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The Southern View

July / August 2016 P.L.A.C.E.S. of the South

Love and Happiness ~ Relationships ~ Marriage!

Wendy Broussard & Edward Angel

Corrie Gallien & Rodney Journet Tellin Freeman & Rev. C. James Fontenot

Dr. Stasia Herbert & Durkey McZeal

Welcome

Raynah Faith Journet

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July / August 2016 The Southern View Magazine 2

Susannah Johnson Malbreaux

It’s been a challenging two months, but we can still bring The Southern View for your reading

pleasure. Special “Thank You” to Marquia, Ryan and Corrie for their continued efforts in writ-

ing great articles and stories.

Surely you’ve followed Corrie’s, “A Tale of Motherhood”, well on Sunday, Aug. 14th she

gave birth to Raynah Faith, see page 29. Congrats, Corrie & Rodney.

Send your upcoming events to: [email protected] and, remember to send your

ideas for stories and/or folks to interview.

Publisher’s Message to Readers

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In this issue

Cover: “Love & Happiness”; Readers share “Wedding Memories” and

the birth of Raynah Faith just brings the Relationships and Marriage all

together.

Cover by Susannah Johnson Malbreaux

Love and Happiness 4

Wedding Day Memories 6

Expanding Your Vision: The Hero’s Journey 18 Remembering Jamie Porter James 24

Welcome “Raynah Faith” Journet 29

A Tale of Motherhood, Chapter III 8

You Can Have Your Cake And Eat It Too! 9

The Thoughts of Women 9

What is Black Power? 27

Confused Beyond Belief? 27

Obama: The Dream Realized 28

Twins Always Stand Side by Side 28

Elected Official Spotlight~Senate/Congressional Races 36

What’s in a house? 10 Qualifying Dates for Upcoming Elections 26

Business Spotlight: LaToya Whitlow 22

From The Pulpit: The Power of Agreement-Part I 14

The Passing of Ashley Nicole Metz 29

In every issue

What’s Going On! 12 - 13

Black History Facts 13

A Tribute to Jamie Porter James 24 R.A.P. Rhythm, Art s& Poetry 27-28

It’s Just F.Y.I. 29

In the Spotlight 30 - 31

TSV’s Business Directory 32

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Al Green produced a song that

discussed love and happiness, how it

makes you do wrong and makes you

do right. As the song has lingered

through many households for dec-

ades, the sweet melody of the lyrics

outline just how captivating love can

be. But, the Lord was the first to

outline true love and happiness. Out-

lined in I Corinthians 13:4-8, love has

several aspects. It is patient, kind,

does not envy, and does not boast.

Love is also not proud, does not dis-

honor others, is not self-seeking, not

easily angered, and keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in

evil, but it rejoices in the truth. It

always protects, trusts, hopes, and

always perseveres. Love also never

fails and does not have prophecies.

When there are prophecies, they

cease. And, where there are

tongues, they are stilled. Lastly,

where there is knowledge, it will

pass away. Love is a phenomenal

feeling. However, numerous people

never encounter the love they de-

sire. But, some have been blessed

with love, and even more so, mar-

riage. Although marriage is a topic

that is more associated with divorce

than longevity, marriage is still a

beautiful aspect. While searching for

married couples to interview, two

couples were eager to participate

and share their love story. Both cele-

brating over ten years of life togeth-

er, these couples are involved

Love & Happiness

in the “I Corinthians love.” Both PKs (Preacher Kids) Rev. C.

James Fontenot and Tellin Freeman

Fontenot were married on Septem-

ber 10th and will be celebrating 29

years of marriages. Rev. James is

from Lake Charles, LA and Mrs. Tel-

lin is from Ville Platte, LA. When

Mrs. Tellin was interviewed about

their marriage, she was excited to

provide her wisdom and story.

How was your dating and courting

experience with your spouse?

Wow, our dating and courting

experience was quite challenging, in

that, I, Tellin, was raised from a

strict Christian environment. What

we called dating was courting at

home and couldn't wait to see one

another at church functions, lol.

Was it an instant connection, or did

it take some time? Why or why not?

From my husband’s perspective,

it was an instant connection. When

he met me at church, for the first

time, he said to himself, "She's the

one!!” It did take some time, be-

cause my husband had to come to

grip and accept the idea that we

couldn't go on dates like other

young folks. I was just rebounding

from a distance relationship and I

didn't want to go through the same

ordeal of dating. He understood. We

met in January and in February, I re-

ceived a promise ring on Valentine's

Day; in his words, "I was a keeper.”

We dated a year and was married

nine months after being engaged!!!

Describe your big day.

Our Big Day was an ordinary,

traditional wedding. Being that both

parents were ministers, we did not

have a wedding dance like every-

one had hoped, but we were okay

with that, just having family and

friends there made our day Special.

Why do you think many people do

not value marriage? What has

changed about its meaning?

People do not value marriage be-

cause of being afraid of commitment,

trust and loyalty. The norm is

"Everyone's Living Together and it's

okay, we don't have to be married".

If you had one word to describe

marriage, what would it be? Why did

you choose that word?

Marriage is like a Fruit ~ it's Ap-

pealing to the Eyes, it's Tasteful ~

the more you handle it with care,

you enjoy it, appreciate it, and it

builds its own natural juice, becom-

ing sweeter and sweeter. The word

“cultivate,” in the words of Dr.

Myles Monroe, "A man should culti-

vate his woman, bring out the best in

everything around you, maximize the

potential in everything around you

and to be fruitful.”

Mrs. Tellin closed by stating,

“Don't let anyone try and change or

knock down your bond and friend-

ship, with that old cliché saying, "You

must not trust one another, because

Y'all always together!! Nah, it's called

loving one another, enjoying each

other's company, and appreciating

being with each another.”

