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    @ahj}`u Shral}y*@ahj}`u Bhbu

    H KQEMA ]G IGLIAS]EGL / SRAKLHLIU

    Fhl Rgbar}yy dlg{jamka hlm apsar}eya hra yaiglm }g lglaMr Rgyelh Njhmalgvei* Qlevarye}u go Yumlau

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrngr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    H Mgqbjamhu bggdSqbjey`am bu Rhlmgn @gqya Hqy}rhjeh S}u J}mJavaj 9* 833 Shieoei @ek`{hu* Lgr}` Yumlau LY[ 23?3{{{,rhlmgn`gqya,ign,hq

    Oery} sqbjey`am bu Mgqbjamhu el 2382

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382

    ]`a ngrhj rek`} go }`a hq}`gr `hy baal hyyar}am,

    Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey bggd nhu ba rasrgmqiam gr }rhlyne}}am bu hlusarygl gr al}e}u* elijqmelk el}arla} yahri` alkelay gr ra}hejary* el hlu ogrn gr bu hlunahly* ajai}rglei gr nai`hleihj* elijqmelk s`g}gigsuelk apias} qlmar }`a y}h}q}gru

    apias}egly srgveyegly go }`a Hqy}rhjehl Igsurek`} Hi} 85?0%* raigrmelk* yihllelk gr buhlu elogrnh}egl y}grhka hlm ra}reavhj yuy}an {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl goRhlmgn @gqya Hqy}rhjeh,

    El ugqr de}i`al raiesay rasrgmqiam {e}` delm sarneyyegl orgn Shqjela hlm Mhvem Lana}`,

    Hmmrayyay ogr ignshleay {e}`el }`a Rhlmgn @gqya Krgqs ihl ba ogqlm h}{{{,rhlmgn`gqya,ign,hq'gooeiay

    Lh}eglhj Jebrhru go Hqy}rhjehIh}hjgkqelk.el.Sqbjeih}egl Al}ru

    Rgbar}y* Fhla}}a,

    @ahj}`u shral}y* `ahj}`u bhbu ' Fhl Rgbar}y,

    EYBL 5;0 8 ;=2;1 28; = sbd,%

    Iglias}egl,Sraklhliu,Sraklhl} {gnal @ahj}` hlm `ukeala,

    ?80,2

    Igvar s`g}gkrhs` bu I`rey Ruhl* Ka}}u EnhkayIgvar mayekl bu I`rey}hbajjh MayeklyEl}arlhj mayekl bu I`rey}hbajjh Mayekly]usaya} el Yhbgl 88'8; s} bu Nemjhlm ]usaya}}ary* Hqy}rhjehSrel}am el Hqy}rhjeh bu Kreooel Srayy* hl hiirame}am EYG HY'LVY 8=3386233=Alverglnal}hj Nhlhkanal} Yuy}an srel}ar

    ]`a shsar }`ey bggd ey srel}am gl ey iar}eoeam hkhely} }`a

    Ogray} Y}a{hrmy`es Igqliej Y}hlmhrmy, Kreooel Srayy`gjmy OYI i`hel go iqy}gmu iar}eoeih}egl YKY.IGI.331300,OYI srgng}ay alverglnal}hjju raysglyebja* ygiehjju balaoeiehjhlm aiglgneihjju vehbja nhlhkanal} go }`a {grjmy ogray}y,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    LG]A ]G RAHMARY

    El }`ey bggd E raoar }g nhlu yajo.`ajs hlm ygna srhi}e}eglar.kqemam

    }rah}nal}y, Eo ugq hra el hlu mgqb} hbgq} {`h} ugq y`gqjm mg gl ugqr

    g{l gr {`h} raxqeray srgoayyeglhj hyyey}hlia* ba yqra }g yaad `ajs,

    [`al iglyqj}elk h ahj}` srgoayyeglhj* oelm gla }`h} ey ignne}}am }g

    h lh}qrhj hssrghi` hlm emahjju* gla {`g `hy dlg{jamka go sraigl.

    ias}egl `ahj}` ihra,

    Ygna go }`a lq}re}eglhj yqssjanal}y hlm lq}rhiaq}eihjy }`h}

    E raignnalm hra hvhejhbja orgn `gjey}ei hlm lh}qrhj `ahj}` srhi.}e}eglary hlm yajai}am `ahj}` oggm y}gray hlm s`hrnhieay, Eo lg}*

    }`au hra hjj rahmeju hvhejhbja orgn Fhly Seidy gl nu {abye}a*

    {{{,ojqrey``,ign, E `hva srgvemam kqemajelay rakhrmelk kalarhj qya*

    bq} hj{huy ogjjg{ }`a mgyhka elyar}, ]`ara hra reydy elvgjvam el gvar.

    yqssjanal}elk, Eo ugq `hva hlu ysaieoei igliarly* ugq y`gqjm iglyqj}

    h lh}qrhj `ahj}` srhi}e}eglar,Oelhjju* }`rgqk`gq} }`ey bggd* ugqjj oelm ugqr bhbu raoarram }g

    hy `a, Elmqjka na e}y lg} h sraoaralia ogr nhja bhbeay bq} rh}`ar

    h iglval}egl }`h} E oelm ahyear }g qya el grmar }g mey}elkqey` ba}{aal

    ng}`ar hlm bhbu, Maoele}aju lg meyirenelh}egl gr yapeyn el}almam(

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    SHR] 86[`h} ugq laam }g dlg{

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    I@HS]AR 8

    Baogra ugq igliaeva , , ,

    8, ]`a @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu yaira}y@ara hra ygna ensgr}hl} }`elky ugq nhu lg} dlg{ hbgq}

    sraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra,

    2, [`u mg ugq laam e}7Ugq nek`} ba hydelk {`u iqrral} y}h}ey}eiy srgvema }`a

    hly{ar,

    9, @ey}gru }ajjy qy , , ,Sraiglias}egl ihra ey lg} h la{ emah aval }`a hlieal} Kraady

    hlm Rgnhly dla{ }`h} e} nh}}aram,

    =, Ngmarl rayahri` igloerny , , ,

    ]`aray lg mgqb}* sraiglias}egl ihra `hy lavar baal ngraensgr}hl} hlm }`a balaoe}y hra ijahr iq}(

    1, @g{ aooai}eva ey sraiglias}egl ihra7Nhuba }`gya srgbjany }`h} ugq }`eld hra fqy} shr ogr }`a

    igqrya hral} yg lgrnhj ho}ar hjj,

    ?, E}y ogr bg}` go ugq hlm e}y ogr avarubgmu]`a {grm bg}` ey h} }`a bhyey go }`a ngy} aooai}eva sraigl.

    ias}egl ihra, Ugq hra maoele}aju el }`ey xqay} ogr h varu `ahj}`u

    bhbu }gka}`ar,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    ;, Ka} srhi}eihj@hvelk h i`ejm {ejj hooai} avaru hysai} go ugqr jeoa* yg ugq laam

    }g `hva h kggm emah go {`h}y elvgjvam hlm {`h} e} {ejj nahl

    ogr ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar hlm ugqr jevay }gka}`ar,

    0, Igliaevelk iglyiegqyju[`al iglias}egl }hday sjhia {e}` iglyiegqy el}al}* e}y hl

    apiajjal} y}hr},

    5, Yqnnhru {`h} ugq laam }g mg@ara hra ugqr sraiglias}egl hi}egly el h lq}y`ajj,

    83, Mg ugq laam }`a `ajs go h srgoayyeglhj7Ygna}enay* mayse}a ugqr bay} aoogr}y }g ah} {ajj hlm ijahl qs

    ugqr jeoay}uja* ugq laam `ajs,

    88, Yqnnhru {`h} ugq laam }g dlg{@ara }`au hra }`a sgye}eva gq}ignay ugq ihl apsai} orgnsraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    FHL RGBAR]Y

