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    Irene Renzenbrink, B.A. Dip.Soc.Studs., M.Soc.Admin., D.V.A.T.I., C.A.G.S.

    PhD Candidate, European Graduate School

    Irene Renzenbrink, B.A. Dip.Soc.Studs., M.Soc.Admin., D.V.A.T.I., C.A.G.S.

    PhD Candidate, European Graduate School

    Playing in the Ruins: An Arts Based

    Approach to Care of the Dying (and the

    Bereaved)

    Beyond Words� Give sorrow words, yes, but also paint and

    glue and hammers and nails and long walks and quiet and music and play and all other possible forms of expression, including silence.

    � ( Donna Schuurman 2002)

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    A fragmented totalityPutting together fragments of experience , building something new out of them

    Playing in the ruins to find the gift that lies in wait for us there

    We cannot celebrate unless we mourn.

    Levine, S.K. ( 2009)Trauma, Tragedy, Therapy, Jessica Kingsley Publishers,London

    FragmentationIt is essential for human being (sic) to fall apart, fragment, disintegrate, and to experience the despair that comes with lack of wholeness and that it is by moving into the experience of the void that the possibilities for creative living arise and a new form of existence begins to emerge.

    Stephen Levine , Poeisis: The Language of Psychology and Speech of the Soul

    If we can shape the fragments of our broken world into new forms, we can find a place of meaning and value for our lives. Stephen K. Levine

    We splinter and break into fragments, not to pursue destruction for its own sake, but to make ourselves anew. Shaun McNiff

    Soul pain is the experience of an individual who has become

    disconnected and alienated from the deepest and most fundamental

    aspects of himself or herself.

    Kearney, M. (1996)Mortally Wounded, Stories of Soul Pain, Death and Healing,

    Scribner, New York)

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    The soul finds its form in art

    When the soul is in need, art presents itself as a resourceful healer.

    McNiff, S. 2004. Art as Medicine. Boston, MA: ShambhalaPress

    A favouriteplace

    Pulled in all directionsWe in this work are missing an outer layer of skin and must take care to renew ourselves.

    Dame Cicely Saunders

    Total pain: the work of Cicely Saunders and the maturing of a concept by David Clark

    http://endoflifestudies.academicblogs.co.uk/total-pain-the-work-of-cicely-saunders-and-the-maturing-of-a-concept/

    She said, Well doctor, the pain began in my back, but now it seems that all of me is wrong. She gave a description of various symptoms and ills and then went on to say, My husband and son were marvellous but they were at work and they would have had to stay off and lose their money. I could have cried for the pills and injections although I knew I shouldnt. Everything seemed to be against me and nobody seemed to understand.

    Mrs Hinson, St Josephs Hospice , 1964

    all of me is wrong

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    ADRIAN HILL (1895-1977)COINED THE TERM ART THERAPY IN 1942ART VS ILLNESS

    Art Therapy

    � Provides an alternative to spoken language as a means of representation and communication( Woods)

    � trapped in a web of words( Levine)

    � Wood, M.( 1998) Art Therapy in Palliative Care: The Creative Response, Routledge

    Dr.Sandra Bertman

    USING THE ARTS AND HUMANITIES WITH THE DYING, BEREAVED AND OURSELVESin Stillion, J. and Attig ( 2015) T. Death, Dying and Bereavement: Contemporary Perspectives, Institutions and Practices, NY Springer

    Dr Sandra Bertman� Expressive therapy is predicated on the

    assumption that people can heal through use of the imagination and various forms of creative expression in the artsliterary, musical, dramatic, and visual. Expressive therapy, also known as creative arts therapy, differs from traditional art expression in emphasizing the creative process rather than the final product or work.

    � Bertman, S.(2015) Using the arts and humanities with the dying, bereavedand ourselves. In Stillion, J.Attig,T.( Eds) Death, dying and bereavement: perspectives, institutions and practices.NY Springer, 245-259

    Research findings: Art Therapy

    In cancer care, calming, peaceful effect, working through identity changes, distraction ( not avoidance) promoting creativity and well being

    In palliative care, can ease fears and anxieties, sadness and anger. A non-verbal and tactile approach, leaving something behind-the idea of legacy for some patients.

    Ref. Wood, M. , Wood, M. Art Therapy in Palliative Care: The Creative Response, Routledge ( 1998)

    Wood,M. et al, International Journal of Art Therapy, 2013,Vol.18,No.2, 42-53

    How can art therapy help in end of life care?

    Life review and reminiscence

    Respite from focus on whats wrong

    Facilitates expressions of emotion

    Ignites a spark of creativity

    Restores a sense of capacity

    Meaning making

    Playfulness

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    Arthur Frank: At the Will of the Body, Reflections on Illness

    Boring second hand medical talk

    When ill persons talk in medicalese, they deny themselves the drama of their personal experience.

    Disease vs Illness perspective

    Treatment is not always care.

    Decentering in Expressive Arts TherapyMoving away from the narrow logic of thinking and acting that marks the helplessness around a difficult or stuck situation

    � Problem saturation: more of the same

    � Expanding the range of play-moving into the opening of the surprising and unpredictable, unexpectedness, the experience within the logic of the imagination.

    � Knill, P, Levine, E. Levine, S. ( 1999) Principles and Practice of Expressive Arts Therapy, JKP, London.

    The restoration of capacity

    � The use of the arts in therapy can restore a sense of I am able and restore a sense of capacity

    � Shaping our reality through sensible and imaginative transformation

    � Stephen Levine: Philosophical Foundations of Expressive Arts Therapy: Toward a Therapeutic Aesthetics Bulletin of Psychology and the Arts, Vol 2 (2) 2002

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    � Good therapists are open to metaphor and symbol; they listen with a third ear that hears what is not said; they see potential for development in the person and are animated ( ensouled) by these invisible possibilities.

