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Keith September 2019 Interpreter An Open & Affirming Congregation The ~ A Note From The Minister I grew up believing sin as the worst that we do, but the heartbreaking truth is sin is always insinuating itself into the best that we do and the holiest we know. The warning sign of any cause, regardless of its initial moral thrust, goad us, in the words of Shakespeare, “to sin in loving virtue.” In Jesus’ parable on the “Wheat and Weeds,” the boss, when told that weeds have been planted among the wheat, sown by an enemy in the wee hours of the morning, replies, “No matter. Do not let that consume you. Let them grow together. At the harvest, we will straighten things out.” I find myself tempted to assume my “wheatiness.” I also know that I am more likely half wheat and half weed. I also know that when I am most like wheat, I am most vulnerable to the vicissitudes of judgment and accusation. When, without humility, if I am right, I will choose as my first course to pull up the weeds around me, the ones who steal my sunlight, the ones who irritate me and threaten my ideology. My sense of rightness overtakes me. What I missed is the nature of the enemy, that the enemy in the night has deliberately sown weeds among the wheat. He then leaves the field, the scene of destruction, but confident that the damage he intends will come to fruition. But how can he be so sure? I sense the enemy understands the nature of wheat, the “good folk.” They will do his job for him. They will pull up the weeds and destroy the wheat as well. The enemy does not have to worry if his intent will be successful. It is a given—good folks becoming bad folks by trying to put bad folks out of business. These days, these perilous days, I continue to think and act from a perspective that fits me spiritually. I rarely question my beginning assumptions. As a person who mentions faith on a regular basis to my congregation, I still marvel at my inability to nail down this rabbi from Nazareth, this golden child of responsible, righteous anger, who sweeps his sacred space clean of charlatans making a buck of pre-packaged temple souvenirs. What I say and how I say it cannot be overemphasized these days. How do I express my convictions without adding to the toxicity of the situation? Without some measure of humility, my faith is subject to spotting. What if faith is best expressed as grace, a quiet noun, experienced as a verb. What if I rest under its soft shadow and inviting light with little consideration of judgment? What if I simply warmed myself with the thought that the ugliest of my scars will be kissed? What if I raised the gate of my heart to those who, by my estimation and dismissal, are lying in wait to hurt me with their brand of religion? What if I engage a wrong with as much love and blessing and forgiveness as it takes to change my life for the better? I confess such humility has never been my sense of how to improve my corner of the neighborhood—to look at what I perceive as evil in the eye and give back a blessing, to try and love people I would never invite home for Sunday dinner. When was the last time I extended toward other people’s pain and disappointment, even when I see them misbehaving out of it? When was the last time I embraced them and their stories without judgment? What if I have been wrong in a way I never imagined—when the need to be right supersedes and proves more promising than any consideration of kindness?

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    Keith

    September 2019

    Interpreter An Open & Affirming Congregation

    Th

    e

    ~ A Note From The Minister I grew up believing sin as the worst that we do, but

    the heartbreaking truth is sin is always insinuating

    itself into the best that we do and the holiest we

    know. The warning sign of any cause, regardless of

    its initial moral thrust, goad us, in the words of

    Shakespeare, “to sin in loving virtue.”

    In Jesus’ parable on the “Wheat and Weeds,” the

    boss, when told that weeds have been planted among

    the wheat, sown by an enemy in the wee hours of the

    morning, replies, “No matter. Do not let that

    consume you. Let them grow together. At the

    harvest, we will straighten things out.”

    I find myself tempted to assume my “wheatiness.” I

    also know that I am more likely half wheat and half

    weed. I also know that when I am most like wheat, I

    am most vulnerable to the vicissitudes of judgment

    and accusation. When, without humility, if I am

    right, I will choose as my first course to pull up the

    weeds around me, the ones who steal my sunlight,

    the ones who irritate me and threaten my ideology.

    My sense of rightness overtakes me.

    What I missed is the nature of the enemy, that the

    enemy in the night has deliberately sown weeds

    among the wheat. He then leaves the field, the scene

    of destruction, but confident that the damage he

    intends will come to fruition. But how can he be so

    sure? I sense the enemy understands the nature of

    wheat, the “good folk.” They will do his job for him.

    They will pull up the weeds and destroy the wheat as

    well. The enemy does not have to worry if his intent

    will be successful. It is a given—good folks

    becoming bad folks by trying to put bad folks out of

    business.

