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Liz Horgan - Reflection for Chapter #4 Communication Ethics Literacy
! Common sense, or “theory in the eye(s) of the beholder” as our textbook titled
the chapter, is a commonly understood belief, an assumption of how the world is and
works. Postmodernity suggests that there is no common sense, only many uncommon
ways of believing. The many interpretations of “good”, of common sense, are affected
by individual experiences and grounded in time and place. The danger and conflict that
we see played out daily, in our lives, in the news, in fiction and film, comes from one
group assuming that their “common” sense is universally correct.
! In the film, “The Constant Gardener” (2005) starring Ralph Fiennes as Justin
(aka the avid gardener) and Rachel Weisz as Tessa (his wife) are faced with different
“goods”, different “common sense” which ends up tearing them apart. They are
stationed in Africa, and Tessa ends up uncovering a secret where a big pharmaceutical
company is doing illegal drug testing on the unsuspecting and powerless poor who are
already infected with HIV. Tessa is an activist and has a common sense that all life is
valuable. She investigates and, pregnant, is found daily in the slums helping the
disadvantaged. She feels compelled to stop the drug company from taking advantage
of the poor, sick and disenfranchised. Her husband Justin, is a low-level, seemingly
meek diplomat whose passion is plants instead of people. He tells Tessa that they canʼt
involve themselves in the lives of millions, and urges her to be reasonable as he puts
her health and that of their unborn child first. When Justin and Tessa discovered their
“common sense” was not universal (in this case not shared by the other), they withdrew
their conflicting values/ideas from their relationship dialog and did not seek to learn of
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and from the other. Outside influences reinforce their individual perceptions, and when
Tessa loses the baby and the diplomatic corps pressures Justin to rein in his outspoken
wife, their communication shuts down completely. Neither Justin nor Tessa talk to each
other about what is going on, silent on the issues that are most powerful for each of
them. This unwillingness to tackle their differences led to terrible outcomes. Their
relationship falters, and misunderstandings blossom. When Tessa is murdered, Justin
sets out to discover what happened, and only then finds Tessaʼs truths that she hid from
him (because she loved him and didnʼt want to get him into trouble or upset him). Tessa
hid her truth for what I believe she felt were “right” reasons, yet the damage this did was
catastrophic.
! I think if Justin and Tessa had talked, if they had dialog and a sharing and
learning of the otherʼs point of view, the outcome might have been different. The
assumptions each character made, though well intentioned, clouded the situation!and
precluded any sort of learning about the differences; learning was actively avoided.
What does it take to be open to listening, to put effort into dialog and learning, to try to
find a way to live together with differences in personal “common sense”?
! I believe motivation is an important factor. The motivation to dialog, to open up
and learn about the “common sense” of others. But motivation is hard to come by, just
look at all of the failed diets and people who have quit smoking a dozen times. Practice
helps, especially because it is through practice habits are formed and changes are
made. One idea is that motivation can come out of a crisis; for example, shifts in the
regular environment shake up normalcy and pacivity and put people in a need-to-know-
more place, which is conducive to learning. The challenge is to find the motivation to be
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active in learning and consensus building, to accept different “common senses” and to
be willing to discuss differences respectfully with intention on a regular basis. Is
awareness of this enough? Probably not, but it is a start.
! Because of the differences in group/individual definitions of “common” sense and
“common good”, agreement is unlikely, and consensus rare. Learning about other
positions and points of view, by open and respectful listening and dialog, is the best we
have today. It is important to find the motivation to have difficult conversations and the
address differences. Openness to otherʼs possibilities and a willingness to share
conflicting values and ideas is risky; however, not making the effort to learn from others,
as illustrated by this movie through Tessa and Justin, is even more risky.