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Attract Women with 4 Routines from Black Belt Seduction THERE’S a formula to success for many of life’s most challenging pursuits. For example, there’s a right way to give a good public speech and many, many wrong ways. And there’s a right way to swing a 5 iron and strike a golf ball, sending it soaring like a tiny guided missile directly towards its target: a small red flag positioned hundreds of feet away. And, contrary to the understanding of millions, if not billions, of men and women, there’s a right way for a man to attract and seduce a woman. More than that: there’s a perfect formula, which, when executed in the right way, always has the same result: the female feels genuinely sexually attracted to the male. This formula is a total mystery to most people, male and female. They either know it exists but do not truly know what it involves and therefore cannot follow and use it, or they have simply never heard of it. These are the people who think bringing a girl some flowers and complimenting her on her pretty eyes is the best thing to do to win her heart. The real process of attracting women, which can be learned by any man, regardless of his looks or previous level of skill or experience with the opposite sex, is more intricate and elegant than any man of “average” skill with women would ever guess. Using special techniques, both verbal and non-verbal, a man who knows what he’s doing can demonstrate massive social value; display effortless, unforced confidence; be totally at ease touching a girl and being touched by her and, in short, do every other thing necessary to attract and seduce a member of the opposite sex, no matter how hot or seemingly “unattainable” she is. What follows is a taste of these techniques. They are a tiny snapshot of Black Belt Seduction: The formula for finding, approaching, talking to, attracting and dating women. Enjoy. The Secret Symbol When out in the field, your main goal is to attract a female who, for the sake of clear explanation, we’ll call your target. However, to achieve this end, you must complete several crucial sub-goals. If you successfully complete these sub- goals, your main goal completes itself: the girl will be sexually attracted to you and highly enthusiastic about the idea of dating you. Let’s briefly look at a few of the sub-goals I’m talking about. • Stand out from the crowd of other men • Possess high social status and value • Have an interesting, unique conversation with the girl • Demonstrate that you’re socially busy and have a packed calendar, full of positive, fun social events • Project a captivating sense of mystery—something which women find irresistible Although these are but a few of the many sub-goals you should focus on completing when out in the field—whether you’re in a bar, club, at the park, or anywhere else where there’s a large group of people socializing—they are undeniably some of the most important things you must do to attract your target. But how, specifically, do you complete them? There are many, many conversational techniques and body language theories you can and should use. But why not use something a little special? Something that ticks every one of the boxes above, that does everything just listed. The Secret Symbol is one such technique. It

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Attract Women with 4 Routines from Black Belt SeductionTHERES a formula to success for many of lifes most challenging pursuits. For example, theres a right way to give a good public speech and many, many wrong ways. And theres a right way to swing a 5 iron and strike a golf ball, sending it soaring like a tiny guided missile directly towards its target: a small red flag positioned hundreds of feet away. And, contrary to the understanding of millions, if not billions, of men and women, theres a right way for a man to attract and seduce a woman. More than that: theres a perfect formula, which, when executed in the right way, always has the same result: the female feels genuinely sexually attracted to the male. This formula is a total mystery to most people, male and female. They either know it exists but do not truly know what it involves and therefore cannot follow and use it, or they have simply never heard of it. These are the people who think bringing a girl some flowers and complimenting her on her pretty eyes is the best thing to do to win her heart. The real process of attracting women, which can be learned by any man, regardless of his looks or previous level of skill or experience with the opposite sex, is more intricate and elegant than any man of average skill with women would ever guess. Using special techniques, both verbal and non-verbal, a man who knows what hes doing can demonstrate massive social value; display effortless, unforced confidence; be totally at ease touching a girl and being touched by her and, in short, do every other thing necessary to attract and seduce a member of the opposite sex, no matter how hot or seemingly unattainable she is. What follows is a taste of these techniques. They are a tiny snapshot of Black Belt Seduction:The formula for finding, approaching, talking to, attracting and dating women. Enjoy.

The Secret SymbolWhen out in the field, your main goal is to attract a female who, for the sake of clear explanation, well call your target. However, to achieve this end, you must complete several crucial sub-goals. If you successfully complete these sub-goals, your main goal completes itself: the girl will be sexually attracted to you and highly enthusiastic about the idea of dating you. Lets briefly look at a few of the sub-goals Im talking about.

