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FEBRUARY 2012 ISSUE

BEAUTY

PICTORIAL

Contents

3 Dear iCandi

4 What Would You Do

6 music reviews

8 Fabulous Moment of the Month

9 Bucks with Bux

17 Prayer Request

30 Recipe of The Month

10 taming those eyebrows

12 skin care

13 mastering the “smokey eye” look

10 black girls rock pictorial

from past to preset look how

far we’ve come! photography by

shanNon d photography

FEATURES5 MY black girl rock

14 Will the queens reclaim their throne

16 a better me

18 the donut march

25 black girls rock

29 celebrate being single

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Dear iCandi,

My ex and I are considering getting back together but our circumstances are much more complicated. He’s going through a divorce and I’m currently carrying another man’s baby. Do you think this is a recipe for disaster? The love is still very strong between us.

Gurrrrrrrrrrl that sounds like some "Young and the Restless", "Days of Our Lives", and, my favorite, “The Game” type of situation. Often I get questions from people asking what I think about second chances and trying for another go with an ex. To me it really depends on the ex. I really need a little more info to give you some in depth advice but I’ll do what I can. First off, wait until the divorce is FINAL!! Make no mistake; he’s still married and until he’s unmarried you need to step back! Now, whose baby are you carrying? Are you in a relationship with this man? Was it a one night stand? What’s the REAL story here? It seems like you have a lot going on right now and all you are about to do is complicate things further. You can’t control who you love so I understand what you are going through but you CAN, however, control your actions. Right now his actions need to be focused on getting that divorce final and all that might come with it (alimony, child support, moving out, etc). Your actions need to be focusing on having this baby and figuring out what you are going to do with this “other man” situation. Playing with people’s emotions is how people get shot these days so handle yours. Get some type of closure and parental agreement down before you bring another man that’s not this child’s father in their life. Now about this second chance thing, you never know, your ex might actually be your soulmate and you both needed time to grow. I’ve seen a couple situations go down where the second chance worked out for the better so it just might work. Just really consider how and why you guys broke up before, evaluate the changes you both have made as far as growth and maturing, and see if you think it’s worth another show. HEY go for it! It’s your life but make sure those “situations” are dealt with first! (Laughs) Love ya!

MsiCandi

if your “married” pastor kept making obvious passes at you?

What Would You Do......

Robert SupertalentedMikelawryjackson Jr Rev Do Wrong

Winston Smith Got to be more careful and rebuke him

David Williams Bust him one time across his chop's

Vicki CollinsFind another church like I've done in the past.

Llyas I-el NashidTell Jesus lol

Tiffany Takalani KelleyI would let him know that i am not interested. If he continued to pursue me i'd report him.

@FatimaNicole Pray God will know 1st, then I will tell him off nicely. If the situation doesn't change, I'm talking to his wife.

@MsiCandi I’d just say “no thank you”, pray for him and move on with my life

@Ampthe3rd Get him on tape and black mail him for the church tithes money!!!

@BeAyitiwhat's the passage in the bible that states thou shalt not commit adultery and/or fornication? Remind him of that.

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We're often faced with the age old question, "What does she want from me?" This question has left us men baffled for years, even centuries. We are constantly trying to figure out how to get along with her. She seems to be so easily misunderstood. She accuses me of taking her kindness for weakness and her silence for speechless. She tells me that my friends and family consider her uniqueness strange and they call her language slang.

What does she want? What does she want from me? I mean, I am constantly telling her "Baby, I love you, I am doing all that I know to do for you." But I work hard every day and I get tired boo. Did anyone tell you that it's hard out here for me too? We have to learn to be together and work together because we have to live together. I refuse to give up on us because I know your worth. I can't speak for the men in your past but I am here now to remind you that your history is meant to guide your destiny, not decide your destiny.

I recognize you for who you are and I promise to never confuse your confidence for conceit or your mistakes for defeat. I know your strength and I appreciate your determination to make a better life for you, me and our family.

Your past pain has you in a box that you have obviously completely outgrown. You are by no means unaware of the power that we hold when we work together. You asked for a strong man; here I am. Take a deep breath, sit back, relax, and let me see if I can help you understand.

