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"Forever Love" Love, it has so many beautiful faces Sharing lives and sharing days My love it had so many empty spaces I'm sharing a memory now I hope that's how it stays Now I'm deep inside love and still breathing She is holding my heart in her hand I'm the closest I've been to believing This could be love forever All throughout my life The reasons I've demanded But how can I reason With the reason I'm a man Oh, oh-oh-oh-oh yeah Hmm In a minute I'm needing to hold her In an hour I'm cold, cold as stone When she leaves it gets harder and harder To face life alone Now my dreams are filled With times when we're together Guess what I need from her Is forever love Ooh, Ooh, yeah Oh, oh, oh, oh, mm-mm-mm Oh, oh, yeah Now I feel forever love Ooh, ooh Oh yeah Well I feel...

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"Forever Love"

Love, it has so many beautiful facesSharing lives and sharing days

My love it had so many empty spacesI'm sharing a memory nowI hope that's how it stays

Now I'm deep inside love and still breathingShe is holding my heart in her handI'm the closest I've been to believing

This could be love forever

All throughout my lifeThe reasons I've demanded

But how can I reasonWith the reason I'm a man

Oh, oh-oh-oh-oh yeahHmm

In a minute I'm needing to hold herIn an hour I'm cold, cold as stone

When she leaves it gets harder and harderTo face life alone

Now my dreams are filledWith times when we're together

Guess what I need from herIs forever love

Ooh, Ooh, yeahOh, oh, oh, oh, mm-mm-mm

Oh, oh, yeahNow I feel forever love

Ooh, oohOh yeah

Well I feel...

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"Back For Good"

I guess now it's time for me to give up I feel it's time 

Got a picture of you beside me Got you're lipstick mark still on your coffee cup 

Got a fist of pure emotion Got a head of shattered dreams 

Gotta leave it, gotta leave it all behind now 

Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn't mean it I just want you back for good 

Whenever I'm wrong just tell me the song and I'll sing it You'll be right and understood 

Unaware but underlined I figured out this story It wasn't good 

But in the corner of my mind I celebrated glory But that was not to be 

In the twist of separation you excelled at being free Can't you find a little room inside for me 

Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn't mean it I just want you back for good 

Whenever I'm wrong just tell me the song and I'll sing it You'll be right and understood 

And we'll be together, this time is forever We'll be fighting and forever we will be 

So complete in our love We will never be uncovered again 

Whatever I said, whatever I did I didn't mean it I just want you back for good 

Whenever I'm wrong just tell me the song and I'll sing it You'll be right and understood

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"One Sweet Day"

Sorry I never told youAll I wanted to say

And now it's too late to hold you'Cause you've flown away

So far away

Never had I imaginedLiving without your smile

Feeling and knowing you hear meIt keeps me alive

Alive

[Chorus:]And I know you're shining down on me from heaven

Like so many friends we've lost along the wayAnd I know eventually we'll be together

One sweet day

Darling I never showed youAssumed you'd always be thereI took your presence for granted

But I always caredAnd I miss the love we shared

[Chorus]

Although the sun will never shine the same againI'll always look to a brighter day

Lord I know when I lay me down to sleepYou will always listen as I pray

[Chorus]

Sorry I never told youAll I wanted to say

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I don't wanna hear about it anymoreIt's a shame I've got to live without you anymore

There's a fire in my heartA pounding in my brain

It's driving me crazy

We don't need to talk about it anymoreYesterday's just a memory

Can we close the doorI just made one mistake

I didn't know what to say when you called me baby

Don't say goodnightSay you're gonna stay forever

Oh oo Oh, all the way

Can you take me high enoughTo fly me over (fly me over) yesterday

Can you take me high enoughIt's never over

Yesterday's just a memory (yesterday's just a memory and)

I don't want to live without you anymoreCan't you see I'm in misery

And you know for sureI would live and die for you

And I'd know just what to do when you call me baby

Don't say goodbyeSay you're gonna stay forever

Oh oo Oh, all the way

Can you take me high enoughCan you fly me over (fly me over) yesterday

Can you take me high enoughIt's never over

Yesterday's just a memory, I'm runningI was running for the doorThe next thing I remember

I was running back for moreYeah...

