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Ciara’s cottage mom meets her at the door.“You have a message. Dr. Blackwell called.

He wants you to call him.”The eighteen-year-old stops in her tracks. “I

didn’t know what to do. The president of BaptistChildren’s Homes (BCH) wants me to call him ––and he gave me his personal cell phone number.”She punches the numbers; the phone rings as

she holds her breath. “Ciara, is that you?”“Yes sir,” she replied, quietly listening. “Yes sir,

I did get accepted into University of North Car-olina-Chapel Hill.”Blackwell’s voice booms from the phone. He is

ecstatic. Ciara would be attending his alma mater.“I’m so super proud of you. This is ‘over the moon’great news.”Ciara smiles wide, happy in the moment, celebrat-

ing her success. The other good news she shares is that she is ranked number one in her graduatingclass of 162 students. She will be Thomasville HighSchools’s 2019 Valedictorian. Before Blackwell wraps up their conversation,

telling Ciara more about being a Tar Heel, he says,“Carolina graduates span the world. You are a partof something big.” Then his voice lowers and hespeaks with a somber tone, “But remember, we are your family. No matter where your life leads you, you can always come home.” Ciara Stubblefield never knew her birth father.

Her mother was 16 years old when she moved toTennessee where Ciara was born. She was strong, independent minded and determined to care for Ciara and her younger sister. “My sister and I felt loved,” she remembers.

“I know she made bad choices, but it was the drugaddiction that destroyed our mom and our family.”Their mother overdosed and died on July 3, 2013.

In November, the girls came to Mills Home.

“Mom alwaysplaced a priority onour school work. Wewent to school andshe had expectationsthat we do well,”Ciara recalls. “And we did.”Ciara is proud

of how well she andher sister are doing in school. Her sister,who now lives with an aunt, and Ciara’sgrade point averagesare only fractionsapart –– with Ciarakeeping the lead.“When I first arrived at Mills Home, I couldn’t

help but feel that I had done something wrong,” she confides. “It took a while for me to realize thatwhat had happened to me wasn’t my fault. I beganto understand that God had a plan for my life.”In October 2014, Ciara said, “It clicked.” She

had watched her Christian cottage parents. She hadlistened closely to Mills Home Baptist Church pastorRandy Stewart’s words. She knew she wanted Jesusin her life.“I’m part of that BCH statistic that says 80% of

the children who come into care are unchurched,”she says. “I went from attending church occasionally,to attending church every Sunday and Wednesday.There are cottage devotions. You learn how Godwants a relationship with you. It’s mind blowing.”Ciara begins her freshman year at UNC-Chapel

Hill in the fall. She plans to major in physics. “I’mgoing to college. It’s weird and I’m a little scared.But I’m ready. My family at Mills Homes is there forme, encouraging me, giving me a place to call home.And I’m trusting God to guide my every step.”

Valedictorian testifies:“God has plan for my life.”___________________________________________________________________________________

By Jim Edminson, Editor

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Last month, when Father’s Day rolled around, I paused to think of my own dad and his

influence on me. People often compliment me on my voice. Well, that is both a gift from GodAND from my father, who had a deep baritonevoice. Although he spent 32 years as a life insur-ance salesman, his great love was music and thedelight of his life was leading the choir at myhome church in Gastonia. He didn’t get paid, except $50 for each of the two revivals held atFlint-Groves Baptist Church when I was growingup. As a young man, he sang in a gospel quartetand he often took me to “singings” on Sunday afternoons. Clitus Shelly Blackwell was born March 15,

1909. He was one of 11 children to Belton andHester Dockery Blackwell. Always ambitious,Dad, with solid black wavy hair, was a bit of a ladies’ man. I can see why –– he was Hollywoodhandsome. Because of pressing problems athome, and the need to help his family financially,Dad quit school at age 16. That was fairly com-mon in 1925. The uncommon thing was that hereturned to school four years later and graduatedat age 21. That’s remarkable. There were only 11 grades in those days and Dad would have been four years older than other graduating seniors. That took lots of courage and I alwayscommended him for doing that.I never heard my father raise his voice –– and

he had plenty of reasons to do just that. He was,at times, tough on me. He would sit with me for hours with an old Wollensak reel-to-reel taperecorder, showing me how to pronounce andenunciate certain words. When I started preach-ing, he admonished me to always preach so theperson on the back row could hear me. Clitus was not a man who showed his

emotions. Maybe that was his generation ––The Greatest Generation. But, he completelybroke down when I announced my Call to

Ministry on Christ-mas Day (a Sunday)in 1966. The manwas sobbing and itstill chokes me up to this day when I think about it. (I also announcedmy engagement to Kathy Kanipe at the same churchservice, but, surely,his tears didn’thave anything todo with that!). My father died

a painful death in January 1988.He had only one major healthproblem and it was his down-fall. He was anaddicted chainsmoker for over 60 years.He literallysmoked him-self to death.That’s what’son the deathcertificate ––emphysemadue to smoking.In 1981,

Landrum, S.C. High School classmate AlmaDaniel wrote my father a letter following a reunion (only a few people attended out of a graduating class of 32). I ran across that letterrecently and want to share it for posterity’s sake.

Enclosed was an arti-cle from the Spartan-burg Herald entitled“Landrum Boy Many-Sided.” It’s dated April25, 1930: Versatileand many-sided is Clitus Blackwell of theLandrum High Schoolsenior class. When classstatistics were madepublic recently, Clitus was listed withthe following dis-tinctions: mostcheerful, hand-somest, bestsport, biggestsheik, most mu-sical, most origi-nal. Clitus isalso Treasurer ofthe Senior Class,and was one of32 seniors fromSpartanburgCounty who made a train trip to Washington,D.C. for a four-day tour of the city.Going with Clitusfrom Landrumwere Rob Christo-pher, Floyd Daniel,Foy Gilbert, MabelKilpatrick, andAlma Daniel. This letter

is a rare find, givingme further insightinto the remarkableman who was my father. Dad loved tosing, and I can onlybelieve that he is fol-lowing Alma’s advicein Heaven –– namely,that he will sing“from now on out.”

My full name is Michael Clitus Blackwell. The older I get, the happier I am that my parentsmade my middle name the same as my father’sfirst name. I can only hope to be half the man he was.

