Do You Want Your Ex Boyfriend Back? - First Step To MakeIt Happen

If you find yourself in the situation that you are drifting away from your boyfriend and you feel

that the situation is hopeless; don't despair! Do you want your ex boyfriend back, if you do

then just say to yourself "I can turn this around"

When you were together, whether or not you realised it, you were a challenge to him. This

makes you irresistible to him. If you think back over your relationship with him there were

times when there was disagreement and friction between you; things did not always run

smoothly. But strange as it might seem right now this is part of what made you attractive to

him in the first place.

You are most likely treading very carefully at the moment trying your best not to cause any

friction between you, and as such you no longer present a challenge for him. In his eyes he

feels that he has the upper hand and that you are now under his control. He is in the driving

seat. If he snaps his finger he thinks you'll come running,Âkeen to get back together. Does

this sound true?

Well now is the time to reverse the trend and become a challenge in his eyes once again.

You must stop sending out the signals that you're not worthy. Put bluntly, nobody is attracted

to that, least of all your ex. Stop playing into his hands. Stop communicating with him and by

so doing start to make yourself more private. Is this not what you ex is doing and just think for

a moment as to what effect that is having on you.

So stop seeing him, calling him, texting him, don't leave any comments on his Facebook wall,

don't email, in fact simply don't make any contact at all. If he contacts you in the first instance

don't react, ignore it. If he tries again to contact you wondering why you did not reply,

apologise, but just say you've been too busy. Don't be rude or aggressive to him; just answer

his questions courteously.

Don't immediately run back to him; carry on with your communication black out. If you start

toÂthink that you couldÂcontinue as friends - DON'T. If you do you will very soon be back

where you were; feeling worthless and not wanted.

If there are any items that are jointly owned keep them that way. Don't be in a rush to sweep

things away as it will remain a useful link between you.

Then over the coming weeks, relax and take pleasure from a return to being single. Become

the person your boyfriend was attracted to in the first place; a fun loving person that enjoyed

life.

So, do you want your ex boy friend back? If you take this first step you will be well on your

way.