Bbc 6min Business Asking Personal Questions

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BBC Learning English6 Minute English7 November 2 13Business English Asking personal questionsNB: This is not a word-for-word transcript

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Feifei: Hello! Im Feifei and welcome to another episode of 6 MinuteEnglish! In todays programme were talking about stress, and herewith me in the studio today is the very lovely Neil. How are youtoday Neil, not too stressed I hope?

Neil: You know me Feifei, always cool as a cucumber!

Feifei: Ha! Yes, I do. Im pleased to hear it and have you brought a stress-

related business fact to talk about?

Neil: I have. Its a report from the Chartered Institute of Personnel andDevelopment here in the UK. Apparently up to 50% of employersare saying that stress-related absence from work has gone up.

Feifei: Really?Were losing more and more work time due to stress?!

Neil: Yes Feifei, so dont stress me out or Ill be going home before weget to the end of the programme

Feifei: Ill do my best to be nice to you Neil.

Neil: Good, because sometimes, you know, things get a bit too much forme and -

Feifei: So Neil, if its not too personal a question, what do you do to reduceyour stress levels at work?

Neil: Well, I always deal with problems with colleagues face-to-facebefore things get too serious.

Feifei: Problems with colleagues? Neil you are such a lovely person - Icant imagine you having problems with colleagues

Neil: I know its hard to believe, isnt it? But its the best way, person toperson, face to face... you just have to choose your words carefully,especially when youre asking personal or sensitive questions.

Feifei: I think we need to ask Business Betty to tell us more.

Neil: And here she is!


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Neil / FF: Its Business Betty!

Neil: Its good to see you Betty, looking stunning as always.

BB: Thanks. What can I help you with today?

Feifei: Can you give us some advice on asking personal questions Betty?

BB: Id be very happy to Feifei. Im going to start with a cultural tip.Generally speaking, its OK to ask personal questions in Britishculture, when the situation is right and when you choose yourwords carefully. Now, when asking personal questions, the firstthing to do is to give a warning that youre going to talk aboutsomething personal. You could say something like: I wanted to talkto you about a personal matter. Is that OK with you?

Feifei: I wanted to talk to you about a personal matter. Is that OK withyou?

BB: Thats a very good way to start, Feifei. And to introduce a personalquestion, you can say: If you dont mind me asking

Feifei: If you dont mind me asking, have you been feeling stressed at all?

BB: Well done. Another useful phrase to use either before or after apersonal question is If its not too personal a question.

Feifei: If its not too personal a question, is everything alright at home?

BB: Good one! And finally, a really easy one, just say May I ask andthen say what you want to know.

Feifei: May I ask what the problem was?

BB: Good! So to sum up: first give a warning, and then use phrases likeIf you dont mind me asking, If its not too personal a question,and May I ask? So Feifei and Neil, hows that?

Feifei: Thats great - thanks Betty!

Neil: Thank you Betty!

BB: Youre welcome. If theres nothing else, Ill be on my way. Bye!

Neil / FF: Bye!

Neil: Shes a wonderful woman, Business Betty!


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Feifei: She really is.

Neil: I think its time for our role-play.

Feifei: So do I. I think its coming

Neil: Yes, and do you know what that means? It means its my turn tobe the boss.

Feifei: No its not, its my turn.

Neil: It was your turn last time, its always your turn to be the boss.

Feifei: No, it wasnt. Its my turn this time. Lets start, are you ready?

Neil: Bossy! Bossy equals boss!

Role-play

Fe i f e i : Come in! Ahhh, Neil! Come in and sit down. What can I do for youtoday?

Ne i l : Well actually, you asked to see me.Fe i f e i : Did I? Oh yes, thats right, yes I did. OK, Neil I wanted to talk to

you about a personal matter. Is that OK with you?Ne i l : OKFe i f e i : Well, Ive noticed that youve been looking a bit worried lately. So if

you dont mind me asking, have you been feeling stressed at all?Ne i l :

No, not really.Fe i f e i : Oh good. Because the thing is, the other day you looked a bitupset. If its not too personal a question, is everything alright athome?

Ne i l : At home, well, we did have a problem last week, but its OK now.Fe i f e i : Oh good, good. May I ask what the problem was?Ne i l : Oh my daughters goldfish died. She was quite upset, but shes OK,

we are pulling through.Fe i f e i : Good, good, well if it happens again you will let me know, wont

you?Ne i l : Yes of course. Thank you.Fe i f e i : Youre welcome.

Feifei: OK Neil, that was todays role-play. How did I do?

Neil: That was pretty good! Youre not bad actually.

Feifei: I told you I would be!

Feifei: Thats it for todays topic. May I ask if you enjoyed the programme?


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Neil: I enjoyed it very much! Its been good and not at all stressful.

Feifei: So you wont be taking any time off work because of stress?

Neil: No, I dont think so.

Feifei: Good! Join us again for another episode of 6 Minute English.

Neil / FF: Bye!


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Asking personal questions: Key phrases

Warning someone thatyoure going to talk about

something personal

I wanted to talk about a personal matter. Is thatalright with you?

Introducing a personalquestion

If you dont mind me asking

If its not too personal a question

May I ask?

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