[ MY THOUGHTS }

Rememberingmy namesake___________________________________________________

ByMichael C. Blackwell, President/CEO

Editor’s Note: To commemorate Father’s Day2019, this heart-warming column appears again. Remember your Mom and Dad by making a gift in their honor or memory. See page 12.

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The reaccreditation process is not a simple task. It takes a core team

of employees and the efforts of BaptistChildren’s Homes (BCH) entire staffmembers a year to prepare for the ar-rival of peer reviewers from the Councilon Accreditation of Services for Familyand Children (COA).And each time the ministry goes

through this process, staff membersmightily meet the challenge.Out of the 1,084 standards that

were reviewed during the process on February 18 -20, BCH received a perfect score on 1073 of them. Inother words, peer reviewers found BCH to be “absolutely excellent” with

no improvements needed.“This is a tremendous blessing from

God and a testament to the diligentwork of our team,” said Bond Kiser,Vice President of Staff Engagement andCompliance. Kiser, along with WendyWeatherman, were key leaders on theCOA staff team.Accreditation is the highest form

of professional affirmation an organiza-tion such as BCH can receive. BCH received its first accreditation in 1987. COA is an independent, not-for-

profit accrediting body accreditingmore than 2,200 private and public organizations serving more than sevenmillion children, individuals and fami-lies in the USA and Canada.

In the presence of Baptist Chil-dren’s Homes (BCH) leadership,trustees and peers, several staffmembers were recognized as 2019“Employees of the Year” for theiroutstanding service.“This is one of my favorite

times of the year, it is a day whenwe say thank you for your excellentservice,” BCH president/CEOMichael C. Blackwell said.The ceremony took place

on April 23 at Mills Home inThomasville. Recipients are voted on by their peers.

2019 HonoreesSissy Britt is an office profes-

sional with Special Ministries administration in Thomasville. Shetackles responsibilities which keepthe Developmental Disabilities Min-istries operating at the highest level.“The DDM residents are wel-

coming and always remember your name,” she shared. “Working at BCH isn’t a ‘have’ to but a ‘get’ to.”

Matt and Jessie Chilson are child care work-ers at Kennedy Home in Kinston. They cared for children through two separate hurricanes andare matchless when it comes to child care work. “I’m so thankful to work hand in hand with

the gift God has given me in my husband, butequally thankful for the staff at Kennedy Homewho supports us,” Jessie Chilson shared.

Bobby and Sonya Dalke serve at BroyhillHome in Clyde as senior child care workers. Thecouple is always ready, day or night, to provide

the caring home a child desperately needs.“My passion has always been to share Christ

with the children,” Bobby Dalke said. “I am sothankful to be able to share that faith freely ineverything we do.”

Marcia Housand is the Development andCommunications database administrator. Shemanages her “behind-the-scenes” task with impeccable integrity.“This award is an honor,” Housand said. “I

am truly blessed to serve for these past 29 years.”Vivian Johnson is a senior child care worker

at Broyhill Home in Clyde impacting the oldergirls living in the transitional living cottage.

“This is not just a job –– it’s a family,” Johnson said. “I lovewhat I do, and God isn’t finishedwith me yet.”

Robert Leonard is the NorthCarolina Baptist Aging Ministry(NCBAM) South Central Regional Director and works tirelessly to meet the needs ofaging adults. Leonard said. “The focus has

always been to share Christ andmeet the needs of aging peoplethrough His love.”

Ruby Pennington serves as the Properties/Family ResourceCenter (FRC) office professional.She is an ambassador to visitorsand other who come to the FRCfor meetings and trainings.“I thank my Lord and Savior

for blessing me and allowing meto be a part of this awesome min-istry,” Pennington said.

Paul Sexton is program coordi-nator for the Developmental Disabilities Program(DDM). He is known as “Mr. Sunshine” becauseof his kindness and positive spirit.“He loves his job and it shows,” his wife

Connie shared. “He’s such a gentle man and his heart is amazingly large.”

Sandra Taylor has served as an office profes-sional at Cameron Boys Camp (CBC) for 25years. She is the compassionate voice first heardwhen a call comes into the camp office.“She’s incredibly humble,” said CBC director

Drew Scott. “She’s faithful to her work, faithfulto her family, and she’s faithful to her Jesus.”

Pictured left to right are: Michael C. Blackwell, BCH President/CEO; Robert Leonard,NCBAM Regional Director; Vivian Johnson, Broyhill Home Senior Child CareWorker; Paul

Sexton, DDM Program Coordinator; Sandra Taylor, CBCOffice Professional; Marcia Housand,Development & Communications Database Administrator; Sissy Britt, Special Ministries OfficeProfessional; Jess and Matt Chilson, Kennedy Home Child CareWorkers; Ruby Pennington,Properties/FRCOffice Professional; Sonya and Bobby Dalke, Broyhill Home Senior Child

CareWorkers; Jerry Jordan, Board of Trustees Vice Chairman.

[ EMPLOYEES OF THE YEAR }

Staff members recognized by peers for their service_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By Blake Ragsdale, Managing Editor

The BCH accreditation leadership team proudly displays the official COA certification. Left to right are: Linda Morgan, Vicki Buckner, Wendy Weatherman,

Nancy McNeill, Bond Kiser, Michael C. Blackwell, Regina Keener.

Accreditation is near perfect______________________________________________________________________________________________________

Iremember my dad’s encouraging wordsthroughout my life, “You can do this.

Keep trying.” I remember how he encour-aged me for hours while I practiced my free throws –– hoping to make the basket-ball team.

I remember Thursday night church visi-tation. A group always gathered at churchfor prayer and then visited those they feltGod had put on their heart. I learned fromDad the importance of crying out to myHeavenly Father on behalf of others.

My dad was a fixer. He could fix anything that had a motor. He would tinker for hours on one of his old tractors. I learned how to drive one of those tractorsunder his tutelage. It was great fun untilthe day that I hit the house coming aroundthe corner a little too fast. Obviously, hewas better at fixing the tractor than teach-ing me how to drive it. My dad instilledwithin me the need to be a fixer –– what-ever the problem.