Don't say goodbyeSay you're gonna stay forever

Oh oo Oh, all the way (all the way, all the way, yeah)

Can you take me high enough

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Can you fly me over (fly me over) yesterdayCan you take me high enough

It's never overWoh oo oh oo oh oo oh

Can you take me high enoughWon't you fly me over (won't you fly me over) yesterday

Can you take me high enoughIt's never over

Woh oo oh oo oh oo oh

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"A Whiter Shade Of Pale"

We skipped the light fandangoTurned cartwheels 'cross the floor

I was feeling kind of seasickThe crowd called out for more

And the room was hummin' harderAs the ceiling flew away

And when we called outfor another drinkBut the waiter brought a tray

And so it was laterAs the miller told his tale

That her face at first just ghostlyTurned a whiter shade of pale.

She said: "There is no reason,And the truth is plain to see."

But I wander through my playin' cardsWould not let her be

One of the sixteen vestal virginsWho were leaving for the coast

And although my eyes were openThey might just as well been closed

And so it was laterAs the miller told his tale

That her face at first just ghostlyTurned a whiter shade of pale.

A whiter shade of paleTurned a whiter shade of pale

A whiter shade of pale

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Remember Me This Way

Every now and thenWe find a special friendWho never lets us downWho understands it all

Reaches out each time you fallYou're the best friend that I've found

I know you can't stayA part of you will never ever go away

Your heart will stay

* I'll make a wish for youAnd hope it will come trueThat life would just be kind

To such a gentle mindIf you lose your way

Think back on yesterdayRemember me this wayRemember me this wayHmm���.. this way

I don't need eyes to seeThe love you bring to me

No matter where I goAnd I know that you'll be there

Forever more apart of time, you're everywhereI'll always cares

(Repeat *)

And I'll be right behind your shoulder watching youI'll be standing by your side and all you do

And I won't ever leaveAs long as you believe

You just believe(Repeat *)

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Two Steps Behind (Acoustic Version)"

Walk away if you want to it's ok, if you need to 

you can run, but you can never hide From the shadow that's creeping up beside you 

There's a magic running through your soul But you can't have it all 

(Whatever you do) I'll be two steps behind you 

(Wherever you go) and I'll be there to remind you 

that it only takes a minute of your precious time to turn around and I'll be two steps behind. 

Take the time to think about it 

Walk the line, you know you just can't fight it Take a look around and see what you can find 

Like the fire that's burning up inside me, There's a magic running through your soul 

But you can't have it all 

(Whatever you do) I'll be two steps behind you 

(Wherever you go) and I'll be there to remind you 

that it only takes a minute of your precious time to turn around and I'll be two steps behind. 

There's a magic running through your soul but you, you can't have it all 

(Whatever you do) I'll be two steps behind you 

(wherever you go) and I'll be there to remind you 

that it only takes a minute of your precious time To turn around and I'll be two steps behind. 

Two steps behind yeah, baby 

two steps behind ohh, sugar 

two steps behind

"Bringin' On The Heartbreak"

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Gypsy, sittin' lookin' pretty The broken rose with laughin' eyes 

You're a mystery, always runnin' wild Like a child without a home 

You're always searching, searching for a feeling That it's easy come and easy go 

Oh I'm sorry but it's true You're bringin' on the heartbreak 

Takin' all the best of me Oh can't you see? 

You got the best of me Whoah can't you see? 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

Can't you see? 

Oh whoah You're such a secret, misty eyed and shady 

Lady how you hold the key Oh you're like a candle, your flame slowly fadin' 

Burnin' out and burnin' me 

Can't you see? Just try and say to you 

You're bringin' on the heartache Takin' all the best of me 

Oh can't you see? You got the best of me Whoah can't you see? 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

Can't you see? Can't you see? 

