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SEX WITH CHILDREN=

TRA G EDY

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SEXUAL ABUSE

30% of all little girls are sexually abused before 10 years old.

25% of all little boys are sexually abused before 10 years old.

The perpetrator is usually someone very close that thechild knows and loves (relatives, authority figures, etc)

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WHO ARE SEXUAL ABUSERS?Child molesters come from every class, profession, racial, and religious background

Most are persons child knows and trusts

Highest incidence happens within the family, extended family, including stepfamily

90% of reported abusers are married men

Large proportion are married with children themselves

Most offenders lacked affection and physical contact when they were young (That is No Excuse!)

High percentage were themselves abused as children (No Excuse!)

Child molesters tend to gravitate towards places, professions, and activities which put them into easy contact with children

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WHO ARE SEXUAL ABUSERS? (cont.)

Abusers usually pick out their victims and plan their activity

Child molesters average 73 child victims before they are caught (USA Statistic)

Offenders avoid detection, they are experts at hiding their deviant behaviour

Sexual abusers are often persons who are perceived authority-figures to the child, therefore, the child tends to be easily coerced into silence because of fear

Despite efforts to work with offenders, the risk of re-offending (committing this crime again) is 75%

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HOW TO NOT GET AIDS

1. Treat your body as a special gift, don’t give it away to anybody.

2. Wait for sex until you get married.

3. Don’t let anyone but “YOU” touch your private parts.

4. Treat others with respect also.

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GOOD TOUCHESPat on the head

Hugging your family

Kissing your friend on the cheek

Holding your friend's hand

Good playing

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BAD TOUCHES

Anyone touching your private parts

Kissing girlfriend/boyfriend on the mouth

Playing games with your private parts

Having sex before you are married

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NO!NO!GO!GO!

TELL!TELL!

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WHAT TO DO IF SOMEBODY IS FORCING YOU SEXUALLY OR SEXUALLY ABUSING YOU:

NO!1. Say a big NO! RUN!

2. Get away quickly... run if you can.

3. Do not keep it a secret. NOSECRET

4. Do not feel shame. You are not to blame!NO

SHAME5. Tell an adult person you trust what has happened (like the police, a pastor, or your principal).

TELL

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MAKE SURE

SEXUAL ABUSE

GOOD TOUCHESBAD TOUCHES

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YOU HAVE CONTROLOVER YOUR OWN BODY…

NOT SOMEONE ELSE!

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SEXUAL ABUSEALWAYS REPORT

TO AUTHORITIES

SEXUAL ABUSEALWAYS REPORT

TO AUTHORITIES

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REPORTING TO:

1. Law enforcement

2. Child help lines

3. Child welfare

4. Child Protection

Units

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SEXUAL ABUSE VICTIMS

1. Emotional

problems

2. Mental difficulties

3. Spiritual problems

4. Physical problems

5. Social problems

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CHURCH AND CHILD WORKERSStep 1: The 6-month ruleStep 2: Screening formsStep 3: Contact referencesStep 4: Two-adult ruleStep 5: The appropriate responseStep 6: EducationStep 7: Accountability, not mercy