My dad was a builder. He and my uncle built the house my family lived in for more than 60 years. He taught me the importance of building up people. He was an encourager to all who knew him. I remember at his funeral, people kepttelling me about how Mom and Dad hadbeen a friend to them and helped them.

My dad was a teacher. I remember sittingat the dining room table the night before

I began my first job. I would be operating a cash register and I worried that if I didnot count the money back to the customercorrectly that by the end of the day my bosswould not be happy with me. Dad sat withme as I went over every combination ofchange I might give to a customer. My dadtaught me to teach by example –– no matterwhat the lesson.

My dad was a musician. He had a song in his heart and shared it through music.He was so gifted. He played the guitar, the bass and the piano. He also sang –– he had a beautiful voice. I remember whenever we traveled in the car, we would sing. My mother also has a beautiful voice. As a young child I sang loud and terribly offkey. As I listened and learned from my Dadand Mom, my voice changed. I was taught a new song. I was given a new voice. One of joy and hope. Today, I still sing loud, but hopefully on key.

When learning to swim, Dad was thereholding me up. I remember every time helet go, I would feel like I was sinking. Buthe was there. My Dad was my lifeguardand, often times, my lifeline throughout our life together.

As summer approaches, many of our chil-dren will make their way to the pool. I canalmost hear their giggles as they splasharound in the water. I see our lifeguardthere to keep watch over them. Forthem, the pool water is cool, refresh-ing and lots of fun. As adults, weknow there are also dangers.

Too many of the children in our care have experienced the dangerous side of life. No one watched over them or protected them. Therewere no lifeguards againstthe physical and sexualabuse, neglect, or the perilsof the opioid epidemic.There were no lifeguardsto keep them off the street.There were no lifeguardsto keep them from harm or throw them a lifeline.

Many of our childrenhave not known their fathers –– fathers who wouldprotect them or care forthem. Their earthly fathershave not been spiritual guides,fixers, builders, teachers, singers

of hope, or lifelines. Father’s Day is June 16. In honor or

in memory of your dad, take the opportu-nity this Father’s Day to remember him in a way that provides a lifeline to a child in need. All honor and memorial gifts givenbetween April 1 and July 1 will be listed in our August issue of Charity & Children.We are printing the names of those honoredand of those who gave. This is a wonderfulopportunity for you to honor your fatherthis Father’s Day. (See page 12.)

For those who have been builders, teachers, fixers, singers of hope, and life-guards –– thank you! For those who haveloved, prayed, nurtured, mentored, andsupported –– thank you! When children are struggling to stay afloat, when they feelas if they are swimming against the currentof despair and hopelessness, you are there.Thank you, for helping us throw out thelifeline of Christ’s love to children and families. Thank you for helping us to be fathers to the fatherless while pointing

them to our Heavenly Father!

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Remembering my dad and all he taught me_________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By Brenda B. Gray, Executive Vice President, Development & Communications

[ WORTHWHILE INVESTMENTS }

Brenda Gray serves BCH as the executive vicepresident, development & communications anddirects all fund-raising/friend-raising activities for the state-wide services.

Hope in Style Fashion Show:Greensboro Country Club – Aug. 17

Western Area Conference:Broyhill Home in Clyde – Sept. 5

Friends of Children Workday:Mills Home in Thomasville – Sept 14Kennedy Home in Kinston – Sept 21Camp Duncan in Aberdeen – Sept 21Odum Home in Pembroke – Sept 21Oak Ranch in Broadway – Sept 28

Founders Days:Camp Duncan for Girls – Sept. 24

Week of Prayer: Nov. 10-17

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SwingGetting into the

of Summertime!Whether it’s finding the perfect sea

shell, learning about God’s love at Vacation Bible School, or simply swinging in the cottage’s back-

yard, your summer gift is helping boys and girls make summertime

memories they willNEVER forget!

For many, this will be their firstsummer free from hurt and heartache.Your gift gives a child the joy of simplybeing a child. Please give today!

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BCH RESIDENTSCiara Stubblefield,

a resident at Mills Home inThomasville, graduates fromThomasville High School onJune 8. She has been acceptedto the University of NorthCarolina at Chapel Hill whereshe plans to pursue a degree in Physics.Khalah White will graduate

from Tri-County Early College in Murphy withan associates degree on May10. She will also receive herhigh school diploma from thecollege on May 24. Khalah willattend Western Carolina Uni-versity in Cullowhee where sheplans to major in nursing andpsychology. She is a resident atTruett Home in Hayesville.Taylor

White graduates on June 1from North Lenoir HighSchool in La Grange. She is a resident at Kennedy Home in Kinston. Taylor will remainat Kennedy Home while attending Lenoir CommunityCollege in Kinston to studyfine arts.

FORMER BCH RESIDENTRoberta Edwards, a former resident who

lived at Broyhill Home in Clyde, graduates fromnursing school at Haywood Community College.Roberta is enrolled at East Tennessee State Uni-versity to pursue a Bachelor Degree in Nursing.She has already accepted a position as a registered

nurse with Mission Hospital in Asheville.

STAFF CHILDRENAshleigh Barnes graduated

on May 10 with an associate in arts degree from DavidsonCounty Early College in Lexington. She also receivedher high school diploma on

May 18. Ashleigh is the daugh-ter of Miriam Matias, a residentmanager for Family Care atMills Home in Thomasville.Ashleigh plans to attend theUniversity of North Carolina at Wilmington to pursuea Bachelor of Science Degreein Forensic Psychology.

ZenaidaBryant is the daughter of RoseBryant, Director of FamilyWork at Kennedy Home inKinston. Zenaida graduatesfrom Kinston High School onJune 1. She will attend UNCChapel Hill where she willmajor in exercise and sportsscience.

