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A Theory to Call My Own: Christian Counseling
Surprize Stephenson
Liberty University
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Introduction
God created all things true, and so all things belong to Him. The integration of
psychology, theology and spirituality involves recognizing what belongs to God and what
doesnt; if it is true then it is His. According to Entwistle (2004) all truth is Gods truth either
of His word or His works (p. 16). This is why a wise Christian counselor utilizes many
techniques as well as practices of psychology, theology and spirituality in their approach to
counseling. McMinn (1996) suggests that
Personality
For the Lord does not see as man sees; for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord
looks at the heart (1 Samuel 16:7).
This scripture is one that a multitasking Christian counselor should focus on when
approaching the structure of personality; people are so much more than what can be seen. In
order to be a help to any client one must be aware of and have a clear understanding of the
structure of personality. The personality of a person is very complex and changes many times as
internal and external things come and go (Hawkins, n.d.). Crabb (1977) believes that the
personality has two parts, the physical and the mental and the personal and the non-material.
Crabb (1977) said that what is visible (the body) belongs to the physical side and what is not
seen (the soul and spirit), which is so important, belongs to the personal. Hawkins (n.d.) presents
a more detailed explanation of the whole self and uses five circles to separate the forces that
shape it.
Hawkins (n.d.) presents five concentric circles that represent the make-up of personality
along side their internal and external influences as well. These five circles are the core self, the
mental and emotional self (soul), the physical self (body), the external self (temporal systems),
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and the supernatural. According to Hawkins (n.d.) the birthing of personality begins at the core
which includes the image of God, the nature of sin and the Holy Spirit. The soul circle
encompasses a persons feelings and emotions as well as their thought processes. The body circle
is the physical make-up of man. The temporal systems is affected by all outward factors to
include family, the Church, the government, etc and lastly the supernatural includes God, Satan,
angels and demons. These influences affect the make-up of personality and give insight to the
sources of problems.
Motivation
Do not be deceived: God is not mocked, for whatever one sows, that will he also reap. for the
one who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption, but the one who sows to the
Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life (Gallations 6: 7-8)
Motivation is a subject that has been heavily consider by many theorist and implemented
into many theories; the most effective Christian counselor will wisely use the most beneficial
approaches within their own counseling approach. People are motivated or in other terms
provoked by many factors to meet their needs. According to Crabb (1977) people need two
things significance and security to gain a confident sense of personal worth, he feels that any
problem a counselee present stems from one of these two. When one has the belief that they are
not worth value it will create a stimulus to attempt to fit in or be liked.
This model also considers what Sandra Wilson (2001) proposed which is that people are
motivated by past and present external issues that create what she calls unseen wounds (p. 48).
Wilson (2001) believes that these unseen wounds are the outcome of years and years of
mistreatment by family and that the belief that one should be able to take anything sent their
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way. When people view them selves as imperfect or different then a motivation to fit in or be the
same arises.
Lastly, Anderson (2000) states in his bookThe Bondage Breakerthat people feel they are
their own God and seek to define their own selfish purposes. He states that being separate from
God createscacreates a desire (motivation) in man to seek out significance and notoriety for a
self-serving purposenotariety.
Human Development
Personality develops in stages from childhood, youth, middle life and old age
(Goldenberg and Goldenberg, 2013). Just as the human body grows and changes as time
progresses, so does the internal workings of human beings change and reform with time. Many
theorists have taken to the matter of human development in order to gain a greater understanding.
The approaches considered for this model consider psychological development as well as
spiritual development and that they should be seen as two entities that work together. Eric
Erickson posed a model that suggests as a person grows each stage will guide into the next and it
is when one stage is not successfully mastered that developmental delays become evident
creating problems in the following stages (Goldenberg and Goldenberg, 2013).
Personality develops in stages from childhood, youth, middle life and old age (Goldenberg and
Goldenberg, 2013).
Individual Differences
It is important to understand the life experiences that people encounter; these things form
the ideas, perceptions, as well as the decisions the clients make (Hawkins).
Working Definition of Health
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Healthy individuals bear the image of God; man was made in His image. The goal of the
multitasking Christian counselor should be spiritual and psychological health. McMinn (1996)
presents three factors that determine health they are, accurate awareness of self, accurate
awareness of needs, and involvement in healthy relationships. Cloud and Townsend (1992)
suggest that when a person is healthy they exhibit particular characteristics.
Working Definition of Illness
Illness can take on many forms and may not be visible to the naked eye.
C. Psychological and Spiritual Illness
Satan inflicts faulty thoughts consuming the mind (Anderson).
Role of Integration and Multitasking
When developing a theory one must have the ability to set aside personal values and beliefs to
make beneficial choices for the client. For one to be able to do this it is imperative that the
counselor attempt to Spoil the Egyptians and interwork various theories, practices of varying
perspectives simultaneously.
IV. How to Source Problems and Structure Effective Intervention
Key Elements of my Theory
The cure is helping to guide the counseling process through biblical foundations with
psychological practices to foster spiritual wholesomeness (Hawkins, n.d.). God is almighty and
he is the curer of all things.
McMinn (1966) offers a simple pattern for healing p. 40
Hawkins (n.d.) process for intervention is specific and will set one totally free.
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Process and Techniques
Client trust is very important; Crabb (1977) suggests that when a positive relationship is
forged early on it makes for a greater outcome. Relationships can take on many different forms
depending on the personality, and issues of those involved. The counselor should ensure the
clients best interest is always considered as well as to ensure they feel at ease with the process.
Accepting and understanding truth is vital to helping a client realize where lies and maladaptive
behaviors have developed (Wilson, Backus & Chapian, and Anderson).
Hawkins (n. D) offers a four step process that involves attentively listening to the clients story,
assisting the client in setting ideal goals, create the plan of action to execute, and last to help the
client enter into supportive community relationships to promote continued growth. Step one of
Hawkins (n.d.) process requires that the counselor get an understanding of what is happening.
The counselor should work diligently to define the meaning to the issues that the client presents
is a great beginning to establishing attainable goals.
Expectations of Effectiveness
Evidence that this model can be effective would be a sign of spiritual maturity (Hawkins) as
well as change in life (Wilson). Following Gods word will never lead one wrong, He is honest
and His answers are meek.
Theoretical Considerations and Worldview Dimensions
God is the all in all; He is everywhere, all the time. Therefore, this model encompasses
His teachings and the way He would have His people to live. This model is not ignorant of the
non-Christian; it is however, hopeful of sharing the goodness of Christ with them. Jesus Christ
B. Approach to Integration
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Spoiling the Egyptians is the approach to effective integration within this
model.
C. Conclusion