I see beauty and strength. I see love and happiness. I love the curves of your hips and thickness of your lips. I love the future that your eyes hold and the gentleness of your soul. After a long hard day, it's the words you whisper that wash my pain away. No matter what happens, good or bad, rain, sleet, or snow, there is no way in the world that I am walking out that door.

Girl, you are the cheese in my macaroni, the gravy on my biscuit, and you know how I love my biscuits and gravy. You are the ham hock in my collard greens and the corn bread for my pinto beans. If you didn't know, now you know I will do anything for you. I can't promise that we won't ever disagree, maybe even an argument, two or three? But I can promise you that you won't have to spend another moment alone as long I am alive.

Most people would say Love is the key to saving all relationships; I say it is Respect that saves relationships and Love keeps the flame lit. (Dhanti Praspani) I respect you in a way that you will never know. I vow to protect you, provide for you and love you as we grow. Now I don't have a lot of money, so I pride myself for being a man of my word and baby, I give you my word, see you have my word.

So to my beautiful black queen, you are what I live, work and are willing to die for. I dig your very existence. To your mother I would like to say, "Thank You!" To her mother I say, "Thank You!" all the way back to where it first began. It started with them but it won't end with you. That same drive and determination that lived within them still lives on within you. It doesn't matter if you lose sight of where you are going. As your man, it's my job to dig deep inside you and remind you of who you are.

Look, I am not trying to hype you up. I am just stating the facts. Fellas, y'all can play all yall want to but I know what I got. Contrary to what you've been told, there are plenty more from whence she came. I love my Black Queen, Black Women, Black Girl whatever your preference but my main point is to give Her reverence. I want the world to know that my Black Girl ROCKS and I ROX with her. Yeah, that's right, I said it and I mean it and I won't take it back.

My Black Girl Rock!Written by Mayo Woody

J. Antoinne Music Reviews for Feb 2012

Delorean - PauseSwagga Boy/BMI Records, 2011Delorean has flown under the radar of the mainstream world, and has now released his debut album, and it's not too bad at all, actually. While some of the songs may sound predictable and expected, his voice makes a lot of the songs work. "Hey Shawty" has the potential to sound like others before it, but it does have a bounce to it that makes you move. "Karma Love" and "Get This Money" (the latter featuring an almost awesome rap by newcomer LT) keep the uptempo grooves going, but Delorean's voice really gets to shine on the slower songs. "Personal" has that good quiet storm groove, whereas "Good Love" is probably the best song on the album, and "Call Me" isn't too far behind with both songs' awesome background arrangements. More people should take time on their production like this album.(4.25 Stars)(A)

Mary J. Blige - My Life II: The Journey Continues, Act 1Geffen Records, 2011Mary J. Blige has always been a mainstay on the charts; she comes, she goes, but when she comes, she lingers for a while. That said, many wonder if that's a deserved feat; this latest album doesn't truly answer that question. While the album that this one is allegedly a part two of, My Life, was an instant and deserved success, this one misses the mark. It's not horrible, just not worthy to be named as a continuation of a classic album. The last few songs make this album at least worth listening to, with Blige sounding like her classic self on songs like "Empty Prayers" and "The Living Proof", and the duet with Beyonce' titled "Love A Woman" isn't half-bad; sadly, most of the album doesn't follow along that same path. Hopefully, soon, MJB can get out some songs that actually coincide with My Life.(3 Stars)(C-)

Where there’s life, there’s music...J. Antoinne iCandi Productions

The Revelations - Concrete BluesNia Music Distribution, 2011This is this musical conglomerate's sophomore album, and it's definitely still on par with the awesome first one, The Bleeding Edge (get it if you can find it, trust me). Here, they continue to deliver awesome sounds laced with amazing lyrics that really cultivate a true R&B album. This is definitely one of those rare albums that you can just press play, sit back, and listen to the sounds that escape your speakers. The 70's-themed sounds of the opening song, "Something's Got To Give" will get you going on a good groove, coupled with "Behind These Bars" where you'll completely relate. Tre' Williams lets his gritty tenor loose on songs like "Until You Get Enough of Me" and "Don't Wait", easily bringing the real soul styles clear into the present. Definitely an album worth buying.(5 Stars)(A+)