    These days, these perilous days, I continue to think

    and act from a perspective that fits me spiritually. I

    rarely question my beginning assumptions. As a

    person who mentions faith on a regular basis to my

    congregation, I still marvel at my inability to nail

    down this rabbi from Nazareth, this golden child of

    responsible, righteous anger, who sweeps his sacred

    space clean of charlatans making a buck of

    pre-packaged temple souvenirs.

    What I say and how I say it cannot be

    overemphasized these days. How do I express my

    convictions without adding to the toxicity of the

    situation? Without some measure of humility, my

    faith is subject to spotting. What if faith is best

    expressed as grace, a quiet noun, experienced as a

    verb. What if I rest under its soft shadow and

    inviting light with little consideration of judgment?

    What if I simply warmed myself with the thought

    that the ugliest of my scars will be kissed?

    What if I raised the gate of my heart to those who, by

    my estimation and dismissal, are lying in wait to hurt

    me with their brand of religion? What if I engage a

    wrong with as much love and blessing and

    forgiveness as it takes to change my life for the

    better?

    I confess such humility has never been my sense of

    how to improve my corner of the neighborhood—to

    look at what I perceive as evil in the eye and give

    back a blessing, to try and love people I would never

    invite home for Sunday dinner. When was the last

    time I extended toward other people’s pain and

    disappointment, even when I see them misbehaving

    out of it? When was the last time I embraced them

    and their stories without judgment? What if I have

    been wrong in a way I never imagined—when the

    need to be right supersedes and proves more

    promising than any consideration of kindness?

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    ~ Notes From Council August Meeting Moderator Laura Emmer called the meeting to order. Joys and concerns were shared by Council members

    and Keith Stuart led the opening prayer.

    Minister’s Report

    Keith made 679 contacts in July and August by telephone, email or visitation.

    Treasurer’s Report

    Total income for the month of July was $33,761 and expenses were $38,501.

    We are at 62% of our pledged income, compared to 57% at this time last year.

    Christian Education

    Work is progressing on implementing the Godly Play Sunday School curriculum.

    Other Business

    Memory Loss Is Preventable, presented by Nate Bergman is Sunday, September 8, at 6:00 p.m.

    Georgann Yonkers assumed the position of Coffee Hour coordinator.

    The Church Picnic is September 15.

    The Christmas Pageant is December 8.

    Still receiving bids on repairing the roof.

    Respectfully submitted,

    Kurt Wiant, Council Clerk

    DID YOU MOVE, CHANGE YOUR PHONE

    NUMBER OR EMAIL?

    Please keep the church office

    informed of changes in your address,

    phone number or email.

    We use your email to send out the

    Church Mouse and our monthly

    newsletter.

    CHECKS TO DOVER CHURCH

    ~ The church office receives many

    checks over the course of a month.

    Many are just made out to Dover

    Church with no indication as to what it is for.

    Articles of 150 words or less about

    your group’s activities & events

    (submissions will be edited for clarity and length).

    The deadline for submissions

    for the October edition is

    Monday, September 23.

    PASSAGES

    We extend joyful congratulations to

    Maria Velez and Aida Colon who were married by Rev. Keith

    on August 25.

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    ~ For Your Information BOOK GROUP

    Monday, September 9, 1:30 p.m.

    A Gentleman of Moscow

    by Amor Towles.

    In 1922, Count Alexander Rostov is

    deemed an aristocrat, and is

    sentenced to house arrest in the

    Metropol, a grand hotel across the

    street from the Kremlin. Rostov has

    never worked a day in his life, and must now live in

    an attic room while some of the most tumultuous

    decades in Russian history are unfolding outside the

    hotel’s doors.

    A Gentleman of Moscow is brimming with humor, a

    glittering cast of characters, and one beautifully

    rendered scene after another. It casts a spell as the

    count endeavors to gain an understanding of what it

    means to be a man of purpose.

    We meet in the parlor. Our discussions are lively,

    friendly and fun.

    A LITTLE BIT OF EVERYTHING

    EVENING BOOK CLUB

    Monday, September 17 , 6:45 p.m.

    Our September selection is The

    Storyteller’s Secret by Sejal

    Badani.

    Nothing prepares Jaya for the heartbreak of her third

    miscarriage and the slow unraveling of her marriage.

    Desperate to assuage her grief, she decides to go to

    India to uncover answers to her family’s past.