CONTINUED ON PAGE 5

By Marquia Whitehead

Rev. C. James and Mrs. Tellin Freeman Fontenot

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Another beautiful married couple

is Dr. Stasia Herbert-McZeal and Mr. Durkey McZeal who have been mar-

ried 14 years. Dr. Stasia is from

Carencro, LA and Durkey is from

Lafayette, LA. Dr. Stasia recounted

their love and her opinion of mar-

riage.

How did you meet?

Durkey used to work with my

brother and he was friends with my

cousin. They would all hang out to-

gether and I saw Durkey at my

brother’s house. We actually spoke

to each other two weeks later.

Was it an instant connection, or did

it take some time? Why or why not?

I don’t think I would say it was

instant. I asked him to dance because

I didn’t want to be bothered with

other guys and asked him to dance.

He bought me breakfast! About

three days later, we went on our

first real date! Music shopping, din-

ner, and a movie. I believe that my

spouse was brought into my life at

the time God felt he was needed! My

grandmother was suffering from can-

cer and I filled my time with spend-

ing time with my spouse (to be) and

his kids. A great diversion for me.

Describe your big day.

We went to city hall and were

married by the Justice of the Peace.

My mother in law made my bouquet,

she is a florist, and the corsages. My

cousin served as my maid of honor.

His brother was the best man. A

week later, we had a reception at a

Love and Happiness ~ CONTINUED

END

should not be taken lightly. Accept-

ing wisdom from those marriages before, while also always exhibiting

God’s love, are necessary in continu-

ing the cycle of love. Many people

may be confused on its meaning, but

the Bible has all the answers!

local restaurant with family and

friends. It was simple. We were mar-

ried on February 1st, and my grand-

mother died on February 22nd and

was buried in the wedding suit I got

married in. It was not the first mar-

riage for either of us, so we kept it

simple!

What is the hardest part about mar-

riage?

The communication! I love to

talk it out---he may not like to listen

to me talk it out! The hardest part is

adjusting to someone’s behavior! No

matter what, your spouse will have

influences that have little to do with

you, and you have to learn to em-

brace them or ignore them. At some

point, you pick the battles and don’t

sweat the small stuff!

Why do you think many people do

not value marriage? What has

changed about its meaning?

I don’t know if everyone does not value marriage. I think that reali-

ty TV has presented a different point

of view of relationships and people

have bought into that. Social media

has allowed people the opportunity

to develop relationships outside

their marriage. Marriage is serious…

if there are problems, try to work

them out, without outside interfer-

ence, if you cannot, it may be neces-

sary to move on.

Dr. Stasia closed by saying,

“Relationships are hard, and mar-

riage is one of the hardest relation-

ships one will ever be a part of. But,

instead of throwing in the towel,

both parties need to talk and find a

balance in the relationship.”

Having insight from these lovely

couples show the true power of

love. Though life and love are not

easy, marriage is a beautiful aspect

that illustrates the true definition of

love. Finding the one person who

can exhibit the love shown in Corin-

thians is an extraordinary feeling.

God has strategically placed marriage

to fulfill His purpose on Earth, which

Marquia Whitehead is an author, educator,

entrepreneur, and

owner of

“Miss Educated”.

Dr. Stasia Herbert-McZeal and Durkey McZeal

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Roxanne Chaisson & Joseph L. Pitre August 21, 1999

Wedding Day Memories!

On August 23rd, I would have been celebrating my Thirty Sixth Wedding Anniversary. Knowing I will never have another celebration nor

an opportunity for renewal of vows, I began to think of others who will be or have celebrated their wedding day.

So I called on Readers of The Southern View Magazine to share Wedding Memories.

Wendy Broussard & Edward Angel Dec. 12, 1997

Corrie Gallien & Rodney Journet, Sept. 14, 2014

Susannah Johnson & Russell J. Malbreaux (deceased), Aug. 23, 1980

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L.O.V.E. by Nat King Cole

L is for the way you look at me

O is for the only one I see

V is very, very extraordinary

E is even more than anyone that you adore and

Love is all that I can give to you

Love is more than just a game for two

Two in love can make it Take my heart and please don’t break it

Love was made for me and you

L is for the way you look at me

O is for the only one I see

V is very, very extraordinary

E is even more than anyone that you adore and

Love is all that I can give to you

Love is more than just a game for two

Two in love can make it Take my heart and please don’t break it

Love was made for me and you

Love was made for me and you

Love was made for me and you

Wedding Day Memories!

Tallya Polidore & Seanathan Polidore, Nov 22, 2014.

Andrea Auguillard & Tyrus Williams, October 10, 2015

Mary Leday & Noel Batiste Jr. (deceased), August 26, 1987

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As I approach the end of my

pregnancy and the birth of my daugh-

ter draws near, I am overcome with

excitement and anticipation. My due

date is 18 days away, but, as we

know, baby girl can come sooner or

later.

Through the excitement and an-

ticipation, I have begun to focus on

what kind of delivery I would like. I

dream of a nice water birth at home

with absolutely no medical interven-

tion, but the practical side of me

trusts that being in a hospital is good

for baby and me, in case of an emer-gency.

At my last ob/gyn appointment I

was able to get some reassurances

from my doctor that she is very flex-

ible and accommodating of a moth-

er’s birth plan. I discussed how I

prefer to avoid medication if possi-

ble, and I may want to move around

during labor. Both of which were

perfectly fine for my doctor. One

idea that my doctor shot down, was

that I did not want an IV. I did not

see the need unless I become dehy-

drated, but unfortunately once dehy-

dration sets, it becomes difficult for

medical staff to insert an IV. For this

reason, my doctor said, inserting IVs

is a required procedure for all of her

laboring mothers. Knowing the rea-

son why this was non-negotiable, I

have accepted that I will have the IV

during labor and delivery.

