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    BEHAVIOR COACHING YOUTH WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

    17 OCTOBER 2009, SATURDAYU.P. FILM INSTITUTE

    Registration 7:00 a.m. 8:00 a.m.

    Morning Session: 8:00 a.m. 12:00 noon

    * Prayer led by Prof. Lutze- Sol A. Vidal

    * Welcome Remarks Dr. Benjamina A. PereyraDirectress, ChildFind TherapyCenter

    * Lecture 1: Normalization,

    Youth with Special Needs andThe Helping Process Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Lecture 2: Behavior Coaching:Rationale, Definition and Concepts Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Lecture 3: Behavior Coaching:Objectives and Guidelines Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Lecture 4: Behavior Coach Preparationand Competencies Dr. Marie Grace A. Gomez

    * Open Forum

    Afternoon Session: 2:00 p.m.

    6:00 p.m.

    * Lecture 5: Work Domainof a Behavior Coach Dr. Marie Therese A.P. Bustos

    * Lecture 6: Therapeutic Strategiesin Behavior Coaching Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Lecture 7: Instructional Programming And Planning in Behavior Coaching Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Open Forum

    * Inspirational Dr. Edilberto I. Dizon

    * Special Number Selected ChildFind Staff

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    PREFACE

    This manual will be your important guide in behavior coaching youth with

    special needs. Besides your strong desire and commitment to help the child, it is

    important that you read this manual thoroughly. Your preparation will require

    consultation with specialists and practitioners, and of course exposure to growing

    children and adolescents as they transition from school to actual life settings.

    Remember that the child will not be perpetually in school! We, thus, prepare

    him/her to be an integral part of his/her home and the community ensuring

    that he/she too can be appropriate, adaptive, productive, literate, and

    independent as much as his/her abilities and potentials permit!

    It is, therefore, the objective of this manual on behavior coaching to

    facilitate understanding of the FACT that youth with special needs have a

    FUTURE and pursuing such should start the soonest. More than anything else,

    this manual aims to help you concretize actions on how you can within the

    context of therapeutic intervention effectively support the childs

    transformation into an aspiring, positively relating, caring, appropriately

    reciprocating, and achieving adult!

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    BEHAVIOR COACHING YOUTH WITH SPECIAL NEEDS

    EDILBERTO I. DIZON, Ed.D.

    Before anything else, let us review what NORMALIZATION is to enable us

    to understand and appreciate the reasons for behavior coaching youth with

    special needs.

    NORMALIZATION

    Normalization is a systematic process of providing youth with special needs the

    needed training and opportunities given their normal counterparts enabling them

    to maximize their potentials, achieve some degree of independence in leading

    their lives, and access and participate in the benefits of their communities.

    Normalization is anchored on the following tenets:

    Acceptance of the child for whatever he is.

    Respect for the dignity of the child.

    Recognition of the childs potential for learning in varied contexts.

    Strong confidence in the ability of the child to become.

    Openness to diversity and its positive implications.

    Respect for the childs unique/atypical developmental patterns.

    Strong conviction that the child learns in a milieu of options, alternatives,

    and practical-life situations.

    Firm belief that living and learning with the child draw forth joy and

    goodness.

    Adherence to the value of loving the child that strengthens commitment to

    his/her welfare.

    Normalization can be viewed not only from the legal perspective but also from

    the philosophical, social, psychological, and pedagogical perspectives.

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    Normalization is much more than just physical placement in school. It is the

    provision of education that does away with discrimination and labels/stigma.

    Normalization teaches us the lessons of unconditional positive regard,

    genuineness, and empathy.

    Normalization permeates all the realms of life: education, vocational pursuits,

    community affairs, etc.

    Adolescents with special needs (ASN) are expected to have acquired skills

    and competencies once they leave school. Such skills and competencies must

    have enabled them to maintain sound physical health, and to be adaptive,

    literate, productive, independent, and behaviorally and verbally appropriate.

    Considering, however, ASNs developmental conditions and limitations, further

    intervention beyond schooling becomes imperative.

    Providing intervention to an adolescent with special needs (ASN) poses a

    big challenge to the family and his/her support persons. This is because the ASN

    has psychosocial, physiological and cognitive needs that many school-based

    programs can no longer solely and adequately address. Whether the ASN

    transitions to either job training/employment or further schooling, there are

    increasing needs as well as environmental demands that he/she has to satisfy

    and confront. Cognizant of such pressing concern about the ASN's future, the

    urgency of providing appropriate programs and services comes to the fore.

    Rationale

    Behavior coaching which is based on multidisciplinary perspectives and

    concepts especially in Special Education and Guidance and Counseling focuses on

    the ASN's holistic well-being as he/she moves on to adulthood. Such transition is

    not easy for the ASN considering his/her developmental limitations and deficits.

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    It is neither easy for the family and the support-service giver considering their

    intervention limitations nor the community of the ASN considering its limited

    understanding, support and accommodation.

    Beyond the confines of the school, there are still concerns that

    necessitates the committed involvement of a behavior coach. Such concerns

    pertain to psychosocial priorities that teachers may not be able to

    handle/address anymore considering that they have to remain in school most of

    the time. Oftentimes, the adolescent still exhibits atypical behaviors that elicit

    negative reactions in the community. Parents, therefore, usually become wary

    and cautious taking their child to public places lest they get embarrassed or

    emotionally involved if the child behaves awkwardly, aggressively and

    inappropriately by himself/herself or with others. Such limitations compel many

    parents to restrict the childs integration into the mainstream by keeping him/her

    at home most of the time. If this persists, the child will not be able to achieve

    the goals of normalization. Keeping him/her isolated at home will be detrimental;

    thus, responsive programs and services like behavior coaching will be beneficial

    to the child as he/she moves on toward skill-building and developmental

    maturation.

    Definition

    Behavior coaching refers to the individualized intervention designed for

    the ASN enabling him/her to acquire psychosocial-educational skills and

    competencies consistent with the normalization perspective. When an ASN

    remains center/school-based or has moved on to a homebound program,

    increasing further his/her behavioral, social and educational skills andcompetencies through one-on-one intervention needs to be prioritized. This is so

    because he/she needs further development and refinement/enhancement of

    prioritized skills and competencies in day-to-day living with others at home, in

    school and in the community. Behavior coaching empowers the ASN to know

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    and utilize his/her abilities/potentials within the context of community living; to

    blend positively and constructively within the community; and, to co-learn and

    transact with others appropriately and possibly, independently.

    Objectives

    Behavior coaching aims, therefore, to help/guide the ASN to:

    1. Expand his/her awareness of himself/herself and others. Thismeans helping the ASN to know and understand what in him/her

    naturally shines and what needs polishing. It also means

    understanding the strengths and weaknesses of others. All these

    are the basis for self-improvement.

    2. Demonstrate self-worth and self-confidence. Thorough behaviorcoaching, we are able to help the ASN acquire needed

    psychosocial-educational skills and competencies enabling him/her

    to believe and trust in what he/she can do within the context of a

    supportive environment.