Betty Wright and The Roots - The MovieS-Curve Records/Ms. B. Records, 2011Betty Wright has been around for over fifty years, and one would wonder if she's still "got it"; well, this collaboration with The Roots definitely shows that she does. Take the indomitable soul of one the 70s and 80s starlets and bring her to the 2010s with the hip-hop band The Roots and you have no choice but to have a brilliant soul-infused live set that's definitely worth a few listens. This album sounds like it took one whole continuous take to make, with the songs running into each other. "In the Middle of the Game (Don't Change)" and "Old Songs" weave classic Betty with current Roots, and her collaborations with Lenny Williams, Joss Stone, and Snoop Dog (!) ("Baby Come Back", "Whisper In the Wind", and "Real Woman", respectively) all work well in present-day. Go ahead now, Betty.(4.5 Stars)(A)

Don't Miss This!!Throwback albums you probably don't have (but should)

Puff Johnson - MiracleThe little woman with the big voice didn't fail to disappoint. "Some Kind of Miracle" and "Forevermore" are songs that are definitely worth a few spins from this classic album.Solo - SoloA classic album that is truly R&B that a lot of people really didn't pick up on. "Heaven" is the classic single most will remember, but don't sleep on the standard "Under the Boardwalk" or "He's Not Good Enough".

iCandi Fabulous Moment of the Month

MsiCandi FINALLY meets FANTASIA We all knew it was bound to happen! Shoutout to Stylez, the Go2Gurl, & DJ Dr Doom for all making it possible for me to meet my idol! That moment goes down in history! BLACK GIRLS ROCK!

TEAM

TASIA

Valentine's Day is a special day based off love. Lots of people go out for this day, but some simply can't afford to or prefer not to. I'm here to help with some ideas that can be very sweet and keep some dinero in your pockets.

#1 Write a love letter or poem. Some may think that it is cheesy, but it shows that you took the time to write your love out.

#2 Cook a dinner at home; it will be both intimate and you can decide what the menu would be. You can cook all your sweetie's favorites.

The main way to save money during this special day is being creative and not thinking "little picture." Just think of the big things like flowers and candy and figure out how you could come up with the same thing in a smaller portion.

BUCKS with BUX

Well  hello  there  beau,es  and  welcome  to  the  iCandi  Beauty  segment.  In  the  spirit  of  our  theme  “Black  Girls  Rock”,  my  goal  is  to  introduce  to  you  one  of  the  simplest  yet  important  ways  to  properly  “Rock”  your  face.    Most  people  take  for  granted  the  impact  of  eyebrows.    Although  they  may  not  be  the  first  thing  that  people  no,ce  when  they  first  look  at  you  (if  done  properly),  the  eyebrows  will  compliment  and  oGen  ,mes  flaIer  your  appearance  by  enhancing  your  facial  shape,  balancing  your  features,  and  framing  your  eyes.  Your  eyebrows  have  the  ability  to  enhance  or  diminish  your  overall  appearance.  The  key  to  achieving  the  best  look  possible  is  by  incorpora,ng  a  liIle  iCandi  sweetness  into  your  beauty  regimen!    In  true  iCandi  fashion  you’ve  got  to  keep  it  sweet!

Shape  of  the  brow  (It’s  really  important  that  you  

choose  the  best  brow  shape  for  your  face)

Where  does  the  brow  arch?  (now  listen,  rocking  McDonald’s  golden  arches  above  your  eyes  is  not  a  good  look)

Eye  shape  (all  brows  are  not  created  equal!!  Do  what  is  flaBering  to  you  and  your  overall  appearance)

Equal  propor7on  (please  make  sure  both  brows  look  

the  same)

Thin  or  Thickness  (don’t  make  the  mistake  of  making  

you’re  brows  too  thick  or  too  thin;  keep  it  natural)

FASHION & BEAUTY

Pauline “Al-Nisa” Wiliamsis the multi-talented make up artist for iCandi Productions (Cincinnati). Not only is she gifted with makeup art, but she also specializes in henna body art. Pauline also has a cake baking and decorating company, the “Tiers of Joi” cakery. To get in touch with Pauline about make up, henna, or specialty cakes contact her at: http://www.tiersofjoi.comhttp://facebook.com/mrs.pjwilliams

The  Best  Eyebrows  for  Your  Face  Shape  and  FeaturesTypically, the innermost portion of the eyebrow should be the thickest and taper towards the outer edge. Keep in mind when shaping your brows you should take your entire face into consideration

and maintain balance (face shape, eye position and forehead size etc).