    8, ]`a @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu yaira}y@ara hra ygna ensgr}hl} }`elky ugq nhu lg} dlg{ hbgq} sraigl.

    ias}egl `ahj}` ihra,

    Alyqrelk }`h} bg}` ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar hra el rahjju krah} y`hsa

    baogra ugq ka} sraklhl} nahly }`h} ugqjj ensrgva ugqr oar}eje}u*

    ramqia ugqr i`hlia go neyihrrehka hlm elirahya }`a jedaje`ggm go hl

    qlignsjeih}am* yuns}gn.oraa* oqjj.}arn sraklhliu, Ugq ihl jggd

    ogr{hrm }g h y`gr}* y}rhek`}ogr{hrm jhbgqr uay* rahjju(%* h `hssu

    sgy}lh}hj hlm brahy}oaamelk saregm hlm hl apias}eglhjju bahq}eoqj*

    `ahj}`u bhbu(

    [`al bg}` ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar hra el krah} y`hsa baogra

    iglias}egl* ugq {ejj ramqia }`a laam ogr E_O }rah}nal}y* neleneya

    }`a jedaje`ggm go h nqj}e}qma go rasrgmqi}eva srgbjany* keva ugqr

    i`ejm }`a gssgr}qle}u }g rahjeya `ey oqjj kala}ei sg}al}ehj hlm hjyg

    ramqia }`a jedaje`ggm go i`rglei makalarh}eva meyahya mqrelk }`h}

    i`ejmy al}era jeoa}ena,]`aya hral} emja srgneyay }`a ngmarl rayahri` ey ijahr( Hlm

    eo ugq }`eld }`h} sraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra ey h la{ emah* lg}`elk

    igqjm ba oqr}`ar orgn }`a }rq}` gqr ngmarl yieal}ey}y `hva ygna

    varu ygqlm hlm varu gjm% `ey}greihj sraiamal}y }g yqssgr} }`aer

    raial} y}qmeay,

    2, [`u mg ugq laam e}7Ugq nek`} ba hydelk {`u iqrral} y}h}ey}eiy srgvema }`a hly{ar,

    Bq} `au* ugq nek`} ba }`eldelk* Mg {a rahjju laam hjj }`ey srash.

    rh}egl7 Yqraju bhbeay `hva baal ignelk el}g }`a {grjm orgn }ena

    ennangrehj {e}`gq} }gg nqi` oqyy7 Go igqrya ugqra rek`} }g

    ygna ap}al}* bq} }`a iglogqlmelk ohi}gry }`h} ihl ignsrgneya }`a

    `ahj}` go }`a lap} kalarh}egl javajy go }gpeie}u* ql`ahj}`u jeoay}uja

    `hbe}y* gvaryqssju go qlmar.lq}re}egl hlm y}rayy* }g lhna fqy} h

    oa{ hra h} qlsraiamal}am javajy hlm reyelk, E} y`gqjm }`al igna hy

    lg yqrsreya }`h} }gmhuy rh}ay go eloar}eje}u* neyihrrehka* sranh}qra

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    ber}`* iglkale}hj hblgrnhje}eay* sgy}lh}hj masrayyegl* brahy}oaamelk

    ohejqra* jahrlelk hlm ba`hvegqrhj srgbjany* hjjarkeay hlm g}`ar eyyqay

    hra h} raigrm javajy hlm hra hjyg gl }`a reya,

    ]`a ogjjg{elk y}h}ey}eiy y`g{ ijahrju }`h} rasrgmqi}egl ey ignsrg.

    neyam h} avaru y}as hjglk }`a {hu, [`h} ugq yaa `ara ey h varu

    elhqyseiegqy bakellelk* {e}` `qka s`uyeihj* nal}hj* ang}eglhj hlm

    oelhliehj igy} ogr elmevemqhjy* ohnejeay hlm ihrary* bq} hjyg ogr `ahj}`

    yuy}any hlm ygiea}u hy h {`gja(

    8 igqsja el ? ey eloar}eja 8 {gnhl el = {ejj neyihrru

    8 bhbu el 83 ey bgrl sranh}qraju

    8 bhbu el 93 ey bgrl {e}` h iglkale}hj hblgrnhje}u

    8 {gnhl el 1 `hy h I.yai}egl

    8 {gnhl el 9 yqooary orgn ygna makraa go sgy}lh}hj masrayyegl

    Glju 8 {gnhl el 83 brahy}oaamy bauglm `ar i`ejmy oery}ber}`mhu

    8 i`ejm el 83 `hy h jahrlelk gr ba`hvegqrhj srgbjan

    8 i`ejm el 1 yqooary orgn hy}`nh

    ]`ara ey hl asemanei go i`ejmral {e}` yqb}ja hlm ygna lg}

    yg yqb}ja% na}hbgjei* ennqla* laqrgjgkeihj hlm mekay}eva

    meygrmary

    Bq} }`a avemalia ey hjyg qlaxqevgihj ngy} go }`aya srgbjany ihl

    ba sraval}am {`al bg}` shr}lary hra el apiajjal} `ahj}` baogra }`au

    igliaeva }`aer i`ejm,

    9, @ey}gru }ajjy qy , , ,Sraiglias}egl ihra ey lg} h la{ emah aval }`a hlieal} Kraady hlm

    Rgnhly dla{ }`h} e} nh}}aram,

    Bq} {`eja sraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra `hy lavar baal ngra

    ensgr}hl}* e}y baal hrgqlm h {`eja }`a hlieal} Kraady hlm

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    FHL RGBAR]Y

    Rgnhly dla{ }`h} hjig`gj* mrqld baogra hlm hrgqlm }`a }ena go

    iglias}egl* {hy mhnhkelk }g }`a oga}qy, Bg}` ygiea}eay bhllam }`a

    mreldelk go hjig`gj bu ugqlk {gnal hlm la{ju{amy( Nhlu }rebhj

    ygiea}eay oam ysaiehj mea}y }g }`aer ugqlk {gnal hlm ugqlk nal% go

    i`ejm.bahrelk hka,

    Bhid el }`a 8593y* Hnareihl mal}ey} Mr [ay}gl Sreia y}qmeam

    ignnqle}eay orgn hrgqlm }`a {grjm hlm ijahrju ay}hbjey`am }`a

    jeld ba}{aal iglyqns}egl go h raoelam [ay}arl mea} hlm ignsrg.

    neyam rasrgmqi}eva gq}ignay, El `ey ijhyyei {grd Lq}re}egl hlm

    S`uyeihj Makalarh}egl `a hjyg mangly}rh}am elirahyelkju ignsrg.

