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Carers & Mental Health. Tania Ewin, Senior Project Officer Partners in Depression. A mental health initiative of…. Program funded by…. 1. Today’s session. Introductions Partners in Depression: Program overview Building awareness Acknowledging the carer experience Purposeful coping - PowerPoint PPT Presentation
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Carers & Mental Health
Tania Ewin, Senior Project OfficerPartners in Depression
A mental health initiative of…. Program funded by….
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Today’s session Introductions
Partners in Depression: Program overview
Building awareness Acknowledging the carer experience Purposeful coping Communication skills Self-care
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What is the Partners in Depression program? 6 x 2 hour weekly group education sessions for people who
support a person with depression (‘carers’, ‘loved ones’, ‘partners’, family or friends)
For groups of between 4 and 12 participants
Aims to address the information and support needs of those who care for a person with depression.
Adult education program for people aged 16 years and over
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What do we know about “caring” & mental health?
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beyondblue Research:1. Lack of broader social support
2. Lack of respect or engagement by healthcare providers
3. Importance of support groups or agencies
4. Direct impact of depression on carers
5. Impact of depression on intimate relationships
Source: Highet, McNair, Davenport and Hickie (2004)
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Research indicates: Families and carers of people with mental health problems
provide assistance and support to the person they care for, and indeed for mental health services, which would otherwise be overwhelmed by the demands placed upon them
However, in order to continue providing optimum care, carers themselves require support and assistanceSource: Hayman (2005)
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Research indicates:
Caregivers are reluctant to prioritise their own needs alongside or equal to those they care for and almost always presume that their needs do not justify interventionSource: Muscroft & Bowl (2000)
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Positive aspects of caring Sense of purpose
Strengthened connection with the person you are caring for including communication
Increased knowledge of the illness/diagnosis and the health system
Looking after yourselfEarly warning signs are important.
It is important to recognise what they are: More moody or irritable Just not wanting to see people Sleeping more/less Eating more/less Getting easily tired Giving up on exercise Not wanting to deal with day-to-day things (opening mail,
paying bills etc.) Putting off deadlines Putting off housework/other responsibilities
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Insight into Caring & Support
The support role
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Carer Life Course Framework
Purposeful coping Pro-active rather than reactive coping Change in mindset as well as changes in behaviour toward
the person you are caring for Have knowledge and skills to be able to handle old
situations in a different way
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Purposeful coping
In pairs… Any thoughts or comments about this phase?
What would have to change in your current situation for you to enter this phase? Changes in the person you are caring for Changes in you Changes in the situation you are currently in
Can you see yourself ever in this phase?
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Communication
Communication without words! In pairs, try to communicate 3 things about yourself
without using words!
Effective communication
Being able to communicate effectively is an important part of any relationship
Improving communication skills can reduce the level of frustration and stress in the family and can facilitate healthy interactions
Caregivers often report worry about the high level of stress in the household and the nature of relationships within the family unitSource: Mental Illness Fellowship Victoria (2003)
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Four basic communication skills:
1 Levelling
2 Listening
3 Validating
4 ‘I’ statements Source: Mental Illness Fellowship Victoria (2003)
Effective communication
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1 Levelling
Effective communication can only occur when both parties know all the relevant information (thoughts, feelings and facts)
Levelling involves giving the other person information about your thoughts and feelings, rather than expecting them to read your mind
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2 Listening
This involves not just hearing but actively processing what others say
It is important to pay attention to what others are saying rather than to what you are going to say next
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3 Validating
This involves communicating to the other person that you have heard their position or opinion
It is not necessary for you to understand or even agreewith others
It is important to recognise and accept other people’s rights to feel and think as they do
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4 ‘I’ statements
Begin what you say with ‘I’
By doing this, you take responsibility for your own wants, thoughts and feelings rather than putting the responsibility or blame on the other person
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Communicating ‘No’
At times it is difficult to say ‘No’ to requests that you do not want to meet
Saying ‘No’ means that you set limits on other people’s demands for your time and energy, when such demands conflict with your needs and desires
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Communicating ‘No’
Three-step procedure:1 Acknowledge the other person’s request
2 Explain your reason for declining
3 Say ‘No’
Example I know you would like me to give you $20 (acknowledgement), but I have already given you money last week (explanation) and I can’t give you any more now (saying ‘No’).
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Verbal and non-verbal communication
According to research, in a conversation: Words are 7% effective Tone of voice is 38% effective Non-verbal clues are 55% effective
Non-verbal communication includes facial expressions, eye contact, body posture and movements
What you say is not nearly as important as how you say itSource: Mental Illness Fellowship Victoria, 2003
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Tips for non-verbal communication Make yourself comfortable with the other person
Be relaxed and attentive
Maintain frequent eye contact
Give simple nods of approval
Keep gestures smooth and unobtrusive
Use an average rate of speech (or a bit slower)
Maintain a clearly audible voice
Avoid using feet and legs as a barrier
Smile when appropriate
Stay alert through long conversations
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Self-Care
Caring for self: Benefits & Barriers
What are the benefits of caring for yourself ?
What stops you from taking time and looking after yourself ?
Write down your responses.
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Caring for self: Reasons & Risks
What are the reasons for NOT taking the time to look after yourself ?
What are the risks of NOT taking the time to look after yourself?
Write down your responses.
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Self-care activities and strategies
Look at the list of self-care strategies
Choose 2 activities to try out this week
Schedule in the day and time (morning, afternoon, evening) when you will try these activities
Note how you feel when thinking about and carrying out these activities
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www.partnersindepression.com.au
What self-care will you do this week?