    3. Utilize educational competencies in comprehending his/herenvironment, transacting with others, and making choices and

    decisions. Through behavior coaching, the ASN is able to

    access/utilize community resources/amenities/facilities, realize that

    he/she needs to empathize with others and comprehend cause-

    and-effect relationships that what he/she says and does have

    impact on/implications to others concerns/lives. Thereafter,

    decision making in terms of meeting his needs, relating with others,

    improving himself/herself, and aspiring realistically for specific goals

    is facilitated.

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    4. Demonstrate ample psychosocial maturity (as much as his/hermental ability and potential permit). Behavior coaching aims to help

    the ASN achieve psychosocial maturation indicated by increased

    independent self-help and chores performance, successful social

    adaptation, and emotional maturity, and self-reliance.

    5. Express such psychosocial maturity through emotional-socialpropriety and appropriate verbal-social reciprocity. Furthermore,

    this objective aims to meet the most common expectations in

    varied settings: the reciprocity and propriety in behaviors and

    language use.

    6. Spend time and effort constructively and productively through aself-regulated/guided routine. Behavior coaching aims to train the

    ASN to engage in constructive and productive tasks routinely with

    the least assistance and even supervision.

    The Helping Process

    The behavior coach observes the following steps of the helping process:

    1. Knowing and understanding the ASN and his/her environment. This is thefirst step in helping. Nobody can ever achieve the goals of helping if, at

    the very start no or limited effort is exerted at the onset of the

    relationship. Remember that effective helping takes off and achieves its

    purposes if the helper (i.e., the behavior coach) purports from the

    beginning to gather information about the child. Such knowledge becomes

    the basis for understanding him/her.

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    2. Establishing rapport with the ASN. The behavior coach needs to establisha warm and supportive relationship with the ASN so that helping can be

    facilitated. The behavior coach accepts and respects the ASN for what

    he/she is, listens to him/her intently, and demonstrates concern about

    what happens to him/her.

    3. Interacting socially and verbally with ASN in different contexts. Thebehavior coach relates and communicates with the ASN wherever they

    are: home, school, park, mall, etc. He engages the ASN in appropriate and

    helpful conversations and consistently demonstrates the needed support

    especially when the ASN gets awkward, agitated, sluggish, or impulsive.

    4. Helping the ASN identify and demonstrate his/her abilities and capabilitiesin such contexts. The behavior coach assists the ASN discover his/her

    abilities and talents by providing/setting up the needed opportunities and

    training in the different learning settings. He taps the ASNs potential and

    pursues such until he/she is able to manifest/exhibit such gift meaningfully

    in different situation.

    5. Helping the ASN achieve independence and make choices and decisions. As the ASN grows in skills and values, the behavior coach ensures that

    intervention is consistently focused and purposive with the end goal of

    helping the ASN make guided choices and decisions and achieve some

    degree of independence in performing and managing his/her day-to-day

    routine and concerns.

    6. Helping the ASN prepare action plans for his/her guided decisions. Anintegral part of helping the ASN is teaching and guiding him/her to make

    an action plan for his/her decisions. Here, the ASN is assisted in

    crystallizing and concretizing his/her action plan in writing. This will serve

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    as his/her task-analyzed guide in day-to-day activity routine to actualize

    his/her decisions.

    7. Helping the ASN implement his/her action plans. The behavior coach helpsthe ASN actualize his/her action plan by providing the needed

    opportunities, prompting him/her whenever needed, and simplifying

    further the implementation of the action plan through task analysis (step

    by step procedure ensuring mastering of a skill before proceeding to next

    one).

    8. Monitoring the ASNs progress and helping him/her modify action plansbased on gains. The behavior coach supervises the ASN implement

    his/her action plan. He/She records the ASNs progress and based on

    these, discusses with him/her the progress, affirms/commends gains, and

    suggests further actions, if needed. If a specific subplan of the action plan

    does not work or is ineffective, the behavior coach helps the ASN modify

    it.

    The behavior coach must expect that in the process of helping the CSN

    certain impediments, concerns and problems will emerge. That is the

    CHALLENGE in helping learners with special needs! With the best intentions and

    constancy in helping the ASN no matter how slow his/her progress is or no

    matter how resistant he/she is, the behavior coach will prove in the end that the

    ASN can achieve the BEST he can!

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    Behavior Coach Preparation and Competencies

    Personnel and professional preparation and competencies expected of a

    behavior coach include the following:

    1. Psychosocial maturity,2. Specific personal-professional qualifications: unconditional positive

    regard, genuineness, and empathy, among others,

    3. Special education training,4. Guidance and counseling training especially along behavioral

    therapy,

    5. Specific therapeutic teaching and communication skills,6. Specific knowledge about ASN's nature, needs and characteristics;

    family dynamics,

    7. Specific knowledge about and skills in curricular prioritizing andprogramming and instructional strategies needed in behavior

    coaching,

    8. Specific knowledge about and skills in guidance and counselingneeded in behavior coaching, and

    9. Linkages with a support system including the community and otherhelping professionals.

    The next article discusses elaborately the preparation and competencies of

    a behavior coach.

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    PREPARING TO BE A BEHAVIOR COACH

    Marie Grace A. Gomez

    Teacher Grace is a faculty member of the Special Education Area, UP College of Education. She

    is a licensed guidance counselor and a C-level psychometrician. She earned her masters anddoctorate degrees in Education major in Guidance and is currently working on her seconddoctorate in Special Education. She was a recipient of the UP Presidential Scholarship Award.

    Being a behavior coach is a fulfilling job. Seeing a child with special needs

    improve to his maximum potential is indeed a reward in itself. The behavior

    coach, however, will need much preparation academically, psychologically and

    socially. The following will help the behavior coach prepare for his craft:

    Knowing yourself well

    The behavior coach must know himself well. People in the helping

    professions have been acquainted to self-awareness exercises during their pre-

    service training. Doing introspection exercises are necessary in order for one to

    connect with himself intrapersonally. Such exercises enable the helping

    professional to identify his resources and potentials for handling clients

    competently and professionally.

    For those who are just starting as behavior coaches, an inventory of

    strengths and weaknesses can be done initially. The following is an example of

    an activity that the beginning behavior coach can do:

    Example: Personal Traits Inventory

    There are several personality inventories that are standardized. Taking

    standardized inventories will enable oneself to identify personality strengths and

    weaknesses. Among the helpful standardized personality inventories available are

    the 16 PF, the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator and the Neo-Personality Inventory.

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    It is a known fact, however, that standardized tests are difficult and quite

    expensive to acquire. In order to remedy this, having non-standardized ways of

    identifying personality traits can be done. Listing down ones traits is the simplest

    way to obtain an inventory.

    The following table presents the traits of a beginning behavior coach.

    Notice that there is a column under which traits are listed (physical,

    educational, psychological, spiritual and social). The next two columns identify

    positive and negative traits in the specific domains. The last column, the

    Remarks Column, identifies things that must be done in order to improve a

    particular trait.

    Lets say for example that this isSams trait profile:

    TRAIT Positive Negative Remarks

    Physical Does not get sickoften

    Energetic Suffered an

    accident and brokewrist

    Will go on rehab to

    facilitate healing;initially will getclients that do notexhibit hyperactivityas the broken wristwould have tocompletely healfirst

    Educational BS ElementaryEducation major in

    Special Education;Took psychologycognates;

    MA SPED, tookelectives in Guidanceand behavioralscience

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    TRAIT Positive Negative Remarks

    Needs more hands-on training onbehavior

    management

    Will do volunteerwork in SPEDCenters to apply

    and enhancebehaviormanagement skills.