Stand out from the crowd of other men Possess high social status and value Have an interesting, unique conversation with the girl Demonstrate that youre socially busy and have a packed calendar, full of positive, fun social events Project a captivating sense of mysterysomething which women find irresistible

Although these are but a few of the many sub-goals you should focus on completing when out in the fieldwhether youre in a bar, club, at the park, or anywhere else where theres a large group of people socializingthey are undeniably some of the most important things you must do to attract your target. But how, specifically, do you complete them? There are many, many conversational techniques and body language theories you can and should use. But why not use something a little special? Something that ticks every one of theboxes above, that does everything just listed. The Secret Symbol is one such technique. It single-handedly shows that you have high (and therefore attractive) social value. It gives you that powerful sense of mystery. It makes fun, flirty conversation effortless and instantaneous. It does it all and it does it automatically.And now youre going to learn it. The technique involves printing a special kind of symbol on the back of your left hand. Youll wear this symbol on your hand while out in the field, when youre meeting and talking to women. First take a look at it. As you can see, it consists of an eye and a star, both set within a triangle. On the right side of the triangle is a number. This symbol means nothingbut what it can do for you when it comes to attracting women meansEverything.Print out this page and cut out the symbol and the number next to it. Then do the following to get it transferred onto your hand:

1. Using a NEW and razor sharp cutting blade, like a scalpel or Exacto blade, cut out the symbol and number from the sheet of paper. Then cut out the black areas ONLY. You are creating a negative which youll later use to make a positive print on your hand. Once youve made all the cuts, youll notice that the inner white triangle, which contains the eye and star, is separate from the large outer triangle and number. This is correct.2. Lightly apply some SPRAY adhesive to the back of the piece of paper containing the outer triangle and number. Spray adhesive is recommended because it guarantees the paper will be lightly but completely stuck to your hand and that it will not move while you make the print. Once the first piece of paper is stuck on the back of your left hand, lightly spray the other piece: the inner triangle. Now position it in the center of the first piece and flatten it down.3. Once the stencil is stuck flat on your hand, you can go ahead and apply ink or black paint to it to create the print of the symbol. If you used thin card for the stencil, you can use a black permanent marker to ink in the gaps. If you used normal paper, you can apply a thin layer ofblack paint to the stencil using a sponge. Its up to you.4. Before the ink or paint dries, purposely slightly smudge part of the design. Youll see why this is important later. Once the ink or paint is dry, remove the stencil and youll be ready, you might be thinking this sounds like a lot of effortbut trust me, its worth it. Heres why: The symbol is worn on the back of your hand for a whole day. During the day and evening, while youre out meeting women, you can totally forget that its therethat is, until someone asks you about it. And they ALWAYS do. Heres how the secret symbol helps you tick all of the boxes mentioned earlier.Stand out from the crowd of other menThe symbol is unique and eye-catching. Its like wearing a really unusual necklace or ring, something everyone wants to ask you about,but its BETTER. Its better because no woman has ever seen such a thing before. When youre talking to her, shell find it mesmerizing and totally intriguing.Possess high social status and valueHeres how the secret symbol communicates that you have high social value to women (which is something ALL women look for when deciding whether or not theyre attracted tome). When a girl asks you what the symbol is and means, you casually yet mysteriously say: OH, its for a party Im going to later. I need it to get in. This simple line communicates volumes about your high social value. Youre going to a party which requires a special kind of invitation to be entered. Its like youre a VIP, except better, because how many parties

Need secret symbols to filter its guests? The great thing about using the symbol is that, unlike other guys, you dont need to verbally tell the girl youre a VIP or that youre social and have fun, exciting, mysterious lifestyle. She interrupts ALL of this HERSELF just from seeing the symbol and hearing you say: Oh, its for a party Im going to later. I need it to get in.Have an interesting, unique conversation with the girlThe secret symbol ALWAYS leads to fun; interesting conversations after girls notice it. It can lead onto talks about tattoos, fun parties, movies (think Eyes Wide Shut) and any number of other emotionally packed topicsall perfect for allowing sexual attraction for you to form in the girls mind.Demonstrate that youre socially busy and have a packed calendar, full of positive, fun social eventsInstead of telling a girl you go to a lot of parties, which can reek of overcompensation, you lather find out this fact for her. When she asks what the symbol on your hand is, you tell her: Its for aspecial party Im going to later. I need it to get in.Project a captivating sense of mysterysomething which women find irresistibleThe key point when using this technique is that you DONT point out the symbol to everyone and start describing what it is and means. You wear it subtly and casually. And when a girl youre talking to, who youre already in the process of building rapport and attraction with, mentions it, you briefly give her the answer: Oh, its for aIm not sure how to describe itfor a special kind of party Im going to later. I need it to get in. And nothing more! This gets women feeling desperate to know more: What does the eye and star mean? What kind of party is it? Are you the 24th member? CAN I COME? They dont for a second think yourebragging or trying to be mysterious on purpose because they themselves pointed the symbol out. To sum up, having the secret symbol on your hand when youre talking to a girl is a super simple, highly effective way of building her feelings for you. It shows you have value, are social, are mysterious and it gives you something to talk about or around. Its powerfulvery powerful. The smudge, which I mentioned earlier, is a nice touch because it makes it totally obvious that its non-permanent and therefore not a tattoo. The girl instantly knows its there for a real reasonand she wants to know it badly. The secret symbol is so powerful in fact, that when youre using it women will actually open YOU. Theyll start a conversation with you just to find out what it is and this, of course, gives you the opportunity you need to use any number of other conversational, attraction-creation techniques on her.

