I BUFFALO COURIER • EXPRESS, Tuesday, August 8,1967

On th& Social Scene

Diane Good Chooses Aug. 19 Mr. and Mrs. J. William

Good of High Park Blvd., Eg-gertsville, announce that the

r marriage of their daughter, Diane Marie, to Carlton Mc­Queen Waggoner will take place at 11 a.m. Saturday, Aug. 19, at St. Benedict's Church, Main and Eggert, EggerfsvUJe.

A wedding reception will be given at the Brookf ield Country Club, Clarence.

Miss Good has invited her sis­ter, Miss Susan Jane Good, to be her honor attendant. Brides­maids will be Miss Marcia M, Good, also a sister of the bride-elect; Miss Margaret M. Wag-

Miss O'Donnell Photo by Charlena Smith

O'Donnell To Wed in October Justice and Mrs. Thomas J.

O'Donnell of McClellan Cir. announce the engagement of their daughter, Helen Marie, to John Edward Sippel, son of Mrs. Raymond L. Sippel of Van Hornesvilk, formerly of Ja­maica Estates, L.I., and the late Dr. Sippel.

Miss O'Donnell was graduated from St. Mary's Seminary and Rosary Hill College. She also attended the University of Buf­falo Law School.

The prospective bridegroom

Mrs. Christ To Entertain Garden Club

Mrs. Gust G. Christ, presi­dent of the Lake Shore Garden Club, will be hostess at a tea for members of the club at 1:30 this afternoon at her home in Kennison Pky., Hamburg.

Members will bring original flower arrangements based on the theme, "Cool on a Summer Day," which will be judged at the business meeting. Prizes will be awarded.

Mrs. Nicholas W. Stark, horti­culture chairman, and Mrs. Christ will discuss the club's entries and exhibit for the Erie County Fair.

Mrs. James E. Lewis and Mrs. Everett E. Roquemore will assist Mrs. Christ with refresh­ments^

Clam Bake Scheduled The annual Clam Bake at the

Buffalo Launch Club will begin at 6:30 Saturday evening, Aug. 26, on the grounds of the Grand Island clubhouse. Dinner at 8 in the club's dining room will be followed by an evening of dancing.

was graduated from Niagara University and is a candidate for his doctor of philosophy de­gree in biology from St. Bona-venture University, Olean.

An October wedding is plan­ned.

goner, sister of the prospective bridegroom; Miss Mary R. Mar­tin; Miss Julie L. Propis, and Miss Paula A. Scherer.

William J. Good will be best man for his future brother-in-law. Ushering will be Robert C. Leighton, Terry J. Thompson, J. Brian Ferrel, David N.Camp­bell, Thomas R. Brennan and Peter A. Cervi.

Mr. and Mrs. Edward C. Hall and Dr. and Mrs. Lawrence D. Jacobs of New York have is­sued invitations for cocktails Saturday evening, Aug. 19, at the former couple's home in Point Abino, Ont., in compli­ment to Miss Martha Ann Shal-ala and her fiance. Earl W. Brydges Jr.

Dr. and Mrs. S h e r i d a n C. Watte have extended invitations for a picnic luncheon Saturday a f t e r n o o n at "Waitewood," their home in Sprmgville.

Mr. and Mrs. Hardin H. Lit-tell will entertain g u e s t s at cocktails and dinner this eve­ning at their summer home in Lorraine, Ont. The party will honor Mrs. Robert E. Rich, who is celebrating a birthday anni­versary, and Mr. Rich.

Among those invited are Mr. and Mrs. Robert E. Rich Jr., Mr. and Mrs. David A. Rich, Mr. and Mrs. Thomas B. Healy Jr. and Mr. and Mrs. R. Philip Harty.

Mr. and Mrs. R. Park Bag-ley Jr. of Windsor Ave. have in­vited guests for cocktails and dinner Thursday evening.

Match Skill Or Marry It BRUSSELS, Belgium—Singer

Gigi Nancy, who bought "a car with a chauffeur" with her first earnings two years ago, has just married the chauffeur, Robert Boujat.

"I have not been able to get a driver's license, but a wed­ding license is easy," she explained.