    Psychological resilient

    motivated

    Handles stresswell

    Tends to overwork Management oftime and activitiesin order to createbalance

    Spiritual Has deepconvictionsregarding faithand morality

    May have to getclients with thesame convictionson faith andmorality

    Social Has a lot offriends in theprofession; has agood social

    networkIs able to adjustto differentpersonalities

    Sometimes tooshy to ask for help

    Identify scenarioswhere help shouldbe asked for; willask help whenconfronted withthese scenarios

    Looking at Sams profile, it can be said that he displays good physical

    health, only that he suffered an accident and temporarily has to choose his

    clients. However, Sam may want to have clients who are more challenging,

    behavior-wise so he chooses to undergo therapy to facilitate the healing process.

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    Sam is resilient and motivated. He can adjust to different kinds of

    scenarios and he is motivated by the psychic rewards or non-material rewards

    of his profession. Seeing progress in the behavior of the client is a reward for

    him and he values this over money. He enjoys going to work but he sometimes

    tends to overwork himself. In this case, Sam must establish a time schedule of

    activities to do. Furthermore, he can set limitations on what he will be doing. It

    must be remembered that a behavior coach must also maintain a balanced life.

    Taking in too many clients may reduce efficiency of work and may take a toll on

    ones health.

    Sam has deep convictions regarding his faith. He belongs to a particular

    religious group. Given this, Sam may want to work with clients who belong to

    families with the religious conviction and moral standards. A behavior coach

    may be dealing with sensitive issues such as sexuality. Whatever the behavior

    coach teaches must be in line with what the family believes in, otherwise,

    conflict may occur.

    On the social side, Sam has many friends. He has linkages with SPED

    teachers, developmental pediatricians and guidance counselors. He is able to

    adjust to different personalities and he is not pikonwhenever someone makes

    fun of him. The linkages that he has may enable him to learn more techniques.

    However, he sometimes feels shy to ask for help. What he may do is to identify

    situations that help may be obtained. He can start with asking small favors

    from his friends in the profession. Sometimes, asking for professional advice

    from peers would be beneficial.

    The objective of the personality inventory is identifying ones strengths

    and weaknesses. This is needed in order to know ones fitness in taking the job

    of being a behavior coach. Furthermore, this would help the behavior coach

    identify the kinds of clients that he has the capacity of handling.

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    Psychosocial maturity

    Psychosocial maturity is needed by the behavior coach. Some clients may

    call him names or make rude remarks about him. The behavior coach must

    understand that all of these are part of his job. Sometimes, the client (or his

    relatives) may utter demeaning remarks. The behavior coach must understand

    that there may be problems and concerns behind this. He should therefore, not

    be affected by these.

    There may also be times when stressors may be too much. Having

    psychosocial maturity would enable one to be resilient, despite the problems. He

    would not easily give up when the going gets tough. Possessing psychosocial

    maturity would make the behavior coach that problems encountered in his job is

    normal. Whenever he faces problems, he would focus on solutions instead of

    grumbling or complaining about the circumstances that he encounters.

    Specific professional qualification

    A behavior coach must have training in the fields of Special Education and

    Guidance. In the succeeding portion of this material, a write-up of guidance-

    related skills are identified.

    SPED Training

    SPED training is necessary for the behavior coach as he may need to

    understand the nature of the disabilities, nature of the individualized educational

    plan, teach new skills via task analysis, and write reports.

    The nature of the particular disability is needed in order to come up with

    specific strategies in behavior coaching. For example, how one deals with a child

    with autism may be different from how one deals with a child with Down

    Syndrome.

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    The behavior coach is expected to synchronize his work with the

    prescribed IEP. Though he would not be teaching academically, some priorities

    when it comes to social skills may be identified in the IEP. For example, teaching

    how to take turns may be continued by the behavior coach while having sessions

    in the malls or parks. A shadow teacher may be teaching the skills of turn-taking

    during recess in school, but when a child goes home or is on vacation, the

    behavior coach may take over this responsibility.

    Teaching new skills via task analysis is also done by the behavior coach.

    For example, Jimmy has to learn how to greet the people in his community. The

    behavior coach may task analyze this as follows:

    Step 1- Name the people who will be greeted (Barangay captain, elderly)

    Step 2-Practice a simple greeting, like saying, good morning. Let Jimmy

    say Good morning (or good afternoon, etc)

    Step 3- Go out in the community. Let Jimmy identify a person to greet.

    Step 4- Let Jimmy greet, Good morning!

    In dealing with clients with special needs, task analysis is important in

    order to have mastery of a particular skill.

    Skills in Counseling related to behavioral coaching

    Behavior coaching techniques are related to behavior coaching.

    Counselors with training in Special Education are qualified to be behavior

    coaches for individuals with special needs.

    The following are core conditions and important counseling skills needed

    in behavior coaching:

    1. Empathy

    Empathy is the ability to put oneself in anothers place and understand the

    others feelings, actions, ideas, aspirations, desires and plans. A behavior coach

    must be able to empathize with the client.

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    Empathy is not sympathy. Sympathy invokes feelings of pity on a person

    but empathy sees that a person, even in deep need, can be empowered. A

    behavior coach must therefore understand the current state of his clients,

    without forgetting that the client, even if the disabilities are too severe, has the

    potential to be somebody.

    2.Genuineness

    The behavior coach has to be true to his client. He must be able to convey

    his true feelings and emotions as behavior coaching is grounded on a humanistic

    framework. It is not a show where stage acting is involved. The therapy is not

    rooted in fiction wherein the events that transpire are artificial. Just like teaching,

    behavior coaching is a real life scenario. Being genuine would enable the

    behavior coach to act and give therapeutic measures naturally. If a behavior

    coach feels that he could not be genuine to his client, perhaps, it may be

    necessary to change clients.

    3. Unconditional Positive Regard

    The term, unconditional positive regard was coined by Carl Rogers (1959),

    referring to a blanket acceptance and support of a person regardless of what theperson says or does. This is needed in order to provide the best condition for

    growth of an individual as he believed that all humans have the capacity for

    growth.

    Unconditional positive regard is needed in order for the client to help

    himself change. Though it is assumed that there is acceptance and support for

    the person regardless of his state, it does not necessarily mean that the behavior

    coach will not correct the client. Unconditional positive regard comes into playwhen the behavior coach accepts the disability/condition of his client and the

    strengths and limitations of the client. Hence, the client is accepted as a person

    who has feelings, ambitions and propensity to change for the better.

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    4. Attending Skills

    Attending skills involve observing verbal and non-verbal behavior of clients

    as a way of understanding what the client is experiencing (Veach, Le Roy and

    Bartels, 2006). For example, Gigi always taps her pencil briskly during Math

    Class. For a person without the knowledge of attending skills, one may think that

    Gigi is simply misbehaving inside the classroom. But someone who has good

    attending skills maybe able to derive a pattern of behavior. In this case, Gigi may

    be tapping her pencil because she does not understand the lesson. The behavior

    coach may then teach Gigi how to ask questions if she does not understand the

    lesson.

