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Children’s Aid Society&

New Comer Parent

Child Protection Services, Education, and Prevention Workshop

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What is a Children’s Aid Society in Ontario?

A non-profit community agency Legislated under the Child and Family

Services Act (CFSA) Legally mandated to protect children under 16

from abuse and neglect Funded by the Government of Ontario

(Ministry of Children and Youth Services)

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The Child and Family Services Act (CFSA)

Promotes best interests, protection, and

well-being of children Promotes early action Promotes access to information for Children’s

Aid Societies Emphasizes the duty to report Promotes early permanency planning

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What is Child Abuse? It is against the law when a child is hurt intentionally, or when a parent or

caregiver fails to protect a child in their care.

If the CAS believes that a child has been physically abused, sexually abused, or neglected, they must tell the police.

When the police becomes involved, there will be a criminal investigation. Police will look to see if the parent committed any criminal acts defined in the Criminal Code of Canada.

The Criminal Code of Canada is a federal law that applies across the country. It prohibits child abuse and neglect.

If there is evidence that the parent has committed a crime under the Criminal Code of Canada, the parent will be charged and tried in court.

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Types of Abuse and Neglect

Physical Abuse

Sexual Abuse

Emotional Abuse

Neglect

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What is Physical Abuse?

Physical abuse is any deliberate physical force or action (usually by a parent or caregiver) that results, or could result, in injury to a child.

It can include spanking, punching, slapping, beating, shaking, burning, pinching, biting, throwing a child or using an object to discipline a child. Physical abuse is stronger than what is considered to be reasonable discipline.

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What Does The Law Say About Spanking?

The Criminal Code of Canada, Section 43, defines Corporal Punishment as:

Every school teacher, parent or persons standing in the place of a parent is justified in using force by way of correction toward a pupil or child, as the case may be, who is under his/her care, if the force does not exceed what is reasonable under the circumstances.

2004 – Parameters placed on ‘reasonable’ Children under 2 years of age should never be hit Children over 12 years of age should never be hit No hitting in the neck/head region No use of objects (belts, spoons, etc)

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Risks Associated with Hitting Children

Bruises Marks in the shape of objects or hand prints Shaking Burns Human bite marks Fractures (broken bones) of the skull, arms,

legs, fingers, ribs

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What Is Sexual Abuse?

Sexual abuse occurs when a child is used for the

sexual gratification of an adult or an older child.

Coercion (physical, psychological or emotional) is

intrinsic to sexual abuse. This is what distinguishes it

from consensual play with peers.

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What is Sexual Abuse cont’d

It is illegal to: Touch a child in a sexual way Encourage or force a child to touch another

person in a sexual way Encourage or force a child to participate in any

sexual activity Tell a child to touch him or herself for an adult’s

or older child’s sexual purposes

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Examples of Sexual Abuse

Sexual intercourse Exposing a child’s genitals Indecent phone calls Fondling for sexual purposes Watching a child undress for sexual pleasure Allowing a child to look at/perform in

pornographic pictures/prostitution

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What is Emotional Abuse?

A pattern of behaviour that attacks a child’s

emotional development and sense of self worth.

It includes excessive, aggressive or unreasonable

demands that place expectations on a child beyond

his or her capacity.

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Examples of Emotional Abuse

Constantly…

Criticizing

Teasing

Belittling

Insulting

Rejecting

Ignoring

Isolating

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What is Neglect?

Neglect is the failure to meet a child’s basic needs for food, clothing, shelter, sleep, medical attention, education, and protection from harm. This can occur when parents do not know about appropriate care for children, or when they are not able to plan ahead

A young child should never be left unattended

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CANADIAN STATISTICS ON DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

Effect on children: Children are present and witness the abuse in 80% of domestic violence cases. Boys who witness domestic violence against their mothers are five times

more likely to grow up to be abusers while girls who witness violence are five times more likely to grow up to be victims of abuse.

Children and adolescents who see their mother being abused experience emotional and behavioural problems similar to children who are physically abused.

Children who witness woman abuse frequently experience post traumatic stress disorder.

Approximately 40% of wife assault incidents begin during a woman’s first pregnancy.

Source: Nova Vita

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Children of Domestic Violence

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Break

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Who Are Our Families

Families who are experiencing stresses that decrease parenting capacity and child safety

Child abuse happens across all cultural, racial, religious and socioeconomic lines

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Who Reports Cases of Child Abuse & Neglect?