Chill Fresh Bread For Sandwich Slices If you bake your own bread

and find it too fresh to slice easily for sandwiches, place it in the refrigerator until it gets thoroughly cold through and through.

This will harden it just enough to make thin slicing possible, making those lunch box sandwiches more attrac­tive.

Dr. and Mrs. Norman G. Cou-rey have extended invitations for a swimming party and bar­becue this afternoon and again Wednesday afternoon at their home in Hennepin Rd.. Grand Islad.

Their guests will be the new house staff at Deaconess Hospi­tal and their wives and escorts. The host is chief of obstetrics and gynecology at the hospital.

Out-of-town guests who will attend the wedding of Miss Ann Barbara Vivian and Donald Henry Hughes have been an­nounced. The couple will ex­change vows at noon Saturday in St. John the Baptist Chapel in Englewood Ave., Town of Tonawanda.

Guests will include Raul Saona of Lima, Peru; Miss Car­oline Keedy, Washington; Mr. and Mrs. Marshall Decker, Providence, R.I.; Mr. and Mrs. Tito Montilla, Odessa, Tex.; Mr. and Mrs. Harvey Peterson, Chicago, 111., and Mr. and Mrs. Carlton Hughes of San Francis­co, Calif.

The Rt. Rev. Msgr. Charles A. Klauder will perform the ceremony for the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Thomas H. Vivian of Clark Rd., Kenmore, and the son of Mr. and Mrs. Henry S. Hughes of Ivyhurst Rd., Am­herst.

Miss Vivian has invited Miss Kathleen Sullivan to be maid of honor and Miss Sharon Askey, Mrs. Marshall Decker and Miss Karen Hughes, the bridegroom's s i s t e r , to be bridesmaids.

Mr. Carlton Hughes will be best man for his brother. Har­old Gay, Malcolm Gillies and Rudolph Gleason will usher.

Mr. and Mrs. Paul Bishop Hurley Sr. will entertain at cocktails and a buffet supper Friday night at their home in Washington Hwy., Snyder, following the wedding rehearsal of Miss Mary Frances Steller and their son, Paul B. Hurley Jr.

The engaged couple will be married at 10 Saturday morn­ing at St. Gerard's Church, Bailey and E. Delavan. Miss Steller is the daughter of Mr. and Mrs. William F. Steller of Newburgh Ave.

Among the Hurleys' guests1

will be members of the bridal party. Mrs. Herbert J. Wutz Jr. will be matron of honor for her sister. Miss Colleen E. Hurley, sister of the future bridegroom, Miss Marilyn T. Horvath and Miss Mary Ellen Morgan will be bridesmaids.

Robert M. Greene will be best man. Ushering will be Mr. Wutz, George G. Munley and William M. Skretny. ,

1,000 in Event at Fair

Girl Scouts Set for Pageant Approximately 1,000 G i r l

Scouts from the ten districts in Buffalo and Erie County will participate in opening day festivities at the Erie County Fair in Hamburg on Saturday, Aug. 19, at 2:36 p.m.

A ten-scene pageant, "The Promise of Girl Scouting," written by Mrs. R i c h a r d Glazier, a former president of the local Girl Scoot Council, will be presented on the grand­stand stage. A chorus of 150 Girl Scouts will provide musical accompaniment to the drama.

On the committee are Mrs. Adam Hauck, general chairman of the Scouts' 50th anniversary year; Mrs. Lincoln P. Nutting, chairman of the event; Mrs. Henry Kelley, staff adviser, and Mrs. Norman E. Schultz, publicity chairman.

Scene chairman, their dis­tricts and themes are Mrs. Franklin J. Hollinger, Grand Kenton, "Salute to the Girl Scouts"; Mrs. William G . Tucker, Tonawandas, "Those Early Days"; Mrs. Leon Ebert, Lakeshore, "The Girl Scout Laws" and Mrs. Bernard Orzel, Amherst, "Service to Others."

Also, Mrs. Wallace Reeb, Parkerton, "Friendship Around the World"; Mrs. D. Kerr Grant, Pioneer, "Adventuring in the Arts";, Mrs. John Mendolia, Hill *n Dale, "Ad­venture in the Out of Doors"; Mrs. E. H. Fleckenstein, Iro­quois, "It's Girl Scout Cookie Time,"; Mrs Joseph A. Till­man, GayGene, "Future Un­limited"; and Mrs. George Siener, McKinley, "Parade of Flags."