    neyam s`uyeihj hlm nal}hj `ahj}` el avaru yqiiayyeva kalarh}egl el

    }`gya ignnqle}eay {`ara {`e}a ojgqr* yqkhr.igl}helelk srgmqi}y hlm

    i`aneihjju hj}aram vaka}hbja gejy `hm rasjhiam }rhme}eglhj mea}y, Ngra

    gl }`ey el Ah}elk ogr }{g7 gl shka 19,

    ]`a Krah} Mq}i` Ohnela gr @qlkar [el}ar hy e} {hy dlg{l*

    {`ei` jhy}am orgn Gi}gbar 85== }g Nhu 85=1* hjyg srgvemamohyielh}elk elyek`}y, Lqnargqy y}qmeay `hva y`g{l }`h} {gnal

    apsgyam }g }`a oggm y`gr}hkay baogra hlm hrgqlm }`a }ena go

    iglias}egl `hm sggrar rasrgmqi}eva gq}ignay }`hl }`a {gnal

    {`g {ara yqbfai}am }g oggm y`gr}hkay glju mqrelk }`aer sraklhliu,

    Bq} }`h}y lg} hjj, El h }`ayey al}e}jam Gby}a}rei sarogrnhlia go

    {gnal ho}ar el q}arg apsgyqra }g }`a Mq}i` ohnela 85===1% buJ, @, Jqnau orgn }`a Krhmqh}a Yi`ggj go Igjqnbeh Qlevarye}u el

    8500* }`a lap} kalarh}egl {hy hjyg y`g{l }g ba ignsrgneyam eo }`a

    ng}`ar {hy el q}arg mqrelk }`a oery} }renay}ar {`al `ar ng}`ar {hy

    apsgyam }g oggm y`gr}hka,

    ]`ey el}rgmqiay qy }g apie}elk la{ y}qmeay el asekala}eiy, Rayahri`

    el }`ey oeajm mangly}rh}ay }`h} }`a aooai}y go `hrnoqj s`uyeihj hlm

    ang}eglhj }rhqnhy hra ihrream mg{l }`rgqk` kalarh}egly* bq} {`h}y

    rahjju apie}elk ey }`h} }`a iglvarya `gjmy }rqa6 ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar

    ihl sgye}evaju hooai} }`a `ahj}` go lg} glju ugqr i`ejmral* bq} ugqr

    krhlmi`ejmral hlm krah}.krhlmi`ejmral( @hvelk igloemalia }`h}

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    ugqr ahj}`u mea} hlm jeoay}uja* }gpeie}u. hlm y}rayy.oraa alverglnal}*

    rakqjhr aparieya hlm sgye}eva h}}e}qma hra kgelk }g nhda h meooaralia

    }g }`a `ahj}` go kalarh}egly }g igna ey h sg{aroqj ng}evh}gr ogr

    glkgelk ignne}nal} }g }`a @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu Srgkrhn,

    Rahm ngra hbgq} asekala}eiy gl shka 8=9,

    Go igqrya* e}y {gr}` daaselk el nelm }`h} ohrnary `hva hj{huy

    alyqram }`a gs}enhj `ahj}` go }`aer jevay}gid baogra braamelk,

    Ogrkg}}al ogr hkay bu }`a `qnhl sgsqjh}egl* sraiglias}egl `ahj}`

    ihra ey lg{ rakhelelk sgsqjhre}u ogr varu kggm rahygly, Eo {a hra }g

    ravarya }`a }ralm go elirahyelkju ignsrgneyam rasrgmqi}eva `ahj}`hlm }`a }ralm }g{hrmy i`rglei makalarh}eva meyahya h} h ugqlkar

    hlm ugqlkar hka* {a laam }g }qrl gqr h}}al}egl bhid }g }`a varu

    bakellelk go }`a jeoa iuija,

    =, Ngmarl rayahri` igloerny , , ,]`aray lg mgqb}* sraiglias}egl ihra `hy lavar baal ngra ensgr}hl}

    hlm }`a balaoe}y hra ijahr iq}(

    Rayahri` ogiqyam gl }`a varu bakellelk go jeoa elijqmay }{g

    ensgr}hl} anarkelk oeajmy go y}qmu asekala}eiy hlm oga}hj grekely,

    Mhvem Bhrdar* Srgoayygr go Ijeleihj Asemanegjgku h} }`a Qlevarye}u

    go Ygq}`hns}gly Mavajgsnal}hj Grekely go @ahj}` hlm Meyahya

    Rayahri` Ial}ra* {hy xqg}am el }`a Yumlau Ngrlelk @arhjmhr}eijaI`rglei meyahya nhu y}hr} sra.iglias}egl6

    Sraval}elk ahr} meyahya hlm ]usa 2 mehba}ay laamy }g bakel baogra h

    bhbu ey aval igliaevam, Rayahri` `hy ogqlm jg{ ber}`.{aek`} bhbeay

    }g ba h} elirahyam reyd go `ahr} h}}hidy* y}rgday* mehba}ay* `ek` bjggm

    srayyqra hlm gy}agsgrgyey,

    Srgoayygr Bhrdary {grd igloerny }`h} h krah} mahj go i`rglei makal.

    arh}eva meyahya bakely sregr }g iglias}egl hlm* iglyaxqal}ju* {a

    laam }g }qrl gqr h}}al}egl }`ara eo {a hra }g `hva hlu i`hlia go

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    gs}enhj `ahj}` }`rgqk`gq} gqr jevay hlm eo {a hra }g hvgem yaregqy

    maijela h} }`a g}`ar alm, Srgoayygr Bhrdary {grd {hy sgg`.sgg`am

    {`al a oery} sqbjey`am 93 uahry hkg, Ho}ar hjj* h} }`a }ena ihrmegvhy.

    iqjhr meyahya {hy merai}ju jeldam }g `ek` i`gjay}argj* yngdelk* jhid

    go aparieya hlm `ek`.y}rayy jeoay}ujay* lg} }g ber}` {aek`}, Srgoayygr

    Bhrdar {hy oelhjju h{hrmam h IBA el }`a 233? La{ Uahry @glgqry

    Jey} }`a h{hrm raigkleyelk `ey seglaarelk nameihj rayahri` {grd

    gl }`a jeldy ba}{aal jg{ ber}` {aek`} hlm }`a jh}ar mavajgsnal}

    go meyahya,

    QD.bhyam Ograyek`}* Hyygieh}egl ogr }`a Srgng}egl go Sraigl.ias}qhj Ihra* ay}hbjey`am el 85;0* `hy sjhuam h nhfgr rgja el nu

    el}aray} el }`ey hrah, Ograyek`}y {grd* jeda Srgoayygr Bhrdary*

    `hy baal krgqlmbrahdelk hlm `hy elvgjvam }`a rayahri` go nhlu

    anelal} yieal}ey}y orgn hrgqlm }`a {grjm, Ogr }`gya go ugq {`g

    jeda rayahri`* Ograyek`} sqbjeih}egly* ahi` gla igl}helelk `qlmramy

    go ie}am raoaraliay* igvar }`a }gseiy go ve}hnely* }rhia ajanal}y*`grnglay* oggm hmme}evay* kala}eihjju ngmeoeam KN% oggmy* hjig`gj*

    yngdelk* ihllhbey* hkrgi`aneihjy hlm `ahvu na}hjy hlm }`aer

    aooai}y gl rasrgmqi}egl, Ugq nek`} oelm }`aya qyaoqj raygqriay ogr h

    yias}eihj gr rajqi}hl} shr}lar,

    1, @g{ aooai}eva ey sraiglias}egl ihra7Nhuba }`gya srgbjany }`h} ugq }`eld hra fqy} shr ogr }`a igqrya

    hral} yg lgrnhj ho}ar hjj, Hra ugq y}ejj }ruelk }g ohjj sraklhl}7 @hva

    ugq `hm h neyihrrehka7 @hva ugq `hm h sranh}qra bhbu7 Mem ugq

    laam h I.yai}egl7 Mgay ugqr i`ejm `hva hy}`nh gr hjjarkeay7 Mgay

    ugqr i`ejm `hva h jahrlelk gr ba`hvegqrhj srgbjan7 Mem ugq yqooar

    orgn hl}alh}hj gr sgy}lh}hj masrayyegl7 Nhuba ugqva `ahrm go yg

    nhlu g}`ary apsarealielk }`a yhna eyyqay }`h} ugqva igna }g bajeava

    }`aura sra}}u lgrnhj, ]`a kggm la{y ey }`aura lg}(

    Ja}y iglyemar }`a grekelhj Ograyek`} srgkrhn, Hy ugq nek`}

    apsai}* h jhrka srgsgr}egl go igqsjay {`g igna }g Ograyek`}

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    `hva sravegqyju apsarealiam }`a mey}rayy go neyihrrehka* y}ejjber}`*

    nameihj }arnelh}egl* nhjogrnh}egl* qlapsjhelam eloar}eje}u* sgy}.