No no no You got the best of me 

Oh can't you see? You got the best of me Whoah can't you see? 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak Bringin' on the heartache 

You're bringin' on the heartbreak"No More Lonely Nights"

I can wait another day until I call youYou've only got my heart on a string

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And everything a'flutterBut another lonely night might take forever

We've only got each other to blameIt's all the same to me love

'Cause I know what I feel to be rightNo more lonely nightsNo more lonely nightsYou my guiding light

Day or night I'm always thereMay I never miss the thrill of being near you

And if it takes a couple of yearsTo turn your tears to laughterI will do what I feel to be right

No more lonely nights (never be another)No more lonely nightsYou my guiding light

Day or night I'm always thereAnd I won't go away until you tell me so

No, I'll never go awayYes, I know what I feel to be right

No more lonely nights (never be another)No more lonely nightsYou my guiding light

Day or night I'm always thereAnd I won't go away until you tell me so

No, I'll never go awayAnd I won't go away until you tell me so

No, I'll never go awayNo more lonely nights

"Livin' On A Prayer"

Once upon a time Not so long ago 

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Tommy used to work on the docks Union's been on strike 

He's down on his luck...it's tough, so tough Gina works the diner all day 

Working for her man, she brings home her pay For love - for love 

She says we've got to hold on to what we've got 'Cause it doesn't make a difference 

If we make it or not We've got each other and that's a lot 

For love - we'll give it a shot 

[Chorus:]Whooah, we're half way there 

Livin' on a prayer Take my hand and we'll make it - I swear 

Livin' on a prayer 

Tommy's got his six string in hock Now he's holding in what he used 

To make it talk - so tough, it's tough Gina dreams of running away When she cries in the night 

Tommy whispers baby it's okay, someday 

We've got to hold on to what we've got 'Cause it doesn't make a difference 

If we make it or not We've got each other and that's a lot 

For love - we'll give it a shot 

[Chorus]

We've got to hold on ready or not You live for the fight when it's all that you've got 

[Chorus]

"Never Say Goodbye"

As I sit in this smokey roomThe night about to end

I pass my time with strangersBut this bottle's my only friend

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Remember when we used to parkOn Butler Street out in the dark

Remember when we lost the keysAnd you lost more than that in my backseat baby

Remember how we used to talkAbout busting out - we'd break their hearts

Together - forever

Never say goodbye, never say goodbyeYou and me and my old friends

Hoping it would never endSay goodbye, never say goodbye

Holdin' on - we got to tryHoldin' on to never say goodbye

Remember days of skipping schoolRacing cars and being cool

With a six pack and the radioWe didn't need no place to go

Remember at the prom that nightYou and me we had a fight

But the band they played our favorite songAnd I held you in my arms so strong

We danced so closeWe danced so slow

And I swore I'd never let you goTogether - forever

Never say goodbye, never say goodbyeYou and me and my old friends

Hoping it would never endSay goodbye, never say goodbye

Holdin' on - we got to tryHoldin' on to never say goodbye

I guess you'd say we used to talkAbout busting out

We'd break their heartsTogether - forever

Never say goodbye, never say goodbyeYou and me and my old friends

Hoping it would never endSay goodbye, never say goodbye

Holdin' on - we got to tryHoldin' on to never say goodbye

yeah yeah"Numb"

I'm tired of being what you want me to beFeeling so faithless, lost under the surfaceDon't know what you're expecting of me

Put under the pressure of walking in your shoes(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)

Every step that I take is another mistake to you

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(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)

[Chorus:]I've become so numb, I can't feel you there

Become so tired, so much more awareI'm becoming this, all I want to do

Is be more like me and be less like you

Can't you see that you're smothering me,Holding too tightly, afraid to lose control?

'Cause everything that you thought I would beHas fallen apart right in front of you.

(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)Every step that I take is another mistake to you.

(Caught in the undertow, just caught in the undertow)And every second I waste is more than I can take.

[Chorus:]I've become so numb, I can't feel you there,

Become so tired, so much more awareI'm becoming this, all I want to do

Is be more like me and be less like you.

