religion or

    experience – especially men! For

    information contact co-ordinators Stewart

    and Lisa Bell using the contact details on

    the back of Heart magazine.

    Steve Allen heads up this gang of men who

    bring their young children or grandchildren

    to chill out together!

    £2

    , , .

    Come into Fulwood Free Methodist Churchat 10 -11.30am on the following

    Saturdays throughout 2016:

    May 14th, July 2nd,

    Sept 10th, Nov 26th

     Who   L   e  tt he

    J S K

     out?Dads

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    FREE!

    iMPAC T is more  than  jus t a  you th club - gam

    es, 

    ac ti vi ties,  food, spor ts, ele

    c tronic games, 

     worship and a shor t mess

    age each  week. Make 

     friends and rela x  toge the

    r.

     F o r   y ea r s   9  a n d   o

     v e r 

     (a g e s  1 3 –  18 ) 

     F R I DA Y 

    8. 0 0 –  1 0. 0 0 p m 

    C o me  t o  K ic k  S t art !  

    W E D NE S D  AY  6-7 pm i n t er m-t i meSubs 50p – F i r s t  w eek  f r eeC alling all  junior  school boy s and gir ls, y ear s 3 – 6.

    un, games, cr af t s, games and act iv it ies and Bible st or ies.

     Sundays M O R N I N G S E R V I C E

    Choose from two identical morning services:9.15am – 10.15am or  11am – 12

    Services include modern worship, led by singers and musicians on

    a variety of instruments and words from the Bible that inspire us.

    A F T E R N O O N S E R V I C E3.00 – 3.45Usually 1st Sunday each month (not January and August)

    E V E N I N G S E R V I C E 6.30 – 8.00

    Free refreshments follow all services

    Both services are signed in BSL and SSE

    by members of the congregation. A hearing

    loop is available for the hard of hearing.

    Sunda y 9. 15 or  1 1am

    IGNI TE

    An in f ormal church 

     f or  young people 

    aged  1 1 -  16. 

    Bring  your  f riends 

    and  find ou t  wha t 

     we ge t up  to. 

    E ver yone is  ver y 

     welcome!

    IGNI TE

    ‘Energize’ (Junior Church)

    for 4 – 11 yr olds, both

    morning services

    S P  A  R K S 

    Both morning serv ices include:

    Crèche f or adults with babies and

    ‘Sparks’ f un for 

    2 – 3 y r olds

     S PA C E

     For  year s  7 - 8

     F R I D A Y ( term  t ime

     on l y )

     6. 3 0  –  8. 0 0pm

     C h i l l ou t  toge t her on a 

     Fr ida y e ven ing. 

    Games, ac t i v i t ies s

    uc h as cra f t or 

     ba k ing.  Lo ts o f  fun

     !

     An yon e is w elcome!

    C A P (CAP) is a charity which is highly recommended by TV’s

    money-saving expert, Martin Lewis. Lisa Bell is a member of

    Fulwood Free Methodist Church and our local CAP co-ordinator.

    Are you weighed down by DEBT? There is hope.

    We offer a free service to help you lift your debt.

    Call free on 0800 328 0006.

    From mobiles try 01274 760839 www.capdebthelp.org

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    ADDRESSFulwood FMC

    Lightfoot Lane

    Fulwood

    Preston

    PR2 3LT

    TELEPHONE01772 861597

    V I S I T O U R W E B S I T E

    www.fulwoodfmc.net

    • for info on our church

    • for podcsasts – listen to our

    Sunday messages online

    • for blogs – thoughts and ideas

    for you to read

    [email protected]

    CON TAC T

       F   I   N

       D

        U   S

    Join us for an afternoon of fun for all

    the family. Whatever the weather this

    will go ahead, hopefully outdoors, but

    indoors too.

    Face Painting • Bouncy Castle • Hungry Hippo • Tin-Can Alley • Hook-a-Duck •

    Zap the Rat • Sumo Suits • Penalty Shootout

    FUNDAY!

    FAMILY 

    Saturday June 4th  1pm–4pm FREE ACTIVITIES!

     F r e e  R  e f r e s h m ent  s  

    It all began in 2012 when wecelebrated the Queen’s Diamond

    Jubilee. This year holds another

    significant milestone in the life

    of HRH Queen Elizabeth II –

    her 90th Birthday. To help mark

    the occasion we will give away a beautiful

    commemorative book to each family who

    attends. So mark the date in your diary, on your

    calendar or in your phone. Come along! Join us

    for an afternoon of fun and celebration.

    Those that sew together know each other.

    Welcome to Dot’s wonderful afternoons

     of creativity.

    InspirationsT 12 – 2. 45 F

    Registered Charity No. 514359

    S F F M C :

    T oddlersTuesdays 10 - 11.30am

    (term-time only) Time for a cuppa and chat

    while your little ones play.

    The over-3s go into a

    separate space for a

    story-time. Singing together

    to end the morning. 

    Includes refreshments.

    Cost: £1.50for 1 adult

    with up to3 children.

        B   U  M

     P &  B  A  B   Y    

    For expectant or new mums, aquiet(ish!) place to relax in our

    café area, make friends, share.

     No cost. Donations welcome.

    Tuesdays 10.00 – 11.30am(most weeks)