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“Emotions in intrafamily

business transfers”

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Matti KOIRANENUniversity of Jyväskylä

Vincent MOLLYKU Leuven

Toni BRUNELLOStudioCentroVeneto

Marie DEPELSSEMAKERTRANSEO

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FACTORS SHAPING THE SUCCESS OF A

SMALL / MEDIUM-SIZED BUSINESS TRANSFER

Matti Koiranen, Professor emeritus

School of Business and Economics, University of

Jyväskylä, Finland

[ GENS OY ]

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BUSINESS TRANSFERS ARE CONTEXTUAL. THERE ARE SIMILARITIES BUT ALSO DIFFERENCES

• Seller’s situation: Voluntary vs. Forced sell-out; Planned vs. Unexpected;

Company vs. Business vs. Part of Business; Seller’s initiative vs. Someone else’s

initiative; Founder vs. Non-founder; Individual or Collective

• Buyer’s situation: Family member vs. Outsider; Individual or Collective; Ex-

competitor vs. Newcomer; MBO, Merger or Acquisition;

• Situation in the target to be transferred: Part of portfolio vs. the only one;

Profitable vs. Loss-making; Predictable vs. unpredictable future; Slow-

growing vs. fast-growing business environment; Turbulent vs. stable

environment; Fragmented vs. closely-held ownership (before, now, after)

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WHAT IS TRANSFERRED?

• Ownership ? Legal-economic vs. Psychological vs. Socio-symbolic status. Ownership as a position, structure, task or relationship.

• Management and Leadership ? Can be transferred with/without the change in ownership. Earlier or later or solely. Power and Responsibility i.e. Rights and Obligations; Gradually (stepwise) or as a quantum jump.

• Visible vs. invisible items of the Balance Sheet. Goodwill or Badwill ? Accumulated knowhow and knowledge (human capital); Business Relationships(social capital); Image (reputational capital); Intellectual Property Rights (intellectual and immaterial capital)

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WHY IS IT IMPORTANT TO COGITATE THE HUMAN FACTORS INVOLVED ?

• A SME transfer typically has legal, economic, mental and social consequences.

• May have a major impact on the stakeholder balance.

• Often a social drama which has an impact on the buyer and seller, their nearest and dearest(like family), and the staff

• Human considerations often take much longer time than do legal and economicconsiderations.

• Many SME’s are family-owned and family-driven. In family firms, there is a mixed interest of family economy and business economy which requires parallel planning between the two.

• The most advantegous financial alternative does not always work best in practice.

• The target of transfer is typically a combination of economic and emotional wealth

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SUFFICIENT PREPARATION TIME IS NEEDED

• The seller’s motives may be very different from the buyer’s motives. The emotionalwealth is often valued very differently.

• The seller is giving up and moving out, whereas the the buyer is entering in. There is an information asymmetry between the negotiating parties, which can be partlyreduced with a proper Due Diligence Process.

• The evaluation of a not-publicly-quoted company can be difficult and open to various interpretations.

• The process itself may involve many steps, like non-disclosure agreement, letter of intent, due diligence analysis, S/P contract, non-competition clause etc.

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ALTERNATIVES ARE MANY

• Selling-out and buying the whole company

• Selling-out and buying a part of the company

• Selling-out and buying just the business, but not the firm

• In-family succession: Trade, Gift, Pre-inheritance, Inheritance

• Targeted emission of shares to the new owner

• Buying out the old owner by using the company’s free equity capital as a payment of the shares

• Combination merge or Acquisition for merge

• Management-buy-out; Personnel-buy-out

• Leveraged buy-out by using future earnings as the method of payment

• Use of a venture capital company to make the process possible

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TYPICAL REASONS TO FAVOUR IN-FAMILY SUCCESSIONS

• Desire to maintain the ownership and management in the family. Family tradition orheirloom. ”Successful transition is creating a legacy, not just passing a business” (McCollom)

• Confidence in the successful continuation of business

• Often a minor change in the stakeholder relationships

• Desire to maintain closely-held ownership with recognizable ”faces”. Cf. the faceless and heartless ownership of publicly-quoted companies as manifested by the institutionalowners.

• Thinking is strongly influenced by the emotional aspects, such as psychologicalownership, the future of next generation, trust, and altruism. Thinking is influenced bymultirationality.