And I knowI may end up failing too.

But I knowYou were just like me with someone disappointed in you.

[Chorus:]I've become so numb, I can't feel you there,

Become so tired, so much more aware.I'm becoming this, all I want to do

Is be more like me and be less like you.

[Chorus:]I've become so numb, I can't feel you there.(I'm tired of being what you want me to be)I've become so numb, I can't feel you there.(I'm tired of being what you want me to be)

"In The End"

(It starts with one)One thing I don't know why

It doesn’t even matter how hard you tryKeep that in mind, I designed this rhyme

To explain in due time(All I know)

Time is a valuable thingWatch it fly by as the pendulum swings

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Watch it count down to the end of the dayThe clock ticks life away

(It’s so unreal)Didn’t look out below

Watch the time go right out the windowTrying to hold on but didn’t even know

I wasted it all just to watch you go

I kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apartWhat it meant to be will eventually be a memory of a time when...

I tried so hardAnd got so farBut in the end

It doesn't even matterI had to fallTo lose it all

But in the endIt doesn't even matter

One thing, I don’t know whyIt doesn’t even matter how hard you tryKeep that in mind, I designed this rhyme

To remind myself howI tried so hard

In spite of the way you were mocking meActing like I was part of your property

Remembering all the times you fought with meI’m surprised it got so (far)

Things aren’t the way they were beforeYou wouldn’t even recognize me anymore

Not that you knew me back thenBut it all comes back to me

In the end

You kept everything inside and even though I tried, it all fell apartWhat it meant to me will eventually be a memory of a time when...

I tried so hardAnd got so farBut in the end

It doesn’t even matterI had to fallTo lose it all

But in the endIt doesn’t even matter

I've put my trust in youPushed as far as I can go

For all thisThere’s only one thing you should know

I've put my trust in youPushed as far as I can go

For all thisThere’s only one thing you should know

I tried so hardAnd got so farBut in the end

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It doesn’t even matterI had to fallTo lose it all

But in the endIt doesn’t even matter

"From The Inside"

I don’t know who to trust no surprise(Everyone feels so far away from me)

Heavy thoughts sift through dust and the lies(Trying not to break but I’m so tired of this deceit)

(Every time I try to make myself get back up on my feet)(All I ever think about is this)(All the tiring time between)

(And how trying to put my trust in you just takes so much out of me)

[Chorus]

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Take everything from the inside and throw it all awayCuz I swear for the last time I won’t trust myself with you

Tension is building inside steadily(Everyone feels so far away from me)

Heavy thoughts forcing their way out of me(Trying not to break but I’m so tired of this deceit)

(Every time I try to make myself get back up on my feet)(All I ever think about is this)(All the tiring time between)

(And how trying to put my trust in you just takes so much out of me)

[Chorus]Take everything from the inside and throw it all away

Cuz I swear for the last time I won’t trust myself with you

I won’t waste myself on youYouYou

Waste myself on youYouYou

I’ll take everything from the inside and throw it all awayCuz I swear for the last time I won’t trust myself with you

Everything from the inside and just throw it all awayCuz I swear for the last time I won’t trust myself with you

YouYou

Menurut Arief Rachman, ada empat sebab penutupan sebuah program studi. Pertama, setelah dievaluasi, kualitas pgrogram studi bersangkutan kurang baik dan tidak memenuhi standar.

Kedua, karena program studi bersangkutan sudah jenuh. Dalam arti, tamatannya sudah banyak tersebar. Sementara itu di lain pihak, ketersediaan lapangan pekerjaan untuk program bersangkutan sudah sangat terbatas.

Ketiga, manajemen dari program studi atau fakultas tersebut kurang baik sehingga peminatnya sangat sedikit.

Keempat, program studi terpaksa ditutup karena secara administrasi dan legal tidak memenuhi persyaratan yang ditentukan oleh Departemen Pendidikan Nasional.