    5. Active Listening

    Active listening means one is listening to find meaning in what has been

    said. The behavior coach has to be an active listener in order to understand the

    clients needs, concerns, issues and aspirations.

    Active listening may be difficult to do. Before any behavior coaching

    session, the behavior coach must make sure that his physical needs are taken

    care of. For example, eating, going to the bathroom and doing a few stretching

    exercises may help in keeping oneself alert to actively listen.

    During the session, the client should be encouraged to speak. Comments

    such as Yes., Uh-huh, Go ahead, continue, and Tell me more about it

    may help the client express himself better.

    6. Body Language

    In dealing with clients, the behavior coach must be mindful of his own

    body language.

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    The following acronym, SOLERF can be used as a guide

    S - Squarely face person

    O - use Open posture

    L - Lean a little toward the person

    E - use Eye contact

    R - Relax, keep it natural

    F lookFriendly

    Taken fromhttp://www.basic-counseling-skills.com/body-language.html.

    Retrieved September 18, 2009.

    It is important to face the client during the behavior coaching sessions.

    The use of an open posture is necessary. Crossing of arms and legs is

    discouraged as this may convey a negative effect on the client. One must

    remember that the behavior coach has a friendly relationship with the client and

    he is not trying to be his boss.

    If both the client and the behavior coach are sitting together and having

    a friendly chat, the behavior coach may slightly lean toward the client (about a

    20 degree angle lean). This gesture conveys that he is interested in helping the

    client or what the client is saying.

    Establishing eye contact is also necessary as this is an expression of being

    genuine to the client. While communicating with the client, it is important to

    establish eye contact, whenever possible in order convey genuineness.

    Maintaining eye contact also enables one to present that one is confident with

    what he is doing. Losing eye contact may mean that one is not serious with what

    he is talking about. Worse, the listener may construe that the person that is not

    having eye contact is being untrue, thus, trust may be lost.

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    Being in a relaxed state is also important. The behavior coach and the

    client maintains a friendly relationship and the behavior coach is there as a friend

    and not as a teacher or a moralizing agent.

    7. Asking Questions

    Asking questions is needed in order to clarify matters or issues. It may

    also be used to process specific situations. It may be able to help the behavior

    coach identify the cause of a specific behavior that has to be corrected.

    8. Paraphrasing

    Paraphrasing is needed in order to clarify what has been said. Forexample, Leslie says, My sister always gets to watch TV. She always gets new

    things. She does not share with me. Given this scenario, Leslie may be having

    problems with her sister. In using paraphrasing, the behavior coach may say,

    Are you having problems with your sister? or, It seems to me that you do not

    like your sister. The behavior coach may then process the issue after

    paraphrasing.

    9. Summarizing

    Like a teacher who ends the class session by asking what has been

    learned or by summarizing the key points of a lesson, the behavior coach also

    ends a session by summarizing what has been learned.

    For example, Teacher Aia taught Krissie how to behave appropriately

    during parties. She may ask Krissie what she has learned. Krissie may answer, I

    learned not to shout during parties.; I learned that I should fall in line when

    getting food.; I learned that I should chew food well. As a reinforcement to

    what has been learned, Teacher Aia may also ask, The next time you go to a

    party, will you do the things you learned?

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    Therapeutic Training

    Knowledge of Maslows hierarchy of needs is important in identifying the

    needs of the client and his family. His hierarchy of needs consist of the following:

    physiological needs, safety needs, love and belonging needs, esteem needs and

    self-actualization needs. The first two needs are considered as deficit needs (D-

    Needs) and the latter are meta-needs. It is assumed that the individual must

    fulfill the D-Needs before having meta-needs. Therefore, knowing the kind of

    needs that the client and his family has would be essential to the type of

    intervention to be given.

    Client- centered therapy knowledge is important in behavior coaching.

    This form of therapy looks into the capacity and worth of the individual to

    develop to the best of his ability. The core of this therapy revolves around

    empathy, unconditional positive regard and genuineness. All of these were

    discussed earlier.

    Knowledge on behavior therapy is needed in behavior coaching. For

    example, the behavior coach may need to do a behavior chart of a specific

    behavior that has to be minimized or extinguished. Role playing may be needed

    to simulate a specific scenario. Assertiveness training may be needed to increase

    ones self-esteem. The use of a token economy may spell out a system of

    rewards for the client.

    Career education training may also be necessary. Knowledge of career

    theories and how to help an individual with special needs choose a career may

    be done by the behavior coach, in coordination with a guidance counselor.

    Knowledge on Creation of Programs

    The behavior coach must be able to create programs for his client. In

    doing so, the IEP must be referred to. In addition to this, a needs assessment

    may also be done in order to identify pressing issues and concerns that have to

    be addressed.

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    Creation of programs for the client would involve the clients ability/skills

    level; resources; health; other people who would be involved and what the client

    himself desires. SPED and Guidance majors are exposed and well versed with

    the creation of programs for their specific clientele.

    Skills in Curricular Planning

    Though the behavior coach would not delve in academic matters

    frequently, it would be best for the behavior coach to have some skills in

    curricular planning as there may be instances wherein functional learning may

    take place. For example, teaching how to order food in a restaurant may also

    entail learning about money, the four fundamental operations and nutrition.

    Having skills in curriculum planning would enable the behavior coach to integrate

    lessons and reinforce what is learned in school.

    Linkages with a Support System

    Linkages with a support system is important among behavior coaches.

    Knowing where to get extra support is necessary for the client s wholistic

    development.

    If the client is still going to school, the support system would be the

    teacher, the school principal, the guidance counselor, classmates and peers, and

    school personnel. Even the maintenance service personnel can help the child

    with special needs.

    Conferences with the school teacher is needed in order to know if the

    client is performing the social skills learned consistently while in the school. For

    example, does the client line up and wait for his turn while in the canteen? Are

    the tantrums minimized when he does not get what he likes? Does the client

    greet teachers and other school personnel? Since the classroom teacher is the

    one who would regularly see the client, she is a rich source of information

    regarding progress in behavior.

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    The school principal may also have observations regarding the client. Data

    on how the teachers think about the client and adherence to school regulation

    can be obtained via the principals office. For example, when the behavior coach

    is trying to minimize bullying behavior, the principal may have a record of the

    frequency of such behavior.

    The guidance counselor serves as emotional and social support at school.

    The counselor may give counseling to the client when problems arise. The

    counselor, together with the classroom teacher may identify on how well the

    client is getting along with his peers via a sociogram. The guidance office may

    also have standardized test data such as IQ scores, achievement test scores,

    self-concept test scores, etc., which may be helpful in planning activities in

    behavior coaching. For example, Emy is found not to socialize with her peers.

    The self-concept test shows that she has a poor perception of herself. The

    behavior coach, together with the guidance counselor, may then work on Emys

    self-concept before teaching socialization skills.

    Classmates and peers may help the client feel accepted. The behavior

    coach may talk with the clients classmates and peers for encouragement,

    behavior reinforcement and socialization. For example, Tony does not like to

    participate during recitation. His seatmate may tell him, You can do it, Tony!