Round  Face  

For  my  lovely  ladies  with  round  faces,  such  as  yours  truly  and  MsiCandi  herself,  you  want  to  emphasize  the  arch  of  the  eyebrow  which  will  help  lend  your  face  a  more  narrow  appearance  by  drawing  aIen,on  away  from  the  width  of  your  face.  You  ladies  should  have  a  high  arch  and  extend  to  the  end  of  the  cheekbone.

Long  Face

If  you’re  rocking  a  long  face  like  the  lovely  Kelly  Rowland,  you  want  to  deemphasize  the  arch  as  much  as  possible.  This  will  give  your  face  a  more  horizontal  dimension  making  it  appear  a  bit  shorter.  Make  sure  not  to  extend  your  eyebrows  past  the  outer  corners  of  your  eye.

Square  and  Heart  shaped  Face

If  you  have  a  square  or  heart-­‐shaped  face  like  Kyla  PraI,  your  best  bet  is  to  use  a  high  arch  with  a  rounded  curve  on  the  outer  ends  of  the  brows.  Rounded  eyebrows  will  help  soGen  the  sharp  angles  of  the  face  making  it  appear  more  oval.  

Ways  to  Tweak  Addi7onal  FeaturesClose  Set  Eyes

For  my  divas  with  close  set  eyes  shape  the  eyebrows  a  bit  closer  to  the  inner  corner  of  your  eye  and  extend  the  outer  edge  a  liIle  bit  further  outward  to  help  give  the  illusion  that  your  eyes  are  set  further  apart.

Wide  Set  Eyes

A  simple  way  to  make  your  eyes  appear  closer  together  is  to  extend  the  brows  inward  a  bit.  But  be  very  careful  not  to  overdo  it  as  this  may  cause  you  to  appear  as  though  you  are  constantly  frowning…not  sexy.

Low  Forehead

Low  forehead,  low  arch!  To  give  the  illusion  of  your  forehead  being  a  bit  higher,  lower  the  arch,  but  be  very  careful  not  to  over  arch;  doing  so  will  cause  you  to  constantly  appear  surprised.

Determining  the  thickness  of  your  brows  

Allow  your  natural  features  to  determine  the  thickness  of  your  eyebrows.  If  you  have  small  delicate  features  you  should  choose  to  have  thinner,  more  delicate  eyebrows.    Thicker  eyebrows  on  your  face  will  only  overpower  your  face  and  have  you  resembling  Oscar  the  Grouch.  Women  with  strong  features  and  hair  on  the  thicker  side  may  want  to  go  with  a  thicker  brow  to  balance  out  your  features;  having  thinner  brows  will  cause  your  features  to  seem  more  pronounced  and  unbalanced. Balance is KeyKeep  the  beginning  and  end  of  the  brow  even!  If  the  end  of  your  brow  is  no,ceably  above  the  beginning  of  your  eyebrow,  you  will  maintain  a  stern  angry  look.  Balance  is  key!  Only  women  with  almond  shaped  eyes  that  turn  up  at  the  outside  edges  can  get  away  with  it  because  their  eyes  are  usually  naturally  higher  on  the  outside  than  the  inside  of  the  brow.

Most  of  all,  be  your  own  kind  of  beau,ful  inside  and  out!  Black  Girls  Rock!!!

If  you  remember  these  simple  concepts  you  will  surely  improve  your  appearance  exponen,ally.  So  whether  you’re  a  woman  with  full,  thick  or  small,  thin  eyebrows,  we  at  iCandi  are  going  to  help  you  find  the  eyebrow  shape  that  is  most  becoming  for  you.  This  is  how  to  determine  the  eyebrow  arch  to  best  flaIer  the  shape  of  your  face  as  well  as  your  overall  features.

