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Breaking Up is On You Hard… The Jesus Curriculum Th e The Sermon on the Mount Matthew 5-7 Kingdom Handbook

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BreakingUp is

On YouHard…

The Jesus Curriculum

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The Sermon on the MountMatthew 5-7

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It has been said, “Anyone who

divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.”

It has been said, “Anyone who

divorces his wife must give her a certificate of divorce.”

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Matthew 5:31

ivorce is Permitted

ivorce is Permitted

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If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house,

If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce, gives it to her and sends her from his house,

Deuteronomy 24:1

• divorce• divorce

[…and her second marriage also ends…]

then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again.

[…and her second marriage also ends…]

then her first husband, who divorced her, is not allowed to marry her again.

Deuteronomy 24:4

• divorce• divorce

But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress,

But I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, causes her to become an adulteress,

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Matthew 5:32

ut Not for Any Reason

ut Not for Any Reason

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and anyone who marries the divorced woman

commits adultery.

and anyone who marries the divorced woman

commits adultery.

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Matthew 5:32

ut Not for Any Reason

ut Not for Any Reason

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External:

I’m allowed to divorce!

Internal:

motive, commitment

External:

I’m allowed to divorce!

Internal:

motive, commitment

ivorce is Permitted

ivorce is Permitted

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Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

Some Pharisees came to him to test him. They asked, “Is it lawful for a man to divorce his wife for any and every reason?”

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Matthew 19:3

od’s Design for Marriage

od’s Design for Marriage

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“Haven’t you read,”

he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’

“Haven’t you read,”

he replied, “that at the beginning the Creator ‘made them male and female,’

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Matthew 19:4

od’s Design for Marriage

od’s Design for Marriage

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“and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?

“and said, ‘For this reason a man will leave his father and mother and be united to his wife, and the two will become one flesh’?

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Matthew 19:5

od’s Design for Marriage

od’s Design for Marriage

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“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”

“So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate.”

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Matthew 19:6

od’s Design for Marriage

od’s Design for Marriage

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• Life-long Commitment

• Faithfulness

• Work out Your Difficulties

• Life-long Commitment

• Faithfulness

• Work out Your Difficulties

od’s Design for Marriage

od’s Design for Marriage

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• When ThingsWon’t Work

• When ThingsWon’t Work

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

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“Why then,”

they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

“Why then,”

they asked, “did Moses command that a man give his wife a certificate of divorce and send her away?”

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Matthew 19:7

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

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Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.

Jesus replied, “Moses permitted you to divorce your wives because your hearts were hard. But it was not this way from the beginning.

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Matthew 19:8

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

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A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.

A wife must not separate from her husband. But if she does, she must remain unmarried or else be reconciled to her husband.

1 Corinthians 7:10-11

• divorce• divorce

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

GG• When Things

Won’t Work• When Things

Won’t Work• Unfaithfulness• Unfaithfulness

“I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

“I tell you that anyone who divorces his wife, except for marital unfaithfulness, and marries another woman commits adultery.”

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Matthew 19:9

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

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“And if she

divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery."

“And if she

divorces her husband and marries another man, she commits adultery."

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Mark 10:12

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

GG

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

GG• When Things

Won’t Work• When Things

Won’t Work

• Unfaithfulness• Unfaithfulness• Release and

Recovery• Release and

Recovery

If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.

If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her.

1 Corinthians 7:12

• divorce• divorce

And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.

And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.

1 Corinthians 7:13

• divorce• divorce

But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances.

But if the unbeliever leaves, let him do so. A believing man or woman is not bound in such circumstances.

1 Corinthians 7:15

• divorce• divorce

od’s Provision for Weakness

od’s Provision for Weakness

GG• When Things

Won’t Work• When Things

Won’t Work

• Unfaithfulness• Unfaithfulness• Release and

Recovery• Release and

Recovery

• Forgiveness from God

• Forgiveness for Others

• Freedom to Remarry

• Forgiveness from God

• Forgiveness for Others

• Freedom to Remarry