Although I had a laundry list of

questions about labor and delivery

for my doctor at home, when I

showed up to my doctor’s appoint-

ment without my written list, I for-

got a few major questions, such as

does my ob/gyn and/or the hospital

permit delayed cord clamping. De-

layed cord clamping is the process of

allowing the umbilical cord to remain

attached for anywhere from a few

minutes to much longer to allow the

umbilical cord to stop pulsating and/

or for blood to be restored to the

newborn. I have read the pros and cons, and I have decided it would be

great to delay the clamping after de-

livery, at least by a few minutes. At

my next ob/gyn appointment (which

are now weekly since I am so close

to the end), I will be sure to see if I

am able to do so.

Besides getting my birth plan in

order, I have taken other steps to

get ready for baby girl’s arrival. I to-

tally get why they call the period

where you are preparing for baby’s

arrival nesting. I have gone into

Nesting Mode 2.0. Every free

chance I get, I am making additions

to the nursery, preparing her

clothes, things, etc. I have finally

reached the stage where I feel I am

ready for her arrival. However, I

know the nesting bug can bite again

at any moment with a new task at

hand, so I try to rest when I can.

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I was almost going to ditch a having a

baby shower, but I have settled on a

very intimate one with just close

family and friends. My sister, who is

organizing the shower, had a baby

recently, and I did not want to put

such a huge burden on her. Planning

a shower takes lots of time and en-

ergy. Keeping it intimate will lighten

some of the planning load, and my

husband is assisting her with the

shower preparation. Although I was

okay going without the shower, I am

looking forward to it, and I think it

will be a great time. After the baby shower, I will be so ready for baby

girl to arrive!!

A Tale of Motherhood, CHAPTER III By Corrie Gallien, expectant mother

Corrie Gallien, The Epitome of Motherhood

Thank you all for following along my pregnancy journey. Please send prayers and posi-tive vibes our way for a healthy and smooth labor and delivery!

Awaiting Bundle of Joy!

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You Can Have Your Cake And Eat It Too!

Weddings are a time to celebrate with

friends, family, and food. Contrary to popular

belief, you can have all three without putting on

the extra pounds!

In preparation for the wedding reception, do

not skip meals throughout the day as this may

result in overeating. It is especially important to

have breakfast, as research shows that those who

eat this important morning meal tend to con-

sume fewer calories throughout the day. Include protein such as eggs,

yogurt, milk, peanut butter. Add high fiber foods such as fruit and whole

grains. Protein and fiber will satisfy hunger.

Wedding reception meals tend to be large, buffet-style, and include

second and third helpings. While one might not eat an entire cake, a

common mistake is eating large portions of foods that are perceived as healthy, such as nuts, fruits, and vegetables. Healthy foods have calories

too. Focus should be on portions, but it is difficult to eat small portions

when you are hungry.

Eat a protein rich and high fiber snack before the wedding, such as

whole wheat bread with peanut butter, or an egg with a piece of fruit. At the wedding reception, eat slowly and savor every bite. Do this by

talking and catching up with friends in between bites. Before you go back

for seconds, wait 20 minutes to see if you really are still hungry. This is

how long it takes your brain to know you are full.

Using this approach at the wedding reception will allow you to main-

tain a healthful eating plan — one that can also include the bride and

groom’s cake! Source: Academy of Nutrition and Dietetics

By Dr. Jennifer Jackson, RD, LDN

The Southern View Magazine will be sharing positive and inspiring posts from “The Thoughts of Women” Facebook page!

SJM

Whether it's reading a book or playing

in the rain, find that source to finding

your JOY! Every woman deserves her

joy action. Don't let life pass you by

without working hard AND enjoying

every precious moment!

# WomenEmpowerment

Dream as big as you want! We understand that

you cannot become a doctor overnight or any-

thing beyond reality, but anything is possible

with time and WORK! Dream big. Set your

goals. Then, take action towards those goals,

which may not come easy. Don't hesitate any

longer. The time is NOW!

#Dream #Goals #Grind #MissEducated

Miss Educated August 7 at 9:18pm

Marquia Whitehead August 7 at 9:09pm

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. Now I have a question.

If my understanding is correct,

building a house requires the coordi-

nation of a myriad of tradesman.

Carpenters, plumbers, masons, and a

host of others. If just one of those

tradesman divests its attention from

the construction of the house, the

house may never be completed.

Therefore, all of these tradesman

must focus and maintain their atten-

tion on the successful construction

of said house. Growing up and still

to this day, “pay attention” has been

a staple phrase used across (affiliations) to harness the power of

one’s attention. It is not uncommon

for a parent or teacher to demand

that a child or student pays attention

as a means of achieving a perceived

end. Further, it seems in fact that the

primary cause of dysfunction in most

relationships stem from the lack of

or insufficient amount of attention

paid one to another in gaining an ap-

preciable understanding of the other

party. Reflecting upon the weight of

that phrase, I was led to reflect upon

Matthew 6:24 KJV, which states, “[n]

o man can serve two masters . . . .”

This, I have come to understand in a

sense means that a double minded

being can expect to receive nothing.

The question is therefore, “how

much attention must one be willing

to invest into the building of one’s

own house in order that it may be

habitable for generations to come in

spite of any external forces that may

What’s in a house? seek to distract one from successful-

ly constructing and maintaining said

house?”