    Or, they can cheer for Tony if he answers correctly. Letting the client have a

    good social support with his peers would boost his morale.

    Behavior reinforcement can also be done by the clients peers while in

    school. The client may be reminded to fall in line, follow instructions and greet

    teachers. For example, during recess, Joey likes to rush out of the classroom. His

    classmates may politely remind him to fall in line and wait for his turn.

    During recess and physical education time, classmates can invite the client

    to play games with them. The behavior coach may also teach the client to have a

    simple conversation with his classmates. These conversations may include talking

    about their baon, their hobbies and interests. These activities may help in

    improving the clients socialization skills.

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    School personnel such as the maintenance department can help the client

    by instructing him to avoid places that are dangerous (example: high voltage

    places, kitchen) or not to loiter around after class. They may also be instructed

    to immediately lock classrooms that are not occupied or keep an eye on the

    client.

    If the client is no longer going to school, other professionals may be

    tapped, as needed. For example, the religious minister may be approached if

    there are questions on spirituality. When the client is already ready to work, the

    barangay captain may know jobs within the community that can accommodate

    clients with special needs. Or, the city mayor may be able to create employment

    for people with disabilities.

    References

    Rogers, C.R. (1959). A theory of therapy, personality and interpersonalrelationships, as developed in the client-centered framework. In S. Koch (ed.).Psychology: A study of science. New York: McGraw Hill.

    Vearch, P., Le Roy, B. and Bartels, D. (2006). Facilitating the GeneticCounseling Process. New York: Springer New York.(n.d) Encouraging BodyLanguage. Taken from http://www.basic-counseling-skills.com/body-language.html. Retrieved September 18, 2009.

    The behavior coach is not a stationary teacher-therapist/counselor as

    he/she performs functions in actual settings where the ASN needs to be trained

    in. He/She situates himself/herself in contexts where the child is expected to

    learn, rehearse and perform target behaviors. Such contextual hands-on

    learning is a potent factor facilitating demonstration and mastery of skills. The

    ASN is taken to the mall to learn therein specific social skills like turn-taking,

    using polite terms appropriately and consistently, and proper conduct in

    relating/interacting with members of the opposite sex. He/She is taken to the

    supermarket to shop correctly and systematically alongside requesting, seeking

    information, and possibly computing money. He/She is taken to church so

    he/she can patiently sit and follow the mass through actively and properly.

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    He/She is given opportunities at home and in other places: park, gym, movie

    house, resort, etc. for worthwhile recreation and leisure such as meal

    preparation, arts and crafts, physical exercises, swimming and movie watching.

    He/She is taken to new places to learn where to go for specific items, do specific

    tasks, attend to his/her specific needs: eating, toileting and relaxing, among

    others. He/She is taken to libraries, concerts, museums to learn specific verbal-

    cognitive skills, as well as specific behaviors therein: turn-taking, following

    directions, observing caution in handling materials, demonstrating appreciation

    appropriately, and commenting on what he/she sees, hears and feels. He/She is

    taken to parties where he/she can interact with peers appropriately.

    The above examples truly capture the essence of teaching the ASN in

    actual settings! Through these, the ASN accesses real-life opportunities which

    are eventually translated into meaningful, relevant and practical learning!

    The next part presents the details about the work domain of a behavior

    coach.

    WORK DOMAIN OF A BEHAVIOR COACH

    Marie Therese A. P. Bustos

    Teacher Therese is an assistant professor of special education at the University of the Philippines- Diliman. She has degrees in education, majoring in teaching in the early grades, reading andspecial education. Her research interests include literacy, deafness, cognition, learning disabilitiesand transition planning.

    As human beings, we develop as a result of the interaction between our

    needs and abilities and societys expectations of and demands on us (Newmanand Newman, 2003). We go through progressive stages and perform

    developmental tasks appropriate for our age. Our behavior adjusts accordingly

    as we understand these cultural and societal expectations.

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    Youth with special needs go through the same stages of human

    development, albeit slower than those without disabilities. The process of

    normalization entails providing them opportunities to perform developmental

    tasks as their non-disabled peers. A behavior coach can help youth with special

    needs process cultural and societal expectations and guide them to achieve age-

    appropriate tasks. Table 1 presents these developmental stages and the tasks

    expected at each stage. Bear in mind that youth will special needs will have

    difficulties and limitations as they go through these stages. Some may not be

    able to go through them successfully. Nonetheless, these developmental tasks

    are important aspects of normalization and serve as possible entry points for the

    behavior coachs work with the child.

    Table 1. Psychosocial Developmental Stages and Tasks

    Developmental Stages Developmental Tasks

    Early school age (ages 4-6) Gender identificationEarly moral developmentSelf-theoryPeer play

    Middle childhood (ages 6-12) FriendshipConcrete operations

    Skill learningSelf-evaluationTeam play

    Early adolescence (ages 12-18) Physical maturationFormal operationsEmotional developmentMembership in a peer groupRelating with the opposite sex

    Later adolescence (ages 18-24) Autonomy from parentsGender identity

    Internalized moralityCareer choice

    Early adulthood (ages 20-34) Exploring intimate relationshipsStarting a family and childbearingFinding and keeping a jobDeciding on a lifestyle

    (adapted from Newman, Barbara and Philip Newman. (2003). Development Through Life: APsychosocial Approach. California: Wadsworth/Thomson Learning.)

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    In early childhood to early adolescence, schools can address many of the

    developmental tasks mentioned. However, the need to include youth with

    special needs in society calls for real integration activities outside the school

    setting. Joining neighborhood events such as parties, going to the theater,

    attending worship services and so on, are part of community life. Simulations of

    these activities are often done in school but these should translate into real-life

    integration activities that facilitate the transition of youth with special needs from

    school to the community.

    Developmental tasks are not entirely social in nature. Cognitive activities,

    which can be reinforced at home by parents and tutors, are mainly taught in

    school. The following discussion focuses on the non-academic areas where

    youth with special needs are expected to thrive side by side with non-disabled

    peers. These are the areas where a behavior coach can help.

    Early school age to middle childhood

    A behavior coach can help the child understand gender and sex-role

    standards. During these stages, the child identifies with the same-sex parent

    and later on, establishes a gender-role preference. The behavior coach

    reinforces gender identification and helps the child act accordingly. It is

    recommended that the behavior coach be of the same gender as the child to be

    able to effectively serve as a gender-role model.

    The behavior coach guides the child in developing a concept of

    himself/herself as a separate entity from others. This is essential in enabling the

    child to successfully relate with other children. The behavior coach also helps the

    child learn skills, be confident in performing them knowing that these add to the

    childs self-esteem. Guiding the child in self-evaluation to eventually attain a

    concept of his/her efficacy is part of the behavior coachs job.

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    As part of early moral development, the behavior coach helps the child

    with special needs identify his/her own emotions and recognize these emotions

    in others. S/he also teaches the child about good and bad, right and wrong and

    guides the child in making choices. Empathy is an important lesson for the child

    with special needs to learn.

    Self-concept and an understanding of right and wrong are bases for

    relating with others. One important aspect of any childs life is peer play.

    Children who are aggressive and withdrawn often experience rejection by peers.