    lh}hj masrayyegl hlm `ahj}` srgbjany el }`aer i`ejm, El ohi}* el }`a

    ele}ehj y}qmu krgqs go 9?; igqsjay* ngra }`hl `hjo `hm h sravegqy

    srgbjan gr yareay go srgbjany, Bq} {e}` ignsra`alyeva sraigl.

    ias}egl ihra ogr hjj }`gya igqsjay* h} }`a alm go h }{g.uahr saregm

    Ograyek`} `hm hi`eavam ranhrdhbja rayqj}y, ]`a y}h}ey}eiy ysahd ogr

    }`anyajvay , , ,

    05 sar ial} `hm h `ahj}`u bhbu

    08 sar ial} go eloar}eja igqsjay `hm h bhbu

    Lg ber}`y giiqrram baogra 9? {aady

    Lg bhbu {hy jek`}ar }`hl 1 jb 9 g, 29?0 k%

    Lg neyihrrehkay el }`a y}qmu krgqs

    Lg sarelh}hj mah}`y

    Lg nhjogrnh}egly Lg bhbu {hy hmne}}am }g el}alyeva ihra

    Fqy} }`eld ihraoqjju hbgq} {`h} }`aya rayqj}y hi}qhjju nahl, Lg}

    naraju 05 sar ial} go igqsjay `hm h jeva* `ahj}`u bhbu* bq} }`ara {ara

    lg neyihrrehkay {`al el }`a lgrnhj sgsqjh}egl ugq nek`} apsai}

    01 el h krgqs go }`a yhna yea% gr nhjogrnh}egly el }`a lgrnhj

    sgsqjh}egl ugq nek`} apsai} 23 el h yenejhr krgqs%, ]`ara {ara lg

    sranh}qra gr varu jg{ ber}` {aek`} bhbeay ae}`ar* {`ei` ey ensgr}hl}

    el jek`} go Srgoayygr Bhrdary oelmelky(

    ]`ey y}qmu {hy oery} sqbjey`am el }`a Fgqrlhj go Lq}re}eglhj /

    Alverglnal}hj Nameiela el 855= hlm {hy hjyg yi`amqjam }g ba

    sqbjey`am el }`a varu sray}ekegqy% Jhlia}, Ho}ar ngl}`y go srgirhy.

    }elh}egl* }`a Jhlia}ame}gry maijelam }g sqbjey`, ]`aer rahygl7 Jhid

    go igl}rgj krgqs, Ograyek`} hrkqam el vhel }`h} }`a krgqs hi}am hy e}y

    g{l igl}rgj rananbar 15 sar ial} hm h sravegqy srgbjan elijqmelk

    eloar}eje}u go qs }g }al uahry mqrh}egl%, Rakhrmelk }`a sariaevam jhid

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    go igl}rgj krgqs* E {gqjm hrkqa }`h} e} ey qla}`eihj }g mg lg}`elk

    apias} yqkkay} }ruelk hkhel }g h igqsja {e}` h `ey}gru go raiqrral}

    neyihrrehka* h yareay go }`arhsaq}ei }arnelh}egly* h nhjogrnam bhbu

    gr h i`ejm {e}` jahrlelk gr ba`hvegqrhj srgbjany,

    Aval {`al Ograyek`} }resjam }`a lqnbar go igqsjay el }`aer }rehj*

    }`ara {ara glju 9,1 sar ial} neyihrrehkay* ignshram }g ygna{`ara

    ba}{aal 21 hlm 93 sar ial} el }`a QD hlm h nhjogrnh}egl rh}a go

    3,=; sar ial} ignshram }g ? sar ial} el }`a kalarhj sgsqjh}egl,

    ]`gya srgbjany {ara emal}eoeam hy jeldam }g ysaieoei }gpei apsgyqra

    gr elignsja}a sraiglias}egl srashrh}egl, Ograyek`}y srgkrhn hjyghi`eavam h ahj}`u hvarhka ber}` {aek`} hlm vhy}ju ensrgvam yqiiayy

    rh}a ogr }`gya igqsjay ignsja}elk sraiglias}egl ihra sregr }g E_O

    {`ei` ey ygna}enay y}ejj laiayyhru eo }`ara hra s`uyeihj bhrreary

    }g iglias}egl%, [`al igqsjay raygr}am }g E_O* gr g}`ar hyyey}am

    rasrgmqi}eva }ai`lgjgkeay ho}ar ignsja}elk }`aer sraiglias}egl sras.

    hrh}egl* }`a hvarhka yqiiayy rh}a {hy =9,1 sar ial} ignshram }g hlapsai}am rh}a go 22,? sar ial},

    El Hqy}rhjeh* Orhliayih Lhey`* nu grekelhj ig.hq}`gr el }`a Ba}}ar

    Bhbeay yareay hlm ogqlmar go }`a Fgiajul Ial}ra* hy ajsam }`gqyhlmy

    go igqsjay }g `hva h }rqju `ahj}`u bhbu, @ar rayqj}y oqr}`ar ay}hbjey`

    sraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra hy hl hbygjq}aju oqlmhnal}hj `ahj}`

    srgng}egl nahyqra,

    ?, E}y ogr bg}` go ugq hlm e}y ogr avarubgmu]`a {grm bg}` ey h} }`a bhyey go }`a ngy} aooai}eva sraiglias.

    }egl ihra, Ugq hra maoele}aju el }`ey xqay} ogr h varu `ahj}`u bhbu

    }gka}`ar,

    Ugqr srashrh}egl y`gqjm ba ignsja}am* {e}` hjj ahj}`.srgng}elk

    nahyqray el sjhia* h} jahy} ogqr ngl}`y baogra ugq y}hr} }ruelk, Keva

    ugqryajo hy nqi` }ena hy ugq laam }`a jglkar }`a ba}}ar%* bq} nhda

    yqra }`h} bg}` go ugq `hva }`a `ahj}`eay} sgyyebja mea}* jeoay}uja hlm

    alverglnal} mqrelk }`h} ire}eihj ogqr.ngl}` saregm,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    H}}e}qmay `hva i`hlkam yekleoeihl}ju yelia E bakhl srgng}elk

    sraiglias}egl `ahj}` ihra* bq} }`ara ey y}ejj giihyeglhj rajqi}hlia gl

    }`a shr} go }`a nhja shr}lar }g hidlg{jamka `ey rgja el alyqrelk }`a

    s`uyeihj hlm nal}hj ahj}` go ey gooysrelk, [`h}avar }`a rahygly ogr

    `ey rajqi}hlia* }`a avemalia lg{ sgel}y gvar{`ajnelkju }g `ey axqhj

    igl}rebq}egl ygna rayahri`ary el ohi} yqkkay} e} nhu ba aval krah}ar

    }`hl 13613%, @ara hra ygna go }`a yekleoeihl} oelmelky6

    El 8590 glju 3,1 sar ial} go nal {ara iglyemaram }g ba

    oqli}eglhjju y}areja, ]gmhu* e} ey ay}enh}am }`h} ba}{aal 1 hlm

    82 sar ial} go nal hra eloar}eja,

    Baihqya ysarn hra ynhjjar hlm igly}hl}ju baelk ogrnam }`au

    hra hi}qhjju ngra s`uyeihjju vqjlarhbja }g }gpei apsgyqra }`hl

    h {gnhly akky,

    Iekhra}}ay* hjig`gj hlm ygiehj mrqky aval eo glju giihyeglhj%

    hjj `hva }g kg, ]`ey ey fqy} hmvhlia lg}eia4 ugqjj jahrl aphi}ju{`u el I`hs}ar ?6 @hbe}y,