FASHION & BEAUTY

Ladies, do you deal with dry itchy skin in the winter time? It may seem like the more you wear lotion and moisturizers it does not help. One remedy that I personally use for myself is shea butter and mineral oil. These two products are great because they battle both symptoms and you get great results. After taking a shower a good product to use before drying is Johnson’s Baby Oil w/ shea butter and cocoa butter. This does work wonders to keep your skin smooth and soft throughout your whole day.

Skincare Makeup Bag Essentials

These are the must haves for your makeup bag:

Mascara

Foundation

Concealer

Blush

Eye Shadow

Lipstick/Lipgloss

Brushes

“Defining True Beauty”Written By

Toria Lee aka MzHytekDivaArtistry by Toria

Make Up & Skincare Tips

Black Girls RockThe best look for a diva’s night out is the classic smoky eye. You can wear this look in many different ways, whether it be for work, casual day out shopping, or a night out on the town with your girls or special someone.

What You Need• Eye primer (this is optional, but I

recommend it to have a longer lasting finish)

• One light shadow and one dark shadow of your choice

• Eyeliner• Makeup brushes• Mascara

The basic steps are as follows:

1. Start with the lid. You first would add primer to your eye lids; this will help keep the shadow from seeping into your eyes if you’re going to be wearing it all day. The best brand that I like to use for this is Urban Decay’s Primer Potion.

2. Add eyeliner. You can use the basic colors black, brown, or grey to outline the eye on your upper and lower lash line. If you add a color you can use a darker tone of green, purple or blue.

3. Add color blend on bottom lashes. For this step you can add color to the bottom that will be a smudge. The best way to do this is to use an eyeliner pencil to line the bottom and rub across it with your finger or a small brush.

4. Add your base color. The best way to have a true smoky eye is to blend a lighter base with a darker base. You will start out light at the brow bone and use a shimmery shadow over your lids. You can use a shadow cream or powder, but the cream lasts longer.

5. Add dark color below the crease. This step requires you to use a darker shadow that will go over your liner and light base, but only under the crease. This is the blending process where you can blend any way that you like best.

6. Finishing touch is mascara. You can add a few coats of mascara to show the fullness and length of your naturals or you can add faux lashes to add volume as well.

WILL THE QUEENS RECLAIM THEIR THRONE?

Anyone that knows me or has been around me knows that I greet all my Sistas as Queens, even if they don’t know it or aren’t acting like it. When we know who we are and our story then we will see the “Queens Reclaiming Their Thrones”. We have reached February and we all know this is Black History Month, and without our Queens we would have no history. I want to speak about a few Queens in our history that deserve to be mentioned, and also a few Queens in my personal life.

We as a people have had some tough times being in this place they call North America. It is no secret that had it not been for a few great Queens, things could have been a lot worse.

Another Queen from our history is Shirley Chisholm out of New York. This was one amazing Queen, and I could write about her all day. She was the first black Congresswoman when she was elected in 1969. She served seven terms and was very effective at her job. Before Jesse Jackson and even President Obama, she made a bid for president by seeking the democratic nomination in 1972. She didn’t win the nomination, but her courage and will to even try and do what most said she couldn't shows me and others what type of woman she truly was. For that alone this Queen deserves to be celebrated.

Let’s start with a woman I truly love and adore; the one and only Harriet Tubman. She was called the Moses of her people. She led thousands out of the south on the “Underground Railroad” to freedom in the north and Canada. This Queen was so amazing. She risked her life so many times trying to free her people. This to me is an example of a selfless person. One of her most famous quotes was “I freed thousands of slaves, and could have freed a thousand more had they known they were slaves.”

Now I want to speak on a few Queens who have touched my life on a personal level. Mrs. Ruby Russell-Sisney-Cherry is my grandmother. This woman has showed me what a woman truly is. When my grandfather passed in 1987 she showed so much grace and strength. She later remarried and life seemed to knock her down once again. She lost her second husband but she showed even more grace and strength.

Joyce Sisney-Morgan is my mother. This woman has been an example, not only for her children but for others in her family. She is a leader by nature and others look to her for advice and many other things. She is a Queen like the women before her and I know she makes them proud.

Last, but certainly not least, is my wife Yammah Korvah-Morgan. She and her family came to this country back in 1987. Since then, she has been working her tail off to be the best she can be. She has given me the two most precious gifts in the world, our two sons, and I know our Queens from the past as well as the present are all proud of her.