Caitlyn Cable graduates on June 8 from West CaldwellHigh School in Lenoir. Shewill attend Western CarolinaUniversity this fall. Caitlyn is the daughter of Jada Cable,Program Supervisor/CaseManager at Care House inLenoir.Dai-shon Donald, son of

Kennedy Home case manager Serena Rouse,graduates from J.H. RoseHigh School in Greenville on June 7. He plans to majorin exercise and sport science at UNC Pembroke.Kristin Frazier graduated

on May 11 from AppalachianState University in Boone with a Bachelor Degree in Industrial Design with

a concentration in Furniture Design. She

begins an internship with HaasBrothers Designs in Los Ange-les, CA this Summer. Kristin isthe daughter of Faith Frazier,an accounts receivable profes-sional in BCH Administrationin Thomasville.Haley Garner graduated in

December 2018 with a Bache-lor of Sci-ence Degree in Nursing fromEast Carolina i Grenville. Sheis the daughter of Lynn Gar-ner, Director of Family Care.Haley is a registered nurse atVidant Hospital in Greenville.Colby King is the son of

Rebecca King, NC PreKteacher for Weekday Education

in Thomasville. He graduateson June 8 from East DavidsonHigh School in Thomasville.Colby will attend DavidsonCounty Community College inLexington and plans to majorin Business Administration. Hehas also signed to be a memberof the college’s golf team.Sawyer Kirsch graduated on

May 11 from UNC Wilmington with a Bachelorof Arts Degree in Environmental Science. He

plans to remain in Wilmingtonto work in fisheries or statepark positions. Sawyer is theson of Kim LeSage, Assistantat Fancy Finds in Thomasville.Holden

Surratt is the son ofMartha Sur-ratt, Direc-

tor, Special Ministries andProgram Analyst for BCH Ad-ministration. Holden graduatesfrom East Davidson HighSchool on June 8.A message from BCH president/CEO Michael

C. Blackwell to graduates: “I could not be prouderof each of you. Know that God has His hands onyou as you step boldly into the future. Lean on Himand His wisdom. And know that He loves you.”

Stubblefield

White

Bryant

[ CONGRATULATIONS GRADUATES! }

Shining bright as they step intothe future__________________________________________________________

Cable

White

Donald

Edwards

Barnes

King

Garner

Frazier

Kirsch

Surratt

For years, I dreamed of owning a beachhouse. I imagined the sound of crashing

waves, sand crunching underfoot, and the cry of seagulls as the sun retreated below thehorizon.Several years ago, I found the perfect lot

on which to build. It was on the fourth row ––an easy walk from the ocean –– and it overlookeda beautiful marsh. Water filled the marsh at hightide, making it a private oasis. The view was absolutely spectacular.During the due diligence period, our dreams

of an idyllic, future life near the shore weredashed. When the lot was cleared, a wetland wasdiscovered on the desired building footprint.I spent weeks communicating with the Army

Corps of Engineers and other officials about set-back rules and wetland mitigation instead of talking to a builder about floor plans. The bottom line? The dream of a second hometurned into one headache after another. I decidednot to complete the purchase and the lot is stillfor sale three years later.About the same time, God gave my family

an opportunity to invest in another home.Friends Roger and Vicki Grossman direct the

Good Shepherd Orphanage and Medical Clinicin the hills of Quetzaltenango, Guatemala. Theyare special people who are dedicated to doing the Lord’s work. Guatemala is inundated with poverty, alco-

holism and hopelessness. Children are abandonedin the streets. International adoptions have beenhalted due to corruption and human traffickingconcerns. The first child

to come into care at the orphanagewas a precious day-old baby girl whowas abandoned neara dumpster by adesperate mother.She was rescued andnamed “Caroline”as a nod to hermany supportershere in the Caroli-nas. My wife Scar-lett and I havesupported the Grossmans’ work since the part-nership with Baptist Children’s Homes began. The Good Shepherd Orphanage reached

capacity several years ago. There was scarce room for the children in care. A new cottage was needed or children would be turned away. I visited during Easter week 2016 and felt an

unmistakable tug on my heart. Walking along theland on the hill above the medical clinic, I sensed

it was the place for a new cottage.Scarlett and I prayed and knew our “second

home” needed to be in Guatemala. We believedthere would be time for a beach house later ––

we wanted to helpbuild a home for thesechildren in need.One of my greatest

honors in my life wasshowing my dad a ren-dering of the plannedhome and letting himknow we had madethe lead gift. Thehome would be named in his honor. Dad was nearing

the end of his time onEarth. I had enjoyed

five decades as his son and wanted to tell himthanks once more. His love for others will neverbe forgotten.He responded in a whisper, his voice straining

to be heard. But it was more powerful than theloudest of speeches I have ever heard. Looking in his eyes, we both teared. He whispered a heartfelt, “Thank you.” I will cherish his words the rest of my life.

Because of hundreds of people who gave theirtime, prayers and resources, the WestmorelandFamily Children’s Home is fully operational andhome to a great group of children. Some of mydearest friends have been important contributorsbehind the scene. We are grateful for their friend-ship and sacrifice. And just as we are grateful, so are all the children that now have a loving,Christian home to call their own.I’m far from perfect. I sometimes catch myself

clinging to earthly things. Possessions, pride andposition sometimes get in the way. But when Itruly give my time, talents and treasures, I neverregret it. It’s always a liberating experience.It has been said that when we open our

hands to relinquish something, it also allows Godto deposit many more blessings in those hands.Some are financial, but many are even more valu-able –– they are blessings that can’t be bought.Scarlett, Ashley, Jason, and I traveled to

Guatemala to visit the sweet children who live in the new cottage and to dedicate the cottage in memory of Dad. We were overjoyed to hearthe children’s laughter and see their smiles –– thesound was better than the sounds of the beach. It was priceless!For more information and ways to help visit

www.orphanreach.org.

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Longtime BCH trustee and supporter Jay Westmoreland and his family recently built their “second home” –– the West-moreland Family Children’s Home in Quetzaltenango, Guatemala. The home is named in honor of Jay’s father, Dr. Ted G.Westmoreland, below left. In March, Jay, his wife and two children visited the home that their lead gift helped establish. It provides a refuge for seven Guatemalan children. Editor’s note: Because of the overwhelming need, funds are beingraised to build an additional home. More information about how you can help will be in the July Charity & Children.