Collectively, it seems, melanin

dominant beings have allowed them-

selves to become reactionaries to

the plight of the system of white su-

premacy, i.e. a system promulgated

by melanin recessive beings designed

to ensure that a certain class of per-

sons remain in a superior status rela-

tive to and at the expense of other

classes of persons. Even so, arguably,

in the act of one just trying to “make

a living” within the system. The mel-

anin dominant community has put its

faith in the bowels of a system that

was never designed to include it as

an equal participant in the collective

experience of the world society. It

has unquestioningly intertwined its fate with the morality and world

view of that which could considera-

bly be professed as its natural ene-

my. According to the predominant

thought of the founding fathers of

the United States of America and

other melanin recessive persons

around the world, melanin dominant

beings in general were and to a great

extent still are considered subhu-

man. That philosophy seemingly ena-

bles the melanin recessive communi-

ty to treat the melanin dominant

community in any destructive man-

ner with impunity and a clear con-

scious. That philosophy has been in-

grained into the very laws and

institutions that service the develop-

ment and perpetuation of the white

supremist system established in the

United States of America and

abroad. Sadly, the melanin dominant

community has brought into the fa-

çade of the “just and noble” system

of laws established in the United

States of America. The hope is that

the persons which constitute the

“ruling” class of the United States of

America, the descendants of those

same melanin recessive persons that

established the system, will have a

revelatory experience and simply allow this system to collapse upon

itself. In Matthew 12:26, Jesus ques-

tions the Pharisees regarding their

contention that he cast out devils

because he himself was a devil. He

inquires of them, “if Satan cast out

Satan, he is divided against himself;

how shall then his kingdom stand?”

That question was premised upon

the principle of investing attention.

Immediately before asking such ques-

tion, Jesus promulgates that “[e]very

By Ryan E. King

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kingdom divided against itself is

brought to desolation; and every city

or house divided against itself shall

not stand.” (Matthew 12:25 KJV)

This commentary explicates the idea

that a system built to maintain itself

within a certain paradigm will not

then engage in activity to hinder it

from achieving or maintaining its

original mandate. The laws of the

United States of America and the

institutions developed to enforce

said laws were established in a man-

ner to ensure that melanin dominant

beings would forever be subservient to melanin recessive beings.

Therefore, it seems to reason

that it would be counterproductive

for any melanin dominant being to

rely on the premise that by using the

laws established to maintain the sys-

tem that one would receive “justice”

from the institutions that were de-

veloped to ensure one’s inferior

condition. This scenario is a glaring

illustration of the power of atten-

tion. Many, unfortunately perhaps,

may be inclined to think that by

struggling to reform the system of

the United States of America from

within the system the system will

change. However, dealing with said

system, historically the reality seems

such that the more things change,

the more they stay the same. The

law of attraction states that whatev-

er one focuses its attention on, the

cosmos will produce more of that

thing. The more attention that one

invests in a thing the more that thing grows. Whether one’s thoughts re-

garding the system of the United

States of America are positive or

negative, the more power said sys-

tem will have in shaping one’s reality.

I was once told that one should not

pay attention (give life) to the things

that one does not want, rather one

should invest one’s attention into

the things that one does. Simply put,

if one is asked, “What do you want

to do,” one should not respond by

saying, “I do not want to do . . . .” It

seems then that instead of investing

one’s attention into integrating into

someone else’s house, one should

allocate that attention into develop-

ing and maintaining one’s own house.

We are all private bankers. In our

banks lie the most valuable resource

on the planet: ATTENTION! We

are all gifted with twenty-four hours

worth of attention per day. The

question is how will one manage

one’s attention in a way to effectively

fulfill the duty that one has to main-

tain harmony within one’s self, one’s

neighbors, the earth, and one’s crea-

tor? Surely, if one pays more atten-

tion to constructing someone else’s

house, then that person will not

have enough attention to ensure that

one’s own house is sound and se-

cure. We have the power, each one

of us individually, to decide how

much of and into what we invest our

attention. If we, melanin dominant

beings collectively, decide that we

want to invest our attention into de-

veloping a self-governed community,

there is no “authority” that can stop

us! We therefore must be willing to

make the necessary sacrifices and

develop the necessary laws and insti-tutions that will serve to ensure the

perpetuation of our collective intent.

The question then that one must ask

one’s self is, “am I up to the chal-

lenge?” No one can decide for you.

The decision is yours and yours

alone. It can be done; it must be

done!

WHAT’S IN A HOUSE? CONTINUED

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A Few August Black History Facts

August 10, 1989 - General Colin Powell is nominated chairman, Joint Chiefs of Staff, the African American to hold the post.

August 12, 1977 - Steven Biko, leader of the Black Consciousness Movement in South Africa, arrested.

August 13, 1981 - The Reagan Administration undertakes its review of 30 federal regulations, including rules of civil rights

to prevent job discrimination.

August 14, 1989 - The North Carolina Black Repertory Company hosts the first National Black Theater Festival in Winston

-Salem, NC.

August 15, 1888 - Granville T. Woods patents electromechanical brake.

August 18, 1859 - Harriet Wilson's Our Nig is first novel published by a black writer.

August 19, 1954 - Dr. Ralph J. Bunche named undersecretary of the United Nations.

August 20, 1993 - Dr. David Satcher named director of the Centers for Disease Control.

August 21, 1831 - Nat Turner leads slave revolt in Virginia.

August 22, 1843 - Henry Highland Garnett calls for a general strike by slaves.

August 23, 1926 - Carter Woodson, historian, author, inaugurated Negro History Week and later producer of the Negro

History Bulletin.

August 24, 1950 - Judge Edith Sampson named first black delegate to the United Nations.

August 25, 1908 - National Association of Colored Nurses founded.

August 26, 1920 - 19th Amendment to the Constitution ratified, giving women the right to vote.

August 27, 1935 - Mary McLeod Bethune founds the National Council of Negro Women.

August 28, 1888 - Granville T. Woods patents railway telegraphy.

August 30, 1983 - Lt. Col. Guion S. Bluford Jr. becomes the first African American astronaut in space.

August 31, 1836 - Henry Blair patents cotton planter.

Sept. 22, 2016 6pm to 8pm; Clifton Chenier Center

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From The Pulpit The Power of Agreement-Part I By Bishop/Pastor Carlos E. Harvin

The following is an excerpt from a sermon that was preached on the Feast of Pentecost, Sunday. This is the first of a three-part series. Our text this morning is taken

from Acts 2:1 which says: “When the time for Pentecost was fulfilled, they were all in one place together.”