    A behavior coach can help them relate and play with children in the

    neighborhood and help them establish acceptable ways of communicating with

    them. Children with special needs form friendships but may need social skills to

    be able to do so. In middle childhood, children get into more organized play

    such as team play where interdependence is at work and each player takes on a

    role based on a set of rules. A behavior coach helps the child understand that

    division of labor within a team and competition are important aspects of team

    play.

    As children move from stage to stage, the radius of their significant

    relationships expands, from family members to teachers and classmates,

    neighbors and the community. The behavior coach plays a pivotal role in

    ensuring that children with special needs transfer their school learning to

    practical life settings.

    Early adolescence

    Youth with special needs who enter adolescence experience physical

    changes in their bodies. The behavior coach can help him/her make sense of

    these and adjust to these changes. When secondary sexual characteristics

    become more evident, the youth are expected to take care of themselves.

    Dealing with ones sexuality and wanted or unwanted sexual attention can be

    addressed by the behavior coach.

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    Group membership and the maintenance of friendships are likewise

    expected of youth at this stage. A behavior coach assists the youth with special

    needs in developing and maintaining relationships.

    Later adolescence and early adulthood

    Achieving autonomy or at least a degree of autonomy from parents is very

    important for the youth with special needs. The behavior coach helps develop

    and strengthen the youths social skills that are essential for independent living.

    Daily living skills also include recreation and leisure. While it is true that many

    skills can be taught in school, real life education benefits youth with special

    needs. The behavior coach models proper responses to life situations and guides

    the youths own responses to these real situations. Table 2 presents some

    domains of adulthood for which we need to prepare the youth with special

    needs. This can serve as a guide for programming behavior coaching activities.

    Table 2. Some Domains of Adulthood

    DOMAIN SUBDOMAIN LIFE DEMANDS

    LEISURE PURSUITS

    Possible settings:

    AirportArcadeChurch

    Friends homesGymMovie theaterMRT/LRT stationsPublictransportation

    Restaurants andbars

    Indoor Activities playing table/electronic games (e.g.cards, board games, puzzles,arcades, etc.)

    joining an exercise class,membership in a gym

    participating in group indoor sports

    Outdoor Activities participating in group outdoor sportsengaging in general recreational

    activities (e.g. camping, sightseeing,picnicking)

    Community/Neighborhood

    Activities

    going to neighborhood events (e.g.bingo socials, garage sales, fiestas)

    attending other special events (e.g.fairs, trade shows, carnivals,parades, festivals)

    participating in clean-up campaigns

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    DOMAIN

    Shopping mallsSports events

    TheaterTheme parksVillage/barangayVacationdestinations

    SUBDOMAIN LIFE DEMANDS

    Travel preparing to go on a trip (e.g. joininga field trip, traveling with strangers)

    Entertainment attending out-home events (e.g.,

    theaters, spectator sports, concerts,performances, art shows)going to socially oriented events (e.g.restaurants, parties, bars)

    COMMUNITYINVOLVEMENT

    Possible settings:

    Barangay hallChurchCommunitywhere s/he livesGovernmentofficesInternet cafe

    MallsPublic libraries

    Self-helporganizations

    Transportationterminals

    Citizenship exhibiting civic responsibility (e.g.helping pack relief goods)

    obeying laws and ordinances

    CommunityAwareness knowing major events at the local,regional, national, world levels

    using mass media (TV, radio,newspaper)

    Services/Resources

    asking help from a governmentagencyaccessing public transportation(trains, buses, jeep, ferries, etc.)

    accessing services (e.g. signlanguage interpreter) and utilities[phone, water])

    accessing emergency services/resources

    accessing agencies that providespecial services (self-helporganizations)

    PHYSICAL/EMOTIONALINVOLVEMENT

    Possible settings:

    FuneralHomeHospitalInformal dateMedical/dentalclinic

    Sports events

    Physical having regular physical/dentalcheckups

    using proper hygiene/ dental carepreventing illnesses and accidentsreacting to medical emergencies

    Emotional recognizing and understandingemotionsmanaging stress

    dealing with sadness, anxietycoping with separation/death offamily members and friends

    understanding emotional dimensionsof sexuality

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    Table 2 (continuation)

    DOMAIN SUBDOMAIN LIFE DEMANDS

    PERSONALRESPONSIBILITIES

    ANDRELATIONSHIPS

    Possible settings:

    Church

    Hobbystores/shops

    HomeLunch dateNeighborhoodSelf-helporganization

    PersonalConfidence/Understanding

    recognizing ones strengths andweaknesses

    appreciating ones accomplishmentsreacting appropriately to the positiveor negative feedback of others

    using appropriate communicationskillsattending to religious obligations

    Goal Setting exercising problem-solving/ decision-making skills

    becoming independent and self-directed

    Self-Improvement

    maintaining personal appearancelearning a hobby

    Relationships getting along with othersestablishing and maintainingfriendships

    developing intimate relationsbeing sensitive to the needs of otherscommunicating praise or criticism toothers

    being socially perceptive (e.g.,recognizing contextual clues)

    dealing with conflict

    PersonalExpression

    sharing personal feelings,experiences, concerns, desires withother people

    (adapted from Cronin, ME and JR Patton. (1993). Life Instructions for All Students with SpecialNeeds: A Practical Guide for Integrating Real-life Content into the Curriculum . Austin Texas:ProEd.)

    Integrating youth with special needs in the community should begin earlyin their life. The gains of special education are wasted when they are not able to

    apply their skills and integrate in their immediate community. Behavior coaches

    play a significant role in allowing children and youth with special needs the

    opportunity to take part in community life. They close the gap between the

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    school and the community by not just being a coach or a teacher but by being a

    friend, a mentor, an interpreter of social and cultural expectations and an

    advocate.

    References:

    Cronin, ME and JR Patton. (1993). Life Instructions for All Students with SpecialNeeds: A Practical Guide for Integrating Real-life Content into the Curriculum .

    Austin Texas: ProEd.

    Newman, Barbara and Philip Newman. (2003). Development Through Life: APsychosocial Approach. California: Wadsworth/Thomson Learning

    Therapeutic Strategies

    These are the most important questions that will guide us in making

    behavior coaching most constructive and helpful. It is imperative that these

    questions are amply and sfactorily answered before considering a career in

    behavior coaching:

    1. Do you as a person and helper possess the facilitative dimensions ofhelping: unconditional positive regard, empathic understanding and

    congruence?

    2. Are you deeply concerned about how you can concretely express/implement these facilitative dimensions in your relationships with the

    ASN?

    3. Do you truly know and understand the nature, needs and characteristicsof the ASN?

    4. Can you specify problems and concerns that need behavior coaching?

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    5. Can you tell or explain possible causes of problems and concerns withinthe light of the different theoretical frameworks of personality/therapy?

    6. How can behavior coaching strategies be systematized throughappropriate curricular programming and lesson planning?

    7. What are your objectives in conducting lessons through appropriatestrategies?

    8. What specific activities can you conduct to achieve formulated objectives?

    9. What are the resources needed in the implementation of behaviorcoaching?

    10.How can you reinforce/deepen in practical/functional situations specificbehaviors/values taught?