    Nal hra ngra oraxqal}ju apsgyam }g }gpeie}u el }`a {grdsjhia*

    {e}` }`ey apsgyqra jeldam }g y}ejjber}`* sra}arn ber}`*

    ial}rhj larvgqy yuy}an maoai}y hlm }ay}eiqjhr ihliar el }`aer

    i`ejmral,

    Jaqdhaneh* hy}`nh hlm rayserh}gru hlm nal}hj meyahyay `hvahjj baal jeldam }g }`a nhja,

    [e.oe rhmeh}egl hy baal mangly}rh}am }g hooai} ysarn ng}eje}u

    hlm ihqyay mhnhka }g }`a MLH,

    La{ avemalia jeldy }`a ek`.oh} mea} go h oh}`ar.}g.ba }g gbaye}u

    el `ey i`ejmral asekala}ei'}rhly.kalarh}eglhj aooai}y%,

    Hlm kal}janal* }`ey ey fqy} }`a }es go }`a eiabark, Lg{ ugq rahjju hva

    lg apiqyay ogr }`eldelk }`ey ey fqy} h srgkrhn ogr }`a nqn.}g.ba,

    Sraiglias}egl nek`} ba }`a rahj oery} }renay}ar* bq} e}y h }renay}ar

    }`h} ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar nqy} y`hra el axqhj nahyqra,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    ]`ara hra }{g rahygly {`u }`gya ogqr ngl}`y hra yg varu

    ensgr}hl}6

    8, ]`a akk ey shr}eiqjhrju yqyias}ebja }g mhnhka ogr hbgq}

    833 mhuy baogra gvqjh}egl4 hlm

    2, Ysarn ogrnh}egl ihl }hda qs }g 88? mhuy,

    Nhuba ugq }`eld }`ey @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu Srgkrhn ey fqy}

    ogr igqsjay {e}` srgbjany7 ]`al }`eld hkhel( ]`ey srgkrhn ey ogr

    hlugla {`g nek`} avar baigna h nqn gr h mhm {`a}`ar ugqr

    sraklhliu ey fqy} hrgqlm }`a igrlar gr yavarhj uahry mg{l }`a }rhid,

    Avar yelia nu g{l sgye}eva apsarealiay* Eva oernju bajeavam }`h} }`ey

    srgkrhn ey lg} hbgq} mahjelk {e}` eyyqay yqi` hy eloar}eje}u aval

    }`gqk` e}y ap}ranaju aooai}eva el }`h} hrah%* bq} ey ygna}`elk }`h} hjj

    srgysai}eva shral}y y`gqjm anbrhia, E aligqrhka avaru gla go ugq

    }g keva }`ey }`a yhna }ena* jgvelk ihra hlm h}}al}egl }g ma}hej }`h}ugq jhvey` gl ugqr {ammelk sjhly( Qlmary}hlmelk }`h} ugq `hva }`a

    `ahj}` go }`a lap} kalarh}egl el ugqr `hlmy ey ansg{arelk bq} hjyg

    brelky krah} raysglyebeje}u, E}y qs }g ugq hlm e}y lavar }gg yggl }g

    ka} y}hr}am,

    Lg nh}}ar `g{ nqi` ugq el}ajjai}qhjeya }`a ye}qh}egl* Lh}qray

    mayekl ogr }`a srgshkh}egl go }`a `qnhl ysaieay nhday `hvelk bhbeay

    nqi` ngra go hl ang}eglhj }`hl h rh}eglhj maieyegl, [`a}`ar }`h}

    ang}eglhj mayera ey `hrm.{eram* h oqli}egl go h }eidelk begjgkeihj

    ijgid* sjqkkam el}g `grnglhj iuijay gr }g ygna bekkar hy}rgjgkeihj

    bjqasrel} ey lg} }`a eyyqa, Bq} e} `hssaly, Ogr uahry hlm uahry E yhem*

    E mgl} {hl} bhbeay En `hvelk }gg nqi` oql, [`u nqid qs }`ey

    ohbqjgqy amgley}ei jeoay}uja {e}` demy7 , , , hlm yg gl, ]`al* {e}`gq}

    hlu r`una gr rahygl* el nu nem.}`er}eay E mem h ignsja}a hbgq}.ohia

    hlm lgbgmu {hy ngra yqrsreyam }`hl na,

    E `hva }g xqay}egl }`a igqsjay ogr {`gn h i`ejm baignay h

    ignsja}aju rh}eglhj* ihjiqjh}am* qlang}eglhj maieyegl* je}}ja ngra

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    }`hl hlg}`ar hixqeye}egl gr h }eid gl }`aer hi`eavanal} bghrm , , ,

    Amqih}egl* }rhvaj* ihraar* `gqya* ihr* bgh} hjj mgla, Lap} gl }`a

    jey}7 H bhbu( Lg{ bhid }g {grd(

    ]`h} nhu ygqlm `hry`* bq} Eva yaal e}, Baogra anbhrdelk gl

    ugqr shral}elk fgqrlau* }`ara hra ygna }`elky ugq laam }g iglyemar

    ihraoqjju, Rahm gl ogr ngra , , ,

    ;, Ka} srhi}eihj@hvelk h i`ejm {ejj hooai} avaru hysai} go ugqr jeoa* yg ugq laam }g

    `hva h kggm emah go {`h}y elvgjvam hlm {`h} e} {ejj nahl ogr ugq

    hlm ugqr shr}lar hlm ugqr jevay }gka}`ar, E ihl y}ejj `ahr nu shr}lar

    yhuelk xqe}a igloemal}ju }`h} Gqr bhbu {gl} i`hlka hlu}`elk,

    Uah` rek`}* Hj( [`al }`elky qlogjm hiigrmelk }g Lh}qray sjhl*

    }`a ap}rhgrmelhru bhbushral} bglm ey yg hnhelk* hjj.alignshyy.

