For Primary School Students Grades 5-7 Linnea Mead S237572
ETL111
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What bullying is Statistics Your rights Why Bullies hurt others
How it can affect you Signs of bullying Ideas : How you can help
yourself Cyber-bullying School Help for Bullies and Victims Web
Help for Bullies and Victims Bully Free Zone poster Contract &
discussion References This presentation, is designed for primary
school children, Grades 5-7, and will demonstrate: STOP
Bullying
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ItsNOT your your fault fault Bullying is : A person or a group
who tries to hurt or control another person - hitting/punching -
fighting - pushing - kicking - stealing things that belong to you -
something said that is not nice - name calling - making fun of your
family - teasing - talking about others behind their back - making
you do things you dont want to - comments about the way you look -
excluding you from friendships - not letting you join in - making
friendships conditional - use of computers or mobile phones to
threaten, annoy or humiliate you *physical *emotional * social *
cyber-bullying
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MMost children at school have either been bullied; bully
others; witnessed bullying 1 child in every 5 are bullied regularly
at school 440% of suicide victims were bullied at school Sadly,
most times, bullies are just as upset as victims Bullying must STOP
NOW Say NO to bullying
http://www.bullying.com.au/school-bullying/index.php (Victorian
Coroner 2007)
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have a right to: feel safe be safe from bullying, harassment
and cyber-bullying. ALL need to show: rrespect for ourselves and
each other rrespect for property and environment rresponsibility
for our own behavior ppositivity in our relationships
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Some people bully for many reasons: LLow self esteem LLack of
self confidence TTry to gain power TTo look cool TTo feel cool and
important TTo fit into a group TTo get their own way BBecause they
are unhappy SSeeking attention CCopying what they see CCopying what
has been done to them
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YOU have a right to feel safe and be treated with respect +
fairness Guilty like its your fault Hopeless Alone; lonely Like you
dont fit in Depressed/sad Unsafe Scared Confused Stressed Ashamed
Hurt Sick Being bullied can make you feel:
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You or your friends may: BBe afraid to go anywhere alone HHave
nightmares/cant sleep HHave trouble at school BBe scared all the
time LLook scared all the time HHave poor concentration at school
FForget homework WWear ripped/dirty clothes HHave unexplained
bruises/scratches HHave a sudden change in friends BBe upset HHide
messages on phones/computers LLack of food at school
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55% of our message is from body language-Stand tall ( Dosani,
2008) Say NO Dont give the bully a chance avoid them if you can
Dont do what the bully asks Be brave Feel good about you YOU are
important and valued GET a buddy and BE a buddy Tell an adult at
the school if you are being bullied Tell an adult at the school if
you see someone bullied Tell your parents Dont let the bully know
you are upset or scared Learn ways to stand up to the bully
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Cyber-bullying uses: mmobile phones eemails wwebsites cchat
rooms oother social networking sites to ttease ssend nasty or
threatening messages mmake unwanted telephone calls ssend hurtful
information mmake/send unwanted photos and comments
http://antibullyingblog.blogspot.com.au/2011/11/anti-bully-slogans-for-school.html
Dont be mean behind the screen
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Bullies Victims Help to make friends Increase social skills
Self esteem Assertiveness skills Help to control anger
Assertiveness skills Empathy for others Contacting parents FINAL:
suspension from school PRAISE: For kindness, empathy, helping, good
behavior Dealing with conflict
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.Some great websites to help with bullying.
http://au.reachout.com http://www.bullyonline.org
http://www.bullyingnoway.gov.au
http://www.decd.sa.gov.au/speced2/pages/bullying
http://www.kidshelp.com.auTelephone: 1800 55 1800
http://enoughisenough.org.au/site/41/bullying-resilience
http://www.deewr.gov.au/Schooling/NationalSafeSchools/Pages/national
safeschoolsframework.aspx
http://kidshealth.org/kid/feeling/emotion/bullies.html
http://www.stopbullyingnow.com/index.htm
http://www.actnow.com.au/Issues/Bullying.aspx
http://www.kenrigby.net http://www.lifeline.org.au/Telephone: 13 11
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This is a BULLY FREE ZONE SayNOToBullyingNOW
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1.Class discussion about bullying 2.Create a poster showing NO
bullying (example in previous slide) 3.Role play practice group
scenarios and saying NO to a bullies 4.Discuss and create an
anti-bullying contract 5.Discuss ideas and consequences for those
who become a bully 6.Create a bully box to report bullying
I:________________________, (students name) promise to do
everything I can as a member of my school, to make and keep a
physically/emotionally safe environment. I promise not to bully my
classmates. I promise to report it to an adult and/or the bully box
if I witness bullying. Signed: _______________ _______________
_______________ Student Parent/Guardian Teacher
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