Schools

Police

Health Services

Community Services

Self/parents

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Your Duty to Report Suspected Abuse/Neglect

Every individual is obligated to report suspected abuse/neglect

Reports should be based on reasonable suspicion

Reasonable Grounds: based on honest judgment

Obligation is ongoing Duty cannot be delegated

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Role of Settlement Workers Role and responsibility as service provider & role of inter-agency

relationship Protocol of your agency Making a Referral Check your own personal values and biases. For example what is the

basis for your concerns? Are you making assumptions and being judgemental?

Recognize that you are in a position of power and depending on your values, level of cultural sensitivity will greatly impact the support to the Family

Recognize your comfort level Be aware of your skill level, responsibilities and boundaries Advocacy for the family Information sessions on the Children’s Aid

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What Happens When the Children’s Aid Society Investigates?

Interview child Medical exam if needed Contact police Interview suspected abuser Interview parents/non-offending parent Interview siblings/other relevant people Close the file with no further service Offer voluntary service Place children in Kinship care Temporary Care Agreement Protection Application Service in home or in foster care

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Bringing A Child Into Care Brought into foster care or Kinship care immediately Brought into foster care or Kindship care after

investigation Children’s Aid Societies have 12 hours or seven days

to investigate 30 days to complete investigation Children’s Aid Societies have five days to appear

before court

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Kinship Caregiver &/or Foster Parents

When there are serious concerns about the care a child is receiving at home, he or she may need to be placed in a Kinship placement or foster home.

Kinship caregivers and/or Foster parents provide a temporary home for children who are in the care of the Children’s Aid Society. They encourage a child’s growth and development through the stability of a caring home and family environment. Kinship Foster parents play an important role in the child’s daily life.

Kinship caregivers and/or Foster parents work with CAS staff as part of a team to develop a plan for each child in care. The ideal plan is to remove all safety concerns in a home in order to reunite the child with their family. Where this is not possible, the plan may include adoption or long-term foster care.

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Parents’ Rights/Role Parents have the right to have a family member,

advocate, or friend present To ask questions To ask for answers in writing To get the social worker’s name, work phone number

& address To be informed what actions the child protection

authorities may take To tell their story To get information about services available To get legal advice and be represented in court Parents and children can visit Parents help plan child’s care

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What is Reasonable Discipline? We believe physical punishment is an unsuitable

means of discipline because children should be free from all forms of violence

The law presently allows parents to use “reasonable force” to discipline children. What is reasonable depends on the situation, but many forms of physical punishment that were acceptable in the past are no longer permitted, such as tying or locking children up.

Any form of physical discipline that requires medical attention, or results in bruising, welts or broken skin, is not considered reasonable discipline

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What is Reasonable Discipline cont’d

Using belts, electrical cords or other objects to discipline a child can cause serious harm

Handling babies roughly – whether in anger or playfulness – is extremely dangerous. Shaking can cause serious injury, including brain damage, blindness and even death.

Physical punishment can also lead to physical abuse when parents or caregivers lose control and strike their children in anger.

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The Difference Between Discipline and Punishment

DISCIPLINE Purpose:

To promote self-discipline (control). To empower the child to be better able to engage in

appropriate acceptable behaviour. Focus:

Future appropriate behaviour. Attitude of Adult Love and concern, respect, nurturing and supportive Resulting Behaviour in Child: Secure, loved, healthy shame

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The Difference Between Discipline and Punishment

PUNISHMENT Purpose:

Revenge, to inflict penalty Focus:

Past behaviour Attitude of Adult:

Hostility, anger, rage, emotionally flooded Resulting Behaviour in Child:

Resentment, avoidance, rebellion, toxic shame, conformity

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Resources

http://www.oacas.org/childwelfare/report.htm http://www.justice.gc.ca/eng/pi/fv-vf/index.html http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/ncfv-cnivf/publications/

femexpose-eng.php http://www.phac-aspc.gc.ca/cm-vee/publicat/pdf/prof_e.pdf http://helpguide.org/mental/

child_abuse_physical_emotional_sexual_neglect.htm#top www.bcifv.org [email protected]

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Summary

It is the legal role of Children’s Aid Societies to protect children (0-16) from harm

Children’s Aid Societies work with children/families at home and in care

The types of abuse are physical, sexual and emotional harm

Neglect is a failure to provide basic necessities of life You have a duty to report abuse and neglect

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Thank You!