    elk hlm ohr.rahi`elk el e}y aooai}y me}}g }`a jgva hlm ang}eglhj

    i`hlkay }`h} igna {e}` }`a bhbu }`h} e} {ejj ogravar i`hlka {`h}

    ugq iglyemar ensgr}hl} hlm {`h} ugq mg lg}, El hmme}egl }g ugqr

    fgel} ignne}nal} }g `ahj}`ear jevelk* }`ara hra jg}y go g}`ar }`elky

    }g }`eld hbgq},

    [`h} `hvelk h bhbu nahly

    Eo ugqra rahjju lg} yqra {`a}`ar shral}elk ey ogr ugq gr ugq mgl}

    dlg{ {`h} }g apsai}* }`al mg ygna `gna{grd, ]hjd }g ohneju

    gr orealmy hbgq} }`aer apsarealiay* bhbuye} ogr orealmy {`g `hva

    i`ejmral* rahm, ]`aya mhuy }`a ygqriay go elogrnh}egl hra nhlu hlm

    vhream veh }`a el}arla}* }`a {`gja {grjm ey h} ugqr oelkar}esy hlm

    avaruglay srashram }g y`hra }`aer y}gru( ]`ey hjyg nahly ugq laam

    }g ba meyiarlelk hbgq} {`h} ugq }hda gl bghrm, E oernju bajeava }`h}

    eo Em jey}alam }g }`a y}greay go `grrgr hlm `ahr}hi`a* Em `hva y}qid

    }g nu Bqrnaya ih}, El ohi}* e} {hy aphi}ju }`gya y}greay* hlm nu

    bajeao }`h} la{ shral}y {ara mgelk e} qllaiayyhreju }gqk`* }`h} jam

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    na mg{l }`ey sh}`( Daas el nelm }`h} ugqr rahygly ogr anbrhielk

    }`a @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu Srgkrhn hra baihqya ugq {hl}

    ugqr g{l apsarealia }g ba }`a bay} e} ihl sgyyebju ba el nhdelk

    }`h} maieyegl ugq hjyg hidlg{jamka }`h} ogr nhlu igqsjay }gmhu*

    }`aer rahje}u ey varu meooaral},

    E}y h bek maieyegl

    Ugqr maieyegly hbgq} shral}elk {ejj jhy} h jeoa}ena* yg e}y ve}hj }`h}

    ugq keva ugqryajo }ena }g }`eld }`elky }`rgqk` {eyaju hlm irah}evaju,

    @ara hra ygna ensgr}hl} eyyqay ugq y`gqjm iglyemar,

    ]`eld hbgq} ugqr rahygly ogr {hl}elk h i`ejm, [re}a mg{l

    ugqr jeoa sjhly* kghjy hlm mrahny,

    [`h} hva ugq hi`eavam yg ohr hlm {`h} ey y}ejj ngy} ensgr}hl}

    }g ugq7 E}y gdhu }g alfgu }`a `amgley}ei jeoay}uja kevelk e} qs

    baogra ugqra rahjju rahmu igqjm jahm }g rayal}nal},

    Mg ugq `hva algqk` }ena* nglau hlm yqssgr} }g `hva h i`ejm7

    @g{ {ejj ugqr {grd ba hooai}am bu rheyelk h i`ejm7 Hra ugq

    srashram }g baigna h y}hu.h}.`gna nqn gr mhm ogr h oa{

    uahry7

    Hra ugq srashram }g nhda }`a ignne}nal} laiayyhru }g keva

    ugqr i`ejm }`a `ahj}`eay} sgyyebja y}hr} el jeoa7

    Mg ugq hva eyyqay }g raygjva hbgq} ugqr g{l i`ejm`ggm7 ]`eyey h bek gla ogr nhlu srgysai}eva shral}y, Eo ugqr g{l ohneju

    qsbrelkelk jao} ygna}`elk }g ba mayeram* h iglyiegqy maieyegl

    lg} }g rasah} shy} ney}hday ihl ba yqssgr}am bu y`hrelk {e}`

    g}`ary {`gva `hm yenejhr apsarealiay, Iglyemar h}}almelk

    ygna krgqs {grdy`gsy,

    Shral}elk ijhyyay ihl ba `ajsoqj }gg }`a Sgye}eva Shral}elk

    Srgkrhn hlm Shral} Aooai}evalayy ]rhelelk hra fqy} }{g gs}egly*

    bq} hjyg rananbar }`h} lgbgmu hy }`a saroai} qsbrelkelk hlm

    {a hjj nhda ney}hday, ]`a }reid ey lg} }g nhda }`gya ney}hday

    gvar hlm gvar hkhel(

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    [`h} hbgq} jeoa hy h yelkja shral} gr el hl hj}arlh}eva ohneju7

    ]`aya i`geiay srayal} meooaral} i`hjjalkay hlm h yqssgr}

    la}{grd ey hbygjq}aju ayyal}ehj(

    Bu kevelk ygna }`gqk`} }g hjj go }`aya }`elky* ugqjj y}hr} }g ka} h

    ijahrar sei}qra go {`h} shral}elk nek`} nahl ogr ugq,

    ]ena

    @g{ mg ugq iqrral}ju ysalm ugqr }ena7 Ihl ugq enhkela `g{ ugq

    nek`} ysalm ugqr }ena meooaral}ju eo ugq `hm h i`ejm7 Mg ugq alfgu

    }`a }ena ugq ysalm {e}` i`ejmral7 Oa{ shral}y hra srashram ogr }`a

    hngql} go }ena* jgva hlm alarku }`h} rahrelk h i`ejm raxqeray, Baelk h

    shral} nahly 2= `gqry h mhu* yaval mhuy h {aad ogr hl elma}arnelh}a

    lqnbar go uahry* yg kggm }ena nhlhkanal} ydejjy hra ayyal}ehj, Ogr

    h y}hr}* {grd gq} {`g {ejj ba raysglyebja ogr i`ejm ihra ugq* ugqr

    shr}lar* h srgoayyeglhj lhllu gr h i`ejmihra ial}ra%, Raigkleya }`h} ugqigqjm {ajj i`hlka ugqr nelm hbgq} i`ejm ihra glia ugq hra hi}qhjju

    `gjmelk ugqr bhbu el ugqr hrny hlm E `gsa ugq {ejj(%* yg ugq laam }g

    daas }`h} aval}qhje}u el nelm, Iglyemar g{ ugqjj fqkkja }ena h} {grd*

    }ena {e}` ugqr i`ejm* hlm }ena hjgla gr fqy} {e}` ugqr shr}lar,

    [grd[`h} hra ugqr ihraar sjhly hlm kghjy7 @g{ nqi` yh}eyohi}egl hlm

    yajo.{gr}` mg ugq mareva orgn {grdelk hlm ahrlelk ugqr g{l jevelk7

    Ihl ugq {grd orgn `gna gr oelm yqe}hbja shr}.}ena {grd7 Mg ugq

    hlm ugqr shr}lar vhjqa }`a `gqry go qlshem {grd ae}`ar go ugq

    {gqjm mg h} `gna ihrelk ogr h i`ejm7 [`h} nh}arle}u hlm sh}arle}u

    balaoe}y mgay ugqr ansjguar gooar7 [gqjm h meooaral} ansjguar keva

    ugq ngra ojapebeje}u el ugqr shral}elk rgjay7

    Oelm {huy }g naa} ugqr i`ejmy laamy hlm ugqr g{l ihraar kghjy

    }`h} hjyg nh}i` ugqr bajeaoy hlm vhjqay hbgq} kggm shral}elk, ]`a

    srgysai} go jahvelk gr yjg{elk mg{l ugqr ihraar nhu ba mhql}elk,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @g{avar* `hvelk h bhbu {ejj brelk la{ oaajelky* }`gqk`}y hlm apsa.