    In India she learns about the “struggles, secret love,

    and tragic fall of her pioneering grandmother during

    the British occupation.” This beautifully written

    novel portrays the “unrelenting force of love, the

    power of healing, and the invincible desire to

    dream.”

    Please join us in the parlor for a lively discussion.

    MICAH’S CAFÉ

    Located in Dover Church’s old Bridal

    Room, Micah's Cafe is serving fresh

    brewed coffee, tea and hot chocolate.

    Munchies are available too. We have

    mints, almonds and biscotti.

    All proceeds will go to mission projects. To help,

    please contact Martha at [email protected].

    Sunday, September 8, 6 p.m.

    Dover Church

    Dr. Nate Bergman, DO

    Kemper House, speaker

    Dr. Bergman will present

    ways to achieve optimal brain

    health for adults

    at every age and stage.

    For the first time, we are seeing research and results

    that give hope in the fight to prevent and treat

    cognitive decline. The key is knowing and getting

    ahead of it early!

    The program is for anyone who is interested in

    improving their cognitive health, at risk for

    developing cognitive decline or living with

    dementia and needing guidance.

    Sign up at our Hub and invite your

    friends and family.

    Coming in October

    Dover Watercolorists Art Show & Sale

    Sunday, October 20, during coffee hour.

    Hosted by the Dover Watercolorists

    who meet at Dover Church

    Refreshments will be served.

    Open to the public at 11:30 a.m.

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    ~ For Your Information

    ~ On Dover’s Website

    www.doverucc.org

    ~ PLAY IT AGAIN ~ Want to hear Keith’s terrific sermon again? At the home page, click on the

    ‘Who We Are’ drop down tab and select Worship Services & Sermon, then Sermon

    Archive.

    ~ CONTRIBUTIONS ~ To make your contributions to Dover Church: at the home page click on the

    ‘Supporting Dover-Our Offerings’ drop down tab and follow the directions.

    ~ PICTURES~ Photos of current church activities are posted under pictures. To have your activity included,

    just email photos to the church office.

    ~ Christian Education

    The Christian Education program is

    excited to debut our new curriculum,

    Godly Play in September. Join us on

    Sunday, September 15 for an Open

    House to learn more about our new

    program model. The Open House will follow

    worship, and conclude before the church picnic

    begins.

    Our classrooms will be open for you to view and

    explore, while a storyteller will lead a sample story

    for those in attendance.

    This method focuses on mindful storytelling while

    using physical representations of characters to allow

    the children to visualize the story as it’s being told.

    Students will be asked “I wonder” questions to foster

    active thought processes, and engage them in faith

    development.

    It is our hope to create a sacred experience for our

    young ones as they develop their faith. We are

    excited for this new beginning, and hope you will

    join us on September 15 to learn more about it.

    Craig and Meghan Jenkins

    “BE OUR GUEST”

    CHURCH PICNIC

    Sunday, September 15,

    12:00 - 2:30 p.m.

    An afternoon of Food and Fun!

    Great Food, Good Friends,

    Balloon Art, Bounce House,

    Yard Games, Crafts, & More!

    Hamburgers, Hot Dogs &

    Fixn’s provided.

    Bring a covered dish to share.

    This Year’s Grill Masters:

    Jeff Hughes & David Knoepp

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    BLESSING BAGS

    Blessing Bags are totes filled with basic

    necessities including: hygiene products,

    water, a blanket, socks, underwear and

    ‘meals ready to eat.’

    Please take one if you drive where the homeless are

    asking for help; you’ll be able to help on the spot.

    You’ll find them in Thomas Hall.

    STREET MINISTRY

    Our next outing for Street Ministry will be Sunday,

    October 20, after worship.

    We always take food to share with those on the

    street. If you don’t feel comfortable going on an

    outing, please consider donating sandwiches or

    soup. And, we have a dedicated group of sorters

    who take your donated clothing and sort it into sizes

    and types. To volunteer, contact Bette English

    at 440-835-5235.

    Please, do not donate any clothing, toiletries or

    underwear we have enough and no more room for

    storage.

    ~ Mission & Caring ~ For Your Information

    MEN OF DOVER RETIRED

    (OR NOT) LUNCH

    The third Tuesday of each month

    at 12:00 Noon

    join us at Mahle’s Restaurant on

    Detroit Road in Westlake.

    A time to enjoy a good lunch

    and the fellowship of other Dover UCC men.

