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(NU) - Money certainly can’t buy you happiness, but that does- n’t mean that suffering finances can’t put strain on a relationship. Money doesn’t make mar- riages end in divorce – in fact, financial problems might lead to as little as 5 percent of divorces in the U.S. But when money’s tight, couples feel greater strain, which can lead to more disagree- ments. Couples facing money prob- lems can gain strength from each other. Here are some tips for cou- ples looking to support each oth- er through tough times: - Take time to discover each other’s real needs. One spouse might feel alienated, not because there’s less cash, but because less cash means fewer restaurant and movie nights. But couples can en- joy quality time together no mat- ter their finances. Free activities, like commu- nity movie screenings or muse- um trips, can provide fun without breaking the bank. Instead of go- ing out to eat, couples can cook meals at home and follow dinner with a romance-inducing bever- age, like Magic Power Coffee (www.magicpowercoffee.com), which combines high-quality ara- bica coffee beans with healthy herbs. Gingseng, goji berries, epimedium herb and vitamins help increase energy, mood ele- vation and euphoria – never a bad thing when pursuing quality time as a couple. - Take a cue from your kinder- garten teacher – use your words and your indoor voice when dis- cussing difficult subjects. Talk about how you feel without putting blame on your partner’s actions. If you can’t discuss a cer- tain subject without becoming an- gry, at least attempt to write down your thoughts. - Come up with a plan togeth- er. If one partner handles all of the finances, the other person might not realize how tight things are, or when money will be entering or leaving a joint account. Sit down together to determine a spending and saving plan. If you are in debt, consider going to a fi- nancial counselor who can help you consolidate loans and devel- op a sound financial strategy. Couples Learn to Face Economy Together HEALTH NewsUSA Financial woes don’t have to hurt your strength as a couple. NewsUSA

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(NU) - Money certainly can’tbuy you happiness, but that does-n’t mean that suffering financescan’t put strain on a relationship.

Money doesn’t make mar-riages end in divorce – in fact,financial problems might lead toas little as 5 percent of divorcesin the U.S. But when money’stight, couples feel greater strain,which can lead to more disagree-ments.

Couples facing money prob-lems can gain strength from eachother. Here are some tips for cou-ples looking to support each oth-er through tough times:- Take time to discover eachother’s real needs. One spousemight feel alienated, not becausethere’s less cash, but because lesscash means fewer restaurant andmovie nights. But couples can en-joy quality time together no mat-ter their finances.

Free activities, like commu-nity movie screenings or muse-um trips, can provide fun withoutbreaking the bank. Instead of go-ing out to eat, couples can cookmeals at home and follow dinnerwith a romance-inducing bever-age, like Magic Power Coffee(www.magicpowercoffee.com),which combines high-quality ara-bica coffee beans with healthyherbs. Gingseng, goji berries,epimedium herb and vitaminshelp increase energy, mood ele-vation and euphoria – never a badthing when pursuing quality timeas a couple.

- Take a cue from your kinder-garten teacher – use your wordsand your indoor voice when dis-cussing difficult subjects. Talkabout how you feel withoutputting blame on your partner’sactions. If you can’t discuss a cer-tain subject without becoming an-gry, at least attempt to write downyour thoughts.- Come up with a plan togeth-er. If one partner handles all of thefinances, the other person mightnot realize how tight things are,or when money will be enteringor leaving a joint account. Sitdown together to determine aspending and saving plan. If youare in debt, consider going to a fi-nancial counselor who can helpyou consolidate loans and devel-op a sound financial strategy.

Couples Learn to FaceEconomy Together

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Financial woes don’t have to hurt your strength as a

couple.

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