The King James Version says that:

“They were all with one accord in one place.” You can be in the same place with

somebody but not be on one accord.

Two people can be in the same mar-

riage, but not be in agreement. Two people can work on the same job

but not see eye to eye. Two people

can be in the same church, but have

discord.

That’s what we hear about when

we read a letter that was written in

1712 by a West Indian slave owner

named Willie Lynch. He was very

successful with operating his slave

plantation in the West Indies and

was invited by slave owners in Vir-

ginia to share his secrets for keeping

their slaves in order. Slaves in Amer-

ica were rising up, running away and

talking back to their slave owners.

American slave owners were having

trouble keeping their slaves in check.

Willie Lynch shared that his secret

for controlling his slaves was based

on the principle of ‘divide and con-

quer.’ He knew the power of divi-

sion. He came up with a list of dif-

ferences among his slaves and

Power in Agreement.”) Even Satan understands the pow-

er of agreement. Jesus says: “And if Satan has risen up against himself and is divided, he cannot stand; that is the end of him” (Mark 3:26, NAB).

The devil works in agreement with

all of his demons in order to do his

dirty work. Well, if the devil can

work together with his demons, why

can’t we work together to do the

Lord’s work?

Today’s reading from the book of

Acts 2:1 teaches us that when the

People of God are in agreement and on one accord, amazing things can

happen in our lives!

Jesus teaches us in Matthew

18:19: “Again, (amen,) I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about an-ything for which they are to pray, it shall be granted to them by my heav-enly Father.” Jesus wants us to know

that even if every now and then we

have to disagree with one another,

there is a lot of power that comes to

us when we walk in agreement with

one another! That’s how the 120

disciples who were gathered in the

Upper Room on that first Pentecost

Sunday received the Holy Spirit.

The scripture tells us that they

were all in agreement about what

they were praying for.

Acts 2:2-4 says that, after those dis-

ciples were in agreement something

amazing happened:

“And suddenly there came from the sky a noise like a strong driving wind, and it filled the entire house in which they were. Then there appeared to them tongues as of fire, which part-ed and came to rest on each one of them. And they were all filled with the Holy Spirit and began to speak in different tongues, as the Spirit ena-bled them to proclaim.” That’s the Power of Agreement.

God will send his Spirit wherever

separated them accordingly. He

wrote:

“In my bag here, I have a fool proof method for controlling your Black slaves. I guarantee every one of you that, if installed correctly, it will control the slaves for at least 300 hundred years. My method is simple…I have outlined a number of differences among the slaves; and I take these differences and make them bigger. I use fear, distrust and envy for control purposes. These methods have worked on my mod-est plantation in the West Indies and it will work throughout the South.” On top of my list is “age,” but it’s there only because it starts with an “a.” The second is “color” or shade. There is intelligence, size, sex, sizes of plantations, status on plantations, attitude of owners, whether the slaves lived in the valley, on a hill, East, West, North, South, have fine hair, coarse hair, or is tall or short. Now that you have a list of differ-ences, I shall give you an outline of action, but before that, I shall assure you that distrust is stronger than trust and envy stronger than adula-tion, respect or admiration.” Willie Lynch knew that if he

could keep his slaves divided and in

disagreement among themselves,

they would never rise up against him.

Well, church, there’s a spiritual

lesson we can draw from this Willie

Lynch letter. This lesson is that

wherever there is discord, disagree-

ment or disunity among the People

of God, God is limited with what

God can do in our lives. Jesus said it

this way: “a house…divided against itself…cannot stand.” (Mark 3:25,

NIV) Amos 3:3 says: “Can two walk to-gether, except they be agreed?”

(KJV)

Somebody say: “There’s Power in

Agreement!” (Response: “There’s

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people are in agreement with one another. Try that

in your marriage! Try getting on one accord with

your spouse. Try getting on one accord with your

co-workers. Try getting on one accord with your

family members. Try getting on one accord with

your pastor and with the members of this church

and watch what will happen!!!

Watch the Spirit of God fall down on your situa-

tion, once you are on one accord with the people

who are around you! LET THE CHURCH

SAY AMEN!

From The Pulpit CONTINUED

Bishop / Pastor Harvin and

First Lady Tabitha Harvin

NEW BEGINNINGS CHRISTIAN CHURCH OF LAFAYETTE 417 HOBSON ST.

MASS: SUNDAYS 10:00AM

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Elected Official Spotlight By Susannah Johnson Malbreaux

Louisiana race for U. S. Senate and Congressional Districts are heating up. With the large pool

of candidates in most races, voters will need to become educated on each of the candidates. Here

are a few of the candi-

dates in the race. For

more information on

their platforms and what

you can expect from the

candidates, visit their

websites, stay tuned for

political debates. But

more importantly, exer-

cise your right to vote.

Get Registered!

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If you do some research on all of

your favorite superheroes and celeb-

rities, you will see the common

trend among them is that they all

start from the humblest beginnings.

If you are in a place where you wish

your family had more money, you

wish you went to a bigger and better

school, or maybe you wish that you

were born with some unique talents

and gifts I have good news for you.

Don't worry! According to every

superhero story you are right in the

sweet spot! Most of the superstars

of today that you hear about have been homeless at some point or an-

other. They have been bankrupt and

broken. They had to experience the

despair of being lonely, cold, hungry

and out on the actual street. What

do you think gave them the nerve to

see themselves in a better place de-

spite their reality? Tyler Perry, Eric

Thomas, Idris Alba, and the list goes

on. They have all spent their share of

time homeless and hungry. You

know what made them keep pushing

in their darkest moment? VISION!

The pictures that they were able to

create in their mind about their fu-

ture surpassed the things that were

happening in their physical reality at

the moment.