Extra tipo:You can control exactly when your target female sees the symbol, and therefore when she points it out, by keeping your left hand pretty much out of sight. Then, when you want to inject a massive dose of attraction and interest into your conversation with her, hold your beer bottle or glass with your left hand and casually take a sip. A few seconds later and shell see it and be instantly drawn to what it means. Shell either ask you outright what it is or simply take mental note of it. Either way, your mysterious, high-value image will be set inhere mind. Perfect

The Heart of Stone Principle

The Heart of Stone Principle is a method of instantly increasing a girls interest in you. It allows you to take a basic level of mutually felt attraction between you and any female and inject it with a sense of intrigue and mystery that she finds uncontrollably alluring and appealing - like a fish to some well-cast bait, she chases after you with an increased interest and sense of urgency. The Heart of Stone principle makes your social stock soar and as a result, makes women craves a piece of it. Lets go right into how to use it, and then Ill describe why it produces such massive and consistent results out in the field.How to Use the Heart of Stone PrincipleBoiled right down, the technique revolves around a specially invented concept: thatYou truly believe you are incapable of love. Whether its love at first sight or the kind of affection feltby soul mate girlfriends and boyfriends, its alien to you and something you know, deep-down in your heart, youll never have. Not because you wont find it or because theres something wrong with you, just because you arent capable of feeling it. Plain and simple. I know it might seem a crazy concept at first glance, in fact, I know that many men would consider using this principle on a girl suicide, a path to failure for sure. After all, how could tell a girl that you are fundamentally unable to feel love be a good idea? What could it help achieve and what positive results could it possibly produce? Well get to that stuff in little while. First, though, lets look more closely at how to use The Heart of Stone Principle. Heres an example script, that illustrates how to get across the concept weve just covered. Its short but sweet and communicates all the necessary information.

Example: You: What do you think about love at first sight?Girl: I think its possible for the right people, definitely (Her response can be anything, your reply remains the same)You: Well, Id like to think it exists. But, for me [1 second pauses]definitely not. In fact, ITRULY believe that I'm incapable of love. I don't know why, but in my heart I know I'll never fall in love." Now lets look at how what youve said affects the subconscious psychology of the girl youre talking to, and in turn how The Heart of Stone Principle boosts the girls feeling of attraction for you. When you use this technique you demonstrate/accomplish two things:

1. That You Arent Like Other, Average Men.Good looking girls get hit on constantly. They get doors opened for them, bills paid, extended eye contact, corny jokes there are hundreds of ways men show their interest in them and therefore hundreds of ways women spot what theyre up to and decide to shut them out and ignore their advances. When you use The Heart of Stone Principle, youre going completely against the grain to what most guys do and therefore what mostbeautiful women experience day-to-day. You say you know for sure that you cant love. Its a radical statement and something most people, male or female, would not usually say. But youve said it, unashamed and right to the point. And by saying it youve made it pretty clear that you dont mind her knowing that youre unable to love her or, for that matter, anyone now or ever.2. You Blow Her Preconceptions Out of the Water and Present Her With an Obstacle.Once youve stated, nice and simple, that feeling a deep love connection isnt something youre wired for, a strange yet wonderful thing happens. Its like a challenge has been laid down there and then not directly, but discreetly. This girl, who like so many other hot girls usually has men falling at her feet all day, all night long is faced with something shes not experienced before: a guy she needs and WANTS to conquer. Sure, shes met guys before who try to play it cool and pretend theyre not interested in her, but she like all women do sees straight through that charade. Youre something else. Youre a guy thats turned her on, had a great conversation, has been like plenty of other guys shes liked, then BLAM! Youve used The Heart of Stone Principle and really confused her. Her natural reaction? To fight it and prove that you CAN love and that you CAN feel a deep sense of affection for someone. To prove this would mean shes different to other girls youve met and therefore make her feel great about herself and thats the reason this technique works so well and so often, because girls love challenges, but only when they feel theyre the right ones. You, of course, have no problem with letting them prove a point to you, as doing so involves them increasing their feelings for you, flirting more and, yes, eventually putting out in whatever form you prefer, be it a kiss and cuddle or a whole lot more. Okay, so you now have a general idea of what the technique involves and also why it works so well. But we wont stop there - lets look at the best way of using it within the confines of your conversation, no matter what kind of girl youre talking to or where you both happen tobe at the time. After all, this principle works in person, on the phone or even on the internet. To maximize the effectiveness of the technique, always try to transition naturally into using it.Doing so always works better than saying it out of the blue, after an unrelated topic. For example, here are a couple of ways to do it:

1. Mention a TV program youve recently seen or an article you read in some womens magazine while waiting around someplace. Casually tell her how it described a few people who met randomly and fell head over heels in love within 30 seconds, or something along those lines. Then transition into using the technique by saying something similar to the scripted example youve just read.2. Use the technique as a way of getting out of annoying or irksome questions from the girl, like: How many girlfriends have you had? Or other relationship-related subject matter. Not only is using the technique at these awkward points a good way of getting out of very personal questions, it also reinforces the point about you notbeing able to love, and generally gives what you say more weight.Alright, you should now have a pretty solid grasp of how to use The Heart of Stone Principle. But before you go out and start using it, there are 5 golden rules to learn and always remember.

Keeping them constantly in the back of your mind guarantees that the technique works as well as humanly possible and that the results are as instant and amazing as youd always hope.The 5 Golden Rules

Rule #1: Never, ever, ever use this technique as a way of opening a conversation with a girl. Its imply wont produce any positive results. The Heart of Stone Principle should be used once youve built a good level of attraction between yourself and the girl. She needs to feel attracted to you for the technique to work and for what youve said to hit home in her minds unusual and a challenge. You see, getting her attracted to you builds up and massages hereto. When you use the technique and say youre incapable of love, shes brought right back down to earth and therefore FIGHTS to get back to where she was and how she originally felt. So, only use this seduction principle once youre sure theres a mutual attraction and good level of rapport between the two of you.Rule #2: When you say what you say, speak seriously and make it obvious you arent just messing around. You TRULY arent wired to love a girl; its just how it is.Rule #3: Dont appear downbeat or upset when you describe your inability to love, act like youre quite accepting of it. Its not a disadvantage or disability. Its when you seem completely serious about what youre saying while at the same time accepting of it that women REALLY react strongly. They feel its now their job to prove you wrong and be the special girl that won you over.Rule #4: The Heart of Stone Principle has been road tested dozens and dozens and dozens of times and WORKS. But that doesnt mean all men should know about it.DO NOT TELLANYBODY ABOUT IT, MALE OR FEMALE.The fewer men and women that know about this special concept the better it helps ensure youll never run into a pretty girl that stops you halfway through what youre saying and points across the room at a guy whos just told her the very same thing. Seriously, guys, keep this technique close to your chest!Rule #5: Try to customize the wording of the technique as much as you can. You dont need to say word-for-word whats written in the example I provided. Just make sure, whatever you say, that you get across the point that youre not able to love, say it seriously and like you dont really mind that much. Simple as that.And that pretty much sums it up, except to say that the power of this technique, in getting a MASSIVE and INSTANT reaction from girls (in the form of seriously increased interest, flirting and action) is pretty much unrivalled in the world of attraction and seduction. So, fellas, always remember rule number 4!