    Reservations not needed.

    SEPTEMBER GATHERING

    A CONVERSATION WITH KEITH

    Monday, September 23

    at 7:00 p.m.

    in Thomas Hall

    Dover women, get your questions ready, it is time to

    ask the pastor, and your probing questions will help

    guide the conversation.

    Soul Sisters is a monthly gathering of the women

    who attend Dover Church. All are invited and

    encouraged to attend. Hope to see you there!

    Lanni Lantery,

    PRAYER GROUP

    Dover’s prayer group will begin meeting

    on Wednesday, September 11, at 9:45 a.m.

    Traditionally the group meets for a brief

    study and to pray for people and concerns

    of the church.

    The group, led by Rev. Keith and Parish Nurse Julie,

    will discuss other prayerful options for the coming

    year. You are invited to join in exploring these new

    possibilities.

    NEIGHBORS IN NEED OFFERING

    The neighbors in Need offering supports

    the UCC’s ministries of justice and

    compassion throughout the United

    States.

    Information and an envelope will be in your bulletin

    on September 29 and the offering will be received on

    October 6.

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    ~ From the Parish Nurse

    MEMORY LOSS CAN BE PREVENTED STARTING NOW!

    Finally, we are starting to hear good news about the

    treatment of memory loss. It can be prevented. It is

    not a hopeless situation and a normal or expected

    part of aging.

    Research and results are giving us hope to fight and

    prevent cognitive decline. According to the Chief

    Scientific Wellness Officer for Kemper Cognitive

    Wellness, Dr. Nate Bergman, the key is knowing and

    getting ahead of it early. In fact, the younger we start

    the better.

    According to the CDC, 60% of adults fear memory

    loss. We fear memory loss more than we fear loss of

    physical abilities. One reason for this, is the

    unfortunate perception that this decline is

    untreatable, inevitable and hopeless.

    We have seen, and maybe personally experienced the

    devastation that severe cognitive impairment, such as

    that seen with a diagnosis of Alzheimer's Disease can

    bring. Not all cognitive impairment is Alzheimer's,

    and not all cognitive impairment is severe. About 6

    million Americans do have Alzheimer's, but an

    additional 16 million are living with some level of

    cognitive impairment.

    Part of the solution lives in the field of functional

    medicine, a model described as an individualized,

    patient-centered and science-based approach

    empowering patients and practitioners to work

    together in order to address the underlying causes of

    disease and promote optimal wellness. A functional

    medicine practitioner will incorporate modalities

    such as nutrigenomics, studying an individual’s

    interaction between nutrients and their genes,

    pathophysiology and biochemistry to optimize

    function.

    Dr. Bergman specializes in this type of medicine. He

    has worked closely with Dr. Mark Hyman, Dr. Dale

    Bredesen and other notable experts in the prevention

    and treatment of cognitive decline. He has a passion

    for preventing memory loss that is personal. He

    himself went to a neurologist as a younger adult in

    his mid-30s because he was experiencing progressive

    and scary memory problems. While he initially tried

    to dismiss the problem, it reached a level of being so

    alarming he could no longer ignore it.

    The final straw came when Dr. Bergman could not

    remember his own address while making

    arrangements for an auto repair. The good news is

    that he learned how to treat this problem, and

    succeeded in turning it completely around with

    adjustments in several lifestyle habits.

    Sunday September 8, 2019 at 6pm, Dr. Bergman

    will share his story, as well as insights and expertise

    in the prevention and treatment of cognitive decline.

    This informative program will be hosted here at

    Dover UCC. More good news: It is free and open to

    the public, although reservations are required by

    calling Virginia at 440-871-1050

    Dr. Bergman's message is important for adults of

    ALL ages. As mentioned, he himself benefitted

    when he was in his mid-30s. He mentions that

    women in their 50s especially have great potential of

    creating positive impact, during this time of

    hormonal change. Again, the key is knowing and

    getting ahead of it early.

    We hope to see adults of all ages in attendance.

    Blessings, Julie Kiefer RN

    Permission to reproduce this article written for

    Westlake/Bay Village Observer was given

    by the author, Lydia Gadd, Director of Westlake

    Center for Community Services.

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    Informal Worship in the Chapel ................................ 8:15 a.m.

    Traditional Worship in the Sanctuary ...................... 10:00 a.m.

    The first Sunday, children & youth are in worship.

    Coffee Hour ............................................................. 11:00 a.m.