    11.How can you help the ASN maintain the demonstration/manifestations oflearned positive behaviors and values in day-to-day life?

    The above questions pursue the basic preparation and competencies

    needed in the successful planning and implementation of behavior coaching.

    The following are doable, growth-focused and child-friendly (although

    expect initial reactions/resistance! Keep going! Keep helping!) strategies in

    behavior coaching adolescents with special needs:

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    A. Use behavior modification strategies such as the following:

    1. Positive Reinforcement. Use reinforcers such as rewards tomotivate the ASN to attend and respond to instructions, to comply,

    and to affirm positive behaviors. The reinforcing value of the object is

    evaluated by noting if the ASN reaches for it or manipulates it, and

    resists when it is taken away.

    2. Shaping. This technique is used when the ASN does not initially havethe desired skill in his/her repertoire of behaviors. Shaping takes

    advantage of related responses the ASN already has. Reinforce a skill

    in successive approximation step-by-step until the desired behavior

    is achieved.

    The following steps must make up the shaping procedure:

    a. Define the terminal behavior, that is, what the ASN should be able todo at the end of the procedure. Assess current behavior level.

    b. Find a beginning behavior that the ASN can perform and thatresembles the desired terminal behavior.

    c. Task analyze or break the behavior into steps that are sufficiently smallfor the ASN to achieve beginning with the easiest and ending with the

    terminal behavior.

    d. Have the ASN perform each step, reinforcing each as it is successfullyaccomplished.

    e. If the step is not performed, go back to an easier one, or divide thestep into smaller ones.

    f. Continue the procedure until the ASN is performing the completebehavior being reinforced.

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    3. Modeling. This technique represents an attempt on the part of theteacher to teach the behavior by performing the act while the child

    observes. The ASN is then asked to imitate the demonstrated behavior.

    4. Extinction. It is a strategy to decrease maladaptive responses. Thisinvolves the cessation of previously provided reinforcement eliminating

    whatever reinforcement is thought to be maintaining the behavior.

    5. Physical/Verbal Prompting. Prompting refers to physical or verbalcueing of the teacher to the ASN to facilitate occurrence of a response.

    While prompts are necessary in teaching ASN, they should be faded as

    soon as the he/she is beginning to show responses independently.

    6. Over-stimulation/Over-correction. Over-correction is an effectivetechnique in training ASN. It has two objectives: (a) to over-correct the

    environmental effects of a maladaptive response, and (b) to require the

    disrupting ASN to practice a correct form of an appropriate response.

    In achieving the first objective, the teacher makes the ASN correct the

    consequences of his/her action/misbehavior by having him/her restore the

    situation to a state greatly improved from that which existed before the

    disruption. The second objective requires the child to practice the positive

    aspect of the misbehavior.

    7. Putting-Through. This technique is done by physically prompting anASN who refuses to work in completing his/her tasks. The technique may

    be modified by modeling the specific task/behavior to the ASN while

    ignoring his/her deviant behavior.

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    8.Aversive Conditioning. Painful or obnoxious stimulation is used in thisstrategy to decrease maladaptive responses manifested by the ASN (e.g.,

    lemon juice, sticky but safe substances).

    9. Contracting. The teacher/caregiver and the ASN specify and agree onexpected behaviors or tasks the ASN ought to exhibit/do for self-

    improvement. Afterwards, they agree on rewards the ASN will get if the

    tasks/behaviors are exhibited/done and also the punishments if not. The

    agreement is written on paper for both teacher/caregiver and ASN to sign.

    A copy is posted on the board to serve as a reminder. A punishment may

    be in the form of withholding of things the child likes or depriving him/her

    of privileges.

    10. Token System. Colored chips (or other objects) with the correspondingpoints are given commensurate to the ASNs positive behaviors. Chips are

    retrievable for negative behaviors. These earned chips are convertible to

    item/s the child likes.

    11. Stimulus Control. This involves presenting a visual or aural cue with

    which the ASN associates stopping or continuing on with a behavior.

    Examples of visual cues are (a) nodding and (b) smiling to signal letting

    the ASN go on with a behavior or task. Examples of aural cues are saying

    NO or STOP to stop a behavior and GO AHEAD or GOOD to let the

    ASN go on with a behavior or task.

    12. Time Out. Pulling the ASN out of the group for an unacceptable

    behavior. Placing him/her back when he/she is ready.

    13. Ignoring the ASN. Ignoring the ASN if he/she resorts to non-positive

    attention-getting behaviors.

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    B. Journal Therapy. Here the ASN is asked to keep a detailed diary

    recounting his/her thoughts, feelings and actions when specific situations

    arise. The journal helps the ASN expand his/her awareness of his/her

    maladaptive thoughts, and their consequences on his/her behaviors. The

    behavior coach processes the entries with the ASN and helps him/her modify

    his/her thinking, make decisions and plan actions.

    C. Cognitive Rehearsal. The ASN imagines or recalls a difficult situation, and

    the behavior coach guides him/her through the step-by-step process of

    fading and successfully dealing with it. The ASN then works on practicing or

    rehearsing these steps mentally. The behavior coach then recreates the

    situation and conducts mock rehearsals through simulated dialogues or role

    playing. He then processes the outcomes affirming good points and

    suggesting points for improvement.

    D. Disputing. Rational-emotive coaches believe that the problems are causedby irrational beliefs such as, I must be loved at all times; Its someone

    elses fault if something bad happens to me; I am worthless. It is not the

    activating event (e.g., Not winning a contest) that causes the problem; it is

    his belief system (i.e., I must always win contests). Thus, disputing

    involves these processes:

    1. Detecting. It is deciding the musts, shoulds, oughts and have-tos thatlead to self-defeating emotions and behaviors.

    2. Debating. The behavior coach often plays the devils advocate byputting such rhetorical questions squarely in the path of the clients

    illogical inferences and absolustic evaluations about events. The

    behavior coach asks several questions, which is designed to help ASNs

    give up irrational beliefs.

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    3. Discriminating. The coach helps the ASN to clearly distinguishbetween wants and needs, desires and demands, rational and

    irrational ideas, absolute and non-absolute values, and behavior and

    personhood.

    4. Defining. The coach helps the ASN make increasingly accuratedefinitions in the language that the ASN employs when referring to

    his/her beliefs.

    E. Reciprocal Inhibition Thru Stopping. It is a technique aimed at breakingthe connection between maladaptive anxiety and the condition that produces

    it. In thru stopping, the ASN is taught to interrupt the connection between

    the evoking stimulus and the anxiety by firmly telling himself/herself

    STOP/ Thats Enough!/ Switch it off etc. When the thoughts are

    producing anxiety. With practice, and usually in connection with other

    techniques, the ASN eventually does the self-command mentally.

    F.Assertiveness and Social Skills Training. To be assertive requires thatthe ASN have confidence in his/her judgments and sufficient self-esteem to

    express his/her opinions. Assertiveness and social skills training teaches the

    ASN how to respond appropriately in social situations, and to express his/her

    opinions in acceptable ways. Assertiveness training also attends to a variety

    of real-life tasks such as food shopping, interacting with other people,

    overcoming shyness, and waiting for his turn.