    � Levine, S. 1997 Poeisis: The Language of Psychology and the Speech of the Soul, Jessica Kingsley, Publishers.

    Use of Metaphor

    Metaphor is often used by grieving people as a way of understanding one kind of thing in terms of another

    It generates a richness of conceptual language that captures multiple layers of meaning

    Linda Machin, Working with Loss and Grief, Sage 2009

    The symbol touches all chords of the human heart at once, language is always forced to keep one thought at a time. Bachofen,1967

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    The light is the capacity to reconcile your experience, your sorrow, with every day that dawns. It is that understanding, which is beyond significance or meaning that allows you to live a life and embrace the disasters and sorrows and joys that are our common lot. But its only with the recognition that there is a crack in everything. I think all other visions are doomed to irretrievable gloom.�

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    Artful Grief-A Diary of HealingSharon Strouse

    I was in pieces. I dripped. I floated about. I was cut in half. I was disconnected.

    Sharon StrouseCollage: Integrating the Torn Pieces

    I break into a million pieces

    My creative process unlocked doors to unexplored feelings.I was empowered by the act of creating. I gained control and engaged what I was reticent to talk about.

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    Artful Grief Sharon Strouse

    There is some kind of physical release in the experience of tearing

    I had found a way for the unspeakable to speak

    Making the collage brought me a measure of serenity

    I could manipulate the pieces, the fragments and I felt a control.

    Collage

    Creating a collage is a structured activity that engages a client in making choices and organizing materials, and can be symbolic of creating order out of fragmented aspects of life or chaotic feelings.

    Catherine Hyland Moon ( 2010) Studio Art Therapy, Jessica Kingsley Publishers, London

    Collage in Arts Based Research

    Transforming bits and pieces into new forms can be freeing, allowing new ideas

    to be discovered.

    Chilton, G. and Scott,V., Snipping, Gluing,Writing:The properties of collage as an Arts Based Research Practice in Art Therapy,

    Journal of the American Art Therapy Association, 31:4, 163-171

    My mother was on my mind because Id been struggling with sorting. I think some of the sadness was to do with what outsiders might perceive as pathetic junkwhat mattered was the feeling of stillness as we each went about our work. I think I worked my way through to a meaning at the end.

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    Handmade paper, collage with fabric, paper photograph and pastel

    A reflection on attachment and lossand negative space.

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    Separationby W.S. Merwin

    Your absence has gone through meLike thread through a needle.Everything I do is stitched with its colour.

    Peter Gilbert, Spirituality and End of Life Care ( 2013) Pavilion Press

    Grieving the death of a mother as an adult

    � You lose your history, your sense of connection to the past. You also lose the final buffer between you and death. Even if youre an adult its weird to be orphaned( Therese Rando)

    � I perceived that many people felt that because Mother was old and I was an adult child, the loss should be less significant. ( Harold Smith)

    Harold Ivan Smith� How old was your mother? When I answered eighty-

    three, the frequent response was . Oh, then she lived a good long life. Oh felt like a slap to my face. Wha t would have been wrong with with her living eighty-four or eighty-eight years? Was she a Christian? Yes. Well, then, shes in a better place. Had she been sick? Yes. Then her suffering is over. Yes, but what about my suffering?

    � Smith, H. I. ( 2003 ) Grieving the Death of a Mother, Augsburg Books, Minneapolis

    SEWINGI cut up all your handkerchiefs

    To make a little quiltI had to reinforce them

    They were so thin and frail, As thin and frail as you were

    When you began to fade.I sorted all the pieces

    And then began to sew. Sewed as you had taught me,

    Sewed as if to find you,Sewed as if I could repair your

    damaged self and mine. Sewed from my heart,

    Sewed with love,

    Sewed to make you whole.

    � I write poems as a form of magic to reshape patterns of being and look deeper into the mystery. This is an endeavour that lies at the heart of a spiritual quest.

    � Knill, P., H. Nienhaus Barba and M. Fuchs. 2004. Minstrels of Soul: Intermodal Expressive Therapy. Toronto: EGS Press.

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    Robert Neimeyer on preserving the connection

    � Life Imprint identifying ways in which the other has left a recognizable mark on us, e.g. mannerisms, gestures, ways of speaking and communicating, core values and beliefs

    � Letter Exchange- the bereaved writes a letter to the loved one and then a response as if from the loved one.

    Neimeyer, R. Making meaning in the midst of loss, Grief Matters 9(3) Summer 2006

    Poems of Address

    � One way to bring a person into a poem quickly and intimately is by using the form of address. By speaking directly to people, whether or not they are present, absent or deceased, the poet draws them into the poem and suggests a close relationship.

    � Start with the openong line : I could not tell you

    Judith Steinbergh

    The Delft Gown

    Mary Burgess Woven Memories

    wovenmemories.com.au

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    Healing the pain in my life exercise

    1. The pain 2. A healing

    symbol3. Combine 1. and

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    Lucy at Edmonton Zoo

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    If you suddenly and unexpectedly feel joy, dont hesitate. Give in to it. There are plenty of lives and whole towns destroyed or about to be.We are not wise, and not very often kind. And much can

    never be redeemed. Still life has some possibility left.Perhaps this is its way of fighting back, that sometimes

    something happens better than all the riches or power in the world. It could be anything, but very likely you notice it in the instant when love begins. Anyway, thats often the case. Anyway, whatever it is, dont be afraid of its plenty. Joy is not made to be a crumb.

    Mary Oliver-Dont Hesitate