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Guidelines For Balancing Guidelines For Balancing Nurture and MinistryNurture and Ministry
Floyd L. MarshallFloyd L. Marshall
Coordinator, Prison Coordinator, Prison MinistriesMinistries
Washington Washington ConferenceConference
Seventh-day Adventist Prison Ministries Seventh-day Adventist Prison Ministries
Volunteers play a vital role in offender Volunteers play a vital role in offender
management in prisons and jails.management in prisons and jails.
Matthew 25:36 “I was in prison and you Matthew 25:36 “I was in prison and you
came to visit me”.came to visit me”.
As we seek to lead these offenders into a As we seek to lead these offenders into a
relationship we Christ we are also serving as relationship we Christ we are also serving as
role models to them.role models to them.
Recently, TV Judge Greg Mathis stated that Recently, TV Judge Greg Mathis stated that
““more than one in every 100 Americans aremore than one in every 100 Americans are
in prison or jail”.in prison or jail”.
This certainly tells us of the This certainly tells us of the
magnitude of our responsibility magnitude of our responsibility as as
Prison Ministries Volunteers.Prison Ministries Volunteers.
It can therefore be It can therefore be overwhelming.overwhelming.
In our effort to be obedient to the In our effort to be obedient to the commission found in Matthew 25: 36 commission found in Matthew 25: 36 we must strive to seek that balance we must strive to seek that balance between nurture and ministry. between nurture and ministry.
Effective stress management must Effective stress management must thereforetherefore
be a priority not only for Prison be a priority not only for Prison Ministry Ministry
Volunteers but for all involved in Volunteers but for all involved in Personal Personal
Ministries.Ministries.
STRESSSTRESS
What is stress?What is stress?
““Stress is the body's automatic way of Stress is the body's automatic way of
reacting to the changes, challenges reacting to the changes, challenges
and demands placed on us as part of and demands placed on us as part of
being alive”.being alive”.
StressStress
As long as we are alive, there will beAs long as we are alive, there will be
challenges, changes and demands. challenges, changes and demands. There There
will be stress.will be stress.
EustressEustress
Not all stress is bad. There is the good Not all stress is bad. There is the good
stress which is called “eustress”. This isstress which is called “eustress”. This is
healthy stress. It helps us to feel healthy stress. It helps us to feel
emotionally and physically well. This emotionally and physically well. This
helps us to achieve and grow .helps us to achieve and grow .
EustressEustress
• Gives you the push you needGives you the push you need
• Increases your self-confidenceIncreases your self-confidence
• Gives you a sense of purposeGives you a sense of purpose
DistressDistress
UnhealthyUnhealthy StressStress is called distress.is called distress.
StressorsStressors
Where does stress come from? -Where does stress come from? -
StressorsStressors
““Stressors can be broadly defined as the Stressors can be broadly defined as the
external demands of life or the internal external demands of life or the internal
attitudes and thoughts that require us to attitudes and thoughts that require us to
adapt”. adapt”.
StressorsStressors
Stressors can be events, Stressors can be events, circumstances, circumstances,
places, people, feelings or attitudes. places, people, feelings or attitudes.
StressorsStressors
We are all subject to stressors; the We are all subject to stressors; the amount amount
of stress we experience depends on of stress we experience depends on how wehow we
react to them. react to them.
StressorsStressors
Stressors do not cause stress. It is our Stressors do not cause stress. It is our
reaction to them that cause stress.reaction to them that cause stress.
Stress and diseaseStress and disease
Prolonged stress can affect health. The Prolonged stress can affect health. The
World Health Organization estimates World Health Organization estimates that that
80% of all illnesses are directly or 80% of all illnesses are directly or indirectly indirectly
caused by stress. caused by stress.
Stress and diseaseStress and disease
• HypertensionHypertension
• Coronary heart diseaseCoronary heart disease
• Migraine headachesMigraine headaches
• Tension headachesTension headaches
• DepressionDepression
• UlcersUlcers
Managing StressManaging Stress
Albert Ellis (Psychologist), discovered Albert Ellis (Psychologist), discovered that that
emotionally distress people have emotionally distress people have ‘irrational ‘irrational
thoughts”thoughts”
Their thinking is not accurate or Their thinking is not accurate or reasonable.reasonable.
Ellis’ Rational Emotive Ellis’ Rational Emotive TherapyTherapy
• A = Activating EventsA = Activating Events
• B = Beliefs, thoughts, attitudesB = Beliefs, thoughts, attitudes
• C = Consequences, behaviorsC = Consequences, behaviors
Rational Emotive TherapyRational Emotive Therapy
• Examine your beliefs about A (Event)Examine your beliefs about A (Event)
• Put your beliefs on trial. Are they Put your beliefs on trial. Are they reasonable or not? Are they rational?reasonable or not? Are they rational?
• Replace irrational and unhealthy beliefs Replace irrational and unhealthy beliefs with rational and healthy beliefs.with rational and healthy beliefs.
Rational Emotive TherapyRational Emotive Therapy
When irrational beliefs (B) are replaced When irrational beliefs (B) are replaced with with
rational beliefs the consequences orrational beliefs the consequences or
behaviors (C) will be positive andbehaviors (C) will be positive and
productive.productive.
Managing StressManaging Stress
• Exercise regularly. When we are in Exercise regularly. When we are in good physical condition, we have a good physical condition, we have a greater capacity to resist stress and greater capacity to resist stress and strain. strain.
Managing StressManaging Stress
• Balance work with playBalance work with play
• Manage your time. Do important Manage your time. Do important things first and realize that you things first and realize that you cannot do everything at one time.cannot do everything at one time.
• Learn to relaxLearn to relax
Managing StressManaging Stress
• Investigate your attitudes and beliefsInvestigate your attitudes and beliefs
• Get enough restGet enough rest
• Eat a balance diet, nourish your body Eat a balance diet, nourish your body with the nutrients it needs to combat with the nutrients it needs to combat stress.stress.
Manage StressManage Stress
• Think Positively , engage in positive Think Positively , engage in positive self-talk.self-talk.
• Have a sense of humor. Laughing Have a sense of humor. Laughing relaxes our facial muscles, shoulders, relaxes our facial muscles, shoulders, and arms.and arms.
Stress is a fact of life, but it need not be Stress is a fact of life, but it need not be a a
way of life. By using the methods listed way of life. By using the methods listed
above you will be able to cope with above you will be able to cope with stress stress
and begin to use your stress for positive and begin to use your stress for positive
purposes.purposes.
Let us remember that God wants us toLet us remember that God wants us to
enjoy good health.enjoy good health.
““Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy Dear friend, I pray that you may enjoy
good health and that all may go well with good health and that all may go well with
you, even as your soul is getting along you, even as your soul is getting along well.well.
3 John 1: 2 (NIV) 3 John 1: 2 (NIV)