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TYPICAL REASONS TO AVOID IN-FAMILY SUCCESSIONS

• The next generation is not willing, competent or committed to continue, or there is no potential family member to continue

• The momentum is optimal now for the cash-out of one’s lifework

• Sometimes taxation or financial reasons

• Emotional burden: Feeling fed-up of the troubles or sacrifices caused by thefamily business as seen from the individual’s or the family’s perspective

• The business concept has become obsolete and cannot easily be renewed

• Conflicts between family members, such as nepotism, sibling rivalry, lack of trust, or disputes may be an obstacle.

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PITFALLS OF IN-FAMILY SUCCESSION

• Insufficient preplanning

• Too limited knowledge of various alternatives

• Unprepared next generation

• Conflicting interests between the generations or between the siblings or cousins

• The loss of identity as experienced by the retiring generation. Business is sometimes seenas a symbol of life.

• The retiring generation cannot decide who would be the best representative of the familyas the main new owner or manager. Equality is not always fair or equitable.

• Talking about the succession can be a taboo in the family. This delay or ”silence” maylead to the situation of the forced and unplanned , delayed succession.

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META COMPETENCES AND QUALIFICATIONS NEEDED IN SUCCESSFUL SME TRANSFERS

• Resourcefulness: to see alternatives and to overcome constraints

• Empathy: the ability and power of imaginatively enter into and understand another’s feelings; emotional intelligence

• Respect: the attitude of deference

• Adaptability and resilience

• Communication skills (Remember to communicate with two ears, two sides of brains and - only -one mouth)

• Integrity (both in sell-outs and in successions), incl. keeping promises.

• Understanding that often the process is slower and more complicated than one would expect at thebeginning or as seen from the external’s perspective

• Humbleness to ask for help and advise

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Emotional dynamics in

family business

succession

Prof. dr. Vincent Molly

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Content

• Introduction• Insights from Belgium• Emotions in times of succession• Importance of communication• Role of a coach• Conclusion

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1Introduction

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Houshi video : https://vimeo.com/114879061

“My sister has always been dad’s favorite””Why is dad not listening to us”

“My brother cannot be trusted, not as a child, and not now”“Me quitting? Never of my life”

“My kids? No, they are not interested! I guess…”

Introduction

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2Insights from Belgium

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Business transfer intentions

N = 421 Number Percent

Family succession 223 53%

External sale 164 39%

Liquidation 34 8%

Total 396 100%

Succession intentions

Source: Antwerp Management School, 2015

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Succession planning:

1. Financial reasons (ownership)

2. Family reasons (ownership + management)

3. Economic reasons (ownership + management)

4. Incumbent does not want to hand over (management)

5. Other

Biggest obstacles

Source: Antwerp Management School, 2015

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3Emotions in times of succession

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Actors involved

Incumbent

Hesitant

Suspicious

Attached

Anxious

Unsure

Concerned

Lonely

Partner

Unpleasant

Not involved

Anxious

Uncomfortable

Successor

Unsure

Impatient

Inhibited

Under-appreciated

Disappointed

Miss-understood

Family

Restless

Concerned

Jealous

Frustrated

Employees

Unsure

Powerless

Anxious

Insecure

Source: Antwerp Management School, 2015

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Incumbent: letting go

1. Monarchs

2. Generals

3. Ambassadors

4. Governors

Emotional challenges

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Incumbent: tips

• From child to grandchild

• Don’t stay if you cannot leave

• Give space and freedom

• Clear roles and stick to them

Emotional challenges

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Successor: challenges

1. Succession as a yoke

2. Feeling obliged

3. Being put in boxes

4. Generation gap

Emotional challenges

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Successor: tips

• Follow your heart (affective commitment)

• (External experience)

• Dare to jump

• Co-creation

• Give space

Emotional challenges

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Covering it up:

• Pretend there are no conflicts

• Avoid conflict out of love

• Perception that talking will make

things worse

Emotional challenges

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Unspoken emotions will drive business decisions:

• Typical difficult subjects:• Remuneration, entrance and promotion family

members, ownership, treatment of family members

• Deeper underlying emotions:• Feelings of being neglected, need for parental love,

lack of trust, favouritism, impartiality

Emotional challenges

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4Importance of communication