There will be free admission to the fairgrounds of all scouts in uniform and all drivers of cars carrying the youngsters.

Couple Wed In Mexico

Mr. and Mrs. Max Schaefler of Hohywood, Calif., announce that the marriage of their daughter, Mrs. Pepy Schaefler Kaplan of Hartford Ave., Town of Tonawanda, to Donald Lewis Summer took place Friday afternoon, Aug. 4, at Juarez, Mexico.

The bride attended the Uni­versity of Buffalo. Mr. Summer attended Cornell University, Ithaca, and was graduated from the University of Buffalo Law School.

After a sojourn in California, the couple plan to reside in Sny­der.

Chocolate and cocoa come from beans produced by an evergreen tree called cacao.

Journeys MR. AND MRS. CHARLES H.

LARKIN JR. have returned to their home in Larkin Rd., Eden, after a visit to Honolulu.

Mr. Larkin was a member of the crew aboard the "Kamalii," in the Trans-Pacific Yacht Race that originated in Los Angeles July 4 and terminated in Hono­lulu.

I T MR. AND MRS. MERL SOLO­

MON and children have return­ed to their home in Ashland Ave. after a visit to Plymouth, Mass., and Thetford, Vt.

MR. AND MRS. EDWARD G. BITSKAY JR. and family who have been vacationing in Bay-view, N.J., and Thetford, Vt., have-returned to their home in Ashland Ave.

Rose Society Tours Sunday

The midsummer garden tour of the Niagara Frontier Rose Society will be held Sunday aft­ernoon, beginning at the rose gardens at the Horticulture School in Queenston, Ont., at noon.

A luncheon will be held at the Queenston Heights Restau­rant at 1 that afternoon. At 2:30, the group will visit the rose fields of the Carl Pallek and Son Rose Nursery in Virgil, Ont.

Mrs. Charles H.'Facklam of Lynbrook Ave., Town of Tona-wanda, is chairman of the day.

For an interesting salad toss drained tuna with cooked snap beans plus an olive oil and vinegar dressing.

Dear Ahby .

Don't Mix'

Miss Maduri

Mr. and Mrs. Elias Amar of Gates Ave., Lackawnna, an­nounce the engagement of their granddaughter, C a t h y Ann Maduri, to Engineman 3/C An­tonio C. Rosati, USN, son of Mr. and Mrs. Corradino Rosati of Lockport. Miss Maduri gradu­ated from Lackawanna Senior High School. Her fiance, a

Eaduate of Lockport Senior gh School, is stationed aboard

the submarine S.S. Tinosa in New London, Conn.

By ABIGAIL VAN BUREN DEAR ABBY: I am with you all the way on

your stand against marijuana and LSD. Don't let anyone tell you that the best colleges and universities are indifferent to its use by their students. I am inclosing a letter to the editor of

Dear Abby appears every day except Saturday in The Courier-Express

the Keene, N.H., Evening Sentinel, which also runs your column. Readers always read Dear Abby, so I hope you feel this letter is worthy of publishing in your column.

MUNSONVILLLE READER

DEAR READER: Thank you for your fine suggestion. I agree, the letter is worth repub­lishing. Here it is:

"The dean's ofice has been repeatedly pressed by members of the freshman class for a state­ment of the college's administrative position with respect to the use of drugs including marijuana and LSD. If it wiU help anyone, I am pleased to clarify ear position.

"As anyone bright enough to be at Harvard knows perfectly well, possession of, or distri­bution of marijuana and LSD are strictly against the law, and taking the drags involves users in psychological dangers and contacts with the crim­inal underworld.

"The college is prepared to take serious dis­

ciplinary action, up to and including dismissal, against any student found to be involved in the use or distribution of illegal and dangerous drugs.

"In sum, if a student is stupid enough to mis­use his time here fooling around with illegal and dangerous drugs, our view is that he should leave college and make room for people prepared to take good advantage of a college opportunity.

"OFFICE OF THE DEAN: HARVARD

DEAR ABBY: This is for "Smokes Pot," who insists it is not dangerous.