Again, I ask, “Will The Queens Reclaim The Throne?” After reading about all these great Queens. I know the answer is YES.

PEACE & BLESSINGS “BROTHA INSIGHT”….

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A Better Me It's funny how so often in life we say, "I'll never do that again" or "this year I'm making major changes in my life." Many of us make new year resolutions and break them one month into the new year. Why is that? Maybe it's because we go at it alone. There's a famous quote that says, “Alone we can do so little, together we can do so much!” I believe this is so true. When you're trying to make changes for the better it helps to know that there are people not only in your corner, but also on the same journey. It's hard to change when you feel a constant lack of support. If this is true for you, check out the new facebook group called "A Better Me". This was group was created for women worldwide who have decided to embark on the journey to becoming BETTER in all things. It takes humble character to acknowledge that although we are great there is still room to grow. This group is all about positive growth and taking the necessary steps together. Together we can encourage others AND be encouraged by our own words. Join the movement towards becoming better in all things. The journey to "A Better Me" has begun! Are you ready? Of course you are...take our hands! Together WE CAN!! Together WE WILL!!

Written by Mercedes Brownwww.indiebychoice.com

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The Donut March A Dedication to Single Mothers

As we’re into Black History Month, there is still speculation and criticism for many reasons. A few of those include the 28 (sometimes 29) days that February blesses us with, and even the neglect or the lack of support to teach about Black History in our school systems. But really? Do we really expect the school systems to teach the next generation about our past when they are trying to ruin our future? Why teach children how to be strong when they are motivated to convince you that having a “good job” and going to college is the way to go? When was the last time you saw a slave master teaching his “workers” on being independent and to work for themselves and their futures?

This is a dedication to single mothers. Single mothers. My single mothers. Single mothers are the modern day slaves of today’s society, and trust me, that is no disrespect to the 24 hour job that they perform with their babies. A lot of women choose to work jobs that they are overqualified for to keep a roof over their heads, food in their bellies and a smile on their faces. They lower themselves to pay the bills, all with a peace of mind, knowing that the battle has been won for the moment.

My mother, Ms. Valarie, is a modern day slave in today’s world. No love, no respect, expendable by the same company that she was committed to for over fourteen years, and an afterthought. But growing up, I never saw a frown on my mother’s face. She is the strongest single mother that I know, and I love her for that.

When I was about six years old, my mother would get me up for school, way before the sun thought about rising. It was in the middle of winter, and we were COLD! I mean, COLD!!! Long johns, two pair of socks, coats zipped up to the neck, hats, boots, and gloves were mandatory in this kind of weather. Five days a week, we walked four blocks to catch the bus downtown. We get off the bus, just to walk ten more blocks to my school. It’s funny how she kept a smile on my face: DONUTS!

That was the moment that my mother taught me what it is to be strong and to survive any test that may come my way. Every day I asked my mother for a glazed twisty donut. She said “yes” most of the time. So when we walked into Busken’s Bakery, the worker knew exactly what I wanted, a twisty, glazed donut and a carton of orange juice. If I tell you that a donut motivated me to excel in school, you may think that I’m crazy. But it wasn’t the donut; it was how we got the donut.

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Written by Michael Jayce Miguel

I dreaded getting off of that warm, comfortable bus, just to encounter Jack Frost and his temptation of laziness. But when that time came, and the bus stopped, we marched off of the bus and straight to Busken’s. “Donuts!!” (clap, clap) “Donuts!!” (stomp, stomp). The “Donut March” was done for six straight blocks, keeping me warm, and focused on what was soon to come. Being an adult now, I can appreciate what my mother was doing without saying a word. It was about keeping me focused on what the future holds. Without a textbook, she taught me the value of working for what you want out of life and keeping that 20/20 vision intact, no matter what the elements brought us. Rain or shine, snow or wind, it was about loving the position that you’re in, and being proud of what you can accomplish. With me being a parent myself, I can relate to what it means to sacrifice, being innovative and holding your kids’ happiness in your possession. To all of the mothers who go hungry throughout the night to keep their kids fed, thank you! To all of the mothers who work and go to school without complaining, thank you! We love you and say, thank you! Yes, Mother’s Day is just one day a year, but for the ones who are proud of themselves, it’s something to celebrate all year round. Thank you!