    realiay el}g ugqr jeoa }`h} ugq nhu lg} ba hbja }g enhkela rek`} lg{,

    Nhda nal}hj yshia ogr h bhbu el ugqr jeoa, ]`a hbeje}u }g hiias}

    i`hlka {`gja`ahr}amju hlm sgye}evaju {ejj nhda ugqr }rhlye}egl }g

    shral}`ggm nqi` ahyear hlm ngra alfguhbja,

    Nglau

    ]`ara ey lg gla rek`} {hu }g grkhleya ugqr oelhliay ogr `hvelk h

    i`ejm, Ygna sagsja yhva ql}ej }`au oaaj }`au `hva algqk` oelhliehj

    yaiqre}u }g yqssgr} h ohneju, G}`ary yensju kg h`ahm hlm `hva h

    i`ejm* daas {grdelk hlm nhda almy naa}, ]`a bg}}gn jela ey }`h}

    `hvelk i`ejmral igy}y nglau hlm ugq {ejj hva }g ohi}gr }`ey apsalya

    el}g ugqr bqmka}, Eo ugq mgl} `hva h bqmka}* }`al nhuba e}y }ena

    }g irah}a gla(%

    Hyd orealmy {`g `hva i`ejmral {`h} e} igy}y }g rheya h ohneju,

    ]`aya igy}y {ejj i`hlka }aalhkary igy} ngra }`hl bhbeay, Jggd h}

    ugqr g{l apsalme}qra gvar h ngl}` gr h uahr hlm enhkela `g{ ugq

    {gqjm bqmka} ogr h i`ejm, Ugq y`gqjm hjyg nhda sjal}u go }ena }g

    meyiqyy ugqr oelhliehj hrrhlkanal}y {e}` ugqr shr}lar,

    Go igqrya e}y sgyyebja E hi}qhjju }`eld e}y mayerhbja% }g daas ugqr

    ele}ehj igy}y }g h bhra nelenqn bu sqri`hyelk glju }`a rahj laiayye}eay

    hlm aval }`aya ihl go}al ba bgqk`} yaiglm.`hlm gr `hlmam gl orgnorealmy, E} hi}qhjju mgayl} nh}}ar }g ugqr bhbu eo `ey ylqkkju* `ey

    y}rgjjar* aval ey ijg}`ay hlm g}`ar nqy}.`hvay hva baal sra.jgvam,

    Nu bguy {ara bg}` kjhngrgqyju h}}eram el mayeklar hlm.na.mg{ly,

    E}y lg} meooeiqj} }g oelm ygnagla glju }gg {ejjelk }g yaa }`aer g{l

    i`ejmraly lg.jglkar.laamam e}any kg }g h kggm `gna(

    Ugq nhu hjyg i`hlka ugqr sregre}eay hrgqlm nglau hlm nh}arehj

    sgyyayyegly, E xqay}egl }`a vhjqa go apsalyeva yi`ggjelk* }qe}egl*

    ighi`elk* jayygly hlm g}`ar ayyal}ehjy ogr ugqr i`ejmy yqiiayy* {`al

    }`a oelhliehj rahje}u go baelk hbja }g hoogrm }`an daasy ugq el }`a

    {grdogria rh}`ar }`hl h} `gna {e}` ugqr i`ejm,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    Yqssgr} hlm ignnqle}u

    Yqssgr} la}{grdy hra ayyal}ehj, Ugq nhu oelm }`h} ugqr ygiehj ierija

    i`hlkay {`al ugq `hva h bhbu* hy ygna orealmy hra lg} el}aray}am

    el ugqr la{ jeoay}uja, Ugq nhu axqhjju oelm }`h} }`aer jeoay}uja lg

    jglkar el}aray}y ugq lg{ }`h} ugqra h shral}, Kggm orealmy* hy

    {ajj hy ugqr ohneju* ng}`ary krgqsy* sjhukrgqsy* gljela ogrqny*

    i`ejmihra ial}ray* nem{evay hlm ignnqle}u lqryay* ohneju mgi}gry*

    igqlyajjgry hlm }`arhsey}y ihl hjj srgvema yqssgr} {`al ugq

    laam e},

    Nhel}helelk h y}rglk la}{grd }hday h je}}ja be} go aoogr}, Ba

    srghi}eva ka} gq} go }`a `gqya hlm nhda igl}hi} {e}` jeda.nelmam

    sagsja, ]hdelk }`a }ena }g mg }`ey baogra ugqr bhbu ey bgrl {ejj shu

    mevemalmy, Eo ugq ihl} oelm h yqssgr} krgqs }`h} yqe}y ugqr shr}eiqjhr

    laamy hlm el}aray}y* y}hr} gla go ugqr g{l,

    Bqejmelk hj}arlh}eva ohnejeayJeda }`a {grjm e}yajo* ohnejeay hra baignelk ngra mevarya hlm

    ignsjeih}am, ]gmhu* i`ejmral hra yqiiayyoqjju rheyam el }rhme}eglhj

    lqijahr ohnejeay* hy {ajj hy el yelkja.shral} ohnejeay* ap}almam

    ohnejeay* narkam ohnejeay hlm jaybehl hlm khu ohnejeay, I`ejmral

    hra jgvam hlm ihram ogr bu }`aer begjgkeihj shral}y* hy {ajj hy bu

    krhlmshral}y* y}as.shral}y* ig.shral}y hlm ohneju orealmy* hlm}`au mavajgs h ignsjap hrrhu go rajh}egly`esy }`h} ygna}enay

    elijqma y}as. gr `hjo.yebjelky* mglgr oh}`ary hlm yqrrgkh}a

    ng}`ary,

    Hj}arlh}eva ohnejeay nhu aligql}ar ygna srafqmeia, E} ihl hjyg

    ba meooeiqj} {e}`gq} ngmajy gl {`ei` }g bhya ugqr ohneju ugq hra

    ngy}ju h seglaar, @g{avar* }`a varu ohi} }`h} hj}arlh}eva ohnejeay

    i`hjjalka }`a lgrn gsaly qs gssgr}qle}eay ogr }`a i`ejmral, Ogr

    aphnsja* hj}arlh}eva ohnejeay ihl ngmaj akhje}hrehl hlm lgl.yapey}

    rajh}egly`esy4 }`au ihl srgvema i`ejmral {e}` h brghmar sarysai}eva

    gl }`a {grjm4 }`au ihl `ajs i`ejmral }g }qrl gq}yema srafqmeia el}g

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    ellar y}ralk}`4 hlm ohneju nanbary go}al alfgu shr}eiqjhrju ijgya

    hlm yqssgr}eva rajh}egly`esy,

    El yqnnhru* }`ara hra jg}y go }`elky }g sglmar baogra ugq bakel ugqr

    shral}elk fgqrlau( Eo ugq mgl} }`eld ugqra xqe}a rahmu* mgl} ja}

    hlugla srayyqra ugq el}g }`a maieyegl, Nu shr}lar {gqjm `hva baal

    `hssu }g y}hr} h ohneju uahry baogra E yhem* Ja}y mg e}( @ey shral}y

    iar}helju lavar qlmary}ggm {`u E {hyl} sjhllelk }g srgvema }`an {e}`

    krhlmi`ejmral, Bq} E dlg{ ogr iar}hel Em `hva nhma h jgqyu ng}`ar eo

    Em `hm nu bhbeay el nu }{al}eay, E kqayy nu glju }elu rakra} ey }`h} Erahjju jao} e} }gg jh}a }g `hva ngra }`hl }{g hlm go igqrya }`a hka h}