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Social casework, representing that part of social work which focused more on the individual, had a vital non-poverty populations. Social work's prestige was raised through work in war-related activities such as the Red Cross's Home Service. Caseworkers with the home service, led by Mary Richmond, applied their skills to problems faced by service men and their families. Physicians, psychiatrists and psychologists working with emotionally disturbed soldiers saw the social worker as a natural ally. They began using caseworkers as specialists in social adjustment. Such vital activities were outside the profession's traditional constituency of the poor and indigent and opened up new opportunities for social work.

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The second major event that marked social casework‟s ascendancy within social work was the publication of Mary Richmond's Social Diagnosis. For several decades, Ms. Richmond had been attempting to turn the practical but rough-hewn techniques and skills commonly known as casework into a more systematic approach. After honing her ideas through workshops, lectures and articles, Ms. Richmond put her ideas into a book which was the first definitive text on casework. Much more than just another book, Social Diagnosis, gave to the new field of social work an anchor in its quest for professionalism. In 1915, noted authority of professional education, Abraham Flexner, had delivered a paper at the National Conference on Charities and Corrections declaring that social work was not yet a profession. In his paper, Dr. Flexner was particularly critical of the new field's lack of a technique which was "communicable through the educational process". Mary Richmond, through Social Diagnosis, gave social work what Dr. Flexner said it was lacking and propelled casework from one of a number of approaches used by charity workers into a major form of practice.

“Social Case work may be defined as the art of doing different things for and with different people by cooperating with them to achieve at one and the same time their own and society‟s betterment.” Mary Richmond (1915)

Social Case Work

Social Case Work, a primary method of social work, is concerned with the adjustment and development of individual towards more satisfying human relations. Better family life, improved schools, better housing, more hospitals and medical care facilities, protected economic conditions and better relations between religious groups help the individual in his adjustment and development. But his adjustment and development depend on the use of these resources by him. Sometimes due to certain factors, internal or external, he fails to avail existing facilities. In such situations, social caseworker helps him. Thus,

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social casework is one to one relationship, which works in helping the individual for his adjustment and development.

Bimbingan Sosial Perorangan, merupakan metode utama pekerjaan sosial, yang berhubungan dengan penyesuaian dan pengembangan individu terhadap hubungan manusia yang lebih memuaskan. Kehidupan keluarga yang lebih baik, perbaikan sekolah, perumahan yang lebih baik, rumah sakit dan fasilitas perawatan medis, perlindungan kondisi ekonomi dan hubungan yang lebih baik antara kelompok agama untuk membantu individu dalam penyesuaian dan perkembangannya. Namun penyesuaian dan perkembangannya tergantung pada penggunaan sumber daya yang dimiliki. Kadang-kadang karena faktor-faktor tertentu, internal atau eksternal, ia gagal untuk memanfaatkan fasilitas yang ada. Dalam situasi seperti itu, petugas sosial sosial membantu dia. Dengan demikian, kerja kasus sosial adalah salah satu untuk satu hubungan, yang bekerja dalam membantu individu untuk penyesuaian dan perkembangannya.

Every individual reacts differently to his social, economic and physical environments and as such problems of one individual are different from those of another. The practice of casework is a humanistic attempt for helping people who have difficulty in coping with the problems of daily living. It is one of the direct methods of social work which uses the case-by-case approach for dealing with individuals or families as regards their problems of social functioning. Case work, aims at individualized services in the field of social work in order to help the client to adjust with the environments.

Setiap individu bereaksi berbeda terhadap lingkungan sosial, ekonomi dan fisik dan sebagai masalah seperti satu individu berbeda dari yang lain. Praktek kerja kasus adalah upaya humanistik untuk membantu orang yang mengalami kesulitan dalam mengatasi masalah kehidupan sehari-hari. Ini adalah salah satu metode langsung pekerjaan sosial yang menggunakan kasus-per kasus pendekatan untuk berurusan dengan individu atau keluarga dalam hal masalah mereka dari fungsi sosial. Kerja kasus, bertujuan untuk layanan individual di bidang pekerjaan sosial untuk membantu klien untuk menyesuaikan dengan lingkungan.