    G. Therapeutic Teaching Thru Art. Here, the behavior coach provides anon-threatening environment and encourages the ASN toward self-

    interpretation of his/her own artworks. The behavior coach ensures that the

    ASN develop at his/her own pace. When he/she discloses his/her emotions

    and thoughts, the behavior coach analyzes and interprets his/her output in

    relation to his/her disclosures. The art product serves as a record of the

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    events which the ASN can later reflect on and eventually understand with

    greater clarity.

    a. Activity of Self-expression - It is the individuals innate need tocommunicate his/her thoughts, feelings and emotions to other people.

    b. Activity of Observation It is the individuals desire to record his/hersense impressions, to clarify his/her conceptual knowledge, to build up

    his/her memory, to construct things with his/her practical activities.

    c. Activity of Appreciation It is the response of the individual to the modesof expression, which other people address or have addressed to him. It is

    generally the individuals response to values in the world of facts the

    qualitative reaction to the quantitative results of self-expression and

    observation.

    H. Therapeutic Teaching Thru Role Playing. Here an incomplete story is

    related to the ASN. The ASN listens to the story and then is asked to give

    different endings to the story. The behavior coach discusses with the child

    the different endings and afterwards instructs the ASN to act out/enact the

    entire story including each of the endings verbally given earlier. Props are

    readied and some home members can participate in the enactment.

    Afterwards, the ASN is asked to choose the best ending (solution). The

    behavior coach draws the implications and deepens learning thru enrichment

    or practical/ application exercises/assignments to be reported and discussed

    with the behavior coach.

    I.Therapeutic Teaching Thru Literature. Different literary forms like essays,

    short stories, poems, legends, parables, anecdotes and short

    biographies/autobiographies are good sources of inspiration and values! A

    good behavior coach utilizes, for example, a poem to teach a value or a

    specific behavior. He/She does not primarily focus on the structure: choice of

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    words, meter, rhyming scheme, and poetic devices like metaphor and simile.

    He/She does not concentrate on the aesthetics but on the message/content

    of the poem. He/She relates the message/content to the ASNs experiences,

    draws implications, and teaches the values the poem imparts. The ASN is

    inspired not only to think but also to feel and learn the lesson/moral the

    poem teaches. Internalization is pursued by deepening the poems message

    onto the experiences of the ASN and actualizing in practical life values/morals

    learned.

    J. Therapeutic Teaching Thru Music. Music is an organizer and energizer, a

    source of gratification and provider of aesthetic experience and expression. It

    allows one to establish or re-establish relationships, builds a sense of

    community, expands awareness and heals. Through listening, singing,

    expressive body movements, playing instruments and music improvisation,

    the behavior coach utilizes appropriate musical exercises and activities with

    the ASN for relaxation and enjoyment, socialization, and self-expression, for

    skill-building and even discipline, and decision-making and values formation.

    K. Multi-Media Assisted Intervention. Definitely, at theses times, we cannot

    do away with current technology in pedagogy. Thus, with well-defined

    parameters(limitations!), the behavior coach can use the computer and other

    gadgets from which values education can be derived from. Those are useful

    and helpful strategies because they enable the ASN to be visually and aurally

    focused, and to utilize his perceptuo-cognitive-motor skills in learning specific

    values/behaviors. Charts, pictures, kits, audio devices, etc. when utilized

    properly and developmentally, and synchronized with specific objectives are

    extremely helpful.

    L. Therapeutic Teaching Thru Human Kinetics. Providing the ASN with

    opportunities and training regularly in engaging appropriate and helpful

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    regimen of physical gross-motor activities and exercises (e.g.,

    team/organized play, sports) and recreation (e.g., board games, nature walk,

    biking) is necessary considering developmental changes as well as the

    associated manifestations of their disabilities.

    M. Non-Formal Structured Verbal Exercises. For sure, the behavior coachwill also relate with the ASN verbally. It is this very pivotal verbal exchange /

    reciprocity that strengthens bonding, improves focus and compliance, and

    increases comprehension. The behavior coach must, therefore, take it upon

    himself/herself to provide/set-up plenty of opportunities for social-verbal

    reciprocity. Exercises like asking questions especially those requiring logical

    reasoning , telling cause-and-effect relationships and making social

    judgments; expressing appreciations and useful polite terms; seeking

    information and commenting; and, other pragmatic language

    expressions/structures like storytelling, reporting incidents, and relaying

    messages must be consistently and effectively rehearsed and exercised.

    Sample Lessons

    Below are sample lessons of a behavior coach which in practice are

    prepared as priorities of an Individualized Educational Plan (IEP):

    Case: A 16 year-old male adolescent with autism with language-cognitive and

    psychosocial delays including atypical behaviors: verbal stimming, rigidities

    (maladaptation to changes), and lack of impulse control and social propriety.

    A. Educational Concerns

    Objective Content/Activity and Procedure

    1. Discriminate and observe signs in Taking the child to thespecific places in the community: library, community andteaching him/her different signs: museum, roads, parks, etc.

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    No Littering, danger sign,no entry sign, etc. and their meanings.

    Demonstrating the appropriatebehaviors in observing the signsfor him to follow; Explainingwhy one has to follow thesigns.

    2. Buy and pay for specific items chosen in Teaching him to:public places: malls, eateries, stores, etc. a) Choose an item and inquire

    about cost, color, size, etc.b) Pay for the item,c) Count the change using the

    calculator, if needed.d) Wait and then say,Thankyouafter the transaction.

    3. Follow directions given a set of Reviewing following simpleinstructions. directions in the use of simple

    tools/gadgets/facilities/etc., athome.

    Following directions in locatingspecific places in thecommunity.

    B. Language Concerns

    Objective Content/Activity and Procedure

    1. Observe conversation rules in a group. Reviewing rules in reciprocalcommunication.

    Rehearsing him converse givena topic.

    Suggesting/giving further pointsfor Improvements.

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    Implementing conversationrules in a group with some andlater on withoutprompting/leading.

    2. Use polite terms in relating with others Rehearsing at home situationsin the community. necessitating use of polite

    terms: Excuse me, Thank you,I'm sorry, Welcome, Please, etc.

    Taking him to the communityand setting up opportunities forhim to use the polite terms.

    3. Report incidents/experiences. Letting him recall importantincidents in the community.

    Prompting/Leading him toreport about them.

    Giving him more opportunitiesto report more elaborately andsequentially.

    C. Social Concerns

    Objective Content/Activity and Procedure

    1. Wait for his turn in public places: Telling him why one has to waitshopping malls, food shops, bus station, for his turn.entrance to specific places where peopleline up.

    Demonstrating turn-taking andthen instructing him to wait forhis turn.

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    2. Order what he likes in eateries in public. Rehearsing him in mock situationsat places home on how to order.

    Taking him to aneatery/restaurant and teachinghim further to choose what helikes from the menu; order foodhe likes, and then say polite termsafter ordering and when food hasbeen served.

    3. Extend help to those in need in the Rehearsing him to extend help tocommunity. others in mock situations at home.

    Taking him to the community andsetting up opportunities for him toextend help (e.g., helping an oldlady cross the street, cheering upa crying child, picking up andgiving an item to someone whodrops it).