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• Listening

• Avoid triangle communication

• Start from your feelings

• Put yourself in the other’s shoes

• Communication platform• Fixed meeting schedule

• Get a neutral partner on board

• Think broad about who will sit around the table

Communication

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5Role of a coach

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• The coach offers:• Neutrality, objectivity

• Mediation

• A sounding board

• A disciplining factor

• The coach helps to get insight into:• The emotions that are at play

• The different voices withing the business family

• The needs behind the emotions

Role of a coach

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6Conclusion

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“If you don’t evade the emotional challenges during family business

succession, the businesslike implementation will almost automatically

follow”

Conclusion

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Prof. dr. Vincent MollyAntwerp Management School

[email protected]

Thank you

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Toni Brunello

Member of the European Commission Expert Groups on Business Transfer

StudioCentroVeneto – Italy

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Managing intra-family emotions in Business Transfer processes

A call to considering the individual human role

KÖLN – 25 May 2016

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Effective transfer failureEfficient transfer planning

A basic practical conflict

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In family business

What is success, what is failure?

Annette Lawson

Tavistock Institute,

Gender equality paladine

A previous provocation

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Who’s safe?

Large small micro

The power of single individual person

veto

businesses

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How to deal with field emotions?

The problems we have just mentioned about different sized businesses

ARE NOT LINKED TO TAX, LEGAL, FINANCIAL OR SIMILAR ASPECTS***

THEY ARE LINKED TO EMOTIONS, TO SINGLE INDIVIDUALS EMOTIONS

This is why this presentation is focused on how to deal with the practical emotional side

It is a report from the inside mission

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Field experience: the predominant role of individual emotions

Leaders (power people )

≠family members, partners

Advisor same need: to promote

mindset/heartset changes

How can we

govern and manage them?

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A basic difference. A. Leaders

Only understand the language of facts

Some “speaking situations” must be arranged *

•e.g. Padua University experience:• in Senior vs. Junior conflict decision making:•A. Senior: imposes his will by “a blow on the desk!”•B. Junior: poses a fait accompli

•(by taking an inner entrepreneurial risk)

-The voice of a colleague is more important than of an “expert”

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A basic difference. B. Family members, partners

When they feel they areunderstood and respected

they also accept advice

Then a planned, steady, systematic action

can be successful

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From the point of view of a Family Business consultant

Some suggestions for Colleagues (Advisors) after personal field-and-desk experience

How to front this trend?

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1. Be tuned with the external scenario

*You can choose amongst several tools. The Shortkit Brunello is a EU recognised Best Practice.

http://www.studiocentroveneto.com/shortkit-brunello_ita.php

Open minded future-oriented approachfor Business Transfer planning

Use reliable tools, including - since the beginning -emotional aspects implications

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Your project:your mainframe,your basic Polar Star

2. Design your Business Transfer Project

Mainly while dealing with emotions

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3. Always keep in mind people will have different mindsets.

What kind of impact on single people feelingsfrom technical “rational” solutions?

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4. Be focused on a multi-channel communication

The same message can sound different for different “actors”

Same role, different player:

expect a different approach,

a different style

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Prevention

Real-time intervention

Preparation

5. Adopt a farsighted systematic approach

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6. Be aware that single people is generally selfish

“Stomach” as Personal Manager

* Since everybody has necessarily•Interpersonal relationship experience in one’s life, •people believe they are expert on behaviour

People’s focus:

one’s own- hard interests- soft emotions - passions

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Authentically

Listen! Listen! Listen!

Not onlythrough your earsand your mind…

… but by your heart too

7. Listen! Listen! Listen!

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8. Talk with people.

Personally talk and involve single people in advance

Your project in your mind: your compass

“Better blushing now,

than feeling embarrassed afterwards”

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… in the world of emotions there is no majority share

Each heart counts as 1!

9. The soft world of emotions...

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- Interpersonal communication

- Real co-operation features

- Interpersonal perception

- Behaviour natural rules

- Group Dynamics rules

- Leadership rules

10. Plan systematic tuning actions

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A first intermediate call to conclusion (and to responsibility)

Since we have realized – as I hope - that - an interpersonal relations management expertise is needed

1. How are we going to front such a need?

2. Are we going to let specific specialists to go on as non-expert peopleabout interpersonal relations?

3. I propose a “thinking pause” in order to systematically take on board, in a balanced teamwork management, multi-competence people in assistance teams

4. And that we promote, at European level, training plans aimed to enhance a practical tuning among different side experts.

