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Creating a Culture of Ownership through Painless Performance Conversations Painless Performance Conversations Webinar Series Presented by: By Marnie Green, IPMA-CP, Principal Consultant

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Creating a Culture of Ownership through Painless Performance

Conversations

Painless Performance Conversations Webinar Series

Presented by:

By Marnie Green, IPMA-CP, Principal Consultant

A BLM webinar series based on

the new book

About Me

Principal Consultant, Management Education

Group, Inc.

Supporter of public sector supervisors, managers, and HR leaders who are charged

with developing strong workplaces

Our Plan for Today

Why Don’t we Hold Employee’s

Accountable?

Creating a Culture of Ownership

Accountability vs. Ownership

What is Accountability?

The Conversation

Hook

Starting the Ownership Conversation

Critical Mindsets for Painless Performance Conversations

LEAD with Behavior

ELIMINATE Judgment

INQUIRE with Purpose

BE Clear

Next to human connectivity, accountability is the single most

powerful, most desired yet least understood characteristic of

a successful environment.

--Susan Scott

Think of a time when an employee needed to be held accountable.

What was the situation?

What did “accountable” meanto you?

“Emotion is the moment when steel meets flint and a spark is struck forth, for emotion is the chief source of consciousness. There is no change from darkness to light or from inertia to movement without emotion. -- Carl Jung

Emotion

Your Role = Catalyst

Help others take responsibility, rather than taking it on yourself

Help others see the impact of the situation

Be the spark that ignites movement in others

Five Reasons We Don’t Hold Others Accountable

Fear of offending or jeopardizing the relationship

Feeling we have a lack of time to follow up

Lack of faith that the effort will make a difference

Fear of exposing our own failures

Fear of retaliation

What is Accountability?

Webster’s definition:

“subject to having to report, explain, or justify; being answerable, responsible”

Tone: Blame

Outcome: Defensiveness, Excuses, Finger pointing

The Rub

“Accountability is one of the

“worst” best practices in

business today.”

The Cost of Accountability

BLAME

LOSS

DEFENSIVENESS

FAULT

FEAR

Painless Perspective

Focus on what you can control: the future. Let go of what you can’t; the past.

Ownership

Webster’s definition:

“A personal choice to rise above one’s circumstances and demonstrate the conviction necessary for achieving desired results.”

Tone: Productive

Outcome: Commitment, problem-solving, follow-up

Painless Perspective

Foster ownership, rather than demand accountability.

The Alternative: Create a Culture of Ownership

From Accountability Externalizing

Blaming Others

Doing the Job

Working in Silos

Telling Others What to Do

To Ownership Internalizing the Need to

Change Owning Responsibility

Achieving the Result

Collaborating

Engaging Hearts & Minds

Begin with Your Own Perspective

The Fallacy – assuming something is wrong with them

The Assumption – people do their very best to fulfill your expectations

The Truth – embracing the idea that you contribute to the problem

Tips for Creating a Culture of Ownership

Enlist employee participation in annual goal setting Share big picture organizational goals Conduct annual “stay” interviews Give employees space to do their own projects Communicate expectations and check in often Give frequent feedback and feedforward Give timely input when expectations aren’t being met Ask employees for recommendations Share customer feedback with employees

Starting Ownership Conversations

“Tell me about it.”

Tell Me About It Examples

“Mia, I’ve noticed you have a number of reports on your desk that

should have been finished and turned in at least a week ago.

Tell me about it.”

Tell Me About It Examples

“Mike, I noticed you and your crew seem to be at odds lately.

Tell me about it.”

Tell Me About It Examples

“Marcelo, during the staff meeting I noticed that you seemed unhappy with

the direction the work unit is going. You rolled your eyes and seemed to have an opinion that you didn’t share when we

talked about the restructuring. Tell me about it.”

Beware of Reverse Delegation

“I don’t know what you want. You tell me.”

“You have so much more experience at this than I do.”

“You always do a better job at this than I do.”

Don’t Get Hooked!

The Conversation Hook

Often, we let employees “off the hook” and contribute to an environment that lacks

ownership of the work.

Off the Hook

Manager to Employee:

“It sounds like you and John are having conflicts. I will talk with him and tell him that he needs to cooperate with you.”

or

“If you are having conflicts with John, you should tell him that you need his assistance to get the job completed and that he should tell you if he’s not getting what he needs.” 

Clear Ownership

 Manager to Employee:

“What steps can you take to resolve the conflict you are having with John?”

or

“I know you can resolve this issue with John. What options have you considered?”

Painless Perspective

Employees must own the problem before they can own the solution.

Off the Hook

Manager to Employee:

“You’re right. This is a confusing process. Let me show you how to do the data collection because that’s the hardest part.”

or

“This can be tough. Ask John to help you with the data collection.”

Clear Ownership

 Manager to Employee:

“This is a confusing process to learn. What do you need to better understand it?”

or

“This is a tough project. What do you need to get it completed on time?”

Now You Try

Manager to Employee:

“It looks like you are busy planning the graduation event. Don’t forget to order the certificates, confirm the room set-up, and check with Dolores on the budget.”

Instead say…

Clear Ownership

 Manager to Employee:

“I see you are busy planning the graduation event. What help do you need from me?”

or

“The graduation event is a complicated project. What challenges are you facing?”

Now You Try

Manager to Employee:

“There are so many viewpoints to consider. Based on my experience, I’d call Joan and Ben. They are really the most important people in this case.”

or

“Let me tell you who you need to contact in this situation.”

Clear Ownership

 Manager to Employee:

“Have you considered who else needs to be involved in this project?”

or

“Whose input will be important to getting this done correctly?”

Now You Try

Manager to Employee:

“Initiating a conversation with Susan on this topic could be touchy. Would you like me to do it for you?”

or

“Susan can be difficult to work with. Why don’t I take care of talking with her?”

Clear Ownership

 Manager to Employee:

“Discussing this with Susan will be challenging. What do you need to do to prepare for that meeting?”

or

“Tell me a little about how you see your meeting with Susan going.”

Painless Perspective

You can’t “hold employees accountable” and expect to create an environment

of trust and loyalty.

Instead, create an accountability culture.

Questions and Conversations

Next Webinar Opportunity

September 4, 2013

Conducting a Painless Performance Conversation

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Marnie E. Green

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