[ WESTMORELAND FAMILY CHILDREN’S HOME }

God gives family new vision for their “second home”_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By Jay Westmoreland, BCH Trustee and Supporter

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Ride to Clyde reaches $77,675_____________________________________________________________________________________________________________

Motorcyclists hit a new milestone in their fundraising for the fourth

annual “Ride to Clyde.” On Saturday, May11 at Baptist Children’s Homes’ (BCH)Broyhill Home in Clyde, participants presented an over-sized check totaling$77,674.88 –– a new record for the ride.“Many of the riders have moved to a

year-round fund-raising effort for the chil-dren’s homes and I think that accounts forthis wonderful increase,” said Brian Davis,Associate Executive Director-Treasurer ofthe Baptist State Convention.The ride is a partnership between the

Convention and BCH. Davis organizes theevent and rides as well.“To God be the glory,” Davis said dur-

ing the check presentation as surroundingriders, children and their caregivers ap-plauded.The total was more than a $22,000

increase from last year’s total. To date, rid-ers have cumulatively collected $185,000plus to provide caring homes and ministryto children, families and special needsadults served by BCH.The more than 450-mile ride spans four

days beginning at Fort Caswell in Oak Is-land and ends in Clyde. It coincides withthe Broyhill Home Barbecue Festival or-ganized by members of Ninevah BaptistChurch in Waynesville. It has raised morethan $100,000 since it first began.

Editor’s note: More on the ride and BBQFestival in the July Charity & Children.

Baptist Children’s Homes’ (BCH) celebratedthe opening of the new Ammons Education

Center with a dedication ceremony on May 7.More than 250 attended the event at CameronBoys Camp.“This was a hazy dream and, in many ways,

an impossible dream,” BCH president/CEOMichael C. Blackwell shared with those in atten-dance. “Once we met with Jud Ammons, thedream went from impossible to improbable. Andtoday, as we all can witness, the dream went fromimprobable to inevitable.”The creation of the 10,000 square-foot center

was made possible by a lead gift from Justus“Jud” Ammons and his late wife Jo Ellen Am-mons of Raleigh. Additional BCH friends, in-cluding donors and North Carolina Baptist workteams, united their resources to build the center.The date of the dedication, May 7, holds spe-

cial significance to the Ammons family –– it is JoEllen’s birthday. She would have turned 84 yearsold this year.“She was a dear lady, a dear mother, and

a dear grandmother,” Blackwell shared.“This is very moving for our family. To say

‘God is good’ is putting it mildly,” said AlmaHoffman, Jud Ammon’s daughter who spoke on behalf of the Ammons family.At one point, per Blackwell’s request, both

boys and girls from BCH’s two camps gatheredwith their caregivers or “chiefs” and Camp staffmembers to sing “Thank you, Jud” in the camps’usual rousing spirit.“It is our family’s privilege to build up this

ministry to help change children’s lives,” Hoff-man added. “You all speak the same language asmy family –– helping others in order to further

God’s kingdom.”North Carolina Baptists, including members

of Pleasant Garden Baptist Church in PleasantGarden and Moon’s Chapel Baptist Church inSiler City, were instrumental in helping.One of the hallmarks of BCH’s wilderness

camp ministries at both Cameron and CampDuncan for Girls in Aberdeen is its educationalprograms. Both camps are licensed, non-publicschools educating campers through an experien-tial curriculum that serves as an alternative to the traditional classroom environment.“The Ammons Education Center will serve as

a hub to enhance the camps’ already strong educational component and open up additionalopportunities for achieving academic success,”Blackwell said. “It gives us a new opportunity to invite community involvement utilizing the center and connecting them with our campprograms.”Although the facility is located at the boys

camp, it will be an equal resource for Camp Dun-can, also located in Moore County.“This long-held vision has come to fruition

at the right time and because of the involvementof the right people,” said Blackwell.

Front, left to right: Drew Scott, Gary Robinson, Matthew Robinson, PaulWoody, Andy Ammons, Alma Hoffmann,Jud Ammons, Michael C. Blackwell, Judy Howell, Roy Howell, Myra Taylor, Pat Pridgen,Warren Pridgen, Carl Anderson,

Paul Daley. Back: Bill and Mary Mills, members of Moons Chapel and Pleasant Garden Baptist Churches.

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Ammons Family empowers new education center_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By Blake Ragsdale, Managing Editor

The Garrett Lecture features Dr. BlackwellBaptist Children’s Homes president/CEO Dr. Michael C. Blackwellwas the featured lecturer Sunday evening May 5 at Roxboro BaptistChurch (RBC). Blackwell was invited to present “Essentials for Living” at the annual Garrett Lecture. The Lecture Series was established by the family of Herman and Mary Elizabeth Garrett. Dr. DuPre Sanders, pictured on right, is RBC’s Sr. Minister.

President Sharon DeHart Stilesand the council are preparing a

big mailing in June that containsthis year’s “Homecoming Packet ofInformation” for August 2, 3 and 4.Sharon urges you to contact her ifyou are willing to help in any capac-ity during Homecoming weekend.Contact her at 2300 Maria LynnCourt, Gastonia, NC 28056, callher at 704-648-8332, or email atsharondstiles@gmail.com. June 1 isthe deadline for getting all changesin for the 2019 Alumni Directory toJimmy Rochelle. Jimmy’s address is105 Jasmin Pl., Durham, NC27712, call him at 919-479-3032,or email at jimmylinda71@aol.com.If you wish to order a clothing itemwith the Ocean Wave artwork (teeshirt, v-neck tee, hoodie, etc.), con-tact me by May 31. You MUSTSPECIFY style and size. You canreach me by mailing to 5612 Bled-soe Dr., Greensboro 27410, call meat 336-299-7412, or email libs-johnson@triad.rr.com. Also, be sureto look for suitable Silent Auctionitems worth at least $10.00 andbring them to the gym on Friday orSaturday Homecoming weekend.It is always fun to reconnect with

a Mills Home (MH) alumna wehave not heard from in a long time.Linda Wood Patterson is one suchperson who reconnected with manyof us on Facebook this past April.She reminded us that she and herbrother Freddie were at MH from1949-1954. Their mother wasworking at the Idol Infirmary as anurse with Bettye Joyce Lee. I recallhow Freddie reconnected with us byattending Homecoming a coupletimes about six years ago. A laternote from Linda reads: “I am re-tired, having worked most of my lifein retail management. I have twodaughters who live here inThomasville and my son lives atEmerald Isle. After leaving MH, welived in Thomasville where my momwent to work at the old hospital onPine Street and then moved to theMedical Center where she workedfor 34 more years. I was married tomy children’s father for 18 years, asingle mom for about seven years