Origin of Case work

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By working with the poor Social Workers radically realized that forces within the individual and forces external to him contributed for human suffering. Though casework as a mode of helping people on the basis of a person to person relationship was present in every society from ancient times, the professional method of casework originated in U.S.A. in the second decade of this century. One of the earliest organised efforts in U.S.A. to help the poor was the establishment of the American Charity Organization Society (1) in 1877 on the pattern of the Charity Organization of London, which was started seven years earlier. One of the aims of the society was to find out ways and means of helping the poor and needy and thus to organise individualised services geared to this purpose. The society used volunteers, who were called friendly visitors, to visit the homes of the poor for purposes of assessing their need, for rendering material assistance and for giving them guidance and advice. The friendly visitors were subsequently supplemented by 'paid agents'. These paid helpers gradually developed, systematic procedures in performing their tasks. They collected data about the needy individuals and families, and helped them after assessing their need. They also maintained records in which they kept all the information including personal data, as well as the type of help rendered. It was out of the practice of these early workers that casework developed gradually to a professional method in subsequent years. Their collective experience of knowing the poor families and their problems and the concurrent studies of poverty by social scientists broadened the understanding of human behaviour. There was the growing recognition that there were forces within the individual and forces external to him which influenced his behaviour and the nature of his existence in society. In course of time the terms 'paid agents' and 'the poor' were supplanted by caseworkers and clients respectively in the terminology of the help giving organisation and the office of the organisation came to be known as the agency.

Mary Richmond's Contribution to Social Case Work

Mary Richmond's book, Social Diagnosis, which was published in 1917 may be considered as the first book in casework. It set forth a methodology of helping clients through systematic ways of assessing their problems and handling them. Besides, the book introduced the principle of individualization and also acknowledged the client's right of self-determination. The first training programme for caseworkers was in the form of summer courses. Then the

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need for more substantial training was found necessary and schools of social work, attached to agencies, came into existence. When these schools attained a certain standing in the community, they were recognized as professional schools under the administrative authority of universities.

What Social Workers learned from Freudian psychology & Economic depression

Freudian psychology which emerged in the 1920s had a strong impact on casework. The new psychoanalytical knowledge pertaining to human behaviour was eagerly absorbed by caseworkers which was found useful in understanding clients and their problems. During this period of development, caseworkers focused their attention on psychic forces within the individual. During the economic depression of the 1930s casework had to consider the economic factors which were causing distress to clients. There was also the realization that economic distress could lead to emotional distress and breakdown. One major outcome of the depression was the establishment of governmental public assistance programs. It relieved the voluntary agencies from the tasks of providing economic help which enabled the caseworkers to devote more time in dealing with clients' interpersonal problems.

Broadening the understanding–From self to interaction with others

During the 1940s, caseworkers were exposed to the formulations on ego psychology based on the observations of human beings as regard's their differential coping and adapting abilities in times of stress. The new studies on human behaviour brought to light the potentialities of the human personality for healthy adaptation to life's stresses. During the next two decades, some casework theoreticians began to examine sociological concepts like social role, social system, social class, etc., with reference to their applicability to casework situations. The result was the shifting of the focus from the self of the individual to his continuous interactions with his significant others in social settings.

American casework did influence the use of casework in India as the first professional social workers who did casework in the Indian setting were trained in the American schools of social work. Casework was one of the courses taught when the Sir Dorabji Tata Graduate School of Social Work, currently known as the Tata Institute of Social Sciences, was started in Bombay in 1936, and it became a method of practice in helping people with their problems of social functioning. Some social welfare agencies employed caseworkers particularly with the purpose of helping their clients in a one-to-one relationship. Currently, the so-called caseworkers attached to some welfare services are not trained social workers, and those professionally

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trained social workers who use the method of casework considerably in their work are not given the designation of caseworkers as they are likely to use other methods as well.

