THINK WIN-WIN

Habit 4 of seven habits for highly effective teens

By: Devin Berry, Kailya Jackson ,and Niyin Smith

THINK WIN-LOSE Full of pride Using other people emotionally or

physically, for your own selfish purposes Trying to get ahead at the expense of

others Spreading rumors about someone else

(as if putting someone else down builds you up)

Always insisting on getting your way without concerning yourself with feelings of others

Becoming jealous and envious when something good happens to someone close to you

THINK LOSE-WIN Find yourself setting low expectations and

compromising your standards again and again

Giving into peer pressure Being a doormat basically saying, “Have

your way with me. Wipe your feet on me. Everyone else does.”

You are always Mr. Nice Guy and can’t stand up for yourself.

THINK LOSE-LOSE If I'm going down you are going down

with me Revenge

Examples of a lose-lose situation:“I don’t care as long as he fails”

“If I can’t have Marcus then she can’t either”

War is also an example of a lose-lose situation, the whole concept of whoever

kills the most people wins the war doesn’t really sound like anybody's

winning to me

THINK WIN-WIN Everyone can win It’s nice and tough all at once I care about other people and want

them to succeed And I wish to succeed as well There is plenty of success to go around

FOLLOW THESE BABY STEPS; THEY MIGHT PUSH YOU TOWARDS THINKING WIN-WIN

Pinpoint the areas you most struggle with Show sportsmanship in the sports that you play;

try to compliment the other team If someone owes you something don’t be afraid to

speak up and ask for it nicely Play a card or board game without thinking of

winning or losing; do it just for the fun of it If someone close to you succeeds, be happy for

them instead of showing jealousy toward them Think of a person who you think is a win-win model If you are in a lose-win relationship with a member

of the opposite sex go for the no deal and get out of that relationship

CREDITSNiyin Smith, Kailya Jackson-technology

Devin Berry- director