and married 12 years to my secondhusband. Although I lost him tocancer, I have had a lucky life andfeel so blessed by God. That isabout my life –– except that my fa-vorite hobby is cruising, especiallyto the Caribbean Islands. My otherhobby is crafting –– I love it. “I sorely miss my brother Freddie

whose ashes are buried at MH nextto Miss Crouch. I would love to hearhis silly laugh just one more time.Lib, God bless you for the work youdo for the Alumni Association and Ican’t wait to read your column inCharity & Children.” We are grateful to Donna McKin

for informing us through Facebookthat Bertha Poole Slate broke herfemur on March 9. She had surgeryon March 10 and was in rehabilita-tion at Piedmont Crossing inThomasville. It was good to see alot of Mills Home people askingDonna to deliver good wishes toBertha. Because of complicationswith the broken bone, Bertha hadto return to the hospital again andlater returned to Piedmont Crossingfor further rehabilitation. Donna in-formed us that she would be re-leased from Piedmont in early May.Send encouragement to Bertha at716 Rapp St., Thomasville, NC27360. I hope friends will showerher with cheerful cards and letters. I’m always grateful for those who

fill out yearly update sheets. EvelynKornegay Dawson’s sheet shows herliving at 702 South Harding Dr.,Goldsboro, NC 27524. Evelyn en-tered MH in 1942 with her latebrother Leonard. She was in thechoir, band, on the basketball team,and in the girls’ GA group at thechurch. Her duties were in the laun-dry, sewing room and infirmary.Evelyn graduated from THS/MHin 1953. In regard to important ex-periences in her life, she chose tomention the great respect she hadfor one of her son’s teachers –– awoman who left teaching school tospread the story that was importantto Evelyn at MH –– the story ofChrist and his redeeming grace.Evelyn said that she was so honoredto be able to attend the lady’s fu-

neral because of her 47 years of ded-ication to God and the Japanesepeople the lady served. Evelyn ex-pressed appreciation for the MillsHome Alumni Column. I appreciate the update sheet

from Johnny Shields. Johnny cameto MH in 1952 with siblingsWoody, Clara Sue and Sandra Faye.He graduated in 1961 and has spentmuch of his adult life in Burlington.After leaving MH, Johnny found acareer in the textile industry and, inhis last work years, he was a textilechemist and colorist. We know byphotos he shares on Facebook thathe loves spending time with hisgrandchildren and great grandchil-dren. He has two of each as well astwo offspring. His favorite house-mother was Ms. Leonard at DurhamCottage. His best experience atHomecoming is “meeting back upwith former classmates.” It is amazing how many children

of alumni take the time to contactus even after their MH-reared rela-tives pass into a better life. One suchperson (Bobby) sends money on aregular basis in honor of his grand-mother Theodosia Harrill. Severalothers asked to be retained on ourmailing list because they wish to beinformed of what alumni are doing.David Wright and his lovely wifecome to Homecoming almost everyyear even though his mother LibRollins Wright has been gone 17years. Diane Fine Mallory took the time

last summer to send us a thank youfor keeping her on our mailing listbecause it keeps memories of herparents alive. She also made a dona-tion to sponsor a table for the Satur-day evening meal in their name. Herparents, Jack and Joyce (Teal) Fine,were beloved by the MH studentsof the 40s and 50s.Lisa Carter Lancaster shared on

Facebook great news: Shirley For-tune celebrated her 80th Birthdayon January 30. She and husbandwere houseparents at MH in the‘80s. She is a great loving lady thatthe residents adored. We were saddened to learn that

Marceline Spainhour Lockhart losther husband William Harrison Lock-hart, III in February 2016. She andWilliam had one son. They were liv-ing in Simpsonville, SC at the timeof his death. Her possible address is604 Plantation Dr., Simpsonville,SC 29681-6340.We enjoyed meeting Alesia Robin

Lynch Locklear who joined herbrother Kevin at a recent Home-coming. Her 2017 update sheetshows she resides at 1117 JenningsPark Trail, Kernersville, NC 27284.She entered MH with five siblingsin 1977 and left in 1981. A motherof one, Alesia Robin is a supplierquality engineer for Honda Aircraft.Activities at MH included tourchoir, sanctuary choir, youth group,and worker at the gym and foodlocker. She has very fond memoriesof Jean and Gene Wilson, the For-tunes, and the Sisks. When Dr. Michael C. Blackwell

became president of Baptist Chil-dren’s Homes in 1983, we were inthe earliest phase of pulling thingstogether for the Mitchell Museum.One of the first things he impartedto us was that he was very interestedin MH history and wished to helpin collecting memorabilia forMitchell. He gave us “free reign” toexplore various buildings in searchfor suitable memorabilia. He alsoasked MH workers to keep an eyeopen for things suitable for display.We were able to locate and movemany, many interesting additions tothe museum. We were lucky to havepeople working on campus whosaved fantastic items –– the oldschool/church/valley bell, JohnMills’ desk, many things from theNoah Richardson library, itemsfrom the farm maintenance shop,cottages, and items from otherbuildings. When Estie Culler pushedto get the Mitchell placed on theHistoric Registry, Dr. Blackwell ea-gerly supported the initiative. More

history to follow.

Lib Johnson was a resident of MillsHome from 1946 to 1957. Johnsonbegan writing the Mills Home alumnicolumn in 1992.

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Homecoming deadlines approaching quickly ––Update sheets key to keeping readers informed_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By Lib Smathers Johnson (336) 299-7412 libsjohnson@triad.rr.com

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10 6/19 – Charity& Children – 132/5 Learn how BCH helps children and families at www.bchfamily.org/help

Making News Every Day Around the StateFood Roundup 2019Baptists come through big!From each corner of the state, North CarolinaBaptists and other friends have collected tonsof food and supplies during this year’s “FoodRoundup.” Through the efforts of churches andassociations, who play a key leadership roll,pantries and storage shelves are being stockedto ensure the children, special needs adults,and families BCH serves have plenty to eat.Thank you!

Mt. Airy Baptist Church youth group.