    {`ei` ugq y}hr} ey fqy} gla ngra }`elk ogr ugq }g }`eld hbgq} , , ,

    0, Igliaevelk iglyiegqyju[`al iglias}egl }hday sjhia {e}` iglyiegqy el}al}* e}y hl apiajjal}

    y}hr},

    E}y }ena( Ugqva mgla }`a {grd* ugqva hi}evaju hvgemam hjj }`gya

    ql`ahj}`u jeoay}uja hlm alverglnal}hj ohi}gry* ugqr mea} `hy lavar

    baal ba}}ar* ugqva baal }hdelk ugqr yqssjanal}y , , , Ugqva hjyg

    mgla ygna krah} krgqlm{grd el ay}hbjey`elk la{ ygiehj la}{grdy

    hlm ugqra oernju ignne}}am }g baelk h oqjj.}ena nqn gr mhm ogr

    h {`eja, Ugq dlg{ }`h} bg}` ugq hlm ugqr shr}lar hra s`uyeihjju*nal}hjju hlm ang}eglhjju hy rahmu hy ugq ihl ba ogr }`ey bhbu ugqra

    hbgq} }g igliaeva(

    Ugqva baal i`hr}elk ugqr iuija* }hdelk ugqr }ansarh}qra* lg}eielk

    `g{ ugqr iarveihj nqiqy i`hlkay hlm }gmhu ugqra hbygjq}aju iar}hel

    }`h} ugqra gvqjh}elk, Mrqn rgjj , , , Jek`} }`a ihlmjay* sjhu }`a nqyei*

    men }`a jek`}y( ]`ey ey }`a jgva.nhdelk }`h} ugqva hl}eiesh}am ogr yg

    jglk, Ugqva bg}` jggdam ogr{hrm }g igliaevelk iglyiegqyju hlm

    baelk hbja }g {ajigna ugqr i`ejmy apey}alia orgn e}y varu ahrjeay}

    ngnal}y, Ugqra oaajelk igloemal} }`h} }`ey hi} go jgva {ejj jahm }g

    }`a iglias}egl go ugqr bhbu,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    Yelia }`a i`hr}elk go ugqr iuija ey lg{ yaiglm lh}qra* ugq dlg{

    }`h} hjj ugqr srashrh}egl `hy shem goo {`al ugqr }ansarh}qra ey y}ejj

    ajavh}am ho}ar 23 mhuy, ]`a bhbu }`h} ugqva {he}am ogr yg jglk ey

    iqrral}ju hbgq} }`a yea go hl hssja ses* bq} ugq hjyg dlg{ }`h} e}y

    bakellelky `hva baal hy `ahj}`u hy }`au ihl sgyyebju ba hlm }`h}

    ugq ihl hl}eiesh}a h sraklhliu hlm ber}` }`h} raojai} }`a ihra ugqva

    }hdal, Ugqr majek`} el }`a iglias}egl go ugqr bhbu ey gvar{`ajnelk*

    hlm ugq bg}` dlg{ }`h} ugqr ngl}`y go sraiglias}egl ihra {ara

    {ajj {gr}`{`eja,

    Eo ugqra h yelkja nqn* gr eo ugqra g}`ar{eya qlmar}hdelk }`eyngnal}gqy fgqrlau igqr}ayu go mglgr ysarn* mglgr akk gr ygna

    ignbelh}egl g}`ar }`hl }`a grekelhj* ugq ihl nhda h yenejhr re}qhj

    go h iglias}egl h}}ans}, [`eja }`a ysarn gr akk mglgr nhu ba

    qldlg{l }g ugq* `glgqr }`aer shr}eiesh}egl el }`a irah}egl go ugqr

    bhbu hlm hyd ogr }`aer jgva hlm yqssgr} el ysere},

    5, Yqnnhru {`h} ugq laam }g mg@ara hra ugqr sraiglias}egl hi}egly el h lq}y`ajj,

    ]`a dau }g yqiiayy ey }g }hda }`elky gla y}as h} h }ena* ahi` gla

    h ygr} go sgye}eva hooernh}egl, Glia ugqva nhma }`a ignne}nal}

    hlm h y}hr} gl ugqr srashrh}egly* }`al }`a ray} ohjjy el}g sjhia je}}ja

    bu je}}ja, Ba kal}ja {e}` ugqryajo mgl} }ru }g mg e} hjj }`ey {aad(Ba kal}ja {e}` ugqr shr}lar }gg e}y ahyu }g baigna rayal}oqj eo }`a

    ignne}nal} go gla shr}u mgayl} nh}i` }`h} go }`a g}`ar,

    Nhda h }enajela {e}` ugqr shr}lar,

    Ah} grkhlei srgmqia ogr h `ek`ar iglial}rh}egl go ayyal}ehj }rhia

    ajanal}y hlm ramqiam apsgyqra }g say}eiemay hlm g}`ar }gpely,

    ]hda h `ek`.xqhje}u srgbeg}ei }g ray}gra kq} `ahj}`,

    Mg }`a eli }hy}a }ay} hlm yqssjanal} hiigrmelkju,

    ]hda ignsra`alyeva lq}re}eglhj yqssjanal}h}egl }`h} ey ysaieoe.

    ihjju mayeklam ogr sraiglias}egl* sraklhliu hlm brahy}oaamelk,

    Igsurek`} Fhl Rgbar}y 2382, Hjj rek`}y rayarvam, Lg shr} go }`ey sqbjeih}egl nhu ba rasrgmqiam* y}gram el h ra}reavhj yuy}an* }rhlyne}}am el hlu ogrn

    gr bu hlu nahly* ajai}rglei* nai`hleihj* s`g}gigsuelk* raigrmelk gr g}`ar{eya* {e}`gq} }`a sregr {re}}al sarneyyegl go }`a sqbjey`ar,

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    Hvgem yelkja lq}real}y yqi` hy ogjei hiem* {`ei` y`gqjm

    hj{huy ba }hdal el ignbelh}egl {e}` g}`ar ve}hnely orgn }`a

    B.ignsjap krgqs,

    Ngra ma}hejy gl hjj }`aya raignnalmh}egly el I`hs}ar 96 Ah},%

    Bakel hl aparieya srgkrhn, Ngmarh}a* hargbei hlm nqyija.

    bqejmelk aparieya ensrgvay }`a majevaru go lq}real}y,

    Ojapebeje}u aparieyay* y}ra}i`elk hlm ugkh hra ensgr}hl} }gg,

    Rananbar ugqr sajvei ojggr aparieyay glia ugqra sraklhl},

    Ngra ma}hejy gl hjj }`aya raignnalmh}egly el I`hs}ar =6 Mg,%

    Ramqia y}rayy hlm nhel}hel h sgye}eva h}}e}qma,

    Srhi}eya hooernh}egly hlm veyqhjeyh}egly,

    Enhkela hjj }gpeie}u jahvelk ugqr bgmu* rasjhiam bu hl

    hbqlmhlia go ve}hj lq}real}y, Enhkela ugqr `ahj}`u bgmu

    lqr}qrelk h `ahj}`u bhbu,

    Nhel}hel h y}rglk bajeao el ugqr hbeje}u }g sgye}evaju hooai} ugqr

    oar}eje}u hlm sraklhliu gq}igna(Ngra ma}hejy gl hjj }`aya raignnalmh}egly el I`hs}ar 16

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    Ngra ma}hejy gl hjj }`aya raignnalmh}egly el I`hs}ar ?6

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    jhmal srgmqi}y h} {grd hlm `gna%, Ugqr bh}`rggn* de}i`al

    hlm jhqlmru iqsbghrmy ihl ba nhfgr ygqriay go i`aneihjy hlm

    g}`ar }gpely, Rahm jhbajy,

    Jene} apsgyqra }g ajai}rgnhkla}ei rhmeh}egl,

    Ngra ma}hejy gl hjj }`aya raignnalmh}egly el I`hs}ar ;6

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

    Sjhu }`a khna h} {{{,ojqrey``,ign, Lg} glju ey e} oql* bq} e} {ejj

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    @ahj}`u Shral}y* @ahj}`u Bhbu

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