Causes of Human Problems as conceived by Social Case Workers Problems of social functioning cause distress to the individuals who come voluntarily or involuntarily to a social work agency for help. What is important to note here is that these individuals are not to be considered as one of a mass of people or a unit of a category, but as unique persons. Casework method in social work is an indication of the high value placed on the individual by the profession. Those people who seek social work help for their problems of living do so because their normal coping methods are not effective in dealing with the particular problems. There are reasons why individuals find their normal coping patterns ineffective in the face of some problems. These reasons may be broadly divided into five categories. 1. Lack of material resources: Social work agencies do not have financial resources to give assistance to people who seek material help. But, when, lack of money makes it difficult for an individual to deal with a particular situation effectively, it is likely that he can obtain financial help through the services of a caseworker, depending upon the nature of the situation and the policy of the agency. For example, it is possible for an amputee who is poor and who is a patient in a general hospital to get monetary help through the social work department of the hospital for buying artificial limbs.

2. Misconceptions about situations and relationships and lack of appropriate information: Wrong notions about things prevent people from handling difficult situations effectively. Many people have superstitious beliefs about diseases which prevent them from taking prompt medical treatment which can cure the disease. For example, if a man believes that his child's epileptic fits are caused by the possession of a devil, he is likely to try remedies which will worsen the condition. Sometimes it is ignorance of existing services and resources which delays action. Help is required to correct distorted perceptions and for obtaining essential information.

3. Illness or health related handicaps: Physical and mental illness and health related handicaps of various types make people helpless or irrational in the face of difficulties. For instance, when in a family the father is ill, the mother will have to bear extra burden and face problems alone for which she may require outside help. The patient and his family may need help to accept the illness of the former and to make realistic plans for the present and future.

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4. Emotional distress resulting from stressful situations: In certain situations strong feelings are aroused which make a person incapable of acting sensibly. For instance, when a father comes to know of his adolescent son's delinquent activities he may feel so upset and ashamed that he may want to throw the boy out of the house and to sever all his connections with him. In such situations the emotionally upset person needs someone to whom he can verbalize his feelings freely. Verbalization will reduce the need to act out irrationally and set the mind clear for objective thinking.

5. Personality features or deficiencies:

Defective features of one's personality not only create problematic situations for oneself and others but also make one incapable of solving problems of life. If a little girl is brought up by her mother in the strong belief that her father who deserted the family was a bad man and that all men are likewise bad, it is probable that the girl will have a difficult relationship with her husband when she later marries. The generalized wrong idea may get deeply implanted in the daughter's personality during childhood and she may not be even aware of it as she grows into adulthood. There are innumerable problems of this type effecting human relationships, caused by unhealthy attitudes and reactions which are deeply embedded in the personality. Here, the remedy lies in helping the persons concerned to develop insight about their own reactions and learn to act consciously and appropriately rather than react automatically to situations.

Definitions of Social Case Work Mary Richmond (1915) “Social Case Work may be defined as the Art of doing different things with different people, co-operating with them to achieve some of their own & society‟s betterment.” Mary Richmond (1917) Social case work is the art of bringing about better adjustments in the social relationship of individual men or women or children Mary Richmond (1922) Social case work means, „those processes which develop personality through adjustment consciously affected, individual by individual, between men and their social environment‟ Jarrett (1919) Social case work is “the art of bringing an individual who is in a condition of social disorder into the best possible relation with all parts of his environment‟. Taft (1920)

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Social case work means “social treatment of a maladjusted individual involving an attempt to understand his personality, behaviour and social relationships and to assist him in working out better social and personal adjustment”. Watson (1922) Social Case Work is the art of untangling and restructuring the twisted personality in such a manner that the individual can adjust himself to his environment