Ellijay Baptist Church in FranklinFamily’s children are honoredFunds were raised in honor of the Drinnon family’schildren and in memory of their son William.

Campers on Mission sorting food.

Oakley Baptist Church in Siler CityVolunteers help at CampAs a part of “Friends of Children,” members workedat the new Ammons Education Center.

Cleveland County Association in Shelby.

Grace Christian School in RaleighBCH chosen for missions effortStudents from Grace Christian School collectedfood as part of their March missions project.

Can we help? Many ministries beating with one heart.1. Western Area Family Services

Linda Morgan, Lead Dir., 828-627-9254

2. Central Area Family Services Regina Keener, Dir., 336-474-1200

3. Eastern Area Family Services Brian Baltzell, Dir., 252-522-0811 www.kennedyhome.org

4. Odum Home Kathy Locklear, Res. Mgr., 910-521-3433www.odumhome.org

5. Oak Ranch/Family CareLynn Garner, Dir., 336-474-1240

6. Cameron Boys Camp Drew Scott, Dir. , 910-245-4034 www.cameronboyscamp.org

7. Camp Duncan for Girls Paul Daley, Dir., 910-944-3077 www.campduncanNC.org

8. Weekday EducationBrooke Child, Dir., 336-474-1201

9. Tucker Greater Vision MinistrySara Becker, Mgr., 336-687.6384

10. Family Foster CareBob McCleary, 828-627-9254www.bchfostercare.org

11. HOMEBASE at W. Carolina UniversityJim Dean, Dir., 828-293-4660

12. Developmental Disabilities Ministry Tara Sessoms, Dir., 336-474-1259www.hereismyhome.org

13. NC Baptist Aging MinistrySandy Gregory, Dir., 336-474-1221www.ncbam.org

14. Good Shepherd Children’s Homein GuatemalaKeith Henry, 336-474-1215

Johnston County Association.

Carr’s Hill Baptist Church in Brevard. Green’s Creek First Baptist ChurchTruett Baptist Assocation

Metrolina Associaton in Charlotte.

At Homecoming this year, attendees are invited to bring

antique or classic cars, trucks, trac-tors, and motorcycles to show off.The Classic Car & Tractor Showregistration is from 9 a.m. untilnoon on Saturday. The entry fee is $20 and all proceeds benefitKennedy Home (KH). For more information, call James Clayton Pateat 910-358-0992.

Saturday, June 1, Schedule:

9:00 a.m. Breakfast at Golden Coral-KinstonRegistration for Classic Car & Tractor Show

1:00 p.m. Homecoming registration in the gym

2:00 p.m. Bingo and Prizes(Bring $5 prizes to share)

4:00 p.m. Cedar Dell Tours5:00 p.m. Supper in gym

(Catered by alumni)6:00 p.m. Business Meeting

in gym6:30 p.m. DJ Ronnie Matthews

and karaoke in the gym

Sunday, June 2, Schedule:

10:00 a.m. Sunday School10:30 a.m. Choir Practice 11:00 a.m.Worship Service 11:55 a.m. Award Presentation –

50-year Alumni RecognitionLunch in the gym

Homecoming registration fee is $20. This is your annual member-ship fee and it also pays for Saturdaysupper.I sincerely hope my Becky will

be able to play the piano with DorisRuss Sunday at worship. DuringEaster weekend she was taken to the hospital and stayed ten days. She had pneumonia along with lowoxygen. I was really upset when shedidn’t know who I was. With yourprayers and the Lord’s help she wasable to return home. She remainsweak. She is also suffering frommacular degeneration. Please keepher in your prayers and I hope she is able to attend Homecoming. I appreciate hearing from you ––

just to know how your health is and

what you are doing that is exciting. Nancy Leppert Scott (1982-1984)

is a new friend! When my Becky was in the hospital, she had respira-tory therapy. The lady who came into give her a treatment asked if I wasthe one who writes for Charity &Children. I said yes and we immedi-ately became friends. She lived atKH and wrote this article for me asa way to introduce herself to all ofyou. She openly gives KH credit forhelping her get to where she is today. “I was a KH from 1982 to 1984.

In 1982, children in CarteretCounty foster care for more than ayear were placed at KH. The transi-tion from foster care to group homecare was a challenge, but I did it.“While at KH, I learned values

that have helped me throughout life.The lessons of teamwork and self-re-liance have certainly paid off. I was ayoung wife and then had four won-derful children. After ten years ofmarriage, the strong foundation Ihad built at KH enabled me to bestrong through a divorce. I returnedto school while being a single par-ent. The lessons on money manage-ment and household tasks I learnedwere helpful and I’ve passed themon to my children. “Some of my fondest memories

were working at the dairy, being apart of the campus crew, and leafday. I also learned to paint well, although I never want to be a metalroof painter again! I used to have somuch fun with the other girls inBiggs Cottage. What an adventuregoing from no sisters to twelve. “I do try to focus on the good

times. Sure there were some thingsthat could have been better, how-ever, lessons were learned even ifsome were difficult ones.“I have been married again for

fourteen years. My children are successful adults. I am a registeredrespiratory therapist and the clinicalcoordinator for a local respiratorycare department. I often use someof the simplest teachings from my KH adventure while guidingothers to be more confident or more structured.

“I will be using my time manage-ment more as I continue my degreewhile working full time. “I enjoy catching up with others

on Facebook and would love to reunite with some of the 80s group!God bless.”Lucy Parker Vaughan (1932-