Sincerely Yours, Michael Jayce

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iCandi Challenge For January 2012

If you read last month’s newsletter I challenged the mothers to pick one day in January and declare it “Mommy & Me Day.” The challenge was to block out four hours and dedicate it to your child. No cell phones, no work, no reality tv or soaps, just them and their child(ren). The mothers needed to document it by taking pics and sending them to me. At first, women were blowing me up accepting the challenge, but unfortunately a lot of them didn’t follow through and YES, I am disappointed in you ladies. Things do pop up at the last minute. Yes we have to work! Yes we need some “me time”, but if you can’t find the time to dedicate four hours to your child(ren) in 31 days, something is not right!!! The fellas were going HAM asking why didn’t I challenge the dads (it’s coming guys, I promise) and I know as soon as I do they plan to blow the women out of the box. A few ladies were able to complete the challenge and I want to personally thank them for making time for “Mommy & Me Day” and their kids. I’ve posted Tawanda Brice and her children at the Festival of Lights and Kiara “Mz Diva” Woody and her children having a serious Uno battle! 

Tawanda Brice & her children!!!

Got to love the Festival of lights!!!

Beautiful Family Girl!!!!

Baking Fun with MsiCandi & LoLo(and yes our food was oh so good!! Team Work!! )

#iCandiChallenge For February 2012This challenge is for the MEN!!!!!! Lately I have prided myself on my new hobby of cooking and I think it is very sexy when a man can cook but I’ve been talking to a lot of ladies and they are saying that men of my generation (25-35) CAN’T COOK!!! This can’t be true fellas!! I know my Men Candies can not only throw down in the bedroom but in the kitchen as well. I’m challenging the fellas to cook a nice full course meal and send me pics of you actually cooking it. Don’t front. Don’t have your lady, mama, or the chef at Golden Corral cook and you take the credit. I might show up at your house for a meal, lol. Send your pictures to iCandipro@gmail.com no later than Feb 28, 2012. I can’t wait to see what you all can cook! 

Uno with the Woodys! Mz Diva and her children got together and played the all time classic game UNO! This inspired me to go buy a pack of uno cards.

Black Girls Rock!Pictorial with Shannon D PhotographyModels: Shiwanna, BeBi, MsiCandiLocation: Kingsley Plantation

Black Girls Rock!Pictorial with Shannon D PhotographyBusiness woman of 2012Model: BeBi Location: Kingsley Plantation

Black Girls Rock!1950s HomemakerPictorial with Shannon D PhotographyModel: MsiCandiLocation: Kingsley Plantation

Oprah Winfery......... Tyra Banks................ MsiCandi

In honor of Black History month I’ve decided to dedicate this newsletter to Black women specifically (nothing against the fellas but my heart really wanted to honor black women). I am so proud to be a black woman. Not only are we beautiful, but we are strong, kindhearted, gracious, loyal, and the backbones to our communities!

We’ve gone from being forcefully taken from our homes to work as slaves to holding our men down, raising families, getting college degrees, owning our own businesses, and even becoming billionaires! Although we are far

from perfect I think we all should just stand up and shout this like we mean it:BLACK GIRLS ROCK!!

We went to the Kingsley Plantation to shoot the pictorial for this month’s newsletter; just being there and seeing the conditions that our ancestors were forced to deal with really hit me. I think we sometimes get so caught up in the present that we don’t reflect on our past. Look how far we’ve come!!! We are still making moves!!!

Black Girls, you ROCK!!

Remember your history!! Remember what the black women before us went through. Make them proud. Stand up!! Know your worth and your potential. DON’T STOP!! DON’T GIVE UP!

You are a BLACK girl and you ROCK!

No offense to my other races. You all know I love everybody and I think women period are amazing and we all rock, but today I am celebrating my BLACKNESS! I am celebrating my mother, my godmother, my nana, my grandma, my granny, my great-grandma Parker, My IDear, my aunts, great aunts, older cousins, mentors,

and my sistas in general! You have all been a true blessing in my life and from one black girl to another... BLACK GIRLS ROCK!