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11. Try to be aware of everybody’s needs

Be the transfer project watchdog

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No matter a smile front,every single individual can “present” youwith the unwanted gift of a silent

veto intervention

NEVER underestimatesingle operators unhappiness or unexpected silence

12. Pick-up hidden disagreements

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13. Openly take into account weak people opposition

Weaker family members andsmaller shareholders and players

can generally bring difficulties and strongest stops

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14. Mediate

Practice a direct or mediate

mediation..

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15. Get accustomed with basic behaviour rules

Human behaviour is an iceberg

Learn to read its “logic”

The Maslow Hierarchy of Needs

At least:

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Highest flexibility,Highest strictness

16. Be flexible, be strict!

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17. Be confident in the power of words

Passion is stronger than intelligence, but…

… when they feel they are respected,people can also think together

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18. Be independent from everybody, mainly from the business owner

Don’t quarrel

with the Client system

but …

Pacta sunt servanda

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19. Take your time! (And give it to people)

No hurrying when dealing with emotions

Give people the time they need in order to feel aware of proposed solutions

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Be focused on people priorities, where self-esteem will always be in pole position

Be focused on expectations, not just on data or facts

Never forget Gertrud’s eyes story

20. General Advisor advices

Arrange the first business analysis by one-to-one interviews (never start by group interviews)

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Ladies and Gentlemen,

these are my principles

… and if you do not like them…

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… I have some more!

(… by Groucho Marx)

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Large, small, micro businesses – (negative) field examples (I)

Company size / employees

Large : 1000+

- Pietro, Owner : 4 (female!) daughters, rather than transferring to nephews, prefers:- to sell to others, a third party.

- Franco, a nephew : being refused as successor,- starts a new successful company.

Middle sized : 100+

- Giorgio, Owner : 2 manager daughters in conflict between themselves- Anna, accounting clerk, and - Mary, marketing manager- in order to stop the conflict, Giorgio quickly puts Mary out of the company;

- Mary : 1. immediately, goes out of the family home too; 2. She insists convincing her mother to leave her husband/father; 3. Later, when the company in difficulties needs market energetic contributionshe - in competition with her family business - starts a new successful company.

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Very small : 10+

- Fabio&Monica: (2 + 2 children) are in perpetual fight - Archaic remind : relationship with their father ,with mutual “moral”

accusations- The micro-company doors are closed to children‘s contribution.

- The 4 Children: each one is successful - abroad- in larger structures.

Micro : 2-5 - Giuliano, Owner : (2 children) wants to transfer the company to both.

- Giuseppe, son: jealous of his brother since babyhood:- forces his father’s company failure,- then starts up his own business, competitive in the same sector.

Company size / employees

Large, small, micro businesses – (Negative) field examples (II)

Small : 20+ - Maurizio&Silvano, Founders&Partners:

- Maurizio is better, creative, brain faster.- Silvano - his brother in law – is less brilliant.

- Silvano deliberately slows down the business development, - refusing to be in second position, until the situation falls. He gets to divorce. -- The company restarts competitively.

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Middle sized : 100+

- Gianni, Owner : does not consider his son Andrea as a good successor- Andrea, asks for assistance, and is supported

- technically and on the communication side, in his father relationship- “The harder the conflict, the better for the enterprise future”.- Andrea builds up a renewed company.

- Andrea : 30 years later (!) : conflict with his children Paolo and Ivo; - He asks for assistance again; - Relation difficulties but effective communication mediation- While Paolo and Ivo manage the company with two more internal managers, - Andrea goes twice during 3 months on holidays to Asia deserts….

Large, small, micro businesses – (Positive) field examples (III)

Very small : 10+

- Giorgio & wife Livia : (2 children). Plumbing services. Time to retire! - Alex self – employer in plumbing assistance - Matteo – professional in financial and ICT services – asks for an assistance.

- No former business communication between Parents and Son.

- Problems, confrontation and solution, with father, mother and a minority shareholder.- Giorgio is in anxiety and fear for his child/business health and continuity.

- A transfer project is designed: large amount of psychological contribution.- Successful final Continuity Pact, with a new customer service business re-launch.

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“Emotions in intrafamily

business transfers”