The Necker Cube ToolIm sure I dont need to stress the importance and value of having interesting, unusual, fun things to do and talk about with a girl if your goal is to make her feel attracted to you. This tool is truly one of the best. Its simple yet deadly. It freaks girls out and plays with their minds in the best way possible. Its memorable and unique, too. In short, its a pick-up artists dream and something you can learn and use anytime, anywhere to attract a girl. Lets get right into looking at what this tool is and involves.What is the Necker cube?The Necker cube is a simple yet quite amazing optical illusion which was first published by Swiss crystallographer Louis Albert Necker in 1832. It is made up of a wire-frame cube. When person looks at the drawn cube they see an initial perception of its construction. However, around two seconds later the cube seems to instantly change and look different. First it looks one way, then suddenly it looks another way, and it continues to flip back and forth as the viewer continues to stare at it. Its very simple, involves no complex work on the part of the viewer and is an elegant example of what is known as metastable perception.What is The Necker Cube Tool?The Necker Cube Tool is the application and use of the Necker cube optical illusion in a social scene, as part of an interaction with a girl (or sometimes a group). Its used as something interesting, unusual and fun you can show the girl and work into your interaction with her. Using it has other benefits too, but well look at these after youve seen the Necker cube and tried looking at it and seeing the optical illusion for yourself. Instructions:Stare at the cube and notice the way it looks and the direction it seems to face in. Keep looking at it after a couple of seconds it will seem to flip in the opposite direction, a couple of seconds later it will switch back. Here are the two main visual interpretations of the cube, which 99% of people see it switchbetween.

Quite a cool little optical illusion, huh? Simple and effective. But how can it be used as a tooling an interaction with a girl? Heres how.Never use this tool as an opener. Its best used once youve been talking to the girl for little while and have built some basic rapport and chemistry between the two of you.

Wait for a moment in your conversation with her when the following statement, in some way or another, could be said to be valid: There are two ways of looking at that. I know, I know. That seems pretty unlikely, right? But its not. Maybe she mentions that shes looking for a new job in a more creative field than the one shes currently in, but it shard to get one because all of her potential employers want someone with experience. Butts a catch-22 because without experience you cant get a job and without a job you cant get experience. She says: I mean, I can understand that they want the best person for thejob and that probably means getting someone with experience. But from my point of view, it makes things quite tricky! You can then say: Yeah, youre right. Actually what youve just said, about their being two ways to look at it, the employers and yours, reminds me of something cool Youkan then transition into using The Necker Cube Tool. But lets say nothing comes up naturally which could relate to the theme of the Necker cube: There are two completely different, yet equally valid sides to In that case, you can introduce the theme yourself. Do it casually and naturally by talking broadly about something which fits the theme, like the job example just given, then suddenly remember the cube and become enthusiastic about showing it to the girl: Oh yeah! Check this out, its really cool. I want to see if this thing works for you tooOnce youve said the words: Hey, that reminds me of something. Check this out with me, I want to see if it works for you too (or something to that effect), you can go right into showing her the Necker cube. But this technique doesnt stop there. Theres more toit.Youre going to show her the illusion in a special way. Youre going to perform a local relocation, by taking her to a different part of your location. Lets say youre in a bar, for example. Youre sitting at one of the tables and are ready to show her the illusion. Say the words you read above and stand up. Lead her by the hand, if possible, to the bar area. Your justification for performing the relocation is going to find one of the props you need to make the illusion: a paper napkin. Once youve found one, as you stand at the bar with the girl (who will be eagerly and excitedly waiting what youve got to show her), ask her if shes got some lipstick or something in her bag. Sometimes they wont have lipstick (as youll see at the end of this knowledge document), but theyll almost always have something on them: eye liner, mascara, and a small pen or pencil even.Beckon her closer by casually making a come here motion with your hand. Unfold the napkin as you do so she wont question the motion and will come in closer to you straight away and without thought. Now, leaning on the bar, draw the Necker cube. Practice at home a couple of times so you know how to reproduce it so the illusion works. When the drawing is done, say: Look, a box. Cool, huh? Shell pause, not knowing whether to laugh. Break the fun feeling of tension by laughing and saying: No, no Im kidding. Here, look at this box. Stare at it for a couple of seconds and see which way it faces. Keep looking at it and tell me if it seems to change in any way. Let her do it.Chances are shell see the change and will react positively, looking back at it to repeat the illusion. If for some reason she doesnt see it at first, say: Look at it again. Keep staring at it and it will suddenly seem to flip and face the other direction, then flip back a couple of seconds later. See? Shell see the illusion and react with some genuine enthusiasm and excitement. Its not going to blow her away and change her life its just a fun little illusion, but it WILL be interesting and fun for her because it has MEANING. Its a real thing for you to do together. Its a great chance for you to both focus on the same thing and bond as you do sousing The Necker Cube Tool provides you with the following benefits:

1. its something interesting for you to talk about and DO together.2. It gives you both something to look at together shared experiences help a bond form between you and her.3. It gives you a perfect opportunity to perform a local relocation. Say you want to be alone with the girl and not a part of the group this tool allows you to achieve just that. Once youve relocated to another part of the venue, you can do the Necker cube illusion than continue to talk with each other. The vibe will be upbeat, lively and FUN which provides the perfect breeding ground for mutual attraction to grow and grow and grow.4. Part of the technique involves borrowing a writing tool from the girl. This builds the trust bond between you and her. She gives you something the natural psychological result of this act is her receiving something back from you. You give her more attention and she ACCEPTS and ENJOYS it. The game of give and take really starts and attraction and comfort are naturally born out of it.5. Finally, the napkin or piece of paper you use to show her the illusion can be kept bayou or her. Later on, if you want to swap numbers, you can write your number on one part of it and she can write hers on the other. Then you can tear it in half and swap contact information. Its a great way to close and she wont ever forget it.

Bove:An example of The Necker Cube Tool used in real-life. The girl wrote her number on the napkin with the same eyeliner our expert borrowed from her earlier that evening to draw the cube.

Group Tactics: The Block OutTo attract a woman, you first need to meet her. Women, however, rarely go out and stay out for any significant amount of time alone, without friends. This means that many, if not most of your interactions with girls will involve entering their groups. This can present many problems for guys who dont know about the social dynamics of entering groups of people with the intention of not only winning them all over and gaining their approval but also sexually attracting one or more of its female members. This is why its essential you know all about group tacticsLets take a look at an example of one very important group tactic.

The Problem

A block-out occurs when you, the seducer, are positioned opposite your target female with one or more persons on your left and right. Take a look at the diagram above. You are seated around a table. Your target is directly across the table from you, a female is on your left and a male is on your right. As you talk to your target which is clearly something you MUST do if you want to get her attracted to you the other members of the group are blocked out of the conversation. Your conversation is cutting off any chance they have of having a conversation with each other. Their only options are:Listen to you and your target talk for a while. This can quickly get boring, however, and they more often than not begin to get tired of listening. So, reacting to the restriction your conversation across the table with your target is having on them, theyll break up your conversation with your target with negative body language and subtle verbal indicators of discontent. If they are your targets friends, shell feel their discomfort and, out of loyalty, restrict the conversation she has with you as much as possible. Celarli tris si a tanga for mou.Alternatively, the blocked out members of the group will chime into your conversation with comments and statements. This is okay for a few minutes, but youll soon get bored of having a four-way conversation. To really stand a chance at attracting your target, you need a conversation with her in which shes focused on you and youre focused on her. While members of the group are blocked out on either side of you, this cannot happen.Another possibility is that either the girl on your left or guy on your right will try tobalance things out by talking to your target, leaving you to talk to the person whos either on your direct left or direct right. In reality, this makes sense, because by pairing off in this way nobodys conversation is undermined or made impossible by anyone elses. However, if this change occurs, you clearly wont be the one talking to your target female for the majority of the time a bad thing.

The Solution

Take a look at the image above. It shows the solution to the block-out problem. You are still sitting across from your target female, but you no longer have anybody on your left. As a result, the other two members of the group can have a conversation without the conversation youre having with your target interrupting it. Youre still free to talk to the other members of the group, of course. You do that by simply turning to the right or the extreme right. This simple but highly effective solution always stops the block-out and its nasty consequences from affecting your ability to interact with your target. All you need to do is change the layout of the group. Youre taught how to do this in detail during your Black Belt Seduction training.

The Standing Block-OutThe Problema

Youve just learned about the block-out. Above shows a subtle variation of the block-out. You are in a group of four people standing near the bar. You are directly opposite your target, with a guy on your right and a girl on your left.

Again, just like in the first example, whenever you talk to your target you are isolating the two other members of the group. This puts a strain on the dynamic of the group because it makes the blocked-out members feel unable to properly join in.The reason its worth looking at this variation of the standard block-out is because its often much harder to realize the group youre in is in the block-out formation when youre all standing up. Sure, it feels like youre just standing there talking, but the block-out is still able to form and have a negative effect on your ability to talk to your target female for the period of time necessary to use your conversational attraction-building techniques.

The Solution

Once again, the solution to the block-out is repositioning the members of the group. In the example above you move around so youre with your target female and the other two members of the group are together next to you. Youre now able to:Talk to your target while the other members of the group have their own conversationTalk to the male in the group while the females chatSpeak to your target, and then switch to having a group discussion for a few minutes, then switch back to a one-on-one with your target