Ask yourself what gets you up in

the morning? What keeps you up at

night? What do you believe you do

better than anybody else? These are

the fundamental questions you must

answer to yourself to begin

your

Expanding Your Vision The Hero’s Journey

CONTINUED ON PAGE 19

are the hero on the journey, but

every hero must have direction and

instruction to get to them on the

right path. This brings me to my next

point.

Once you have correctly identi-

fied your personal vision, and you

gain the courage to take on the

unique mission that the creator has

carved out for you, it is vital that you

find yourself a guide. Every hero sto-

ry has the teacher that enlightens

the young pupil of all of the wonder-

ful hidden talents and abilities that lie

within them. In The Karate Kid, Dan-

iel-son had Mr. Miyagi. In the Star

Wars adventure Luke Skywalker had

Obi-Wan Kenobi and in the smash

hit The Matrix we all know that Neo

could not have made it without Mor-

pheus. These master teachers are

not meant to walk the journey with

you. They are simply there to light

that path that only you can walk for

yourself. In your search for a men-

tor, you want to seek someone that

is already doing what is in line with

the vision that you have for yourself

in the best case scenario. You want

someone that has already experi-

enced success and failure in the very

thing that you want to do because

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journey into greatness. You have to

keep these thoughts on the front of

your mind at all times. Your current

circumstance does not have to be

your life sentence. You can create

the life you want. The life you see in

your mind’s eye can be yours for the

taking if you are brave and bold

enough.

Next, let's take a moment to de-

fine what do we mean when we say

a phrase like "expanding your vision."

Start with the term expand. The

Webster dictionary will tell you that

the word expand means to increase in size, extent, volume. To spread or

stretch out. When you define the

term vision, we are not speaking

about your literal ability to see with

your eyes. We are talking about the

second definition that you will find

under this word which is the act or

power of anticipating that which will

or may come to be. Another defini-

tion of vision that is fitting in the

context of this conversation would

be a vivid or imaginative conception

or anticipation. When I speak of ex-

panding your vision I want you to

increase, stretch and expand your

imaginative anticipation of what is to

come for yourself and your family.

Dream big and bold. Don't play

yourself small because shrinking

yourself does not help the world!

Imagine if you can do anything you

want and time and money were not an issue. What does that look like in

your mind? THAT is your vision.

Write it. Draw it. Make pictures of

it. Whatever it takes to stay in the

front of your mind at all times. You

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The Hero’s Journey CONTINUED

if you can take heed to the advice. If

you cannot seem to find someone

local to be that guide for you, I

would encourage you to use the

power of the information age that

we are living in. If you go online, you

can find thousands of people from all

walks of life that may be more than

willing to exchange information and

ideas with you from abroad if you

can be brave enough to ask directly.

Remember in every hero story it is

the wise guide that gives the hero all

of the tools that they need to finally

take on the big bad villain at the end and save the day. You must invest in

yourself when it comes to mentor-

ship and coaching at all cost.

The next part in the process of

expanding your vision is to travel

away from the environment in which

you have become accustomed. At

some point in every hero's journey,

they have to leave their family and

friends whom they have known all of

their lives to adventure off into a

dream world of some sort. Whether

it's an odyssey into outer space, a

trip to never never land, or going

into another dimension in time. The

creatures of these great tales knew it

was important for their audience to

see the hero physically or mentally

leaving their comfort zone to be-

come the greatest version of them-

selves. This journey that we are

speaking of becomes the middle part of the major storyline in almost all

films. This is the portion of the story

where the leading character will be

tested the most. This is where the

hero will face his biggest conflicts

and adversities. The hero’s journey is

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where the hero will finally connect

and fully commit to what he has

been created to do. This expanding

of your vision can only come by way

of traveling. Traveling is the greatest

form of education. No school can

match the things that you pick up

consciously and subconsciously from

traveling. You will meet people along

the way that will help you blossom

and change your world’s view. You

will see awe-inspiring sights that will

help you put your life in real per-

spective. Once your mind is expand-

ed it could never return to its origi-nal form. Once you have traveled

and experienced some of what life

has to offer now you can return to

your community and effectively give

back to the people that have never

had the courage to travel into the

great beyond. Understandably travel-

ing can cost, but once again I en-

courage to invest in yourself for

what you want to achieve. Save up

and invest in a bus ticket for a small

trip a few cities away. Use your so-

cial network and partner with

friends that live in different states to

make arrangements to ease your ex-

penses. See different sights, talk to

different kinds of people. Learn a

different mindset. Explore whole

new worlds along your travels and

this will shift your thinking about the

possibility of what is out in the world

that you can do. Don't just focus on

the things at the schools around you.

Don't focus on the jobs around you.

Don't concentrate on the living con-

ditions around you. There is a vast

world around you for the taken. You

just have to want it bad enough and

for most people, they don't even

know what they don't know. You don't want it because you don't even

know it exists!!!

The section of your hero story

that will make it come full circle is

when you ultimately change your

environment. You may find it to be

more beneficial for you to move to a

different location where the industry

that you are going into may thriving

more than your current city. You

may also find that there are more

like minded people in some parts of

the country or the world verses the

area you live in now where you may

feel like a loner at times along your

path. Keep in mind, when I say

change your situation, I don't just mean the location in which you live. I

mean change the people who you

surround yourself with every day.

You will modify the types of pro-

grams that you watch, the games

that you play and the music that you

allow yourself to consume. When

you change your environment you

will work hard to put yourself in ide-

al places to work, train, write, sleep,

etc. to be the greatest version of

yourself. You see once you have a

clear understanding of your unique

mission, you have your trusty guide

by your side, and you have traveled

your journey you will see changing

your daily environment as a matter

of life and death. You must cut out

all people who are not onboard with

your new expanded vision for your-

self. If you don't eliminate them, they

will prove to be a distraction in the

future. Another part of expanding

your vision will entail protecting

your vision. Guarding yourself from

taking in the wrong forms of infor-

mation and media at all cost. The

more you allow yourself to consume

the wrong music, games and movies

the more you will find yourself being down, low energy, angry, and on

edge. All of these things only slow

you down on your road to success.