That’s right!!!! I said it!!! I have goals and dreams that might possibly put me on the same level as those two divas! For the month of February iCandi has dedicated the newsletter to “Black Girls Rock!", so why not pat my own self on the back? I’m a black girl..... well a black WOMAN and I ROCK!!

Black Girls Rock!

Black Girls RockFrom Past to PresentPictorial with Shannon D PhotographyModels: Shiwanna, BeBi, MsiCandiLocation: Kingsley Plantation

Black Girls RockDo you Remember Slavery? Pictorial with Shannon D PhotographyModel: ShiwannaLocation: Kingsley Plantation

For Valentines Day give your sweetheart a tasty treat by ordering from Kiara “Mz Diva Woody! Candy Boquets range from $10 to $20. Contact her via facebook at:

http://www.facebook.com/diva726

The day before Valentines Day do two things. First buy your favorite candy. Before leaving work you are going to sneak it onto your desk to "find" it in the morning. Second call and order flowers to be delivered to you. Don't order roses. Order something elegant like Lilly's. By the end of lunch time on Valentines Day everyone will have roses. You want your flowers to stand out. On Valentines Day, dress to impress!When you look good, you feel good. Don't shortcut!

When you find your candy, offer to share, but remain mysterious. When asked who gave it to you, just smile and answer "Obviously someone who loves me." Answer the same when your flowers arrive. Make sure you put them where everyone can see them.After work treat yourself to something special. Anything you've been eyeing but normally wouldn't purchase. Shoes, Jewelry, handbag, anything that makes you feel special. Don't go out to dinner Restaurants will be over crowded and overpriced.Instead make your favorite meal at home. Trust me everyone will be much more jealous when you tell them about your romantic candlelit, home made dinner. Finnish your day with a long, relaxing bubble bath.The next day when everyone else is asking questions make sure you let them know about your amazing perfect gift and amazing dinner. Other single ladies will be jealous. (let them in on the secret later.) Let the taken ladies wonder how a single lady made out so well on the years most romantic day for couples. Remember that when you tell everyone that "Obviously some one who loves you" did this for you, that you should love yourself everyday. Never place your self worth and self esteem in someone else's hands. Love, A beautiful Single Lady

Dear Single Ladies, Valentines day is fast approaching.Already everything is turning pink and red. Hearts and cupids adorn everything from candy to t-shirts. Stuffed animals and flowers fill every available space. Jewelry salesman walk around with that satisfied look that says commission's are paying for a vacation."Taken" ladies gush about love poems and debate on where their significant other is going to take them for dinner. They clear space on their desks for the roses they just know will be delivered.Single ladies are to be pitied. They are expected to be sullen and irritable. They are suppose to sit at home alone, watching sappy movies and crying into their Ben and Jerry ice cream.They're forgetting one important factor, Taken ladies have to depend on someone else to make their Valentines special Single ladies can do it on their own. So put the Ben and Jerry's back in the freezer, drop the tissues in the trash and turn off the t.v.!

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RECIPE OF THE MONTHChocolate Covered Strawberries

Ingredients:16 ounces milk chocolate chips2 tablespoons shortening1 pound fresh strawberries with leavesDirections:1. Insert toothpicks into the tops of the strawberries.2. In a double boiler, melt the chocolate and shortening, stirring occasionally until smooth. Holding them by the toothpicks, dip the strawberries into the chocolate mixture.3. Turn the strawberries upside down and insert the toothpick into styrofoam for the chocolate to cool.

Thanks once again for supporting the iCandi Brand! Be sure to go to our website for more information about iCandi Productions and TEAM iCandi! Happy February to you all and may it be filled with lots of positivity and progression!

Be Blessed,

MsiCandi

Happy Birthday from Team iCandiJames Lamb Feb 1Randy Bear Bradford Feb 3Lateefah Ragland Feb 4Rod Welton Feb 4Janelle Mayes Feb 5Tiffany Johnson Feb 10Synetta Garrett Allen Feb 14Jose Aldanondo Feb 14DeShawna Pruett Feb 15Linda Cleave Feb 21Darryl Walker Feb 23DJ Ace Feb 25