    Worship Schedule

    1 8 15 22 29

    Greeters Sue Jachnick

    Martha Vivona

    Sue Jachnick

    Martha Vivona

    Lois Berriker

    Sheri Tool

    Lois Berriker

    Sheri Tool

    Lay

    8:15 a.m.

    Mary Mann

    8:15 a.m.

    Roberta Leach

    8:15 a.m.

    Noreen Thompson

    8:15 a.m.

    Pete Thompson

    8:15 a.m.

    Judy Askin

    Reader 10:00 a.m.

    Jeff Hughs

    10:00 a.m.

    Millie Harley

    10:00 a.m.

    Laura Emmer

    10:00 a.m.

    David Kaschak

    10:00 a.m.

    Amy Keller

    Media

    Sharron

    Wilkins

    Walter

    Kalix

    David

    MacKeigan

    Dave

    Kuhar

    Flowers

    Erna

    Kloos

    Rae-Rita

    Chomoa

    Lucy Bufkin

    Jacquie DelMonte

    Leita

    Spencer Open

    Coffee

    Hour

    Cynthia

    Stuart

    Lauren Falcone

    Sue O’Neil

    Sharron & Don

    Nichols

    Georgann

    Yonkers Open

    ~ Worship Ministry

    Ushers

    September Lucy Bufkin, Jacquie DelMonte, Ruth Kroll, Dorothy Pastura, Carol Riordan

    Please pray for God to be with these individuals, and for them to feel God’s presence in the

    midst of their concerns:

    Marilyn Ashbaugh, Marie Black, Emily Borocz-Johnson, Gerrard (friend of Kevin Kurth),

    Mary Gerdel, Sofia Greer (friend of Jeff & Amanda Hughes), Paul Horning, Nanci Keller

    (Amy Keller’s mother-in-law), Jason (David Wakelee’s partner), Rev. Tom Madden (dear

    friend of Lois & Marilyn), Helen Libens, Shirley Lustek, Guy Mann (Jim Mann’s father),

    Jeff Matos (friend of Jan Jones), Gail Mendel (Bobby Mendel’s mother), Les Nichols, Melissa Nolan, Tanya

    Popi (Dover Church Custodian), Patty Porter (friend of Jane & Larry Coil), Karen Pittak (Lindsey Kaschak

    Pittak’s mother-in-law) Susan Reynolds (sister of Denece Praeger) Linda Reynolds, Donna Shiley, & Pat

    Daily (friends of the Koehlers) Ruth Schneider, Jennifer Shultz (friend of Lauren Falcone), Helen Sima

    (neighbor of Kevin Kurth), Mateo Smith-6 years old (family friend of Deanna Dunbar), Winnie Streicher

    (neighbor of Betty & Mike English), Robin Thomas, and 18 month old Evelyn Turk (child of a friend of

    Lauren Falcon).

  • Page 8

    Rev. Keith Stuart ...........................................Pastor

    Rev. Scott Patterson ...................... Pastor Emeritus

    Rev. John Rinehart .................... Minister of Justice

    Craig Reynolds............................... Music Director

    Jan Jones ................................................... Organist

    Vicki Thompson........................................ Organist

    Virginia Lockmeyer ....... Administrative Secretary

    Gail Schuenemann ...................Financial Secretary

    Julie Kiefer, R. N. ............................. Parish Nurse

    Serving the Church

    Laura Emmer ........................... Council Moderator

    Kathleen Poe ................... Council Vice Moderator

    Kurt Wiant ....................................... Council Clerk

    Larry Coil .................................. Council Treasurer

    Martha Vivona ..................................... Lay Leader

    Meghan & Craig Jenkins .................. CE Directors

    Amanda & Jeff Hughes ................. Youth Advisors

    Katie Alexander and

    Georgann Yonkers ............ Assist. Youth Advisors

    Katie Alexander .................................... Child Care

    The vision of Dover UCC is to seek justice, love kindness and walk humbly with our God.

    OPEN AND AFFIRMING STATEMENT

    Dover Congregational United Church of Christ is an Open and Affirming congregation. We affirm

    that God’s grace is available to all. We welcome people of all ages, genders, races, views, abilities,

    sexual orientations, expressions and identities, ethnic, educational and economic backgrounds into the

    full life and ministry of our church. We declare this in the name of God, whose Son, Jesus Christ,

    welcomed all people into God’s circle of grace.