Lastly, remember that the journey is

what you make it. You are the one

that we have been waiting for.

Embrace the Journey

Change your environment

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Inspired by her passion for elevating others, pioneering entrepreneur and

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pled with over twelve years of experience as an executive assistant and customer service manager, were key compo-

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LaToya Sharee's capable hands serve as proof that she is not only concerned with increasing her clients profits; she

sincerely cares about people.

True Hospitality Talks, LLC was founded with the intent to fill the needs of both individuals and businesses by

providing them with excellent hospitality and superb customer service. LaToya Sharee's experienced staff combined

with True Hospitality Talks' economical pricing, allows large corporations, struggling small businesses, and over-

whelmed individuals to have access to quality hospitality and customer service training at a moment’s notice.

Prior to establishing her Atlanta-based company, LaToya Sharee was instructed by Dr. Jamie T. Pleasant, the first

African American to graduate from Georgia Tech with a Ph.D in Business Management. She later received her Asso-

ciates of Science Degree in Entrepreneurship from the Institute of Entrepreneurship. She has participated in business

training from the Entrepreneur’s Development Network in Atlanta and is an active member of numerous business organizations. Due to LaToya's enthusiasm for mentoring and doing volunteer work, she has donated her time help-

ing organizations which include: New Zion Christian Church, Entrepreneurs Round Table (ERT), Joyce Meyer Minis-

tries, Urban Professionals, SheEO Professional Women’s Alliance, Black Enterprise Magazine, M.E.N.S. Wear Inc., and

Pink Magazine.

LaToya Sharee's exemplary dedication and participation in her community joined with her accomplishments in

business garnered esteemed recognition from the influential women’s organization, WEEN. She was honored with

the title, “Woman of the Week” and was also featured in the organization’s website and newsletter.

Never one to rest on her laurels, LaToya Sharee continues to commit her focus to expanding her hospitality firm.

She is currently pursuing a degree in Hospitality Management to provide her company and her clients a greater level

of impeccable service. In her spare time she also writes books and provides coaching via True Hospitality Talks, LLC.

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In Loving Remembrance of my dear friend, Jamie Porter James. The lives of Jamie and her mother,

Adeline Porter Etienne were tragically and horrifically taken on February 27, 2016 by Jamie’s ex-boyfriend.

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Qualifying Dates for Upcoming Elections

Get Registered!

Get Involved!

SOURCE: http://www.sos.la.gov/

SAVE THE DATE: 9th Annual Lifetime Achievement Awards Banquet DATE: Thursday, September 22, 2016

Where: Ramada Lafayette Conference Center

TIME: 6:00pm to 9:00pm

COST: $55.00 per person

HOSTED BY: Lafayette Democratic Parish Executive Committee

For more information, Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Lafayette-Parish-

Democratic-Party-189539544425653/ and https://www.eventbrite.com/

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R.A.P. RHYTHM, ARTS & POETRY What is Black Power?

Wikipedia defines Black Power as, “a political slogan

and a name for various associated ideologies…” used pri-

marily amongst African American people from the 1950s

slowly dying out in the 1970s.

I believe Black Power is more than just a term used

as a political slogan; it’s a belief and a way of life. Black Pow-

er should help you to remember and recognize the great-

ness inside of yourself and the greatness of the African

American community. Black Power signifies all the work and

effort that went into the freedoms that were not always

available to black people. When said, it should bring about a

feeling a of joy and appreciation for all that have fought and

lost their lives trying to prove that we are people and de-

serve to be treated as such. SNCC, NAACP, the Black Pan-

thers, etc…have all worked toward defining and displaying

Black Power. Those organizations and many more were cre-

ated to show the world that we were no longer going to fall

for anything; we are going to stand up and fight for justice

and equal rights.

According to http://law.jrank.org/pages/4776/Black-Power-

Movement.html, “The Black Power movement instilled a

sense of racial pride and self-esteem in blacks. Blacks were

told that it was up to them to improve their lives.” And I

believe that it has. For entirely too long, African Americans

have fought hard to prove themselves when it never should

have been that way. Because my skin is slightly darker than

the average white person does not mean that I am less than

and at no point should I be treated as such. In a perfect

world, I wouldn’t have to prove myself or my worth to any-

one; I would be accepted as the beautiful person God creat-

ed me to be. But in this world of evilness, poverty, wars,

and crime ridden streets, I have to stand up and prove that I

am worthy of greatness and that I am the daughter of kings

and queens. I have to instill in my children that they are a

prince and princess of Black Power. My children will know

and understand that at no point are they to be treated less

than they are worth. Black Power has been installed in me

from my ancestors so that I will know and always remember

the fight for freedom.

By Nicole Malbreaux, Lafayette, La

Confused beyond belief?

Confused beyond belief? Yea, that's me.

Cause it seems like we are meant to be.

But it also seems like we always flee,

away from our problems so much we never solve them,

and we never call them to attention,

so much we feel that we are under a pension of

irregularity to where our feelings are

losing similarity

So maybe we should come across some type of clarity,

so we can clear this cloudiness,

so our relations won't fill with drowsiness.

Because yet and still, I don't know what's going on,

but the love I have still goes strong.

Something says that feelings aren't the same , because

this game keeps being played!

Your emotions have little devotion, so it's just like going

through the motions.

So what articulate utterance will we have if we won't

change the future tense?

This is why we say it doesn't make much sense.

The love is strong, but do you have hope to cope with

our past

In all truthfulness we can make this last.