Queen (1932) Social case work is the art “of adjusting personal relationship”. Lee (1923) Social case work is the art of changing human attitudes” Taylor (1926) Social case work is a process concerned with the understanding of individuals as whole personalities and with the adjustments of these to socially healthy lives Raynolds (1935) Social case work is the processes of counseling with a client on a problemwhich are essentially his own, involving some difficulty in his social relationship. Raynods (1935) Social case work is that form of social work which assists the individual which he suggests to relate himself to his family, his natural group , his community Klein (1938) Social case work is a technical method in social work…. A way of adjusting to the client to his personal problems. Swift (1939) Social case work is the art of assisting the individual in developing and making use of his personal capacity to deal with problems which he faces in his life. DeSchweiinitz (1939) Case work means those processes involved in giving service, financial assistance, or personal counsel to individuals by the representatives of social agencies, according to polices established and with consideration of individual need. Strode (1948) Social case work is the process of assisting the individual to best possible social adjustment through the use of social case study, social resources and knowledge from relative fields of learning. Towle (1947) Social case work is one method ….by which certain social services are made available in areas of unmet needs. Bowers (1949) Social case work is an art in which knowledge of the sciences of human relations and skill in relationship are used to mobilize capacities in the

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individual and resources in the community appropriate for better adjustment between the client and all or any part of his total environment. Hollis (1954) “Social Case work is a method employed by social worker to help individuals find solution to problems of social adjustment which they are unable to handle in satisfactory way by their own efforts.” Gordon Hamilton (1956) “Social case work (which is both a tool and area of work) consists of those processes which develop personality through adjustment consciously affected, individual by individual between man and his social environment.” Gordon Hamilton In social case work the client is stimulated to participate in the study of his situation, to share plans, to make an effective effort to solve his problems, using his own resources and whatever community resources are available and appropriate. Perlman (1957) “Social Case work is a process used by certain human welfare agencies to help individuals to cope more effectively with their problems in social functioning.”

Safrad “Social Case Work is a method employed by a social worker to help individual, find a solution of their problem of social adjustment which they are unable to handle in a satisfactory way by their own effort.” Objectives of Social Case Work To make good rapport with the common people To find-out, understand & solve the internal problems of an individual To strengthen ones ego power To prevent problem To develop internal resources

Nature & Characteristics of Case Work Relationship arise out of shared & emotionally charged situation Relationship contains elements of acceptance, expectation, support & stimulation Client & case worker are interdependent Case work relationship may have several therapeutic values Improvement of condition More adjustment within the society Development of personality Capacity building

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Relationship needs outside help Case worker too has relationship reactions and part of and part of one‟s professional skills

in their management Components/elements of case work: Purpose & concern for the client system A purpose to find-out internal problems & try to solve it and a concern to make good rapport, feel ones feelings and aims at individualized service

Expectation at three level -Expectation of the case worker from the client, how the case worker feels about the clients ability & what extend client support anybody -Expectation of the client from the Case worker -Positive result in the period of interaction

Accuracy of Empathy and clear communication - Think positively in others point of view - What extent you are sympathetic - Ability to perceive & communicate accurately & feel - Case worker should be sensitive to express feelings towards client by voice, posture and

good communication

Non Possessive warmth

Give respect, acceptance,

liking, caring and concern

for the client in a non-

dominating way.

Genuineness and

acceptance

Case worker mist be

practical in nature. He must be a person of genuineness being real, honest in their approach and never go beyond her/his limit.

Authority Case worker must have a capacity to handle any situation, being resourceful and helpful Having knowledge, attitude, experience and a position to identify and solve internal problem of client

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menyinggung tentangpraktik pekerja sosial. Begitupun dengan UU No.4 Tahun 2007 Tentang PenyandangDisabilitas, UU Kedokteran, dan UU Tentang Keperawatan yang notabene jugaberkaitan dengan pekerja sosial.

Dijelaskan Salim, tiga UU telah membahas pekerjaan sosial, yakni UU Kesejahteraan Sosial No. 11 tahun 2009 tentang pekerja sosial profesional sebagai bagian dari unsur sumber daya manusia di bidang kesejahteraan sosial, UU No. 23 tahun 2004 tentang penghapusan kekerasan dalam rumah tangga, dan UU No. 3 tahun 1997 tentang pengadilan anak. Namun, UU itu tidak sampai pada pengaturan sistem praktiknya.

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