I recently did a science report on "pot" and to drive home my point, I'll quote from the Encyclopedia Britannica: "Marijuana intoxica­tion usually leads to mental and moral degenera­tion. By releasing inhibitions, impairing judgment, and causing extensive distortion of time and space, it can make its victims entirely unaccount­able for their actions and may cause them to commit violent crimes. Many emotionally unstable persons known to be associated with major crimes prove to be marijuana users. Any exist­ing character weaknesses can be magnified by its use."

Sign this, KNOWS BETTER IN N.C.

Problems? Write to Abby, The Courier-Express, Buffalo, N.Y. 14240. For a personal, reply, inclose a stamped, self-addressed envelope.

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PORTER CUP WEEKEND—Final plans for the an­nual Porter Cup; Golf tournament to be held this weekend at the Niagara Falls Country Club are being made by Dr. Edward C. Rozek, Mr. and Mrs. Richard R. Harvey and John R. Haskett, club manager. The events will commence Thursday and conclude on Sunday with an award dinner. Dr. Rozek, Mr. Har-vey and William E. Hosier Jr. are co-chairmen of

Mr. Harvey Dr. Rozek

arrangements. Mrs. Harvey is helping with arrange­ments for the housing of out-of-town guests. Among social events planned in connection with the tourney are a cocktail party for the wives of players Thursday evening at the home of Mrs". Norton C. Willcox in Lewiston Heights and a formal dinner and dance Saturday evening at the clubhouse, also in Lewiston Heights.

Mary Haworth

This Husband's Mixed Up on Marriage DEAR MARY HAWORTH - 1

left my husband just a few days ago and already he has tele­phoned, sounding so pitiful, say­ing how miserable he is, and how much he misses me. He hasn't asked me to return, how­ever, and I'm not sure I want him to, as I don't think I could stand any more dissension.

We are both to blame, prob­ably. I feel so unsufie of my­self with him. During quar­rels he will say he hates me and wants a divorce, bat soon he apologizes.

He has told relatives and friends that he wants a divorce, but when I ask him about it, he denies everything. Now he says he likes being married but can't stand the arguiig, which is how I feel, too. Yet he refuses to change his attitude toward me, and I know it is unrealistic to expect people to change.

MY HUSBAND SAYS he guesses there is hops for our marriage if he will just .lie down and let me walk on him.

This makes me feel terrible, as I don't want that kind of relationship.

I am 26 and he is 30. We have a daughter, age 4, and I have a son from an earlier mar­riage, who lives with my par­ents.

We own three cars, none of which I'm allowed to drive. He takes me where I want to go and calls for me; he won't let me go alone. And he takes fanatical care of the cars, giv­ing most of his leisure to wash­ing, polishing and overhauling them.

I DONT KNOW what to do. I don't believe in divorce ex­cept for good reason and our reasons don't seem good enough. I don't know what I should hope for, and I admit I am lonely. I care about my husband and miss the man-wife relationship, but I suppose that's normal.

I feel I should wait until he does something that absolutely ends the marriage. Or until he sees that he is somewhat at fault I am willing to do al­

most anything to avoid divorce, but I feel I should have some rights as a person. Is there any hope for a situation like this? It seems so sad for all concerned. W. Y.

DEAR W.Y. — Your husband's fanatical devotion to his assort­ed automobiles, expressed in his jealous, proprietary, doting care of them, when considered in contrast to his combative be­lief that he's got to wear armor plate in relation to you, indi­cates that, basically, in the hus­band-lover role, he feels like a mouse.

In a sense, his highly polished cars, which he insists are his alone, which you mustn't touch, driver-wise, are his outward and visible claim to the power that he feels he lacks, inside himself. They are part of his armament for making like a man in the eyes of the world.

Also, his extraordinary giving of himself to the requirements of keeping his cars in top condi­tion, when weighed against his fear of being walked on if he

loves you freely, suggests that he feels psychologically safer with machinery than with per­sons.

IT'S NOTHING you've done or failed to do that makes him the way he is.

Rather, he is fighting enor­mous, underlying self-distrust and fear of humiliation, failure, etc., in the realm of heterosex­ual love relationships, as he bat­tles, theoretically, to keep the acknowledged upper hand in re­lation to you.

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