By Devin Mouton, 11th grade, Acadiana High

Want get your poetry published?

Submit your Poetry for the “R. A. P.” section of The Southern View Magazine.

Email: [email protected]. Please include your name, phone # and the title of your writing; 300 words or less.

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R.A.P. RHYTHM, ARTS & POETRY Obama: The Dream Realized

“Obama has been elected President!”

The walls of the White House said.

“Obama has been elected President!

Martin’s Dream is not dead.”

This old house built by slaves has new occupants.

Look at him! He’s so regal!

Look at his eyes! They’re keen like eagles.

His voice is pure gold.

The greatest orator we are told.

The walls whisper, “We know a change has come!”

The whole United States has won!

The rooms await this brilliant team.

Barack, Michelle, Sasha, and Malia!”

Martin, the Little Rock Nine and Rosa Parks, too.

Coretta, Cheney and the 1954 Brown Case.

To all who have come before him,

Thank God! He’s won this race.

People are rejoicing all over the 50 states we hear.

“The North has won again,” they shout.

“To hell with the Old and New South.

They don’t know what they are talking about.”

“Obama has been elected President.”

The White House erect.stood

“Obama has been elected President.

The US has gained back its respect.”

“All hail, Barack!

Our new Commander and Chief.

All hail, the Special One,

Who will bring this country relief.”

“Obama has been elected President.”

The walls of the White House said.

“Obama has been elected President.

Martin’s dream is not dead.”

By Starlette Guillory, Lafayette, LA

Twins Always Stand Side by Side

Twins always stand side by side

One can always feel what the other is feeling

At night when their lights are on

They shine bright gold with a ray of hope

When their lights are off

And the moonlight shines on them

They look as peaceful as white doves

On a beautiful, bright, sunny morning

Always at peace and full of hope

As the sun marvels

On their beautiful colors

Both twins as always standing side by side

Were viciously attacked

By two extremely large birds

Confused about what was happening

Trying desperately to stand tall and brave

One twin fell to the ground

The other twin

Knowing that one could no longer stand

Without the other

Unselfishly followed

Their Spirit will always stand

A lifetime united

Twins always stand side by side

By Hilda A. Leger, Lafayette, LA

GOD EXALTED: I cannot forget where I have come from

nor can I forget what God has done in my life. Humbled by

my failures and the mistakes that I have made. I must con-

fess, of my life I’ve made a mess. Only by God’s grave, can I

say that I am saved. Only with God’s help, do I make it

through each day and I would have it no other way. For I

want Him to be pleased, with each thing I do and say; Though

simple may be my efforts, still I am amazed that God will use

me, in so many different ways. You see to Him, age does not

matter nor status quo or who we know, only that we obey

Him, when He calls us and say, yes LORD I WILL GO.

By Martha Rideaux

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It’s Just F.Y.I. For Your Information!

Lafayette - Memorial Services will be held Friday, July 1, 2016 at 11:00 a.m. at

Philadelphia Christian Church for Ashley Nicole Metz, 23, who died June 21,

2016.

Services will be conducted by Pastor Omar Thibeaux.

She is survived by her mother, Carla (Mark) Dean; father, Gary (Cynthia) Metz;

sister, Jasmine Etienne; brothers, Darius Portalis and Gary Metz, Jr.; grand-

mothers, Laura Etienne and Octavia Metz; a host of aunts who loved her dear-

ly, Sheryl Etienne, Donna Benjamin, her Nanny who loved her dearly, Renee

Etienne, Patricia Metz, Cynthia Metz, Wanda Coleman, Yolanda Metz and Tam-

my Metz.

She was preceded in death by her maternal grandfather, Curley P. Etienne; paternal grandfather, Alton Metz and

an uncle, Barry Metz. The family will receive visitors on Friday, July 1, 2016 at Philadelphia Christian Church from

8:00 a.m. until time of service.

Ashley Nicole Metz ~ (January 11, 1993 - June 21, 2016)

Congratulations to The Southern View’s

Contributing Writer, Corrie Gallien. Corrie

and Rodney were Blessed with the birth of

“Raynah Faith Journet”.

Corrie’s Facebook Post {August 14, 2016, 8:11a.m.}

Just wanted to updated everyone that we are doing

fine! Yesterday after much fuss, my husband talked me

into calling an ambulance to take us to the hospital

through the rain/flooding. I thought we were jumping the

gun, but we arrived at the hospital and the contractions

were steady. We thought she would come yesterday but

Raynah Faith made her entrance into the world early Sun-

day morning at exactly 7 lbs. and 20 inches! Singing Praises

to the Most High for a safe delivery!

As Melani put it, Raynah picked a special day to enter

the world! It was raining (sounds kinda like her name). More like storming, and her nursery theme is Noah's Ark, so we had to go through the flood, but peace came

when Raynah entered this world!! Raynah means Song of the Lord in Hebrew, and we will forever sing praises to

the Lord for our beautiful baby girl!!

Corrie has written articles on “A Tale of Motherhood, Chapters 1-3.” See page 8 for her latest article.

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In the Spotlight! A glimpse of past events...

June 25, 2016 Candlelight Vigil and Balloon Send Off for Ashley Nicole Metz Lafayette, LA

June 26, 2016 Father Lambert's Farewell Celebration, St. Anthony Catholic Church Lafayette, LA

July 14, 2016 SMILE Summer Camp Wrap Up Program, Lafayette Middle School Lafayette, LA

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June 30 -July 2, 2016 Mushiya Tshikuka {Unapologetically Natural} @ Essence Festival New Orleans, LA

July 13, 2016 DPEC’s Meet & Greet ~ Caroline Fayard, Candidate for U.S. Senate Black Café, Lafayette, La

July 28, 2016 SMILE Retired & Senior Volunteer Program {RSVP} Advisory Council Officers Lafayette, La

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