1943) In last month’s column, I included parts of a letter I receivedfrom this 93-year-old KH alumna.Here is more:“The Spillman building had

the smallest or youngest girls. Therewere 32 in the cottage. The Biggsbuilding was next. There were 24children there. The Moore buildinghad 15. The infirmary was in theMoore building. The nurse slept inthe Moore building and was incharge of the infirmary. The Pollockbuilding had 15-18 children. Thenumbers changed as some of theolder girls left before they gradu-ated. The boy’s cottages were theLenoir for the youngest boys, theHardee building for the older boys.I don’t remember how many werein each of those buildings. “I do remember staying in the

infirmary after I had my tonsilstaken out in the hospital in Kinston.Then I spent two nights in the infir-mary before going back to my cot-tage. I remember that summer theytook us in groups of 9-10 to haveour tonsils removed. I also remem-ber the dentist came out one timeand removed two of my frontteeth –– I had not shed my twofront baby teeth and the adult teethcame in behind them. I bled so longthat I was kept in the infirmary fortwo nights. I think I was 7 or 8 atthe time. “I helped with cooking. As all

our jobs were assigned –– somewere given kitchen duties. Therewere cooks for all of the buildingsbut we helped. As we helped, welearned to make biscuits –– imaginemaking biscuits for 40 or more.Then I had to unlearn later to beable to make biscuits for my familywhen I grew up and left. We usedfour, 5lbs bags taken from a flourbarrel! We washed dishes as well;however, the cooks were good to us

and helped us learn to cook. “Other jobs were assigned the

same way –– laundry, sewing room,cleaning the cottages, etc. Everyonehad a job, even the smallest of us. As I said in a previous letter, thejobs would change every six months.We went to school half a day anddid chores the other half. When wegot to the Pollock building the cookdid not cook breakfast. Two of uswere assigned to cook breakfast.One got up early to start the fire inthe stove and the other made thebiscuits. We traded this at times.Then the two of us helped the cook with the other meals. “Now, we come to the Home-

comings. I think I attended four inall my years. I have driven throughKH when I was visiting in Kinstonor Goldsboro, just to look, not stop-ping to speak or visit with anyone.” I thank both Nancy Scott and

Miss Lucy for sharing memories oftheir days at KH. All of you thatread this column, please send newsabout your life and memories ofdays growing up at KH. Nancy, it was a true honor to get

to know you at the hospital whileyou helped my Becky –– thank you.Miss Lucy, I was born in 1943 ––

the year you left KH. This August,Miss Lucy celebrates her birthday! Attention all alumni and

KH friends, please try to come toHomecoming this year. Some havetold me they don’t return becausethey don’t see anyone from the timethey were there. Our largest groupseems to be from the 60s and 70s.We are all part of a big family, nomatter what years you spent on campus. Let’s make a difference this year.Always remember that my wife,

Becky, and I love you all so verymuch. Remember, if you need a listening ear or a caring heart, giveus a call or email me. We will be

glad to talk to you.Love ya! –– jt

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Classic car and tractor show added to Homecoming –Alumnus share experiences from the 30s and the 80s_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

By John Thompson, 2324 Country Club Road, Jacksonville, NC 28546 (252)671-3515 jthompson117@ec.rr.com

John Thompson was the choir director at Kennedy Home from1972-1977. Today, he enjoys a veryactive retirement.

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Life is better when people sit around a table to share a meal. There is

something at work that closes gaps andencourages goodwill. Given the chance,similarities take center stage, forcing differences to take a back seat.It doesn’t matter where in the world

you are, what race or ethnicity, rich orpoor, no matter the litany of differences,sitting together fosters good things. It’swhy family dinners are so important.Growing up in my family, someone

always had a place for the larger group to gather. Getting together, even onlynow and then, was a priority.Uncle Pete Terrell carried the tradition

of the family’s summer reunion at hisfarm. He lived on the highway perpendi-cular to the highway my grandparentslived on, the two roads connected by a gravel lane that wound past the oldfamily homestead of my mother’s grand-parents. Before families moved apart andwork took folks to the city, my family of days gone by gathered Sundays afterchurch to catch up on news, recountblessings, divide difficulties, and share a meal. Summer reunions took the placeof Sunday times of fellowship and becamethe not-to-be-missed yearly gathering. My mom, just like her aunts and

cousins, spent hours in the kitchenpreparing specialties. My grandfather andthe great uncles started early while it wasdark firing up the pits to roast the meatsand setting up sawhorse tables. The greatbig family came in all sorts of trucks andcars, parking in the field and walking

with casseroledishes toward thetables, guided by thearomas. Smiles splitfaces, and hugs pulledloved ones close. Even theyoungest, shy at first, warmed up quickly.Sitting around that table drew us

close. We celebrated family in all our diversity and peculiarities. What broughtus together proved stronger than whatmade us different.Recently, I sat at another table with

another family in the mountains of Jack-son County. Graduates of Western Car-olina University gathered, celebratingsuccesses and sharing victories. Thegroup is family through their connec-tions with HOMEBASE, a ministry ofBaptist Children’s Homes that providessafe haven for former children in care,foster children who have aged out of thatprogram, and independent students withno “home base” of their own. Jim Dean, director of the ministry,

smiles a welcome, congratulates the grad-uates, and the conversations begin, slowlyat first and then gaining that comfortablecommunion of a reunion. Jorge, Scott, Sophie and Caleb all have

different stories and have all connectedwith HOMEBASE for different reasons.Sophie has a tale of lost parents and wasa student leader when the doors openedin 2017. Caleb and Dean connect regu-larly. Caleb’s story includes a brokenchildhood home and a tale of raising hisyounger siblings. Jorge and Scott are

leaders of a Baptist or-ganization that meets atHOMEBASE and are resident volun-teers. The smiles and laughter are famil-iar; they are family around a table toshare so much more than good food.There is something holy about con-

necting and sharing a meal. The scrip-tures record twenty-something accountsof these gatherings. Even on the eve ofhis passion and death, our Lord gatheredhis family for a meal. Countless artistsdocument the Last Supper as an instanceof high importance in the life of Christ.Sharing food satisfies so much more than physical hunger; it goes to the heartof what makes us human, that need to unite and reunite again.I leave the mountains refreshed, the

celebration of the “HOMEBASE” familystill reverberating in my head. It will be miles before my smile fades. At a restarea along Interstate 40 on the home sideof Asheville, I call Kathy. “How aboutgathering all who can come for Sunday

dinner? I’ll fire up thegrill.”

Gathering around the tabledraws family together

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Edminson encourages others throughthe Good News of Jesus. Invite him topreach or speak at your church. Emailhim at wjedminson@bchfamily.org .

________________________________________________________________________By Jim Edminson, Editor

HOMEBASE director Jim Dean, second from right, gathers with students impacted through the ourtreach at Western Carolina University.

Baptist Children’s Homes isaccredited by the Council on

Accreditation and is recognizedas a certified CARE agency.

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